Brotha Warns Men To Not Date Married Women Under Any Circumstances

[@rhameseshamilton8045]

Cemeteries are filled with stupid decisions.

[@user-fq4jo7tw5k]

Maaan

[@TempleofBrendaSong]

And prisons too.

[@yvelineyuok2235]

😂

[@MrT-nh6di]

Exactly

[@candyxox]

Best comment

[@ThugNinja]

If they cheat WITH you, they'll cheat ON you.

[@onlylikemindedbw]

I feel that way too

[@QilinRider21]

FACTS...

[@cmack3795]

Depends

[@darknessesdarknesses2492]

"How you get em', is how you lose em'".

[@dynamitedingo7720]

Truth

[@opalivy739]

Being a home wrecker is a dangerous game to play. You may end up being taken all the way out the game six feet under

[@GOTTA_RUN]

Deservedly so. These type of dudes are partly the reason why females are the way they are now

[@KNByam]

Shouldn't even be thinking about it.

[@troy2832]

Some men either can't help it or they just simply don't care.

[@greywolf1989]

The way it should be

[@SuperheroJunior]

@@troy2832 Men leave modern women alone 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Get your passports.

[@dawnelder9046]

Unfortunately there are both men and women who enjoy trying to break up marriages. It gives them a weird ego boost.

[@Otaku_Love-c3r]

Also they get sexually turn on by conquering another man's woman or a woman conquering another woman's husband.

[@garyrobinson1568]

I call them chaos demons.

[@charles-iii6759]

True!

[@garyjohnson691]

Facts

[@Panafrocanam2]

When men do it it's low level worse. I expect women to give into their emotions as they normally do

[@kisswriters]

Feel no sympathy for them. Let an adulterous man find out the hard way…

[@steviemak10]

Well said👏🏾

[@Panafrocanam2]

Bingo. I won't even entertain having such a friend.

[@xpointer483]

Yes! A man like that deserves the absolute worst for breaking a family. Deserves all the misery that comes his way.

[@TheMostHighDaughter180]

@@xpointer483yes!

[@nicolebrown9253]

Yep the very hard way

[@TWIZZTHEWHIZKID]

ADULTERY! 😒

[@balerinabalerina6]

This goes for the women and men Adultery will have you cursed

[@miaflowers3572]

Amen!!! GOD says it in His Holy Word, the Bible.

[@miaflowers3572]

@@RellFair -Proverbs 6:32-35.

[@lavender123u]

Unless you repent and flee sin

[@nenep1872]

I thought this was a no brainer, goes for women as well.... This is so true....

[@deezworld2318]

Oh it's worse with women. Stealing "high value men" is the reason they hate eachother lol.😅

[@caryweight728]

Same here. When I saw the title, my main thought was ," Isn't this common sense ?" Then I realized that common sense isn't common and a lot of people don't move with morals and principles.

[@nonyabiz12]

Right.

[@TexasStardust11]

Chhhhile morals and standards have been thrown out the window and no one believes in God anymore and his commandments. So yeah, what was ONCE understood, we now have to freakin explain and create Tik Tok teaching/learning videos about it 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@blayzej]

The mere fact this video has been made, pretty much says we've hit rock bottom as a group

[@Freethinker_746]

Other races cheat too, don't put that label on us.

[@jjhosseiny]

It’s not just the black community. This society at large these days.

[@Neake22]

Nah. This isn't a group thing, it's a human fault. Adultery has been around since biblical times.

[@africanadage852]

​@@jjhosseinyIt's the black community that has to jump the runaway train. We are deep spiritual people. It's not what the temple looks like it's the Holy inside the temple that sanctifies it. As a temple, what spirit resides inside you?

[@blayzej]

@jjhosseiny At the individual level is one thing, but as a group, we've normalized baby mamas and creeping, all that nonsense... look at our stats in terms of children born out of wedlock... find one other community with numbers like ours... I'll wait

[@DarkestAndBlackest]

It's a shame that this needs to be said

[@jorgetomas380]

Right. Smfh.😪

[@Panafrocanam2]

The same dudes complaining abt certain women do this.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

@@Panafrocanam2 And the same women complaining about men are the ones cheating on their husbands...

[@Deshawn1313]

its a dumbed down society we live in.

[@EE-iy9rq]

Common sense is not always common

[@saonedixon5476]

I wouldn't fool with a married woman cause it's adultery. No man shall not lust after another mans wife. Let thy have his own wife. Are something of that sort 😅

[@joemomma3208]

32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. 33 Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. 34 For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. 35 He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.

[@judah6152]

Yeah. Verses 34 and 35 hit hard.

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Tell Em Joe 💯

[@joemomma3208]

Proverbs 6 32-35

[@lovecraig84]

​@judah6152 yes they do brother

[@Akilah077]

🙏🏾❤️

[@Kayla037]

Use to work at a warehouse. People are always fooling around. This attached lady started fooling around with her Co worker. Her boyfriend found out about her affair, and he found out where the guy lived, and blasted his house, he killed the guys Step daughter shooting into his house. True Story.

[@AccentBwoy]

Crazy

[@robertmonroejr1315]

Some people cause their own murders.

[@Blessedabove]

Why is this a warning???...COMMON SENSE should tell you not to mess around with someone's spouse!!

[@sbolden123]

😂 common sense ain't common

[@Masterfard019]

People are dumb and naive nowadays

[@dr.robertbennett3452]

@@sbolden123for real lol

[@AlhakeemMoore]

Point made! But everybody don't have common sense.

[@henleyl8102]

“Are you happy?” What a scumbag

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Those *"Are You Happy"* guys were *"How You Doing, Miss Lady"* guys ten years prior 🤣

[@freddy8479]

A ONE WAY TRIP TO "THE UPPER ROOM!!!"🔫💥 OR...... THE LOWER ROOM!!!!🔫💥

[@TempleofBrendaSong]

@@MyNameIsUnavailable when they were minors and were held accountable.

[@ghostwalker89]

My cousin used to be like this, and maybe he still is, IDK, but we've told him countless times that it only takes one unhinged man, and you're to the upper room (or lower room).

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

*_"The_* *UUUUUUUUUP -per* *_Roooooooooooom"_* 🤣 🎶

[@WDWitcher]

It will surely be the lower room

[@10_door_tycoon]

He may not even be unhinged before but may snap after catching it.

[@MC-xl2ff]

​.

[@MC-xl2ff]

​@@MyNameIsUnavailableWe next.

[@Archangel_21]

Nope, don't do it, and that includes those "seperated" chicks. If a woman is not legally single, she's a potential time bomb, and you have no leg to stand on when the shtt pops off... and it will.

[@Sentry0]

Fellas. Just because she said that she is unhappy, it doesn't mean that she is telling the truth. Walk away while you still have your life.

[@H99LN]

And sometimes she just want to make her man jealous

[@Panafrocanam2]

Let such dudes find out hard way.

[@PlatPodMediaCEOSean]

She telling the truth

[@Sentry0]

@@PlatPodMediaCEOSean no woman really tells the truth.

[@PlatPodMediaCEOSean]

@@Sentry0 🤣🤣🤣

[@AppleMenace]

A puerto rican brother I worked with told me something similar he escaped a girls house using the fire escape but still got shot at by the husband. Fortunately he didnt get hit but its no joke..

[@mateaukalua4426]

Did he learn?

[@rattales58]

A quick way to get heat pressed on a T-shirt or embroidered on a hat 😂😂😂😂

[@espoespo3557]

My cousin told me she was cheating on her husband with 2 guys but she never ever considered leaving him because he provided a lifestyle others couldn't. I didn't say anything for a while because I said to myself it wasn't my business. However, I knew the guy and it was painful to see them together at family gatherings knowing what I knew. I finally decided to tell him the truth. The guy turned on me and said I was dirty for exposing my own blood. I think I died a little that day. I thought the bro code was in force for situations like this. He doesn't talk to me anymore, neither does she. I always assumed as men we're supposed to have each other's backs. I don't know anymore...😮

[@SaturnStick69]

Nah, you did the right thing that man is just a weirdo, IMO.

[@jasondiggs6740]

You did the right thing. Let him keep digging his own grave of ignorance. In the end, he'll get his just rewards😡. Shake it off, you are in the right and his loss of a good caring family member.

[@BMKidProductions]

You did the right thing. Let him wallow in his own misery.

[@singingnimo2024]

2 Jesus that's a HOE no loyalty whatsoever how do some women even do that. I swear the guilty would kill me.

[@queenbubalicious]

You broke blood relationship over some guy? The jealousy was real. That quality of life gotcha huh? Future reference what will you do? Say it with me... Mind your business.

[@judah6152]

It's a great way to be unalived.

[@blankslate9320]

The quickest way to get put on ice 🧊🪦⚰️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@queendivareynolds9560]

Facts the Bible said it causes death and murder

[@D-MAC18]

How is this still something that needs to be taught. A lot of fatherless activity.

[@gabrielgadsden3986]

As the saying goes: "If a woman cheats with you, she will cheat on you."

[@790sports4]

It’s not worth catching a slugg for

[@gregorywesley7456]

Karma is REAL!!!!! You reap what you sow, and it's when you least expect! I did it, survived (barely) long enough for years later it to happen to me! When it happened to me, it was devastating, and ruined my life! Karma is real!!!!!

[@anikacorbett7714]

yes it is it happened to me too..its HELL..

[@edwinhargrave679]

Ain't that the truttj.

[@antares3097]

My dad ' use to tell me ' if a man caughtes you in his house messing with his women, he has the right to delete you...🤔 ' mine youy dad was born 1922...

[@b9479]

That's true, doing the act is bad enough but being in his house is super disrespectful

[@icemouf7480]

I have an OATH I been living by my whole life...since the age of 16 up until now and I was born in '77.... My oath is.....NEVER LAY EYES ON THE NEXT MAN'S GIRL!.....CUZ I know I can always get my own Woman and I don't need yours🥶🗑️

[@34Nails]

I don’t play them type of games I tell men I’m in a relationship 💯

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

But are you happy? 🤣

[@TempleofBrendaSong]

The oldest tactic of all. There are single girls who shout ‘I have a boyfriend!’ To really say ‘go away!’ And she would have a relative play the part of the ‘boyfriend’.

[@QilinRider21]

​@@MyNameIsUnavailableNot funny

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

@@QilinRider21 My bad...Miss Lady

[@Confessions089]

And they'll still be like baby, you're fine and be touching all over you.

[@brianmoore3063]

Almost costed me my life when I was 20yrs old. Never again.

[@KevinTheSoftwareTester]

I knew not to do this back in middle school, these cats seriously need some guidance

[@johnlawful2272]

Too bad for the creator of cash app

[@franklinwill22]

Yup...I did that once in my 20s and paid for it in my late 30s. I had to accept the realization when mines stepped out on me, a hard lesson to learn.

[@MsLisalisa24]

How did you pay for it in your late 30’s?

[@benjamintaylor4402]

​@@MsLisalisa24He just told you. READ!!

[@symonelewis1690]

Karma definitely came around and bit you on your behind.

[@thatboyruut2169]

What goes around comes around

[@kcol3747]

@@benjamintaylor4402 😆 🤣 😂

[@bigwill9421]

Cheating in a Relationship is like Checking Out of a Relationship.

[@Confessions089]

What about emotional affairs?

[@jboymontel1]

I can go a step further and say don't date even when they say that they're separated... I've learned from that a few years ago. In that case, they'll always have one foot in and one foot out... it's a dangerous game but karma is also real... it will come right back around!

[@TexasStardust11]

The one thing he forgot to mention was, “you playing with a covenant that is ordained & honored under God!” And God do NOT play when it comes to breaking his commandments. Thou shalt not commit adultery!!!!!

[@igbopeople4916]

Most modern day women don't know what a covenant mean but they only know a ceremonies so everyone can see them celebrate after that game over.

[@AVG336]

Id like to add: Separated=MARRIED Were just together for the kids=MARRIED We dont live together=MARRIED Im not in love with him anymore=MARRIED He cheated on me=MARRIED

[@UncleRoams]

Aaaaamen!!!

[@memyself4ever1]

I had a friend that was deleted by the husband of the woman he was seeing! I remember that like it was yesterday even though it was twenty-six years ago. He got locked up, she was running free, and my friend ended up six feet under! It's not worth it!

[@advancingnoob4700]

Its like the old saying "play stupid games win stupid prizes"

[@marvl6472]

They should know better as much as they are also warned about single mothers..and Sistas have even warned brotha about dealing with single mommas also..

[@nenep1872]

Not all single mothers are bad or filled with drama in their lives 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@troy028]

​@@nenep1872yes all single mother's are filled with drama. Those children are drama. I agree not all single mother's are bad.

[@lonigirl8807]

​@@troy028that's not true. Some people know how to conduct themselves like adults. The problem is when people judge everyone by their own personal experiences. For example, American black women are all alike. I haven't personally met all black women and men but was taught to judge people's character individually. No one should pay the price for what someone else has done. We all make mistakes.

[@wood1441]

Alot people died during child custody exchange because parent cant get along

[@troy028]

@lonigirl8807 children are not mistakes. That was a decision to have a child with a man you didn't stay with or he left the family. That shows irresponsibility that a woman couldn't control her womb. Not all black women have atheist a child. I would choose a black woman without a child. Men don't need an already made family.

[@leonbrooker8150]

NEVER mess with someone else's relationship! PLAYING WITH SOMEONE'S EMOTIONS IS A DANGEROUS GAME! I STILL BELIEVE THAT THE ONUS IS ON THE PERSON INVOLVED IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO RESPECT THE RELATIONSHIP! TRICKS ARE FOR KIDS!

[@TempleofBrendaSong]

TRICKS ARE FOR PEDOS

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

My neighbor, hot chick, never wears a bra, was into me hard, touching my arm and all, telling me she was lonely all day because he was at work... I knew her bf, I stayed far away. People didn't understand me...But I know the risks.

[@24pixiegirl]

Crazier that y’all are neighbours. More trouble!!

[@seiffudeenhorton3255]

Basic honor and dignity is gone

[@efrainbrown1]

I go one step further God will not turn a blind eye to an adulterer.

[@michaelharris6662]

That goes without saying. This is one reason why it's better to be single and living the life.

[@Awakenone531]

💯 Facts! Proverbs 6:34 For the woman's jealous husband will be furious, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.

[@Art.753]

He's talking Like it happened to him..?

[@brucezoe7935]

People who cheat and stay with thier partners dont make sense to me its like asking for a death wish

[@robcubed9557]

I’ve seen some women in dating apps who are “separated” but not divorced. I immediately unmatch them. My opinions is that they need to be divorced BEFORE I even talk to them

[@Jamal33270]

I thought this was common knowledge. I lost a few classmates due to this. I never in my life would do this. It’s not worth the temporary pleasure. Just for a long term death sentence in most cases.. 😕

[@jamaalstrength1894]

All fun & games until you end up in a graveyard…

[@akendon7260]

Most professional and blue collar men understands this but pokies don't and will sleep with anything. You can tell the guy giving out the advice is a blue collar brother.

[@shawn1832]

Full cap. Plenty of professional/blue collar dudes sleeping with men's wives.

[@jabbaweezy]

If you're willing to go to prison over a cheater, you're the biggest fool of the bunch

[@encourageyourlife]

I cant believe this has to even be a post!!! Praying for the state of this country!

[@zakariyyamccullin1005]

This is common sense. A damn shame people do this.

[@calvinaddison2316]

I never go to another man's home if he's not home that means by brother best friend

[@Panafrocanam2]

You're an honorable man and in minority... Most dudes here try to be slick with that and know what they're doing....

[@PADon69]

That woman’s husband could be mentally unstable and his wife’s cheating could send him over the edge.

[@UncleRoams]

Keep in mind the damage you’re doing to his children. Once everything is revealed you are destroying a family.

[@kgzdelivery]

Same rules should apply for women and should be a Law

[@iamlove7373]

Same goes for messing with another woman's husband.

[@lavender123u]

If you're willing to go to prison for a cheater ..you're a fool.

[@One_of_Many750]

I Agree With Brotha. DO NOT DO IT!!!!

[@duvell1]

This is a Cautionary tale for young fathers to have this conversation with their young sons when they become a teenager. If the child has no father or is raised by a single mother the uncle in the family or some male adult family member needs to have that conversation with that young man. Young men adopt this behavior from mostly from their peers they hang with and in most cases want to mimmick their bad choices becasue they believe its the cool thing to do within their social circle.

[@frederickgee4905]

Never involve yourself with a woman that's separated either

[@DXDMK35103]

A man stepping in another man's shoes shows he has no *dignity*

[@camiblutube7116]

But that's common sense! You are not suppose to cheat! Period!

[@dongraham3695]

These ain't nothing but pookie's and ray rays! Who does these things!

[@MrT-nh6di]

No, it's not. Professional people cheat on each other all the time. Only if hotel walls could talk.🤨

[@ugaladh]

Why do people need to be told this?

[@rogerblewett5595]

This used to just be common sense 💯 Dudes need to have more respect

[@stevenroshni1228]

I looked at how compassionate and patient I was when she vented about him, and realized I deserved better.

[@nonyabiz12]

Right. She's supposed to be talking to her husband about their issues. Not a side piece.

[@andrinetoussaint7166]

The fact that this needs to be said is sad. It should be COMMON SENSE to never cross that line. That's loser behavior and easy way to get killed over pu×××

[@etorrance987]

I know it's just a movie but "The Grudge" changed my mind on all that 🎭

[@ThugNinja]

Now that dude SNAPPED

[@blackublacku]

What year the movie came out?

[@ThugNinja]

@blackublacku the American version came out in '04 and the original Japanese version came out in '00

[@blackublacku]

@@ThugNinja you talking about that horror film?

[@ThugNinja]

@@blackublacku yeah

[@briansamuel1948]

The Brother dropped spot on knowledge, the brothers out there doing it need to take heed!!!

[@gorgeouslady5612]

The woman that Shot the Woman she caught in her home with her Husband!.

[@dejonbooker2450]

Facts. I was in the military for 21 years. I seen this all the time. Most of the times, it does not end well.

[@young10again]

The husbands be knowin😶‍🌫️

[@WCCXtra]

Totally agree, but a lot of spouses hide the fact that they're involved. Someone knowingly going after an attached person deserves the ire, but the cheating spouse deserves it more. Typically, there's some other dysfunction going on in the relationship.

[@arcellmcgowan1517]

I always said you can call a person weak or a simp but their relationship has content you couldn’t understand and punishment is in the eye 👁️ of the beholder 💯🤐

[@sobc2737]

This is one way I measure a man’s character before I go in to business with him. If he has a wondering eye, I walk away immediately.

[@MichaelFennell-df3wi]

sad thing Phil, some men got nothing to lose and they live breath chaos to create drama

[@francesfinney8188]

You should never date or be with anyone other than your significant other

[@darkpower6406]

Absolute facts! An attached woman is trouble!

[@saonedixon5476]

People morals or out the window bruh. It will take God almighty to come down & cleanse this filthy Planet of henths.

[@Panafrocanam2]

End of times is near.

[@mrwill1779]

This is so true I dated a woman going through a divorce 20 years ago out of ignorance and I quickly distance myself from that co-worker I'm so glad I chose to walk away would never do it again this a lesson I was not taught due to Mr not having a father

[@mattiethompson1278]

Why's so many "Black Men" are in "Prison" ? The answer is "Deceitful Women" and The Games They play on Men !!! 🤫🤫😤🤫😤

[@RobertPool-nz5ss]

Play stupid games win stupid prizes play deadly games ...☠️

[@Ninjanese_art]

Some dudes do that for sport, then they might get hunted for sport

[@Panafrocanam2]

Underrated comment

[@willierobertson3383]

Real talk that's a dangerous game to play people have been erased behind stuff like that

[@lorrainethomas-palmer7802]

I wish the same could be said for the women and/or the men who decide to step out on their spouse.

[@annamartin3489]

You are definitely right. People really do reap what they sow and ought to think before they do or say anything.

[@TempleofBrendaSong]

Because we don’t know the mental stability of those around us.

[@takeheedtothemessage]

FACTS 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@letsUNIFYnow]

i personally had a friend lose his life in this exact manner, due to the womans side situation...this is a life lesson for many young and old men. dont assume its a challenge and accomplishment of manhood to climb this mountain.....it can have everlasting consequences

[@mikedraper8316]

Biblically it's a crime punishable by death! You can still receive a punishment that seems worse than death. Life long torment, prison paralyzed, blinded? Don't do it, Don't be deceived!

[@blackdiamond306]

Believe it or not in some countries it is exactly that.

[@MrT-nh6di]

​@@blackdiamond306Stoned

[@H99LN]

I wish we had more of this advice for us men stepping out. Women are mimicking our behaviour 💯

[@bodhisattva2348]

That is EXACTLY what my dad use to say. That women will mimic men's behavior. He still say that today. Men create a culture that women carry on. That's why things like 304 culture, cheating, sleeping around, is so rampant.

[@davidclass7150]

They been doing that and for that the lord's anger smites them too

[@darnellwalker1183]

That ain't a man thang that's a dog thang.

[@mayajackson5024]

Smh dang... you know you're down bad if you feel compelled to tell adults not to date/ entertain other people's spouse.

[@Urhoboman5]

The fact that a statement like that has to be made is quite disturbing. 😞

[@DEMediaDrive]

Well he doesnt know the wife's mental stability she can be an undercover monster too. Be careful. She could have her husband tied up at home or buried under the home. 😅

[@mv4463]

Especially as a foreigner in countries like Philippines 🇵🇭... husband is law....he can off you legally with no consequences..you just done.. next😮

[@gabbysgospel]

That brother had some very convincing advice, thanks for sharing. This is a great message self respect and respecting other peoples privacy awesome