Woman Admits She Made A Grave Mistake By Divorcing Her Husband

[@donaldmcgee6334]

Women don't understand that. They're quick to break them vows and think the LORD is gonna bless their future garbage!

[@alwaysblack2436]

Preach!

[@reginaldwiley6849]

Amen!!!

[@keyshawntalley210]

They really be leaving the best dude in they life no matter at the time they was an teenager or 20’s,they feel god really about to give them someone better

[@MichaelForte-uf4nf]

Don't accept the Reach Back fellas, NEVER.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

They are not worthy of you.

[@bobthegamer1880]

Yep

[@Affiliate067]

I appreciate her story. It takes courage to admit you made mistake.

[@DoubeEdged7]

It takes more courage to make up for your mistakes

[@curtisalleyne3710]

It does

[@prettyboyswagg18181]

@@curtisalleyne3710Wish Tia mowry did the Same She DUMB 😂😂😂🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@CLTrattler704]

She is trying to help some younger women before they make the same mistake.

[@sbolden123]

😂 making decisions on emotions rather than intelligence usually doesn't end well 🤦‍♂️🙅‍♂️

[@crazygoose8939]

Live and learn oh I had egg on my face too left a stable 4 year relationship over a younger cuter guy that easily promised me what my ex would say needed more time and work ended up destroying my life dude was abusive and killed the baby before it was even born. I’m stuck with nightmares ptsd and can’t get over it. Emotional intelligence 💯 Even if I had to just had to wait a little bit longer anything is better than that choice i made.

[@masculinitymatters9030]

@@crazygoose8939 Hey, at least you acknowledge and own it. You light years ahead of the woman who won't admit fault if everyone's life's live around hers depended on it...including kids. Not admitting fault is the silliest thing, like who cares who is right or wrong, it's all about acknowledging, owning, improving, modifying, adjusting to get better future outcomes. Again, you should be proud that you are not one of those extremely silly deflecting, score keeping women.

[@williamcarter9066]

U can’t undone the females DNA nature !! And God says thought out the Bible DON’T make relationship decisions with your heart!! However there’s a long standing OG grandparents saying which is “” A hard head leads to a soft ass””😂😂😂😂😂

[@proimagerah]

@@crazygoose8939sorry to hear that your child had to suffer through that. But don’t expect another decent man to pick up the pieces either. Get some therapy and focus on becoming a better person

[@crazygoose8939]

@@proimagerah that’s all I can do is get therapy my heart is dead and now I don’t trust anyone.

[@mesoanto1031]

Dont take her back

[@georgeharris9873]

She and Tia Mowry go hand in hand.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

She is a better woman than Tia tho.

[@paulbunyan9436]

She is breaking code...Usually the old ones who are suffering the consequence of their feminism stay quiet, so that the young ladies coming up can fall into the same trap...

[@israeliteprince9074]

That's good insight you got there.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

It's sad,that older women don't want help younger women

[@blackhawk6615]

Truff!!!!!!

[@dcisajoke]

😂😂😂

[@CATALATIC]

And that's the problem you women have with this no good sister code because of bitterness & jealousy etc you women need to wake up out that sister code it doesn't benefit no one especially you women, sometimes you are your own enemies to your self's being on the wrong code.

[@sbolden123]

😂 some people are so used to losing until they don't know when they have won.

[@blackhawk6615]

Yup! I actually said this to woman the other day!

[@SuperheroJunior]

If young modern women don't be careful, they will suffer the consequences for their actions 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@barrybanks8679]

They already are

[@alwaysblack2436]

@@barrybanks8679 Exactly. That WALL is undefeated.

[@antoinetteroberts4299]

Well that just goes to show that the grass is NOT greener on the other side! Its an illusion.

[@1withtheuniverse824]

Like i say. They think the grass is greener on the other side but fail to realize it still needs to be cut

[@jkseraphim4]

"All that glitters isn't gold."

[@lcem32]

Winter is coming for alot of yall modern women 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Theeorie4393]

And you men

[@joec3703]

@@Theeorie4393 Wrong, successful men stay successful. The bums will be bums no matter what. You wish it was the same, it isn't.

[@rwyatt26]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alwaysblack2436]

@@joec3703 Correct. They love to say "and men too." It isn't the same for men.

[@tboydot1]

​@lenapearl4393 Nah women are the ones who typically long for the cuddles, and all the lovie-dovie Disney fantasies. That's why it's so easy for women to turn to lesbianism due to the lack thereof from a man for whatever reason. It's different for men especially if they're successful.

[@paulbunyan9436]

Yes she got a house, but she is almost 50 and has 20 years left on that 30 year mortgage and her body is tired of working...

[@Theeorie4393]

But she don't gotta scru🪛

[@williamcarter9066]

The mental stress of that no thank you 😂😂😂

[@saonedixon5476]

Them degrees be having sistas with the big head😅 salute to y'all sistas with degrees though. I just hope y'all land the career of the degrees y'all obtained

[@mopheousredpill7462]

😂😂😂

[@Rover757]

They mostly don't!

[@lastking235]

I appreciate how Phil is fixing the Black Community problems from the root. From the Family Unit. Once the family is fixed, the community gets fixed automatically. This woman is brave to do this, props to her.

[@sweetdreamsposse]

We definitely need more Uncle Phils aka Phil Advise...lol

[@Slimbrodie67]

Facts

[@hwoodist]

Some people really cannot handle making thier own decisions in life and will often self sabotage & self destruct.

[@gigijerrie322]

And will DESTROY everything around them.....including their children if they have any......just PATHETIC.... 😮😢😮😢😮

[@hxycdsa576]

I saw this before, don't feel sorry for her one bit and I'm sure he's better off.

[@Nightrain349]

😂😂She do look happy.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

I do feel sorry for her. She seems to have genuinely learned her lesson........and is trying to help younger women.

[@hxycdsa576]

I can careless she did him a favor and I hope he's doing well without her.

[@jamescargill7975]

​@@hxycdsa576yeah, that was a great blessing for him.

[@geren6934]

Most good men move on so it’s not a come back. And she said she left because she thought she was above him. Not because of a mid life crisis. Karmas a best

[@arsalenshamil4117]

Never take such a woman back. Dangerous.

[@ECO473]

I have absolutely no sympathy for her. Too bad.

[@Slimbrodie67]

I appreciate her for having the courage and confidence to admit her mistakes.

[@nicholasnorman4179]

Them tear of women taste like fine wine hahaha

[@derellsplace]

A woman I met had Three kids . Helped her through college and right before she graduated she picked a fight and told me to go back to my natural habitat because she's educated. bw now. I was told she was 6 months pregnant by me or the baby sitter son .three years of helping trying to do the right thing wasn't enough.

[@shyland4534]

If you’re not six feet tall making six figures chances are slim

[@arielalysse6074]

Her lost. Keep pushing forward.

[@seanscope5455]

Only help ppl who help u don’t be a fool

[@larryconner8825]

Never ever do it again !

[@clockehvac1240]

Don't be A SIMP. Pay attention next time 😊

[@sbolden123]

Teach brother Phil 🙌

[@cedricjackson7521]

A lot of these modern day women failed to realize the grass is not greener on the other side. And are now reaping what they saw.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

Female Hypergamy. Female Boredom.

[@loridean177]

It has always been women divorcing men. However lately I have seen more women wanting their husbands back.

[@calebhenderson6507]

If they dont know by now it is way to late. This stuff should obvious at this point

[@S1lverspike]

Pride always come before the fall

[@dboygreat]

Lady do you think your ex hubby gonna take you back after you left him like you did and also got ran thru? The delusion is real...

[@Theeorie4393]

Might

[@dboygreat]

@@Theeorie4393 might not as well

[@chosensun2627]

@@Theeorie4393delusional 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@alwaysblack2436]

@@Theeorie4393 If he has any sense, he won't.

[@proimagerah]

@@Theeorie4393yeah you’re twisted woman

[@Nightrain349]

Glad she's happy😂

[@mopheousredpill7462]

😂😂😂

[@wr006]

While continually teaching the younger females the same foolishness that she had in her younger days ('Crooked Natured'). I still say, My take on it: Blacks as a whole (especially as applying to both African and American Blacks [maybe one more so than the other and vice versa]) we fail in these five to six main areas: 1) The Idea Of A Non-proven One All Omnipotent God/Religions; 2) Not Having Overall Desire Or Values Toward True Ancient, Historical Knowledge & Science; 3) Negative Female Rulership By Non-Postnatal Trained ('Crooked Natured') Women; 4) Limited, Average Life Span; 5) Not Having Economic Productive Type Values (Needing Someone Else To Do What You Yourself Can Do While Also Not Maximizing On The Full Utilization Of Your Community's Or Continent's Natural Resources) & Finally, 6) The Allowed Destruction Of Family; all of this done within our limited average 80 - 120 years lifespan.

[@AaronOlafson]

when she said she had men coming in and out of her life, life means body. For the woman wanting to return after putting the guy through hell of divorce, family separation, financial problems and woman been ran through by other dudes while she's in her free liberation. Guys don't want damaged/used up things.

[@maxinefowler1186]

I don't know anyone like this. He's low key saying if He's abusive stay like Preachers. Disgusting

[@EricFortuneJr.]

@@maxinefowler1186He never mentioned abuse. Most divorces aren’t filed behind abuse or domestic violence anyway. It’s usually irreconcilable differences and that’s an umbrella term. If the man was abusive, she wouldn’t be in such state of regret. Almost half of the domestic violence is done by women so it really goes both ways.

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

​@@EricFortuneJr.They don't want to talk about physically abusive women tho.

[@EricFortuneJr.]

@@JonThompson-bt8rw And women tend to be much more emotional so I'd argue to say that more than half violence is by women. Men just aren't as quick to report it. Men tend to walk away if we feel we can't control the situation. The only men who hang around fight a woman are those who were raised by women. Men raised by single mothers tend to act like women and they'll fight a woman. Soft men who have no backbone.

[@swint564]

The Bible says that's a sin once a man or woman divorce their spouse without some type of fornication that woman is defiled and he can't get back with that man or woman.

[@seanscope5455]

I’m glad she keep it 💯 I’m seeing a lot of lonely BW now and it’s not looking good 4 them

[@sweetdreamsposse]

People divorce now a days if you belch or fart! One thing that will help everyone is to listen to each other with lil or no interruption and let the other have their say. You just might solve the problem.

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

I respect her honesty and taking accountability, this is how you make better changes.

[@tracygardner9244]

That is so sad!

[@proimagerah]

Sad for her! it's a joyous occasion for us!

[@rmack3481]

Great Reporting R. 8:03

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

Her taking responsibility is like finding a unicorn.. it usually doesn’t show up until their post-nut clarity and lonely echos of an empty house..

[@RandySavage1555]

She can always get on her hands and knees and beg for forgiveness

[@imilreeves1483]

Lol I laugh at old bitter woman today. They be walking around lonley with nobody 😂

[@NerdSplash5555]

Facts😅they be super mean and spiteful to😕

[@alwaysblack2436]

@@NerdSplash5555 They need to be angry with themselves. Bm have tried to make it work with them.

[@DenyseBelle]

Well thats most women these days.

[@electricalhelperjobwanted]

(((( December 01, 2023 -- Friday; 7:58 pm )))) ___ Men in and out of her life -- She REALLY means : " ..... in and out of her pooo-nah-nee ....." .

[@RillaLord32212]

Welp.. Now you know

[@natepolitics1490]

Bw betrayed bm to be frank.

[@curtisalleyne3710]

I'm not trying to sound cynical but does really think she was gonna get a up grade at her age? I think personally she never had respect for her husband as the saying goes they can only be one bull in the field

[@MichaelForte-uf4nf]

They're Delusional

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

She probably divorced her husband at least 15 years ago. What women don't understand (even though the woman already knows it wrong to divorce without just cause).........in order to get and KEEP the upgrade......the upgrade has to actually LOVE her. Women assume any man they can GET(sexually),they can also KEEP, oftentimes this is not the case. ALOT women don't have anything to offer outside of good looks and box,so they don't get LOVE from a man,just ran through. Plus women keep picking the men least likely to commit,and then try to get them to commit. True Love is hard for most women to find, especially as they age and/or keep picking the wrong man.

[@wr006]

I still say, My take on it: Blacks as a whole (especially as applying to both African and American Blacks [maybe one more so than the other and vice versa]) we fail in these five to six main areas: 1) The Idea Of A Non-proven One All Omnipotent God/Religions; 2) Not Having Overall Desire Or Values Toward True Ancient, Historical Knowledge & Science; 3) Negative Female Rulership By Non-Postnatal Trained ('Crooked Natured') Women; 4) Limited, Average Life Span; 5) Not Having Economic Productive Type Values (Needing Someone Else To Do What You Yourself Can Do While Also Not Maximizing On The Full Utilization Of Your Community's Or Continent's Natural Resources) & Finally, 6) The Allowed Destruction Of Family; all of this done within our limited average 80 - 120 years lifespan.

[@alwayssomething8344]

I use to work with an older lady she was about 73-75 at the time and she started wearing mini skirts, ponytails and wanted me to put ponytails in her hair, she was wearing shirts that would show some of her breast and she even ran out and got a couple of tattoos. 😂 😂 😂 it was kinda funny though but i sure said she’s definitely having a mid-life crisis

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Phillip 💯 Iam elated she spoke Truthfully

[@laladaniel3488]

Dont let those positions at work. Play yall.

[@acethefloridianforever]

All of the modern women in this world are on their way to the wall. Once they hit the wall they will become another sob story for the next generation to listen to. The cycle today continues to repeat itself.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@wr006]

While continually teaching the younger females the same foolishness that she had in her younger days ('Crooked Natured'). I still say, My take on it: Blacks as a whole (especially as applying to both African and American Blacks [maybe one more so than the other and vice versa]) we fail in these five to six main areas: 1) The Idea Of A Non-proven One All Omnipotent God/Religions; 2) Not Having Overall Desire Or Values Toward True Ancient, Historical Knowledge & Science; 3) Negative Female Rulership By Non-Postnatal Trained ('Crooked Natured') Women; 4) Limited, Average Life Span; 5) Not Having Economic Productive Type Values (Needing Someone Else To Do What You Yourself Can Do While Also Not Maximizing On The Full Utilization Of Your Community's Or Continent's Natural Resources) & Finally, 6) The Allowed Destruction Of Family; all of this done within our limited average 80 - 120 years lifespan.

[@daishawilliams8301]

I'm glad that my mom is with my dad throughout the years because she told me that good men are hard to find out here these days and don't take yours for granted. 😂😂🇩🇴

[@walteranderson2507]

Tru dat! 💯🛂✈️🌎🇺🇸🇩🇴👮🏿‍♂️👰🏽‍♀️ Higuey, Zona Colonia, Azua, Playa Caobita todos día 😊😊😊

[@CATALATIC]

Wise words, don't follow in many other women that have had that same telling, teachings but still thought they are cute enough to explore other options where the "grass is greener" then come to find out they done messed up them self's had kid(s), gone through the wall with a bag of problems thinking better was elsewhere when they had better or the best that they could ever get. You don't want to make that mistake.

[@moemillerpresents]

🤷🏿‍♀️Oops🤷🏿‍♀️

[@J-nd9ub]

Shes right ... I remember her

[@williamcarter9066]

One more time y’all !! The great the very beautiful Ms. Diana Carol tried to tell em 😂😂😂😂

[@sharabryan1416]

i hope all the females see this

[@arthurwilliams7307]

A lot of women hit that mid life crisis when there friends with kids start becoming grand parents...Now there friends instead of hanging out are babysitting or visiting them grand babies

[@troywest1724]

She will continue her journey of healing like the most of them do. Thinking they are invisible.

[@masonmendosa8395]

Thsts why gentlemen you Need to take out your passports

[@marvelousmartian5379]

Interesting! But HE did nothing foul to her! I'm glad he moved on and hope his living his peace!

[@user-fq4jo7tw5k]

Uncle Phil, as usual, This one was HEAVY

[@treasurejoy8539]

This is my former sister law story.

[@bobthegamer1880]

At least Auntie kept it 💯

[@lolakepi]

Greetings from Paris and from global Black family

[@Areodactyl7777]

Oh well, you get what you deserve.

[@gurukid08]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 YOU PLAYED YOURSELF!

[@shamandesmith538]

LOOKING FO LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES LOOKING FO LOVE 🎶🎶🎶🤷🏿‍♂️ SMH.

[@walteranderson2507]

You said it! They want to mask their ego and irrational decisions on menopause. Well I agree! But, I have recognized and embraced my MAN-O-PAUSE..... ain't got to put up with their scht no more!

[@rhondahopkins4366]

This happened all the time. 😂

[@swacfan2791]

Got more degrees than a thermometer 🌡️ and her bed still cold. Lay in it.

[@deversray4907]

What was she thinking?

[@JonThompson-bt8rw]

She was thinking she can do better than her husband. The Female Ego.

[@ambriaharris4821]

My fiance ex thought she had control by filing for a divorce. She locked him out the house and he met me. My fiance died but he died happy with true love and respect. His children are salty because he left me in his Will and Trust.

[@ECO473]

Uncle Phil...WHY should her ex-husband take her back??? SHE broke the vows and SHE forfeited what she had. Her stuck-up attitude got her in the regretful spot she's in. Pride goes before the fall.

[@ginawallace1230]

Be in your truth.

[@michaelgreene9162]

What makes getting with today's women so difficult for many truly good men is that modernized mindset along with the fact that there's nothing left for us to build on as a couple outside of sex and mostly that's been damaged beyond repair, not being funny nor rude but it's the truth. So they look elsewhere for that more traditional woman or they simply give up trying.

[@cherrybubly1774]

The editor keeps cutting off the ending to these videos Phil, get on they ass

[@SeanAndre100]

I seen this old video. She only feel like this cause she got old and no one is clapping her anymore.

[@richarddean1854]

Preach Preach, yes sir across the USA there's tons of female living on the streets many cities many states it's very difficult trying to survive without a man most female can't now the degree one's can afford it but they will still be not able to replace there's man. PCT Nurse.

[@omegaman2767]

She has some great KZbin videos! I use to watch them a few months ago!

[@33690]

Wow 😮

[@daestromm1043]

Out all those men, there wasn't one who wanted to have a long-term committed relationship with her? Maybe it's not the men.

[@melvinlovejones]

Getting to really know people becomes more difficult the older we get because people are able to hide more dirt that become less tolerable

[@douglasjones5880]

It's too late baby too late. Thats an old song and story. 😊

[@pickmeisha]

I divorced my husband because of neglect, disrespect and mistreatment. I remarried 2yrs later, he’s apologized over and over, never stopped trying to contact me nor has he found someone ‘better’ or has he become more successful.

[@missmaddy4024]

Your statement is true...I'm going through what went through word for word..

[@Carol-ff2nf]

I to left and divorced my husband due to physical abuse,disrespect and many many extra marital affairs I endure these treatment for a Long time thinking he would change but he didn't changes didn't come until he go sick ended up with kidney failure and he found out that those same women didn't want him anymore he's now older living alone and quite as a mouse he have called and text me many times requesting that we try get back together and try to make it work I let him know that there's no way I will interrupt my peaceful happy life to be with him I finally block him

[@ratswagger]

The video was not about dealing with deadbeat husbands. It's about how some women leave good men thinking that there are better options out there. They then realize that it's better to grow with that good man than to increase their body count with a bunch of bad ones.

[@Craccockahine]

@@missmaddy4024pathetic, I mean we’re only human but how many times you watch a failed path to know it’s a failed path

[@jamescargill7975]

​@@ratswaggerthey're slow.

[@isaiahkenny3544]

You know what I'm saying that part!

[@jlivingwater792]

This doesn't even include the spiritual consequences of divorcing for any other reason but the one that God allows!

[@CHI-TOWN-CHICAGO]

Viva to the husband! ASE!

[@reallifebrown6021]

Powerful

[@blake6026]

Phil... idk why you're telling them the truth like this, this world don't remember curses, this is real. They forgot the Creator is eternal.

[@eugenepooe7200]

Whatever God gives you he can also take back

[@marcusthomas6998]

Why is it a mid life crisis for men. Men that put off their dreams to provide for family, until they kids are grown is what should be done. Then once they're out the home,why not get the car,motorcycle or boat of his dreams.

[@Dweeble233]

Whereas women initiate 80% of divorces and make off with the majority of assets in most cases, in the long run they lose and squander the assets gained.. Men have more dating options and will tend to remarry. Because they built the assets given to the woman during the divorce, they also know how to rebuild them and often do.

[@tidavevital4744]

Your body count is not over yet. Just wait and see. Why don’t you ask your success to kiss you or give you a hug and listen to you when you are depressed?! That’s just the beginning of the quickly increasing body count for you…

[@Gigga101]

Headahh 😂

[@bamaboi6845]

Why are you videos cutting short today?

[@CATALATIC]

1.3K Like

[@semmieelston5679]

❤❤❤❤

[@veganninja5886]

4:00 God doesnt exist so your whole point there is flawed. Plus you're always quoting the white mans bible.

[@reginaldsmith6949]

In your opinion, what book should he quote?

[@ayandamafuyeka1952]

Are you aware that the Ethiopian Bible is older than the King James Bible

[@PrayerPlanningPassports]

Modern Western women? What's that?