The Zoe and Liang Show 惠眼说亮话 EP7 - Are wedding banquets a MUST?结婚一定要办婚宴吗？

Is it crucial to hold a wedding banquet when getting married? Where would be the ideal location to propose at? How does one decide the amount to give in the red packet? Zoe Tay and Guo Liang discussed with Sin Nee and Ze Liang to learn about their idea of marriage.
新人办不办婚宴，最终会是谁拍板決定呢？女人希望在公众场合求婚显面子，或二人世界承诺更珍贵？大家喜欢参加婚礼吗，包红包又有哪些学问？
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[@wenzi0612]

两位嘉宾很有梗且能融入亮哥和惠玉姐的讨论，建议可以再请他们上节目。又或者如果四位可以一起开节目，肯定很好玩。❤️

[@Iac12m]

I agree with Guo Liang in this ep. Ultimately is see got money or not la. Got money anything also can.

[@waciao3967]

I totally agree with ze liang, just small and simple wedding banquet will do!

[@zhiyingkang275]

Can consider talking about how couples handle financial matters at home. Olden days, perhaps man is the sole breadwinner. Daily household expenses, wedding cost, Chinese New year angbaos all comes from the husband's pocket. How about present days? Do couples all 50-50? Parents in our generation still thinks husband is the only one paying, but fact is both husband and wife shared cost.

[@opjade]

Ohhh what a relevant topic; and a very interesting one! :D The literally "pay for your dinner @ a restaurant/hotel" is indeedy the reality tht reflects most of the wedding banquets + intention in today's world. Frankly, one thing that has always bemused me is that , why would people invite people who they barely know / keep in contact in these years to their wedding /special occasion. Right? Like, why? ")) That said, I do believe 'how' one (the couple) perceives marriage, wedding and the whole sanctity and reason behind it determines how the wedding and the whole process is 'approached'. Some may view it as an upclose-n-personal affair; while, some may feel the significance to have the occasion witnessed by many people.

[@Mark-st1cy]

Coming from a person who did not hold a wedding banquet, 16 years on I would say i regretted not having one and not taken any formal wedding shoots. I guess it is a life important milestone that require something grand to commemorate that once pass will never come again. Would had been meaningful to take a formal shoot every 5, 10 years to see how we had aged together.

[@moonstars6279]

It's alright mire importantly is hiw long the marriage lasts. No point having expensive luxury wedding dinner and lasts only 3 month or a year lol

[@jenniferkang5305]

Ultimately what you do or don’t do on your wedding day is not going to make or break your marriage.

[@blessedcheflim8579]

Its ok not hving a Grand wedding as you can hv a 25th wedding annivasery later which is much more meaningful. You may notice some who hv grand wedding may not mke it to 10th Anniversary. Pls rember, wedding is one day only but marriage is for life..My 25 yr old daughter said tat on her wedding wk 10 yrs ago. Glad she is wise to see fr this perspective.

[@zhiyingkang275]

Life after having kids: Olden days: husband work, wife stay home (does the household chores and take care of baby/kids) Present days: both husband and wife work. But everyone (esp. Parents in law) still expects the wife to do the household chores and take care of kids.

[@lzh4950]

Also read of a survey that found that in the present day, a considerable no. of ladies prefer not to marry lower-income males as they're still traditionally expected to be the family's bigger breadwinner

[@user-cr2eh5wq6x]

天啊 泽亮梦想中的婚礼和我想的是一样的！！！！！！！！

[@LoveIsContagious]

对！永远不要故意去穿得比新娘👰🏻‍♀️漂亮……因为这样会新人不尊敬，而且也会让新娘子难看，最糟的是还被亲朋好友说闲话，说妳不懂得什么礼仪这类的。我也非常赞成👍🏻一点就是无论平时的装扮如何但新娘子真的在婚礼当天永远是最美，很奇怪但是不知为什么。

[@caineteyable]

Got an army mate who had to choose between a wedding dinner and house renovation due to finances. I rather choose the latter.

[@blessedcheflim8579]

Gou Liang is a square wood, cant appreciate what ladies feel for a bridal gown..LOL

[@JhCe]

办婚宴的这个做法本来就和诈欺没两样。 新人讲得好听是“请”人家来参加自己的婚宴，其实是找水鱼来“赞助”自己的婚宴。 尤其是那种自己口袋根本没钱付酒席全数的钱，期望婚宴当天收到的红包可以“cover"全数甚至“多赚”一笔。