The Zarna Garg Show | Ep. 1: The Sex Talk

[@aveg7899]

Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. You've raised great kids Zarna (and Shalabh). By the time my mom had "the talk" with me, I had heard it all from my friends. And this was in the early 1970s in Mumbai. Sadly there was no KZbin option back then.

[@ZarnaGarg]

omg thank you for watching! please like and subscribe .. I have so much more coming!

[@aveg7899]

@ZarnaGarg I've been a subscriber for a while, all thanks to my sister who introduced me to your channel. You go girl.. you're absolutely killing it.

[@lindatobin5715]

@@aveg7899w

[@zoyagarg]

Thank you for sharing

[@shaillygupta6501]

Wow !!! Very enjoyable talk I can relate as I m also an Indian immigrant mom and having teenage kids who got schooling in Australia.

[@RomyAndMichelle]

Her daughter Zoya is the true star of this discussion: open, honest, and forward-thinking. The future is bright with young women like that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@paulafamularo5001]

Not if stupid people keep having children!!

[@SAIPRADEEP070]

she sounds bit woke though. she cant generalise and say everyone is lil bit gay. hel no how can she speak for everyone else. not everything in the world has to have a shade of gray. Many things are simple and plain white as snow and black as night.

[@honeysuckledreamz]

@@SAIPRADEEP070she’s not wrong though

[@user-rj8oj7bl2n]

She definitely is. For example, abortion is illegal in America. @@honeysuckledreamz

[@heraldocosta1469]

Totally!! I loved when she said sexuality is the spectrum. The boys jump from the chairs. You Zoya, educate people!! Power to you..

[@exodusdiva2295]

😂 I love this family discussion. Its filled with shock, denial, difference in generational thinking. The kids are so open and honest in their thoughts. Love it

[@miku1408]

This entire episode was the parents getting a culture shock from their kids 🤣🤣

[@ZarnaGarg]

Haha!!

[@Thinking33]

I like this discussion with kids, it's very important topic, every parents has to talk with their kids instead of running away discussions like this which matters a lot in every individuals life.

[@DeenaBuentipo]

True say😅

[@joaquinpraveenvishnu8509]

I think both parents know exactly everything especially the dad. The mom is just being mom. Zarna reminds me exactly of my mom. I'm from Malaysia with Indian-origin great grandparents.

[@starrani5264]

😂😂

[@bananisaha4375]

I give an A+ to all the kids...they are so responsible,mature & articulate.

[@yasserimran4093]

The younger one single handedly tolerated this whole convo 😂..bravo to him 👏

[@ZarnaGarg]

Haha

[@abs314]

So true 😂😂😂

[@the1stmbbsteacher381]

The elder boy is so sorted and responsible. Your you tube teaching is hilarious 😂

[@annalisafreschini6594]

I have foreign parents and they would NEVER be open to having a conversation like this one. I love that you guys would open up with your kids about such a sensitive topic. This is great! I can’t wait to see more!

[@ZarnaGarg]

Oh my god haha

[@renushukla8877]

Open n honest discussion! somewhere Zarna tried her best to save her kids from awkward situation n tried to explain difficulties related to sex n Western way of life,this is what mothers doall the time❤

[@riyasingh2729]

​@@renushukla8877dad's too

[@ijaan108]

What s a foreign parent

[@harjeetsinghbrar6987]

​@@ijaan108 Parents who live in another country while their child lives in another is what I am assuming.

[@ekta120678]

Don’t do anything with a drunk person- is the most sensible statement I have heard from a teenager! So so relatable!! I have a 14 year old and was thinking I still have time- but after seeing this I realize I need to have a chat now! Love it!

[@mariepelerin6701]

That makes a lot of sense and it true

[@HvnLee]

Omg first of all, I love that you’re doing this so candidly. Many kids won’t have these conversations with their parents at all. But I must say that as a nyc school counselor i find it scary how sure kids today are about their assumptions on the effectiveness of contraception, the emotional weight of these decisions and even their assumptions that their partners are honest and/or even knowledgeable.

[@ZarnaGarg]

they have NO clue and you are doing gods work for real!!!

[@surgupta91]

i soooo agree with you… 😅😅

[@paruljain1295]

So true, my son told me when I tried to talk to him, 'Mom do you know what all is on the internet?". In other words, please do not talk to me about it, whether he was embarrassed or he had learned it all in sex ed by then.

[@TiffTALKS22]

Dad said yeah the 3 of you came from Walmart😂 both of you guys are hilarious.

[@Pnaram12]

Bold and perfect discussion. Rare to seee such openess and honest experssions in the immigrant community. Good job Zarna 🎉

[@ZarnaGarg]

❤❤

[@jbox0612]

Your family is great! Very honest and real. I'm female, 64, not an immigrant. I hardly knew a thing growing up in the 70s. Todays kids are so much better off. Your kids are amazing. 💜

[@blacksw33theart89]

Beautiful family, your daughter is so confident and open with her thoughts. I love the openness of this. Please continue

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you!!!

[@trishabiswas6529]

Zoya is soo soo well informed! ❤ nice to see a girl this well informed and responsible

[@SS-kg2zu]

This is the most honest and hilarious family discussion that we can totally related to ❤

[@brijgarg9987]

Good

[@paulafamularo5001]

This is the most embarrassing display of bad parenting i have ever witnessed!! You’re delusional.

[@Jillian_FS]

I am so glad you had this conversation, they are so important! I have to say, I was born and raised on the east coast, and my mother never had a conversation with me about my period. When I got it in 8th grade (I started school young) I did everything on my own, (also pre-google, KZbin, etc) acquired pads, tampons and learned on my own. My mother was and still is heartbroken by that, but I felt the lack of communication led me to do that, I just figured, ok I should do this. Not saying good or bad. Just my experience. Love you guys, keep up the great convos ❤

[@u105524]

Hats off to you guys for picking this topic .It's so affects teenage kids the most yet no one wants to bring it out and kids feel lost and anxious

[@sunflwr729]

I loved this! The conversation was interesting and hilarious (parents in denial about what was happening with teens at 16, the whole conversation about a parent telling Zoya the truth about Santa Claus). What a great family with a great sense of humor.

[@ZarnaGarg]

What? Denial? What planet are you living on that people have sex before age 30???

[@pranavwagh876]

​ age 30 is very far for sex. We can have sex after engagement

[@HighPhag]

The mom is so funny I LOVE her, the daughter adds such a Gen Z aspect to the podcast i love the realism to this family dynamic with their entire family

[@vivianm.varela]

Your daughter is a stellar scholar and thinker. I appreciate her educational experience and expression

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you!

[@Raj-xo7pu]

So true - but Zarna being an older women, she needs to get educated and training from her daughter and her two sons. Specially the younger one is so wise. But not Zarna. She is trying to hide many things by not being honest in this video. I would give her a C- for her thinking. Her kids are super. She is blind about her husband even though honestly he said that he does smoke weed ( Mervana )

[@ferozalabonne799]

Yes your daughter is the best

[@yvonnekusasira8771]

You guys are all just the best, laughed through this whole episode!!!! It felt short!!!

[@neisham7478]

Thanks Zarna, we as parents today are definitely in unexplored territory when it comes to talking to our teens and pre-teens about the birds and the bees. Appreciate you opening up this conversation. Zoya is gorgeous, the boys are so well spoken and your husband is too adorable. ❤

[@ZarnaGarg]

Haha thank you!!

[@lyndsayd30]

Such an enjoyable podcast!!! I am so glad u did this episode!!! We brown parents shy away from having these important conversations with our children!!! Our parents did not have these talks with us!!! Thank u Zarna!!!

[@karishmadasgupta707]

Being a brown kid in India, this is a hush-hush topic still in most households even in mine, thank you for spreading light and sharing such lovely opinions. I know how to deal with my children (when I have them) when it's time for the talk! Thanks, Zarna 💜

[@ZarnaGarg]

Exactly! Say nothing!

[@meenaljoseph831]

I'm a mom of 2 kids -21 & 16.....i do have conversations to them openly...though not comfortable with the whole biology and technicality. India is progressing too. But yes still growing

[@brijgarg9987]

Love from her son

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

​@@brijgarg9987Hey Brij, U and your siblings are So Cool....In a Good Way. And yes, credit for that definitely goes to your wonderful parents. Much love to you all.

[@callricky1]

Just found this lady on a short and now I’m addicted to her. I LOVE THIS LADY AND HER FAMILY 😂😂😂‼️

[@enkay199]

I found her just yesterday and am loving her ❤

[@rd44457]

After watching this, I appreciate my parents even more for giving me all this information at the right time. (btw, we live in India - because somehow if you are India, it is fine to not have given this talk?) Periods needs to be discussed before the first cycle. I can not imagine the panic this poor girl felt when she started bleeding with absolutely no idea as to why it was happening. 🥲 Also the reason why sex talk is so very important, 1. You don't want a bunch of max level curiosity teenagers, going and exploring things without any prior knowledge. 2. Precaution - unplanned pregnancies and STDs. Also Zarna, let's start at the very basic of being able to say the words. Unplanned pregnancy! I am glad that you had this talk though. Step in the right direction. 💪🏽

[@20paito08]

Hahaha "what do you do? You take each other for a cupcake?" I could not stop laughing!!!!!

[@hazelnutcupcake8851]

Loved this conversation, Auntie Zarna! I’m in my 20s and when I was growing up, asking questions about sexual health would lead to my parents questioning my character. I wish there was something like this I could show my parents and help them see that yes, these conversations are awkward but they are also important. Thank you!!

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank YOU

[@judycarlin763]

So funny on so many levels! Clever and insightful! Love your honesty and willingness to share!

[@padmavenkat7915]

After listening to this podcast, I think it’s time for me to speak to my elder one who is 12 year old. Am glad I spoke to him about periods and what we women go through those days. Thank you Zarna.. you rock !!

[@ZarnaGarg]

So glad!!

[@them.b.v.8975]

Amazing to see your family having this conversation. So refreshing seeing an Asian talk like this. Love that your kids can tell you like it is.

[@magdalenartful]

The kids are fantastic. You are all great because you are honest and authentic. Your daughter is lucky youtube was available to teach her about her period, I didn't have that, but I had an older sister who had gone through it and friends that got it before I did, and they talked about it all the time --but my mom never told me anything about anything. Thank God for Judy Blume who wrote books for girls, her characters dealt with many of these topics. Love you guys!

[@ZarnaGarg]

:)

[@joycecreceliusUtube]

Loved the book 'Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret."

[@magdalenartful]

@@joycecreceliusUtube Me too!

[@deborahlumba2502]

Thank you for having this conversation. As an immigrant parent it’s hard to have these discussions with my kids totally understand where the parents are coming from and appreciate the kids honest. ❤

[@lizetsanchez5628]

You take each other for a cupcake 😂 this is so entertaining.

[@ZarnaGarg]

I mean, that's what I would do!

[@nadiiamishchenko7413]

I am in awe from your children and you and your husband! Amazing episode! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

[@kanikachaddagupta]

This was sooo refreshing, Z! And Shalabh needs a special too! Dad humor is a genre all it's own. 😅

[@ZarnaGarg]

everyone loving shalabh is the twist I didn't see coming

[@gn1221]

Your comment that girls have it easier because they control their bodies is depressingly untrue in many states now.

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

U guys are lucky to have each other....and those wonderful kids too..Yo.

[@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241]

This is actually SUCH a good open conversation! Moms like “no way”! The whole time! They didn’t talk about it back then, but it’s forgivable because they are talking about it now!

[@droosyg252]

She’s telling everyone to calm down and she is the only one who is hyped! 😂😂😂

[@ZarnaGarg]

that seems like our everyday life 😂😂😂

[@droosyg252]

@@ZarnaGarg 🤣🤣

[@lazygirlvee]

​@@ZarnaGarg thank god my mom is not like you.

[@joy3203]

​@@lazygirlveefor sure zarna is grateful she didnt give birth to you

[@lilianaj123]

@@lazygirlvee You are not good

[@anandmarkande1]

Kudos to this podcast! As a young parent - it was eye opening on what is happening and what the expectations are!

[@prakriti1292]

Your daughter is absolutely awesome! reflects on you as parents too!She is so aware and mindful of your cultural background making life decisions for the younger siblings like a parent.so impressive!All of them are so responsible! Great podcast.will share it with my kids😊

[@rakhis2575]

She’s the most intelligent and did help Zarna start her stand up career

[@nishahuq]

I was kinda sad hearing about your daughter and her experience with getting her first period. I'm trying to teach my boys....that girls bleed and how it effects them, etc. Well my younger one knows from always following me to the bathroom and announcing to people, mommy also wears a diaper. 🙈🙈🙈 but i like this new concept for your show. Will definitely be talking to my boys soon. This is sooooo needed in desi household!!!! Glad your kids agreed to do this segment with you guys.

[@chits7699]

Hi Zarna, being an Indian mom of 10 year old girl, this was definitely something that I was scared of “When is the right time to talk to her”. Looking at how you talked about it with kids, I feel more comfortable now. These days kids are open to so much information right and wrong, it’s important to lead them to the right and help them process it. Appreciate your family doing this on camera so that the rest of us get an idea of our kids perspective as well. Love your family!!❤❤❤

[@ZarnaGarg]

Aw this means the world!!

[@barbararobbio1355]

Love your family and how you've raised them. I hope you know that. I have just started following you. I just love your comedy!!!❤

[@nodirakazakova]

Coming from a central Asian country with strict parents, I can definitely tell that the fact that you let your kids talk about this, and that you hear them out and that all the family members are included in this conversation, it is definitively healthy. I mean we all make mistakes both as kids and as parents, but like the fact that you’re open minded enough to sit and talk about it, is very important. I really wish I could be as open with my parents as your kids are, I think they’re very lucky and they have cool parents, so kids, appreciate your parents, trust me they’re genuinely cool.

[@SentinelGeorgeBCN]

This was hilarious and honest and informative. And these are some truly truly smart kids who will help build a better future 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@ZarnaGarg]

Haha!

[@vee4029]

You parents are so cool to discuss such a tricky topic openly and have raised such lovely, mature kids.

[@femidasheikh2785]

I'm from India And have same as u 3 kids ...2 girls and one son U people hv done a great job by having a podcast like this on you tube Time has changed and we need to talk to our kids openly about it I too try to talk to my kids 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@ZarnaGarg]

Of course!!

[@femidasheikh2785]

@@ZarnaGarg Thank u so much Zarna fr replying..... it's good to know u read our comments and reply bac 😊

[@ifalok007]

My wife made me watch this, loved it in first go, watched other 2 episodes as well, subscribed as well. Please keep making such videos with your family. All 3 kids are a very smart and contribute to the discussion in a way which matters.

[@adriennecoleman5249]

I loved this. I was the mom who explained everything. My two sons died, told their friends & they all came over to have a deeper conversation!

[@ZarnaGarg]

super mom!

[@Randomest_Stories]

Sons died??

[@janbanks7271]

@@Randomest_Stories💁🏾‍♀️What she meant was that they were really laughing (‘died laughing’), hilariously…😅not passing away😮‍💨!!👌🏾 It turned out, well, because the sons shared with their friends and they came over to hear/learn, as well!!🤗

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

Deeply saddened about your loss..Huge God Bless to you and partner..May Their Divine Souls be at Peace now.

[@littlemissmuffet1239]

Omg if my children can communicate like this so mature and eloquent when they grow up I will be the happiest mother .Bravo you guys did a great job raising amazing kids .

[@arleencollins5302]

Loved the whole episode! Maybe a great follow up would be healthy vs. unhealthy relationships. Beyond the sexual act and its consequences, there are young children in abusive relationships. How to handle the emotions of lust, love, chemistry, attraction. What to do when in an unsafe position. How to be a good boyfriend/girlfriend.

[@ZarnaGarg]

I like this idea - I will do an episode about this!

[@jyotichandna5196]

I second that 👍

[@margarethoffman6492]

Excellent episode. Every family needs to have this conversation. Generational differences teased out to get to the essential values, potential dangers, safety. Well done

[@rachelandross452]

Hi Zarna, I loved this! You are hilarious! 😂 This is so brave of you to bring this topic up! You have beautiful children♥️

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@losochohomes39]

I love to hear your family conversations and interactions😅 Also, your children are brilliant, respectful, kind, so intelligent and beautiful 😍.

[@82chetali]

I JUST LOVED THIS EPISODE…. Kudos to Zarna and family 💕💕💕

[@kymail]

This was AMAZING! I applaud the fact that you had this conversation (not always an easy subject to bring up) and your kids were open and honest about their views on sex, how they learned about it, what their perspective is now, and when they first were aware of what it all means. You are doing a GREAT job raising them, and they are smart and know that if they don't get what they need/feel they are missing info from you (& uncomfortable asking you directly), they can Google it and/or ask their peers. I told our daughter about how puppies and kittens were made when she was very young (probably 5) and just let it sink in. As she was older, she had sex education in school and learned more. I'm grateful that you spoke about STDs and birth control! Obviously, elementary schools have been providing this information for the past 50+ years. I am 65 and I had it in elementary school here in California. You and your husband offer insight to your perspective not only as parents, but also of your culture, and it is a wonderful opportunity to see and here all that you bring to these episodes. Your children have incredible insight and the discussions you facilitate provide a much missing conversation in society. You are refreshing! You keep the focus on the topic when it starts to vere off center, and you have humor and grace. I love that you appreciate that what your perspective is as a mother may not be the perspective your husband has, or that your children may have. Zarna, you bring such incredible joy with these episodes! I look forward to seeing you this Sunday when you open for Tina Fey & Amy Poehler. Finding you on KZbin is a great gift! Thank you for your honesty and humor!

[@praiseinourhearts]

Watching from Dubai! We love the content you put so much effort to bring us! All the best always!

[@ZarnaGarg]

hi!

[@praiseinourhearts]

❤❤so excited for this show

[@ZarnaGarg]

@@praiseinourhearts omg. thank you for coming by our watch party! was so great to have you!!!

[@parveenquadri5199]

I am impressed how parents try to open their kids on the topic,we as Indians or Pakistanis barely talk to our kids. Good job Zarna.!! The young parents who are raising their kids in US must watch it. It will be great help for them.

[@sheilynsanchezperez8817]

Love this episode. It really helped me understand whats going on with the younger generations and the importance to talk to my niece about it.

[@ZarnaGarg]

❤❤❤

[@AngieVY18]

Loved this so much! Saving for future ❤ Side note - I love how the brothers call Zoya didi ❤

[@Gabrielle2075]

What does Didi mean?

[@AngieVY18]

@@Gabrielle2075 In India, specifically the Hindi language, we address elder sisters as “Didi”

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

Oh Yes. I Noted the bit about 'Didi' too and am so.proud of U all...following the revered Indian traditions even in the US of A. Bahut Achcha Laga.

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

​@@Gabrielle2075 Elder Sister. A term of respect and endearment..and elder brothers are called, Bhaiya.

[@gloriatyller4554]

This is a wonderful podcast! As a first generation Canadian ( now very old) experienced both aspects as presented by this family: some information, cultural values, and shame or holding back. My mom wanted to change out what she did not receive yet gave a twisted version of what was okay. That said, what I truly delighted in was just the fact that this family sit together to talk, how well they communicate and that the love between them is palpable. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@navneetkaur7709]

Meaningful conversation! I am with Zoya. We r family of 4, 2 tennage kids in Uk. We explained my daughter about periods , cared her during her 1st period. Explained to my son. My husband brought flowers, card , chocolates & put money in the card for my daughter. [ I was totally impressed by him , being a Indian man I never seen or heard of it anyone doing it].

[@syedashahanaalinaqvi8481]

❤glad to hear Son was told and dad not being awkward about it …❤

[@chocominxx]

I loved this conversation. Especially when your daughter said you never talked to us about sex 🤣🤣🤣. But very decent talk it was. All families should have this talk. Also, your husband’s voice is so soothing. He should do a podcast!!!! And you’re a super mom!!!!

[@Agathism]

The conversation started when my daughters' elementary school asked for parent's permissions (and yes, I read them) and consented to sex education in 5th grade. We, as a family, went to a seminar that talked about periods and growth so my daughters wouldn't ever have to feel even a tinge of shame or embarrassment (that I did, growing up in India) around menses. I adore you Zarna, because you are the essence of every immigrant parent raising an American child and I feel like you get it and make us feel like while we mess up, in so many ways, we can still laugh about it, together as a family. My daughters joke about me being that typical parent and I myself point out the Asian-ness in me, to keep the conversations lighter and open and never to shut the door on us 🙌

[@sonunci]

This is so relatable.. I am watching this with my two teenagers and they agree with everything with what kids are saying..Loved this conversation.. I have a kid like Brij and another one like Veer..The Gen Z and alpha comparison is so accurate!

[@RaveenJassal-w8f]

Being a South Asian Physician of teenagers, I would like to add that there is a great need to dispel misinformation about weed being safe… the current plant is addictive, vapes are highly concentrated so addictive. Young brains are at risk for executive function damage, higher chances of addiction in boys with ADD. Higher potential for anxiety and depression over time. You may not see yourself as a source of information but people are listening to you so I implore you to include factual information about drugs. I appreciate how you bring up difficult topics and modeling how to have important discussions with our kids when our culture uses shame to parent. Thank you 🙂

[@mraycee]

Watched this with my 13yr old son. Everything about the birds and the bees has now been discussed in one sitting. So thanks a lot, Zarna.😅❤️

[@anneliu694]

This was so enlightening & hilarious all at the same time! Zarna, as a mom myself I totally relate to you & how shocked/in denial you are about the revelations from your kids on what's happening in this culture. Very important topic to discuss openly with your kids in such a candid manner. I'm so impressed by your kids. I'm still laughing at "you're not doing weed...I see the credit card bills"🤣

[@wonderkris]

Very glad to hear your kids talk about consent. It is such a landmine topic. I am happy to hear your son talk about it in more black and white terms as this is the one that can be twisted against them easily.

[@ZarnaGarg]

Yes he has tutors for everything!

[@shivanij3803]

I’m 40 and still waiting for that conversation 😂

[@vidhyamahadevan]

You are killing it Zarna! This was such a relatable talk amidst all the humor. I kept wondering it was so organic, natural and honest and refused to believe you guys may have rehearsed some of it!

[@neelimamundayur3663]

I am Indian, grew up in India, and every single one of my friends' moms (and some dads) and mine taught us about periods before we got it, and then helped us through our first couple of times. Not preparing your daughter and leaving her to her own devices is absolutely unusual

[@ninabahl03]

I enjoyed listening to all of you. When we moved to USA our son went to high school. Everyone in India had scared us of our son will get spoilt. I had to talk to my son about everything and safety was the first thing I told him about. It is wrong that Dad shdnt have to tell daughter because being a mom I had explained to my son. I loved the openness with your children, you have raised them good.

[@ZarnaGarg]

This is so nice to hear!!

[@u105524]

The kids are all so adorable you got to be so proud. It's enlightening to hear their experiences. I am jealous about not being able to have this type of open conversation with kids

[@divyangisharma]

I'm glad I found this podcast on KZbin, It was amazing and so relatable how you guys spoke on this topic and the points well placed. Eagerly waiting for upcoming episodes which I know you surely have it planned. :D

[@gvenkataraman6854]

Not preparing your daughter years ahead for the first period, being there as a friend and providing emotional and other support during the days?? You are exceptional. I give you an F. Was oblivious, in denial and authoritative - wants to give her own answers and give her own grades! The children are gems and Zoya is doing the real parenting here where needed. Shalab looks spaced out in more than one way.

[@wakunanuma1966]

It's because of how her mom grew up...she didn't know any better ....she never had that openess where she came from.

[@Dontcare66]

That's obviously very mean from someone who probably didn't also grow up with parents who never talk about things like that. I didn't even told my mum when I got my period because everything genitals related was shameful. She said nothing when she found out. They're doing a better job then most American parents and they're setting those kids for academic success and success in life, unlike the typical western parent who wants to be their friend and hang around with them rather than parent. Yes, they're not perfect, but I would rather have them in society than some leftie parents who believe all it matters is that their kid is happy

[@odinfeehcu1984]

Stop the nonsense. You don't know culture. If you do you will not say that nonsense @givenk

[@nomitamehta4755]

Thank you Zaria and family. You truly sparked conversation at our place between us and 2 teenagers. You get the time of frankness and opening up to what is underneath our own sweettalk. Truly grateful ❤

[@BiryaniPotKitchen]

When something goes wrong, it’s always the mom here too 🤣. Hats off to you for raising such confident kids.

[@brijgarg9987]

Haha

[@karkareck6571]

I can relate to everyone's shock on how much veer knows already. I have a 10 year old and I was also shocked knowing things she is being exposed to in school. Kudos to you and your family for bringing out these topics. It is a conversation a family should have. PS I will give you and Shalabh A+ in parenting as your kids are comfortable and honest with you guys. They want to share with you guys and have a conversation.

[@ZarnaGarg]

Haha yes!!

[@nk47100]

I agree!

[@jennymoore8509]

I was not surprised at all to hear what Veer knew. I guess things were different were I grew up but these experiences were happening around me in the late 80's/early 90's. I had friends with boyfriends in the 4th grade and my own first boyfriend was in 5th grade (holding hands, went to a school dance, etc). My 1st kiss was with my 3rd boyfriend... In 7th grade (he was in 9th grade). Because of this, I started having talks *very* early with my own children (age 8, starting with very basic information).

[@winjob1]

Honest, authentic, simply brilliant! Good to see how Indian family life and culture is evolving on the States side. Your children are a joy!

[@carolyncox7073]

@winjob1, "The BIBLE" Greatest Book Ever Written. Last Days Prophecy! Babylon The Great (America) has Fallen. All Praises To The Most High and his Son, The Black Messiah. @winjob1, America has no morals or self respect!! ELOHIM Righteous Judgment Is Upon America The Wicked!!!

[@karmensitta4536]

You just made my day! Funniest cutest family ever! Thanks for your wonderful family performance.

[@ZarnaGarg]

So glad!!

[@beautytipsu]

The period thing was true. Its like huge trauma , for a teen. Talking with young girls is important. Now first period is arriving earlier. Guys a great job with the discussion. Loved it.

[@Dreamcatcher108]

I laughed my heart out when the Little one was asked did u feel that way in Florida as well... And he said i don't notice anything anywhere.... And the mom goes "except for people kissing each other in the park" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@zoyagarg]

Veer is the smartest in our family by far

[@droosyg252]

😂😂😂

[@ZarnaGarg]

haha!!

[@gurpreetsethi3449]

@@zoyagarg.. I think you are the best and I feel for you . I was in india when I started and my mom was embarrassed about the whole thing because I almost had a panic attack .. no u tubes back then 50 yrs ago .. thank god for the rudimentary knowledge I had from the boarding school I went to. Your honesty touched me .

[@pervezdaruwala8499]

​@@zoyagarg Hey Zoya..U Rocked it..I appreciate All of U, the parents ofcourse and U kids too..Sweet, sensible, sensitive family..Do well in life..Huge God Bless.

[@KM-fo5ty]

Love Love Love ZOYA!! Keep going girl! we love a sister teaching and guiding her brothers/men around her right! The honesty that the children brought on the show, specifically this episode is amazing and appreciated. Coming from a 22 year old Indian female.

[@tuella4032]

Great show! I loved how your kids felt so comfortable to open up about this topic. (also, love the 🍍🍍)

[@albyjoy91]

I just happened to see a bit of this episode on instagram and ended up watching the whole episode.. well done guys..

[@bronxsingh]

OMG this family is so funny, but so sweet and this is a really nice episode to educate a lot of family and kids

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you!!

[@user-ru3zw6lz9h]

Just started watching and omg this kind of conversation would be totally unheard of in my family. I am Indian American like your kids, in my 30s now and I really wish I could have had a relationship like this with my parents. I'm so happy to see you raising your kids to be confident and informed, it will help them be safe too once they're off to college. Best wishes for your family, can't wait to finish the video! Edit: Just wanted to note, it sounds like your kids had good sex education in school but the quality of that is very very different depending on the state and specific school. So I think it's important parents also step in to explain that kind of thing.

[@Dakshastuart]

Loved listening to you all ❤❤❤.. especially your beautiful daughter as I have daughter same age….. to be honest I have never felt comfortable sitting down with my kids but you have talked you have covered all this on a lighter note without feeling awkward….. 😊Zarna you have asked all the right questions 💗💗… you are blessed to have such good Indian kids they will not do you wrong as you have raised them great❤❤❤…. Xxx

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you!!

[@mariaeuv7694]

Laughing so hard when mom said " yes we talked about it..Don't do it."😅

[@afridaalambubree1101]

I could literally imagine my mom sitting there and saying the same things , reacting to the way how the generation thinks right now. 😅😅😅 Love from Bangladesh🥰🥰🥰 , hats off to you for raising such a topic including your kids in the podcast, much needed conversation. your raised good children though.

[@MmRR11484]

I love how Zarna says “NO.” Her favorite word- I love her❤️💕

[@suridhisharma2076]

Ok I'm a 30 plus woman who grew up in India and my mom explained menstruation to me, helped me with my first period. This was very shocking towards the end. But love the honesty abs the coming together of you family❤ looking forward to more of this stuff

[@kadambariprasad208]

Same. I grew up in India and my mom spoke to me about it too and at school we had counselors who spoke to us about sex. There are parts of India where things have improved.

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you for tuning in!

[@brijgarg9987]

Real

[@shireensaroea946]

Nobody is perfect . No parent is perfect. She’s a great mom overall, I feel

[@Nyny.1000]

These kids are so courageous 😂 like my parents are grandparents and this convo: I could never 💀

[@ShaneCallum]

Ah man! this episode is so nice and yet filled bomb after bomb, both from parents and their children. Everyone is an expert in dropping surprise bombs. I am obsessed with this lady and her family! Lots of Love Zarna

[@ZarnaGarg]

this lady is obsessed with you and all her fans! I'm here to serve. For real.

[@riana2906]

Just loved Zoya and Brij strong bond, they have each others backs.. What a lovely podcast.. Wish Zarna could take ownership and say yes I should have told you everything' to ur daughter.. She loves youll so much but her voice cracked a bit..on get more info abt periods. Big Hugs to Zoya. All ur children are grounded.. A- ur son is so adorable and frank. Wishing to see more.. Cheers.

[@DeltaCreator246]

Honest discussion, hats off to the parents and very well raised children, congratulations !

[@ZarnaGarg]

Thank you!

[@harsshalreddy5166]

Miss Zarna living in denial through it all. Love it. Need to normalise these conversations.

[@vengeance4835]

This video is funny as well as educating. Every parents and kids should watch this video together. Keep it up Zarna kaki

[@ZarnaGarg]

♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@hemashasta4750]

Love the family dynamics and the inate humor that is built in. The absurdities and the sheer lunacy in relationships is reassuring to see. My family is not as weird as I thought, after all. It’s all about individual personalities and their take on things. Keep on talking!