How the 6 Stages of A Relationship Impact Your Romance!

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[@wildangel4452]

5:45 intro ends

[@meder07]

1. Dating 2. Honeymoon 3. Power struggle 4. Stability 5. Commitment 6. Bliss

[@outgoin1712]

Thanks a lot ...i struggled really to hear the stages because of the pronounciation

[@TatiTalks]

Thaisss, don’t mind the longer vids!

[@rosegold.sunset4749]

video starts at 5:45

[@misslovely967]

Amazing 😁😁😁

[@CristianaCatólica]

WE LOVE LONG VIDEOS! :) BLESSINGS ALL THE WAY FROM MONTERREY MÉXICO.. UR CHANNEL IS THE BEST ON ALL THESE TOPICS

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@noemijoan6119]

Your content is wholesome, well thought trough and absolutely informative. I am sure you will have many more followers soon. Love your goals for this year!

[@nisanozden4589]

Your videos are the only videos I don’t change the speed to 1.25. I love how good you elaborate on things!

[@mariom1928]

it’s been 3 years i’m still in the first stage. love my avoiding stylee

[@jaret4t]

Honeymoon phase from 6 month to 24 months? I would say the first 3-6 months are the honeymoon phase.

[@michellefalco9773]

sometimes its a year depends if u see one another constantly yes 3 months tops

[@stephelisabeth3143]

I think it can be even shorter than that or a bit longer. To me it seems highly variable depending on the people involved.

[@kathleentatumadams2837]

My honeymoon phase was about 2 years in my relationship

[@jaret4t]

Honeymoon stage has been over for a year now and we have graduated to a healthy marriage stage and are learning and striving to be true loving partners. Communicating, understanding, compromising, apologizing, forgiving quickly, supporting has been key. I love her today more than ever, but we are not in the honeymoon stage. Things got real real quick and we were mature and aware.

[@minsham6228]

3-8months honeymoon stage 6-24 months powerstruggle stage stability stage commitment stage Blessed stage

[@shirleymontgomery7726]

I have learned so much from All of your content. The school is a wonderful platform and your courses are so worthwhile!

[@pvonich6202]

love that "right of passage" metaphor

[@mikkymathers2633]

Thanks for the info! It's great info. ...although I almost switched it off as the video doesn't start talking about the content until about 6mins. If you're seeking shorter videos that are still capturing the attention it'd be awesome if it started off with the content and then talked about your courses super briefly at the end of the video or mentioned that you can find the details in the bio. Your content is interesting and precise- it's the advertising of the extra courses etc that drag it out- I'm not interested in hearing about someone's courses until I've heard them speak on a subject that they're teaching- yet after you've spoken about it and I can see how knowledgeable you are then I am interested. However this is only one perspective and unsolicited feedback from an audience member so please just take it as that and do with it as you will 😊 Keep doing what you are doing and helping grow people's minds!!!

[@michellefalco9773]

avoidants scare themselves and I guess have to self protect-walls come down and they need to build walls again becasue they dont feel comfortable feeling such strong emotions-they begin to lose themselves so they pull out and bolt-leaves the person crushed-and they leave without any thought at times-they can be selfish and have narsasistic tendencies-although tells a sad story from thier childhood-most were abused. anyone agree???

[@michellefalco9773]

@@JamesTyreeII sad very sad- most are comming from a chaotic confusing up bringing-abuse

[@emiliamobus3319]

can you do a video on attachment styles and how they affect your parenting? one of the reasons i was doubting my DA so much was the fear of him being a father one day and not be able to respond to his Childs emotional needs.

[@emotophobiccdd8006]

As a da myself, this seems wise. For as many generations back as we're aware (about 5, I think) all the males on my dad's side of the family had no father present. It would be no exaggeration to say that any exchange of feelings between me and him are phobic. They literally always have been completely nonexistent . Same for my siblings. That said, my brother's kids are grown, and 2 outa 3 turned out to be very emotionally well adjusted. Probably more healthy than average. The 3rd is, hmmm, I'm not really sure. Unhappy, but wouldn't be that hard to change. I think that things have festered to a point where it's absolutely in our faces, and we're just not going to pass it on. Myself, having been through sexual abuse, in my mind, I'm all awkward & homophobic regarding any physical contact with boys. And I only think about wanting girls, because I'm very comfortable with that. But when I'm around kids, while there's still some bias, surprisingly, it mostly makes almost no difference. In my current state, I think of myself as being a disaster for a partner - which would affect kids - but only ever surprise myself at how emotionally available I am when I'm around kids. I feel like I could do pretty good. That said, I don't have any...and invariably surprise myself at how different things are in the real world. So rather than have kids and HOPE, I'd absolutely get on top of this one first!

[@kate7932]

Meditation to learn how to soothe ourselves would be wonderful ☺️

[@valentinanocross8677]

You are my favorite u Tiber. You give so Much that is so important to help make the world a better place. Thank you so very much.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thank you so much Valentina!

[@howtosober]

You're so valiant about selling the value of the power struggle phase, but I've never had a good experience in that phase of a relationship ever. In fact, it's what makes me mostly choose to just stay out of relationships altogether. The power struggle really doesn't seem worth it- and even the tips and tools all seem like too much work unless you're with someone secure. If you're with a DA, forget it, just get out. They'll suck you dry during this phase and leave like they never even knew you.

[@075mag8]

Thank you for the content! What do you think about long distance relationships? Are the stages the same?

[@tamasamoa1931]

Your info is so insightful and healing. I’m so thankful that I’ve came across you, you’ve literally have helped me to change my life through your valuable information. I have been trying to find relief through painful relationships and having the tools that you’ve provided has helped me to take control of my happiness. I can’t say it enough. You are a god send. Thank you so much!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

Wow, intoxicated state,perfect way to describe the feeling,& it's interesting how I get that feeling from certain people specifically and can't even pinpoint why it is occurring. 🌹🙏🏽 Still loving all your videos. Not burning out at all. Thank you Thais!

[@kitsunealice3418]

You are my guardian angel, Thais ❤️✨ thank you so much for the work you do !

[@jessamieyule7172]

Omg we jumped straight to honeymoon - we didn’t date , moved in together and then sat in power struggle for a year. I’m FA and he’s AP.

[@omegatanya]

Am crying u r so right. Struggling now I know why. I am still in honeymoon stage he has evolved it feels horrible. I feel emotionally abandoned

[@michaella.apostol]

I love your videos and the information you offer. I couldn't find it so well explained anywhere else. Thank you!!

[@SabrinaPuiaki]

Thank you, this is a really interesting topic. Looking forward to more of this 😊

[@tanyagoolding3104]

Thank you for sharing Thais your information is so useful. Loving the courses at PDS as well!

[@nnadams2003]

I wish more people understood this 😢

[@Jayee9999]

I’m sorry but if you’re going to date somebody for two years before you get married no I don’t think that’s normal development I don’t think that has anything with attachment styles. I am 56 years old. I don’t need to take that long to make a decision as you at 36 or 26. I know myself very well and I know what I’m looking for. I also know a lot more about life so I wouldn’t need to take two years to decide to marry somebody. It doesn’t take that long period to decide to marry someone!

[@Mollyjak4]

I’m 60 and for some people it DOES take a long time… wounds show up at various times and in various ways thruout a relationship. I’m going on 1.5 years in my relationship and we are just hitting power struggle stage and I’m assessing how well we can navigate this stage to determine if we have the skills to navigate a lifetime…

[@neredan1182]

i guess my partner and i just skipped the honeymoon phase... 😅🤔

[@christinecardoza7253]

Great video. 💛 is it possible to link any next videos mentioned please?

[@benmiller200]

Lol I have a question! What happens if you do them in the wrong order....for example....1,2,4,5,3. Cause I am about to find out!

[@jeproductions3229]

What is the best attachment style partner for a fearful avoidant?

[@whitneyc6661]

Securely attached or another fearful avoidant

[@GA-rs2ei]

Where is the next part of this video please?

[@alimcfadden2800]

I don’t understand the power struggle stage. Does anyone have any other examples?

[@dianebest7358]

Where do i find the next video? What is the name of it?

[@manfrombritain6816]

DA here but am i the only one who assumes exclusivity from the first date these days? smh i hate the modern dating world

[@POOOOOOOO416]

FA here, when dating I find a DA is unlikely to meet my physical and emotional needs. So I'll meet them elsewhere. For me exclusivity can be a painful trap and I go into starvation which is actually dangerous. There are definately people out there for whom exclusivity works. If Im dating someone who doesnt take ownership of my relational needs, I will not commit to exclusivity for my own sanity and happiness. Just providing insight into my side of the tracks. Good luck dating

[@Kolosalus]

Is there a book or some reference which explains these phases of a relationship in detail? I search for it but find many different theories of stages

[@somnaw]

Okay so I pulled this video up because you keep referencing this stuff in other videos and I'm trying to get to what the heck they mean but we're 3 minutes in you're using these words all over the place and you still haven't find any of them. What is the power struggle phase? I'm going to keep watching but my partner that I was hoping to share this with is not going to be patient enough to get past your intro

[@Chaz_NFQ]

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[@iddefusco]

Starts @ 5:45

[@Feseta456]

5:48 start

[@POOOOOOOO416]

Oh fuck if its about how you were treated as a baby...... that explains why mine definately doesnt meet your timeframes. Also why I enter the power struggle phase at like 3 months.

[@blm9634]

Where is the second video?

[@rosegold.sunset4749]

where is Part 2 of this video?

[@lisve]

I would appreciate if your intros were much shorter, like 1 or 2 minutes, because I get bored and uninterested before you're even get to the important parts. You make great points in your videos, but it's difficult to stay until the end because if this. Alternatively, add a time mark (00:00) in the video description that marks the end of the intro. Thanks!

[@michaelcolvin8702]

What’s the time line we lived together little over 3 yrs

[@Ina_ei]

I like the video and your channel. Very informative! But it feels like you want to fit all your knowledge into one video and teach everything you know so I lose the main topic often. So in the end of the video would be cool to have some resumed info or maybe you could try to write a scenario or speech plan before making a video so your speech would be more constructive 👍

[@michaelcolvin8702]

Is this when a dismissive thinks about leaving?

[@vasylgreen5747]

Part 2: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3q7imZtorxnptE

[@nathangabaeff8863]

Constructive criticism: trust your ability to explain these concepts. You repeat yourself a lot and it feels unrehearsed. There is so much good information here but you easily could’ve explained the 6 stages in half the time. I’ve had this problem with your other videos as well. I would love for you to try and make a video that doesn’t feel like you’re thinking it through on the fly.

[@leroyflores713]

Even her eyes are fake lol

[@ziggypip2938]

Thais is amazing

[@leroyflores713]

Never listen to women advice guys

[@connieb1667]

Re Leroy Flores. Never listen to insecure men who spout sexist, dismissive comments about women.

[@Greenwitch_Garden]

She literally has a PhD in psychology 😂 and has helped thousands become securely attached.

[@freedomfinancial]

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