Sista Says There's No Reason For Her To Workout, Be Feminine Or Friendly To Men She Qualifies For

[@brooklyncee4041]

The lack of accountability never ceases to amaze me. What about being the best version of herself, for her? 🤔

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

Facts

[@smd4751]

Exactly. We all should strive for that. I want to work out for me bcI want to be at my healthy best mentally, physically and spiritually. People just don't want to put in the effort anymore. Smh

[@dangerwetikosclose2682]

The lack of femininity has me even more perplexed. She sounds brolic asf!!!! 🤯

[@Remember-Death]

Right. What about the whole "Black Girl Magic" movement? She's acting like the only reason she should chase excellence is for men, and not for her own personal development.

[@laverne604]

@ Brooklyn Cee Regarding accountability; what about the men being accountable instead of being dusty Pookie and Ray Ray's?

[@christopherduffy1703]

I mean feminine, fit and friendly are qualities she should have with or without a boyfriend.

[@55cleon]

Without A Doubt 👌🏿!

[@serene1275]

Exactly!!

[@laverne604]

Yin and Yang. Low testosterone feminine men requesting feminine women.🤭

[@Aberamentho2010]

@@laverne604 obvioisly you did not comprehend the comment. Typical BW reponse though. As usual, all out in left field lost.

[@sharoncobb9334]

It's about yourself not a man!

[@commanderbracey7501]

She doesn't have to do anything..............no one is checking for her anyway. 😂

[@jjrrhh1983]

Exactly!! 💯

[@jamieg9607]

💯

[@WillieFungo]

False. Thirsty black men check for everything.

[@Knightboomer_559]

Congratulations to her, she's made herself single for the rest of her life! She's been attracting the type of men she qualify for!

[@antoinettedoctor3993]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@joemomma3208]

She already has the man she qualifies for “The Invisible Man” 😂😂😂😂

[@riofacts8283]

Lmao good 1

[@dimpleface2163]

LOL

[@lordeltorious997]

Well Said. 😅😏

[@franciskabiawu]

😅🤣

[@AbdallahEsa]

😂😂😆😂😆

[@dashways1006]

She don’t have to workout like her relationships!!! How Ironic!!

[@dimpleface2163]

These fools are out of their natural minds.

[@marvl6472]

What minds do they have

[@laverne604]

She sounds frustrated. Probably ran into a liar and cheater more than a few times.

[@laverne604]

@I Not necessarily. Pookie and Ray Ray will try anyone.

[@laverne604]

@I No one deserves to be lied to and cheated on. Keep it a buck!

[@stan121midling5]

@@laverne604 oh with how she acts and talks, that is a given ok :0

[@datswhatiwastrynatellyall7062]

She gay. I sense a little………🤔Something there

[@rolandmarkland6844]

She is obsolete to most of us. We don't care.

[@whatsakingtoagod5583]

Fellas, we have to keep letting these women get in their own way. Vote with your feet and go where you’re celebrated!!

[@doloresboston8571]

She announcing her coming “OUT”: 1. She doesn’t want to be feminine 2. These types of men make her want to be masculine.

[@antoniobeck5051]

Any woman that thinks like that should go turn to Jesus. That's just unheard of and really stupid for a woman not to be a woman because of some guy.. I don't need a woman who thinks like that.. NO!

[@serene1275]

@@antoniobeck5051 This!! 💯💯💯

[@caryweight728]

You attract what you are. The energy that she lets off is the reason why she attracts what she gets. The irony here is that if she made the improvements that she refuses to do then she'd most likely attract the type of man that she'd rather have.

[@vante2129]

I mean being feminine should be something that you naturally are with or without a man there's no straight men saying"I'll be feminine until the right woman comes" you should always be in your natural energy. And working out should be something you do for your own health this woman is just lazy don't project that on us if you don't want to do either that's fine but it is not because "men aren't worth it" stop using that nonsense.

[@theblackschwab3561]

*masculine

[@hegiratc]

It's so funny that we change everything for her but she don't have to do anything for us.

[@XeroFailGames]

Speak for yourself

[@laverne604]

If you have to change everything for a relationship; you need to level up or you are with the wrong person.

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

Nobody wants that Bird!!!

[@osirisofthesouth2853]

Wtf you mean. Just you

[@TheLadymac1982]

I mean dang I’m single as h3LL but I ain’t gonna let myself go! 😅 I definitely don’t have the energy to be mean to people who ain’t being mean to me but I guess. Maybe she low key wants to be a stud 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@antoniobeck5051]

Yeah, and that's just messed up.

[@10_door_tycoon]

She’s definitely been with a woman before. No doubt about it.

[@Kingsspeaks]

She does not even have to exercise to be attracted for a man she can exercise just to stay healthy and have a long life, she can be 50 years old and look 30 just because she exercise and take good care of her health.

[@TheGr8-1]

🤦🏽‍♂️🤡💩

[@MrZlathan3]

@@TheGr8-1 Yeah. Beauty and a greater range of choice in men is simply a fringe benefit of a positive attitude and health. If she doesn't have even that level of basic common sense then no man with any sense will touch her.

[@letzeatcrunch3752]

She definitely speaking for herself smh

[@ljthirtyfiver]

Wow she really didn’t think this through. This by far the dumbest Logic I’ve ever heard. This gave me heart burn 😂.

[@duelrig1224]

I don't blame brothers for traveling to other countries to meet traditional feminine women. What I'm seeing with these masculine women, is that they are the New Tgirls. Get your passport men. Phil...you're 💯% on point brother.

[@lemontwilliams1759]

Yeah get your passport men and it will be only a matter of time that you will get the same results you’re running from with so called feminine traditional women that you don’t appreciate, use and abuse. You men are absolutely the reason women everywhere are the way they are. When the head get right everyone and everything follow.

[@chrislegend382]

Very interesting how she immediately goes to bringing up the worst kind of men. You have to seriously wonder how many bad experiences she’s had

[@kkroyu]

Or how many bad experiences she created on her own

[@negroraven9458]

@@kkroyu Exactly, because she’s not a bad looking woman.

[@MarcheRenoir]

This woman doesn't know it because she thinks she sounds intelligent? What she's actually doing is giving you a very CRINGE LOOK into her life. Her life is cringe because her MIND IS CRINGE..!

[@freddyjimenez6434]

Good 1

[@money2mind267]

White men please take this woman she fits right in with y’all!!!!!

[@stan121midling5]

@@money2mind267 oh hell no bro, she is all yours :0

[@Dee2000]

Sounds like excuses for her laziness!😂😂😂😂 Best wishes honey boo boo. Would love a follow up in 2 years.

[@leecosey7003]

So let me get this straight she want to use men as an excuse for her being lazy to go to the gym

[@peregrinenglish]

She crazy. She'll be feminine for zaddy and it's all black men's fault. 🙄

[@Jay7682]

She's the poster child for that old saying that you need to love yourself before you can love anyone else. She doesn't love herself enough to make the improvements for herself. To spite the men she can't st and she will deny herself the joy of making positive changes in her life for herself. I honestly feel bad for this woman more than anything else.

[@Diana734]

Umm...what about working out for your own health and possibly any future children you might want to have?

[@samuelmack5689]

She has a lot of anger

[@nandansho]

She is the MAIN REASON I HAVE A PASSPORT...

[@d.j.w.6431]

She knows she's masculine but wondering why she keep attracting zesty boys? 🤣 🤣 where is the common sense and the accountability? Are those 2 things like cryptonite nowadays to some of these women smh

[@Mohamedhassan-eu6wx]

Let her be that way. She ain’t ever gonna get a house, kids, grandkids, vacation and a happy home and family ext. with her nasty attitude she’ll get Pookie and Ray Ray who will make her a single mom, put her in an environment we’re she lives in section 8 and getting welfare, she’ll have to deal with other baby mamas and have a terrible life.

[@KDaniels-iw5mc]

Man Pookie and Ray Ray don't even want these bitches no more what are you talking about.

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

She's using this an excuse because she's miserable with herself.

[@deejay5102]

@@MADNEWYORKER914 mega facts... And don't forget lazy...

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Pretty much.

[@MrEdmakko]

She’s not intelligent at all. I definitely wouldn’t give her the time of the day. She’s a turnoff.

[@larrymyers5989]

As soon as she started talking I knew I was good with that masculine energy. Most men I know just don’t want to deal with that unfriendly loud ish. Usually it’s because of their past toxic relationships

[@marvl6472]

Same Kweens who tell us what they don't have to do always demand what BM should do..

[@BChan1991]

Make it make sense!!! 🥴

[@davidvanhorn3340]

With her attitude, the only "men" she qualifies for are Pookie & Ray-Ray

[@edwardflounoy7207]

And shaquon, and Tyrone, and Raheem, etc..

[@serene1275]

Bye girl!! She got no common sense at all.

[@Will_Bx_NYC_718]

I swear lots of women Dont need the internet at all.

[@landonbrown9943]

Accountability is like kryptonite to modern women. Get ya passports fellas

[@thegrandcanyonisegypt2489]

yall dont have to get a passport, these musty immigrants are coming to a town or home near u very soon thx to these new purge laws

[@phreezzo8975]

That's so true unity I don't think alpha men are attracted to her it's her inner spirit. Ethiopia 🇪🇹 and south sudan 🇸🇸 women are so beautiful let's get our passports men and go back home to mother Africa 🌍 ✊🏿

[@harrydaloc9112]

Yep been had that and use it regularly

[@jwilkins-el2953]

As a woman you should always want to be healthy, feminine and feel good about yourself for you. These things have nothing to do with anyone outside of you.

[@TheDoramilaje04]

Yes exactly 💯...you need to be fit & feminine for yourself

[@kristophanynoble5263]

Oh my....she just told on herself in less than 30 seconds. She revealed the men she dealt with in the past!!!!!

[@MissEdie1973]

At the very least, do it for yourself!!

[@vante2129]

Exactly you're not hurting anyone by dying from heart disease

[@hyuga4477]

As soon as she spoke I was done. Way too much aggression in her voice.

[@sunsoza8320]

All she is saying is self sabotage

[@beautifulblackbutterfly1765]

I am a strong believer in taking care of my health. I stay up to date on & go to all my appointments, talk to my doctor if I have any questions or concerns, & try to answer &/or return all calls that I receive from my doctor. Because of this, I refuse to date any man, regardless of race, who doesn't believe in & refuses to take care of his health.

[@automatic_systematic]

I refuse to pretend my feelings are hurt by your selectivity. To each his own and all that. "You know there's other fish in the sea, that is" 🎵🎶

[@luvbig41]

And that is the way you should think and do.

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

And this amazing woman is still single...........SHOCKING!!!!!! Can't the world see how wonderful she is? Why get a passport when there are so many sistas like this in the states to choose from.? What's wrong with men today?

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

🤣

[@TyroneDewayne]

The same way she feels like she may not want to sacrifice for a man men see her demeanor as she's stuck in her ways that aren't working, we're not trying to raise a grown child, and especially if they come with a child. That's someone that are in their own way in every aspect of their lives.

[@soloman_am]

The men she "qualifies" for are the men she's complaining about but that's her level if I wanted a house but refuse to work I would only qualify for homelessness regardless of what I want

[@AWesker99]

Good thing I just renewed my passport yesterday

[@direwolf1977]

I'm sure I'm not gone lose any sleep over this one lol

[@dwthomas38]

Like I always say...the stinker the dooky, the more flies it attracts. She's definitely not a catch for good men.

[@b14m23]

Men do not want women wearing someone else hair on their head and tattoos on her chest. Pass, next up.

[@mrbdx]

They make these videos and you can TELL they are MAD MAD…and the reason they are mad is because they’re out here TRYING to get chose but Men are not buying the BS she’s selling and now she’s out here FRUSTRATED. 😂

[@kristysmith4990]

She's supposed to do those things for herself.

[@AMOORE1]

Good riddance, why would any guy pursue a woman with this attitude. 🤢🤮

[@jasonruff1270]

It really is a shame, the black woman has the most naturally feminine body of all females yet some of our black women don't choose to workout. Do you have any idea how hard other races of women (mostly becky) work to get that same figure that you just naturally have!!! Just eat healthy, workout, and take care of yourself, not that difficult.

[@latashadavis4278]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@dortcharmy11]

yup naturally blessed and refuse to maintain it

[@Riva2025]

True!

[@phreezzo8975]

🎯🎯🎯

[@jasonruff1270]

@@dortcharmy11 yeah it's annoying, you have black women on videos saying "I ain't doing that" when all you would have to do is to workout every other day, maybe do some sprints, squats, ab training and maybe some upper body lifting you know? Meanwhile you got black dudes in the gym training for an alien invasion or to put the earth back in orbit, we're literally in here turning ourselves into mini hulks and whenever I see a brotha who's not on his game I tell him he needs to lift or do something, don't just stand there.

[@dr.distortionjqg]

she has a miserable perception of life and absorbed the negativity so much where her standards are puffed up to the clouds where mytical gods reside. YEA THAT HIGH! not saying it's not good to keep your guard up but when your guard brings out walls around you making you lose your happiness and get into gargoyle mode (or that female mogwai from gremlins) You gotta ask yourself are YOU doin to much?

[@neon_one_neo3317]

Love how they disqualify themselves and then wonder why their not getting the results they want🥴

[@feelewis9298]

As a woman you should be feminine friendly and in shape not necessarily for a man but for yourself.

[@Aberamentho2010]

Unfortunately, most modern day American BW aren't smart enough to figure that out.

[@naturalhealthrevolution1518]

If a person doesn't care about their health then that's on them

[@lemontwilliams1759]

If BW aren’t smart enough to figure out something so simple then everyone else is definitely a lost cause.

[@naturalhealthrevolution1518]

@@lemontwilliams1759 its a WRAP for most. Its OVER

[@Aberamentho2010]

@Corporal Feel no way Correct. South American women seem to get it.

[@AphrooneRichardson]

She's a classic FOOL! Viva to all the PASSPORT BROS.! The Eastern Women are FIT, FEMININE, FRIENDLY, BEAUTIFUL, AND INSPIRATIONAL!

[@ronaldcoates7228]

Obviously that’s the men she attracts, have she ever thought of that ! Sounds Butchie to me 💯🤔🤨🤷🏾‍♂️

[@rodpatty1]

She’s so aggressive 😆

[@troydavis318]

That's the therapist sister. They on the same team. Ratchet, Bi-polar and detached . Who wants to rock with her ?

[@803logic]

🤣😂😅

[@gusmacker919]

I think that a lot of these women have a lesbian spirit on them that’s why they act and talk like that. Because if they are not into men then who are they in to ???

[@Duval-Dame]

These modern day women are literally losing their minds🤔🤔

[@IntelInside2020]

If you strive to be the best well-rounded person you can be, everything else falls into place.

[@williamjackson2890]

She angry as hell. Their she blows!!!

[@ImGerald]

as soon as she opened her mouth, I can hear the masculine all in her deep voice. She comes off aggressive, makeup caked up on her face, tats on her chest and probably the rest of her body, and a curly frizzy looking cheap wig. All of this tells me that there was no daddy in the house, so she picked up that masculine role. Good luck to her, she's going to need it.

[@purityofmine5316]

That is her hair though. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tanishakennedy4616]

No you're just feminine

[@tanishakennedy4616]

@@demetriahorne1006 actually that's her hair

[@RaiderClarke312]

Preach....

[@automatic_systematic]

​@@purityofmine5316 an d whatever is going on beneath her scalp is keeping her in her own way from getting a good man

[@Shiloh_Speaks]

Ra's Al Ghul had it right, when he asked Bruce, in "Batman Begins", 何を求めていますか？("What are you seeking"). It's the journey INWARD that will tell us what we QUALIFY for. What we are WORTHY of. And that's the journey this sister refuses to take.

[@jimjones3287]

Nothing inside so she qualifies for nothing/nobody's which is what she's getting.

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Phillip treat her like you meet her and leave her where she's at!

[@dricoirving3236]

lol the chest tat is an automatic no for me dawg

[@garrincha1758]

Sorry Phill I couldn't watch this. I had to stop it the moment she started talking. These women are so annoying they're not worth my attention. The hate against men is real asf.

[@Riva2025]

Even a puppy doesn’t deserve that entitled, negative, sourpuss attitude!!!

[@TriRacialAmericana]

SO aggressive from the get go. Since the 80s as a child I quickly recognized who the toughest girls were. Always wondered why they were generally more aggressive than the other ethnicities.

[@RillaLord32212]

She suspect bro... Just come on out the closet and stop pump faking... Just gone and get you a girlfriend and be you.. You ain't making no sense shorty...

[@reneehenderson6134]

She's been hurt before and is very guarded. If she stops seeing every black man as a potential husband and begins to socialize with them on the basis of their being human beings,, she'll find the right man.

[@FaithandPurpose828]

She's trying to shop above her price range and real men keep rejecting her.

[@ariesram1890]

Thats why i don't even speak or say hi to most western women!! Not all of them but most of them give you a look like you just stole something out of their mom's purse or something!!!!!🤷‍♂

[@reginaldoutlaw25]

There goes to show you they don't think with logic. Exercise to keep YOURSELF healthy and fit sweetheart.

[@koolwebbie]

That’s who she’s been with from the beginning so 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@HetooGrim]

Angry and Mannish!

[@One_of_Many750]

Let Others Tell It, If Men Did This And That, Women Would Follow, And Not Rebel. Yeah That’s A Load of BS. People Refuse To Hold Females Accountable.

[@melaninfuture]

Those janky filters are worth a thousand words.

[@55cleon]

MMM HMMM 👌🏿!!

[@rigil5477]

-- What was the mistake she made? (Blaming men for something she can fix herself.) -- Does she have the power to fix it? (She is pretty and in shape. Of course.) -- How do women avoid this trap? (By being brutally honest about what it means to be feminine while respecting yourself.) -- Do eligible black bachelors really exist in America? (To my surprise and shock, they do exist.) 😂

[@vaughnandrews7932]

This is sad. She's a good looking woman. Her having the proper attitude can put her where she wants to be.

[@ericjohnson9356]

she said all the things' that was negative''' and when you say that that' that whats you attract'''''' what you pull in life '

[@thenaturalbae]

It was a lot to unpack there. I don’t let one bad Apple spoil my bunches of fun. Regardless of my daughter’s dad’s action I can’t compare other men to him. Yet I do wonder about the company of men he had around him while raising my daughter alone who wants to be friends with a man that refuses to be a parent to his child? The Bible says like iron sharpens iron, one person sharpens another Proverbs 27:17. 🤔

[@bayouboii]

She must think she’s a baddie or something🥴?? My lady you’re farrrrrr from being a baddie. Isn’t this the same woman that said she embraced hitting the wall?? Embrace it then🤷🏽‍♂️and stop complaining, or compete like every other woman has to💯.

[@lemontwilliams1759]

You cappin she is beautiful

[@salaamabdul-muhyee3276]

She’s a weirdo

[@amakadius75]

So is everyone doing the KS thing now? I mean I respect it and will continue to watch but it seems that way. Love it. Thank you.

[@poosie52]

Most Never Leave Their Neighborhoods...

[@royleathsr.2549]

Bro, please limit giving women like this a platform! I appreciate the awareness, but please! Smh

[@Gymrat187]

Only in America you'll find people that are proud to be overweight...you even see advertisements promoting unhealthy body types

[@ryanking1223]

Ooook 🤦🏻‍♂️ she heading in the right direction to find a good man and live a healthy lifestyle 🤥🤣🤣😂

[@kelvinhardy6711]

Do you boo!( Most of these brotha's aren't checking for sista's anyway)! They want them Latina's & Filipina's.LMAO 😂😂😂

[@harrydaloc9112]

Facts

[@proimagerah]

What an ignorant statement..

[@JamesJones-nr1ob]

You ATTRACT WHAT/WHO YOU ARE AND/OR CHOOSE TO BE. WOW!

[@iceman2582]

Get ready sister the wall is waiting patiently for you have no fear go along

[@blackluxurians6062]

Wow this woman has some serious self esteem issues. She needs a therapist, not a man

[@BaybieK]

She sounds bitter.

[@skysthelimitforeveryoung3437]

Do all of what you’ve stated for you, to benefit from and live your best life. Once you’ve found your joy, a man that matches that energy will find you!

[@thehelp6598]

Proverbs 15:32 He that refuseth instruction despiseth his own soul: but he that heareth reproof getteth understanding.

[@vivg.7980]

You can do anything right for you. That's for her. She'll see her regrets too.