The Worst Day

[@rebeccasam3434]

I haven't gotten to the end of these yet, but if you do nothing your body changes too, and you're already pretty. I understand the fear, though I think you're in a much better place than me, and I'm trying to figure this out too

[@rebeccasam3434]

Uuuuugh, my heart just keeps going out to you. I'm dealing with basically the same thoughts and fears

[@tserica]

Hi Danica. I'm sorry that it's so scary. I know it can be early on. I don't know if it helps, and honestly, since I date women it might not be totally applicable to you, but I've found it actually easier to date since I started my transition because I haven't had to try to play the part of a guy that never felt like it fit. Hang in there. And remember, there's no set schedule for this. Transition will still be there if you need to take a break for a while or forever. What matters is what's right for you.

[@DanicaVa]

I’ve thought of that, too, at least in the context of getting to be in a straight rather than in a gay relationship.

[@dianjm93]

So... I'll give my opinion as a trans person and I'll stop after that (I don't want anyone to be too influenced by that ) find other trans women and talk to them. I found a group of trans people and that literally has changed my point of view of so many things. Has helped me deal better with dysphoria and learning so much about hrt and many many other things. Of course your family can support you but can they truly as cis people understand what you are going through? It seems kind of pointless but it isn't not, to find other people like you who can truly help you with your doubts and support you no matter what. Also, microdosing is real and many people do it. Nonbinary trans women do it a lot. There are more options regarding that.

[@DanicaVa]

The support-group thing is a great idea that I am definitely looking into. Options in Alaska are a little bit limited but hopefully I can find something. And my doctor also suggested potential microdosing! That or Raloxifene, which feminizes you everywhere BUT your breast tissue.

[@hannahroedder936]

Hope everything works out. I can't imagine any scenario in which you are not loved and cherished. You're too beautiful a person for that to be conceivable. One's presentation can be deceiving on social media, but you really seem sweet, gentle, and sensitive.

[@DanicaVa]

That is very kind. Thank you for that. ❤️

[@brucehutton2089]

I think you are Danica and always will be Danica. Good luck. Ashleigh 💖

[@DanicaVa]

I think you might be right.

[@justinahole336]

For the really big decisions, I can't say I've regretted taking a bit more time to make peace with them. I hope you make peace with your choice - whatever it may be.