DO I NEED TO ASK FOR PERMISSION FROM MY PARTNER?

[@denzhemabuli5449]

I think I would like just to add on what Lerato said. Allowing your partner to be themselves and to explore and evolve goes a lot with trust which a lot of men need in a relationship. There is a level of love expressed in trusting your partner to do things you might not be sure of or approve. Trust that goes with respect, respecting that someone is a grown adult who isn't naive, we do not marry our son but a full grown adult. Trusting that they will have your best interests at heart in doing what they want to do. Cautioning them about the dangers but giving them the space to live out their lives to the full . Trusting that even if it doesn't end well, you would have played your part in showing them love and would provide a safe space when life happens. Love is indeed not controlling..

[@tintswalomathonsi]

Well said, i agree! 💪🏽💪🏽

[@shirleyways5568]

100%

[@noziphorosemtshali9202]

I wish I can add 10000000 likes on this comment

[@tintswalomabasa565]

Very true ☑️☑️

[@Mkhehla]

This was funny to watch. I often ask for permission from my wife, and she's always like; "But why are you asking for my permission?" To which I always say; "Because you're the boss!!" She hates it, and yes, there are nuances to it and how we run our household, but it is what it is...😂

[@rmadega]

This to me is the perfect example of a genuine conversation. The kind of content i signed up for. Keep it up guys. You're helping us a lot.

[@walusungumwandila6906]

Definitely what I signed up for!

[@alungilekhophe8757]

I Agree with Mrs Makhs "Pain" changes people, from being a warn to a cold person. I say this out of experience. This is were someone needs professional help.

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯 it really does.

[@shirleyways5568]

🤣🤣🤣 loved this conversation. As for “you’ll deprive me” 😂😂🤣🙈

[@prudencekamukwamba8673]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sanelemjoli4877]

Ask permission and avoid unnecessary conflict and there will be so much peace in your relationship. The Great I AM loves you

[@katlimoagi]

I think asking for permission can be a form of respect

[@allthings_suzieq]

hayi mani why did this instalment feel like it was 5 mins……loved every second❤

[@TheMakhs]

Sorrry😂❤❤. Thanks Suzie🤗. We will make the next one a bit longer♥️🤗😊

[@brigettebond6088]

Lovely listening to you guys. Wow Lerato you really hit back today. Asking permission is a no, no for me but communication and taking my husband's/ wife's feelings and been thought is something we do. We love yah 💓

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯❤️

[@bulelwapringana5960]

I love this, may God bless me with a partner that will stimulate my intellect, deep miningful conversations are important in relationships especially marriage🤗😍

[@siyahloks]

Zange ndahleka kangaka😭😂😂😂😂 this is a real real conversation. Love you😍😍🥰🥰🥰

[@veronicachirombe7617]

❤❣great conversation - you always tackle them difficult conversations :) Much respect guys

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much sis Vee♥️♥️

[@BeingYolisa]

The motor bike part 😂 the way Lerato reacted with “the lies” 😂

[@tiisorantoa2997]

Not me screen shooting your reaction on hasetse okwatile🤣🤣 I love your content guy, so enlightening and refreshing ✨️ 💕

[@michellecasagrande2011]

It is Lerato gasping for me!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wewemhlaba7593]

Missed my favourite people so good to have you back💃❤

[@sunflowerpalee]

I love how you guys have mature as a couple and your channel is very informative. ❤

[@mapitselefika8612]

One thing about yalls thumbnails? I love them 🤣❤️❤️

[@lindsayndhlovu183]

Such a heated and important conversation once again from the lovely Makhs, thank you!!👌🏽🙌🏽👏🏾💗

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much♥️.

[@owethuposwa1991]

I really love how authentic you guys are, so unfiltered and eductive.

[@lebogangmasemula8958]

This was a great conversation, I agree with the both of you! Communication is everything ❤

[@masabathamhlongo6378]

“You will deprive me…” Lerato🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ey guys thanks for this it’s an almost everything thing that we turn to face in marriages, as much as we don’t have to ask for permission, accountability is somehow making us seem like we are, and for the fact that we have to talk everything through, we are different sometimes it can really take a toll on us, leading to fights…I’m currently facing a similar issue, sometimes you want something so hard and your partner doesn’t see it that way anyway life goes on, we grow through all these!

[@kanyamazula1145]

Loved it!..Mr Makhs was basically saying we need to love our partners without conditions...it's hard but definitely doable !!!

[@favoursplanetearth]

Hi guys I watch y'all videos but I don't comment.. thanks for great instalments.. you are fun to watch ❤️♥️❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah thank you so much for commenting♥️♥️♥️♥️. We love you🤗

[@Pabistar]

I thoroughly enjoyed this installment and I'm generally an easy going person and I have issues with a partner thinking I should ask for permission because it feels like o batla go ncontrolla.

[@siphosethubaneti9025]

I also wouldn't even negotiate when it comes to my partner buying a motorbike, it's a no no for me.

[@LM-he7eb]

Me too. My dad almost lost his life on the bike. So, No!

[@vuvumofficial]

Even myself, my husband was in a stage where he wanted a motorbike so bad. I demotivated him and even show him pics and videos of people who passed from motorbike accidents. One day we drove past an accident where a motoring and a biker was involved and the bikers head was detached from his body and stuck into the helmet. From that day he said I change my mind cause I’m a motor you have 10% of surviving and if you do it’s either you will be paralysed for the rest of your life or even brain dead. It’s only 1% that becomes that lucky and survive without any scratch

[@TheMakhs]

@@vuvumofficial Yoo this is so scary😮

[@vuvumofficial]

@@TheMakhs Very scary 😟

[@molokorapholo]

it was proper heated!! 🤣 lovely conversation as always.

[@TheMakhs]

Right?!!😂😂😂♥️♥️

[@happymuller841]

A heated, 2 real conversation! Been noddin' my head throughout the conversation! Goodness😪😂❤love you fam❤

[@balukhoza9795]

Ke neng lerena resa lebone, bathong! ❤️❤️❤️💖

[@kaihuramercy1673]

Phetola always looks amazing 💃🏻

[@lindiswamfiki9461]

I'm always looking forward to your videos guys you are such a wonderful couple the thing that kept me to this channel is because you guys love the Lord

[@milli-vanillisihamba9211]

Notification Gang ❤️🙏 Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦

[@Gratitude_Corner]

Thank you great installment enjoyed the discussion 💚

[@zithamashamba2221]

A very interesting conversation

[@timbasibongile]

This was short and sweet

[@mariemathebula251]

When Phetola said "you communicate"😅 Lerato's face 🤣

[@prudencekamukwamba8673]

Ikr🤣🤣😅

[@kiileetsoku2397]

The thumbnail, I can’t 😭

[@TheMakhs]

Ubaba 👌🏾😂

[@TheChroniclesOfIan]

I liked it when uMama said communicate rather than ask for permission

[@lindomashego9472]

Oh wow I love you guys you know what you are very real wow I really enjoy the conversation 🥰🥰👌

[@gloriaphasoane7507]

The conversation was 🔥🔥💯💯❤️❤️👌

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@teboJoh]

The motorbike issue 🤔I think Pheto allow Lerato to buy it cos men will only agree with you after experiencing the practical side of things. I have the same feelings as Pheto about motorbikes

[@lengwebobo7418]

GREAT instalment. Thank you!

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you for watching♥️♥️

[@nolofatsomampane1279]

Love the hair too ❤❤

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you🤗♥️♥️😊

[@uanividolly3621]

My favorite favorite couple ❤

[@Mbalings]

My partner says “love the boys are going on a weekend trip, May I please go” he is the one who decided to use those words. But it doesn’t mean I can say no. I’ve never actually. Now, if I say “I’m going on a girls trip” he says “alright, enjoy” If I say “love may I please go on a girls trip” Then he asks the most key question of all “HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED?” 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@keedisaletsendala4583]

enjoyed the episode

[@deboraha5609]

My favorites 👏

[@lorrainenyakala7471]

Phetola's face at 12:01 🤣🤣 I spilt my tea! ke rata your humor so much, ausi. in every episode you make me laugh.

[@myriamcajuste1194]

Another great conversation ❤👏

[@allthings_suzieq]

l love you guys…..and this instalment was wholesome as always ❤

[@TheMakhs]

We love you!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️. Thank you so much for always tuning in🤗🤗🤗

[@nolofatsomampane1279]

Here to sign the register. Dumelang bo beautiful ❤

[@portiamonageng9161]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@buyile_beverly]

Not the thumbnail bandla 😂😂😂❤️

[@TheMakhs]

♥️😂😂😂

[@LM-he7eb]

Wanting to wear skimpy clothes is as much a symptom "bigger issues", as wanting a motorbike

[@tinahrakgole9608]

This motorbike issue is so serious 😂 I want to hear story sa teng😂😂

[@tinahrakgole9608]

You guys are so amazing 😂

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much♥️😂. It really was something that made us fight a lot. We went for counselling. We continued speaking about it. 5/6 years ago I bought him a helmet to say I don’t want to stand between him and his dreams. He has been speaking less about it😂. When I was pushing back, that’s all he spoke about🤷🏾‍♀️

[@PalesaV]

My faves 🫶🫶

[@AnnstaciaK]

📍Sila.

[@TheMakhs]

Ka nkane😂♥️♥️♥️😊

[@zandilemiya3930]

My faves😍😍

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@lifutsotsephe7544]

You guys kill me😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂

[@watidaishebobo4535]

My people!!!!!!

[@TheMakhs]

Our person!♥️♥️

[@yolandanokamatye1709]

At 15:02... but you will deprive me🤣😂😅

[@aminahsabano2339]

I love it😍🤗more love from 🇳🇦

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Yes y’all been like hawa two weeks with the gents it’s to much mostly because some people have insecurities when it comes to their parents as much as you asked permission she will call you every second 😂😂 video call by the way 💀

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sweet_Girlie]

Notification gang!!💯🎉❤️

[@LethoHali]

Let the man get his motorbike ausi 😅

[@TheMakhs]

I wish we gave more context about the bike yaz. It really was a bone of contention in our marriage. We even went to counseling because we were just not agreeing. About 5/6 years ago I bought him a helmet to say that as uncomfortable as I am, I cannot stand between him and his dreams. It’s strange cause after I bought him the helmet he literally stopped speaking about the bike🙆🏾‍♀️😃, and hasn’t bought it yet. I was extremely fearful of a motorbike, I still slightly am. All I can do is to trust God for divine protection when he finally gets the bike.

[@LethoHali]

@@TheMakhs awhhh I totally get it! I was a bit like you 🙈. And I think he might be thinking what if he gets it and then actually get in a motorbike accident? 😃 Or he just doesn’t wanna worry you despite how much he wants the bike. It’s definitely a catch 22 situation. Shem I feel for you both. Hahah. If he got it, you both would be unhappy 😃 (for different reasons of course). You most likely would not let him ride it in peace kikik

[@masegowinnie7704]

❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

[@nonofokgadisa766]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@EricaBaduh]

was tense today...but loving the content

[@TheMakhs]

Extremely 🤣. But it’s all love♥️

[@MyTestimony_]

Bathong lona… thumbnail😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LM-he7eb]

The thumbnail🤣

[@PreciousDimpho]

Yebo baba 🤣

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

Akere!😂😂😂

[@LM-he7eb]

@@PreciousDimpho Nomayini baba🤣

[@nolofatsomampane1279]

🎉

[@TheMakhs]

🎉🤍♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@lerato17mokoena]

❤️💡🙏

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

DreamTeam Namibia 💯🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🙏🏽🌸❤️💕

[@TheMakhs]

Namibia in the house❤❤❤❤

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

@@TheMakhs aaaaaaahhhhhhhhh!!!!🥹🥹🥹🫠🫠🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@theitoyas]

Thumbnail 😂😂

[@LM-he7eb]

Nna, I know what Mr.Makhs doesn't want; "Bums on the internet"

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@KaraboM]

🤗🎉🔔❤

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@marvelousmbali8002]

Hello Fam

[@TheMakhs]

Hey fam!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marvelousmbali8002]

✌🏾

[@lehlohonolomokhachane9244]

Phetola I love you so much but your body belongs to your husband 🤣🤣🤣

[@lehlohonolomokhachane9244]

Phetola as a woman of God, you should submit to your husband 😂😂😂. God has given him authority over you(biblically)

[@marvelousmbali8002]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Bravva_01]

Wait, is it just me seeing that Mr Makhs has put on a little flesh...lol which is ok BTW

[@thembinxitywa9754]

♥️♥️♥️

[@sindysibanda1841]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@TheMakhs]

❤❤❤❤❤