7 Mindsets That Attract Women Like Crazy

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The Attractive Man

The Attractive Man

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@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 3 жыл бұрын
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@drakecurtis8025
@drakecurtis8025 3 жыл бұрын
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@abdielamir915
@abdielamir915 3 жыл бұрын
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@drakecurtis8025
@drakecurtis8025 3 жыл бұрын
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@drakecurtis8025
@drakecurtis8025 3 жыл бұрын
@Abdiel Amir It worked and I actually got access to my account again. Im so happy! Thanks so much you saved my account :D
@abdielamir915
@abdielamir915 3 жыл бұрын
@Drake Curtis you are welcome =)
@arabicspongebob7536
@arabicspongebob7536 6 жыл бұрын
One Golden tip : be normal if the girl don't seem to like you , move on don't change your self to anybody .
@mohamedfaroukbalouli7809
@mohamedfaroukbalouli7809 6 жыл бұрын
So true pal !
@jaydeepgamit8506
@jaydeepgamit8506 6 жыл бұрын
arabic spongebob 👏👏👏
@arabicspongebob7536
@arabicspongebob7536 6 жыл бұрын
32 X me and you shouldn't be here , we have to be filming another Spongebob Squarepants episode
@Sambitcoinadvertiser
@Sambitcoinadvertiser 6 жыл бұрын
Lol haha
@murlidharneware1842
@murlidharneware1842 6 жыл бұрын
I am in such a situation! But I don't care! I think of myself as like OK I tried but failed but this isn't gonna stop my life goals!
@micha781000
@micha781000 6 жыл бұрын
Mindsets: 7. Everything will be fine Temporary inconviences, learning expiriences. Makes them calm, so will open up. 6. I dont have to prove myself to anyone, because of who you are. Not bcos of others opinions. Otherwise you have low value and are needy. Dont have to say sorry. Ask: why should I like her? 5. What value can I give? Unconditional, not to get something back, give emotional value, let them feel good, remember there names, let people laugh, give compliments A fun vibe Non judgemental attitude.. Good conversation 4. Interactions is investment in yourself: building social circle, overcome fear of people. Long term goal for yourself. Do I get the results I want. 3. I say what I want :=) If you filter to much bcos of fear an ackward silence comes. Be honest (be you) and confident. 2. I need nothing from anyone. You are self-sufficient. Keep a new relation in perspective. Willingness to walk away if necassary. 1. Let me see if she worth my time. Life is short, time is valuable, fill it with people who live your values and standards. You do her a favour by that, bcos she wants to win you over.
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
This video: 7 made up easy answers, wishful thinking, with 0 guarantees, that rarely work for ugly nobodies wanting decent looking girls, except for maybe more/less friendship. but I'll likely get blamed for failing cause of my "negative" (realistic) attitude (After trying wishful thinking like this). Reality: Most men/women find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity, but women ALSO want other things. 1 source: Biologist Randy Thornhill (University of New Mexico) studying faces for 15 years. “Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…” Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners “…because of the way that the sexual system in humans works, women are choosey.” Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e Studies show attractive people hired sooner, get promotions more quickly, and are paid more. Source: businessinsider.com/attractive-people-are-more-successful-2012-9 If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person to young/fit girls of different races or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fRe4CGhtSqbaM
@shaynesemeniuk8057
@shaynesemeniuk8057 5 жыл бұрын
"Bcos"
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 5 жыл бұрын
@@airplayrule Yes, I blame your negative attitude for your failure with girls , %100.
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
@@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 why ignore the facts i gave n just assume im being negative even though i said my negativity is simply being realistic AFTER believing and implementing these "positive" (wishful thinking) stuff that never works for me or people i know? n if that stuff is so good, why did it make people like me "negative" and find all those facts, which u ignore? how come both genders complimented my personality n both genders stay friends with me but girls say im not their type or race and they date more handsome guys of their own race?
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 5 жыл бұрын
@@airplayrule I dismiss all your BS info because I know everything you've mentioned, the good of it has happened. I know plenty of ugly guys with hot girls.
@angelmerc2626
@angelmerc2626 4 жыл бұрын
"Each interaction is an investment in myself" I love it
@dunichtich100
@dunichtich100 6 жыл бұрын
Once I had all these mindsets and really got girls... but then I met "the girl of my dreams" I thought and she just broke my heart after 5 years of relationship... and now I really have to work hard, to get these mindsets back!
@rg5380
@rg5380 6 жыл бұрын
I've been where you are, and I have to say that I thought my game was good before it happened, but man, it gets to a whole new level once you remaster it. good luck
@dunichtich100
@dunichtich100 6 жыл бұрын
rilleG thank you bro! 👍
@kennithbrown4036
@kennithbrown4036 6 жыл бұрын
dunichtich100 nah the mindset never left did you learn to breathe and forget no give up my brother
@cidombao
@cidombao 6 жыл бұрын
dunichtich100 thats unfortunate bro, go back to the 1st minset. Everything is going to be fine 😉
@lilscuba358
@lilscuba358 6 жыл бұрын
keep your head up bro its more fish in the sea
@angelmerc2626
@angelmerc2626 4 жыл бұрын
"Attraction is not a result of effort" that's brilliant
@abdourobust2890
@abdourobust2890 4 жыл бұрын
This is just superb, I have been researching "attractive 50 year old woman" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my friend got great success with it.
@SamianHQuazi
@SamianHQuazi 2 жыл бұрын
It's also fake. Look at who the beautiful women date. Do these men not put in effort to have the muscles, communication skills, social status, etc to be dateable to those women?
@ibrahimovich1617
@ibrahimovich1617 6 жыл бұрын
When i got to the 1st Mindset, i understood immediately why i am single, since i started treating every girl with this mindset(what does she have to impress me). I couldn't find a girl that meets my standard, it is not because of my ego but rather i recognise my self worth and self confidence. (y)
@josepalacios2819
@josepalacios2819 6 жыл бұрын
Bràyant Hamzà sometimes you are single because you want to be single. Myself, i date women and dont find the need to be attached.
@ibrahimovich1617
@ibrahimovich1617 6 жыл бұрын
jose palacios yeah that’s a good point but in my case I’m looking because I don’t believe in randomness haha
@im1who84u
@im1who84u 6 жыл бұрын
And the reason I want a girlfriend and all the drama that comes with it, risk losing half or all my stuff, risk being falsely accused of rape, possible loss of my job over her false and vindictive accusations, possibly do jail time over it, spending MY money on things SHE wants while she complains I am not spending enough of my money on her even though she has her own job, her own money, claims to be independent, doesn't need a man, secretly hates all men and considers all men to be toxic, to be her “pack mule” through life to support an unrealistic unsustainable life style she has seen on television or has read about in some femanazi magazine, and finally just dumps you after sucking your bank account dry and then monkey branches to her next victim that has more money than you. ................ is because? Please tell me again why I want to be in a relationship. I keep forgetting. I can hire someone to clean and cook for me, and on those nights I get lonely I can pay for companionship to someone who at least pretends to like me and I still come out way ahead financially.
@iRusiko
@iRusiko 5 жыл бұрын
@@im1who84u I dunno. Looks like it's incredibly hard to find person, with whom you will feel great. With whom you can share anything and who will support you etc. Who will be just right for you. Some people are lucky at it, but they are still kinda rare.
@breakdancerQ
@breakdancerQ 5 жыл бұрын
​@@im1who84u Umm I mean there are good girls too.
@kennithbrown4036
@kennithbrown4036 6 жыл бұрын
Mama always said be yourself boy never let a girl/woman dictate who you are cause I never raised no queer I love and miss my mom
@Adi_SH_007
@Adi_SH_007 5 жыл бұрын
She was right.
@memeagain4106
@memeagain4106 5 жыл бұрын
respect brudda!
@FranG1214
@FranG1214 5 жыл бұрын
Your mom was a wise woman, and old school, because she'd be in trouble now saying things like "queer" in this looney tune society we find ourselves in today.
@memeagain4106
@memeagain4106 5 жыл бұрын
@@hafniafc fuck of the Internet.. white boy
@richardlester4670
@richardlester4670 5 жыл бұрын
Kennith Brown lol right on bro. When a momma installs great value inside it is something that last a lifetime.
@lucasrabelo7367
@lucasrabelo7367 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is so good, not just someone that do this for fun. I can tell he does his research to understand this topic
@JackKwaak
@JackKwaak 2 жыл бұрын
There are two missions mentioned in here. They are priceless. The goal is to overcome anxiety. I’m going to do these things. Not just to improve myself, but to see if they work.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 2 жыл бұрын
Let us know how it goes, man! Feel free to check our latest videos, because we have some tips on managing anxiety and frustrations when it comes to social intereactions, too.
@JackKwaak
@JackKwaak 2 жыл бұрын
@@Theattractiveman yesterday, I went to a fall festival. I complimented mostly men for the hard work they put into designing the festival and setting up booths. We started chatting about the silly mistakes they made during. We had huge laughs. Because I made it around the room people started noticing no matter where I was at everyone enjoyed my company. Soon random strangers introduced themselves to me for “no apparent reason”. It felt good. Thanks Matt. I’ll post more later.
@stanfordtonnychikowore3807
@stanfordtonnychikowore3807 Жыл бұрын
Did it work
@chapdattext3167
@chapdattext3167 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I often overthink when I say the wrong things. Thanks for pointing this out, definitely gave me the courage to not give a damn whenever I stutter or accidentally say the wrong words
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 4 жыл бұрын
Glad to help. Remember, your mind is powerful, and it can help you, OR it can hold you back.
@rishi_uppal
@rishi_uppal Жыл бұрын
1. Before approaching women to talk to them remember everything will be fine even if some little slip up happen during conversation. If it happens, forget it and carry on your conversation. Or if you get embarrassed or even rejected. Those little slip ups will get better by practice. Every interaction will act as a practice and this practice will make you stronger every time and next interaction will be better because of knowledge of experience and build up of social muscle. Therefore forget about the temporary inconveniences which will act as learning lessons and confidence boosters. Remain calm, comfortable and relaxed with women. As a result women would also be calm and comfortable in your presence and they will open up more to you. Don't fidget. Don't speak quickly to impress her. Take your time to think before speaking and make her wait while you think. She'll be curious to know what you'll say next. 2. Before approaching a woman remind yourself that I don't have to prove myself or my worth to anyone. You have approved yourself and you do not need to seek her approval. You do not need to impress her by you. Why you need to prove her? Do you even like her or her personality or her qualities or characteristics. Ask yourself why you should like her. First conversation is only for testing waters to know what kind of personality, mindset and attributes she has as a woman and person and what is her behaviour towards you? You do not need even to prove yourself as a high value or a funny or an intelligent person. First conversation is to know the standard of that women. And if a woman like you then she will also put some effort to continue the conversation even if she do not know how to make a conversation. Do not say sorry unless you make a grave mistake. You do not need to explain yourself or your behaviour or your actions to her. It is not required. It shows your confident in yourself. Remember they also have to prove themselves to you that they are women of high value or status or worth or interesting. 3. In first conversation your Motto should be having some fun and spending a good time with her. Ask her name. Remember it and speak it in conversation. Give compliment to her. Talk to her either emotional side or funny side. Not logical side. Just make her feel good or make her feel feminine by holding your masculine frame. Do not be afraid to show your unique personality and identity to her. Keep the first conversation light and easy. Don't stress yourself that you have to prove yourself and win her. Remember she's is human and very similar to us. She's is just one chromosome different from you. Do not have a judgemental attitude. Do not expect too much in the first conversation. Your can play thumb wrestling or slapping hands game with her. 4. Remember each conversation or interaction is investment in itself which gives knowledge and experience for lifelong. It builds your social muscle. It teach you something new every time and build your confidence for the next and interaction and give you long term benefits. 5. Do not use to many filters like comedy filter or intelligent filter or politically correct filter. If you use too much filters then you will have nothing to stay stay. Stop thinking about what she she will think. Don't be on good behavior mode. And neither be in formal conversations mode. Just be yourself and say what you want to say and do not think about what her reaction will be. Speak your mind and do not give you fuck what anybody else think. Keep new relationship in perspective but also be willing to walk away if it is required. 6. Remember you do not need anything from her. You fulfill all your needs by yourself which are food clothing and shelter. Remember you may want a woman but you never need her. 7. See her and her personalty, her attributes and characteristics, her behavior and mindset, how she talks and how she is as a person. Let's see if she is worth your time. Life is short and time is valuable. Fill it with people who fulfill your standards. Let her impress you and prove that she is worth your time. Do not give your all of you to her because we do not a value those things which are easily available to us and we don't require any offer to gain it. Girls like it more when they have to put effort to prove themselves to win a guy, to impress him or to seduce him. They do not want a guy who just throw himself freely to her and give her everything she wants.
@redx1668
@redx1668 3 жыл бұрын
I believe the giving-value part is very very true as it’s also mentioned by one of the greatest books of all time “How To Win Friends And Influence People”. Thanks for your work man
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! That's the truth, man, and more people should realize that.
@humblewolf2474
@humblewolf2474 6 жыл бұрын
Attraction will never be logical
@humblewolf2474
@humblewolf2474 6 жыл бұрын
Check out my KZbin page videos
@jonross8925
@jonross8925 6 жыл бұрын
HumbleWolf ,., i think that's something Spock would say.
@wetstoffels3198
@wetstoffels3198 6 жыл бұрын
Attraction is totally logical. Women like men who are facially good looking and tall.
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
@@wetstoffels3198 Red Pilled brother preachin'.... savin me the trouble lol
@beejay6246
@beejay6246 5 жыл бұрын
@@wetstoffels3198 true
@Shawnstradamus
@Shawnstradamus 5 жыл бұрын
Tip # 1 is super important in job interviews too. A lot of these are. I like it, good work.
@LeviHeatonIII
@LeviHeatonIII 6 жыл бұрын
Bruh, who wrote this script? This is such an important life lesson. Not in the way it changes a boy to a man in a women's eyes, but how it pertained to the entirety of life. Once a boy learns that he does not and never did need to prove himself to anyone else and the only opinion that matters is his own, when he realizes this and accepts it into his self-conscious that is when a boy becomes a man.
@JosePena-lk1gq
@JosePena-lk1gq 5 жыл бұрын
That's so true.I wish I've known all of these many years ago.Life is really short and we shouldn't be wasting our time trying to convince others about our values or point of view.That is not gonna happen.
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't have all the answers always but even I knew early on that looks n race matter. I have years of experience approaching women, making them laugh, getting numbers, watching other guys...but learning science too and careful reflection really nailed it and I'm alarmed how many clueless guys are on this. Most men/women find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity. 1 source: Biologist Randy Thornhill (University of New Mexico) studying faces for 15 years. “Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…” Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners “…because of the way that the sexual system in humans works, women are choosey.” Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” 1 source: www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking. (1 Source: OKC stats). Studies show attractive people hired sooner, get promotions more quickly, and are paid more. 1 Source: businessinsider.com/attractive-people-are-more-successful-2012-9 If personality can override looks/race: Why guys (including guys I know) who’ve never had the confidence to approach a girl, get treated like they’re confident/interesting (the Halo effect) get hit on and laid, even if they have modest anger or personality disorders, or are a criminal like Jeremy Meeks who had MANY random girls who saw his MUGSHOT offer to pay his bail to get “raped” by him, while ugly guys (some that I know) who have more confidence/character than all guys mentioned in this paragraph, get treated as invisible or as unconfident/uncool and are friendzoned? THEN many of them may get personality problems. There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly guy go in person to young/fit girls of different races or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this for now: What REALLY Attracts Women: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fRe4CGhtSqbaM
@alanovski.
@alanovski. 5 жыл бұрын
This is actually bomb-ass wholesome advice, no toxic shit at all!!!
@dmitrov6464
@dmitrov6464 5 жыл бұрын
*Self-esteem has left the chat*
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment!
@bobcat24
@bobcat24 4 жыл бұрын
The Attractive Man 😂 WTF?!
@adonisgadiel4138
@adonisgadiel4138 4 жыл бұрын
Robot?
@jackrusso2182
@jackrusso2182 3 жыл бұрын
I think this is the only video on you tube that focuses on men's' self esteem. Most videos tell you to be fake , be gentleman , smile blah blah blah , but at the end you realize you don't need to change yourself for anybody. Awesome video
@emersonsrandomvideos248
@emersonsrandomvideos248 5 жыл бұрын
Mindset #0 Stop overthinking about all these 7 mindsets. 😁
@danielguevara7234
@danielguevara7234 5 жыл бұрын
Its always a delicate balance, you gotta think it enough and time it but too much will ruin them and you learn them incorrectly
@13reasonswhyfanlmao19
@13reasonswhyfanlmao19 4 жыл бұрын
@marconuts well actually not all women will be attracted to people’s wealthy ness, so you just need to be yourself, and no one should tell you what to do, I have a crush on this girl it’s actually been very long like 9 years now any someone told me that she’s a quote on quote lesbo so I got a bit sad started throwing up and full out crying outside and then she saw me and she came and started to talk with me and I ran as fast as I could any she started to cry and I felt so bad I cried with her and now I’m a sad thing is I love her and said it to her nakupenda that’s I love you in Swahili
@13reasonswhyfanlmao19
@13reasonswhyfanlmao19 4 жыл бұрын
Edit: I* Anyway* Anyway*
@keyboardevangelist
@keyboardevangelist 3 жыл бұрын
History is his story kzbin.info/aero/PL-1aBiq55KozseHgJCr-5jgD9m1Lgn4Bo
@eduardorodriguez550
@eduardorodriguez550 6 жыл бұрын
Not doing anything got my wife's attention, she said she knew I was the one when she saw me all while this fool just walked around. been married 9yrs now. Just be you
@acharich
@acharich 6 жыл бұрын
Dang..
@Valhalla_Heathen
@Valhalla_Heathen 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly my friend and congrats!
@chuckwaardenburg496
@chuckwaardenburg496 5 жыл бұрын
So why the F you on here then?
@keyboardevangelist
@keyboardevangelist 3 жыл бұрын
Eternal life in heaven is a free gift from God. No human being deserves it due to his/her good works. We have all sinned and fall short in glory of God(eg.Jesus says if any man looks at woman with lust he has committed adulterly with her in his heart..No man is that pure😅). So how did God give us this free gift🤔? He sent his only begotten son to be betrayed,humiliated ,beaten and die as fine/payment for our sins and rose from the dead on the third day. Since he is a just God and has to punish sin. All you have to do is humbly repent of all your sins(read the 10 commandments) honestly turn away from them. Believe in/trust that Jesus did that for you. Confess with your mouth that he is your lord and saviour..You will be saved from hell🔥. The holyspirit(his omnipresent spirit) will in dwell within you and convert your cold heart of stone into that of flesh that can truly love God and be a slave of righteousness and not of sin. This might be the last time you read the true gospel of salvation..look around 🔥🔥 the end is nigh. Please don't reject God's gift. Your soul is on the line.Jesus loves you❤
@RockyTheDog
@RockyTheDog 3 жыл бұрын
@@keyboardevangelist no.
@Al_Dee
@Al_Dee 6 жыл бұрын
The style of this vid is more organic than usual. I dig it
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment
@stevenpavia3647
@stevenpavia3647 6 жыл бұрын
THAT was the most succinct and valuable video I’ve watched yet!
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Steven! I totally appreciate the support!
@SuperQdaddy
@SuperQdaddy 6 жыл бұрын
I know my worth..but finding someone who's worth my time is the problem. .lol
@farishope6540
@farishope6540 4 жыл бұрын
@@HighSpeedNoDrag If you don't appreciate yourself from inside, the whole world admiration is not gonna help.
@HighSpeedNoDrag
@HighSpeedNoDrag 4 жыл бұрын
@@farishope6540 True perhaps, Thanks.
@farishope6540
@farishope6540 4 жыл бұрын
@@HighSpeedNoDrag you are welcome.
@libertylovinglibertarian2528
@libertylovinglibertarian2528 6 жыл бұрын
I can tell this brother knows what he's talking about, everything he said makes perfect sense.
@projectmarzanna3658
@projectmarzanna3658 6 жыл бұрын
Guys if you take the time to consider why you like a girl (aside from the way she looks) and take note of her genuinely good traits and remind her of those thing when you tell her your attracted to her. Yeah girls find it flattering to be told we are pretty, but the guy I went home with is the one who said he was attracted to my jokes. It is so flattering to be told that you are attractive for something inherent in your personality. And makes her feel like she won the cute guy with her witty jokes, or her generous nature, or intelligence. If she feels like you only care about her looks why would she bother to prove her personality to you.
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
guys n girls are attracted mostly to looks. personality maybe helps for long term. should we lie? also: This video: 7 made up easy answers, wishful thinking, with 0 guarantees, that rarely work for ugly nobodies wanting decent looking girls, except for maybe more/less friendship. but I'll likely get blamed for failing cause of my "negative" (realistic) attitude (After trying wishful thinking like this). Reality: Most men/women find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity, but women ALSO want other things. 1 source: Biologist Randy Thornhill (University of New Mexico) studying faces for 15 years. “Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…” Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners “…because of the way that the sexual system in humans works, women are choosey.” Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e Studies show attractive people hired sooner, get promotions more quickly, and are paid more. Source: businessinsider.com/attractive-people-are-more-successful-2012-9 If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person to young/fit girls of different races or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fRe4CGhtSqbaM
@ssemwangaashiraf466
@ssemwangaashiraf466 5 жыл бұрын
Project Marzanna hello
@danielguevara7234
@danielguevara7234 5 жыл бұрын
Correct but here are the other variables. Even if we are atracted to a girl for her personality, the incorrect mindset can ruin the whole thing. Lets say I like this girl for her jokes, I tried my best to impress her and failed to be my true self which ends up coming as boring. The incorrect mindsets are destroying my chances with this person, which is the point of the whole video. Its not about which reason we have for liking someone but how we can have a chance with that someone. I like your point
@legallystupid9875
@legallystupid9875 4 жыл бұрын
Yup, this guy gets it.
@amazingchee
@amazingchee 5 жыл бұрын
Hell yea that's right man! I'm glad I came back to review this video. Just started talking to this girl and I'm very thankful for the tips. LIFE IS SHORT is the key point. I don't want to waste time with a girl who doesn't value my time.
@bahjiabdeslam
@bahjiabdeslam 5 жыл бұрын
Very intersting , and i think that BEING YOURSELF without any needy attitude will be OK.
@shrimpysquad5821
@shrimpysquad5821 6 жыл бұрын
Let loose, unfilter yourself, see about it being worth YOUR time and don't withold limiting beliefs and everything will be just fine have got to be pinpoint accurate ideas that will get any begginner out of his/her comfort zone or just in the right place for staying cool calm and collected and winning and giving at the very least. Thanks again The Attractive Man!
@cococo1010
@cococo1010 6 жыл бұрын
Its weird how sometimes I feel confident AF and able to dominate conversations and get girls. But other days I just feel awkward and insecure. Literally one day I feel confident and the otherone i feel weird. Wish I was constantly confident!
@luisgonzales3724
@luisgonzales3724 6 жыл бұрын
Same that happen to me
@ziggytonumaa
@ziggytonumaa 5 жыл бұрын
you were just hungry! get a plate of smth nice!
@jimmychen907
@jimmychen907 6 жыл бұрын
It's similar to what you've already mentioned about the value of time, but being a man with a passion is attractive. Showing a girl that you are passionate for what you are doing, which shows her that you don't need her to give you completion in life because you already have that. Rather you want her in your life to enhance it.
@thereshopeforhealing
@thereshopeforhealing 6 жыл бұрын
Just added 7 new things to my daily meditations, you rock Matt, thanks man!
@maurodipinto2558
@maurodipinto2558 5 жыл бұрын
"I am handsome" and "Fear is beautiful! It is a sign that I am growing.." seem to be good ones to me.
@baljindersinghsidhu3959
@baljindersinghsidhu3959 6 жыл бұрын
This video really boosted my confidence.. thanks pal.👌🏻💣💥💥
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for watching!
@alexwilkinson9010
@alexwilkinson9010 6 жыл бұрын
Did it work, just want to know if I am wasting my time by watching this and not deadpool 2 again
@scottherf
@scottherf 6 жыл бұрын
That's value right there!
@sanjeevsharma4191
@sanjeevsharma4191 5 жыл бұрын
Great! I appreciate your sense of humor. ☺️
@Adi_SH_007
@Adi_SH_007 5 жыл бұрын
Baljinder sindhu. Sardar g koi phassi k nae? K haalay ve charraye phiran dae ho...😁
@linfeng3148
@linfeng3148 5 жыл бұрын
Damn. The last one really blow my mine is worth it to watch till last one good job man.
@Riux1000
@Riux1000 5 жыл бұрын
This is powerful: Having in mind women are people!
@Whoopsie_woggzy
@Whoopsie_woggzy 5 жыл бұрын
be the one who shows they care FIRST! be the one who's more emotionally OPENED up and and vulnerable BEFORE they decide to, THIS is the "chore" all of us want see OTHERS do bc then we're more inclined to follow.
@YarinTamam
@YarinTamam 6 жыл бұрын
starts at 2:05
@blazebeats9420
@blazebeats9420 6 жыл бұрын
yarin tamam starts at 7:6suckmycokk77
@fazalhazh3511
@fazalhazh3511 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@elshindorevalis8998
@elshindorevalis8998 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my~~this is a great way for stress relief. I mean about the part where he said about "Putting too much work, and it doesn't even Work"! That constantly reminded me of my friends here, who is always trying to impress girls, but it never works at all! (This just absolutely nailed the truth! But probably is going to offend a lot of dating experts who depend their life on teaching these kinds of techniques)
@ChordsForU
@ChordsForU 6 жыл бұрын
My ex chick told me after we started dating that she thought I was out of her league and that she really found me attractive before we started dating. we kissed a couple of times before we became exclusive and I'd never acknowledge it afterwards and pretended it didn't happen. the script has flipped kinda now, we broke up and we argued and she's blocked me and stuff and now its been me wanting the validation
@matt4787
@matt4787 6 жыл бұрын
Same shit with me. I only had one slip up with texted her and interacting with her over a month after the breakup. But since then nothing. I know the showing value is not really what this video is about but I do think improving yourself goes a long ways towards confidence (duh).
@ChordsForU
@ChordsForU 6 жыл бұрын
matt4787 for sure dude, you need to be happy with yourself before anyone else is going to be happy with you. Keep looking on the positive and I'm sure something will work out man! I got in contact with my ex last week and she said we can't be real friends again but we can start to hang out in groups together again which I found weird but it's a step dude!
@nandomorales43
@nandomorales43 6 жыл бұрын
Ryan Daniel you going to hurt yourself hanging out w your ex man
@ChordsForU
@ChordsForU 6 жыл бұрын
La_gall3ta we were so good together I just don't understand it, maybe she just wanted to try something new? I don't know.
@Lalo6169
@Lalo6169 6 жыл бұрын
Ryan Daniel think about it how are you going to feel when she starts bragging about her boy toy she's screwing... it's better to stay away Remember rejection breaths obsession... scarcity breaths value... show her you have change and move on.. start dating other woman... she's not the only one there's someone way better than her" keep your mind about abundance " always keep in mind it's her loss and not yours... she will see in the long run you weren't playing and will flock back in your orbit once again and u will smash her again but don't bring up relationship talk or anything regarding that... just have fun" hang out have fun hook up
@SG.Stretch
@SG.Stretch 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be shy and timid when it came to girls but now I have all these mindsets and it feels like every girl notices me
@ashleylemmer8016
@ashleylemmer8016 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, I have used many of these both with dating and with people in general. Learnt a few more watching this. Thanks.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@ClubHead
@ClubHead 5 жыл бұрын
I been saying this for years be confident.I ignore woman it works for me but I just be myself.😂
@9idrox448
@9idrox448 4 жыл бұрын
Bro I just used some of your steps today after being abandoned by a girl I planned to go on a date with. Shit work like fire. Even by text messages lol.
@Anonymouscommentor99
@Anonymouscommentor99 6 жыл бұрын
Smart, positive, intelligent advice. Much Better then the hackery that plagues KZbin on these subjects. Well done.
@v.daskalakis8370
@v.daskalakis8370 5 жыл бұрын
Every man must watch this video. and i mean everyone...
@fahadsparta8640
@fahadsparta8640 3 жыл бұрын
For sure men its so so true I have just tried it on my friend's girlfriend and she loved me immediately
@Rodtheartist
@Rodtheartist 6 жыл бұрын
I like what you’re saying dude, but the one thing you’re not bring it up is what league are you playing in? In the game of life we have different teams and different leagues. It’s based on ability, Age, appearances and standard of living. Just go on Tinder, look at the women who you’ll find attractive, separate them from the ones who get their hands dirty versus the ones that won’t. What do I mean by that? I think you’ll start seeing the different leagues.
@danielguevara7234
@danielguevara7234 5 жыл бұрын
Well tinder is a diferent kind of game man. Women can't meet you personaly, so they will swipe left if your photo doesn't appeal to them and you must employ tactics like the numbee of photo, what your bios says about you and what can of photo are you displaying
@Dregandice
@Dregandice 5 жыл бұрын
Yup in the real world there is no leagues I'm 38 gotten 25 year olds not even trying to lol
@DreamBeatsBakery
@DreamBeatsBakery 5 жыл бұрын
Tinder is a business. Women have a field day with it and men remain unseen by the large majority. They try to get you to buy tinder gold but it's really just them trying to get your money. They don't benefit from you meeting women on there but it works sometimes otherwise everyone would stop using it. But don't take it seriously and don't reflect on your person from your success on tinder or lack thereof.
@westonmook7280
@westonmook7280 3 жыл бұрын
Number four is HHHUUGGE! Don't get yourself in an emotional rut! Matt's video also has a deep philosophical point; often times people view the achievement of a goal as, "the ultimate." When in reality, it's about the journey!! Are you better than you where yesterday! Don't ask, "Why am I not as ripped as the Rock? Or as pretty as Brad Pitt?" Ask, "How did I improve myself today?" And, "How will my reflection and experience from the past improve ME next time?" Love the vid man.
@jakejordan4551
@jakejordan4551 3 жыл бұрын
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@jakejordan4551
@jakejordan4551 3 жыл бұрын
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@jakejordan4551
@jakejordan4551 3 жыл бұрын
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@emisvideos6695
@emisvideos6695 6 жыл бұрын
Great video man .. You're so awesome 💪 .. I wish that I could meet you
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment
@jackwalker1822
@jackwalker1822 3 жыл бұрын
I have watched hundreds of dating advice for men, from both male and female "experts." Most of them just didn't sink in. This video really made the light bulb go off in my head! Finally. Already seeing positive results of applying this.
@alexortega714
@alexortega714 3 жыл бұрын
I agree this guy is the real deal , him and Jad T Jones those are the only 2 I believe
@jackwalker1822
@jackwalker1822 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexortega714 One of the main strategies I am now using is that I don't have to explain myself or any decisions I have made to anyone. I decided it and that is it. Or this is the way I have decided to be and I don't owe anyone an explanation.
@FinalPhaseGaming
@FinalPhaseGaming 5 жыл бұрын
You have helped me advance to the next level. Thank you - excellent. Hey Matt. What are your thoughts on mirroring a woman’s behaviour to make them feel safe ? I tried to do so and it completely failed. It was other advice I had received from a dating coach. It didn’t work this time but it also conflicts with the Mindset #3 of saying whatever I want. Your thoughts? Also, have you thought about removing swearing and such so your videos could be shown in educational environments such as schools to help young men? Just an idea. Love your work - I’m basically watching this video until I can recite all seven mindsets without looking at my notes.
@DaveDaveydo
@DaveDaveydo 6 жыл бұрын
ok I've watched 4 or 5 of ur videos n subscribed, not cuz I'm clueless with women. rather I'm extremely successful with meeting women, but the reason I am is because I'm always willing to listen n learn.
@songsofthecentury3909
@songsofthecentury3909 4 жыл бұрын
You should not fall in love or put a woman on a pedestal when you haven't even slept with her.
@KayNovember26
@KayNovember26 3 жыл бұрын
So, you shouldn't admire or hold a woman to high standards until she actually sleeps with you??? You need to get over yourself! Maybe you're not a quality guy yourself and just wants to get laid... A classy girl will spot you a mile away.
@FireFun63
@FireFun63 3 жыл бұрын
What about Muslims and Christians ?
@QuadraAce
@QuadraAce 3 жыл бұрын
@@KayNovember26 That's not what he said or implied. Learn to read.
@QuadraAce
@QuadraAce 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, you should not do it either before nor after tho
@sportriot7440
@sportriot7440 3 жыл бұрын
@@KayNovember26 Namaste
@mrandersong1
@mrandersong1 5 жыл бұрын
Love who u are and u will attract woman. Relational chemistry and context along with a man who is secure in himself can get so many woman. Looks don’t matter that much!
@theunknownwind5094
@theunknownwind5094 6 жыл бұрын
So happy that I found you and your channel Matt. You are the best dating coach ever!
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
thanks man!
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
Be careful. all he did here was: 7 made up easy answers, wishful thinking, with 0 guarantees, that rarely work for ugly nobodies wanting decent looking girls, except for maybe more/less friendship. but I'll likely get blamed for failing cause of my "negative" (realistic) attitude (After trying wishful thinking like this). Reality: Most men/women find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity, but women ALSO want other things. 1 source: Biologist Randy Thornhill (University of New Mexico) studying faces for 15 years. “Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…” Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners “…because of the way that the sexual system in humans works, women are choosey.” Many women offer sex to (attractive) criminals they never met & offer to pay their bail to “get raped” by them (Example: Jeremy Meeks, who then became a male model) while many ugly guys with better character, confidence etc. are dismissed based on looks & judged as having less character/confidence, etc. (the Halo effect) & usually, they THEN eventually have less confidence and/or personality. Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking: Source: theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e Studies show attractive people hired sooner, get promotions more quickly, and are paid more. Source: businessinsider.com/attractive-people-are-more-successful-2012-9 If personality can override looks/race: There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly/skinny Indian or Arab go in person to young/fit girls of different races or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this: AMAZING Secrets: What REALLY Attracts Women: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fRe4CGhtSqbaM
@alsimmons1650
@alsimmons1650 3 жыл бұрын
Proving high value is something within.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 3 жыл бұрын
That's why its a mindset. You can fake actions all you want, but if your mindset is broken and false, then it won't amount to anything.
@cudreeti
@cudreeti 6 жыл бұрын
Is finding a girl this hard? I’m not Brad Pitt but my God. Could you imagine if you went over all these points before going into a bar. Compliments. Names. Laughing. Having fun. Games. Breathing. Heart beat. Is this not know? I mean. Maybe it’s not. Which is puzzling.
@puialusei9374
@puialusei9374 5 жыл бұрын
Silent and physical impression works every time. It's just hard to fake it.
@SayMyName383
@SayMyName383 6 жыл бұрын
Alright, so I'm in class and I notice two girls want me. How do I get the both of them?
@b100dr4g3
@b100dr4g3 5 жыл бұрын
This dude gives the most genuine and complete advice. This is coming from someone in a 3 year relationship lol
@kurtcobain3426
@kurtcobain3426 6 жыл бұрын
I approve.
@hot-bloodedmartialartist3900
@hot-bloodedmartialartist3900 6 жыл бұрын
You don't talk to girls. You talk to shotgun barrels.
@brandonbreaker7390
@brandonbreaker7390 6 жыл бұрын
Thoreanus Odinimus no you don't know anything sport
@brandonbreaker7390
@brandonbreaker7390 6 жыл бұрын
Thoreanus Odinimus watch your mouth man and mind your business
@brandonbreaker7390
@brandonbreaker7390 6 жыл бұрын
Thoreanus Odinimus mind your tounge ..im not a nice guy
@brandonbreaker7390
@brandonbreaker7390 6 жыл бұрын
Thoreanus Odinimus you would not speak to me like that in person.. I suggest you log off you're not welcome here
@callamontelongo7076
@callamontelongo7076 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice. It really comes from just being yourself and emotionally available with that
@dadgarmohajer
@dadgarmohajer 5 жыл бұрын
The only mindset you have to followed is: Stop being the nice guy.
@nirvananaidoo8780
@nirvananaidoo8780 5 жыл бұрын
"the nice guy" who is really a troll is the worst sort of guy.
@manofgod7622
@manofgod7622 5 жыл бұрын
Nice guy make you extremly idiot, But Gentleman make you extremly HOT.
@keyboardevangelist
@keyboardevangelist 3 жыл бұрын
The good news has once again come to you today. You can inherit the kingdom of God even if you are a sinner.. after all we are all sinners in God's standards of justice and holyness (he says that if a man looks at a woman with lust he has already committed adulterly with her in his heart NO MAN IS THAT PURE😅).....All you have to do is to honestly humbly pray repent turn away from sins (read the10 commandments) and trust that Jesus for his love❤❤ for you he left his throne in heaven and came to the world he was humbled humiliated betrayed beaten and killed for your sake to pay the fine of your sins and mine so that we won't spend our eternity in hell but with him in heaven...this might be the last time you read the gospel...Look around🔥🔥 be smart..the end is nigh🔥 ..He is coming back soooon not as the sacrificed lamb of God🐑..but as King of Kings🤴 the judge of the whole world..Your soul is on the line😭😭. Eternity is a long time.
@thabisomlambo8108
@thabisomlambo8108 6 жыл бұрын
This giving and expecting thing once hit me and it does. A girl used me for her own academic purpose I was helping her too much in school work I never got her. I still do. Thank you for showing me the way. Now I will never help anyone. Ever! And I realized that women run away from you when you start failing.
@J0k3r4U
@J0k3r4U 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@nurtalib3682
@nurtalib3682 6 жыл бұрын
Any girl out here to try those mindsets on😉😉???
@raiford5082
@raiford5082 6 жыл бұрын
Nur Talib why bother? You can literally just smile and wave and most men won't even care. Sad but true
@FrogEnjoyer17
@FrogEnjoyer17 6 жыл бұрын
Rasheed Edwards On what planet do you live? Every. Single. Man in the world appreciates getting noticed by any girl. But if they are too insecure to then go up to you, it's their fault. But you could still make the first step, which is not just waving
@songsofthecentury3909
@songsofthecentury3909 4 жыл бұрын
Great video. Invest in yourself & cut all Toxic People out of your life.
@Bansilaal1613
@Bansilaal1613 6 жыл бұрын
Two words. "Simply awesome"
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@yusefforeroosman8134
@yusefforeroosman8134 5 жыл бұрын
Low expectations and also the “I know what i want so leave it or take it” Also ignoring them and don’t answer all her questions is an indiferent mindset ,which works sometimes
@Crabernacker
@Crabernacker 5 жыл бұрын
No mostly pisses us off really unless we are just desperate for any person if that what youre going for then go ahead
@gawainx5703
@gawainx5703 5 жыл бұрын
Guys...heres a tip. Be confident and dont try to change yourself for her. And work out cause it boosts confidence. And meditate on how great you are.... be slightly arrogant
@JoelManers
@JoelManers 5 жыл бұрын
Good advice. Women don’t love riches so much as they love a guy who has financial independence. The guy who knows where he’s going what he’s doing with his life and has the means to get there, is very attractive. Most guys don’t know the difference between riches in financial independence. When a guy repeatedly wastes his riches on a girl instead of impressing her with financial independence, it actually turns her off.
@initiatorhater0688
@initiatorhater0688 6 жыл бұрын
I like to feel that its only men who need to know how to attract women, not the other way around
@SamuraiShizuo
@SamuraiShizuo 6 жыл бұрын
Not true, lol.
@initiatorhater0688
@initiatorhater0688 6 жыл бұрын
how? doesn't make sense to me, how is it so when women don't have to initiate anything?
@SamuraiShizuo
@SamuraiShizuo 6 жыл бұрын
Well, not all women are conventionally attractive aka they don't get hit on. I always initiate everything and people turn me down. But straight guys think it's only their problem, while it's a human problem.
@initiatorhater0688
@initiatorhater0688 6 жыл бұрын
well have you ever heard of a woman who has reached 30 without ever having had a boyfriend before? no you haven't, I doubt it, but i'm sure you can think of tons of guys who have reached 30 without ever having had a girlfriend before
@SamuraiShizuo
@SamuraiShizuo 6 жыл бұрын
I can't think of either of those examples. Stop making generalized assumptions about my life and my social circle. You think that only men can be virgins in their adulthood and women are automatic dick magnets and will reject any perspective that's different. If you only surround yourself with other male virgins, living in a bubble of like minded, self-victimizing people, you will fail to notice that women can be in the same situation too. Not so long ago I typed "never had a boyfriend" into the youtube search bar and there are a lot of videos of adult women saying there were never in a relationship. If you go to the comments of any of these videos you'll see a ton of women listing their ages (anything from 16 to 40) claiming they had never even been kissed. Open your eyes. Loneliness is NOT just a straight male problem. I'm 20 and I have female friends my age and 5 years older with no romantic/sexual experience. I also have a male friend who just came out as gay who's also 20 and doesn't have any experience.
@likeawsomeness4089
@likeawsomeness4089 4 жыл бұрын
Be happy and value yourself.
@KayNovember26
@KayNovember26 3 жыл бұрын
Be the best version of YOU! Keep healthy, keep in shape and be confident. If you look good, you'll feel good!
@RadoGG
@RadoGG 6 жыл бұрын
I dont know who you are, I dont know what you're doing, this is the very first video I watched on your channel --> insta subscribed
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Rado G thanks man!
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't have all the answers always but even I knew early on that looks n race matter. I have years of experience approaching women, making them laugh, getting numbers, watching other guys...but learning science too and careful reflection really nailed it and I'm alarmed how many clueless guys are on this. Most men/women find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity. 1 source: Biologist Randy Thornhill (University of New Mexico) studying faces for 15 years. “Both men and women rated symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive and in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…” Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners “…because of the way that the sexual system in humans works, women are choosey.” Women pretend looks don’t matter but dismiss below average looking men regardless of personality, many studies confirm. Example: livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html “Women Becoming Obese At Faster Rates Than Men” 1 source: www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-lazar/us-women-becoming-obese-a_b_10431802.html AND somehow: Men rate 50% of women below average looking, women rate 80% of men below average looking. (1 Source: OKC stats). Studies show attractive people hired sooner, get promotions more quickly, and are paid more. 1 Source: businessinsider.com/attractive-people-are-more-successful-2012-9 If personality can override looks/race: Why guys (including guys I know) who’ve never had the confidence to approach a girl, get treated like they’re confident/interesting (the Halo effect) get hit on and laid, even if they have modest anger or personality disorders, or are a criminal like Jeremy Meeks who had MANY random girls who saw his MUGSHOT offer to pay his bail to get “raped” by him, while ugly guys (some that I know) who have more confidence/character than all guys mentioned in this paragraph, get treated as invisible or as unconfident/uncool and are friendzoned? THEN many of them may get personality problems. There’s exceptions to every rule, especially if you’ve $ or status or the girl isn’t too outta your league etc. So rather than claim some minority of cases where “ugly” guys get “hot” girls, have an ugly guy go in person to young/fit girls of different races or make a profile & see what % of girls flirt, give their # & agree to date/kiss etc. Show the videos. Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, more/less in this order: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status. THEN there’s some subjective, side factors like her preferred race/fashion/personality/beliefs etc. I’ll be uploading insightful/fun videos on this topic in time. Sub n stay tuned, trust me. Or watch this for now: What REALLY Attracts Women: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fRe4CGhtSqbaM
@toneman335
@toneman335 5 жыл бұрын
Good point in this video that can be applied to other situations in life.
@bernardfoote633
@bernardfoote633 5 жыл бұрын
I love these videos and I need training.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 5 жыл бұрын
Visit our website and apply for our mentorship, man! We'd be glad to help you out.
@TheSk1tz
@TheSk1tz 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I basically became like this naturally just from living life and not havng a bunch of hopes or expectations when it comes to dating. Now I actually get approached by women a lot. Honestly, I think it's because of how things are changing for women and because they pick up on who you are when you live your life like this. I think a lot men put way too much pressure on themselves.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Most men fall into the trap of trying to please others too much.
@Len_J_
@Len_J_ 6 жыл бұрын
This is a great video but there is some confusion - there is a difference between chatting up women for one nighters, and finding a girl for a relationship. One nighters you are in “game” mode. That is when you need to follow a lot of this guy’s advice, plus you need money and most likely be into drugs a little bit. Think about it, what kind of girl just gives it up? Many don’t, no matter what you say. And as you get older girls are harder to find because they are much more likely to be in a relationship or seek a new long term mate not a one nighter as their clock is now ticking massively in their head! Generally for the long haul, that girl is one that stumbled into your life while being yourself.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue matt@theattractiveman.com
@Len_J_
@Len_J_ 6 жыл бұрын
The Attractive Man don’t get me wrong these a good videos I wasn’t trying to be overly critical but some of the advice here blurred it between the two types - chatting to a girl for fun and finding a long term partner
@Onestrangebrain
@Onestrangebrain 5 жыл бұрын
This is good advice, not just for women, but in general.
@lawrencevevo2045
@lawrencevevo2045 6 жыл бұрын
1:25 My Phone Yelled At Me Lmao😂
@janelajunguiana
@janelajunguiana 4 жыл бұрын
I am a woman who likes other women and I'm loving this
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Glad you like our content.
@isad625
@isad625 5 жыл бұрын
Matt sir you are adding so much values in us,thank you for your contribution 😊😊
@theevolutionofdatingwomen8414
@theevolutionofdatingwomen8414 4 жыл бұрын
Guys, you should never have to do things to get a woman attracted to you. If you're an overall attractive man, your mindset should be, "why should I choose this woman?" Never put more energy into the interaction than what she gives. Overall attractiveness means your Dominance, Status, and Game.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 4 жыл бұрын
Good point. Thanks for the comment!
@saidabounasr9381
@saidabounasr9381 6 жыл бұрын
Really those videos helps a lot, thx matt.
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@dethhead22
@dethhead22 6 жыл бұрын
Just clicked the vid to read the comments. Vid paused. Laughing at some of the comments. I'm single and will stay that way thank you.
@abdulsamadzakria9912
@abdulsamadzakria9912 6 жыл бұрын
The thing about Matt is that his concepts resonate with one's soul. Really helpful. slight query though, May i get detailed sources and references behind every one of these points? because by the time i go to the end of the video i have forgotten the prior ones and the details are limited.
@michaelgoldstein6834
@michaelgoldstein6834 6 жыл бұрын
Abdul Samad Zakria Try righting them down, then when the video is done and go to Google and research them. If you invest the time yourself and do that piece of work yourself you will commit all of these points to memory much more quickly and efficiently and having it handed to you
@abdulsamadzakria9912
@abdulsamadzakria9912 6 жыл бұрын
nae os sy b zyada aasan hay. apni maa lay aa.
@allcatsaregods2043
@allcatsaregods2043 5 жыл бұрын
Do this. Be yourself, keep making efforts to improve yourself and do it for you, move forward in a positive and productive fashion. Lose the Ego, hate and addiction, don't care about what anybody thinks, only what you think, you make you. You create your own reality, don't let others dictate it. Be connected to your highest self spiritually. Do all this and you will be unstoppable, unflappable and a legend in the making!!!
@chicolofi
@chicolofi 6 жыл бұрын
8 - A trully self confident man doesn't feel any need to have permanent drawings stamped on his skin. He knows true value lies inside and has no need for external symbols to be what he's not.
@gabhandebrun1871
@gabhandebrun1871 6 жыл бұрын
chicolofi Ye ok pal 🤔 that’s were your wrong you get it/them because you like it not because a bitch does.. it’s called Art 😁😱
@brokenbone6909
@brokenbone6909 6 жыл бұрын
Or maybe he is self confident enough to not give a fuck what people like you think. 🤔
@chicolofi
@chicolofi 6 жыл бұрын
What do you mean "people like me"? Am I a different type of human being?
@shady_the_one
@shady_the_one 6 жыл бұрын
@@gabhandebrun1871 honestly it's even worse with women, because they think we like it. If I see a Tattooed girls, for some reason, I think "Butch Ass Lesbo", or "Lady Dat Wanna B.A. Dude" or "Shoves Knifes in her Va-Jay-Jay, and katana swords up her ass" in which case, I stay away from all three. By American society's standards, I'm a intolerant asshole. By nature's standards, I'm a man with standards. By my standards, I'm who I should have been all this time, and should have no regrets about not liking Tattoos on girls. I can handle and understand guys with Tattoos. Girls with Tattoos? Morons or masochistic, in which case, she is probably fucked up. If I pissed off any Tattooed women, I INVITE A CHALLENGE!!! FITE(Fight) ME ON THIS!!! LET ME PROVE YOU WRONG!!!
@EinSofQuester
@EinSofQuester 5 жыл бұрын
I don't give a fuck what you think about tattoos. Go cry to your mommy about people's tattoos.
@pmacca4830
@pmacca4830 5 жыл бұрын
This lad knows his stuff...Great vid thanks for posting
@user-ub8uc8gq7r
@user-ub8uc8gq7r 6 жыл бұрын
Tip for having women chase you: Rule # 1 Dress in money.
@bobrew461
@bobrew461 6 жыл бұрын
idiot.
@harlemsilk7669
@harlemsilk7669 6 жыл бұрын
.... Or wear a fake bulge. These bitches don't know any better. You cannot go by what they like.
@acharich
@acharich 6 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀
@airplayrule
@airplayrule 5 жыл бұрын
@Glenn Webb i agree bob is probably a mangina, but i dunno how soy is bad lol.
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397
@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 5 жыл бұрын
You know women like men with money because it usually takes intelligence (confidence) to have and keep that money right?
@Celibatnik
@Celibatnik 5 жыл бұрын
Before I watched this I thought I didn't know what to do and it turned out I had the right mindsets all along.
@tommorris3035
@tommorris3035 6 жыл бұрын
Great video 💪👍🔥
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@Patrick-gb8dx
@Patrick-gb8dx 6 жыл бұрын
Dude, you’ve just described everything I’m not. I better sort my shit out
@widowmack2473
@widowmack2473 6 жыл бұрын
who whatches rsd max too
@ResovectScar
@ResovectScar 6 жыл бұрын
Widowmack RSD are all loosers
@peterspringbrunnen5123
@peterspringbrunnen5123 6 жыл бұрын
Manav Gupta's Channsl why?
@luisemilianogonzalezvinces3400
@luisemilianogonzalezvinces3400 6 жыл бұрын
Manav Gupta's Channsl not max, he is the best from RSD
@ResovectScar
@ResovectScar 6 жыл бұрын
Luis Emiliano González Vinces I used to watch max before, he's the king of fixing Approach Anxiety
@athanasiou99
@athanasiou99 6 жыл бұрын
As long as you dont approach women you can watch 1000000 videos on youtube. If you really wanna learn something about women and men watch Zan Perrion.
@all4180
@all4180 5 жыл бұрын
Not sure if you covered this exactly, but when you approach a woman, you should do it with the mindset that you just want to talk to her and have fun. If something more comes of it, so much the better. That keeps you relaxed and allows you to be yourself. Takes the pressure off.
@AJ-xv5xe
@AJ-xv5xe 6 жыл бұрын
9:58 wtf is that???
@slashsnake3544
@slashsnake3544 6 жыл бұрын
that had me dying
@Mrpoker-hr1ud
@Mrpoker-hr1ud 5 жыл бұрын
idk im only at 3:50 right now
@Mrpoker-hr1ud
@Mrpoker-hr1ud 5 жыл бұрын
hahah yea wtf
@timo5532
@timo5532 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a RN and 99% of coworkers female. So, inorder to have friends, have to deal with mostly married women. How do I do this. They seem to freak out when try to get close, like hitting on them, which only way I've ever known to talk to women, probably kind, yes, hitting on them. One girl best friends sort of with one girl years and no problem being friend. All others can't get to be friends. Do you know how to deal with this? Real road block in career for 24 years. Any referral's anywhere?
@Theattractiveman
@Theattractiveman 2 жыл бұрын
One question: How much do you care what others think of you that its already affecting your overall confidence and happiness?
@therailgun8880
@therailgun8880 5 жыл бұрын
"Say whatevers on your mind" That doesn't work when you're just a weeb.
@bobcat24
@bobcat24 4 жыл бұрын
Or when your dark mind is very warped. Like me.
@patobrien6364
@patobrien6364 6 жыл бұрын
Bang on the button I separated Took time & found my feet I'm now grounded have my own confidence I now don't give a f I am currently surrounded by 6 stunning women !! All who join ME at every opportunity I will never CHASE again My mindset is permanently altered
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