How We Maintain a Healthy Sex Life | Q&A | PJ AND THOMAS

[@dugald56]

You both get more handsome as you get older, and wiser. Being dads obviously agrees with you both. I love your vlogs.

[@BigTinyLife]

Seeing you both have this raw, natural beautiful discussion is fantastic. Not trying to prove anything, be anything, hide anything, or embellish anything. Such a wonderful testament to how you both have grown together and get stronger and more connected by the day. Congrats to you both and always enjoy seeing what's coming next. Much, much love!! ❤

[@BollywoodMediaOnline]

20:23 is the question you might be waiting for 😉

[@fredweber9466]

I loved this vlog, We’ve been crazy busy. Everything you addressed was everything I would have asked, just because I’m damn nosy! You’ve achieved amazing things, being so realistic about your lives and aspirations. I really think your relationship has lasted because you have done all the things to keep your relationship healthy sexually & nurturing and yet very realistic. I’ve seen how easily you relate to your wonderful family and your friends. Always know this: You’re just great humans!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

you are the absolute sweetest, thank you so much!!!

[@marcathens2951]

You guys are so kind and generous with opening up to those of us who let u into our homes and lives. I've followed u guys off / on for a few years and it's been great watching your lives evolve b4 our eyes. Both handsome and the kids are lucky to have you both ! Peace and love from Michigan 💕🙏

[@ThePropertyLovers]

you just made our day. thank you for being here. xoxo

[@a.j.stauft1779]

Love the session and the honesty...so many people put on a perfect act...it's refreshing to hear how you guys are just 2 men ..in love..living life..and doing the best you can. Just so you know that's special..and inspiring 👍💯❣️💋

[@AfraidMonsters]

Omg!!! Your kids are so cute. 😭😭theyre too precious for this world. Your daughter is so innocent and adorable. Protect her at all costs!

[@AfraidMonsters]

YALL ARE 30s?!?!?!?! BRUHHHH. You guys look like mid 20s or late 20s max. wow. damn!

[@jr370113]

The most boring fact about Thomas is that he’s a swiftie.

[@RAVEENNAShreedevi]

@jr I think you don't deserve to be a swiftie

[@jr370113]

@@RAVEENNAShreedeviI’m not a swiftie.

[@Chuathanhsaodalaplanh]

Excuse me. What kind of Swiftie broke your little heart 😂😂😂😂

[@johniii8147]

LOL..yeah i find that boring. I expect TJ is just like whatever on the topic.

[@evelynerasseneur2543]

Toujours un plaisir de vous voir ..vous êtes honnêtes. Épanouis et Sereins....rien est acquis avec des enfants...la seule règle vous l'avez déjà c'est .....l'amour 😅.. bonjour de France 🇨🇵❤️

[@ejohnson3131]

You too look like brothers! TF why is this in my feed?

[@matthewward249]

It always amazes me how some people assume that people who seem to have a comfortable life somehow magically or through an inheritance arrived there. I for one have worked extremely hard to get to where I am financially. It certainly wasn’t easy. The world is abundant and you can enjoy the fruits of your labor. I have rewarded myself with nice cars, houses and fabulous trips. I can see from watching your videos over the years how truly hard you both work and then throw in raising three children each a year apart, that is something profound. I say enjoy all the abundance the world has to offer, you’ve earned it! 😊

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you for this ❤❤

[@prien8518]

Love you both. I’m currently living in Malaysia limiting me having a relationship and family like yours. Hope I’ll make it come true in future. ❤️

[@prl08]

As an asexual, I had my fingers all ready to say that sex isn’t important in every relationship, so I’m thankful PJ mentioned it. I will concede Thomas was right that sexual compatibility is important 😂😂

[@stumack9755]

I have been n a wonderful 23yr same sex relationship. Sex is important to my partner. So he is free to hookup & take care of his needs. I like porn. We are not compatible sex wise.

[@prl08]

@@stumack9755 I always try to remind myself that different things work for different people! There is no one size fits all

[@PM-od9qm]

I feel like yes being able to have sex , expressing your desire and love ( emotionally and physically both ) is very important, especially at the start of the relationship but so is the emotional connection. i dont think it should be a very like crucial Crucial factor that decides the quality of the relationship tho Sure it feels Really GREAT to have it but IMO a relationship shouldnt be totally dependant on sex otherwise thats just not gonna be stable at all , its like how do i say , theyre seasonings that spice up a relationship but doesnt mean the food has to rot without it cus lets be real , theres gonna be hiccups and rough patches and yall cant always be desperate for eachother.

[@stumack9755]

Ever hear of "edit". U almost lost me thinking bout y Mark is borrrring. Lost me @ Dixie call. Bye.

[@danielwilda8167]

You Men are Excellent role models for our society love your normal persona 👍🏳️‍🌈🇺🇸💜⭐️💪🌈🐻🧸💙

[@alanaban1840]

Two men are not sexuality compatibility / only man and woman are/

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@alanaban1840 lol . . . oh . . so . . .naive. You've got a lot to learn

[@alanaban1840]

@@TomLloyd-18 I think you also have a lot to learn/ the woman was design for the man / not the man for the man - that is a perversion of nature law- the two sex organs do not fit- it is penis and vergina not penis and ass hole - this is - that type of relationship is unnatural and dead end/ love that is mis directed and against the procreative order of natural order/ like charges repel each other/ marriage is husband and wife not husband and husband that is the correct way / do not pervert things

[@alanaban1840]

@@TomLloyd-18 so too you/ Do not pervert mature/ sex is betweem penis and vergina not penis an ass hole/you asss hole is an exit for shit not an entrance for the penis/ homosexual love is love that is mis directed just as homosexual sex/ put things in places they were design for do not force entry into things/marrage is husband and wife NOT husband and husband/ we all cane as a result of hetro sex which is normal

[@theo.barcelona]

love the 'appropriate' background music when PJ is thinking about Thomas's boring thing.... LOL

[@sarojdas8883]

Hello

[@shawntaljaardviljoen3950]

When the ADHD Kicks in ... "Most boring fact about Thomas"

[@bradleyhays4218]

You guys are amazing! So glad I discovered your pages!

[@alanday5255]

I think the phrase "Sexually Compatible" is an awful word for Gay relationships. What I think is more important is sexual flexibility as opposed to being a Top or Bottom.

[@OLDS98]

Hello guys. Thank you for the Q and A session. I have been subscribed for a long time. Thank you for catching me up on your lives. I missed out on a lot due to health concerns. I have been watching and not saying anything. I am glad to see you two are okay and your family has expanded and doing well also. Good for you both. Thank you for being open and sharing.

[@BollywoodMediaOnline]

I cannot believe PJ is 37, he looks 27, please share your age-defying secrets and beauty HACKS lol .....

[@stumack9755]

genes.

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@stumack9755 . . . . and . . . BOTOX

[@rosa1058]

The first 5 years of our relationship was very hot, but after 10 years we are so mad involved, then our tools becomes a little over work. So sex is not really really that important. It's like only 50 % when we have an urge.😅

[@skammer2007]

9-11 hours of sleep?????????????????????????????????????? way too much....on my farm, I may get 6....both of you guys are handsome

[@lawrenceharris7369]

Continue to keep it real, and a happy family relationship guys.

[@raptizstephen]

13:02 that's my question 😎👌🗿

[@davemattia]

Start by NOT cheating on each other or making the move to bringing in a third person.

[@DudleyMahon]

You two have a beautiful family.

[@bobebbeskotte]

So forgetful. I got to see the last three minutes. Hey, have you guys or anyone seen Red, White and Royal Blue? I've only seen clips (no streaming) but it looks great!

[@calvindavis3641]

I watched Red White and Royal Blue this morning myself. Excellent movie. Lots of fun.

[@ianholets5018]

1989 (Taylor’s Version)!! 💙 You guys continue to inspire me and I always look forward to new content!

[@shaunstapleton3197]

I love Switzerland. The towns are so cool, we stayed in a converted Swiss army barracks in Kandersteg, Switzerland. It was right on the mountain. I went there when I was around 13 or 14 when I lived in Germany because my dad was in the military.

[@mimicolapietro2086]

Love your Q&A’s!! You 2 are just so genuine and beautiful men inside and out !!

[@rjcarter2904]

We definitely agree on the LGBTQ+ series and movie. Love Heartstopper and Red, White, and Royal Blue. Both adorable.

[@ZLProductions]

Young Royals too

[@rjcarter2904]

@@ZLProductions Yes.

[@wmichaelh29]

Glad I saw your notification. So many delightful memories of what you've shared with us. Sex life? What the hell is that. For thrills I sometimes use my left hand so it feels like somebody else is doing it.

[@markfox5349]

i'll help you out

[@reblxlb]

IMA single dad raising a 14-year-old. I envy you guys

[@donnataylor980]

So good to see y'all. Y'all get better-looking everyday❤😊❤

[@nikkilogan7726]

Love this Q&A vlog of you guys! Thanks for your honesty! Love you guys PJ & Thomas! 😎🥰💖

[@KOI-nz3vn]

You guys are truly THE BEST and that’s a fact. Bless you 🥰🤗👍

[@ILOVESTEAK10]

These two seem so distant from one another. They may have peaked.

[@pjaybasmaignee]

Yay can’t wait for another PJ and Thomas installment.

[@brettedgar6733]

GREAT LIFE, GOOD STOCK, GOOD BRAINS.❤

[@noelle2see]

PJ is 37? Wow you gorgeous man, who knew?

[@liljimbob11]

PJ: Sex life is important to me… Thomas: Nods

[@JimH13164]

PJ, I’m in the same boat about long flights. The answer is simple. ie) fly to LA or San Francisco. Spend two or three days visiting or do the touristy things. Fly to Hawaii for the same time, or cruise out to Hawaii. Fly from Hawaii to the Philippines for two -three days. Then fly to New Zealand for a week. On the way back, fly to Tokyo for three days, then to Alaska, then to Seattle, then back home. I know. That is the extreme amount of lay overs. You can eliminate any or even add more. To NZ, will be 6-9 days and back 5-7 days. Total trip about three weeks. You get to see so much! Something to think about.

[@johniii8147]

I wouldn't drag it that long with that many stop overs. Just adds to the expense. But good advice given their location stop over in LA or SFO leave a long layover to get off the plane, go shower at the lounge, etc. Never do such a long journey in economy. That would be pure hell. Business class makes its tolerable and well worth the money. LA to NZ is just over a 10 hour flight so manageable in business class.

[@jameymentzer1312]

“Just rich” - Thomas’ face - priceless! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Js2Jo]

PJ and Thomas, I love your Q&A on this video, I can't believe you're both maintaining a healthy sex life at your house in Tennessee, thanks to your kids!! #husbands #gaycouple

[@harriedog]

Like you PJ. I love flying but hate long flights 10hrs is my limit. One way I get to and from the US west coast is fly with Hawaiian Airlines. 4-6 hrs west coast depending where you start from. Then 8hrs to NZ or 10 to Sydney Aust. I usually overnight in HNL. As connections sometimes get tight with delay from originating port. And once you get to New Zealand it is only 2.5hrs to Australia, the land of snakes, sharks, spiders and don’t forget the killer kangaroos 😂😂. But that is one way of doing it without that 14hr flight. Cheers for down under. Really enjoy your Chanel. Been following you since long before the kids came along. Around 2017. Think you are a really great couple.

[@saeefa]

There's a Japanese animated film called Dokyusei, probably by far the best piece of lgbtq content I've ever watched

[@andrewkeegan3008]

I wish someone had asked about PJ's modeling days. As in how did he get into it. From a very small town and he doesn't seek the limelight so how did that all happen?

[@TomLloyd-18]

gr8 question. hopefully in a future Q & A

[@toner37]

Red White and Royal Blue(2 hr movie) was SO good and well done in the writing. I ended up going out and buying the book. So many great one liners that just pulled at the heartstrings. Some laughs and some happy tears too!

[@jimmymclean9373]

The book was better, I felt

[@ThePropertyLovers]

I ordered the book, too!!

[@missymariebee]

You will love the book it is so good!

[@toner37]

@missymariebee Having seen the movie(3 times already), I know when things start to get really interesting, just reading each page.

[@amyseaden9069]

@@jimmymclean9373agree the book was better

[@adriandidi5109]

The question about your motivation to work hard is SOOOO american. You guys live to work. I‘d be so unhappy when this would be my reality. Hope this is really what you want and not what you think others want you to think you really want

[@brettedgar6733]

Y'ALL LOOK LIKE BROTHERS.

[@aaronbynum8968]

Pj looks like Ken Doll they could have cast him in the Barbie Movie and he would have fit right in Thomas just has safe organic beauty like Joanna Gaines

[@Ulrich-te5qh]

How creepy sick is this?

[@mikekelly1151]

I have gone to New Zealand twice. What I do PJ is I fly from Chicago to Hawaii and start for 3 days then I fly on to Auckland New Zealand. Then on the way back home I do the reverse. I fly from Auckland to Hawaii and then stay for 3 days and then flight back to Chicago. So for me it is 8 hours to Hawaii and 9 hours to New Zealand from Hawaii.

[@dougslaback3459]

You are an amazing couple and parents. Those children are fortunate to have you in their lives

[@ashboss727]

Why are rich people scared of saying YES WE ARE RICH

[@Not-Ap]

Cause it makes them look like hypocrites and forces them to admit to themselves it was more than just hard work that got them to where they are now.

[@TomLloyd-18]

@@Not-Ap it's a subjective situation. 'Rich' to one person may equal 'comfortable' to another. I'm relatively new here - and have recently binged 8 yrs worth of their videos and have come to realize they have worked their asses off to be where they are now. I consider them to be 'comfortable'. Not lacking for anything . . . but, not necessarily 'rolling in the dough' either.

[@jadrankarodic9876]

❤❤❤❤❤❤My beautiful family. Thanks a lotfor thisamazing video.

[@chrisss838]

The Red, White and Royal Blue book is so much better and I suggest you read it!!

[@АлександрДемидов-э3г]

🤗🥰😘

[@Wamiltom]

Please come to Ireland 🇮🇪🍀 I would love meeting you guys ❤

[@immanuelingari4336]

Did he just say Africa!!🎉Welcome to the Maasai Mara-Kenya.Its magical ❤

[@johniii8147]

Just fly business class to NZ. It makes it tolerable. Also stop over on the west coast to break it up.

[@vinayakvarma868]

Sleeps 9-11 hours (almost half your life) wow😄

[@redlangdeau5728]

Enjoyed the Q & A. My husband and I also watched red,white and royal blue, I liked it more than I thought I would, the Henry character reminded me of the Caulkin brothers, it was a cute show, and worth the view.....until next time Caio

[@kennethdodemaide8678]

When flying to Australia or New Zealand you can break the flight with a short stop in Hawaii. You can cut the flight time from14 hours to 2 shorter flights and reduce the chance of jet lag as well. That's what I do when flying from Australia to the US and back.

[@heavenlyvilla8681]

Anna Paquin grew up in NZ. Lots of fun things to do in NZ esp with kids. Hope you make it down here one day.

[@MarkieAlonzo]

Diane Keaton!!! That's strangely accurate. I won't unsee that now. Love Y'all and what you share with us!

[@DeonvkFlukebn]

Hello guys. Thank you for the Q and A session. I have been subscribed for a long time. Thank you for catching me up on your lives. I missed out on a lot due to health concerns. I have been watching and not saying anything. I am glad to see you two are okay and your family has expanded and doing well also. Good for you both. Thank you for being open and sharing

[@innocentelf2908]

Red, white and royal blue suppermacy

[@robertsimons806]

Hi i seeing in one of your vlog your son got sick how is your son now all better i hope by robert

[@sundanceks5074]

When I flew to Hawaii from NM I took a sleeping pill and then got there.

[@juztina7346]

Pj maintain so well… thomas change alot though..

[@bobseeger342]

Thanks PJ and Thomas its always interesting to get more to know you guys ❤🤠

[@williamlarson275]

U guys r amazing!

[@frankgyure3154]

I have seen A lot of videos but this question has not been put out there or Been answered.

[@Gary_Texan_USA]

You two are a delightful and interesting couple. I love your videos and your family are awesome. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Gor800]

You two are amazing! Have watched your post for years and LOVE them!

[@prl08]

I’m always telling Siri to remind me of something too!

[@johnclarke1571]

Most boring fact abt Thomas….😂😂😂

[@aznguymetal]

You guys still look the same. 😂❤

[@jimmymclean9373]

Always love following your lives, from the “old gay couple” lol

[@kevinsaroz]

Oh my gosh, I love you guys!!!

[@QuangNguyen-ng5zh]

Videos or it’s not true

[@Saidnoone]

The patients on Thomas face is real

[@Kopyrek]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@cooneybrendon]

wait there is a clip of pig segs 😮

[@karlsmith2052]

It amazes me that the people who make these videos imagine that anyone is remotely interested in what they think. The ego...

[@TomLloyd-18]

. . . . . Yet . . . here we all are . . . week after week . . . lol

[@corentinchristian]

Love love this format friends 🤍

[@zelmatatiana8752]

Come to Africa😊

[@cam6232]

20:23 for answer 😄

[@PurpleUSA]

🥹👀😳

[@LMays-cu2hp]

Thank you guys for sharing.

[@guioznz8941]

R u guys ok??? PJ seems to be really distant

[@stumack9755]

drugs

[@defchefman86]

🤟

[@chriscoleman6956]

You are so fun to watch you make my day

[@charlescoffey695]

A super video as usual!

[@EnriquePascual1989]

ANOTHER Q&A!

[@ageeblue752]

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm❤