That was so sweet when you said thomas calling in life is to be a dad, those future kids will be really blessed to have you both as dads!
@raymondschneider52174 жыл бұрын
IMO Thomas AND PJ are showing they're WONDERFUL Dads, since they've been fostering the three munchkins! It's so fun watching them interact with the kids; giving them lots of love and building some great confidence in them all. I laugh so much, when PJ runs around the house playing tag with them, while mimicking their running (espec, Sissy's!). So fun!! Keep that going. Y'all Be Safe!
@natalieangus9245 Жыл бұрын
I love listening to you together like this. Just found your channel recently and have been watching them all. Take care of each other❤️🇨🇦
@johnnyfantaztic92795 жыл бұрын
you kids are the REALEST! so refreshing to watch you both be together and living your truth.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you sweet Johnny!!!!
@johnnyfantaztic92795 жыл бұрын
super duper happy face!
@jaefellows50243 жыл бұрын
Such gorgeous men, So down to earth, such loving men, such hard workers, the most beautiful couple I have had the pleasure of watching on the net, I am in AWE of such great attitudes, love, respect and ethics. "Love You Both PJ and Thomas"
@gregclockmaster49045 жыл бұрын
Great advice on what to do before getting married! We did the same things you mentioned including living together for a "test week" and then a "test month" before my now husband moved in permanently with me. We've been together now 22 years and married over 2 years.
@steveh.39015 жыл бұрын
This is a great guide about love, marriage and the truly lasting commitment you have made to each other. You give very honest answers to complex questions and wise advice. I hope more people considering a relationship together will see this video and the important subjects you discuss! Well done! 👍
@jamesborsheim93825 жыл бұрын
Thomas ... as a frequent throat clearer too, I've recently found out that I have had a "globus sensation" condition. It's medically treatable, you might wanna see an ENT about the condition. It's been quite refreshing to >NOT< clear my throat (as much as I did previously), so look up and learn about a "globus sensation" condition. Best to you both.
@darriontunstall37085 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait!!! Happy birthday Thomas!!! Enjoy your day!!! Eat too much cake! Lol! I love y’all much!!!
@omarijoseph31895 жыл бұрын
0:28 three ways a no no , 3:37 with love comes devastation, one day one of you will leave this earth before the other, 5:18 you're not very affectionate - showing & giving love like hugs, kisses is very reassuring, 6:38 clearing throat..could be a hair ball or just a ball,
@quintineperry34415 ай бұрын
You guys inspire me to take out my art supplies!
@Alfrodo85 жыл бұрын
Well, now I'm curious to know what was that censored guilty pleasure XD. Anyway, great video, I loved it!
@lucasmatiasavila.5 жыл бұрын
Fucking in dog position ahhaa i believe!
@jacobsu33584 жыл бұрын
Lucas Avila Maybe you are right!But why? Dog position why makes guilty?😂😂😂😂😂
@afterimage2k5 жыл бұрын
Constant throat clearing can be irritating to others, but may have a medical cause including allergies and GERD (Gastro Esophageal Reflux). Talk to your physician, she may be able to help.
@takchengsze47195 жыл бұрын
Prenup is a good idea. Every who got into marriage should consider it.
@rmfyi5 жыл бұрын
Great Q & A video, articulate & handsome! Love you guys so much! ♥ Prayers and blessings...All the best :) HBT
@williamm82405 жыл бұрын
That was fun and I hope to see more. BTW, Happy Birthday Thomas.
@chateau75 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your sincerity and kindness and generosity of spirit.
@m.w.b.64472 жыл бұрын
Love you guyz. You represent HOPE!
@coreyraley62135 жыл бұрын
My husband I have been together for 13 yrs and will be married for 5 in October and we thought about a prenup, but realized that it was useless seeing that we have left everything to one another. You guys are the younger version of us, I just turned 50 and he is 49. Take care guys. C&S
@CassDunham5 жыл бұрын
I feel like PJ's mustache makes everything he says more dirty, I'm loving the mustache! lol But really it's growing on me.
@OLDS985 жыл бұрын
I must say I enjoy listening to you address questions and watching you two share. I am still learning about you two. When you are with someone you accept the good and the bad. You adjust and adapt. It is informative just listening. You two stay happy and keep learning about each other.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
OLDS98 thank you, love!
@sillyrabbit7344 жыл бұрын
I realized my biggest fear over the last few years. I've lost my best friend of 30 plus years and my mom and dad. My family pretty much fell apart after mom and dad died, I just have two sisters. It's been a rough couple of years and I'm recovering from Covid - so I'm ready for some better times ahead.
@MrAndre12725 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with the pre-nap. Both Ben and I had properties before meeting each other. We’ve managed to build a large property portfolio while together, but now after 20 years together the pre meeting stuff has become both of ours either in sales profits or in name. Funny how I could relate to your answers. This Q&A was another great vid.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Andre Poidomani aw thank you!!
@black_widow.815 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Thomas 🤗🎁🎂🎈🎉🎉 I hope you have a wonderful day
@williamgreaney67203 жыл бұрын
Such a great video, gentlemen. Your guilty pleasure makes me hungry, Mr. PJ. Mr. Thomas, you probably don't do it on camera because I've never heard you do it in any of the videos. Nice informative video, gentlemen.
@Trey387855 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love the mustache. Did I mention how much I love ❤️ the mustache?
@brianlupo65865 жыл бұрын
Ok, 1 how dare you Thomas bleep out what PJ said, ALSO the look when PJ called you out for clearing ur throat 25 times SO Far today wuz PRICELESS ❣️
@kristinradams71095 жыл бұрын
Oh, and have a sweet and happy birthday, Thomas!
@keimairajackson74925 жыл бұрын
Great video guys and HAPPY BIRTHDAY THOMAS!!!
@tomdeininger73795 жыл бұрын
Good video. Nice to hear about the two of you, what makes you happy.
@dylanbuchman81285 жыл бұрын
I have been sleeping on y'all you guys are adorable
@marcobarrales47135 жыл бұрын
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎊🎂🎁🎈🎉
@LordShagRag4 жыл бұрын
the bongo sound effect = genius
@natalieangus9245 Жыл бұрын
I think Thomas clearing his throat constantly has to do with his allergies, I’m the same❣️ PJ you have mentioned not being affectionate before, change that word to demonstrative I think it’s more accurate. Love you both.
@kevinhaw42675 жыл бұрын
Gosh I really love this Q&A video because on the one hand I get to know more about you guys and on the other hand I can harvest the joy of seeing you guys interacting with each other when the juicy question is being answered. I love both of your cute faces and PJ’s voice thingy when he does that. Love. And I would love to see some reaction video sometimes. I think that would be fun.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Love it, Kevin! Thank you so much! xx
@saumil66795 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday Thomas! And tomorrow is my birthday!
@ChristianZiya4 жыл бұрын
I am new here , I enjoyed your video. Hopefully I am here to stay !
@transpirit205 жыл бұрын
Little things that annoy you about each other... Are the little things that you secretly LOVE about each other... Believe me... You just don't realise it yet... I separated from my partner some time back and now those annoying things I miss
@thomassears14324 жыл бұрын
My husband and I moved in with each other the day after our first date. We married 20 years later on the anniversary of that date. If it’s right, it’s right from the start.
@marienorman14775 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Week! Enjoy yourself and treat yourself! 🎂🌹💜💜
@jerryettinger90555 жыл бұрын
Love your Q&A videos. PJ to give you different prospective on Thomas clearing his throat. My partner and I have been together 48 years now and 13 years ago he was diagnosed with tongue cancer stage 4 with 20% chance of beating it. After 35 radiation treatments his saliva glands were almost finished and left him with the need to often clear his throat. During this period our love for each other increased to max. Now his throat clearing just reminds me of how much I love him. People just see us now as that cute old couple as we both cater to each other. Love you both and wishing the two of you a very long and happy life together. c
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful, thank you for sharing ❤️
@mcmanpa5 жыл бұрын
Guys! you're property developers, swap your single basin vanity for a twin basin unit (or redesign your bathroom so a twin will fit, if necessary). Problem solved!
@frostiesarah23155 жыл бұрын
Love when PJ shocks Thomas and he screams “PJ MCKAY!!!!!!” How many times a day do you say this Thomas?
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Sarah Frost 😂😂
@heleodorosuarez15214 жыл бұрын
That's being smart taking it one step at a time😀😊
@emmafrost165 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday thomas! ❤️
@MichaelToa5 жыл бұрын
Another great Q&A! I’m intrigued what did PJ say about his guilty pleasure 😝 that’s not safe for KZbin hah. Happy birthday Thomas! Have a fab day x
@krrobinson12605 жыл бұрын
Nice vlog guys. I am new to your channel and I enjoy it a lot. Especially your personalities are so sweet together and both of you are so articulate. Your friend in New Mexico, Kim.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Kim Richard Robinson aw thank you Kim!!!
@krrobinson12605 жыл бұрын
@@ThePropertyLovers Your welcome guys. Thanks for answering. I can't wait until your next vlog vlog. Your friend in New Mexico, Kim.
@sofyankhaled37605 жыл бұрын
Love you guys
@Geneattenborough4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!! I saw him not Rinse his mouth after brushing his teeth and didn’t let the water run either ....I was like BLECH 🤮 I wanted to throw up!!! My partner was like that but I schooled him🤣😂🤣
@surajkent73935 жыл бұрын
Just look cute like always 😍😄
@Saturdayz_In_The_Fall5 жыл бұрын
I think I have an idea of what PJ said that wasn’t appropriate for KZbin just based on him sticking his tongue out 😂😂😂🙌🏽🙌🏽
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Dante E 😂😂😂
@kareemselu60795 жыл бұрын
I luv you two much gratitude
@kellybaxter25583 жыл бұрын
Ah bless Thomas. He seems so affectionate and loving whereas PJ isn't. I guess it mustn't bother Thomas at this time.
@tplmic58665 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so transparent and sharing your lives. I love the love you have for each other
@darriontunstall37085 жыл бұрын
Great video guys!!! I loved it!!! I’m glad you had a great birthday 🍰 Thomas!! I’m sorry you did not get a cake 🍰!!! I love sweets!! I love y’all much one of my favorite youtuber’s of all times!!! I can’t wait for y’all next video or Live stream!
@viewer7703 жыл бұрын
Did you ever publish a video about your relationship with your fathers?
@kristinradams71095 жыл бұрын
Thomas, how do you really feel about PJ's mustache? I'm curious. Cheers, guys!
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Kristin R Adams I love it! -T
@kristinradams71095 жыл бұрын
@@ThePropertyLovers That's great! lol. I think it looks great too :)
@ForeverLacquered5 жыл бұрын
Ghirardelli makes triple chocolate brownies too 😉
@romanmuhhamedov26205 жыл бұрын
I can give you a Tipp (heard from the singers) how to safely clear slime in the throat and avoiding it to do it over and over again during the day. Resist pushing it with force and resist. Because doing so there exist biological reflex: danger/something wrong and body starts to produce more slime. That’s why you can’t stop this compulsion. You have to drink something warm: tea with ginger or milk with honey, and when it melds down just swallow but important to resist clearing it with force and pushing upstairs. Good luck :)
@JusBecuzzz5 жыл бұрын
Same here PJ!! But I have no guilt about it 😋
@bryanmcnulty8995 жыл бұрын
I loved this video and even though I found your channel about 4 to 5 weeks ago, I feel like the both of you has become a Godsend to me. To me (and people do have the right to disagree on the statement or opinion I am about to express to you, of our community, and to the whole world) the most striking statement made on this video to me was when Thomas said he in fear about losing his Mother. I will be celebrating my 58th birthday on 05-17-2019. For me, the hardest aspect in living these past almost 58 years is losing my family, aunts, uncles, cousins, brother, my beloved father and friends that I have lost over the last 50 years.When I was a teenager in the 1970's, I do remember my father's mother (My Grandmother and she was born in November 1901 and who died in February 1991) as the older generation and her then like a flash they were gone. Both my Father and Mother came from having many brothers and sisters on both sides of my family and I do have many cousins to whom I love each and every one of them , but then over the last 20 years, both my father and mother's generation has almost died out. My mother turned 88 on March 20 2019, and my sister turned 67 on 03-28-2019, and as mentioned I will be 58 this year and all of a sudden, both my sister, all of my cousins and I have now become the older generation of my family and it seems like it has happened in a flash of time. I hope that you and PJ do not take this the wrong way for I am one complete generation ahead of you both and my advice to you both and to anybody else who is reading this comment is cherish every single person to whom you love for they can be here today and gone tomorrow. Believe me, I have leaned that lesson the hard way. Again for me, the hardest, aspect of living to almost 58 years on this earth is the people you love who have died and go to heaven before you. The worst day of my life was when I lost my father in March 2012..I do want to mention that this is only my opinion and I do apologize to any body that I have offended by my comments or opinions. Your Friend, Bryan.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Bryan we're sending so much love to you today. Thank you for sharing, friend. xx
@jeremyud5 жыл бұрын
I realized who Thomas reminds me of- the super-cute actor Nicholas D'Agosto.
@Bouboule415 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always interesting, for my part at least. I have this video idea for you, in the futur maybe, an accumulation of your bloopers. I think that would be fun. It’s only an idea, you decide. Bye my friends “aurevoir mes amis” 😘😘
@romejordan79115 жыл бұрын
Love them❤❤
@TnTruckDriver5 жыл бұрын
Hello from NW TN, Martin, TN, home of the University of TN @ Martin, and Happy Birthday Thomas!! Just wondering if you have ever heard of Discovery Park of America in Union City, TN. It would be a great place to get away to.
@donshetterly5 жыл бұрын
They are just things. I have no desire to take away anything my husband has. His stuff is his and I'm married because I love him, not because of property or assets. Just doesn't matter to me. All your suggestions on marriage - we totally threw them out the window and we've been together almost 20 years. LOL.
@jeromejackson10295 жыл бұрын
If I didn’t have kids I would adopt you two! Love the stache!
@fredricweber20475 жыл бұрын
Will be out to dinner, so if I can't participate in the Q and A, I am sure, like my husband and I, love and respect transends. Annoying each other is more natural and honest. Making up after a fight can be more passionate.
@dorothy13295 жыл бұрын
the funny thing is that i agree with what you both said about not rushing into marriage or living together etc and have told my kids the same, but, here's the funny thing; with my first proper relationship, which was the one that produced my now 26 year old son, "R" and I moved in together after only 4-6 months of dating and we were together for 7 years (6 before our son was born), with my second proper and current relationship, "D" moved in with me after only 2 months of dating and we've been together so far for 17 years ! which is where the second child now 20 came from (for anyone noticing that the maths don't quite add up, my step daughter was 3 when her and her Dad moved in with me and my son). i think that it's different for everyone, for some people moving in together fairly soon works and for others waiting a few years works, i think that as long as both/all people concerned agree and no-one is 'guilted' or 'pressured' into moving in with their bf/gf then it's all good. great video guys !
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Yes Julie! Love that different perspective! It's not always so black and white and we appreciate you sharing that!! Thanks, friend :) xx
@edwinmadrigal76525 жыл бұрын
right now i’m a cliche depressed gay boy in hs sad bc i feel like im never gonna find love. these videos give me so much hope for my future and hopefully that one day i will find love like the two of you. thank you for sharing so much of your life it helps people including me more than you think
@tinakoko96614 жыл бұрын
Love both guys handsome 🏠🇨🇦🌹❤️🌈👍
@summertimewest1845 жыл бұрын
Hi guys.. I had the same problem as thomas, constantly clearing my throat. My family ran out of patience with it. Through alot of research I discovered that milk products really contributed to the problem. I use a non dairy Creamer in my coffee now and try to avoid any liquid dairy products, it's cut down on the throat clearing probably 90%.
@theguntersadopt32685 жыл бұрын
I died at the guilty pleasure part. We are a PG channel so idk what i would say xD
@garyg60005 жыл бұрын
Beautiful stair rail and decorating !
@hongerdude5 жыл бұрын
PJ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@jacquelyntrissel77285 жыл бұрын
I hope Thomas is having a great birthday weekend! Does Thomas have asthma? I have a friend who clears his throat all the time and he said it's because of his asthma. It was a second marriage for both my husband and I. I was 24 and he was 32. I think maybe we both knew what we wanted and what we didn't want because of our first marriages. We met in June and got married that October! We sure broke all the rules of common sense. For us it all worked out since we will be celebrating our 50th anniversary in 2020.
@CassDunham5 жыл бұрын
Anyone else pretty sure they know what came out of PJ's mouth first for guilty pleasure? lol 😜
@highland_persuasion5 жыл бұрын
It's most probably about self-love.
@CassDunham5 жыл бұрын
@@highland_persuasion maybe, but that's not what I was thinking!
@Saturdayz_In_The_Fall5 жыл бұрын
I think it has something to do with Thomas 😋😅
@highland_persuasion5 жыл бұрын
@@CassDunham because if it's something sexual that they both participate in, then it wouldn't be a guilty pleasure. If it was something they did individually, then there would be something to be guilty about.
@CassDunham5 жыл бұрын
@@Saturdayz_In_The_Fall I think you and I are thinking the same thing.
@christopherpratola33235 жыл бұрын
Don’t be so afraid to say things that might be rated R
@mlo37845 жыл бұрын
What does PJ stand for? Can't google it ;)
@HRHBen176 Жыл бұрын
thomas you signed a pre-nup!?!?!
@pierrebeukes63155 жыл бұрын
Shame Thomas, I also clear my throat often due to a post nasal drip. I suspect that you have the same condition. I've heard you mentioned that you have allergies. Have you ever have yours tested to see what you are allergic to and what exactly triggers it? For some allergies there will be treaments or dietary messures to take.
@billstrong48145 жыл бұрын
Thomas - try a daily Mucinex or its generic, Guafenesin. I used to clear my throat hundreds of times a day - now much less.
@LucasRocha-re3tg5 жыл бұрын
what is tick? somebody help me
@JWebb-jp2vh5 жыл бұрын
A prenup is 1000% acceptable in a "new marriage"! Unless there are multi-millions on one side...then it will all become one pot anyway at some point....just like what happened in this sitch. You guys have a good thing going on....keep it up! Been with my other half for 24 years...it works when you make it work ;)
@belizeguy5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Men! Later
@julianb63414 жыл бұрын
Thomas probably eats a lot of dairy if he is constantly having to clear his throat. Dairy is soooo yummy though!
@HRHBen176 Жыл бұрын
lmao separately either
@robertsamuel-wd9tj Жыл бұрын
Prenup
@tomj47315 жыл бұрын
There was no throat clearing in the video.
@snsl285005 жыл бұрын
You both have the same surname. Who took the others name?
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Thomas took PJ’s name 😊
@beijinggaymassagespa70285 жыл бұрын
good
@QuangNguyen-ng5zh11 ай бұрын
Curious to see what your fathers look like to see what physical features were passed down to you
@jaefellows50243 жыл бұрын
You know PJ walks around in just shorts he has an absolutely beautiful body just the way it is thin and tight don't fret about it. Thomas you need to show more you too have a beautiful body and such beautiful hairy legs, let's see more of those :) Just stop being sensitive about your guys body issues you both are SO damn hot!
@user-vl7bo2gu1y5 жыл бұрын
If my boyfriend wanted a prenup I would not want to marry him. Like hello, where’s the trust? I don’t need your money or your properties even if we would decide to end the marriage. It would hurt my feelings because I would feel like he doesn’t trust me and thinks that I’m a money hungry whore.
@kingjames80s5 жыл бұрын
To prepare for marriage you must purify yourself in the waters of Lake Minnetonka
@charlesentommen97135 жыл бұрын
I wish you guys were a little more unfiltered. It seemed like you were anxious about how other people (the audience) would react if they "found out" anything. KZbin should be a safe place where the community supports each other no matter what you say/feel; and where you shouldn't have to overthink whether others would approve of your content or not. It's about having fun and truly being yourselves all throughout the journey.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Charles Entommen are you referring to the guilty pleasure part? Do you feel we’re not being ourselves here?
@charlesentommen97135 жыл бұрын
You just seem hesitant a bit: the part where you said you weren't happy about the video you made talking about your parents, and that you need to redo it. To me, it just felt like you're a bit reserved. But, hey, just an opinion. Don't be afraid to use your freedom of speech.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Ohh! We see what you mean. That had nothing to do with what how we thought our audience would react or us being scared if anyone "found out" anything. That was about making sure we did it justice for our fathers. We aren't on KZbin for approval, trust us. If we did that, no one would win! xx@@charlesentommen9713
@danielmcintyre5 жыл бұрын
I will unsub if PJ shaves the moustache (jk)
@bijuvayalassery5 жыл бұрын
I love two guys. I want partner. I am gey. I am Indian .from kerala
@benedictmiller8475 жыл бұрын
No 3way. That must have pissed Kyle off.
@ThePropertyLovers5 жыл бұрын
Benedict Miller Kyle who?
@benedictmiller8475 жыл бұрын
How many Kyle's do you know? @@ThePropertyLovers
@nickcharles64095 жыл бұрын
Hate the mustache! Sorry...
@thehollywoodkid11845 жыл бұрын
Keep your hate to yourself. Bye!
@astrostudent23025 жыл бұрын
Maybe Thomas has some nasal bone obstructing breath..You can show it to a doc..