I'm rwandan man and all i can tell you is the more you do indirect moves with a rwandan girl/boy the more things will go faster!!! generally rwandans are so passive in all kind of interactions(including dating).it can mislead someone who is not aware thinking that the rwandan girl/boy is not interested. Don't ever try to rush things with a rwandan woman.Just take your time!
@mukamiyouness92996 жыл бұрын
Am from Kenya dating a Rwandese guy,this will end up to marriage.
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
great to hear
@Tunawesmake5 жыл бұрын
Dada zake wako wapi?
@ChrissC05 жыл бұрын
YouNess Frank😍😍
@Millyosodo4 жыл бұрын
@@Tunawesmake tuko hapa lol
@Tunawesmake4 жыл бұрын
@@Millyosodo :-) nice! Uko Kenya ama Rwanda?
@dotunn3 жыл бұрын
Honestly this sounds almost exactly like Nigerian culture, so similar
@tendies6 жыл бұрын
You made me understand myself better, thanks.
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Glad to have helped
@daisyumutoni89575 жыл бұрын
I could say the same
@Afroxidental1236 жыл бұрын
Wow I really liked this video! I really thought that the shyness/passive attitude, that the "no display of public affection" was for my family only, but now I just get that it's quite impregnated in our Rwandan DNA!!
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
whahah, nope. its a rwandan thing! lol
@gloriamutoni51376 жыл бұрын
Same here..narinzi ko ari ikibazo cyo murugo gusa
@hailemelekot3283 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy I came across a random video a week or so, about Rwanda 🇷🇼 (I knew nothing about Rwanda apart the movie Hotel Rwanda) and I watched it and it’s mind blowing not only the woman looks like where I am from (Eritrea) but also how very similar the culture is to my culture like almost 100% even the character I thought it was only as a bit shy ☺️ well I see why my next holiday destination is Rwanda 🇷🇼 ✌️
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
whoohoo, very nice. 🥳 see you in Rwanda than 😁
@rehma51482 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@nessaduh80336 жыл бұрын
I like the attire Theo. Very dashing 😏
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
thank you, its for special occasions, like valentine's day 😁LoL
@Max-xg9tx6 жыл бұрын
New subscriber from the Caribbean here!
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
welcome!
@Thami-vm1hc5 жыл бұрын
Which part of caribe?
@DukundaneEtienne6 ай бұрын
Hello
@martinkaloki26776 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm Kenyan. Rwandese folks sound like great people actually
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Hallo, they are :) LOL
@izdesie5084 жыл бұрын
Well, Thank you
@anicetndayishimiye58786 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for lonelness all Rwandans who are abroad. Hope u'll visit Rwanda one day.I'm luck that I still live in my motherland
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Lol, yeah hope to visit Rwanda soon
@tarigelshafie99504 жыл бұрын
Woo I didn't knew that you got KZbin channel bro keep it up proud of you
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
Yeah thanks
@daromaka37505 жыл бұрын
Enlightening intro, Loving Rwanda
@amalali87123 жыл бұрын
This is so similar to us Somali’s but a wishy washy man talking to multiple options or being hot/cold with his pursuit sees his stock plummet as it contradicts him being decisive and someone who would care for you. I know it works opposite in many cultures. Thank you for the cultural insight. Other elements of your culture would be interesting also.
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
you are welcome. thank you for your insights
@patbo_3 жыл бұрын
I'm from DRC but I really love rwandese people. I hope one day I will mary a rwandan
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
yeah, go for it
@yahiakubara74464 жыл бұрын
I’m from north Khartoum Sudan 🇸🇩 lives in USA 🇺🇸 im really looking forward for Rwanda’s woman
@lydian57626 жыл бұрын
Waaaaayaminute!! did you say house for dowry??? who did that? uh!
@DignaK6 жыл бұрын
I'm dating a Rwandan. He's amazing...😍😍😍😍
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
huhuh, lucky guy! :)
@benitheisingizwe6 жыл бұрын
tameika cooper it's depends on whom u met , he/she can be either best or worse but as a rwandese we hide our feelings, for example every person here when u ask how are u ? Everybody say I'm fine
@ChrissC05 жыл бұрын
@tameika cooper inbox me
@Chilbuli_Baby6 жыл бұрын
Heeey , thank you soo much 4 this !!! I loved the unwritten rules, can you do a whole video on it or even a two part extensive video? It can be soo completely confusing and easy too embarrass yourself or offend someone in social functions. And i've felt like they form they're opinion or judgment about you quite fast. And the worst part is that Rwandans are too polite soo no one will correct you or offer any advices because they're extremely polite and shy😅
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
whaha, that is very true! Don't worry too much about that, they will eventually come around when they realise that you have good intentions. Just insist on your request for help, in a nice way ;)
@frankdee59803 жыл бұрын
Another v good one, Theo. Very clear, simple and warm narrative; similar to many other places. An interesting topic. Made our Valentine's day meaningful. Good Luck, bro.
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
ooh nice. thank you
@janinemuhawe32315 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏🏻
@iniscrollz38012 жыл бұрын
I am Nigerian, but I love the Rwandese woman. Cool, calm, & put together...I hope I get married, to one someday💌
@alicesam64673 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much...am from Kenya and I fell in love with a rwandanese guy and we have been dating for 3months now....and i hope this video will help me much
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
ooh nice. good luck
@christophergwala55313 жыл бұрын
You represent Rwanda exceptionally well. What a bright future you have before you👏🌹💃❤️
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
thank you brother
@apsmith715 жыл бұрын
So how does it work when the man assumes a traditional role - protector, provider, paying the bills as you say - and then, like it is here in the west plenty of women can't cook, can't take care of the house and seem more infatuated in IG and YoutTube than taking care of their house. How do Rwandans deal with that?
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
Hmmn.. interesting. Then you have 2 choices. A. You teach her if she wants to learn. B. Find another lady. If it bothers you that much, she is probably also bothered by the fact that it bothers you. So don''t put a ring on it yet, until you have found the one you match best with.
@jewel35675 жыл бұрын
Good video Theo.
@howzany68326 жыл бұрын
Very nice video, you have a great personality and are well spoken.
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
aah, thank you for the kind words
@ruthnjeri46592 жыл бұрын
Hi, am from Kenya. I love Rwanda, and i am sure will get married in Rwanda
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
yes, go for it!
@pearlspeed17316 жыл бұрын
uve really improved my kinyarwanda
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
nice to hear
@Sidico72 жыл бұрын
Those 7 things are applicable to the entire continent... I'm from Angola.
@wanjiku66952 жыл бұрын
Quite true.
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
awesome
@nelsonnyangole39224 жыл бұрын
I like your video mate it had an open up opportunity for visiting Rowand
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
did you visit it?
@natty62473 жыл бұрын
Rwanda*
@barneystn75216 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is 100% accurate
@rashadnoora97215 жыл бұрын
Great video
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
thank you
@elle19ism6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! I'm a Rwandan living abroad so it's likely that I will marry someone who's not Rwandan. There are very few Rwandan guys here who are my age. But I can relate to all those points you mentioned and I hope that whoever I date in the future will have the same mindset. Also, can you please do a part 2 of the traditional dance video?
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Well, i am sure there are some other Rwandans living where you are, even though you haven't met them yet. Rwandans tend to live low key, so keep an eye out. I will talk to Bijoux and see how we can do a part 2 of traditional dance. I have gotten many requests now :)
@elle19ism6 жыл бұрын
theoisback yeah I will definitely keep an eye out. Hopefully you'll both be able to sort something out for part 2. Even if you can't, I'm enjoying these videos so thank you for your hard work
@elle19ism6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona I live close to Manchester. Wbu?
@elle19ism6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona there is good number of Rwandans here, but most of them are either children or people over the age of 30. So to find Rwandans like me who are in their 20s is really difficult. What about Germany? P.S. I just saw you comment below. Happy belated birthday 🎂
@elle19ism6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona you're welcome! And thank you for telling me a little about your life in Germany. It's always good to hear about other Rwandan people's experiences
@marionjumba45666 жыл бұрын
Thanks your videos are beneficial .Am not rwandan but am dating one. am yet to learn the dance and perfect my kinyarwanda. Keep the videos coming.
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
great to hear. i will make more video than :)
@uwanziga6 жыл бұрын
“Manners in Rwanda” book can help you sweetie...learning the language and the culture.
@eonacademy50363 жыл бұрын
Marry the whole family is a truth in the whole world and all countries I think... 😺
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
yepp
@mamasandy79866 жыл бұрын
Theo where to you live?thanks for ur videos by the way... I will be visiting this coming October,I cannot wait..need some help
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Now im living in the Netherlands. Have fun in Rwanda though
@s.p.52134 жыл бұрын
@@theoisbackHi... Why did you leave? I was told by a Nigerian, Ghanaian, and a Kenyan that instead of repatriating to The Gambia, that I should check Rwanda first. I also lost 48lbs and am preparing to enter a Wellness fitness competition so finding a country in Africa that will not impede my lifestyle is important. So far I have The Gambia, Tanzania, Rwanda, Kenya, and Ghana in that order. Please give me the 411 on how to find the expats in Rwanda and of those 5 countries, which do you think would be most modernized and compatible with a fitness lifestyle. Thanks in advance.
@beeempirestv70253 жыл бұрын
Hello Sandrine my name is Eric ntuye mu Rwanda ese twaba inshuti byaba tukamenyana nyandikira kuri WhatsApp +250784070081 murakoze cyane
@princessshaniah54615 жыл бұрын
Ok now I want a guy from Rwanda
@07Dieudonne6 жыл бұрын
Leuk gedaan kerel!
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
dankje man
@zachRK2 жыл бұрын
Theo knows Rwandans that I do.
@Moniquemani4 жыл бұрын
Am dating a rwandese guy, and he is the sweetest man i've ever met.. 😜😘
@evankirote99524 жыл бұрын
Tell him i want his brother lol..i love them all the way from kenya.
@dankayonde77493 жыл бұрын
@@evankirote9952 love you kenyans are good people, i am employed by company owned by Kenyans-Rwanda branch but they are good people. Love Nkirote
@evankirote99523 жыл бұрын
@@dankayonde7749 that awesome
@dankayonde77493 жыл бұрын
@@evankirote9952 but they like money so much🙆😀. Are you proposing to visit Rwanda??
@evankirote99523 жыл бұрын
@@dankayonde7749 money is very important every one like it who wants poverty 🙄🙄
@wilfriedanaganze92465 жыл бұрын
I like your blog 👍🏾
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
whahah, it is still coming 🙈
@storyplace36124 жыл бұрын
I met a gal from Rwanda and was curious about how much I should expect to pay for a dowry if that happens
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
The best thing is to talk to her and her family. there is no fixed amount
@storyplace36124 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback Thank you Theo. They said that as well.
@aishabigset6 жыл бұрын
Long time no see• Its like dating a burundian
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
lol, i can imagine 😄
@gloriamutoni51376 жыл бұрын
Sister countries..you know
@mihigojo30954 жыл бұрын
Burundi and Rwanda only name of countries differ from each other but people are the same same culture same language same in all kind from same grand grand parent.
@uwanziga6 жыл бұрын
Super
@kkazimotomusa88043 жыл бұрын
hai
@kkazimotomusa88043 жыл бұрын
are you rwandan?
@saafiy2 жыл бұрын
I am Rwandan, this is true 😄
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
yeah 😊
@rashadnoora97215 жыл бұрын
Some of rwandan words are very similar to my language, I was really impressed
@oooooookay2813 жыл бұрын
@A M probably swahili or Burundais many words in kinyarwanda are similar to Swahili and Burundi its even more similar since Rwanda and Burundi were once one kingdom before the colonisation
@oooooookay2813 жыл бұрын
It's normal in Rwandan culture it's like taboo if a girl takes the first step, everyone is gonna talk behind her back mostly the aunties
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
yeah, but you don't have to share your business your aunties.
@Mmm-ve7hy6 жыл бұрын
We have same thing mostly what yuh say , in Somali people 😀😀😀😊
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
Really? Nice to know :)
@nujuumarts63075 жыл бұрын
I thought iam the only somali person here very true they r similar
@amediter56705 жыл бұрын
How much is the dowry? How is it determined? Who sets the amount? Is it negotiable? (I'm a diaspora African)
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
its negotiable. it depends on your (family's) wealth at the moment of marriage.
@amediter56705 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback Thank you so much for the reply
@veedubrep4 жыл бұрын
I'm American and I'd love to date once of these beautiful and intelligent Rwandan women.
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
You should
@marc84852 жыл бұрын
Rwandese living in Uganda are the opposite they are crazy , i took my Ugandan vibe and craziness to kigali i was disappointed majority of rwandese where so introverted 😂😂 ..in east africa kenyans are more lively ..i love rwandese tho especially their ladies ..thanks for the video mate
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
haha thanks for sharing indeed
@beatriceopingo43134 жыл бұрын
Am a Kenyan and I am dating a Rwandan guy very proud of him❤️❤️
@beatriceopingo43134 жыл бұрын
Same her💪💕💕
@blessedm583 жыл бұрын
Your research a 💯
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
always keeping it 💯
@abdullahihassanibrahim6466 жыл бұрын
awesome and nice video. my question is if I marry a Rwandan woman can I get Rwandan nationality? if I'm from another African country for example....
@mohamudomar91056 жыл бұрын
Yaan dadku kula yaabin.... sharci raadis baa lagu moodin ha na ceebeen fadlan... reer magaal iska dhig
@abdullahihassanibrahim6466 жыл бұрын
M. Omar I'm sorry I didn't get you, I speak only English, Arabic, Fulani and Hausa, I live in Nigeria... please explain your answer into English, thanks
@abdullahihassanibrahim6466 жыл бұрын
please I'm waiting for your translation
@benitheisingizwe6 жыл бұрын
Sure yes
@abdullahihassanibrahim6466 жыл бұрын
Benithe isingizwe thanks please can you translate what m. omar wrote on top in English
@Sangwa-o6m6 жыл бұрын
True!
@gbonnita4 жыл бұрын
Am Rwandan 😂but this is how true we’re 🇷🇼
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
haha, very true idd
@nadiadushimimana54013 жыл бұрын
The third one tho😁☺️
@davidvavra91132 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@eunicemugisha44414 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 you're so observant
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
thnxx
@mapulesefara10905 жыл бұрын
Hey, South African lady here looking for Rwandan man, can you hook sister up?
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
whaha of course!
@ChrissC05 жыл бұрын
Mapure sefata inbox me
@PatrickNiyonzima14 жыл бұрын
Happy new year my dearest, I'm Patrick from Rwanda
@africanlabel47802 жыл бұрын
Can a Rwandese girl get married by an outsider who is not a rwandan by nationality?
@theoisback2 жыл бұрын
yes, definitely !
@sheystruggletube81244 жыл бұрын
Theo your a great patriot. I admire all your efforts in selling your culture and exposing the Great Rwanda to the world for Tourism. Though this your platform I was able to visit the great Kigali city and I saw thing for myself. Keep it up bro. 💖💖💖 cant wait to be back.
@r0sewanjiru9282 жыл бұрын
Am Kenya dating a rwadese guy hope it will end to marriage
@melest56456 жыл бұрын
Do u have a facebook account?
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
yes, in the video description!
@brianHobins3 жыл бұрын
Would settle for one Rwandese.
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
yeah
@ishtank4 жыл бұрын
But Rwandan guys these days seem to be OK with a reversal of traditional gender roles. I mean with women taking care of them financially. It's the only country in Africa where unemployment is higher among males than among females.
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
yeah man, it's the future, where women are making more money than men and are providing.
@s.konyine14695 жыл бұрын
am rwandan , am sorry but your wrong boy friend means lover and a lover means umukunzi in kinyarwanda
@nuwaherezajerry1194 жыл бұрын
I like Rwandans
@prettydunn42043 жыл бұрын
I date Rwandan man I don't know his like I feel like he doesn't like me on other side he likes me I don't know him really we broke up and we get back together I don't know I must ask him about us is he interested in me or
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
yess indeed
@vangilynobasan50352 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm from Philippines I met a Rwandese man on a dating site and we're having conversations for 6 months now and it's really hard to understand him, like he's totally different from how Filipinos express their feelings to someone they love. I really like him, but sometimes we're having some misunderstanding when expressing ourselves. Any help?
@JohnMcCrimmon-bc4ei5 жыл бұрын
I would to meet up so we can talk investment opportunities in Rwanda. I'm coming in March...but for me, an American black and I would be open to dating. So you know, we like women pretty with big backsides...but thru pics and videos, I do not see this type of woman there.
@theoisback5 жыл бұрын
Welcome brother, we can always talk.
@JohnMcCrimmon-bc4ei5 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback thank you. My email is m1financial@protonmail.com I will be there next month. Reach out to me in my inbox so we exchange contact info to chat thru WhatsApp.
@sayedfarhan58594 жыл бұрын
I think Rwanda culture wil be easy for somali people because is almost same
@trevorweir4 жыл бұрын
Couple cows a house or a car? The original dowry was paid to the guy as a gift for now taking on the lifelong responsibility of taking care of the girl and taking this fiduciary responsibility off of the parents hands. When a man pays 3-4 cows for his wife, he will nearly always look at her and see those 4 cows, especially when they are having an intense disagreement about something. C’mon guys admit it. Ha ha. I say that a man should look at his wife and always think in his mind how utterly priceless she is and not whether she was really worth 3 or 4 cows. The past practices that reinforced male patriarchy, dominance et al, are the same practices that hold African and many Asian countries subservient to other countries where more women graduate from graduate and post-graduate universities. If you think you belong to this “smarter half” group but you’re still producing copious amounts of testosterone, perhaps just perhaps your perception is just a little skewed by your endocrinology, 😀
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
hahah true.
@AbdulLayaaaa4 жыл бұрын
I don't know where y'all living 😀😀😀 haven't met no Rwandess girl yet.
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
hahah, there is still time 😉
@niyohenriette80023 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ScorpioTV5156 жыл бұрын
Am dating a rwandan man
@theoisback6 жыл бұрын
good for you :)
@nickielifestyle5 жыл бұрын
Run my dear 😂😂😂😂
@ScorpioTV5155 жыл бұрын
What do you mean @Ishimwe Winnie Nicole?why I run?
@edgarcassama41495 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m from small west African country called Guine Bissau, closed to Senegal, I’m 42 years old man living all my life in Europe, now living in Australia, I’m seriously have interest to find Rwandan women to marry, I impressed about that country as African, I have heard that’s Rwandan women are tallest women in Africa, and I’m tall man too 6,5 please someone connect me with nice women with strong family values thanks 🙏🏽
@da-gamada-gama27044 жыл бұрын
Eduardo es 6.5
@da-gamada-gama27044 жыл бұрын
Aqui em Londres tem muitas mulhers precurando boms homems
@beeempirestv70253 жыл бұрын
Hello my friend lf you want Rwandan Woman I can help you to find him
@rpvideos86204 жыл бұрын
Good to know Ruwandan culture... but I have a bit difficulty following your English... but ok, I could get the point conveyed.
@jesusjesus53764 жыл бұрын
I understand him perfectly. Why is difficult for you to follow him if u don’t mind me asking ?
@trevorweir4 жыл бұрын
Girls -- don't hesitate to ask for your Dowry !!!
@theoisback4 жыл бұрын
hahah
@adelaidepinchisi4372 жыл бұрын
I'm married to a rwandese. Great people l must say
@theafricanobserver87853 жыл бұрын
i am Rwandan and i would not date a Rwandan girl , i prefer foreigners.
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
aah, that's alright.😁
@ruthnjeri46592 жыл бұрын
Hehe, am here🤣🤣
@azizaleem79403 жыл бұрын
Do they believe in polygamy?
@theoisback3 жыл бұрын
not really but there are some exceptions
@alikhodajani60752 жыл бұрын
.... honey and booboo are just fine with me ❤ 💙 💜 💖 !