The ONLY WAY TO GET REVENGE ON YOUR NARCISSIST BORDERLINE - BPD NPD - WATCH ENTIRE VIDEO!

What is the ONLY way to get complete and total revenge on your narcissist or borderline abuser? You have to make them experience "Narcissistic Mortification" where they are forced to realize that they are not all powerful, perfect beings. There is only ONE way to do this. I share with you how to mortify the narcissist in my book "How I Survived My Borderline Girlfriend"
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[@drstrangelove4998]

My god, this as a step by step story of my three years of somebody I’ve come to recognise as a BPD, in every detail. Thank you 🙏

[@lobsterbisque7567]

So true!! I heard someone say 'the Narcissist/Borderline will try to empty You of yoir identity, and fill You with theirs.' I'm so glad I woke up early on(4mos.) in the relationship to my borderline's tactics, and just walked away with no warning. It was hard not be angry at first, but I've finally learned that I emotions can be decieving. And I could not trust my emotions esp. in that situation. I accepted that my ex never loved me or valued me by reminding myself what I learned about the mental illness: When they look atvother ppl, they don't see human beings. That was hard to accept too, but I valued the truth more than my feelings and that helped me get over my negative feelings towards her. I knew that I could heal as long as I had absolutely no contact with her ever again. I don't feel the need for revenge b/c she's made Her life such a dumpstsr fire, and she is the only one to blame for it. Thanks to videos from Mike, and other content creators, I have a decent picture of the inner torment my ex inflicts on herself daily. The self loathing, the guilt, the shame, the paranoia, etc. And knowing that she is extremely lonely living a very isolated life with no prospects of new supply. I remember I could feel her inner turmoil & unrest coming off of her just sitting next to her. And I don't consider myself an empath at all! I'm just a normal guy. I do feel much more peaceful since cutting her out of my life completely. I'm happy to say that I've come to accept that I meant nothing to her. That her love bombing/idealization was just a fraud to lure me in. I'm almost to the point of genuine apathy towards her, but I admit, I'm not quite there yet. I'm just going to keep living my life and grow all while forgetting her more & more each day. I remind myself daily that I have so many good people, and good things in my life. And I refuse to let her have any more power in my life. And my Loved ones have really helped me heal throughout this whole ordeal no matter how short it may have been. Thank You for all Your insight, Mike!

[@EnFyr]

Revenge serves no one. The borderline has enough of that for two people.

[@JohnAlot]

Exactly. I finally realized that I had been in a relationship with a BPD who would never change so I stopped caring. I have never seen her so upset (we've only seen each other twice this year when our son was hospitalized) until the moment she realized that I was truly over her, that I had moved on. That I was happier without her in my life & just didn't care what she was doing with hers. She pushed me to try to get me to say that i was "happy for her." I said " I wish you no ill will but what you do in your life has absolutely no bearing whatsoever in my life." I said it with no malice or emotion at all. I just stated a fact. She was horrified. When you finally realize that you will always be used & discarded you will be free.

[@mspence0826]

“The perfect worshipper of God” vs “god”. Finally understand the difference between BPD vs NPD. Thank you.

[@DougMomo]

You are very good at this. I been doing this for a long time and I was married to a convert narcissist. . They are the worst. Than I got stuck with a borderline. Omg she was gorgeous and it was tough to let go.

[@damanodrama]

27:35 In Mexico we have a saying when we say good bye: "vaya con Dios" it may be translated as "fairwell" --Detached compassion is acknowledging being in different sides of the river bank and there is no bridge to cross nor it will ever be. Each one has a life to live completely apart from each other. Paths will never ever cross again but now you are free to enjoy the journey. VAYA CON DIOS ❤

[@mspence0826]

Yes. Thank you for calling out reflexive narcissism. I’ve been struggling with this. I’m so angry with the BPD person in my life and want revenge (ie, reflexive narcissistic behavior) for how she has manipulated me and put my job/own mental health at risk, but am also afraid of her fragility. I’m afraid she might off herself, so I feel stuck and can do nothing but avoid her.

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

If you want to heal completely, watch this kzbin.info/www/bejne/rJmpqoWDZdCHY6s

[@lightwordman]

Wow what powerful information!!! So helpful…. 32 days no contact.

[@markgreen2714]

Omg. You are so right. I am in this compassionate but apathetic state. I worked out what i have to do in order not to take any baggage away from this relationship. That this relationship was needed for me to grow and be where i am now and not karmic. You nailed this description. Wow.

[@advancedbasicsAB]

Absolutely BRILLIANT spot on video. Thank you.

[@vidaraasen71]

I will listen later…this made me cry

[@BrettPittman]

Detached compassion, I'm not quite there yet. But being married before to someone that ruined my self esteem. Wasn't letting it happen this time. But it's still mind boggling. Discarded after all the help I gave her physically and emotionally. 2 years wasted. I still hope she gets the help she needs

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

If you want to have the detached compassion you seek, watch this kzbin.info/www/bejne/rJmpqoWDZdCHY6s

[@notaclue822]

Why they need that supply so desperately. Its a covert and she doesnt show it, so when you finally realize this person's state, it's a shocker. She knows I know so the insight I have should be a good weapon if I knew how to wield it.

[@RobbyVds-ji9ll]

Im discard just before christmass. She got already onother guy. Its hurt, i love and miss her. Im starting therapy in april. We dont have live meetings were i live. But il do the work beceause i dont want her in my life anymore. I remove all social media and start healing.

[@Maaracha]

Cut off all ties is the only way

[@sifuanimikiig9266]

Hahaha this was a good one that is almost exactly what i thought during a meditation about some people .. thanks

[@jermanelawrence7400]

Cant satisfied empty entities occupied by darkness negativity 🌑

[@kursatyilmaz2005]

Excellent content

[@truthteller2141]

I had had all my love growing up

[@loveyourself-pc7tc]

12:44 I hate having bpd , I sabotage my relationships, but I really would love to have someone love me and love someone back

[@HurtsEnd]

Understand yourself first and begin to love yourself, you must start from within or else nothing will get better

[@lindsay3793]

If you sabotaged relationships then you already had people who loved you.

[@loveyourself-pc7tc]

@@HurtsEndI am working on myself, I am in so much pain

[@loveyourself-pc7tc]

@@lindsay3793 I’m always scared that they don’t want me

[@Matthew-FL]

​@@loveyourself-pc7tc it's important to try things that could help. Nothing will change when you stay in your comfort zone.

[@maremiralte5712]

Nice movie i saw it encouraging and motivation never give up spirit

[@edapazi]

I'll save you your time. Nothing, to learn from this. He will only send you on a wilde goose chase. Just as bad as the others. 😔

[@RyanD-yq5ip]

So what did you expect to gain

[@truthteller2141]

Trauma can be caused by surgery. Need help. I had all the love I want needed when I was growing up. May be damaged by surgery. They damaged by surgery. People call different names.

[@ghostplaymakers3681]

Whether a borderline, narcissist or etc. if someone attacks me intentionally is it narcissistic to respond with an attack to destroy them so they never attack again?

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

Yes that is called "situational narcissism". Partly because your attack will not prevent further attacks. It will instigate more attacks on you. Which means that you unconsciously want to be abused... Do the one thing I talk about and heal. Or stay in an angry hamster wheel of never ending abuse... Its up to you.

[@ttrainor70]

True, but that's a dangerous tactic.

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

What's a dangerous tactic? be specific. What I have suggested is that people go no contact and heal. Perhaps you didn't watch the entire video before commenting.

[@Matthew-FL]

Wow thats a little icy

[@jessejulian9069]

This is very very on point wow

[@bigdeneen]

I’m happy somebody is talking about mortification. It’s actually helped me start Healing after 2 years of struggling. It’s kind of like reverse abuse. I know it sounds bad but my ex is a horrible abuser. Shame ! They hate shame , because it tears down their false self apart. When the smear Campaign started on me, I waited until her wedding day too embarrass her.I won’t say what I did! But mortification was needed.

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

Im glad you're enjoying the video and the channel, but unfortunately you missed the point of the video. The only mortification that works is when you have no emotional attachment and lose complete interest in the narc. Whatever you did to embarrass her at her wedding only served to do the opposite. It made you more enmeshed with her and proved that you still love her. Hurting her, angering her or making her aware of you only served to reinforce her narcissism. This channel is about doing the ONE thing to heal not try and get revenge. Watch the video again. Welcome to the channel. WANT TO HEAL FROM BPD ABUSE? Get The AudioBook www.bit.ly/borderlinegirlfriend WANT TO ASK ME A QUESTION? www.AskMike.ThunderWizard.com

[@lindsay3793]

You are the narc.

[@אשחראלקיים]

thx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@soulburning2000]

My ex bpd of 8 weeks (ex because i couldnt stay over 1night):sent me this yesterday. Some say sounds very respectful but shes just doing damage control because she was already looking. How do I even respond? I'm so angry she could I say hon I love you so much the. 8 weeks later send this crap. Good morning. Hope you’re well. I am acknowledging that I received your emails. Today, my main message to you is this - I know that you always like me to be upfront and clear. We had a discussion about this already numerous times. So, as a courtesy, I am reminding you that we no longer need to see each other. We had broken up awhile back. You did agree you will focus on your living partner instead. Please do not interfere in my life and any of my personal affairs in the future. Also, I am requesting that you do not contact or get my daughters and son involve. They have nothing to do with us. I hope you find this message helpful and a closure to everything. Happy New Year and wishing you peace and genuine happiness.

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

That sucks! There is a way to never communicate with her again and be happy. WANT TO HEAL FROM BPD ABUSE? Get The AudioBook www.bit.ly/borderlinegirlfriend WANT TO ASK ME A QUESTION? www.AskMike.ThunderWizard.com

[@soulburning2000]

@@ReversingNarcAbuse I got the audio book listening now. Does her letter seem like what you classify final discard?

[@ReversingNarcAbuse]

Great question. The answer would take up more space than can fit in a comment. If you want me to make a video answering your question, go to http:/www.askmike.thunderwizard.com

[@robertutley1598]

@soulburning2000 Sounds like a final discard to me with damage control like you said. Be careful She may try and hoover you back in the future if she thinks you still have some kind of attachment to her and can get you to give more attention or take care of her needs.

[@sirrantsalott]

@@soulburning2000I agree with the commenter above. I got hoovered after 2 yrs no contact recently despite there was an obvious discard. I blocked without hesitation, literally within seconds of seeing it came from her from a new email address. They will go to any length to see if you’re still the wounded codependent desperado that they can reclaim. I had to go through so much to get to this point of confidence and self-protection. Peace to you brother.

[@Jackmcars12]

Narcissists/sociopaths/psychopaths are the stars of ID Network I agree.