Stop Airing Your Dirty Laundry on TikTok

[@StayArtsy]

Brett: "You've probably seen this all over social media" Me: No, I haven't, you are my only connection to social media.

[@S2k_GRsti]

And she always brings us shitty stories.

[@broccolipropaganda]

Same! I don’t have social media but I am glad Brett is keeping me informed :)

[@kelseypeterson5172]

Same here. KZbin is my only media 😂

[@neobahumut707]

You do know youtube is social media, right?

[@broccolipropaganda]

@@neobahumut707 what I meant to say is no social media except KZbin. Is it better?

[@tednelson5072]

If someone sets up a camera just to cry, I already don't trust them

[@BoinkrNanis]

Exactly. Then find out she faked cancer...yeah, under the prison she goes

[@carrieoliver7586]

right it's not even like a candid breakdown where they are holding the phone lmao it's on a while tripod, she fully had to set up the shot

[@vcross17]

I agree completely. I had an acquaintance who was 21yrs and sent me a picture of herself crying. That was all. Just a photo of herself crying. No text, no explanation. It was unbelievable to me. I didn’t ask what was wrong. I couldn’t. It was outlandish to me that someone would think to whip out their phone mid cry and take a photo of themselves.. and to take it a step further send that said photo to someone.

[@meleebrawler6462]

This story is just another example of why people need to keep their private lives off of the internet.

[@Growth234]

I wonder if he will be held accountable for sharing all this personal information about her.

[@cormacthem8406]

Ben Shapiro looks good in drag, is this so he doesn’t have to lust over his sister as much? 🤷‍♂️

[@H3len50]

100%. Nobody needs to know any of this.

[@elasticharmony]

Two con men, could be they work together; con you'll

[@Yellowstoners]

It’s important to raise awareness. Women get screwed more often than not.

[@frankiek2691]

If she's attempting to slander him, make him look like a horrible person, then I don't blame him for going above and beyond to protect his name. Is it over the top? Sure. But there have been a series of incidents wherein a man's entire world has been turned upside down by unsubstantiated claims of gold digging women. Trevor Bauer, Johnny Depp come to mind.

[@angelpiceno7893]

Don’t forget Ben Harrt

[@bruhplz508]

you betcha if my wife was trying to hit me with aggravated assault, i would have done the same to be able to see my kids. you know with believe all women bs going around, if i didn't have any of that evidence I would be at fault.

[@MorinehtarTheBlue]

It's a big if here. I do remember the Ben Hart thing but it's a very big difference on who struck first here. Ben answered back with his daughter Maddie because she said a few things against him and he defended himself. This guy responded to his ex-wife sympathy farming when it didn't involve him in anyway.

[@frankiek2691]

@@MorinehtarTheBlue Nah. Men have to start taking measure to protect themselves. This "believe all women" crap has gone too far, and he has a practice and a reputation to maintain. I see his response as a pre-emptive move. You can't say the vibe you got from watching the woman's video was anything but "My ex is a piece of crap, and now I'm a single mother raising these kids on my own and I'm sad about it." Initial comments in the comments section validate this. Then he came out with the receipts like, hoooold up, wait a minute. She aint even got custody of the kids. In this gyno-centric legal system, you have to be a grade-A habitual fk-up to lose custody as a woman.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

@@MorinehtarTheBlue i have seen cases where the dudes have been doxxed because their exes made videos pretty much similar to hers.... all in all, this is the version 2.0 of the ben hart situation

[@MS-ub4xs]

Keeping personal issues private has become a lost art

[@mischavanasperen3063]

Over 21K behind in child support and NOT in jail. Interesting...

[@BoinkrNanis]

Women can't go to jail because of the patriarchy...smfh. I've been locked up and the majority of the men in there are there for failed child support payments

[@4RILDIGITAL]

This whole predicament is so convoluted. Both parties should prioritize the welfare of their children above all else. The continuous online debacle doesn't benefit anyone. It's always important to remember there are real lives and real children involved in such stories.

[@tomshippoli]

Honestly, those websites and receipts were probably the only way he got custody. The family court system is absolutely fucked for fathers.

[@Sandman_10372]

A man would never rack up $20K in child support without the family court burying him.

[@puertadlm163]

I was gonna say the exact same thing but you beat me too it.

[@bruhplz508]

exactly, if a women was trying to hit you with aggressive assault. If you ever talk to a lawyer the first thing they will tell you is to document everything.

[@saulgoodman2018]

That's if it is true. Judges and lawyers can easily find all that information anyway.

[@saulgoodman2018]

@@Sandman_10372 Yeah right.

[@Idontknowho.]

Remember when people used to write in journals/diaries? I wish we could go back to that.

[@KellyTheReiss]

Yep! I miss those days!

[@greenisnice9345]

The ex-husband brings the receipts. She doesn't. The ex-husband is warning others not to get tricked by her because she ruined other people's lives including his. This makes sense. If he was wrong, then his ex-wife could sue him, but she isn't because it's all true. There's no way he could make these kinds of claims without getting in trouble if he was lying.

[@Wyomingchief]

100 facts. I absolutely believe the husband, and I understand why he's doing it. I had a very similar situation. I had full custody of the kids, she was supposed to pay child support though she never did. In the end Shield over 37,000 by the time the kids turn 18. And I never saw a dime of it, but in the meantime she had spread all kinds of rumors about me. Even though I have the kids the kids were all healthy and happy and doing great and people could see that, there were still people who bought into her BS some of those even included my own family. Show in the end when the kids turned 18, or my youngest did, the kids themselves went on the offensive and set everybody straight about their mother and her con game

[@candle86]

doesn't mean you should air them, my ex wife made up constant stories about heart problems and she is still doing it trying to gain sympathy, and shes on tiktok, doesn't mean i respond to any of it, shes dead to me, and if her heart problems ever become real maybe dead in person also lol

[@dreezy1270]

@@candle86why shouldn’t he??? She completely tried to destroy his reputation he has the right to defend himself.

[@candle86]

@@dreezy1270 having the right and it being smart are two different things, let her appear unhinged and nuts, and if it starts to affect his job or his life outside of tiktok then file a lawsuit for defamation and get a gag order that prevents her from talking about you online, going this route makes you just as petty as her.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

@@candle86 you know that she was basically looking to get him doxxed right????

[@csandersonjr2234]

As a child of divorce you have no idea how crapping on your child's other parent makes your child feel

[@ItsKindaWeirdBro...]

Yeah. I feel sorry for them.

[@LambertBowden56]

My mother shit on my father all the time and I had common sense enough to know she's was just angry at him... so get over it.

[@ItsKindaWeirdBro...]

@@LambertBowden56 Good for you.

[@dakotawolf7336]

Yep I grew up in the 70's & 80's with this. My adopted mom used me against my adopted dad. He was such a sweet man. He didn't deserve this. She would say "I'm out of money for your daughter, I need more!!", as she's buying $85 high heels or Gloria V designer jeans! He knew what she was doing. He would send more $! She did this from when I was 7 until I was 18 but I most remember it at age 10 until I was 18. As a kid, I saw how she made herself look bad, although she was hoping it showed him as the bad guy. Kids know what's right and wrong and they see who is good and bad! I really hated being stuck in the middle of this and he really loved her and me so that's probably why he just forked over more money even though he was probably hurting badly inside! I'm so glad my adopted mom didn't have SM because if she could've figured it out, she'd have destroyed him. Idk, but I've seen these videos before from another KZbin Influencer and everyone was saying this guy was ab usive and she tells her side how he kept her from having 💰 and not being able to get away. I've been in that situation too, so there's that. Now I will say I feel like both of these two somehow were draining my energy, they were energy vampires so I quit watching them, I'd had enough....so don't come for me, say what you want to say to me but I don't really care so you'd be wasting your words.....just count yourself lucky and blessed if you've never experienced either situation!

[@kailadellapenna1594]

I’m one of those kids of those parents. Sucks.

[@BradenYandle]

If you’ve never had a woman like this prey on you, I wouldn’t expect you to see his behavior as a public service to the rest of us.

[@UceScooter]

Thank you so much I thought I was going crazy hearing Brett and seeing some of the comments. Like I thought we wasn't supposed to just believe all women right? I know personally with much experience dealing with women like that and how they never admit expose or be truthful about their behavior and mistakes and wrong choices and actions and blame everyone else. Dealing with someone like that is a dangerous spot to be in and guys like her ex husband need to expose that more so I applaud him!

[@Eusong]

Also a woman and I can confirm this is very cathartic. "Believe all women" didn't apply to me because it was done to me by another woman.

[@BoinkrNanis]

Exactly. I've dated sociopath women and have had to do shit like this so people don't get stabbed or something

[@jmz2144]

She's pretty much Amanda Heard

[@sterlingdennett]

Women almost automatically get full custody of ALL the kids in Family Court these days, a woman needs to be REALLY BAD to lose custody in today's world . Let THAT sink in. Women get full custody something like 80% to 90% of the time.

[@Joya_Day]

My dad won custody of us, and my mom isn't a bad person. My dads family owes a law firm and has friends in high places. 😬 My dad wasn't the best dad, but my mom was an amazing mother. Even when he had full custody we still lived with my mom lol

[@EnlightenedMinarchist]

​@@Joya_DayObviously there are always exceptions and outliers. Just because something happens every now and then doesnt make it the norm.

[@kunya16]

Plus she could go back and keep trying to get money and custody. He's got to protect himself.

[@clownmilf6665]

some states are father’s rights states so that’s not true at all

[@merry-wn7fu]

@@EnlightenedMinarchistand what if this is also an exception like that

[@lya24]

Brett she has multiple children from different fathers, he is not the father of her eldest two children.

[@zaq1337]

Wow. Classic…

[@Kmb33831]

That was my first thought when Brett said he was referencing “her kids” and it seems like her oldest was born when she was 16. I thought “I bet that wasn’t his kid”. He has custody of HIS children. She is home everyday with HER children. So there def context missing from that.

[@tylerpedersen6262]

The fact that she doesn’t get any custody in this day and age tells me everything I need to know about her.

[@saulgoodman2018]

It does not tell you everything you need to know about her.

[@gambino883]

​@@saulgoodman2018she is crying in front of a camera and posting it online. RED flags all around.

[@saulgoodman2018]

@@gambino883 That is stil not any red flags.

[@TheShadowguy64]

@@saulgoodman2018Yes, it does. The courts bend over backwards to give custody to women. The fact she doesn’t even have 50/50 says she is incredibly unfit.

[@alexakaa.charlesross8919]

In a system that's rigged against fathers, it certainly says a lot

[@tg0611]

Didn’t the internet just applaud a woman for exposing her ex for 7 hrs (Who the F did I Marry on Tik Tok)? Where do we draw the line on what is vengeful and what is warning the public about someone?

[@ArielGonzalez1]

women = good..... men = bad. simple

[@vh7476]

ReesaTeesa posted everything anonymously, not naming him, not exposing personal information of his. Her ex later decided to expose himself... I think the difference lies in the respect of privacy of the other involved person.

[@zaq1337]

Picking and choosing like always. When it doesn’t fit their narrative, or it paints them in a bad light they get triggered and now they must defend the sisterhood from the bad men….

[@CaseyAngelicaHardy]

@@zaq1337 Some men do the same thing. Knock it off with the men vs women shite.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

@@vh7476 like the chick who's husband supposedly cheated... having to come out and post a video telling the world to stop doxxing him?? (situation which is still not clear)

[@matthewbrandon931]

If she did what he accuses her of, and apparently she did, he's within his rights to expose her.

[@UceScooter]

Exactly and Idk why people in the comments are disagreeing and arguing that! This why women like that get away with fraudulent claims because people just believe them because they are women. For a conservative right wing space I'm disappointed in how people in the comments and Brett somewhat addressed this because aren't we always going on about how believing all women is harmful toxic and dangerous?

[@Suarez05]

FACTS! Kai Cenat made a WHOLE Website dedicated to Exposing a Girl who Posted Pics of Him without consent, ZERO People are Upset about That.

[@PregnantFreddyKrueger]

She tried to throw shade at him and slander him. He defended himself with receipts since she wanted to put things (albeit false) out there. It shouldn't be made public, but the man had to defend himself at that point. And show why that woman was not to be trusted.

[@Itslauraokay]

The man is not well. She wasn’t slandering him she was just making a cake and crying she’s the one who asked people to stop sending him hate after they found out about who he was. This man is a walking red flag and a whole narcissist who has restraining orders from other women as well apparently. Anyone who’s been abused before can see that. Scientologists are disgusting.

[@Suzuki_Hiakura]

While I am with you I also know that some dads need only be accused of something to lose custody of their child... Even for all the public posting on the website and what not, it seems extreme, but at the same time I figure someone have to go that far in some cases, as any less ridiculous reporting could lead to a 3rd party stating how the mother is better and giving them the kid. When it boils down to it, he would just need to be accused of something like harming the kid, and so long as enough people believe it, he will be arrested and possibly charged; even if he was found innocent of whatever accusation, he would still have that follow him for years or the rest of his life. Think society is shifting though, and about now the same could be said about the mother.

[@victorcates9330]

If you've seen custody disputes, it's often trying to use social means to bolster you reputation and paint the other party as unreliable. In courts, you might well have character witnesses. At the end of the day, the only defense you have may be a respected figure saying they think you're a decent human being. And in a court, there are instances of people dressing all in white. If there's no real evidence, you're only defence is your character and appearances. So in a bitter divorce (functionally war), there's a motivation to control social perceptions.

[@Tee1471]

They are both screwed in the head and the poor kids do not deserve this. Her faking cancer, her cousin confirmed that makes her worse than him but 2 years of Tictoc videos of her, ya those kids deserve so much better than either of these fools. The voice mail he left her broke my heart for their daughter. I hope someone steps in and helps the kids.

[@ceu160193]

It absolutely should be made public, so next guy won't be unaware.

[@seankimberley9671]

If this was a woman warning other women about a man with those behaviors, she'd be praised. Hell, the whole are we dating the same guy movement is exactly this. It sounds like she's scamming people out of money and sympathy, and he is warning people

[@LittlestLilyPad]

EXACTLY.

[@diskonnekt1313]

Women are just upset that this man is doing publicly what they do with each other privately.

[@TrashPandaJim]

He is doing other man a public service… he is a hero … she looks like she would set him up like “ gone girl” 😬

[@evanragland4930]

​@@TrashPandaJimexactly this is no different than the "are we dating the same guy" FB pages except he's doing publicly instead of hiding behind a private FB page.

[@juliemesser2053]

Not exactly both are dangerous for their kids.

[@TrashPandaJim]

@@juliemesser2053 respectfully disagree… look at her criminal background 🤦🏻‍♂️ she has no morales … kids are safe with Dad … he is sane & warning the world 🌎 bless that man 🙏🏼

[@lori6291]

@@TrashPandaJimhe is just as bad as she is, stop trying to pin this on one person when its both,

[@rexall18v]

The fact the man got custody of the children in of itself is a miracle legally, also women will be vindictive about this fact. I dont blame this man for doing whatever hes has to do to protect his reputation.

[@bruhplz508]

she tried to hit him with aggravated assault, I would have done the same TBH because we live in a believe all women society.

[@johndickle4694]

​@@bruhplz508look at the mount of simps in Brett's comments defending this garbage woman. it crazy.

[@mawayanokami]

I also went to court to get (not full) custody of my kids too, I does happen when it's deserved usually... In my experience 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@alanawin]

This is so unfair to the children. Imagine your parents marital drama unfolding online, on TikTok out of all apps.

[@pscm9447]

I completely disagree with your take here. It's not a case of "airing dirty laundry in public" at all if the woman is a recidivist scammer that stole 1 million to another guy, faked cancer, owes him 21 000$, etc... It's, as he's saying, "to warn others". These kind of scammers can literally ruin the life of other people, they are a danger, it's not just some private matter. Yeah, you could say the guy is "obsessed" over her and should move on, "it's the mother of his kids" etc... but at the same time, we can't really blame someone for making sure a scammer/criminal that caused him problems is made accountable for her crimes while she's back to inventing stuff online. At the end of the day, if he's right, defending her or saying they should discuss this privately imply you defend a serial scammer's image and want to let her have the anonymity she needs to scam other people. It doesn't make any sense. Now, at this point, it's probably going too far with the back and forth, and there's some shady things about him as well (nobody's perfect), and you do admit you don't know who's right... But you're still according a lot of credibility to the woman in a sort of "believe all women" reflex when a judge literally gave him full custody (sorry what? Custody to a man in 2024???) and, apparently, she's saying that everyone she knows are on his side... I mean, the whole story sure is a mess... But she's still far less credible than him. And in either case, you say they should resolve this privately which, as mentioned before, can only make sense in her perspective, not his. If she's right, he's an obsessed jerk, if he is right, she's a serial scammer and he's justified in his campaign to call her out. It can't really be both. As for scientology, as much as I hate this cult, it's pretty malicious to mention a person's faith to attack his credibility (unless you're into some kind of theological debate...). I fail to see the relevance here.

[@JavierAliagaOfficial]

the fact you just called her irresponsible while scrolling thru his “weird” page and saying ew no crazy behavior while ignoring the fact he almost went homeless because of her, the fact she’s literally a scary psychopath liar who has hurt people ESPECIALLY him. why can’t a person just warn others who are actively trying to be a famous influencer, trying to be someone she’s not. he’s heavily said replying to comments that she’s a con artist. a scary con artist who manipulates and lies to people. she’s the weird one. she’s the ew no one. the crazy one. the obsessive with bad. we’re here in the first place because she posted a video of her crying like a wild narcissist. the fact you say “maybe” she’s crazy BUT SHE IS. kudos to the guy exposing the crazy lady. absolutely legend. calling out bs people and warning. i love it

[@ArielGonzalez1]

remember my friend, no matter the background, female nature is universal

[@zaq1337]

In 2024 only females are allowed to make gossip Facebook groups and lie about others online to see if they’re “dating the same guy”. When a man makes an account to warn others to not get scammed by her now it’s a problem 🤔🤔🤔

[@The_LightArrow]

the sisterhood will always protect other women no matter how subtle it may seem

[@hexgp]

Its because Brett is a woman, it doesn't matter if she's conservative or traditional as she may claim, she's a woman first. So she'll always give another woman the benefit of the doubt but assume the worst of the man regardless. I still remember how she confidently took the daughters side on that breakdancing dad drama but she never went back to clarify or make a new video about the topic with new information. Because regardless of politics her bias is there and she'll always present the women as the wronged one any chance she gets

[@UceScooter]

Yeah I'm surprised and disappointed in Brett as if she was looking for a excuse to defend the woman. Either that or she's too young and naive to experience yet that it's alot of people especially women who snakes. I don't see how Brett and others are making this about him now and taking the attention off how horrible the woman is and basically should be in prison. She scammed and stole a million freaking dollars and that's one of many instances of her being a bad person but no let's find out what he's done bad and make it about him to get the attention off his ex. Wtf, if it was the other way around people wouldn't even bother to see how credible the ex wife is and before he exposed her how people just bought in to her sad story proves it smh.

[@jessstearns4534]

My take, both parents are extremely vindictive and toxic. Constantly going back and forth while the kids helplessly sit in the middle. Absolutely ridiculous

[@yog-sherkoth1782]

I can't wait for the day documentaries start coming out about how horrible all the lives these children of influencers are. It's already easy to see the negative affects of using social media at a young age, but it's probably worse when your birth was used as content and your whole life documented for strangers entertainment.

[@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687]

Notice how she has all this to say but can't refute to the report of her robbing somebody. I don't believe he is good folks, but who has the criminal record?

[@BoinkrNanis]

She also faked cancer to scam people. She belongs in hell imo

[@montanagirl3835]

Multiple restraining orders against you I would consider a criminal record

[@WENCHintheTINFOILhat]

Brett, she started this. Her fake crying & cupcakes. As a single mom, I can tell you this is RIDICULOUS on her part & sad for him & these children.

[@johndickle4694]

exactly.

[@lori6291]

why are you sad for him if he is just as bad as her

[@Suarez05]

@lori6291 Congrats on winning the Best Out of Touch Comment Award! 🎉

[@BoinkrNanis]

She faked cancer smh

[@BoinkrNanis]

​@@lori6291uhm, he's not as bad as her. Did he fake cancer? Did he rob a dude of a million dollars? No.

[@Darnley_10]

What people have to realize is that everyone has problems. Everyone is dealing with something in their lives. The thing is, is people don’t give a shit about your problems. Your problems should not be anyone else’s problems. Deal with it in private and by yourself

[@AnnSmajstrla]

Or confide in family and/or good friends if you need advice or to get something off your chest, instead of posting it online.

[@zaq1337]

🤣🤣🤣I don’t think they’ll listen, the crying “woe is me” videos will continue all for attention clicks and clout🤸‍♂🤸‍♂🤸‍♂🤸‍♀🤸‍♀🤸‍♀🤸🤸🤸you don’t see men filming themselves crying for sympathy and doing all the theatrics when they’re single dads huh….

[@jomana1109]

@@zaq1337you actually just did. Finest example and you can’t recognize it?

[@theresalives]

Actually, as we can see here, people DO give a shit about others problems. In fact, they can’t get enough of other people’s problems because it helps them forget about their own. Welcome to the age of social media!

[@butwhy312]

​@@zaq1337Men do though. They have podcasts dedicated to crying and complaining

[@irvingguzman2612]

Brett, she stole 1 MILLION dollars from someone, and you think the guy warning people about her is the unhinged one? Even if he's shady too, she stole 1 million dollars, come on

[@matiekae0414]

There's been no proof of that either

[@samantharawson4216]

Where's that proof? I think they're both crazy and the kids need to be taken away from botb

[@BlueDauntless]

@@matiekae0414Her arrest records?

[@mroushion]

Feminist will always show their true colors, even “conservative” married one, a true hatred of men, will always come out in many forms.

[@YourFriendlyNeighborhoodHuman]

There is no proof. Narcissists tend to make claims like that to get people to go crazy all over it and hate the woman-though I’m not saying she is completely in the right either

[@Sniperahead]

4:10 hes doing gods work. Making sure noone falls for that viper. GJ

[@ignitionfrn2223]

Moral of the story : *when throwing your dirty laundry to the public, don't be surprised if they throw your /hit right back at ya !*

[@seankimberley9671]

She says she only wrote a check from their account to open a personal account, and it bounced. Sounds like she was trying to take money from the account he funded to open a personal account, and he stopped payment on it.

[@jadesterbaby]

I thought the same thing. Or what if she wrote a check for an amount that exceeded what was in the joint account? I mean, why would the bank press charges for fraud or whatever if the story really happened the way she says it did?

[@carterengelbrecht8370]

Honestly it sounds like she has continued to harass him and continued to make wild claims about him. Im inclined to believe him because he brings reciepts. No way he could make those kinds of claims without being sued for defamation. She has no recourse probably because shes lying. The simplest answer is usually the correct one

[@stupidthoughts9635]

You dont get arrested for bouncing a single check....

[@chrislong8559]

If your name is Trump you would? 😆 and you know it.

[@TheEditPro34]

Life was amazing before social media just hanging out with friends and going home when the street lights came on summer break was amazing now it’s just how many likes can we get on our next post makes me sad

[@TravisMay-l9g]

Not a more true statement has been said. Those days were the absolute best

[@adararelgnel2695]

Like... for kids? Because I doubt YOUR life revolves around likes does it? And if you weren't online, would you still be outside playing until dark? Probably not cuz you're an adult now? I'm not understanding the comparison. Do you just miss your childhood or are you mourning the childhoods of your OWN children? Because you don't have to give your own kids social media... your comment confuses me.

[@Bonsqueesquee]

I'm thinking of getting a button Nokia. Life was good then, just txt and... phone call... meeting up with friends at the Starbucks before the weird people started working there...

[@TheEditPro34]

@@Bonsqueesquee yes definitely

[@TheEditPro34]

@Anasnowlife I’m glad i inspired you!!

[@Lt_Koro]

how are the children in that "family" supposed to grow up to be anything good?

[@Ronkyort0dox]

By being raised by their dad that is defending himself against a career criminal

[@Lt_Koro]

@@Ronkyort0dox did you watch the video? Like... more than 5 minutes?

[@TheoHawk316]

They're screwed. Not as screwed as if they had been with their mom, but still screwed.

[@orlandodiaz2463]

Wow, how dirty did this guy get done to put in all this work to keep her in check.

[@The_LightArrow]

he claims he has custody of the kids. so if that is true then we all know how nuts a woman has to be to lose a custody battle in the US

[@hotdoglover1573]

Yeah i dont care how above and beyond he went to keep her in check. Actually kudos for him for protecting his ass so well. Woman have created this mans circumstance and the need to go so far. also who cares if he’s a Scientologist that’s irrelevant. This woman is clearly horrible so yeah screw her.

[@tommack9395]

I live in the Tampa Bay area and had seen her in the local news here prior to all this online crap between them. While I do not agree with the ex-husband's actions, I will say he's likely correct. She claimed she had cancer and started a go fund me, her cousin, mother and grandmother were all upset, etc... turned out to be fake. As for how he ended up with custody of the children - step-child included - she had walked out and abandoned them.

[@starbound6462]

Source? Proof?

[@tommack9395]

@@starbound6462 BayArea news and Hillsborough County Court records

[@tommack9395]

@@starbound6462 You can look this stuff up is public record. She was on Bay Action News for the cancer because she launched a "go fund me" page and turned out illegit.

[@maryse3193]

Honestly, as someone who had experienced knowing a person like his wife (someone who seems to chronically lie about everything. The person I knew even lied about her name, home, age, family and school), I appreciate the website. Investigating this stuff and having to trace past relationships is not easy

[@MyUniqueCuriosities]

When chasing attention goes terribly wrong 😂

[@davidcox3076]

Attention ho's goin' to attention ho.

[@S2k_GRsti]

100%

[@MagdalenaH]

Like i said the first time when I saw this story.. at the end of the day the conclusion is - people like that should not be parents. Too focused on themselves, anger towards each other, sense of needing to fight or spite each other. a responsible adult with children under their care should always focus ALL of their attention on what's best for the child(ren) even if goes against your own precious feelings or pride. I can only feel sorry for the kids as both of those people are unfit to parent.

[@Dimnd_Hnd]

He has receipts and she has tears. He's addressed everything and she's cherry picking. End of story. Yet it's funny how even with evidence, proof, and the whole nine yards she keeps getting the benifit of the doubt (if, maybe, etc) But somehow he's still the bad guy (obbsesive, narcissist, etc) So if I were him I would everything he's accused of, keeping her in check to expose her continuous scams. Also, they might be playing us all to get their own show "Keeping up with The Carzy B!t

[@DonnovanThomas929]

Honestly this guy is smart. He’s absolutely got her stuck and he pulled the right move by getting these receipts and making this website. Beyond legally absolving himself, he’s socially absolved himself from any slander she can make up (which would come in really handy when it comes to jobs)

[@KellyTheReiss]

I mean that's really true.

[@locutusofnubz]

It's funny. No one entertains all of this speculation when men owe child support or lose custody.

[@Ana-vv9iq]

Brett, you should look into covering the Clayton Echard (former Bachelor) v Laura Owen’s case, the trial is upcoming on June 10th. Women are treated with such bias and the laws are written in ways that favor women, even when the woman is the perpetrator and the man is the victim. We need to start believing victims, after facts have been presented, regardless of their gender.

[@Isabella66Gracen]

I'm sorry, but Moms, single and married, have been making their own birthday cakes for generations. Most of us have never felt self pity over that. Most of us DO know, however, what it is like to pretend we are joyous when we are hurting on a daily basis. Thats just life.

[@aram8458]

Fathers have been living working all their lives working for family, child support, alimony and all other birthdays. Sometimes spending hard earned money holidays of family that includes mothers.

[@butwhy312]

​@@aram8458You couldn't stand to see someone uplifting mother's just shows you probably don't have one. She never said anything bad about fathers. The majority of the time, it's the mothers that step up.

[@aram8458]

@@butwhy312 You couldn't just listen to some uplifting fathers. Probably you don't know who your father is. Majority of the time fathers die early giving better life for next generations. How are women stepping up ?. By getting divorce and taking away house from fathers ?. Upto 18 years of child support not easy kiddo.

[@duznygeyafock]

Signed a paper to do with custody of your kids without reading it or giving it to your lawyer to read n converse about? What a smart cookie haha

[@Kmb33831]

Dude they all say this. I was there when my mom fought tooth and nail for stock in my dad’s business. She wouldn’t sign the divorce papers unless she got stock-she didn’t want the monetary value. Flash forward 2 years and she claimed in court the stock had no value and she wanted the cash-and she claimed she was duped and signed things under duress! Meanwhile the windfall agreement that was impacting how much the stock could be valued at when my parents split had expired. So she got like double what she would have gotten if she had taken the money initially. Point is-it basically ruined our family financially. She got her payday and skipped off and couldn’t understand why her kids weren’t happy about it. But I was there. I know what was said (screamed) she DEMANDED stock-and then later claimed “she had no resources and signed it under duress” I tend to not believe those stories. Women I have known who’ve walked through that kind of fire rarely speak about it and you usually only find out details as they slip out over many decades-and usually by others. Women crying about their mistreatment to try to win over the court of public opinion are generally lying.

[@duznygeyafock]

@@Kmb33831 sounds like you and your dad are better off without her

[@oluasdd]

Bro found a way to beat the family court system, and he's in the wrong/narcissistic/bad guy?

[@lisapop5219]

If he is with scientology, what he is doing is on brand.

[@TechMan042]

Actually scientologists are known for being deranged morons who demonize and vilify people irrationally and illegitimately. What he's doing is completely rational, completely legitimate

[@heinrichsoltow1829]

Scientologists call it 'Fair Game' IIRC.

[@3viL_LivE]

That type of behavior is utterly against the morals that are taught in Scientology. I've read all of the basic texts. The books are in many public libraries so people can look for themselves and not take my or anyone else's word for it.

[@lisapop5219]

@@3viL_LivE sure it is. What do you do to people or spouses who break free? Or maybe you haven't paid enough to know?

[@3viL_LivE]

​@@lisapop5219 LOL! I doubt you're interested in finding out any truth about it as you obviously "already know everything". That said, I'm sure you are familiar with the extent to which information can be twisted. Everyone could do themselves a favor by looking at things as they are and forming their own opinions, rather than parroting others.

[@ruby-clairecampbell4507]

fr im so tired of hearing people's life stories on the internet 💀

[@zaq1337]

🤣🤣🤣you don’t have a choice now?? Stop acting like it’s not up to you lol. You must be new here, take Brett coopers advice: log off, go touch grass. Problem solved girl ! !

[@TokarevArtyom]

so far you only prooved how insane that gal is, not tha guy is "equally shady". Especially since some of allegations against him are proovably false. But EVEN if thyey were not... still not even on the same level. I cant imagine how LOW should gal be for courts to award full custody to a guy. And consiedring possible battle he went through to protect his kids from that kind of "mom"... i cant blame him for being pissed and exposing lies she keep telling. Dat was really bad take. Even under guise of "worry about kids".

[@BaldwinVoice]

It is absolutely insane that people are willing to share their entire lives online. I treat my private life with my private parts. Nobody knows about it outside of my home. And I think that's the correct way.

[@Kino_pup]

That’s why I still just think social media is bad for humans really. #1: you put your fake self and fake reactions/emotions on a post to portray a fake image of your life.. #2: you get paid and famous for your fakeness. You get paid for something that does no tangible good for the world.. you add to nothing here…. You eat up resources and play “house” online sitting inside all day while the world supports you. You’re a net negative and worse than welfare queens. Ever since everyone and their mom has tried to be social media famous.. it has only made the culture,craziness,fakeness of it worse so they can try and stick out.

[@masa9235]

At first I thought this was abt REAL laundry 😭🙏

[@roxstarusha]

You very pure soul stay that way 😂

[@jazmineavila6578]

Hahah I can only imagine “who keeps airing out dirty laundry? You gotta wash it first” 😂

[@DreamweavrHairDesign]

Metaphorically the kids have to wash and fold that laundry and the stains don’t all come out. Some of it stays with them. They can’t learn what true love and respect should exist in healthy marriage/partnership. Their experience won’t end with hs graduation. I feel bad for them

[@RD24LFG]

I dont blame him. These are the lengths he has to go to to protect himself from allegation from her. He's getting ahead of the narrative.

[@stephanie3087]

He sounds like a stalker. She sounds like a liar. Get ‘em both gone

[@Weavileiscool]

They both need to just leave the internet no one who doesn’t know them personally needs to be in the middle of this

[@Sandman_10372]

If she owed me $20K, I'd piss on her grift until I get paid. Good for him.

[@qb4428]

He's not a stalker. This is just what men have to do to have a chance of winning custody.

[@re_tomori549]

Stalker? For posting videos to warn others to not engage in a relationship with that b**tch?

[@djaeger-k5m]

Clearly you haven’t seen how courts treat men smh

[@rudyramos2333]

Finally a guy that won, and made sure to keep the W. He probably got sick and tired of her crap and this is the result.

[@stirlingjacobs5503]

wow two people sharing way too much of their personal lives on social media both turnout to be unhinged………. never saw tht coming😂

[@anthony88ization]

5:17 I’m glad that you don’t understand the situation to be honest. You’ve never had to experience something traumatic as he’s experienced. And that’s great for you.

[@JayKay-ov8lu]

I found a new song! "Now you a single mom"- Jamal 😂😂😂

[@Pinksalmun]

"Under duress" is the new universal escape clause for females. Want out of a contractual agreement? It was signed while under duress and invalid. Made a bad decision that I regret? I was under duress at the time. Caught openly lying? Did it to protect myself as I was under duress. There are even influencers online who coach women on how to use it.

[@TrashPandaJim]

Dude !!! You can tell by her eyes on the bounce check video …. She is a real life “Gone Girl”

[@reyshakquit]

Bro they might just drop a DISS TRACK on each other one of these days🤣🤣🤣

[@kcltube3]

you know what honestly, his behaviour is that of someone who has been abused manipulated and gaslit. this is exactly what happens when you've been driven to the edge, it changes you. I"ve been there. you go nuts because you're always trying to prove the unprovable, and especially when it's a man saying he was messed with by a woman, no one believes you and this is what happens. she's probably always behind the scenes of his life messing with him, talking dirt to everyone and their kids etc. he is unwell, but it's because of her, you can only take so much of being around a crazy person until you go crazy yourself. he can't escape because they have kids together.

[@MixedGoku]

All people are crazy! It just comes down to what makes them crazy!

[@williammohle4607]

So she wanted to ruin his life and stole millions and keeping others safe is weird?

[@Phd366]

I’m worried about the kids too… the voice note she showed of him telling their daughter something along the lines of “mommy blocked you”, I was mortified for the kid! She may not be an angels, but neither he!

[@FinePopcorn]

What a mess… feel bad for the kids 😢

[@AbbyeShaw]

They need to take all of this information and go to Judge Matt’s Courtroom.

[@stevo728822]

Brett treats the woman's claims as reliable as the man's, despite the man having multiple court documents proving his version of events is far more reliable. Brett prefers jury by social media rather than actual legal proof.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

female nature is universal.... it doesn't discriminate background or beliefs

[@juliewilliams40]

These people need to get off of all social media and worry more about their children! They're sick! Anyone who posts everything about their private life needs to get a real life.

[@BeerNightYTshow]

I smell a Netflix series

[@305Independent]

So she admitted that the children were not with her on her birthday. This combined with the fact the father was actually able to get full custody in 2024 makes me want to side with him.

[@fatimazahrasyeda4564]

The new issue is the Netflix episodes that just came out about the cult of 7m TikTok which is just gonna make them more famous ; I won’t search them up in TikTok or give them any attention but I know others will …

[@jasamboginja]

If you have ever been in a relationship with a narcissist you get so slandered, maligned and gaslit that you snap and go to lengths that you would never go to to prove who they are. Yes, you look obsessive and probably a little crazy but, you don't understand the devils that narcs are.

[@Greywolf-91]

A woman has to be a real monster to lose custody of her kids, especially in the shitty family court system.

[@S2k_GRsti]

Correct

[@akdragon]

when I was a young lad my grandmother gave me the Advice of "Don't Air Your Dirty Laundry in Public' this was well before the "social media" craze

[@lorieakin5771]

Anyone can write up a cease and desist letter. If it's not been approved by the court it means nothing.

[@robertclark5874]

This is social media gold! People can't get enough. Give the people more!

[@johnstraub7494]

Okay, I am 70 years old and when my parents got divorced, I was like 10 years old and there were 6 of us. We, one at a time, had to tell a Judge who we wanted to live with. 3 of us chose our mother and 3 our father. It was a messy divorce to be honest, especially when you are 10 and had to decide which parent you wanted to live with. That decision, basically telling one of your parents you love less than the one you chose to live with. Now, since I have that kind of background, I feel it allows me to say this. Both people involved in this story are terrible parents, neither of them deserve full custody, if any. But if both lose custody, what do you do? Relatives who might get custody? This is a tough one.

[@Muddfeet64]

I doubt divorces nowadays compared to 60 YEARS AGO!!!!!! (When there was no money involved to influence everything about divorces) were the same. Heck and I know that too be true because my dad as an 80's kid went through divorced parents and there was no money involved, *THE KIDS CHOSE WHO TO BE WITH*. Nowadays as Ive been through it, was awful and there was no choice, my mom like 90% of this era's divorces favors woman whether its good or not, and the woman get to take all the divorced husbands money for "support" while possibly remarried/in a relationship to someone else. The Father is showing receipts, giving proof and is fine in this situation, and also is one of the luckiest men this day and age. My dad, brother and I only couldve wished for a situation like this (or at least a more fair predicament) so that my brother could stay with our dad cause he was not treated right and got into lots of arguements with my mom even before, but nope she got all the control and favored by courts even with lots of police calls.

[@jessicawelton3036]

Those poor kids. During my parents separation the two of them would talk horribly about one another to me. It was awful being caught in between them. I cant imagine what its like with it all out in public like this

[@lorieakin5771]

LLCs are away to keep your money. You just give yourself a salary out of it. She can't get to his money. It's not an unusual thing to do for professionals who own their own business. So her using that as a gotcha is showing her vindictive side and a manipulative nature on her part.

[@sarahcarter8577]

This is what I was thinking. Hes not being sneaky, he's using the law to best benefit him, which is totally okay!

[@NewfieAsianKid]

I used to do that on Facebook, but thats when I was young and my parents would hold me accountable. Now that I gotten older, I came to my senses and eventually smarten up. There are trolls online that takes entertainment from reading drama.

[@theRulekeeper]

I think my melting health I’ll just delete all social media off my phone so I don’t have to hear about this clown world anymore

[@briannehawks613]

Two toxic people can make for some real drama. Just like Brett said, i feel badly for the kids. Who knows how they'll turn out seeing these videos and sites online.

[@zcorpalpha2462]

Interesting years from now what the children think of both mother & father I hope they have a voice when they age ❤️

[@maxwillson]

What if they're both in on it together and making up fake drama for maximum profit while laughing at us all?

[@AllenSouder]

This guy is doing something that most women would do

[@mysteryheart53]

Real

[@sonoftheredfox]

This is the content I like seeing from this channel, not all of the recent Brett's "I just got married, so I know all about relationships" stuff and I'll give you advice.

[@daniels4540]

What do we learn? Divorce is fricking epic.

[@MKmE.]

He created the site to warn others about a very sick con artist. He's doing society a service and should be commended. The fact that she, as the mother, did not get full custody in the divorce settlement speaks volumes about the type of person she really is.

[@Giarcnek]

Are you telling me that, I shouldn't "Air" my shit-stained underwear on TikTok and ask how to get their stains out?

[@zaq1337]

It’s where all the victim playing crying video girlies hang out to get clout🤡🌎

[@sarinsarit9034]

Never trust a woman recording Herself crying what is going on With everyone putting there Business on line

[@zombicat8]

I'm begging the world, please bring back personal privacy! I'm reconsidering my stance on bring back shaming as well. 😊

[@nonniebelle]

Broken families with vengeful, bitter parents are literally the worst. My husband has three boys from a previous marriage and they are so hurt and broken and don’t understand. The boys are so sweet but their mom abuses them and uses them as weapons trying to hurt their dad. Like I said: it’s the worst.

[@stevec3526]

His ex-wife, who is a horrible woman, is an out and out scammer. He is purely responding to her atrocious behavior. He is being defamed by her, and he is merely protecting his reputation.

[@Voltaic_Fire]

She's a raging liar, he's a scientologist, neither should have children.

[@Adam-bm7mq]

He's actually not a scientologist. He said those claims are false.

[@Voltaic_Fire]

@@Adam-bm7mq Everybody lies.

[@zaq1337]

@@Adam-bm7mq 🤣🤣🤣 they believe anything, always blaming everyone but themselves 🤡🌎 no accountability, blaming it on men is the only way to look like a victim…

[@SanchoPanza-wg5xf]

Oh, man, you've got my sides splitting and tears of laughter running down my cheeks! I'm only 4 minutes in. What a couple of pieces of work that never should have seen the light of day. LOL

[@MetalHeadCobra420]

Wait! she was 16 and he was 24 when he knocked her up!? 🤢🤮

[@TechMan042]

Let's use logic and rationality, try using your brain. Do the research, age of consent is 16 or 17 in the vast majority of states in the US. Only a few states have 18 as legal consent age. 99% of women to have ever lived on the planet for the last 300,000 years were post pubescent adults capable of consenting to sex and getting pregnant and having babies, and all those 99% of women to have ever lived did so without all the tools technology medicine and other resources available to women today. if she wanted to have sex, that's her choice

[@davidwagner9644]

She is 30, not 28.

[@b.calvinsaul1909]

The two oldest children are not his, AND HE STILL GOT CUSTODY!

[@fearless3geclipse]

I'm glad that he has everything on record. It's smart of him to do so. Now in days women are crazy and all he is doing is protecting himself