Quilting Resolutions - A Year In Review & The Future Of The Channel

[@elainejudd4892]

Here is a secret - Sometimes I wish I didn’t have so many tools, machines, patterns, so much fabric, so much stuff. In 11 years now of quilting I have invested into these things, but they can pressure me to produce. I am a worker bee by nature - an organizer producer. But I wish sometimes for scissors, needle, thread, thimble, my Momma’s cardboard square template, maybe an old wooden hoop, and no need to produce. No pressure to sew for the many grandkids. Just me and the fabric. I also lost my Mom in my twenties - 39 years ago. This year I am finally going to finish three quilts she started. I feel close to her when I am sewing, if I let the sewing flow - not if I am pushing to finish the next grandchild’s or charity quilt. I don’t listen to you because you made 14 quilts. I listen to you because I relate, and you are a calming influence. Be blessed in 2025, and make quilts YOUR way. ❤️

[@TheCatBirdQuilts]

Thank you, Elaine.This made me cry.❤️ I said it in the chat, and I'll say it again here...so glad I'm not alone in these feelings and desire to slow down (and simplify.) Thank you for being here in this space with me, watching and commenting; I'm lucky to have you as part of TCBQ YT community!

[@elainejudd4892]

@@TheCatBirdQuilts🤗

[@paulaakers7733]

Well said Elaine, well said. 👍

[@ShellyFuqua-t2q]

​@@TheCatBirdQuiltsyou are definitely not alone and you have read my mind. Thank you for the inspiration to continue towards my same goals. I've decided for one that after years at the sewing machine I much prefer slow hand stitching and that's what I've been doing a lot of lately. I think we've all come to a point where the rush of society and all the things that go with that have become too much. You go girl and we will still be here waiting for you! ❤

[@ninadukette3340]

When I learned to sew (mainly clothing) many decades ago, it was simple. The machine was simple( no zig zag function). Notions and thread fit in three small drawers on the side of the machine. Very little stash.....we didn't have the money to have it sit around on the shelf. I am working towards that simplicity.Just went through my scraps. I discarded or donated to my group that is planning on doing quilts for an organization for abused children. It was so freeing.

[@juliemac5604]

I’ve been waiting for this slow-down to arrive. I’m amazed at how long you lasted with this pace! Whatever the schedule, you produce great content, and it’s worth the wait for us. Take care of yourself!

[@lynettedaniels1236]

I just recently discovered your channel. I just have to be honest and say I don’t really care what you come on and talk about. I just think you are a lovely person to spend some time with. Thank you for sharing your time, talent and heart with us. Take good care!

[@cyndihamaluk1512]

Thank you for inspiring us. For me personally, I found your channel just after I lost my husband to cancer. Your calm disposition spoke to me and allowed me time to find my sew-jo again. You gave me the confidence to create memory quilts for my children. Although I have not sewn for about 2 1/2 years, this December I finished three quilts . Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@Annie-id5bc]

Watching one of your videos is like having a neighbor or a friend stop by and sharing a cup of tea and conversation…a lovely unexpected pleasure. So I will continue to treasure your visits. Blessings to you and your family in 2025!

[@Making-Beth-Gain]

Many blessings to you for 2024, Cathy and Paul! Your work with your channel and sharing your creative process from thrifting (which is an actual art form!) to exploring color is a BLESSING to all of us. Thank you. You know I’ve said it 1,000 times but I’ll say it again: this channel is by far one of the highest quality tools for anyone wanting to quilt and needing a boost. And …If anyone is reading this who isn’t on Patreon, you have to join because it’s great. 🎉

[@angielovett4159]

You were not crying alone, just saying. I appreciate your vulnerability and sharing…I think taking more time, for your life and family is smart, healthy and logical. I totally appreciate your realization you don’t have to finish, what you’re not excited to finish. Thank you for the reminder that we don’t need permission to change our minds. Seriously! I can appreciate, your realization that you don’t enjoy being a scrap quilter, period. That’s a great thing to realize and be able to let go of. I always believed the sooner we can figure out what it is we love about quilting (and what we don’t love), the more joy it will bring. Big hugs! 💕

[@Siennaflower]

I have noticed that content creators invariably go through an evolution in the way they do their channels, if they are to avoid burnout. The committment is huge. It starts out as a lark and a chance to do what you love, but can end up being a grind and a pressure cooker to constantly produce. Kudos to you for navigating this landscape and keeping your priorities straight! You have a good head on your shoulders and a good heart at your center!! I hope you know how much value you bring to your viewers. We truly love you, Cathy, and want the best for you in 2025 and always! ❤

[@dvc4uandme]

I feel your pain. My mother died on Christmas Day from breast cancer in 1984. I was 31. Yes I am now 70 and still miss her every day and what could have been. It’s hard at the holidays and for me especially so. For years I had to put that down in my gut and go on for the family. Oh I would have my day and cry and mourn but never in THE day. I hope you find peace in your journey. We will catch up when you have the time and inclination. Much love❤

[@amydement.]

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. Quilting IS therapy and somedays loss hits like Hokusai's Great Wave. My father passed away this week - New Year's Eve - and while we knew it was coming and there is relief in the end of suffering, it is still hard. I had the gift of Vlogmas and content generation keeping me moving and focused during a difficult season when I could easily have hidden myself away. Isn't it amazing how diving deeply into this art that we love can carry us through. I too am grateful for quilting and for community and for people like you who are truly kindred spirits.

[@paulaakers7733]

Kudo's to you! Hobbies, any type, should bring us joy and make our life less stressful. So often I gift anything hand made and the comment is "I love it" you should sell these. My reply is always "no, then it's a job! I already have one. So happy you are doing what is best for you and your family. Two videos a month will make each one more precious. Continue to give yourself grace and make the quilts you love. I do hope Phoenix in February is still on your calendar, I'm so looking forward to it. Be well and enjoy the stillness. ❤

[@Fleeing_the_quagmire]

Despite your description of yourself as pushing through to get things done, I find the sound of your voice to be soothing, relaxing and healing. Thank you for that gift.

[@graceszabo4626]

@Fleeing_the_quagmire Right! My cat Poscha loves her voice, too! So funny because not much impresses him.

[@Texasmidwife]

My mother died in 2019. She never quilted, but she taught me to sew. We sewed dresses, Halloween costumes, household items, and baby clothes. This time of year I miss her a lot and I was sewing a binding on a quilt. The binding was just a bit off at the end so I needed to ease the fabric. I suddenly heard “divide the space by halves and pin the dickens out of it.” Which is what my mother would say. I did it and it worked perfectly. I felt so close to my mother at that moment. I realized I could never lose her because she is inside me, inside my head. I hope you find moments like that with your mother. We are so blessed to have a hobby that connects us to our past and comforts us in our grief.

[@maxinemorgan4514]

I'm gonna miss those extra videos, but you family needs you more. Don't miss out spending time with your children; they grow up sooooooooo fast!!!!!!!!!

[@eunicehehir6374]

Quilting is so much more than sewing; like it has recently been for you, Dear Kathy. Quilting can be that silent comforting friend that waits for us to come near and then embraces us, giving our hands our minds our souls respite away from a tangled world. And Quilting can be that warm safe place where we can open our hearts, allowing our sorrows to be unburdened. So many things can stain our quilts. But isn't it amazing how they are never marred by our tears and overwhelming outflows of hurt and pain. The process of Quilting can bring us quiet joy and peace to our trouble minds. I now know from life's dark experiences that we do not always forget our painful burdens and ugly memories but when they appear in our consciousness, Quilting distracts, comforts, wraps us, even swaddles us in safety like maybe a Mother's embrace, calming reassuring ... refreshing us to go out and rejoin the world. May 2025 bring you quiet warm refreshment and a slower pace to thoroughly enjoy all you love and need. Blessings, Eunice

[@MarciaALW]

Beautifully said

[@katrineurthhansen6595]

My first ever quilt began its life 35 years ago and it is still a quilt top. You are doing great!

[@marybeth4002]

I'm right there with you! Mine is still in block form from 39 years ago. Always good intentions... and this just might be the year... again!

[@Dranma51]

Omg, I can relate! I started a quilt for my first daughter 30 years ago with the desire to make quilts for all 4 of my kids! Now I’m 73 and I’ve finished completely the first 2 and just got the 3rd back from the long armer. Just have to bind it and it will be done. Only 1 to go after that! Yea, me!

[@rebeccamulkern1051]

I see loads of KZbin videos that advertise how to make a quilt in a day, and I always think “ why?” I also agree that quilting is a slow process, i make 4-6 quilts in a year, all on my little sewing machine, and some days i just think about the next step, the next block or what fabric to use, and that’s enough for me. If I’m tired, or busy I don’t push myself, why would I, it’s a hobby for me, and I get the most out of it if I’m not rushing . I too find quilting therapeutic, last year I had to have my gallbladder removed and the morning of the operation, I got up an hour earlier and did some quilting to help me calm down. It helped me ground my worries . Quilting is magical and it deserves the time to be appreciated ❤

[@donnaborg5636]

What a beautifully reflective video. We are on the same path. Peace and enjoyment to you!

[@rebeccamulkern1051]

Cathy, life will throw you a lot of curve balls, so the little oasis we can create for us, to spend as we wish , should be pure joy, not a time to suck it up and push through. We do enough of that in other parts of our life, so we should feel protective over our self care time. I’m so glad you will prioritise yourself and your family, hugs from a Greek lady in Yorkshire ❤

[@sarahburke8955]

Thank you for being your lovely self and sharing your thoughts with all of us out here. Scrap quilts are gorgeous, but scraps give me anxiety! My only quilting goal this year, is to get some blocks made and enjoy making them. My darling daughter wants/needs a quilt so that is the priority for me.

[@Ldsks7591]

Quilting allows me to sit with myself and process emotional things. I lost my dad this morning and we have a terrible storm coming for the next 4 or more days. When I returned home I felt such relief that I could spend that time quilting and processing the loss of this person who meant so much to me.

[@MarciaALW]

I’m sorry for your loss. I have been stress sewing lately, so I know what you mean about processing emotions through quilting. The result for me has been that I’ve sent homemade quilts gifts to friends and family members who I usually don’t give to, and that has been good for me.

[@janiewilliams5803]

I am sorry for your loss, and am praying for you.

[@lauracurry9917]

I’m so sorry. I hope you find peace sewing in the next few days.

[@marybeth4002]

Cathy and Paul, I couldn't be happier for you regarding the change in pace of the channel. Your schedule of both channels, a wife, mother and your full-time pharmacy job was unbelievable. When you spoke of grief and the strong feelings of missing your mom this Christmas - I wanted to give you a hug as I identify with exactly what you said. There is so much truth in what you shared here today. You are a wise woman and I admire your strength and courage. We love you and we will always be here whenever you post. ❤🥰

[@gilliantangen3717]

Happy New Year! Enjoy this year and breathe, take time and well enjoy seeing you whenever you’re around 👏♥️🍷💋

[@redlady3123]

My mother passed away this past October. My first quilt I ever finished was for her and it returned back to me unleashing new inspiration to revisit quilting again. I found you along the path back. I was inspired to buy thrifted fabrics and plan to make my own form of memory quilt as therapy. Thank you for all your insights and lovely conversations. I look forward to your new slower approach this year.

[@carriebutler7567]

Thank you for being REAL. Thank you for giving yourself permission to grieve and to realize what is truly important. We have a wonderful community here and it never surprises me that we all have so many similar challenges in our lives. Beginning in Dec '22 I lost my mother to a long illness. 6 weeks later I lost my favorite aunt in February. Then my stepdad in March and another aunt at the end of April. I had to learn to let go and grieve. I did EPP in airports to get through the trips to say goodbye and subsequent funerals. Big quilt projects were put on hold and you know what? The world didn't stop. Quilting has always been a peaceful process for me, an act of love. I am so grateful that over the years i had made quilts and other crafts for my loved ones. Take your time, love your family and quilt when you can sit and enjoy the process. We will all be here to give you love and support.

[@ladyjane3660]

One of the hardest things in life is having to say 'goodbye' to one's mother. I lost my mom when I was 38. I can't imagine having lost her 16 years earlier at age 22. Over 25 years have passed, and like you, I sometimes become very saddened by how much I miss her. I am looking forward to another year here and on Patreon with you. I so enjoy your style, your great sense of humor, and the unique spin you bring to the quilting/sewing arena.

[@melaniehill5568]

I think one of the things I love so much about you, is that you are so real. You show emotions and are so real to me. I cry when you cry. I laugh when you laugh. I am going to miss you on the Fridays that you are not on KZbin. I would love to have some of your scraps. I love scrap quilts and have been begging for them from the Sewist in my area.

[@paulaakers7733]

If you would like some flannel scraps, I can help 😊

[@chrisdistelrath9386]

❤❤❤ Looking forward to when ever you are able to share your process with us. Please take care of your self so you are able to be present to the the quilting community. Love the fact that you have a lot say, go easy on yourself and enjoy the process of quilting. I have also had to slow down my curating "the perfect". ... learning to let go, use up and make do. Hugs till next time!

[@OdileBrassard-w3y]

Hi Cathy You do what’s good for you, as we grow older time becomes more and more precious . I don’t want to put up with unnecessary stress any more. I enjoy a simpler life , letting my creativity take hold of me. I enjoy listening to your videos very much, not so much for the quilting, but mostly for your reflections and your bubbly personality. You’re a fine person and I know we could be good friends. Odile from Québec

[@Cassandra-..-]

Rx: more personal quilting! Sounds just right. I hope your adjusted schedule allows you to enjoy all the things. Thank you for being so transparent about your feelings. I’m sure many of us can relate and/or needed to hear it for our own situations. Have FUN! 🙌🏻

[@lynnieloungelizard4587]

Have thoroughly enjoyed every video you have posted and look forward to the ones in 2025. Glad you are slowing up to take time for you and time with your family. Our babies grow so fast and every moment is precious. Thank you for all the energy you have poured into your channel and thanks to Paul for his fabulous videography! All the best for 2025!

[@janislong279]

Oh Cathy - I so enjoy your videos. I have been overwhelmed myself over the last year with my ever growing list and I can appreciate how you feel. I too lost my mother ~30 years ago. I was the same age that my daughters are now and I look at them and wonder how I could have carried on. I am starting this year with a new sense of purpose. I am going to buy less and quilt more but at a slower pace. I am saying no to deadlines, i aim to do more hand quilting and embroidering more. I am the first woman in my family to live past the age of 69 in 3 generations. I am going to make these years, months and days count . Bless! Happy New Year!

[@GlynisReynolds]

Take time for joy Kathy 👍 We will still be here, sharing it with you when you have time, thanking you for all the inspiration in your videos 👏👏🇬🇧

[@shannoneaster9311]

I always enjoy your videos Cathy, but I especially appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts, feelings, experiences, and even your pain with us. It is all incredibly relatable and relevant in many of your followers lives. We all simply need to take care of ourselves and do what we can, when we can to fulfill our need for creativity and find what works best for us. We need to take time to reflect, give ourselves permission to move at our own pace, to accept when things change and adjust accordingly. You’re definitely speaking our truth as well as your own. Thank you for sharing your life and creativity with us friend. ❤️ Well all enjoy seeing you and your projects as often as time allows. Take care, roller skate and enjoy lots of long drives with Paul. Hugs ❤️

[@dyannaquisling1169]

You only get one shot at this thing called life. Be true to you and enjoy all of it that you can! WIPs don’t have a deadline. Sometimes we start something and lose interest and that’s ok. Move on. Don’t let anything suck the life out of you. Move on to something you enjoy if that’s what you want to do. My 50’s have really opened my eyes to enjoying the 2nd half of my life and letting go of things that don’t serve a purpose or are no longer adding to my life/goals. I stepped away from a strong social media following 1.5 years ago because it started to feel more like a “have to” then a “want to” and I have yet to regret that decision. Be true to you❤

[@amydement.]

Oh my goodness Cathy - I've been saving your video for when I had uninterrupted time to watch. I'm watching along talking to the screen (as one does) saying things like "I like scraps!" "I'd totally take your scraps Cathy because YOU have awesome taste." and then my face popped up on the screen - Aaack! Thank you SO much for the shout out and we MUST hang out in Phoenix this year! ❤❤❤. I love your framework and new year plans. What a wonderful way to keep LIFE in this artform that you love.

[@rosemaryrigney4251]

Thank you Kat, I have been going though the same patterns of life....enjoying my present life of sewing, quilting and family unexpected surprises. Praying for a blessed season in year 2025 to come for all! One project at a time!

[@tracymaddox8546]

I'm so happy you made a decision to slow down and enjoy the process. I quilt, but only at my own pace. I go where my heart leads me. I had to take a step back from my bible study group this year because I felt rushed through a study from week to week. Sometimes you just need to enjoy the journey. I love your channel and will go on this slower journey with you and enjoy every minute of it. Sending you sweet thoughts from Riverside, Alabama.🎉

[@coreygilles847]

Quilting is a major part of my self care. Even when I was learning to quilt i realized how it helped my anxiety and depression. And when I lost my my 5 years ago, I turned to Quilting to help me with my grief. I am sorry you are missing your momma. I think your explanation that your grief has an ebb and flow is both accurate and beautifully sad. I suspect I will miss my mom for forever. As for scrap Quilting...I am one of the ones that takes the scraps of others...

[@sharonmika4786]

You do you. Those of us who watch you, want that for you because you are helping us do us. 👍🏻🙏🏻❤️💫

[@imogenethomas1138]

Kathy, I needed this today! 2024 was an extremely hard year for me. For the first time since I started quilting in 2018, I didn’t make a single quilt. Depression reared it’s ugly head, and I was also diagnosed with OCD. At 70 years old. I will not give up. I’m getting medical care and counseling and will focus deeply on self care in 2025. I’m determined to do a big declutter in my sewing space, and I will make at least one quilt. Maybe just a baby quilt? Thanks for helping me today.

[@Annie-id5bc]

Blessings and health to you in 2025

[@veronicaosborn3029]

So proud of you for making a wise and tough decision. You know as long as you make a video we will be here to watch it. Sending hugs as you are revisiting your grief. I can’t imagine losing my mom. ❤️‍🩹

[@elainepower9724]

I feel like you said many of the things I have been experiencing but not realizing. Even what to do with scraps, a compulsion to.complete things I’ve started and put away because it felt like slogging through mud, and realizing the joy has been missing for a while because my sewing room is too crowded and I have too many WHIPs. Anyway, I was crying right along with you. You’re definitely not alone in your feelings, including missing parents. I’m glad you decided not to beat yourself up but to take action to bring the joy back in multiple areas of your life. Take care.

[@maxtaylor7105]

Girl!!! I listened to every word of your video! You are beautiful to watch, very articulate in your presentation, and a delight! I love how intentional you are in your projects, in your life! I had to stop the video and check my own tears as you shared your grief! It's important to know that the seasons of our life must be acknowledged, felt, experienced just as they come to us. I also love to upcycle fabrics! Gathering more solid colors is one of my goals this year. I'm sure you already have many takers for your scrap fabrics! But please put me on the list for the future as I would truly love this year to finish my very first quilt! I have made 30 to 50 quilt squares. These were all practice blocks and I believe this year will be the year I make my first quilt start to finish! Wish me luck. I wish you all the best, thanks again for sharing xo

[@dianareddell1496]

I lost my Mama 13 years ago and sometimes, it still becomes almost unbearable. 😢 I think that our mothers are the one person that we have more than an emotional link to but an actual physical link to, so it hits like nothing else. I got to go through the full cycle and care for my ailing mother and she became “my baby”. It was such a beautiful labor of love and one that she truly deserved. So, you have plenty of company in your grief, Cathy. ❤ You are a testament to her love. Happy New Year. I look forward to another year of Catbird Quilts.

[@kathleenhaywood6142]

Dear Cathy, my father died, as I sat on his bedside, of lung cancer when I was 22. I'm 76 and still miss him everyday. I miss him especially now as I care for my very ill husband. And, I too, find solace and peace in quilting. So, do figure out what you need to do to both enjoy your quilting & go roller skating. But I will surely miss weekly boosts to my spirit. Hopefully each video will mean more & be more precious because of its relative rarity. Be well, and take care. Kitti

[@Dranma51]

Yes, I agree! And now that I’m 73 I’m anxious and I feel the rush to get the projects done that I want to complete in my life!

[@elizabethcollins8817]

What a heartfelt video. I am so grateful that my grandmother allowed me to practice on her sewing machine. I have my mother’s sewing machine that I am giving to my daughter so we can create together (or for therapy 😉). I have named my three machines after family who have impacted my life and helped me in my quilting/piecing journey. Sewing, for me, is a hobby that calms and soothes my soul. ✂️🧵🪡🌹

[@auntdello5286]

I name all of my machines, too. I talk to them, as well.

[@ksharpe8137]

Take time for YOU. Thank you for giving me the courage to say “no” to a couple of WIP’s that I’ve lost the desire to finish. I will be donating them to a fellow quilter. Without guilt!

[@Jukilou]

Thank you for sharing your emotion! I've quilted for over 24 years ( I started at 26😂), and recently finished 2 memory quilts from my own Grandparents clothing. It was wonderful to think back on both good and not so good memories, the tears they did flow and it was wonderful. My mother and sister had very strong emotions when they were gifted which only made it worth the time effort and tears. Quilting is a release and reprieve for many! Keep on your journey, with no road map, rules or quotas!!!

[@maegpye]

I will share that I look forward to your voice every Friday. I'm not even a quilter but I love your voice and your sense of humor and your introspective assessments of how things are going. That said, I highly admire and respect when people understand their own needs and personalities and set limits in their life. Or direction for themselves that functions as limits for other people. On a wide ranging parallel to your realization that slowly paced meditative time is nurturing and even healing .. I've been a birder for over a decade. A lot of birding involves hiking a few miles to cover territory. Over time, I expanded my interest to butterflies, dragonflies, fungi, wildflowers, and spiders. This last summer I bought a new phone and sprung for a model that took macro photos and started looking for the really small stuff. I spent many days walking very slowly along a quarter mile stretch of a nearby creek. I began to realize how different it felt to be so slow and so focused on the small, hidden nooks of nature. I can kind of imagine it was similar to your experience with your small, focused quilting tasks. I highly recommend this sort of activity - slowing down and drinking in the moment - for anyone to try. I feel lucky to have those moments in my life. Best wishes for 2025, Cathy. And for the rest of you who take pleasure in the company of Cathy and of kind, introspective, joyful people everywhere.

[@cvan1075]

Kind words and a meeting of friendly people is a lovely way to introduce ourselves. Thank you

[@karena7950]

You are not the first KZbin quilter I follow who is taking a step back, and I commend you for doing so ... my worry is that everyone is going to post videos the same week, leaving me with a huge void for an entire week ... because there is no way I can wait a week to watch them ( FOMO!). Whatever you decide, I will still smile when I see your video in my feed, and enjoy your company ! See you soon!!

[@dianeroome972]

A joy of quilting is the way it fills our life. It is so rewarding to create these fabulous projects we love for people we ❤. I am glad you are taking the time to enjoy the process more, and enjoy life.

[@bobbihayes6048]

You sweet sweet lady! Thank you for being transparent and sharing your thoughts! You are right about sewing therapy and what melts away while we focus on the planning a project. Sometimes it is the thing that allows us to detach from the present enough to process our internal thoughts and emotions AND it is quite magical. Much love and blessings for you to have a full full heart in 2025.

[@mikel2044]

Congratulations on knowing yourself and being brave enough to do what is best for yourself. I was wondering how much longer you could keep up this pace. Great explanation of your state of mind…..your example of self care will help many people. Peace, Linda

[@jmurphy7192]

Will miss our weekly Friday chats, but definitely understand. Work/home/life balance is hard and only you will know what is right for you. It was such a delight to meet you at QuiltCon 2024, and hopefully this will free up more of your time to experience more of those types of joys! And, I would love to have some of your scraps! Cotton shirts offer patterns/textures we just can’t find on bolts

[@kimberlypaulson4545]

I am so glad you are caring for yourself and saying no, not right now. I hope others can understand it with grace. I look forward to seeing you when the time is right for you no need to apologize.

[@auntdello5286]

Thank you so much for being so forthright about your quilting journey. I am honored that you share so much of yourself here. I agree that making resolutions can be a set up for failure. I refuse to do them at all. Looking forward to what you share next time. Enjoying the journey is very important for all of us. Wishing you a very Happy Year!

[@becunningham8850]

Appreciate you giving your time to all of us,but you must take care of yourself and family first. ❤

[@TheCatBirdQuilts]

Thank you, Be! ❤️

[@marjanne7939]

I would take your scraps, but have plenty of my own to handle! I love scraps because the process of sorting and discovering each piece is a calming place of pure enjoyment, using the variety is easy for me. I also appreciated your talk of missing your mother, I share the same experience as what you described. I can't wait to see what you do in 2025!🌻

[@sshellyrsutton]

Happy New Year Cathy! When it comes to quilting, God is certainly in the details! If you are ever in Dallas, bring your machine and a medium sized quilt top and let’s get together and quilt. I would love to help you discover the joy (or at least some happiness) that can be had quilting on your domestic machine. And we could film it…. 😉 Thank you for being Real! Happy Quilting! 🪡🧵💃🏻🎉

[@imwhisper]

Thank you for sharing with us. In my quilt group it was asked what goals we have for 2025. My answer was "complete a quilt for myself." I've been working on so many gifts and charity quilts - much loved but time to slow down a bit and enjoy making one for my bed. May your 2025 be filled with joy! ✨

[@ElaineSuarez-b1o]

I completely understand your decision to slow down. Just remember that you will be missed every other week. You make me think about quilting, life in general, my life in particular and, heaven forbid, our political future. I was forced to slow down due to health and physical problems. It is hard to accept, but accept I must. At least, while I have become slower, I can still quilt and it stills gives me pleasure and peace. Enjoy your time away from the “busy-ness” you have wrapped around yourself, and keep on quilting. 😊

[@JudySmith-f8x]

So right you are! Thank you for taking care of yourself. Your needs come before the "needs" of the channel. WIPs can sure be shelved and unshelved many times, over many years. I'm very happily/joyfully working on a project right now that I started 30 yrs ago and shelved many times. 😅 Best wishes to you and your family.

[@shobbs5842]

Ditto on “quilting is medicine “. I have appreciated your videos.

[@lindastrous5243]

What a wonderful conversation, we all need to do the road you are about to take a trip. I will try your thoughts , I need the self time. We all do, this world is too hard on us all. Enjoy.

[@jane3683]

You are a lovely soul, you be you . I will miss you on utube every week, but you are worth the wait. Have a great year and I hope you restore yourself, enjoy your family, and this year brings you all the joy possible. Be happy

[@sistersister2999]

This is so good. Your conversation here on your reflections reminds me of the ancient practice of the examen which is less about reviewing performance or meeting standards of good/bad behavior and more about what draws us to fullness of heart (wholeheartedness), to deeper relationships and community, to who we are called to be and become; as well as those things/attitudes/actions that draw us away. Such a great model for anyone about any aspect of living, but seems especially pertinent to makers in these days of social media where it's easy to fall into comparing ourselves. When we get clear about our "yes" the "no" is easier and comparison is less attractive. Also, your vulnerability around your grief is lovely. My prayers, my thoughts and feelings all live in my quilts, whether that's love for the latest baby in my life, grief in response to loss, or anger at injustice. While I am a word person to some degree (preachers gotta preach as you know😉), the visual (and tactile!) is also my language and it's clear you are also comfortable in both worlds. I'm grateful for you and more grateful for your sharing of your personal work and reflections. Peace to you in these holy days.

[@kathymorgan8453]

Quilting is my mental health plan. I get what you are feeling. You do what is best for you. The rest of us will still love and follow your channel.

[@juliestafford5959]

I'm like you--not big on formal resolutions or "word(s)" of the year. But if I were to choose words for myself for 2025, it would be "SLOW DOWN". I'm proud of you for giving yourself permission to embrace the parts of your hobby that bring you joy, and let go of the parts that are draining. I lost my Mom when I was 40, but due to life circumstances, I wasn't able to spend much time with her in my 20's and 30's. I grieve that loss as well, sometimes at the most unexpected times. I'm so relieved you're going to continue the channel. Every 2 weeks is just fine!

[@anndavies9027]

I am currently in treatment for breast cancer. Thank you for your message about the healing nature of quilting and it being a slow process. I treasure the days when I feel well enough to tackle a small thing like ironing fabric. I recently picked up some fabric sample books that I am harvesting for fabric. I love scraps and scrap quilting. Somehow everything comes together like “magic”. Happy New Year! 🇨🇦

[@juliasander1680]

My life this year has not provided enough quilt time, & it definitely has had a negative effect on my well being. It surely is good medicine to quilt & I want more of it for myself this year as well. And I am not fast either. However, I enjoy the process! Happy New Year & thanks for the inspiration!

[@carriekelsey7672]

Thank you for being frank and real about life, craft and what we do to take care of ourselves. May you be blessed as you find your way. I have greatly enjoyed your work.

[@LauraStevens-xc9dz]

I lost my mother to lung cancer when I was 23. She was 50. I wasn't quilting at that time but one of my biggest regrets is never having made her a quilt. If I could have her back again, all my quilts I'd make for her. Sorry for your time of grief right now but you're right, it comes at unexpected places and unexpected times.

[@dianejones1398]

I’m a retired Pharmacist and know how much energy your work requires, physically and mentally. Now I take care of my 3 year old grandson 2 days a week and love every minute with him. Being with my grandchildren is the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done, even better than being a Mom! Quilting is therapeutic to me and I do more than when I was parenting and working full time. Another passion of mine is reading which is essential to my daily routine. I’m not a fan of tv so reading is my evening routine. I love making quilt tops but not fond doing the quilting itself. I have many tops that need to be finished but also finished several. I’m at the age where friends and family are asking for memory quilts and that’s how I found your KZbin channel. It has been great learning about using shirts from you. I’m definitely not fond of scrappy quilts and realized that solids, blenders and bright patterns are what I love .

[@anitabrantley5202]

Thanks for being you. You said it all beautifully. I agree with who cares how many you finish. I'm going into 2025 with a new sewing room and hopefully new inspiration. Do what makes you feel good.

[@cynthiasammons7937]

I am one of those who LOVE scraps! I have found that I do not thrive in the shopping “think space” Isn’t it fun to see how this hobby is different for everyone 🥰

[@sherryfaires7931]

I say, do what you like and can…while you can! I will miss you weekly, but I will enjoy you bimonthly! Take care, Cathy! I look forward to the next tutorial! Happy New Year!

[@laurajones7417]

Thank you for being so real with us, Cathy. Moving through grief can be an oddly joyful experience at times, as you have so courageously shared with us. You have made an important decision for important reasons and I applaud you for it. I'm so looking forward to continuing with you on your journey in 2025!

[@helenpeddycord2241]

So proud that you are planning on what’s fun, enjoyable and rewarding for yourself Cathy! Quilting IS the best therapy in the world♥️ Happy New Year to you and your family! Let’s slow down and enjoy each day as much as we possibly can💕🙏🏻🧵

[@nancycox3318]

It sounds like you are making some great priorities in your life. Thank you for all that you give and share with your KZbin family. But I am glad that you are going to be more available for your family and yourself. I also have been making better use of my fabric stash - especially when it comes to backings. I've been piecing many of my backings - first using the remains of the fabrics from the fronts and then adding other fabrics from my stash. It turns out some of these are my favorite backs too.

[@cvan1075]

You have lots of content for us new subscribers to enjoy. It is wonderful to know you will be growing overall in your artistry that no doubt you will share with us. If the tedious is weighing your spirit down then taking time may lift you up to find joy to invest energy again.

[@Right-sides-together]

After a year of heavy grief, slowing down is the only thing that makes any sense to me. Also, scraps are my happy place and if you’re offering, I’ve got my hand up high. 🙋‍♀️ I hope 2025 is a good year for you, the intentions you set sound like they are setting you up for a great one!

[@darcyspellman8722]

Thank you for your openness and honesty. I look forward to seeing you every other week. Only God is more important that our families. Enjoy them both. In May, we where impacted be a tornado and I ached to get back to quilting. There is just such solace in the work. Happy New Year and may you be richly blessed in 2025. ❤

[@rondaa-quilter3428]

This is an excellent video. I can relate to many of the things you shared. I too plan to step back and slow down in all areas of my life. I made and finished 7 quilts between mid Oct through 1/3 and am whipped. Yes I do easier quilts but that is still a lot. Thank you for being so real with us. I look forward to your fewer videos this year. I am a scrap quilt lover but discovered this year that fewer colors in a quilt please me more than so many different colors at once. It's wonderful we can each create in a way that makes us happy. Be blessed.

[@tinakercher8768]

I am also struggling to create margin and I am glad for the reminder you have given us for just that. Team scrap quilter here!

[@lorriescott8775]

You are so lucky to have had a wonderful mom. When the video began, there was a hint of sadness. Twice a month is more than we could have hoped for, and is enough. Lives are short, and there are a million things we want to do. We can’t do it all. Happy New Year.

[@davidhatfield5714]

😂😂😂Right before 13:00 I was thinking, “girl, you just need to stop analyzing, studying that color wheel and just go with true Scrappy quilts. Freedom.. true sewing joy! You need a crumb quilt, Baby! Shows how much I know…Best wishes in 2025! (KH)

[@debbietrapp7757]

Happy New Year Cathy! I am so happy to hear you are taking time for you, yes don’t say no to roller skating with your oldest daughter, those memories are the best. I definitely understand the grief issue too, I lost my dad at 10 and my mother at 16. The holidays are for me the hardest, I know my mom is always with me, sometimes I will say something and it will seem she is talking instead of me. That brings me joy and comfort. Enjoy your time doing what brings you peace and joy! 🥰🥰🥰

[@lorihamby60]

Hi Cathy! I appreciate your conversation this morning so much. I have noticed you were not posting during the holiday season and I thought to myself “she’s taking a little time for herself and her family” and I also thought “good for her!” We all need that break or downtime once in a while. I’ve too have been feeling overwhelmed lately with “all” I need to do and finish and I’ve not been enjoying the process as much as I want. I definitely needed to hear what you had to say today. I’m going to take some time and reassess what it is I want to accomplish, what I want to finish, and what I want to let go of. Thank you so much! Take care!

[@jennjennedington279]

“Reassess what I want to accomplish….” Yes, ma’am! My eventual mortality has weighed on me and I want to enjoy my many creative ideas and inspirations, so no more projects that I don’t want to do!

[@Denise11Schultz]

13:40 Some people are on Team Scrappy, and some are on Team Not Scrappy, and as my dad used to say, “It takes all kinds to make a world.” So the outcome of your Scrap Shipping Project was delightful relief for you, and delightful enjoyment for the recipient. Win win sounds good to me. Yea! And very glad for you to make room for more you in your life. 🙏💙🕊️ P.S. The last scrappy quilt I made, I spent so much time going back and forth between a B&W photo to get the values balanced, and my quilt wall to get the hues balanced, that now I recognize that I hated that. That’s a tad OCD, but also just unnecessary. And watching you work I realize how much I love the rhythm of colors in a geometric design, and a lot of that rhythm comes from being Not Scrappy. Yea! I might never have figured that out if you hadn’t said something. 😉🏄‍♂️✨

[@heidithatcher-miller9512]

I wrote down as my 2025 goal to consume less and create more. And then proceeded to run out of a bought fabric on a new quilt top I started this week and have to pick up some more to finish it. Way to start out on that goal. Looking forward to our time with you this year and wishing you peace in your personal life and giving yourself more time for you and your family.

[@leanichols6824]

I don't make new years resolutions either. If I need to do something I do it regardless of the date on the calendar. I'm glad you talked about not finishing the quilt projects you don't care for. This is something I've had a hard time with, but you are so right. I have one quilt top that I made last year that is languishing. Another quilter had a suggestion of turning this kind of quilt into something different. I was going to cut it up and make small quilts out of it for an animal shelter, but I couldn't find a shelter that wanted any. My hope is to get a dog and or cat in the next year or so. If I do I'll make a few pet quilts. Otherwise out the door this top goes. It's taking up valuable space and not being used. So thank you for that. I love scrap quilts and am one of those quilters who buys scraps. However, this is the year I am halting new fabric purchases. I'll use what I have. I can't be sure but am guessing I have enough fabric for at least three or four quilts and I am a S-L-O-W quilter. I don't rush and do take the time to enjoy the process. I think you have made a very wise decision to spend time with your family.

[@amandagambrell4114]

I think you for showing how to use shirts for yardage. Just finished cutting and piecing my dad's shirts. Lost him to Covid 3 yrs ago. Simetimes, the desire to do and where to start are hard to navigate. Happy New Year.

[@loraineeverard9760]

Cathy, I came to similar conclusions a few years ago. Why is everyone so obsessed with 'achieving' , counting finishes etc. I like to hand applique, and hand quilt. Not so keen on English Paper Piecing. This means it takes me a LONG time to finish things, but it doesn't matter to me, I just like to enjoy the process. This is all for our own pleasure and amusement, and I don't like deadlines on my quilting. Good on you for realising what you need, and going with it!

[@sarahkimmerly2361]

As a new quilter, I have loved watching your videos. I have learned a few things from our videos and even have a few new ideas after watching your videos. I would gladly take your scraps if you need to get rid of them! I will miss you but look forward to the videos you do post! Love from Cincinnati!

[@lenacoleman1142]

I too am not a fan of scrappy quilts. I started sorting through my scraps and just got so overwhelmed that I could not finish and had to put the bin back, especially when I saw some fabrics that I really didn't like. I am going to donate my scraps to a local quilt guild. I am going to start fresh and only sew with fabrics I like, enjoy the process, and slow down to complete a quilt because I enjoyed making it not just to say yup its finished what's next. Thanks for sharing.

[@angelamyers1201]

We all go through change and growth. I think it's wonderful that you are able to allow that for yourself, rather than feeling forced to continue something you can see isn't fulfilling you. Big virtual hugs for you, and I'll keep watching however frequently (or infrequently?) you post!

[@Babushka_Kat]

Loved your thought process, it was helpful for me to hear. I also think much about my Mom while quilting. She passed away 12 years ago. She taught me to sew when I was a young girl and upon her passing she left me her stash, UFOs and machines. So I became a quilter! 🥰

[@239NW8th]

What I like about quilting is each of the steps puts me into a state of “flow”. In the end I get a product that provides beauty and comfort. It’s very relaxing and rewarding.

[@bestcrossroad]

You make a lot of sense to me in looking back to things you enjoy and is very honest with things that helped you and was less helpful in your moving forward. Thank you for that honesty. It gives us comfort that we’re not alone in our condition. My mind is full of thoughts and emotions that come reeling in uninvited while I’m trying to focus in my project. Some nice and some aren’t. Anyway, I have yet yo embark on an official quilt. I’m retired & my last rendezvous with a sewing machine was in Home Economics in high school way back when fire 🔥 was 1st discovered ☺️. And that encounter left bitter memories while sewing up a pair of navy blue polka-dotted capri pants. But I befriended a Brother now and I seem to like the experience of sewing. I would very much like to preserve the only quilt my grandmother made for me way back in college. I’ve been practicing making little quilts from scraps. I made a round table cloth in hexagons, sofa cover, and had made fabric bags/containers for extra dishes & such. At this point in my journey, I am loving scraps because they are so forgiving of my inaccuracies. I am trying to build up confidence before restoring my Grandma’s quilt. She returned to our Lord in 2006 at 92 years of age. I will gladly purchase & pay for shipping any scraps you are willing to forego. Thank you Cath for sharing your techniques and your thoughts. And thank you for providing a great content in your channel that is both enjoyable and so lovely. Happy New Year to you and yours.❤ 🌸tess (Edited to add descriptives)