THE TRUTH ABOUT LIVING WITH A YOUTUBER!

The residents of the Chateau de Lalande reveal the truth of life with a KZbinr - including the things that annoy them the most!
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[@4BWVan]

I think the main takeaway of all this is that Stephanie needs at least a part-time editor to help her so that she has more time for herself and to be around everyone else.

[@juliebarnsdall7996]

Agree. But wasn't philip helping with this?

[@philipjanssen]

@@juliebarnsdall7996 I helped when Stephanie was in hospital, but she’s back behind the desk now!

[@JulesTravels-On]

A full time editor would help in so many ways. If we can help increase KZbin revenue be his could be achieved and not just allow Stephanie more time off but more creative and organised time which we would all see the benefit off. I watched some old vlogs over the weekend where many of the team were also filming, which was fun and might help the general day to day stuff at the moment without Stephanie always having to be present. Let's get sharing and hitting the button. 😎

[@jaetrotman2120]

Absolutely!!!!

[@debbierudolph9489]

Maybe she should hand over some of the editing to Phillip. Starting with Cadeau perhaps.

[@riomcgonigle]

How sweet Dan said getting Mummy back so cute!

[@raffaellavitiello1762]

Yes we certainly miss her a lot she is so important in the life of the chateau even when she was a bit annoyed she made my day because l understood her so well. She was a breath of fresh air so authentic and down to earth, cannot wait to have her back .

[@JudyCraigDexterME]

that was one of my favorite quotes as well!!!

[@elizabethnicholson6691]

Dan knows a good gardener when he sees one - no wonder he is looking forward to having Isabelle back at Lalande! Gardening buddies are great.

[@christinevr7698]

Does he realize he may have to surrender the keys to the cool mower? 🤣 yeah it’s cute how he misses Isabelle.

[@hrtymongrel]

without utube DAN aint no man with out money ! wake up

[@barbarawatson1667]

I love that Dan misses mommie in the garden with him!

[@barbibutton9619]

I know. She must feel so loved

[@raffaellavitiello1762]

She surely is we miss her so much , Lalande is not the same without her. She tell you as it is dear Isabella love you, come back soon

[@donnastevenson6700]

Ian the electrician, don’t think we don’t see all the work you have done. Especially the internet. We hated seeing Stephanie in the car freezing at 11:00 pm. The electricity in a place as big as that must be a nightmare. Your talents have not gone unnoticed.

[@barbibutton9619]

Yes, he's such a necessary man but not on camera as much as some

[@bon037]

Gold stars all around for Ian the electrician!!!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@fmma286]

He’s a great engineer!

[@carmenarroyo9235]

So true!

[@christinevr7698]

Ian is a GEM!!

[@agracefilledlife1397]

Selmar, don’t think of yourself as ‘famous’ think of yourself as loved and appreciated by many 🙏🏻💞

[@marykelly9698]

This is exactly true 💕

[@mayfleur36]

Thanks so much Selmar, for remaining down to earth 😊

[@tamiwallace7572]

Yes, Selmar is one in a million. We adore him!

[@sadjaxx]

Such a nice voice.

[@ccmarcum]

Who would have guessed how badly he would be treated in the future, after all his hard work? His kindness and generosity,,,,,he was used then dumped.

[@daniellewhiteside1199]

Soooooo looking forward to have Isabelle And Percy and Gerry back at the chateaux love love them so much

[@barbibutton9619]

Me too. Isabelle and Jerry is like watching I Love Lucy

[@FolkFaninMA]

Same!

[@danaholt1720]

It was wonderful to see Isabelle, and Gerri I didnt realize how much I missed them until I saw them 😒 .......ALL of you that live there are so real and wonderful 😎

[@sandicarpenter2658]

@@danaholt1720 Miss them so much.....I want to be like Isabelle

[@sandicarpenter2658]

@@itsmyparty4637 I just meant in her wonderful outlook in life!!!

[@elisabethe8055]

Selmar is a wise guy. Dont ever never let You tube take over so you forget that you have a life to live, a life that is filled with everything, not only cameras and channels. I think you should think carefully about how many channels you put out there, what they all give to you, and what is necessary for you to live your life at the fullest potential. Scotman said the same thing, listen to your loved ones, they know you best and no one want you to burn out. I know La Land is your baby, and to be honest, there is no need to have all those channels to make you, and the chateau living your full potential. Take care of your self, and dont forget to live in the moment, and that you deserve to live at La Land without a camera glued to your hand.. You have been to hospital twice, it is something that should make your inner alarm bell to ring. You are doing great, dont overdo it, if you do, it wont be that great anymore. For your own sake.. This channel is superb, nothing you do can top it, i think many of us can sign on to that. You are precious, please take care of your self Stephanie! Thank you for yet a great episode that i hope you will dive in to and listen carefully to what people that matters to you and care about you are trying to tell you. ❤️

[@valariebresee4450]

Totally agree Selmar is so right

[@jennymay4720]

I totally agree..and that Stephanie needs some personal life, as do the Lalanders. But I have so much gratitude for all they have shared during this morbid time of Covid.

[@ishara_priestess]

^THIS!^ Perhaps less editing, less brooding over edits. You’re all there living your lives, not producing a Netflix series. Perfection is subjective, and is not necessary or that much a part of actual reality. Jerry pegged it. Please listen. Your La Lande family would like you, Stephanie, to be more present in the moments that are not filmed. Love to you all from Florida, USA. Cynthia ☀️🐬

[@pariisabella5521]

Totally agree with Selma. Maybe the gifts received could be photographed and shown in one photo thanking everyone for them.

[@lyettecool2223]

Wow! I could not have said it better. Everyone, on the vlog, wants the same for Stephanie, they are in tune and connected and at the same time are their own person. It is quite amazing!!! They are a real team and this is why ¨The Château Diaries¨ is such a success.

[@katrinatoland7553]

@ Stephanie Jarvis and all the LaLande family, thankyou so much for getting us through the last year, appreciate you all XXX

[@kelli3610]

Yes Thank you so very much ❤

[@kelli3610]

@@kimmurphy531 fewer videos means fewer views and a drop in income

[@hatshepsut8329]

This was very interesting and I enjoyed hearing everyone’s comments. If Selmar is wondering why so many people are taken with him he needs to watch this video and listen to what he has said. He maybe a simple, quiet and peaceful man but he is also the voice of reason. He embodies what most people lack these days in many ways and people notice and appreciate it. It was nice to hear from Mummy and Scotsman too! 👏

[@barbibutton9619]

Wonderfully said!!!

[@FolkFaninMA]

Yes I totally agree. His selfless concern for Stephanie really touched me.

[@nikishazechiel6848]

I agree with everything except Selmar being simple. Only because he has so many gifts!! Honestly, I do see what you ment, and this comment is only a teasing jest with truth. Selmar, it seems to me, chooses to live a simple beautiful life and I think that is the point you were trying to get across? I did not mean to offend, only playfully elbow nudge.

[@hatshepsut8329]

@@nikishazechiel6848 🥰

[@marie78091]

I can feel Selmar's simple sincerity towards Stephanie in his words, for Stephanie to enjoy some unrepeated moment that happens around Laland's nature amongst her busy schedules. Stephanie, we all love you bcos you are the sunshine that gives us love & joy through these years ❤ from the overseas

[@PolishedMissy]

Dan and Mummy ... dream team 🥰

[@DonniTom]

Selmar is soothing like Bob Ross. Stephanie is a ray of sunshine. I love her heart.

[@TheKategolden]

As soon as you mentioned Bob's name . I said YESSS! and then I thought Selmar following and doing a Bob Ross painting

[@NerdierthanU]

He's the Bob Ross of carpentry and ballroom dancing.

[@vintagemoss9578]

I know right!

[@kaihandren9309]

Yes , that's it .. perfectly said ...

[@PNWShanaLee]

Haha, yes, except Bob Ross was def less animating! Love Selmar!

[@joellenmeek658]

I feel most viewers can tell how authentic everyone is and how a lot is not planned but just happens. I don’t think anyone “acts” and it is real - that’s why I love it.

[@kathleenhuguenin7791]

Isabelle is looking happier and healthier these days, younger as well and less stress in her voice. Joie de Vivre!

[@chrismaraccini8108]

I agree about looking younger. Isabelle what is your secret?

[@findingequilibria8772]

Selmar and Ian and Dan and all the people of Lalande really care for Stephanie, it shows in every answer they gave, it shows in their eyes. Stephanie is so blessed to have these great people.

[@donnastevenson6700]

Natie your dedication to Stephanie is amazing. You keep her grounded. You make LaLande seem like it just flows when we no it is hectic.

[@cwatson1975]

Love that Ian was included. He is so important to La Lande, great job with the WIFI. I’m so happy to think Stephanie isn’t out on the side of the road at midnight.

[@jennymay4720]

Yes Ian's a lightbulb. As in builder Ian too.

[@ladyjane8855]

Is Ian a guest or an employee? I've never been able to figure him out 😂

[@chrismaraccini8108]

@@jennymay4720 I missed the builder Ian interview, he also is so a part of LaLande

[@cagarden8808]

Yes, Ian is the Lalande WIFI lifesaver! Thank goodness! Wonder what kind of French red wine was in his glass.

[@rayandmarythomas4719]

All the Ian’s!

[@nancytysor7098]

Phillip,. I know your Momma is so proud of the smart, talented, and caring man you have become. You are always funny and a delight.

[@philipjanssen]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jodeerisney9300]

And I’m sure she misses you. This is a wonderful way to stay connected to her. You are a treasure.

[@Mark723]

And such a hottie!

[@kristineprice2722]

I love listening to Phillip he’s so adorable,.... for me he radiates happiness and fun!!! Can’t get enough of his ‘ snorklie laugh/chuckle has me in bits laughing!!! AND ... he’s so talented... artistic... absolutely adorable 💕

[@hrtymongrel]

go home phillip . ur grandparents need u. oh thats rite ur being paid so put up of go home

[@taitweigel64]

I'm Mommy's age, a widow, living alone. The La Land vlogs have been especially welcome during a year of being in lock down. Their concern for you overdoing is my concern too, Stephanie. I enjoy and care about all of you. It is a one sided friendship, my knowing all of you and not being known other than through comments.

[@patricianathan4676]

Yes I totally agree, I also am same age and a widow, it’s been wonderful to watch the vlogs to take away our cares for a time, to see happy people having fun each day, it’s wonderful.

[@juliacobb4355]

I don’t know how old mummy is but I think I’m older. I love the interaction between her and her children and the other Lalanders. Great respect for her opinion.

[@dalehegstrom7295]

This is transformative. 30 million views from all over the world sitting down together, drawn together by the Lalande family. You are helping to create a new global community that might be the best hope for the future.

[@janetg1691]

To improve long term: take two weeks off with NO cameras or vlogs of any kind each January and July, each year. Your followers will complain bitterly at first, but you need to recharge your energy and have private moments, since likely will be doing this for years to come. Avoiding burnout and diseases from burnout are to be taken into consideration. Your followers are loyal and will watch when you come back on. We love you, the La Landers and your vlogs, and want you in great health for many years. Love from another Canadian (west coast), Janet

[@barbibutton9619]

One week each? Lol. No, whatever she needs would be accepted by MOST

[@Mark723]

We have a local restaurant that has been in business for over fifty years, where the owners take off the month of August every year and return home to visit family and friends - all their clients know about this, deal with it, and return with gusto to dine at the restaurant upon their return in September. Your adoring public will accept such an extravagance as it benefits everyone, most especially those who work so hard who need time to recharge.

[@kpChristinChristmas]

Or the week before Christmas until Jan. 30th. Then After the 4th of July to the end of Juky. Take A VACATION!

[@raffaellavitiello1762]

Delegate , never turn off, people are very quicly going off you if you turn off , it take a long time to get them back. Just find somebody to replace you off and on but never turn off bad idea because this is what make the the chateaux life and renovation. We will not died to have sweet Philip for a week or somebody else that you can teach. There is a lot of talented people in the world, jut so you have a break but what ever you do dont turn off

[@cagarden8808]

Great idea! We can rewatch all of the amazing, joyful CD vlogs during the hiatus.

[@wendymorrison5803]

I agree with the wish that you, Stephanie, have more free time to yourself. As much as I enjoy the vlogs, I see how much work you do. Some time to just sit in the sun appreciating your friends is always needed.

[@Shelley_H]

Having a difficult time this Mothers Day as I just lost my dear Mom two weeks ago at the age of 97. I am grateful however to have had her in my life for so many years. It is a bittersweet day filled with wonderful memories. No matter what they say you are never ready to say goodbye. Watching the Chateau Diaries cheers me up.

[@monikastuckey8737]

So sorry you lost your dear Mom. Sending you hugs.

[@trickshotters1577]

My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mother. It is my hope that your many memories wrap you in the comfort of an old soft cherished quilt.

[@elisabethnymann6306]

My condolences. The price we pay for love is heartbreak. Big comforting hugs to you.

[@arsinlupin5628]

❤ I am sorry to hear about your loss ❣

[@sheraaa9169]

I’m so sorry for your loss sending love ❤️

[@kellycampbell-erwin6714]

Stephanie hire an editor please. Take some time for yourself. We love you and want you to be happy in the moment.

[@susanbender2953]

That would not work. Editing is how she tells her story of Lalaned her way. She is the author. A different editor would be like hiring a ghost writer She should decrease the number of Vlogs.

[@andrealongbottom3869]

Yes! Maybe split it in the beginning between her and an editor. A good editor studies the style of the vlogger and sometimes it is trial and error but that’s also what we are here for, feedback of things that work and things that don’t. Sometimes editors can even make things better and add their own unique touches that really work. An editor would allow her time to relax , socialize, do her hobbies again, and just enjoy the day without that worry.

[@christinevr7698]

@@susanbender2953 I think a good editor would in time, understands what Stephanie’s style, vision, and story for a vlog could be; Stephanie would still have final editorial review; to check on what’s there and tweak it, recut it. The right person could do this and make it seamless to the wider audience.

[@ricaonfireRicaDivaRosales]

@@susanbender2953 I agree As a LEO our star sign we dont need that hahahahaha all she needs is an assistant for video shooting.... She is the author, editor the director herself.....

[@nuttienattie1]

Thank goodness Selmar hadn't seen the vlogs before he arrived because Lalande would have been so worse off without him x

[@Harpmary]

Ahh. My heart broke when Dan said he misses Isabelle! So sweet. What a wonderful team.

[@terricheney1724]

I absolutely love watching Chateau Diaries but I do worry about Stephanie...Seriously Stephanie you must take care of yourself. The Chateau needs you and lots of people watching sort of need you, too, in a good way. So Stephanie taking care of Stephanie would be a good thing!

[@lisakilmer2667]

A couple of things are very clear: 1) the vlogs capture real life (which is why there are so many fans; 2) Stephanie's loved ones want her to pace herself; and 3) the residents are a marvelous "match made in heaven." In my opinion, since you have risen to the "purpose" of making happy videos to help people during this pandemic, the focus on real life (as opposed to so many of the early vlogs focusing on parties) is the root of your success. The excellence of your product is like the tree trunk, and the laughter and joy you show are like the apples/fruit of the whole effort.

[@loredana6727]

oh my goodness, this video just made me so emotional, and now i find myself writing this comment with tears of joy streaming down my laptop keyboard. I am so grateful for the youtube algorithm, that recommended one of your videos to me almost a year ago, whilst living alone in lockdown. Since then I watched all of Chateau Diaries videos and there is not one video that did not make me smile or filled my heart with warmth and love. I can not contain myself and not say that all of the Lalanders are such lovely and admirable people. You all give me so much joy, hope and just pure happiness. And Stephanie, i am convinced...you are an angel. Your videos and ideas taught and inspired me so much and i appreciate it enormously. Thank You:)

[@elizabethmilner2045]

This is so sweet and reflects the feelings of so many of us!!!❤️

[@helenahandebasquet]

Dan "I want Mummy back". 😄♥️

[@caseyjosephine251]

As a 911 operator I deal with a lot of stress and sadness. This Vlog over the last year makes me laugh and smile for at least an hour plus a week. I cannot tell you how grateful I am for that. I savor the diaries and watch them when I most need that lift. Also get an editor so you don’t get burned out! I need you to stay healthy for my sanity!

[@elizabethjurkacek5217]

Well said!

[@christinevr7698]

Yes- it’s like some kind of magic smile therapy. An hour after I’ve watched I’m still smiling.

[@brendagarnett6007]

Thank you for your service !!! 😀

[@trixiegirlism]

The fact that they don't see a difference of the life you portray on the vlogs and the reality of real life at the Chateau is a huge complement to you Stephanie and probably why you're channel is so hugely popular..

[@justnaomi9548]

Oh my gosh mummy looks like she is growing younger! As much as I miss her I have to say that south Africa has been so good for her.

[@barbibutton9619]

She looked radiant truly

[@ellenlovre2642]

Just want to say Nati is so beautiful in this video! (and every video)

[@nataliaoliveto7077]

Ohhh Ellen! Thanks so much!!! You are lovely ❤️❤️

[@chattylamb7351]

She simply glows!!! She has come into her true self and grown so much!! Her love of flowers and beauty shines in her eyes. She has blossomed forth. So wonderful to to watch. Love her blouse, her hair scarf, her necklace all of it so chic and natural!!!

[@nellewoodruff2912]

@@chattylamb7351, I believe you are thinking of Marie

[@nancytysor7098]

Dan, the master of the garden and the great outdoors. You have worked wonders in the past year....Amazing!!! And your talented wife has kept everyone's hair looking marvelous...."have scissors and hair color will travel".

[@Eric-kf6dy]

When you own a chateau with a moat there are bound to be trolls. It's in all the fairytales and the trolls never win. XOX

[@christinevr7698]

Very clever- and so true!!

[@juliahiggi5206]

Love that!

[@butoolkhan2715]

Tsk! Fifteen people gave a thumbs down? Crazy! The general take away from this episode is that everyone wants Stephanie to slow down, have time for herself, for her family and friends. I would add: Stephanie, this has been your dream, things are happening all around you, your Chateau is bursting into bloom and every wish you had for it is happening, so stop, take a breath and enjoy and savour the renaissance of your Chateau. We will survive with fewer vlogs, but we won’t survive none because you’ve burnt yourself out. At seventy five I know the very worst feeling in the world is regret. Regret for all that you missed, regret for time lost with family and friends. Too gloomy! I laugh at your vlogs and would hate to miss them!

[@FolkFaninMA]

Love all you guys, but I was really touched by Selmar’s concern for Stephanie. Such a sweet human being. Congratulations on this new milestone Stephanie, but please do take some time for yourself and just breathe.

[@barbarastevens3053]

Stephanie is the essence of Chateau diaries and the Chateau, without her personality I doubt they would be so popular. She makes everything interesting.

[@scpmdt]

Stephanie is loved by all those aound her because they appreciate her hard work but it was heartwarming to hear how they all wish she could spend more time with them off camera. She though realises that hard work is what is required to realise one’s dream & being a KZbinr is hard work but with the rewards she is able to achieve & do so much at Lalande & at Lalande. Selmar he still doesn’t realise how lovely he is. He has such a calm voice & personality & he is humble as well. Phillip having my own grandsons & the joy they give me when they visit, it touched my heart that you miss your grandparents & the weekly visits. Hope once the world comes back to normal that you can get back to see your grandparents. Dan misses maman Isabel, I thought that was so so sweet. I am sure all at the chateau miss her as do the viewers. Wise words from Steven. Gone are the old ways of thinking that one has to stick to one job for 40 years (nothing wrong with that I hope I have not offended anyone as I was also part of that generation), but the world has so much to offer & it’s great to see the younger generation explore more ways of being productive & earn a living. Long live Stephanie & Lalande. ❤️

[@aynvaughan]

Google calendar for the schedule and you can allow access to everyone at the chateau. You can plug in different colors for different filming and you can schedule office hours and check on Stephanie during editing reminders.

[@jaetrotman2120]

I appreciate Stephanie’s vlogs. She opened up Chateau living to the world and we love it. Everyone at Chateau de Lalande should appreciate her, because of her the world knows you and supports you💯💕

[@afolsom685]

As much as I love watching all the vlogs, I would prefer one Chateau Diaries a week and having them last for a long time - rather than you exhausting yourself and having them end. Also it’s just not right you are too busy to live. I understand it is a new venture and exciting and fabulous, but don’t burn out yourself.

[@louisedemarillac777]

Well said. We worry about these beautiful people.

[@asddsa28]

exactly!

[@jacquelinereynolds2934]

You do realise that the KZbin vlogs are Stephanies main personal income now. Out of that she is paying 3 salaries Nati, Philip and Mary Poppins. Plus any house expenses that are not covered by the B&B. And anything that cant be paid for with Patreon monies. So she probably can't cut down to 1 a week as she has too many financial commitments

[@jourdainjardin846]

She would make way less money having only one video a week. I think two a week is very balanced. There are some KZbin’s that used to do 5 per week!

[@teresacarle294]

@@jacquelinereynolds2934 The 🏰Chateau pays wages to Dan, Nati, Philip, Selmar, & Mary Paupins. Plus, there are the Ian's & other special contractors. They've had a 🌲tree specialist, the 🧱masons (who recently repaired & secured the terrace area), and all the artisans for the Chapel 💒.

[@nancytysor7098]

Selmar, you are a deep pool of serenity that helps to keep things from being so hectic. Your creativity, especially with wood and building is amazing.

[@leslikuyweski4576]

It's heartwarming to hear how much you all genuinely care for each other.

[@nancytysor7098]

Steve, you are a techie genius. Thanks for all your behind the scenes help you give Stephanie ...tell your sweet, kind wife....I'd be lurking in the corners with her if I was there. No lime light for me either.

[@elizabethmilner2045]

I loved your regency dress!!! It is so beautiful!!!!🌟💫🌸💗

[@caropapa]

Loved and laughed when Steve said the shower cams were a bit much.

[@lisakilmer2667]

Someone else mentioned Chateau de Rosieres ... I highly recommend that La Lande fans check out their Chronicles of Rosieres ... they are charming!

[@nancytysor7098]

Natie, thanks for being the chief of organization and calm sanity in the midst of all the whirlwind of construction, mountains of packages delivered, and volunteers to schedule, etc. What an ability!!!!!

[@dbj91791]

Love “Scotsman” he is hilarious!😂 Also, Selma is kind, gentle & genuine. I enjoy EVERYONE! Thank you for sharing.🥰

[@wandaarganbright4056]

I don't understand how this channel is SO well known and doesn't have more subscribers!? The very first one I watched, I subscribed and it was before the whole pandemic blow up. I got in on almost the beginning and have not missed an episode. I have watched all the episodes three times.

[@blondebrit4821]

I dont know what I would have done this past year without Stephanie and her lalonde family :) it has been a year filled with grief and loss for a lot of us. But to have Lalonde to escape to , with Stephanies infectious laugh and joyful energy, Natalias sense of style and elegance, Phillips fun and cheeky quips ,Marie’s quiet charm , Isabelle keeping everyone on their toes :) and selmars quiet gentle energy and all the other wonderful personalities as well as the lovely parties to look forward to it has been WONDERFUL thank you to you all 😘💗🇨🇦

[@donnastevenson6700]

Stephanie please listen to your friends and family who love you so much. You are still young and need to simply take time for them and you. Don’t get lost from yourself. Rest sometimes, we will still be here. Your vlog has been a blessing to me and a lot others, but we too are concerned for your peace too.

[@denisebugler5761]

Me and the hubby have been watching since you started and can honestly say that don’t know how we would have got through the pandemic without you and the Pethericks. I have had a lot of ‘Stephanie made me do it’ moments. I feel like I know you all and would love to come one day. I love Philip he is very articulate and also makes me laugh. If you have a party there I feel like I have been to a party afterwards. It’s been a lifesaver and you are all great. Xx

[@christinevr7698]

Philip - it broke my heart to hear that you have been bullied in the past. Isn’t it great how things have turned out now though? You sir are absolutely wonderful - Renaissance Man - smart, talented, artistic, funny, fun, kind... People around the world love and admire you. ❤️ Living well is the best revenge!

[@elainecondrin1927]

That saddened me also. Being unique and talented can be hard for others to accept. Meanness is easier….

[@gunillaevanth1370]

As an ”old” project manager, I totally understand Ians need for planning... I ’m sure you have an overall plan for the chateau, it would be interesting to take part of your ideas and plans. Maybe that even would engage even more patrons to your channel! I’d love that!

[@milmom4281]

We miss mummy and Percy and Scotman SO much! I can’t wait for them to be able to come back!

[@lindathompson6698]

I love all of you as you are! I do not like reality programs that just want to create controversy. I never thought I would like a reality program. BRAVO!! I can not wait to see the progress!!

[@nancytysor7098]

Ahhh heres to ALL the IANS....Men and Peacocks....who add a bit of spice , hard work, and beauty to the Chateau...They could not do without you.

[@annbottelli5682]

Selmar cracks me up talking about Flogging!

[@dotell8925]

He's the Sweetest man!!!

[@juliahiggi5206]

I noticed that straight away and it made me smile so much!

[@swashbuckle5065]

Were would we be without Chateau Diaries, Cadeaux at the Chateau? what a dull way to have spent covid isolation without them. The best thing about the vlogs? The immense generosity displayed by the viewers. Thank you Stephanie and La Lander's :):):)

[@juliacobb4355]

I have to agree. I LOVE Cadeaux at the Chateau!

[@jackiebagnall]

I watch before sleeping too Philip, its my nightcap!

[@philipjanssen]

It’s so relaxing, right? (:

[@teedee3834]

It is so sweet and understandable that Stephanie's friends would like to be able to spend more time with her. This tells me that she is very good company and is much loved,this is what we feel as well. Love To All!!!

[@bh7578]

The Chateau diaries is special because of all of the wonderful people in it. ❤️🌸

[@sandymoore1285]

This was so good everyone! Thank you! Have fun and but be sure to take some time for yourselves. 💗

[@riomcgonigle]

How lovely to see Jerry and Mummy! Selmar as genuine as ever! Thanks for the vlog Stephanie

[@janetroberts2262]

Mummy looked absolutely beautiful and amazing in this video (that’s not to say she wasn’t before but she was looking tired by the time she got to join Percy again, stress of lockdown and not being able to get to Percy) 🤩❤️ Stephanie, make time to speak to your mother, daily! Hit the nail on the head Scotman (& others), cut back the work load or get help to edit at least. You’ve already been ill and in hospital because of over exertion this year. Patreons, get Stephanie to slow down please🙏🏻 so she can sew and do the other things that we don’t see her doing now. Ahhh, Dan’s missing you Mummy 🤗 Ignore the trolls, they are just jealous that they aren’t living your life or that they can’t make a regency dress from a half arsed pattern etc, they aren’t worth a second thought. Love to all (especially mummy & scotman) XXXX

[@sullivantan6838]

Dear Stephanie, thanks for yet another informative episode. If anybody has to be your assistant editor, it has to be Steve. He did an astounding job volunteering for Chateau Unwrapped. He is so articulate and such a gentleman.

[@deborahheritage5581]

I absolutely loved this video. We can feel how real and genuine everything is but it’s nice to have it confirmed. Philips close bond with his family is so beautiful. Every single person at the chateau is so special, such beautiful people. If one thing came out of this it’s that Stephanie needs an editor so she can have a better balance in her life. Thank you to all of you for everything you do. I love you all.

[@zenettehunter7598]

Love Thor shimmying his tail, as if to say " Don't forget me, I also am a part of La Land."

[@donnastevenson6700]

Marie when we first met you, you were a wallflower. Oh my you are now a blossoming rose. Your whole self esteem has shone and your beauty has easily appeared. You have grown and become a part of our hearts. I think you needed this vlog to bring out the true you

[@costrow3100]

Selmar - love that he calls it flogging. Puts a smile on my face.

[@donnastevenson6700]

Selmar your personality and your soul and kind heart makes us all simply love you. Your work speaks for itself, wonderful. Your kind heart and concern for Stephanie makes you our knight in shining amor

[@raymulhern1677]

Filming and Editing are forms of artistic expression for Stephanie. Sharing that with someone else would not be easy.

[@raffaellavitiello1762]

No but if it will keep her alive and well it would be better than crashing all together

[@raf499]

So lovely to see Isabelle and Gerry particularly looking so well.

[@AnnM223]

I like how Dan and Selmar are grateful for the help they got for successfully establishing their YTube channels. And I was expecting some other people to do the same. Because it’s all because of Stephanie’s amazing and kind personality. Her acceptance of everyone and tolerance make everyone feel at home. She has lots of encouragement for all those wonderful and talented people that help her make life at the chateau interesting.

[@yummboy2]

The points are all very well taken. I get it, LaLanders are people too and they each have their own life as well their KZbin life. And then there is Stephanie, a one-in-a-million sort of super human being who's boundless energy defies logic. If it is any consolation to any of you magical people, I am eternally grateful that you each are who you are and that you each have chosen to share a part of your lives with me.

[@casperbenj]

Editing Stephanie the gig is up

[@lrlasvegas6427]

This made me LOL

[@Zippsters]

Philip really touched my heart with his desire to continue to visit his grandparents regularly - I hope he finds a way to do that. What a precious grandson they have. Very interesting post! And it’s not surprising at all about how spontaneous this vlog is. Stephanie is a delightful personality making for a very entertaining viewing but most of all her love of people, her genuine fascination with other people, passion for the arts and history, and amazing energy all bring together this great vlog. Your willingness to be this vulnerable by genuinely asking these questions says a lot about why you’ve succeeded. Thank you!

[@niamhbradyhalmschlag5168]

Congrats on the 30million everyone! 🥳 Loved seeing everyone's opinions on living in the vlog. Heres to 100mil!

[@carolinehorne6505]

Stephanie you are truly loved and you work so hard, I hope maybe you could employ someone to do some of the vlogging for you, to give you some you time. I personally could watch Chateau Diaries everyday, I so look forward to the vlogs, better than watching tv. Xx

[@janetthomas8244]

It was so sweet and interesting to hear how everyone feels. Selmar being surprised by the interest in him was kind of a surprise.

[@Rainmomma67]

Totally agree with Selmar. I hope Stephanie, you can find a balance that works for you to have a full life.

[@robynw77ify]

Stephanie, We all care about all of you so much. Please take care of yourself and listen to Selmar!

[@jourdainjardin846]

But she’s doing what she enjoys. An artist will for work hours painting and forget to eat. No difference to any other passionate profession.

[@sarahburton3110]

First to comment 😊🙏🏻😊🙏🏻. Can’t wait to see this video. I love Sunday’s at the Chateau and The Chateau Diaries is my favourite channel on KZbin by far ☮️💜🇬🇧👍🏻❤️😊💖

[@josephforsuh6929]

I also understand that you Stephanie have to make hay while the sun shines. Renovation and restoration work on the LaLande has accelerated and if you look at the timeline for the Lake to be put back (3 or more years). Well, we have a ways to go..... Wishing you Health and Strength dear Stephanie. Oh and Isabelle looks absolutely great and years YEARS younger.

[@aliceallan4753]

Steven and his wife are wonderful, love the reponance.

[@Louisefenner]

I read the comments she was referring to that trolls made about her Regency dress. Just despicable. She must have been terribly upset. What is wrong with these cruel people?

[@barbibutton9619]

He's actually really funny.

[@chrismaraccini8108]

@@barbibutton9619 Yes Steven is funny. I like his personality and he also is very talented, but again is there any one that comes to the chateau that doesn't have a great personality & talent?

[@ManorandMaker]

@@Louisefenner Hi Louise - I really wasn't as upset as I expected to be for my first trolling. The trolls don't have the context. I really hope that the real person behind that anonymous account can find other ways to have joy in their life.

[@barbibutton9619]

@@chrismaraccini8108 ha - true that. It's like Stephanie's dad is up above directing all the right people to Lalande

[@tinamac6960]

What a lovely end to the weekend.philip,I have to admit,I too have fallen asleep half way through a chateau vlog,unintended of course! Having to catch up whilst getting ready for work the next morning. You guys rock,here's to another 30mil views! Thankyou for bringing such joy to all our lives! X

[@FolkFaninMA]

That’s interesting. I have been known to drift off while watching a KZbin video, but I’ve never done so during a Chateau Diaries. I’m usually laughing too much. 😀

[@sigma5054]

the last 2 months when we discovered this channel think we have watched every episode a few times over..addicted...thank you for making these wonderful vlogs..much love

[@nancytysor7098]

Stephanie, the Lord has richly blessed you with a multitude of creative talents...all of which you use regularly. You are a big splash of color, energy, and joy. You are the center of all the kaliedascope of things that go on at La Lande. Thanks for making this year of isolation one of warmth, caring fun, laughter and comraderie. It has been such a pleasure to share in all you do at La Lande....I have warm regards for you and all the LaLanders....

[@Blueeyedconcubine]

Really can't wait till Gerry, mommy and Percy are back.

[@titadoucette]

Today is February 18 2024 and your total views is 99 million.I am looking forward to the 100 million views special. I have been watching you since the beginning and it has been a joy.

[@heathercave]

My goodness I love Stephanie and the entire team. A lovely bunch of people… now if a volunteer editor would just step forward and take some of the weight off of your shoulders so you could enjoy more time with your friends

[@jennibunny5719]

My thought exactly!!

[@nataliaoliveto7077]

It's coming soon ;)

[@heathercave]

@@seethevolcane yes, my husband at 72 is a retired director of photography and cameraman… someone like him but without the bum hip would have the free time and skill.

[@raffaellavitiello1762]

@@nataliaoliveto7077 Good to hear , by the way , l subscribe dear Natalia , l appreciate your work so much, you are the best addition to the chateaux we love you so much . I am so glad you are staying and hope Stephanie learn to delegate more we worry about her and we dont want to loose her all together, and thankyou for all you do Philip and you make such a great contribution to the place . Send love and a hug

[@brentfisher6484]

Wow! This vlog episode is rich with emotion, humor and wisdom. Thank you Stephanie for producing it, and thanks to everyone who had participated. Thanks so much for baring a little of your souls and personal stories for all of we devotees to view. I feel like the family at LaLande is like an extension of our own families and now we know you all a bit more and better. With 134 subscribers and 30M views your channel rivals the most popular television programs in America, Britain and France. What an achievement. Kudos!! Thank you so much!

[@stevearnold8467]

Thirty million isn't all that much, when you consider that at least a million of those views are from me, watching your vlogs over and over.

[@Marykguise]

That was so lovely to hear everyone’s thoughts on being part of LaLande and the vlogs. I for one am extremely grateful for the vlogs. I feel like I have an extended family in you all. Blessings to you all. 💗💝

[@salt8661]

Amazing! Thank you all for being so honest and open about your experiences and challenges. You make so many people happy (myself included) by sharing your lives with others!💖💖💖💫🌱🦋🪴🦋💫💫💖💫

[@escapetoruralfrance]

Yes, all good and well, but when can I let hanni out of the gardeners shed?

[@arifrosli3305]

Shh.. dont let them know.

[@alex0589]

LOL

[@PMyers-nn5cz]

Bless Dan he missess Mummy, they have a lovely rapour and I hope mummy saw his words!

[@karenhantsche9270]

The insights of all of you are so enlightening and almost overwhelming. For those of us who find you all so natural and entertaining, just know that you are a huge part of our own fun and relaxation. I don't know of anyone who is the powerhouse of energy and personality that Stephanie is, while managing so many levels of production and satisfaction. Your vlogs are my favorites, full of surprises and expectation and life. I hope to catch up with past vlogs and be able to watch you all for many more years.

[@kayturrell]

So very sorry Shelley to hear of your loss.