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[@52flyingbicycles]

Sexually harassing a classmate then attacking her with vicious homophobia - in an easily documentable text conversation no less - sounds like an excellent way to get put on probation or even expelled

[@aqualuvor95]

For real. I hope she reported his ass to the Title IX office real quick.

[@potatoshark72]

Speechless..

[@rosiejl2798]

Yeah my first thought was I hope she reported him cause that is agregous written evidence of discrimination and harassment.

[@millielamagnifique2980]

Better yet present the project and for his share just have the screenshots of the conversation so everyone knows he’s a bigot

[@SuperSimpForTheStars]

yeah. like they're asking to get expelled from school

[@trashpanda3544]

Men: "if a woman trusts a stranger then it's her fault if she gets hurt" Also men: "why won't women trust me, a mere stranger?!"

[@kaihiroku8495]

Men as well : "Blind b*tch can't see I'm a nice guy." 😂

[@robertobartolom7385]

Trash Panda: “I’m upset because most men refuse to engage in coitus with me.”

[@robertobartolom7385]

Also Trash Panda: “Why won’t men engage in coitus with me, a mere idiot?!”

[@trashpanda3544]

@@robertobartolom7385 I've been in a relationship for 8 years lmao, try again

[@robertobartolom7385]

I stand corrected then, but let’s stop demonizing one another. The human race will always have shitty men and shitty women.

[@thatcreepyfangirlstalkerch3572]

The guy that said he preferred younger girls and followed it up with "age is just a number" is sounding alarm bells in my head

[@bluntizard4481]

Chris Hansen is looking for that dude as we speak probably

[@baappletheapple1885]

Prison is just a place

[@lilyanmarie]

If age is just a number why does he prefer young girls?

[@pencilpauli9442]

Creepy dude- age is just a number. The Judge- and so are the years you will be incarcerated to protect the public from your perverted predatory behaviour. 👩🏿‍⚖

[@thatcreepyfangirlstalkerch3572]

@@lilyanmarie pretty sure he thinks it's ok for a teen to be dating a 23 y-o

[@waveeyes]

"Fury of a thousand sons" ngl, a thousand crying babies is probably the best metaphore for _nice guys_ I have ever heard.

[@HangryOnPaws]

Can we start tagging incels and niceguys with #FOATS (fury of a thousand sons)?

[@wolvie1618]

I can hear it and it pains me. But it is perfect because all they do is whine and throw tantrums

[@alisaurus4224]

Lolol

[@whiteraven562]

@@HangryOnPaws they probably wouldn't realize you meant it as an insult

[@davidkay1948]

We do and she's ansult to the human race

[@LionessHeart08]

I hate how some guys are only interested in making “friends” with girls they’re attracted to. It made me realize that it’s why they get mad when they find out that the girl is already in a relationship or when she rejects him. Some of us like making friends with people regardless of gender or attractiveness. I like having guy friends but knowing this has made me side eye every guy that’s friendly to me and it freaking sucks.

[@captaincaspian42]

Same, at my first job a handful of dudes seemed to want to get to know me and play video games, which I loved! I always want more gamer friends! And then they would follow it up with the "aha we could be more than friends-" or the classic "I can see a future with us together."

[@yasminprosser4085]

When I was at my first uni course, there was one guy who was only friendly to girls he was attracted to but he was such a dick to me and one of my friends because he saw no value in us if he didn’t want to sleep with us. I don’t understand it at all

[@rosiejl2798]

Yeah it must really hurt when you find out the guy you were getting along with only sees you as a sex object not a fellow human to be friends with.

[@millielamagnifique2980]

The most trashy guys are the ones that only want fwb and dont want regular friends, it’s honestly disgusting because that’s like saying i only want friends i can fuck

[@dabordietrying]

same!!! i posted something with my boyfriend on my story or mentioned him in a convo and have had men i thought i was friends with straight up block me. sad

[@kayew5492]

I hope the group project student showed the texts to their professor as evidence of sexual harassment and in support of his 0 grade.

[@captaincaspian42]

Same, I hope he got a SH case on his records.

[@saltypork101]

He'll spend his whole life claiming that this is an example of how feminism is a just a tool for hurting men. Anything to avoid learning his lesson.

[@condorlegion231]

Just because of some texts you encourage people to ruin his life. Feminism has truly gone haywire

[@saltypork101]

@@condorlegion231 Case in point.

[@annapruitt5546]

@@condorlegion231 how would it be her fault if he received consequences for his actions? She should show this to the professor because she should not have to do his part of the project or potentially mess up her grade due to his mistakes. He’s the one who said he wouldn’t do the work, and he sent all of those wildly inappropriate texts. He didn’t just NOT do his part, he wanted her to do it for him, and his reasoning not to participate was out of anger that she liked women and didn’t want to go out with him. His behavior is incredibly unacceptable, and his life failures will be his fault. It wouldn’t be right for him to get a good grade either.

[@tutsbrasilio]

the guy complaining abt the rejected coffee and chocolate makes me think that some cis guys never tried to put themselves on a woman's shoe like, sure he could be just self entitled too and thus didn't even try to consider it, but to think that he hadn't realized how dangerous is to accept random stuff (ESPECIALLY DRINKS?!?;??!?;) from strangers is such a sign of living a harmless life and it baffles me that people that carefree exist

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

They get so triggered when people tell them they have privilege while having zero notion of what privilege even looks like 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@chesiresays]

Male privilege

[@prnc96]

I'm a guy and wouldn't accept it either like it's fucking creepy enough that a random person tries to chat with me... particularly at a bus station

[@rosiejl2798]

Yup and I garentee that his attitude towards drink spiking is its the womans responsibiity to make sure her drink isnt spiked and yet he gets offended when a woman does exactly that.

[@aikaameya3930]

Yeah like, wasn't he ever taught not to accept food and drinks from strangers? I know I was. You never know what people put in their stuff, even if they're not necessarily nefarious, sometimes they're just gross

[@HiltownJoe]

When I saw the video title and then saw the box written "fragile" on it, my first thought was: Neat an entire box full of mens egos.

[@potatoshark72]

Oh your right! ❄️

[@Arty_Apple_Bee]

you beautiful genius

[@ethansparda4833]

wouldn't mens egos actually be strong like bernie sanders or conservatives who took away the rights of women despite poll data showing overall how unpopular it is?

[@iamme9138]

saw the box written "fragile" on it, my first thought was: Neat an entire box full of mens egos. Caught that line out of corner of my eye! Love that. I imagine the box is all beat to crap, sounds like broken glass if you shake it. Love that.

[@skyeguy7914]

I often have made a point of saying that every conservative man I’ve ever met especially behaves like they are always on the verge of a mental breakdown.

[@VancePantss]

There was a guy at a place I worked that made friends with me and followed my cat's Instagram with the intention of asking me out...but his reaction when I told him I already had a partner of many years was a mature "Oh well, can we still be friends" AND THAT'S HOW YOU HANDLE IT.

[@skyeguy7914]

I genuinely love the image I get in my head any time this point is made of just like… some random “nice guy” preparing to react to someone’s rejection with a volatile misogynistic outburst, only to suddenly have a spiritual awakening as the epiphany hits that “wait… I can get closer to women if I can just learn to be their friends!” And then their third eye opens, as they witness the future events where they finally gain the capacity to actually have a meaningful romantic relationship with women, after learning from having meaningful normal relationships with women.

[@amaristm]

@@skyeguy7914 nice guy redemption arc

[@letterborneVods]

This went totally different than I expected 😅 That’s great.

[@Saibellus]

my best friend and i had a will-they-wont-they kind of thing in college. after a really messy breakup, a bunch of my male "friends" came out of the woodwork trying to slide in and replace my ex while i was at an emotional low point. i told my boy that hey, i know you like me and i sort of like you but i just really need a friend right now. and he was like okay. we have been best friends for over a decade.

[@rolandpereira4161]

Well most girls don't want to remain friends with a guy who asked her out

[@Google_remote]

the “fragile” container in the back perfectly compliments this video

[@MaryanaMaskar]

Yes! 😂😂😂

[@KomaedasOneTrueHope]

That could have been intentional since she does it with her computer background all the time

[@miimicry]

exactly my thoughts lol

[@sophienu5852]

you beat me to it lmao

[@crystalgemgirl731]

Omg, ikr?😂

[@hyleore]

it's crazy to me when they persist after the girl says no, because I would back out and feel embarrassed at the teeniest indication that someone is not interested in me.

[@ErutaniaRose]

See, you have this cool and should-be-normal thing called respecting boundaries and having empathy.

[@Romanticoutlaw]

saame. That and I just instantly lose interest in a person when I realize they're not interested in me. Why would I want to waste that time and effort?

[@gergyta9211]

Same here, like, I have problems recognizing social cues so when I do recognize them I back off real quick

[@mariellenoliveira1913]

Oooh, its just movies (and such) influence, the guy is always persistent and then he gets the girl, people tend to live in a fantasy after not living reality as it should be lived

[@anastasinscreed]

@@mariellenoliveira1913 and before movies it was folk stories. It's all the influence of patriarchal system tho.

[@VayliraKayvex]

And they wonder why they can't get a girlfriend

[@sylmaerie]

@@ville__ do you ever get tired

[@PeridotBee]

@@ville__ If you knew this video was going to piss you off, and hurt your feelings, why did you click on it and feel the need to reply to other people? You're literally just helping the algorithm get this out to more people?

[@anti-usernamesaltaccount3623]

They aren’t getting boyfriends either I’ll tell you that

[@berserkagain7976]

@@anti-usernamesaltaccount3623 if some adult man tries to rp with a stanger in text to get in there pants, yea no shit most girls are not going to be into that lmao.

[@berserkagain7976]

@@anti-usernamesaltaccount3623 also using the whole reddit talk irl( especially with a stranger once again to try to get in their pants) is litterally cringe like bro go cry about " the Chads and Stacys" somewhere else.

[@UnsortedSeeds]

I've had that whole "it's biological" spiel from a religious zealot when I told him that I was ace and child-free. Kept going on and on about how I just HAD to get married to a man, let him impregnate me, and repeat step number two however many times because it was my biological imperative and mandated by his god. As if that would make me suddenly attracted to him.

[@wolvie1618]

I feel so so sorry for all women and fem presenting peeps who had the misfortune of crossing that wanker's path. That is so foul

[@Romanticoutlaw]

people who use their religion as a guise to push their breeder kink on uninterested strangers are so gross

[@JDM-is-my-name]

We all know that basically telling a woman that you would sexually assault/use them as an incubator is the way to a woman's heart (uh, sorry), to a female's heart

[@klsi8129]

@@condorlegion231 xD

[@mrcattoonist4766]

@@condorlegion231 honestly being religious makes someone less attractive to me, it means they're easily indoctrinated into believing something that isn't proven by science

[@dwerenat1]

That woman who was harassed by the homophobic classmate should print out that text and turn it in as his "contribution" to the project. Of course she should also keep a second copy for the dean and a third for the cops.

[@PoggoMcDawggo]

"I like younger women age is just a number." FBI OPEN UP!

[@somethingsomethingsarcasm]

*boots down the door* GET ON THE GROUND 😭😭

[@kalinaribic6383]

Fr. Men like that are such creeps.

[@theeyeflashwithoutabudget171]

"i can see it in your eyes, your not gay." her eyes, being every skittles color:

[@actuallyrubyleaf]

Oh the last guy belongs in a category I've been encountering more lately too: the dudes who think every rejection from a woman is just her making excuses because she fears he might be a creep. I can remember multiple men who, while nice enough for the moment, chatted me up when I had to do stuff or was on my way home and when I said as much, all I got was, "Don't worry, it's all chill, you don't have to be scared of me!" No my dude, I want to go HOME and YOU are being annoying. Please get off my lawn.

[@FennekinBraixen]

The ironic thing about that is the more persistent they are, the creepier they seem 🙃

[@neoqwerty]

@Sine Nomine It's top serial murderer vibes, lbr.

[@eileenconway2966]

Also, stating that you’re not a creep automatically makes me think you are.

[@claratalbot7613]

The last one reminds of people who said that I just confused when I told them I'm bi growing up. Like they thought that if I date or marry a man I would be suddenly straight but if I date or marry a woman I would suddenly be gay. People like that just want to find an excuse to get someone to go out with them & it makes u want to facepalm. So happy that guy probably get a zero on the assignment for being an entitled creep

[@evergarden8592]

Aww cute pfp :3

[@markywu3409]

@@evergarden8592 I agree it's very cute

[@skyeguy7914]

Hey, people said that about me too! In their defense, they were right. But not in the way I think they were hoping. I’m now fairly sure I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum.

[@skullsaintdead]

Nope, he would of at most been given a 10% reduction (if they only told the tutor the day it's due) but if told the tutor early, he would of just been told to do it alone and/or the tutor would of just said for everyone to 'get along', he'd need to do his part but would defo deliberately fuck it up so they'd have to rewrite the night before. Source: I had a guy submit his part of the report straight from a website, copied and pasted, he didn't even bother to take out the hyperlinks. But, because he'd submitted it the night before, the tutor dgaf and just reduced his mark by 10% (and we all got 70% odd, so he still did well). Everyone was livid but I was the most outgoing (I'm not even that outgoing) so I initiated the talk with him about it before class. He said he had to go to a Jewish gettogether and didn't have time. This other chick who was very competent and me had to stay up till 4-5m doing his part. But yeah, uni's don't care. The whole business model is 'make as many people pass so we get tons of $$ money', hence group projects to even out the scores (HD students get with Pass students and it's all even, I hate them with a passion, there wasn't a single group project I didn't end up rewriting someone's entire part because they dgaf to do it right and knew they could get away with me cause I was too nice and my English is excellent, also int'l students whose English was appalling made my life hell).

[@ErutaniaRose]

As someone who is both Bi and Demisexual, MOOD.

[@FIRXFLY]

why do they think pressuring a girl is gonna make her like them? i will never understand their logic

[@klsi8129]

They think that will threat us into obedience xd

[@Nocturnalux]

Movies told them so. Pick virtually any "romantic" movie and you will see this trope over, and over, and over again. Boy gets rejected by girl, at times repeatedly, but he does not give up. He invites her on dates, she turns him down, at times repeatedly. Until something happens and she accepts. And after much tribulation, in the end they are Happy Ever After. And this basic scenario I've set up is the bare bones, at times it gets so intensely awful that it is nothing short of abusive. There is this movie, I forgot the title, in which the boy and the girl are on the Ferris Wheel when he up and gets out the car and dangles from a bar until she accepts to date him. If she does not say "yes", he'll plummet to his death. So of course she says "yes". This is played as romantic. It is horrifyingly awful. It's not just American media that does this either. I gave up on romantic K-drama partially because it was way too het for my tastes (with the occasional queer baiting) but mostly because time and time again, you'd see this along with arguments between two boys, fighting over the girl...who is standing right there, like the prize to be won. Constant bickering is so common for the "meant to be" couple that you can tell right away who will end up with the girl by how much they argue throughout most of the series. Girl gets along with a guy, has long conversations with him, is obviously at ease with him and feels very comfortable around him? Too bad, that guy does not stand a chance in the narrative's logic. Girl meets guy who is usually much more richer and/or popular and does nothing but upset her, scream at her, and on occasion pull her arm and forcibly hug her as she is trying to walk away from him? It is fate, they are meant to be.

[@FIRXFLY]

@@Nocturnalux true. Most romantic movies have a really messed up view of romance. I think i know the Ferris wheel movie you're talking about, I've seen some video essayist mention it while talking about the same point. I grew up watching Bollywood and it just shows romance as abuse and stalking. I remember this movie 'Kabir Singh' that came out when i was in high school that romanticized a guy who slapped the girl and all my classmates, girls and boys, admired that character. I never looked at my classmates the same ever again. I've noticed similar things in Hollywood movies myself and even with my limited knowledge in kdramas i can see what you're talking about. I stay far away from any romanctic movies now unless they're queer because that has a lot less chance of being straight up abusive. i feel like I'm jinxing it by saying it out loud and now a big production company is gonna make a terrible queer romance movie. Let's hope that never happens

[@sarads7877]

My guess is that they hope they are dealing with a girl with boundaries issues, so if they ask her enough times she’s gonna end up saying yes just cause she thinks she has to be nice

[@Nocturnalux]

@@FIRXFLY Wow, that Bollywood movie sounds absolutely awful. A “romantic” movie in which a guy slaps a girl is…something else, it really is. I read a lot of BL manga so I have had my share of intensely abusive queer themed fiction. Plenty of more recent titles buck this trend but it is still very much a thing.

[@carnivault]

that classmate figured out the secret. “if a woman tries to trick you by claiming she’s a ‘lesbian’, and you call her out on it, she’s legally required to date you” that’s how it works apparently

[@bananabanana484]

5:40 “Yeah, so I’m basically like the best guy ever” *Proceeds to be misogynistic, racist, and fat phobic*

[@skyeguy7914]

“Nice guy” does in fact strike again. Actually can we like… start a cryptid meme of “nice guy?” You know, like Florida man memes?

[@skyeguy7914]

“Nice guy offers girl ice cream, throws it onto her clothes when she rejects him.” Now that I put it into proper format, it’s less interesting to read than actually seeing these happen in practice. Kinda feels a little too… TL;DR version-ish.

[@dbdisworsethanmeth5971]

such polite gentlemen I sure wonder why they can't get damsels

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

"Hail b'thou, damsel." *_tips cavalier_*

[@neoqwerty]

@@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos this is extra funny considering I've learned of their existence in D&D and they would LITERALLY Ye Olde Englyshe at any lady trying to get into the hobby and try to LARP chivalry. like they're a single-man production of the Song of Roland

[@crimjim2912]

Scarce damsels?

[@Fionacle]

If the group project girl didn’t show the texts to her teacher I’m gonna be so upset, I want that guy EXPOSED

[@Fionacle]

(Though I get if she wouldn’t want the teacher to know she’s a lesbian)

[@lilbread1717]

The guy you call clueless, I have to disagree. It's a good thing that he posts it with his picture, because post or not, he thinks like that ("I like younger girls" "age is just a number"), and now people know his face and will stay away from him. Such a great service he is doing for the community

[@rosiejl2798]

Yeah anyone who says age is just a number is a instant red flag for a groomer and pedophille.

[@condorlegion231]

You guys say love is love so according to your woke principle. It is okay to love minors. You included MAPs on your safespace.

[@rosiejl2798]

​ @Condor Legion Nope. Love is love but sex should only be between consenting adults. If a adult has sex with a minor it's rape. And in terms of who is pro rape of minors you should look a bit more closely at the conservatives who reject efforts to end the marriage of minors and are pro "romeo and juliet" laws. You would be surprised at the number who want teenage girls married and pregant.

[@tana4283]

@@condorlegion231 who? What community is condoning maps????

[@thespookyaustroraptor2328]

@Tana I would ignore them, they are likely a bot or a troll

[@JhericFury]

I think you could show those texts to the professor and, at least, get him moved to a different group. Yeah, he definitely thinks women only exist for men.

[@strawberryj3lly]

Damn lucky. This guy I knew in 6th grade (middle school in case you don’t know) decided to grab my a$$ our junior year (11th grade high school) then proceeded to ask me out. I told him no obviously then told a select few male friends I have in ROTC abt it he stopped talking to me after that :)

[@chansfeet2500]

@@strawberryj3lly ​ Man, 6th grade is fucking hell. I had a group project with a guy and he kept attempting to grab my neck, boobs and hair, despite my group and I constantly telling him that I had no interest in him. Fast forward to 9th grade, he followed me home, and eventually when he was moving out of the city, his final words to me were a r4pe threat, claiming that one day I'd have his children whether I wanted it or not. Dude was fucking unhinged af, and somehow it gets worse. From digging around, apparently he SA'd someone else, and on his social media, he was a YT supremacist.

[@condorlegion231]

YES. REAL WOMEN EXIST FOR MEN. MEANWHILE JEZEBEL FEMINIST WAHMEN EXIST FOR WOKE FEMINIST CRAP

[@KingOpenReview]

When they get rejected and are like "I was trying to do something good for you, and you missed your chance!" I'm sure she'll spend the rest of her life regretting her decision not to be with you wondering what could have been...

[@skyeguy7914]

“You missed your chance to be with me! A nice guy that sees only your ‘natural beauty.’ And basically only thinks about using you for kids. A real, genuine guy who can’t take care of himself, has no education, probably doesn’t even shower every day let alone brush their teeth. Really missed out on something special with me. A guy who throws a giant tantrum just because you won’t even go on a date with them, let alone sleep with them!” Yeah. A lot to regret about missing out on that wonderful experience. I can just picture it now. What a prize.

[@callumfinlayson-palmer8393]

@@skyeguy7914 oh wow is it hot in here or just me... Lol :P

[@dakotahs.4185]

The guy: age is just a number Me: and hell is just a sauna

[@AnonymousBlobisFern]

One of my good friends dressed up as a “nice guy” for Halloween, as an amazing joke. They had the Fedora and everything, even a fresh rose. An absolute legend!

[@witchy-trials]

i don't even know this friend but i trust them whole-heartedly /hj

[@crimjim2912]

Please tell me they painted on a neck beard- that would pull the look together tbh lol

[@Nerobyrne]

"I'll take you places you never thought possible" The morgue would be my guess

[@wintergray1221]

Guys like this make me glad I'm an unattractive asexual.

[@HangryOnPaws]

You're making me jelous 🤣😢

[@tymondabrowski12]

@@ville__ that's what she said, and she said she's happy with it. No idea how you think that your words gonna upset her :P

[@ritikasingh9555]

I am jealous. 🤧

[@lenoralee9553]

Hell yes.

[@aurorasannoji]

14:46 sorry but men who have anime girls as their pfp is already a huge red flag. especially if said anime girl looks like a child

[@Myuunium]

Interesting that you equate a thin frame with big boobs to a child.

[@neoqwerty]

Is... Is there a red flag exemption if a guy has a super robot anime mecha pfp though???

[@tracymeyer1398]

The ease and speed of which these boys go from "I'm a nice guy" to "you fuckin bitch" is insane. If you have to tell others you are a nice guy you really are not.

[@amberstell7341]

For real😂 it reminds me of some guy my friend met in college and they were friends and then kissed and stuff, but when he wanted to have sex and she declined, he went full FUCK YOU YOURE TOO UGLY FOR ME ANYWAY and it’s just hilarious because… you’re the one who wanted to have sex😂

[@FeministCatLadySpinster]

Nice guys are totally nice. You just have to do what they say, when they say it, and never deviate from their perceived image of you.

[@somethingsomethingsarcasm]

I was mad and then I wasn't.

[@callumfinlayson-palmer8393]

yeah "nice" guys have a very warped view on reaility.

[@adolfopina8857]

You can't even spell women without men

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

If some guy offered me a coffee and chocolate is hard core reject it, you could’ve done ANYTHING to the coffee, do you think (me) as a female presenting person, I’d trust you?

[@FennekinBraixen]

Exactly! Also, it's not even just a female presenting thing. Like, did that guy never get the "Dont take food or drinks from strangers" talk?? That one is a for all ages rule, just because adults usually stop reminding you at some point doesnt mean you suddenly get invinsible and people stop being creeps and criminals

[@shaybribri]

I would loveee to see the teachers response after the girl undoubtedly sent an email about his behavior

[@leeevans302]

It’s normal to be upset when rejected. Especially if you really like the person. But there’s NO reason to react the way these guys do. Like, the most I’ve ever done when getting rejected is cry about it.

[@Romanticoutlaw]

as an enbie who's attracted most to feminine men and masculine women.. I just have to wonder what that "lesbians aren't real" dude would think of me lmfao

[@nekonatamisterajn4269]

Those guys that start to roleplay completely unprompted give some serious serial killer vibes 🥴

[@skyeguy7914]

As someone who has engaged in circles where this behavior is accepted,(the like… initiating roleplay unprompted part. Not the unlikable asshole part.) I think they are one of those people… you know, the ones that have only ever had any kind of “relationship” experiences in circles that expect “in-character starters” and the like. And like… straight up lose their minds when they find out that some of the “girls” they’ve been talking to in said places aren’t actually girls in reality.

[@nekonatamisterajn4269]

@@skyeguy7914 that sounds sad. What is more surprising to me is how after their roleplay atemp with those * is rejected, they still roleplay their reaction to that 🤪

[@skyeguy7914]

@@nekonatamisterajn4269 it helps them to feel powerful. That’s my best guess. It is pretty sad really.

[@Amanda-ev1xz]

Oh god i can’t believe boys are still “seeing it in your eyes” that you aren’t gay or that you don’t have a good time in bed…..they used that on me 28 years ago!! 😂😂

[@matiasyannuzzi9655]

That guy with that crap about lesbianism being "biologically impossible" and worse... man, I hope that got sent to the authorities at his university because you shouldn't be able to get a degree in mental health with that sort of crap tying you down.

[@d4ni.dec4y]

My personal head cannon for the wedding-third-wheel pic: Girl in the foreground is ace/aro and finds other ppl's PDA uncomfortable

[@qp4590]

That/aro was my first thought

[@marij6805]

Oh that's a great explanation! I immediately thought that she just didn't want to be photographed and did not even know the couple is in the picture too, since they're behind her haha

[@duskknight1815]

Man's is writing out entire k-dramas in his texts

[@LeylaKaratas]

these nice gentlemen are really putting the ''men'' in ''menace''

[@oopsie4204]

underrated comment lmao

[@agneseguidi1743]

What I hate the most is that nothing can stop creeps u say "I have a boyfriend" they go "your boyfriend is lucky, can I buy you a drink?" "How long have u been dating your boyfriend? Oh so it's nothing serious"

[@callumfinlayson-palmer8393]

I'm poloy so I wouldn't actually mind if you had a bf provided you were also poloy and interested, something tells me these dudes aren't polygamous and are just desperate and unrrspectful.

[@kaihiroku8495]

Oh yes, I thought it was a myth until a delivery guy started flirting with me everytime he had a package to deliver at my house. I told him I had a boyfriend after he invited me out, and he litterally said "well, bring him along." Yeah sure, I'll go tell my bf that the delivery guy wants to drink with us and it's totally not to get in my pants 😂Then again, maybe I misunderstood, maybe he wants to snatch my bf... Jokes aside, it was a bit scary to know he had my address and could, if he wanted, show up randomly. He also once asked me to get in his truck while he finished his deliveries so we could chat. LOL How can some men not realize how creepy their behaviour is, I'm not gettting in a stranger's car wtf.

[@skyeguy7914]

Speaking as an autistic person, and at the risk of making myself sound like one of these people (despite actively trying to call them out in saying this) they often give people like me, who struggle with social interaction a bad wrap. I’ve had many situations where I would try to talk to a woman and come across as weird or creepy, due to the difficulty I have with how I invest myself in conversations. And there was a point where I realized this, and would start asking people I made uncomfortable how I could improve my approach, assuming it to be in a pragmatic route towards self improvement, only to be called a “nice guy” or “Incel” because of the robotic, and socially disconnected approach I was taking. Unfortunately, I have a hard time finding that balance of interaction that is comfortable and normal for people. And this is just in trying to be friendly, or have idle conversations. It’s genuinely distressing to me, especially as someone who isn’t like… even really invested in romantic or sexual relationships at all, that there are these dudes who just… harass women in these horrid ways to the point that said women have to be cautious even of a bumbling doofus like me. Like… seriously, women are just normal human beings. And are cool. And I like having the ability to hang out with them and have fun with them, without needing them to be in a relationship with me and only me. And I promise you, random incel/nice guy that may be reading this, you are not god’s gift upon this earth. You are in fact a weird creep, and you don’t have to keep being a weird creep. You can like… just try to improve yourself. And stop worrying so much about your own value being tied to crap like marriage or having kids. But not in a weird creepy way… but like, just enjoy your life, and like… other people will be able to enjoy life with you as a result. But first you have to STOP being like this! Like quit trying to pester women into dating you or sleeping with you! Quit harassing gay women because they aren’t attracted to men! Like, stop being a dipshit!

[@skyeguy7914]

@@ville__ well, that’s a way to put it yeah.

[@skyeguy7914]

@@ville__ actually scratch that, I looked at other comments you left here, and am not so sure you mean what I think you mean.

[@nimhfinitepossibilities7609]

As someone who is also on the spectrum, I get what you mean. Though I am female-presenting, I still have a lot of the same issues when I'm trying to make friends, and have even been ex-communicated from friend groups in the past for my 'weird' and 'creepy' behavior. (this was before I was diagnosed)

[@skyeguy7914]

@@nimhfinitepossibilities7609 yeah, it comes with its own list of problems. I’m not quite so familiar with how the spectrum affects girls. Er, provided you preferred to be seen as a girl of course, given you said “female presenting.” I can only really speak to my own experiences. But this is a very real observation I’ve had. Is that the already socially awkward experiences of us Neurodivergent folks, at least the ones that appear and/or present as men, get way more complicated when associating with women especially. In fact, I honestly think a lot of the people that fall into incel and nice guy circles are actually on the spectrum too. The troubling part of the circles and ideologies they often follow (such as the manosphere) heavily prey upon gullible and impressionable types like us. And because of that, I think unfortunately there is a lot of social behavior overlap that women end up seeing in that regard. Maybe there are studies about it somewhere at this point? I think it would be worth looking into.

[@JDM-is-my-name]

@@skyeguy7914 I always go better with voice chat in general, except if it's a professional, those make me uncomfortable. I am also on the spectrum, female presenting (just so you don't worry, I don't identify as a woman, but it's fine for me if you use girl or female). Conversations are so hard, lol. In writing, I always double check myself because I get so worried that I come across as mean or nasty. Just last week, I had to try and explain to a pretty new friend that I wasn't meaning to insult her drawing, I just had an issue with the hair looking like a cutout (think and anime OC, but the haircut is just white, the colour of paper white). I find that either saying the sentence out loud or rereading the sentence a few times and image if someone send it to me, although that one can be hard :) I also am not really interested in romance or relationships and I usually open with that (I am ace, so I usually bring it up when I introduce myself, as well as mentioning I'm autistic). I kind of flirt with my friends (nick names and such), so that's my quota for that kind of behaviour, lol. I find that just opening up with being autistic in the beginning of the conversation, especially if you think you are going to continue to interact with the other person, clears up some confusion. Sorry if I come across as rambling :)

[@vamplinvamp]

OH MY GOD THE TIMING OF ME SEEING THIS Anyways. I finally found a group of cool queer people on my pretty conservative campus to hang out with. Was talking about how I didn’t want to get married (because I’m aromantic) and this stereotypical neckbeard who we all thought was chill cuz his bi girlfriend brought him along says “I wouldn’t wait too long to get married, you won’t have enough time to breed.” 😐 Excuse me tf??? Why are you infiltrating our safe space to say that kinda shit???

[@skyeguy7914]

Please… please tell me he didn’t use that specific word in an un-ironic context.

[@droc5427]

Tbh it's funnier if you just picture conservatives like that with a breeding kink

[@aaronjenkins6048]

Men who unironically refer to having kids as "breeding" need a slap in the face with reality

[@Ash_Carnelian]

Dude, that's such a messed up thing to say to anyone. Lots of people don't want to get married or have kids.

[@KamenRiderFeline]

@@skyeguy7914 It sounds like something straight out of r/justneckbeardthings, so I am afraid he used exactly those words in a completely serious manner.

[@bluntizard4481]

😂😂"sons" when dude meant "suns"

[@MaryanaMaskar]

A thousand sons must turn really fiercely 😂

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

Who would win: One thousand sons [copypasted_guy.jpg] - or - One gassy boi [galaxy_spinning.gif]

[@bibianca345]

little fun fact: there is basically a german word for "?", it's called "hä" 😂

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

This is a good wisdom.

[@qp4590]

the germans are at it again

[@djreems8813]

lol that sounds like the iraqi way to say WHAT??? via sound instead of saying the word for what

[@TheQuietTyper]

You know, I think we do the same thing in English to indicate confusion. Only we usually write "Huh?" but it's quicker to just have the ? . Huh can also be the sound when you are mulling over new information.

[@djreems8813]

@@TheQuietTyper oh yeah good point! i think the ha/huh/hoh is a pretty common sound when it comes to thinking/questioning even if there are some differences in situations and how its used!

[@TheRedPandaQueen]

"I'm a nice guy", proceeds to call people every swear word

[@elaexplorer]

The people writing the asterisks like that guy at the beginning do so because they don't believe the women they're talking to are actually real people.

[@rhokesh4391]

Looked like a (very bad) attempt at roleplay.

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

@@rhokesh4391 Yeah, that's early 2000s "stage directions" chat fersher

[@skyeguy7914]

Probably because the only experience he’s had with “real women” is in roleplay chat rooms where 95% of the “women” he talks to are guys like him with anime girl profiles.

[@Darealcyclic]

I was like, are we roleplaying or having an actual conversation here?

[@callumfinlayson-palmer8393]

*looks confused at KZbin comments* huh that strange they think I don't know how to talk to women. *clenches fist* I'll show them that I have basic social interactions skills. *furiously writes out this comment* XD

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The title could be the best description of School Life that I’ve experienced. It’s a timeless topic. Alternate Title: ‘The Lion, The Witch and the Audacity of this B***h’.

[@charlieandhisantics9954]

Absolute mood

[@DayDreamingWriters]

Lol I love it

[@FennekinBraixen]

Did the title change since you wrote that comment or do I just fail to see the correlation? /gen

[@witchy-trials]

one time i had a funky little guilt spiral and unblocked a homophobic guy i used to be friends with because i was like "oh maybe i wss unfair maybe he's changed" even though im literally gay and i introduced myself by saying like "hey sorry i ghosted you, i go by *new name* how are you, (etc...)" and long story short he referred to me as "padawan" the entire conversation. like as in the thing from star wars. not as my new name, a nickname, even my dead name like literally just padawan the entire conversation so,,, tldr don't unblock "nice guys" because you think they've changed bc they probably haven't and also might call u padawan

[@epikitee2186]

i think the irl version of saying ? is a head tilt

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

And/or, perhaps, a furrowed or raised brow.

[@ABrainlessThot]

“Huh?” Is my irl ?

[@ladylark10884]

"ehhhhh" works too!

[@alienatedlibrarian5017]

Thank you for checking in on this tomfoolery so I don't have to. It's, well, the actual definition of emotional labor. But it does not go unappreciated.

[@rajismyfavorite]

I take public transit for work, fun, and travel. I'm often by myself. I would feel so uncomfortable if someone decided I looked lonely (even though I'm so rarely lonely. I like being alone) and bought me coffee and chocolate. I just want to be left alone on the train and at stations.

[@sophienu5852]

these guys' ego must be in that box behind you

[@ferninthehouse]

dude at 16:04 deserves to be expelled for that shit tbh. its clear hes gonna continue behaving this way, he doesnt deserve to be at whatever school hes at. maybe itll teach him a lesson and the next school he goes to he will learn to keep his mouth shut. un fucking believable.

[@ariangelcub1695]

I used saying a was a lesbian to keep creepy guys away...then I realized...oh...I am a lesbian..I wasn't lying...whelp

[@ladyredl3210]

Guys are more into me when they find out I’m a lesbian because…men.

[@ariangelcub1695]

@@ladyredl3210 ya..I had one guy want my imaginary girlfriend (I use tilly from once upon a time :p) to join us..yuch..

[@KypForPresident]

Calling girls "females" is always a banger. Great opening, I'm sure girls can't resist.

[@alisonthefrog]

Femoids is even better, gets us reeeaaaalllll attracted to them.

[@finnomaly]

it's okay savannah, you don't have to pretend to be gay anymore, we get the code 😜 (omg that dude is insane wth)

[@TheQuietTyper]

He clearly doesn't have the reflection skills needed to consider that if there are women who say they are gay to keep away creepy men, then a woman saying she's gay is a sign to back off because at best she's actually gay and at worst she doesn't feel safe, likely both.

[@davidkay1948]

The creator is insane

[@davidkay1948]

@@TheQuietTyper nor does the video creator

[@mrcattoonist4766]

@@davidkay1948 you're not entitled to women

[@davidkay1948]

@@mrcattoonist4766 news flash in a 2 year relationship while I'm guessing ur single

[@SketchUT]

This is off topic but I have to share a positive thing that just happened real quick // TW for puberty stuff, Ik that can make some uncomfortable! But dw it’s positive! // I got an ad from planned parenthood on this video about trans/nb/intersex people going through puberty and it was so, like, gentle?? Kind?? Idk but I really liked it, it mentioned puberty blockers and how they’re safe and that it’s different for everyone and we all can take as much time as we need to figure out things about ourselves and

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

I've seen ads like that, too. They really were quite gentle and soothing.

[@anti-usernamesaltaccount3623]

I SAW THAT AD WHILE READING YOUR COMMENT ITS SO SWEET

[@doplop]

i got that one too :)

[@seguaye]

I got the same ad i think!

[@davidkay1948]

Safe they not they stop everything in its tracks

[@KittyKatalina]

I thought I knew what I was getting myself into, but that last story... I can't even begin to express how wrong that is on so many levels...

[@FennekinBraixen]

I overread the 'last' at first and was like "I dont even know which story, but I agree" xD

[@KittyKatalina]

@@FennekinBraixen That's fair XD

[@yasminchan7425]

"Age is just a number" *so is 911*

[@roselover411]

Wow that guy writing a script of actions in his text. That's the shit my friend and I used to write when roleplaying when we were like 14 XD We graduated to actual paragraphs within a couple years lol after we moved off phone texts to actual messaging platforms like skype and discord.

[@skyeguy7914]

Ignore Ville. That said, yeah, any time I see roleplay like that, it’s very telling of what kind of person they are. And I find that a little sad.

[@R.S24]

lovely, something to watch instead of paying attention in class

[@royaleariana9006]

Relateable tbh

[@potatoshark72]

Relatable tbh

[@dabordietrying]

wait people still do school

[@dropinarte]

Oh my God as a lesbian the last one made me SO uncomfortable

[@therealAQ]

**soul leaves the body**

[@limethelime6041]

_sips tea_ men amirite.

[@SunnLikesStuff]

_also sips tea_ agreed.

[@EdelweissConfederacy]

*Sips air while waiting for tea to be done* most definitely

[@Draftspike]

Women☕️

[@EdelweissConfederacy]

@@Draftspike what

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

_bobs diffuser_ urrite.

[@rcx9681]

You always greet us, but we never greet you!

[@Hvhvjbknllctcrfuogo]

How do you not get caught?

[@rcx9681]

@@Hvhvjbknllctcrfuogo Im just built different

[@sameman6884]

2:52 dont talk to me or my 1000 sons ever again

[@ladyscribbles6134]

Now, this may be me watching too much Criminal Minds, but that first guy would be such a red flag and make me think, “Bruh, this is a serial killer or some shit, and that’s one of his trophies” 💀

[@chrispitchforth621]

Anyone want to bet the college guy would go on to complain he was kicked out by "woke cancel culture "

[@thiefpotato2759]

The "age is just a number" is such a weird thing. I would never date someone whose 5 years younger than me because I value maturity in my relationships.

[@bellablue5285]

Yeah no, no random food products from strangers in like 95% of situations (if someone is destitute or in a disaster area with a ton of caveats and open communication, possibly okay, random person just waiting for a train, hard no)

[@Jette...]

Queer PuppyM doing a headstand in the background is great😂

[@_Kuma_]

PuppyM is a gymnast 🤸

[@_Kuma_]

Also WolfChan just laying there, unable to sleep… like his human counterpart… 🥲

[@Pa5an1]

So… if age is just a number, why does that old dude prefer younger women? Weird how that number saying only works in one direction. And the last dude made me so mad. I think if anyone ever harassed me like that I’d end up beating him up to make him stop. I’d gladly go to jail for it as long as he learns his lesson. But let’s be real, he probably won’t. When I was younger I had to spend the night at train stations a few times cause there were no connections until the morning. Sometimes some creepy dude would just start following me and try to convince me to get to know him, have a coffee with him and give him a chance cause he’s such a nice guy. I tried everything. Said no politely. Said no impolitely and loudly. Said I had a boyfriend (a lie). Ignored him. Nothing helped. In the end I went with ignoring him, I just sat down and he sat next to me begging for hours. I slapped his hand away a few times when he tried to touch me. I was young and stupid back then, today I probably would’ve pushed him down some stairs or something. Damn, I’m so mad now 🤣

[@kriscuit]

it's so funny how he thinks lesbians are lying to keep creeps away but didn't even consider that maybe he's the creep she's trying to keep away. obviously it's not true but with his belief, i would've taken a hint

[@phillychick]

That Jacksonsville post projects major serial killer vibes.

[@mintytrash]

I got a Planned Parenthood ad explaining hormones and puberty blockers. Nice.

[@AshAtropos]

Same same

[@BurntSushi.]

I got that one 2 days ago

[@niaranoctyrna3754]

The college assignment one really hit hard. I’m not a lesbian, but I had a similar experience as a college freshman

[@passionate_possum_pal]

I'm terrified, wow do their brains let them do that

[@transmascdruid77]

It hasn't happened yet, but I'm waiting for a cishet guy to hit on me and have to tell him I'm asexual and transmasc. 😬

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

As a *🏳️‍⚧️reformed🏳️‍⚧️* ex-"cishet guy", I'd like to apologize in advance for the behaviour of my former associates

[@illogicalparadox]

@@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos 😆 ⚧✊

[@FennekinBraixen]

Same. So far the closest to that scenario I got was basically Me and that guy I met that very day were talking to each other. An older woman (probably in her 40s) coming to us and basically making undertones that that guy and I were either dating or interested in each other. I completly ignored that undertone and tried to tell myself I was probably/hopefully just imagining things. Then the woman left, to talk with some others. The guy I was talking to: She probably things we are dating now Me: Welp, sorry but not gonna happen. I'm aroace. *Waits a moment, basically realises no one I know besides my best friend has ever even heard of that* Wait, do you know what that is? Guy: Yeah, I have a (female, our language is very gendered) friend who is too 10/10 interaction, we continued talking about lots of stuff the rest of the party and even exchanged numbers

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

@@FennekinBraixen wholesome af, hope it turns out well ^__^

[@yi-hira]

The text regarding the dude demanding others to do his share of the group project after being REJECTED BY A LESBIAN, and him dropping all these red flags that makes Soviet Russia blush, like, to claim no woman biologically can be in love with women and then accuse her of having a mental illness (because nothing in life is ever gay, it's all mental illnesses /s). Just, bleh, vomit if you may. The fact that he didn't get the memo and continued being weird to a lesbian, thinking women only pretend to be gay to avoid creeps (which is not true, since obviously he's a creep) and then calling her a whore for rejecting him. and cis men wonder why women are afraid of them.

[@kyradreamer4769]

Guys will say that calling yourself a lesbian is a way to ward off creeps with their full chest as if it doesn't attract them and they aren't the creeps in question. Baffling.

[@onedaybutnottoday63]

Thank you for saying that! As someone who also has borderline personality disorder, I really relate. Like sometimes I just don’t have the mental or emotional ability to deal with things in that moment, aside from just feeling like I do not have the energy sometimes, but I can go for hours or days without responding to my messages. If a guy wanted to act like this he can totally get the rage lol

[@unao3523]

i'm so happy you finally found a flat!! that's amazing, sending you lots of love and support

[@LittleHerdaz]

I hope she showed that whole conversation to the professor and that guy got a 0%

[@ladyredl3210]

I’m a single Pringle lesbian. I will be single forever. Anything but dudes.

[@Vivishobbies]

Bro I’m a lesbian and had an experience with a guy at my work recently and they didn’t do anything…. Needless to say I quit 😭😭

[@DiAn-ud8dy]

Recently a Nice guy told me "Imagine if a guy said stuff like this, just reverse the gender roles. Imagine a guy saying "You know, I can beat you to near death" when talking about a woman" He said that because she was talking about r4pist who don't end in jail, the subject didn't Even was about getting physical nor the girl was threatening but he found a way to justify physical abuse

[@mrcattoonist4766]

They always find a way to try an justify physical abuse Woman: men make me feel unsafe Man: oh yeah? So I'm allowed to hit you? I'm allowed to kill you?

[@galacticknight55544]

An actual nice guy doesn't need to tell you he's nice. He lets his actions say that for him.

[@pencilpauli9442]

Girl in photo...maybe her date was the person taking the photo. But I'm gonna make it all about me not being able to get laid! 🤣🤣

[@yrvrse]

i love seeing where the skzoos are hidden in the bg 😭 i was so happy when i found out you were a stay ! also favourite song from maxident? 💗

[@TheQueerKiwi]

i’m glad you enjoy 🤧 and that is a v v difficult choice. i love them all for different reasons but i’m kinda vibing with “super board” but also smiling ridiculously wide at “can’t stop” and ‘3racha’ has me !!!!!!!!!! and ‘case 143’ is a MASTERPIECE, ‘taste’ has me on the FLOOR, ‘chill’ is beautiful as all jisong’s are, and ‘give me your tmi’ goes h a r d. (and circus is my favourite song ever made, but this is the korean version and doesn’t count) this did not answer your questions.

[@JayBeMeee]

@@TheQueerKiwi I don't know if you'll see this but they're is a pedo who has been commenting under a lot of your videos recently including this one. Their name is Vile and they jave the "MAP" flag as their pic. Just in case you want to do something about that. Sorry for ruining this reply thread.

[@yrvrse]

@@TheQueerKiwi haha understandable! skz did so well on this album i honestly have a hard time picking a favourite as well, they always outdo themselves!

[@greilady]

The sense of entitlement, omg. Just wow.

[@AoAnli]

The asterisks make me gag every time from sheer embarrassment. How anyone can think it works (unless it’s an ironic inside joke) is beyond me like WHY

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

You don't like action asterisks? * frowns; begins to leave, dejected, then stops * Unless... [looks back, hope in my eyes] ...you just prefer brackets...? /lh /j

[@AoAnli]

@@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos This is CYBERBULLYING /j

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

@@AoAnli [engages in a years-long campaign of relentless doxxing and cyberstalking] * UwU *

[@tymondabrowski12]

I was once in circles where it was acceptable but not exactly as roleplay, more like a very long emoji. Like *rolling eyes*, *hitting a desk with their head. Repeatedly.* or stuff like *backing off slowly...* after you say something controversial. Not the weird "cute" anime 14yo cat girl behaviour. It was much less creepy, usually funny or useful in communication.

[@AoAnli]

@@tymondabrowski12 I mean I do this ironically like sometimes I’ll just reply “[sweats nervously]” if I’m about to get exposed over something stupid in a group chat, it’s different if it’s an inside joke, but the incel weebs doing it unironically is what makes me die of cringe every time 😭😭😭

[@landosllim4576]

"force of a thousand sons" bahahahahhahaha like are they large sons, small sons, weak sons, strong sons? or did you mean *suns you weirdo

[@mrr1132]

small sons, like newborn and specifically crying.

[@LauraBow]

I baffles me how guys still persist even after she says she's a lesbian. Like what supposed to happen? "OH NO YOU FIGURED ME OUT GUESS WELL GO OUT NOW"

[@arcaneSae]

I actually used to think that makeup was for the guys benefit since as a Cis male I was putting my beliefs on the women. its taken effort to change myself and accept its for them. I'm someone who never cared about my looks so I stupidly put that belief onto others and had to unlearn that thought proccess

[@FreyaofCerberus]

I love your Buffalo Bill earrings!!! Really softened the blow of the horrific niceguys.

[@wolvie1618]

Boy this really started off swinging. Niceguys TM are so so wild, holy cow