How We Maintain a Healthy Sex Life | Q&A | PJ AND THOMAS

[@BigTinyLife]

Seeing you both have this raw, natural beautiful discussion is fantastic. Not trying to prove anything, be anything, hide anything, or embellish anything. Such a wonderful testament to how you both have grown together and get stronger and more connected by the day. Congrats to you both and always enjoy seeing what's coming next. Much, much love!! ❤

[@dugald56]

You both get more handsome as you get older, and wiser. Being dads obviously agrees with you both. I love your vlogs.

[@matthewward249]

It always amazes me how some people assume that people who seem to have a comfortable life somehow magically or through an inheritance arrived there. I for one have worked extremely hard to get to where I am financially. It certainly wasn’t easy. The world is abundant and you can enjoy the fruits of your labor. I have rewarded myself with nice cars, houses and fabulous trips. I can see from watching your videos over the years how truly hard you both work and then throw in raising three children each a year apart, that is something profound. I say enjoy all the abundance the world has to offer, you’ve earned it! 😊

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you for this ❤❤

[@marcathens2951]

You guys are so kind and generous with opening up to those of us who let u into our homes and lives. I've followed u guys off / on for a few years and it's been great watching your lives evolve b4 our eyes. Both handsome and the kids are lucky to have you both ! Peace and love from Michigan 💕🙏

[@ThePropertyLovers]

you just made our day. thank you for being here. xoxo

[@AfraidMonsters]

Omg!!! Your kids are so cute. 😭😭theyre too precious for this world. Your daughter is so innocent and adorable. Protect her at all costs!

[@fredweber9466]

I loved this vlog, We’ve been crazy busy. Everything you addressed was everything I would have asked, just because I’m damn nosy! You’ve achieved amazing things, being so realistic about your lives and aspirations. I really think your relationship has lasted because you have done all the things to keep your relationship healthy sexually & nurturing and yet very realistic. I’ve seen how easily you relate to your wonderful family and your friends. Always know this: You’re just great humans!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

you are the absolute sweetest, thank you so much!!!

[@prl08]

As an asexual, I had my fingers all ready to say that sex isn’t important in every relationship, so I’m thankful PJ mentioned it. I will concede Thomas was right that sexual compatibility is important 😂😂

[@stumack9755]

I have been n a wonderful 23yr same sex relationship. Sex is important to my partner. So he is free to hookup & take care of his needs. I like porn. We are not compatible sex wise.

[@prl08]

@@stumack9755 I always try to remind myself that different things work for different people! There is no one size fits all

[@PM-od9qm]

I feel like yes being able to have sex , expressing your desire and love ( emotionally and physically both ) is very important, especially at the start of the relationship but so is the emotional connection. i dont think it should be a very like crucial Crucial factor that decides the quality of the relationship tho Sure it feels Really GREAT to have it but IMO a relationship shouldnt be totally dependant on sex otherwise thats just not gonna be stable at all , its like how do i say , theyre seasonings that spice up a relationship but doesnt mean the food has to rot without it cus lets be real , theres gonna be hiccups and rough patches and yall cant always be desperate for eachother.

[@a.j.stauft1779]

Love the session and the honesty...so many people put on a perfect act...it's refreshing to hear how you guys are just 2 men ..in love..living life..and doing the best you can. Just so you know that's special..and inspiring 👍💯❣️💋

[@jameymentzer1312]

“Just rich” - Thomas’ face - priceless! ❤️❤️❤️

[@BollywoodMediaOnline]

20:23 is the question you might be waiting for 😉

[@JimH13164]

PJ, I’m in the same boat about long flights. The answer is simple. ie) fly to LA or San Francisco. Spend two or three days visiting or do the touristy things. Fly to Hawaii for the same time, or cruise out to Hawaii. Fly from Hawaii to the Philippines for two -three days. Then fly to New Zealand for a week. On the way back, fly to Tokyo for three days, then to Alaska, then to Seattle, then back home. I know. That is the extreme amount of lay overs. You can eliminate any or even add more. To NZ, will be 6-9 days and back 5-7 days. Total trip about three weeks. You get to see so much! Something to think about.

[@johniii8147]

I wouldn't drag it that long with that many stop overs. Just adds to the expense. But good advice given their location stop over in LA or SFO leave a long layover to get off the plane, go shower at the lounge, etc. Never do such a long journey in economy. That would be pure hell. Business class makes its tolerable and well worth the money. LA to NZ is just over a 10 hour flight so manageable in business class.

[@dougslaback3459]

You are an amazing couple and parents. Those children are fortunate to have you in their lives

[@lawrenceharris7369]

Continue to keep it real, and a happy family relationship guys.

[@wmichaelh29]

Glad I saw your notification. So many delightful memories of what you've shared with us. Sex life? What the hell is that. For thrills I sometimes use my left hand so it feels like somebody else is doing it.

[@markfox5349]

i'll help you out

[@donnataylor980]

So good to see y'all. Y'all get better-looking everyday❤😊❤

[@shaunstapleton3197]

I love Switzerland. The towns are so cool, we stayed in a converted Swiss army barracks in Kandersteg, Switzerland. It was right on the mountain. I went there when I was around 13 or 14 when I lived in Germany because my dad was in the military.

[@prien8518]

Love you both. I’m currently living in Malaysia limiting me having a relationship and family like yours. Hope I’ll make it come true in future. ❤️

[@OLDS98]

Hello guys. Thank you for the Q and A session. I have been subscribed for a long time. Thank you for catching me up on your lives. I missed out on a lot due to health concerns. I have been watching and not saying anything. I am glad to see you two are okay and your family has expanded and doing well also. Good for you both. Thank you for being open and sharing.

[@kennethdodemaide8678]

When flying to Australia or New Zealand you can break the flight with a short stop in Hawaii. You can cut the flight time from14 hours to 2 shorter flights and reduce the chance of jet lag as well. That's what I do when flying from Australia to the US and back.

[@calvindavis3641]

I watched Red White and Royal Blue this morning myself. Excellent movie. Lots of fun.

[@rjcarter2904]

We definitely agree on the LGBTQ+ series and movie. Love Heartstopper and Red, White, and Royal Blue. Both adorable.

[@ZLProductions]

Young Royals too

[@rjcarter2904]

@@ZLProductions Yes.

[@ianholets5018]

1989 (Taylor’s Version)!! 💙 You guys continue to inspire me and I always look forward to new content!

[@bradleyhays4218]

You guys are amazing! So glad I discovered your pages!

[@davemattia]

Start by NOT cheating on each other or making the move to bringing in a third person.

[@MarkieAlonzo]

Diane Keaton!!! That's strangely accurate. I won't unsee that now. Love Y'all and what you share with us!

[@mimicolapietro2086]

Love your Q&A’s!! You 2 are just so genuine and beautiful men inside and out !!

[@nikkilogan7726]

Love this Q&A vlog of you guys! Thanks for your honesty! Love you guys PJ & Thomas! 😎🥰💖

[@toner37]

Red White and Royal Blue(2 hr movie) was SO good and well done in the writing. I ended up going out and buying the book. So many great one liners that just pulled at the heartstrings. Some laughs and some happy tears too!

[@jimmymclean9373]

The book was better, I felt

[@ThePropertyLovers]

I ordered the book, too!!

[@missymariebee]

You will love the book it is so good!

[@toner37]

@missymariebee Having seen the movie(3 times already), I know when things start to get really interesting, just reading each page.

[@amyseaden9069]

@@jimmymclean9373agree the book was better

[@Gor800]

You two are amazing! Have watched your post for years and LOVE them!

[@theo.barcelona]

love the 'appropriate' background music when PJ is thinking about Thomas's boring thing.... LOL

[@sarojdas8883]

Hello

[@bobseeger342]

Thanks PJ and Thomas its always interesting to get more to know you guys ❤🤠

[@chrisss838]

The Red, White and Royal Blue book is so much better and I suggest you read it!!

[@evelynerasseneur2543]

Toujours un plaisir de vous voir ..vous êtes honnêtes. Épanouis et Sereins....rien est acquis avec des enfants...la seule règle vous l'avez déjà c'est .....l'amour 😅.. bonjour de France 🇨🇵❤️

[@corentinchristian]

Love love this format friends 🤍

[@harriedog]

Like you PJ. I love flying but hate long flights 10hrs is my limit. One way I get to and from the US west coast is fly with Hawaiian Airlines. 4-6 hrs west coast depending where you start from. Then 8hrs to NZ or 10 to Sydney Aust. I usually overnight in HNL. As connections sometimes get tight with delay from originating port. And once you get to New Zealand it is only 2.5hrs to Australia, the land of snakes, sharks, spiders and don’t forget the killer kangaroos 😂😂. But that is one way of doing it without that 14hr flight. Cheers for down under. Really enjoy your Chanel. Been following you since long before the kids came along. Around 2017. Think you are a really great couple.

[@KOI-nz3vn]

You guys are truly THE BEST and that’s a fact. Bless you 🥰🤗👍

[@DudleyMahon]

You two have a beautiful family.

[@redlangdeau5728]

Enjoyed the Q & A. My husband and I also watched red,white and royal blue, I liked it more than I thought I would, the Henry character reminded me of the Caulkin brothers, it was a cute show, and worth the view.....until next time Caio

[@saeefa]

There's a Japanese animated film called Dokyusei, probably by far the best piece of lgbtq content I've ever watched

[@pjaybasmaignee]

Yay can’t wait for another PJ and Thomas installment.

[@BollywoodMediaOnline]

I cannot believe PJ is 37, he looks 27, please share your age-defying secrets and beauty HACKS lol .....

[@stumack9755]

genes.

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@stumack9755 . . . . and . . . BOTOX

[@jimmymclean9373]

Always love following your lives, from the “old gay couple” lol

[@kevinsaroz]

Oh my gosh, I love you guys!!!

[@Js2Jo]

PJ and Thomas, I love your Q&A on this video, I can't believe you're both maintaining a healthy sex life at your house in Tennessee, thanks to your kids!! #husbands #gaycouple

[@jamiescott5461]

Been following a long time. The love you have for your family and close friends is so inspiring ❤️❤️

[@immanuelingari4336]

Did he just say Africa!!🎉Welcome to the Maasai Mara-Kenya.Its magical ❤

[@heavenlyvilla8681]

Anna Paquin grew up in NZ. Lots of fun things to do in NZ esp with kids. Hope you make it down here one day.

[@Saidnoone]

The patients on Thomas face is real

[@mikekelly1151]

I have gone to New Zealand twice. What I do PJ is I fly from Chicago to Hawaii and start for 3 days then I fly on to Auckland New Zealand. Then on the way back home I do the reverse. I fly from Auckland to Hawaii and then stay for 3 days and then flight back to Chicago. So for me it is 8 hours to Hawaii and 9 hours to New Zealand from Hawaii.

[@briano672]

PJ is so kind!!

[@yes3373]

I've been waiting for this kind of content from you guys ❤

[@chriscoleman6956]

You are so fun to watch you make my day

[@charlescoffey695]

A super video as usual!

[@Baraaaaaa23]

I love you and wish you a long, happy life full of love💚💚

[@raptizstephen]

13:02 that's my question 😎👌🗿

[@liljimbob11]

PJ: Sex life is important to me… Thomas: Nods

[@williamlarson275]

U guys r amazing!

[@jr370113]

The most boring fact about Thomas is that he’s a swiftie.

[@RAVEENNAShreedevi]

@jr I think you don't deserve to be a swiftie

[@jr370113]

@@RAVEENNAShreedeviI’m not a swiftie.

[@Chuathanhsaodalaplanh]

Excuse me. What kind of Swiftie broke your little heart 😂😂😂😂

[@johniii8147]

LOL..yeah i find that boring. I expect TJ is just like whatever on the topic.

[@Wamiltom]

Please come to Ireland 🇮🇪🍀 I would love meeting you guys ❤

[@danielwilda8167]

You Men are Excellent role models for our society love your normal persona 👍🏳️‍🌈🇺🇸💜⭐️💪🌈🐻🧸💙

[@alanaban1840]

Two men are not sexuality compatibility / only man and woman are/

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@alanaban1840 lol . . . oh . . so . . .naive. You've got a lot to learn

[@alanaban1840]

@@TomLloyd-18 I think you also have a lot to learn/ the woman was design for the man / not the man for the man - that is a perversion of nature law- the two sex organs do not fit- it is penis and vergina not penis and ass hole - this is - that type of relationship is unnatural and dead end/ love that is mis directed and against the procreative order of natural order/ like charges repel each other/ marriage is husband and wife not husband and husband that is the correct way / do not pervert things

[@alanaban1840]

@@TomLloyd-18 so too you/ Do not pervert mature/ sex is betweem penis and vergina not penis an ass hole/you asss hole is an exit for shit not an entrance for the penis/ homosexual love is love that is mis directed just as homosexual sex/ put things in places they were design for do not force entry into things/marrage is husband and wife NOT husband and husband/ we all cane as a result of hetro sex which is normal

[@alanaban1840]

@@TomLloyd-18 I agree we all have many more to learn/ let me repeate - sex is between vergina and penis / woman sex organ and an man sex organ/ you ass hole is not a sex organ it is part of the digestrive system / it was not desighn for sex / do not force entry into an exit for shit it is wrong That s what you should learn

[@bobebbeskotte]

So forgetful. I got to see the last three minutes. Hey, have you guys or anyone seen Red, White and Royal Blue? I've only seen clips (no streaming) but it looks great!

[@shawntaljaardviljoen3950]

When the ADHD Kicks in ... "Most boring fact about Thomas"

[@LMays-cu2hp]

Thank you guys for sharing.

[@anthonyvisor8880]

Great video!!!!

[@sundanceks5074]

When I flew to Hawaii from NM I took a sleeping pill and then got there.

[@prl08]

I’m always telling Siri to remind me of something too!

[@noelle2see]

PJ is 37? Wow you gorgeous man, who knew?

[@Gary_Texan_USA]

You two are a delightful and interesting couple. I love your videos and your family are awesome. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@andrewkeegan3008]

I wish someone had asked about PJ's modeling days. As in how did he get into it. From a very small town and he doesn't seek the limelight so how did that all happen?

[@TomLloyd-18]

gr8 question. hopefully in a future Q & A

[@Nurse8812]

The most boring fact about Thomas had me rollin!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 then the Thomas’s phone reminders sounds just like my hubby!

[@innocentelf2908]

Red, white and royal blue suppermacy

[@EnriquePascual1989]

ANOTHER Q&A!

[@jadrankarodic9876]

❤❤❤❤❤❤My beautiful family. Thanks a lotfor thisamazing video.

[@brettedgar6733]

Y'ALL LOOK LIKE BROTHERS.

[@alanday5255]

I think the phrase "Sexually Compatible" is an awful word for Gay relationships. What I think is more important is sexual flexibility as opposed to being a Top or Bottom.

[@rosa1058]

The first 5 years of our relationship was very hot, but after 10 years we are so mad involved, then our tools becomes a little over work. So sex is not really really that important. It's like only 50 % when we have an urge.😅

[@aaronbynum8968]

Pj looks like Ken Doll they could have cast him in the Barbie Movie and he would have fit right in Thomas just has safe organic beauty like Joanna Gaines

[@reblxlb]

IMA single dad raising a 14-year-old. I envy you guys

[@kennethrush9363]

Hi guys with all very bad weather we here about on the media here in the U K I hope you ok Can’t wait to see the holiday home all finished with P J fabulous ideas and designs LV TO YOU ALL xxx

[@cam6232]

20:23 for answer 😄

[@deejay5457]

Thanks for sharing and bless you for adopting your kids. You all make a beautiful family

[@ashboss727]

Why are rich people scared of saying YES WE ARE RICH

[@Not-Ap]

Cause it makes them look like hypocrites and forces them to admit to themselves it was more than just hard work that got them to where they are now.

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@Not-Ap it's a subjective situation. 'Rich' to one person may equal 'comfortable' to another. I'm relatively new here - and have recently binged 8 yrs worth of their videos and have come to realize they have worked their asses off to be where they are now. I consider them to be 'comfortable'. Not lacking for anything . . . but, not necessarily 'rolling in the dough' either.

[@susanmark2000]

Fun! Thanks.

[@aznguymetal]

You guys still look the same. 😂❤

[@frankgyure3154]

I have seen A lot of videos but this question has not been put out there or Been answered.

[@brettedgar6733]

GREAT LIFE, GOOD STOCK, GOOD BRAINS.❤

[@vinayakvarma868]

Sleeps 9-11 hours (almost half your life) wow😄

[@AfraidMonsters]

YALL ARE 30s?!?!?!?! BRUHHHH. You guys look like mid 20s or late 20s max. wow. damn!

[@timsimmons4615]

Thomas looks better with his hair cut shorter.

[@robertsimons806]

Hi i seeing in one of your vlog your son got sick how is your son now all better i hope by robert

[@adriandidi5109]

The question about your motivation to work hard is SOOOO american. You guys live to work. I‘d be so unhappy when this would be my reality. Hope this is really what you want and not what you think others want you to think you really want

[@ejohnson3131]

You too look like brothers! TF why is this in my feed?

[@zelmatatiana8752]

My two favorite things on television right now: heartstopper and RWRB super fan

[@juztina7346]

Pj maintain so well… thomas change alot though..

[@johniii8147]

Just fly business class to NZ. It makes it tolerable. Also stop over on the west coast to break it up.

[@АлександрДемидов-э3г]

🤗🥰😘

[@skammer2007]

9-11 hours of sleep?????????????????????????????????????? way too much....on my farm, I may get 6....both of you guys are handsome

[@Kopyrek]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rrubio6660]

TMI...

[@ratbastard6293]

It’s a personal channel about their relationship... the topic was in the title so why did you click on it?

[@rrubio6660]

@@ratbastard6293 My point exactly! So, why did YOU click on it???!!! I clicked on it to tell them it's TMI! The whole world need not know it. Everyone feels the need to monitize EVERYTHING.

[@cooneybrendon]

wait there is a clip of pig segs 😮