Even though you may think you have found that one finally and get married, there is no guarantee that the marriage will be really secured. The world is changing and people also change with time. Human beings are not static objects. They continue to change and so there are still risks in the future.
@Peachu_n_Goma_Home Жыл бұрын
Yes, and trying out in situationship is different compared to marriage, there are people who can be very good friend / sex partner but they are so bad as spouse...some are very bad parent as well (projecting insecurities onto children). If the female guest is so insecure about marriage than dont get married but pls protect yourself...have heard many insecure girls who ended up unmarried and raising child on their own...fine if this is what they want...but you get the vibe that it isnt.
I think what the youngsters are saying doesn't apply across the board. Maybe it's more acceptable these days to try and date people simultaneously but for me and my circle of friends, we are more like zoe's way of thinking. We have a boyfriend and are serious in our monogamous r/s. Only when we are officially bf and gf then we kiss, hold hands etc. I'm in my mid to late 20s.
@manyue2003 Жыл бұрын
Zoe tay is no prude. She's a model when she's young. She seen many such stuff. Also in the 80s these things happens too just not talk about so often.
@charmainewongsm Жыл бұрын
Agree. I think she is the type that is more attention seeking and needs that attention from others for self validation.
@naofumi9980 Жыл бұрын
I dont even kiss unless I know In gonna marry this person. You guys are all animals
@manyue2003 Жыл бұрын
@@naofumi9980 Are you sure you are not a boomer ? 😁
@starshine9836 Жыл бұрын
人越来越缺爱,想爱但怕被受伤害,不敢担当责任。the world is broken down. More and more people lack love and seek instant gratification. But mature love needs commitment and responsibility. Nowadays, not many know how to bear responsibilities even for themselves, what more another significant one
Basically in this type of relationship, you are just guessing your partner's intention behind this relationship...definitely, there is one person in this relationship hoping it to flourish to become the real thing but may not want to be the one to admit it. This is way more tiring and frustrating.
@charmainewongsm Жыл бұрын
Indeed. It’s for those who need to be with someone for self-validation. It doesn’t do them better, actually.
@p.candle Жыл бұрын
跟惠玉同款的震惊,原来现在的年轻人对待男女关系的态度是这样的。
@杞雨宸 Жыл бұрын
很喜欢这个节目
@Liz-ux8be Жыл бұрын
interesting topics & interesting show 👍
@guru6831 Жыл бұрын
Of course, they date for lust! Avoid mistaking lust for love.
@Truth008 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Zoe and Liang should tell them this is wrong!!! The 2 young ones value is so wrong!!!
@andrewng267 Жыл бұрын
Invite rui en please !
@iamjulia9458 Жыл бұрын
只觉得现在年轻人的思想很堕落。人在每个间断,感觉 成熟,思想,稳重度都不一样。人生本来就是一个赌注。没用100%的完美。都是要磨合的。 你在选人,人在选你。难道步入婚姻就是不能变吗? 变了又怎么样呢?同时跑几条感情线… 对自己和对方来说都是一个不负责任的态度。难怪最近一直有看到性病检验的广告。🙄 Aids 就是这么来的。还没找到幸福就丢了命!笨!
The guys that started and brainwash girls into accepting this kind of relationship and arrangement and now becoming a norm for the younger generation is really the champion. Have to really Salute them
@thomaslau2362 Жыл бұрын
Nowadays the generation is more on 暧昧 and enjoy the process. A pax age and his perspective towards a raltionship also play a pivotal part on the 暧昧.
@yvonneng3081 Жыл бұрын
郭亮 👍support u
@frankl2280 Жыл бұрын
我觉得有这种思想这种行为的人非常低级、非常低贱。
@DCVT22 Жыл бұрын
说出这话的你也不会高级到哪里去,站道德高点说粗俗的字眼😌
@frankl2280 Жыл бұрын
@@DCVT22 你道德低或没有道德是你家教的事。
@748-Fxxx Жыл бұрын
@@DCVT22 贴主有自己言论自由的观点关你屁事!
@DCVT22 Жыл бұрын
@@748-Fxxx 我说话又管你屁事呢?
@tamshanon8917 Жыл бұрын
Dating 連房間也開了。沒事發生,…隨性…甚至「帥」。但如果,懷孕了呢? 年輕人對於這種隨性的辯解,是發自在「沒有事發生」的基礎上。我的問題是,懷孕了,怎麼辦?不跟父母親說,直接把胎兒,打掉?隔天,當作什麼事情也沒發生,繼續try 嗎? 說到來,他們年輕人的這套作法,都是站不住腳的,歪理
@evelynlim8649 Жыл бұрын
道德的沦陷。简直把找寻伴侣当游戏。
@tamshanon8917 Жыл бұрын
@@evelynlim8649 的確
@hiemengsu4533 Жыл бұрын
Very honest interview. Chan Tong very handsome. Hopefully he could make it to top before 30. Otherwise, old liao
@NoMusicNoMeaningful Жыл бұрын
where to buy the bubbletea chouchou?
@ClementLee2000 Жыл бұрын
Sex is an important part of marriage. Why? Because if there is no sex, can just be good friends. So the biggest difference (among other things) is sex. This new "Situationship" scenario, one will be ended up with a few whom you have good sex with. From this few, one will see which one has a better fit. That is also provided that the other party's feeling is mutual. But I have one question : If a girl has 3 guy friends in "Situationship" and she got pregnant, how does she "proof" to the guy that the baby is theirs?
@Lovepeace.11210 ай бұрын
OMG!! I just realised I got generation gaps now. How can that happen? I am as shock as Zoe Tay ! 😅 The definition of Dating has changed now . 真的好泛滥了啊!Very unhealthy mindset and giving excuses for ‘trying ‘ I think. All sort of excuses actually. Youngsters nowadays focus on physical sexual needs more than anything else , sex alone will not give you any security and commitment. As you age, you will regret your loose lifestyle. 我觉得现在的年轻人反而不够勇敢和太害怕了才‘ take the risk’ of keep trying different partners, 难道这样做就能确保将来能得到美好的结婚吗? 哪也不必然的。
@bartliao2882 Жыл бұрын
Another perspective is that, in the past, dating couples would pre-live a commitment to exclusive dating partner to subject themselves to test against the Marriage vow - In the name of God, I, _____, take you, _____, to be my wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. This is my solemn vow.", but today's couple with do the exact opposite and once decided, expected to suddenly flip a switch and able to mentally, emotionally and physically live out the marriage vow. Sadly, it seems to be a twisted logic.
@Mintziestwisties Жыл бұрын
It is sad that our young society is saying that behaviour is “normal”
Youngsters nowadays do not care about commitment. What guarantee anyone can have by trying out first? No one can predict the future why lead such careless and irresponsible lifestyle?
@charmainewongsm Жыл бұрын
I v agree it’s actually lack of confidence or self-love. Kind of堕落
@ClementLee2000 Жыл бұрын
With divorce rate at about 50%, means that as much as half of the young people saw how their own parent went separate ways. This show them that marriage is nothing when come in the face of "Love conquers all".
@silverfox3800 Жыл бұрын
@@ClementLee2000 It is not like they hv no confidence in marriage rather these ppl find it fun to not be committed and hv multiple bfs/gfs.
Young people are different lol we have to explore things first before settling down into a proper and probably a long lasting relationship and then getting married. There's nothing wrong about it. Also it's not every young person will do this kind of stuff. It's a case by case situation
A situationship, i.e. NSA, FWB, FB etc in the heterosexual sociology these days if indeed exists is, frankly, way behind the male homosexual pattern.
@DTYY941 Жыл бұрын
I feel this kind of relationship happens on decent looking people or those sweet talkers people. Introvert unlikely and may just go geylang
@linlong5053 Жыл бұрын
郑六月好棒!第一次看她,感觉落落大方!
@diesopain260 Жыл бұрын
对的人不一定觉得你是对的人。所以不要浪费时间找对的人。
@承恩蒋 Жыл бұрын
我现在不在相信爱情很恐惧
@boopeep8277 Жыл бұрын
有机会邀请 Fann 文芳吗 😁
@vincentlee764 Жыл бұрын
Just like prostitution, as long as they can justify it, they do it. So, where is your value system?
@flowercolourful4718 Жыл бұрын
Worse than prostitution. I respect prostitues, perhaps they may be in financial difficulties or have to support family or have no qualifications/ skills, so they have no better choice but to work in this trade to earn money. But now such youngsters' trend is lacking in moral value, no self-control, no accountability, no responsibility.
@tamshanon8917 Жыл бұрын
What are we ? 至於嗎?…. 好好笑
@clesonpoison-d2y Жыл бұрын
You need to date many people to know what you want. So you will find the right one and not divorce afterwards. And u only young one, don’t date many then wait till become auntie and uncle then u will regret for not having all these experiences.
@evelynlim8649 Жыл бұрын
This will eventually become a habit that one will just walk out of a relationship when not suitable, which is the same as divorce. Cannot be faithful in the least , won’t be faithful at all
You are only young once, why wan to have so many rules to restrain urself.. married alrd then realise missed out on a lot is alrd too late
@xxl5712 Жыл бұрын
It is not about only young once. It is about our chinese culture value & responsibility.
@clesonpoison-d2y Жыл бұрын
@@xxl5712 culture values were invented by humans. You only live once why not enjoy and stop caring on how people judge you. When you die no one will remember your so call “values”.
don’t kill babies , post abortion trauma is real and life time pain
@Sagepeh Жыл бұрын
天哪我都听蒙了,证明我老了
@chiaw3nable Жыл бұрын
都是朋友的事情,好可憐的朋友全部躺著中槍
@nana-kt2hk Жыл бұрын
人類都~道德淪喪了~也難怪天災人禍一堆~。
@748-Fxxx Жыл бұрын
同感!有心人才能有第六感察觉无形中的连带关系带来蝴蝶效应!
@glorytruthlove Жыл бұрын
sinful lead to judgement
@Truth008 Жыл бұрын
The 2 youngster in this program are so wrong in their value!!!
@Truth008 Жыл бұрын
The older ones should tell the younger ones that this is wrong! Imagine your daughter telling you that she want to go around fuxxing men she like and see which one qualify for husband!!!!! Very wrong thinking!!! And if i have a son doing such thing to ladies, i would be very enrage and disappointed because he is just taking advantage of them and there is zero respect for ladies. As parents, we really need to accompany our children and teach them right.
@kadajlim Жыл бұрын
Yes guoliang well said~! next generation is following America trash way~ #一见钟情
@wasabi6507 Жыл бұрын
No morals these days.. It's saddening
@JanghoTango Жыл бұрын
真的是世风日下 真恶心 🤢🤢🤢🤢
@JanghoTango Жыл бұрын
要是我的女儿 随意随便 随时随地 给男人上 。。。。我要怎么样? 要是我遇到这样的女人,我要娶吗?
@mamemo359 Жыл бұрын
女生别在骗自己了。每次说到很潇洒但是事情发生了,每次都后悔难过。🙄
@kellove7931 Жыл бұрын
人越来越败坏
@eleanorpeh8803 Жыл бұрын
What omg
@ombebek5095 Жыл бұрын
Its just selfish, u guys just wanna happy life for yourself, u want the best life that u could get by trying to date as many as u like. But life is unpredictable, what about if ur partner become sick? U will leave him or her? Or what about if u are the one who sick,other person leave u because they dont want a misery life with u? I dont think u guys searching for spouse,its like a business agreement. 2nd thing u guys will become old person, u will not be handsome or pretty anymore,even u get plastic surgery ,your body will not be the same as u are young. What about if the guy want to end the relationship because he want younger women? Is it okay? 3rd. What about accidentally the girl pregnant. Do you always have self control in any situation (even drunk) to not get pregnant? What about if one of them didnt want the baby? 4. U guys put urself in a high risk situation to get sexual disease from your activities from multiple partner. Dont say u have regular check every month or so, so u will be certain u are healthy. What about other person? Do they check regularly? The thing is virus need time to replicate, not a guarantee if you have negative result that means you dont have the virus, if you get the virus, it is to late to have a mind that u want a happy life. Its because of ur self to get involved in high risk situation that u cant control others what to do with their sexual life. 5. What about if the sex didnt great? I dont think this is just one reason to justify to life together before marriage. I dont think u can really 100% sure u know other even u life with him/her for 10 years or so. What i think that sex is just one of the tick boxes that u want to decide to marry that person. A lot of criteria that u search not just sex. Its like u wanted a perfect human,which u are not perfect either. You want to find perfect person to fulfill all your needs ,not to support each other. All is just about me. Do you think ur marriage will last with that "ego". All i need to say if u guys want to do this, u have to say at the beginning of the date that u guys can date with other person in the same time, not for deep serious realtionship, so it will make clear situation from the beginning, no heart feelings. 2nd u guys have to accept all the risk and blame urself if something bad in your living together habits. There are other way to know your partner. Sadly not everyone is becoming them self when living together. It doesnt always guarantee that u will know that person even living with them for several years
@Dandelion1199 Жыл бұрын
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