#660

[@kenyanicholas6809]

Wow this channel has been grinding for years, how does he still only have 12K in 5 years?

[@phtevlin]

Re: Therapist dismissing or minimizing their clients who want to deal with being an Incel. I am a childhood sexual abuse victim. I cannot tell you how many blank faces I've spoken to about my own history and trauma. Too many therapists are utterly clueless in dealing with something they didn't learn about in college.

[@singintherain-e7h]

Finally a philosopher is talking about the psychology of being an incel 😮 Thank you for this wonderful channel!

[@brettwilliams8971]

Its not a movement its a symptom

[@thedarkestknight8381]

A symptom of a society going on the down

[@modvs1]

Just watched this guy on Triggernometry the other day- fascinating stuff! Thanks Ricardo.

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Looks is the issue not kindness personality or status money if you need status and money it’s already a legal prostitution relationship

[@rjflores438]

We talk about poor body image in women. But being an involuntarily celibate man has got to be awful.for a mans body image and body confidence, as well as overall self image, but this is never talked about at all in the media as it relates to being invisible to women ot feelong as though you are due to the fact that women dont bother to talk to you and/or reject you when you do make an effort. Its like your in a bell jar looking out at the men and women who just seem to effortlessly attract each other whilst your left on the shelf. Dont get me wrong, I have had a couple of long term relationships with women, one lasted 4 years and the other 2 years, but in between these relationships I have had 2 and 3 years of involuntary celibacy and I am experiencing that now again for the past year. Im not an ugly guy either, Im 6ft tall and in shape. but I always feel like an imposter when I approach and talk to women as if I dont deserve to have any connection with them. It usually takes me a good couple of years to get my confidence back.

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Try being short ethnic I feel ugly I hate myself I don’t have friends I’m a failure I hate life

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Being ugly balding short ethnic why live at that point

[@taras3702]

@@thedarkestknight8381 Try being on the Autism spectrum, now there's something that obliterates your chances with women from the get go. Add depression and you got a confirmed kill. Yes I am white, yes I am tall, yet I had shitty luck with women. Men all too often do all the right things, and die alone or are trapped in dead bedroom marriages with women that don't really want them. I'd rather be alone than be in a marriage like that with a woman who doesn't want me. I have been alone over 20 years since my divorce, which was a fist full of red pills for me.

[@nimoc1459]

Just to comment on the conjecture about arranged marriage in China. First, arranged marriages in general are often arranged by elders within the families and the to-be-married young people have more or less agency in the process. Justin Lehmiller has one interview about this topic. The above point is to point out that the conjecture that the state arranges marriages between two ethnic groups is not consistent with the norm of the practice. And to be honest, this sounds like cold war propaganda. In Chinese online forums, the discussions surrounding inter-ethnic marriage often are about cross-cultural communications and economic costs traveling from different provinces. Another salient issue is that families from ethnic minorities believing Islamic religion often require the potential in-law to also be in the same religion, which puts another layer of pressure on inter-ethnic marriage (as most ethnic Han are agnostic or atheists). I think this phenomenon can be observed also in Turkish communities within Europe. [the above is just my humble opinion]

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Face height hair race determines your dating

[@interestedinideas]

The psychological traits are not a million miles away from the internal experience of NPD

[@pseudonamed]

Dating apps make people have unrealistic expectations, they see so many people and aim high. Most of the messages go to the more successful men and to the youngest hottest women.

[@usergiodmsilva1983PT]

1:00 WITNESSED!

[@thedarkestknight8381]

The fact you tell them they have high standards and shouldn’t be going after higher value mates but in same sentence saying that they overestimate how much looks superficial things matter is a contradiction

[@pseudonamed]

There is a lot of focus on men, but women, especially young women, are also having less sex than before. What is making that happen?

[@hugor1338]

Fat

[@skylinefever]

Too many chubbies, not enough chubby chasers.