Real Time Plan With Me: Pumpkin Patch | Hobonichi Cousin Planner

[@NotebookOverloadd]

As a person that's diagnosed with ADHD, It's so funny how I immediately related to you saying you have an obsessive personality and you hyperfocus on things intensely. I do that ALL the time. So who knows!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I try to be careful about self-diagnosing but it's kind of taking over my life :'))) So yes I definitely hope to see a professional soon!!!

[@LILYEHHHHHHH]

I have autism, I get it😂

[@NotebookOverloadd]

@@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo If it's negatively impacting your life in any way I definitely recommend seeing a professional so good for you :)). Also yes we gotta be careful with self-diagnosing but also self-diagnosing is a first step towards a diagnosis a lot of the time :) Good luck on the journey wherever it brings you!

[@sherrycohen1824]

My younger son and I have ADHD. Having a paper planner is critical for me. I'm still trying to get him to use the paper planner I bought him so he can write down his accomplishments (he's also dyslexic) and not forget homework assignments.

[@alexandrasloane]

The way you use the ruler to cut off washi is so satisfying every time! I love the rainy season but also yes yes yes it makes me so sleepy and stiff. Just want to be at home doing nooothing

[@cheryldailey5310]

I had a comment, then it flew from my brain! Have a great week! 😂

[@BlackPearlMinistries]

I get headaches when it rains. It is the change in the barometric pressure. I love rain too! 🌧️

[@fatazoe2GV]

Breaking bad and the Sopranos, two of my favourite tv shows ❤

[@JennRazo]

The Red Tent is an excellent book. Definitely part of my permanent collection.

[@NancyLiliG]

This washi is stunning!!! It IS all of the fall vibes! I am feeling so much regret that I didn't buy it during the pre-order.

[@charissasplans]

This spread turned out super cute!! I love the Fall vibes 🍁🍂

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you Charissa!! 😊

[@2BRnot2BRipper]

Isn’t it amazing how quickly the year flew by? And you’ve accomplished a ton of stuff evidenced through your jam packed planners and journals. Will message you separately about your accident? 🤗🥰😘

[@clairefromonline]

HI HELENNNN you're keeping me company while I'm engaging in mundane & boring tasks and I'm just so grateful!! Cozy vibessss

[@walkingexercise5375]

I agree light rain can be refreshing!

[@ramblinganna]

Hope you had a wonderful time celebrating the mid Autumn festival. How are you finding The Count of Monte Cristo? One of my besties and I were discussing if we were forced at gunpoint to declare our top 5 favourite books, and both of us included TCoMC (ohhh… that is almost TCMC!!). Yes it’s quite melodramatic, but that’s what makes it such a fun and exciting adventure story 😁 I need to remember sticky notes as cover ups!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I am LOVING it! A great work of fiction. I wish I was around when it was published as a series so I don't devour it lol. And omg how have I never noticed the acronym O_O

[@ramblinganna]

@@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo Oh yay, so glad you’re loving it too.

[@theresadavis7604]

I love you spreads ❤ I read TCoMC last year for the first time and loved it. 😍

[@ramblinganna]

@@theresadavis7604 Yay, such a great book. ☺️

[@theresadavis7604]

@@ramblinganna It really was and I was surprised. I will definitely read it again.

[@victorrrriar]

Saw the little comment about driving on the highway for the first time. Congratulations! I still haven't mustered up the courage.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you!!! Oh trust me, it wasn't courage! I just forgot to change the GPS route to avoid highways and it was too late. But now I feel like I can do it if I have to. You got this!!! Whenever you are somewhat ready ^_^

[@BrandonSeerattan]

✒️ Amazing labor. Errands at the Mall sticker stand is so adorable. ✒️

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you so much!

[@marzettik]

I don’t know if this is helpful at but, when it rains here, I like to add 15 minute dance workouts to my exercise routine. Always fun to bop around, really puts a smile on your face. I’m super into Glow With Jo’s Dua Lipa walking/dance workout. Hope the weather changes for the better soon. ❤

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Omg this actually sounds really helpful! I'm going to try this the next time it rains. THANK YOU!

[@ramonafirehorse]

Oh I loved The Red Tent!

[@karinerochaferreira]

Girl, your voice... its like so relaxing and asmr vibes

[@ChantelleArts]

ooooh that's a fancy pen 😍

[@CreatingWonderland]

Splendid spread! I love all the fall colors. The cutest washi in my bag at the moment! Happy Fall Helen!!! 🍁

[@HouseOfPagesAndPaints]

I LOVE the washi on Wednesday. So smart. I’m stealing this idea

[@JustDianeLynn]

Can't wait to see what next year's themes will be Helen! WOOOOO! The monthly stickers are my favorite purchase each year.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Ahhh thank you Diane! I'm happy you're excited!!!

[@becwrites]

As someone who has just been diagnosed with ADHD in my mid-30's I feel SO MUCH BETTER knowing what causes me my struggles. Might be worth while looking into for sure :) I have had my thoughts that you are ADHD as well and glad others have pointed it out.

[@MsSclera]

Lovely and such a cozy spread Helen. Please take care of yourself. Love you, rosalin.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

LOVE YOU MORE!

[@wplants9793]

I love love love the rain but I live in Portland Or where it is GREEN all winter, and native shrubs start the flower in January, but Rosemary, calendula and violets flower all winter. HOWever I feel super duper tried when it gets cold. Apparently northern people all over the world traditionally slept 14 hours a day during the winter, and I try to keep that in mind: it’s a normal adaptation to hibernate during the winter (if you can manage with work/life/family).

[@Yondong]

Thank you so much for sharing your weekly with us. It was so relaxing to watch you writing everything down. I enjoyed your new video. ❤️

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching!

[@dianebadger51]

Sounds like you may have S.A.D with the extended gloomy weather. You may want to try a light box. I have one and it really helps. Love your videos.

[@bonniebum_]

My adhd symptoms can be taxing and rewarding! The ability to hyperfixate on what I’m interested in has helped me with my degree, and then there have been times where that hyper fixation has cost me my mental health and has hurt my bank lol. I do think I may have a slight case of OCD which collides with my adhd and causes this “all or nothing” mentality- new hobby? Need to learn it all, and I need the best of the best tools/supplies. Need to clean? Well I better clean it ALL but need the exact amount of motivation to do it. Medicine helps but not long term- I have to take breaks from it because I suppose my body adjusts to it so fast. I still take it daily, but I take half my normal dosage when I feel the medication is not working!

[@PlanasaurusRex]

Not sure if you're intending to look more seriously into ADHD, but someone with AuDHD, my neurodivergent radar goes off a lot when I watch your videos. Of course, if you don't find it impeding on your life, I don't know if it's worth the time and effort to go through the process of looking into professional diagnosis. Sometimes just seeing that you aren't alone is enough ♥

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I get this a lot tbh hahaha. I do think I will be looking into it seriously as my day-to-day quality of life is starting to deteriorate >.< Thank you!

[@JessicaComptonHR]

I have two orders that are supposed to be delivered today and all my washi is in one of them! I am SO excited to get my little hands on them.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

SOOO excited for you Jessica!!

[@denisegarcia3200]

Love your layouts and stickers/washi. Just wish I could order you always sell out. ❤. Just hate seeing them for sale on other site and priced 3x more.

[@Angel6_]

As long as you order within the timeframe you’re guaranteed the washi tapes. The 3 most recent ones were available from sep 22-26 for preorder hybrid. There’s always announcements on Facebook & Instagram before each release so you don’t miss out.

[@deniseholmes7958]

Love the pumpkin washi, the colors and the extra washi strips! I hope you enjoyed your time with your family.

[@BrittanyBWrites]

This was such a super cute spread!!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you Brittany!

[@ctrinidad5581]

Lol…I have to agree with you on Save-on which is expensive. But their food quality is good.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Yess!!! Agree agree!

[@thewryreport]

LOVE your video (as always - your PWM are my favourites). Question I've always been meaning to ask... You work so much (business, study, exercise) and don't get the recommended 8hrs sleep each night (I can related, rarely do I get more than 5hrs/night) - I was wondering if you're able to fully concentrate when you are working and studying? That is, are you fully engaged/working for the 2-3hrs (sometimes longer) sprints marked in your Hobonichi? Or do you find yourself "zoning out" or taking mini "breaks"/distracting yourself yourself with (e.g. surfing online)? I ask because I tend to always shoot for the moon and fill every moment of my schedule (work, study, hobbies, cook, clean, exercise) - which I guess is good/I learn & get a lot done - but when I am working/studying (since I'm so tired), I often find my mind wandering, getting the urge to self-sooth (e.g. watching videos, window shopping online), or just closing my eyes to rest/zone out in my chair. Does this happen to you too? If not, do you have any tips? Thanks!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Aww thank you so much and for your thoughtful question!! I go through something very similar where I just can't stop my brain from wandering. So for example when you see a 3hr design block, I am very likely not designing for 3hrs straight. I will likely finish one piece -> respond to a few emails -> finish another part -> respond to a few comments -> finish another part -> call a shipping company -> etc. I don't tend to self-sooth though, but that might be because I am already watching something while designing!

[@ringaroundtherosieposie]

Have you watched "Better Call Saul" yet? OMG, that's my next fave after BB. I loved it!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I plan on watching it after my BB rewatch hehehe. SOOO good!

[@coryk1592]

I hope you enjoy your weekend with family and so get time for yourself. I really enjoyed The Red Tent. How do you like?

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you Cory! Loving it so far! I haven't read any similar stories so it's fascinating. I'm about halfway through!

[@kobrazak]

As a person diagnosed with ADHD and suspected autism, Helen, I recommend you read this amazing book called Unmasking Autism by Devon Price. It's SO good! They talk about how autism presents in women as crippling anxiety. It's a great read!

[@Gdghjkbcsagikhvnkg]

I wanna see how you set up HOBONICHI 2024 soon :)

[@pesodana]

We all have some personality traits to some extent :) it becomes a "personality disorder" when there traits are very dominant and interfere with our daily function. You have traits, which is normal, and not very difficult to work on together with a good therapist :) Also, I don't think you would have been so loved by so many if you "simple" and "regular" (not a big fan of these terms but couldn't find something else) ❤

[@tabithagrace2314]

Please re-release the silver ruler 😢 it’s the only one I don’t haveee

[@dzuel09]

I’m sad I missed the preorder but love all your washi. How can we sign up to be notified of future preorders? Also, I have a tendency to hyper focus on things as well and then fall off the wagon. It’s a struggle!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I hear you!!! I tend to announce preorders through email newsletters and instagram/facebook!

[@dzuel09]

@@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo I just signed up for the newsletters. Thank you for the heads up!

[@nicole6331]

Hello! Does anyone recall the name of her beautiful fountain pen in this video? Thank you!

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

leonardo momento magico! mine is the ef nib ^_^

[@nicole6331]

thank you Helen! it's so beautiful@@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo

[@TheBohemianStyle]

I don’t like rain to last a week or more than half a day. It is a bit too much and I get very tired. Also, driving is not safe.

[@sharimissmanmiller1185]

Yah!!!!❤

[@BrunaCruz792]

Helen, as a nail tech, i feel like i need to tell you that your nails are NOT supposed to feel/look brittle when you get them done often. If the tech files through layers of your natural nail plate while removing gel polish or doesn't soak gel polish for long enough (resulting in prying polish off by force), you'll see that effect of weak nails. THAT IS NOT SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN. Please consider going to a different tech next time you want to get them done (and especially re-done). 🙏🙏 Much love 💕

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Omg thank you for letting me know and for these insights! I thought something was wrong with me lol. I will give it a try again because it really makes me feel good to get them done

[@caralinad]

Hyperfixations that come and go are also common with autism, so if you do speak to someone about potential ADHD, have them consider autism as well :) The routine things you talk about is very very prevalent in autism as well so :)

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

Thank you for the suggestion!!! I try not to self-diagnose but I have suspected this for a while to be honest!

[@a.laz8]

We need a "current hyperfixation" because I'm the same way lol

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

WILL DO! Haha

[@KJM_Writes]

"I have an unhealthy obsession with routines". It's probably not ADHD, it's more likely to be autism. If you were considering asking your doctor about ADHD, I recommend that you ask for an Autism assessment instead, which would cover both. 💕

[@kathrynamonett3083]

Maybe autistic rather than ADHD. Though you can have both (I do) and there is plenty of overlap. Hyperfocus, for example. But your love of routine and being thrown when the routine is disrupted reads more autistic to me. As always, love the videos.

[@TheCoffeeMonsterzCo]

I've had many people independently suggest this to me as well 😅 Thank you so much for your insight!

[@4honeybunny4]

Sorry, I unfortunately clicked dislike, but immediately undone that because I like this video and the second time I succeed clicking like. If you are feeling down, please do what is best for you in areas as taking (extra) rest or talk to someone (professional). I wish you the best and hope you feel better soon. 😘

[@bonniebum_]

My adhd symptoms can be taxing and rewarding! The ability to hyperfixate on what I’m interested in has helped me with my degree, and then there have been times where that hyper fixation has cost me my mental health and has hurt my bank lol. I do think I may have a slight case of OCD which collides with my adhd and causes this “all or nothing” mentality- new hobby? Need to learn it all, and I need the best of the best tools/supplies. Need to clean? Well I better clean it ALL but need the exact amount of motivation to do it. Medicine helps but not long term- I have to take breaks from it because I suppose my body adjusts to it so fast. I still take it daily, but I take half my normal dosage when I feel the medication is not working!