I Spend All of My Money on Marijuana and Food!!

[@TheRamseyShow]

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[@winterssaphira6478]

I don't blame her most people are not paid enough in general medical use or not and we need help not debt

[@glen.simpson]

she sat down and smoked a fatty and thought about things after this call.

[@WillFyeTV]

@@glen.simpson 😂😂🥲

[@hanifjones4914]

Dwl. Yeeah

[@wesleytietz4506]

@@glen.simpson Yes. I mean, I would.

[@jamesdean6744]

If she cut down on marijuana, food cost will also decrease drastically. Killing two birds with one stoner.

[@Mo-bq8lz]

Lol awww

[@easttnlawncare6740]

Best answer

[@Runny117]

this needs to be top comment ROFL

[@danielroque02]

I see what you did there

[@zeal4god402]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[@josephcoatofmanycolors]

I applaud her honesty, shows she’s ready to change.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

I would think most are truthful when high on something.

[@BrendanEvan]

True

[@earleansmith8608]

She is open and honest and recognize she need help I pray she get in the twelve step program they will guide her through the process

[@alexgg7499]

Doubt it

[@Royalewithcheesee]

Wouldn’t it be hilarious if we heard the doorbell ring on the call

[@teja7479]

I like how they didnt shame her, called her stupid or Gen Z or something but actually helped put her thoughts into meaningful words.. Great job!!

[@lisaluangrath]

They channel wouldn’t have gotten this far if he did this often

[@MrJay197409]

It's a female had it been a guy would of been a different story.

[@YourFunkiness]

"A bruised reed he will not break." She already knows her life is messed up. Yelling at her about how stupid she's being won't help her. She already knows. Often, people call in and demand Dave Ramsey endorse their stupidity. Dave Ramsey instead gives them the yelling he wishes he'd gotten back when he was doing stupid with money.

[@QuitYourCryin]

Yeah they got her to shame herself instead.

[@jimroscovius]

She needs to be ashamed and told the truth. The answer is simple - stop doing it. She's needs to stop. Period. Its not easy, but that's the only thing that will work.

[@LalienX]

She was brave AF to ask this question. This was a great segment.

[@justinnegron4843]

She is in the same boat as me and I am 24. I relate so much

[@michelleespino9814]

She is brave. I wish the mj users I know would be so brutally honest. I think mj is a good tool for people with PTSD chronic pain etc. but it can be addictive and many users don’t see that.

[@vilemd]

What stupid people think is bravery is amazing. Somehow, bravery isn't fighting for your country or your family or running into a building where you could die to save someone else or defending others..... Only stupid people think that bravery is just being honest which anybody can do because . Not because it's brave but because you don't want to do it so that makes it brave? LOL. The woman is just being honest that she's a typical American loser which the percentage of is increasing every day of people that have no skills, do nothing and just are narcissistic where it's all about eating and smoking, weed and doing what you want in the moment because you're a narcissist. And narcissist don't like the truth because they like to lie about everything to other people and to themselves. So to be honest is considered some type of big thing like you're brave and it takes balls or it takes something crazy when you can just talk reality at any time that you want instead of being a liar all the time. She is just used to lying to herself everyday and saying I'm not a loser. I'm a great person. In fact I'm special and I'm better than other people but I don't know how to cook or do finances or anything basic and I will basically just borrow money from one person and then the next because I'm dishonest and I know I can't pay them back. The truth is great. That's the only way people change.

[@ConorL-e2r]

I’m the same I’m 23 from Ireland and spend all my money on Grass and alcohol

[@lorifisher609]

What question I didn't hear it?

[@adamseidel9780]

Not many people struggling with addiction are able to have a self realization like this, she has a good chance to turn things around.

[@TheHoriginal]

True dat

[@kobold7763]

Everyone has self realization, the animal model of science that led to the so called “mechanism of addiction” and b.s behavioral science in relation to drugs of abuse was all built on animal studies. Simply put we ARE not animals. Because mice risk their life to get a hit of coke time and time again, and because a dog salivates every time (humans may have corresponding symptoms) doesn’t mean a human will react in an analogous manner, in fact the very nature of all the earths recordings (genesis, Torah, Quran) states we are set apart from animals

[@theGrayArea2]

Unlike the majority of people at least she knows where her money’s going 😭😭😭

[@ssim0n]

😭

[@sashagreenly.realtor]

🤣🤣🤣

[@questionsanwsered]

Why I dont ever call I know it's going to the dispesaries and pizza man

[@Discipleofthelordandjesus]

From her bank account right to the plugs🤣

[@maryk446]

Good point!

[@joshuabailey402]

Anthony really impressed me on this one. Usually he sounds like he's reading out of a Dave Ramsey handbook. I'm glad he's bringing his own personality onto the show.

[@NadyaPena-01]

really? I actually love him! I guess that's good they have other personalities so people can have options. For me, my least favorite is Dr. Delony.

[@Jon-op1pr]

I would have to agree. One of the first times where I've been really impressed by his words.

[@leifleoden5464]

Yeah, I felt like he had some strong experience helping people break out of addictions.

[@KnicksNYanks84]

@@NadyaPena-01same Delony seems out of touch

[@tetherking]

The usual suspects

[@ZackGoes]

I’d love to spark up with Dave Ramsey

[@greatriffishere]

lol

[@Shadowwind4]

That’d be sick nasty

[@Jonathan01233]

No you don't he's gonna try and sell his 12 step program. As soon as you smoke hes gonna ask you whats your income and do you think you can afford to light up?

[@Greg.Lacoste]

the anti of this video lol

[@fatherof3681]

🤣🤣🤣🤣!

[@a.george9155]

I'm so proud of this caller.....Being honest is a huge step

[@catpoop650]

Her humility and honesty shows she really wants help. Respect, hope she finds a good social crew

[@AthenaLolita2]

I appluad her for getting help and admitting her problem

[@KIARALOVES]

💯

[@ht1064]

This call was something I had no idea I neeeded. After seeing it was posted 3 years ago, I pray that Val has accomplished everything and more. God bless 🙏

[@dmitripazlov491]

You and me both! Also was reaffirming due to her age. I felt so behind and hard on myself because I live like this at 23. But with her at 24 in the same exact income and situation...makes a fella not so hard on himself ya know? Here's to us turning things around for 2025!🎉

[@elMenzico]

Cheers to You two! Funny, almost same day, we find this video from 3 years ago. Have a good 2025🔥🚀

[@SupremeLogo]

@@elMenzicoalgorithm is on point. Happy new years don’t quit and let’s get it all🎉

[@kevinchandler46]

“Sell your marijuana”

[@icallmy12gnot12]

This comment is underrated asf

[@Loyolil]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Lilbit2215]

That part lol

[@markpain1683]

🤪

[@cashisqueen3825]

🤣🤣🤣

[@rosedewittbukater5763]

I absolutely love and appreciate how Dave handled this girl. Lots of encouragement but also straightforwardness without shaming.

[@Just_youtube2024]

Caller: I spend all my money on marijuana and food Dave: sell the car 🚘

[@ontherims3284]

This made my day. Best comment imo.

[@Just_youtube2024]

😁@@ontherims3284

[@HondoSauce]

Nailed it!!! 😂😆😂

[@calebwynne5346]

😂😂😂

[@AlabamaCreek33]

😂😂😂😂😭

[@MillionaireMindsetClub]

“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.” - Jim Rohn

[@audreannacastaneda2380]

I love jim

[@evah787]

😊

[@joelratemo1752]

Jim Rohn is a legend.

[@KnicksNYanks84]

“Work hard at your goals.” -KnicksNYanks84. Omg look I’m so wise

[@huntermushero9362]

That’s a neat way of putting it. I’ve always said discipline is what you have to do to do the things you want to do.

[@BassPlayer60134]

I drive uber eats in the Chicago area I swear I have delivered to her.

[@illuminerd3757]

if she does it again help her out with some advice

[@marybetheby5184]

Big smoke cloud pours out when she answers?🤣

[@SativaVerte]

👆This comment is everything 👆

[@Thrakerzog]

Is she at least kinda hot?

[@robedmund9948]

@@Thrakerzog DON"T matter! Crazy is carzy.

[@teewilliams4520]

"That why should make you cry" that phrase is legendary

[@benv7933]

She sounds like she's 40 I really admire her bluntness and honesty

[@anothername2730]

“Bluntness” nice one

[@VGreggUndercover]

Dave is like a Dad to so many. Never judges, only listens and cares.

[@leviontiveros5219]

This sounds like my story, in the early chapters. Depression had a grip, all I did was dodge discipline and responsibility. Get high and avoid dealing with issues.

[@deerinheadlights9784]

Kudos to this caller for being so vulnerable

[@456123zach]

Letting alcohol, marijuana, and nicotine become a daily habit is a wallet drainer.

[@hannahchege2009]

And health

[@wowso4]

Don't forget junk food

[@anon-tec3500]

Just dont smoke all of it at once & dont smoke with friends save it for later

[@highginx]

@@anon-tec3500 exactly! If you're gonna be a smoker thats the way to go! 💰

[@anon-tec3500]

@@highginx yes sir

[@yvette344]

God Bless her for having the courage to call.

[@classicleslie6914]

I seriously love her honesty and confession. And more than anything, I love Dave Ramsey's response. Oh my goodness it's like he is Godsent!

[@rjeffers3726]

This is 100 percent me. I need to get my act together

[@ohhyeahhh9757]

LETS GO; GO CHANGE

[@justinreich3486]

Keep watching shows like these and take baby steps! Only smoke or eat out on weekends.

[@MikeWalksWithJesus]

Cold turkey

[@nolannorris1250]

What’s the three year update

[@jackdaniels7653]

@@nolannorris1250I think we all know nothing changed ….

[@HitmanChase]

This sounds like a mom calling for her child.

[@drrush3421]

Can’t put anything past the internet

[@MrFrankEast]

This is absolutely what this is lol No person under 35 talks like this lol "I do whatever I have to to get my next bag O weeDZ!!!!"

[@redcomic619]

Agreed. 24 year old stoners from Chicago don’t call themselves “chronic marijuana smokers.”

[@kasforai]

It's a mom a sexy one

[@arccway]

😂😂😂

[@meliekanicole8152]

Whew. When he started talking about figuring out your why I got a little weepy. That is so real. You need to really truly figure out the why, get rid of your shame, and make a commitment to not stop until you got your why!

[@shawngarcia3414]

One of the best videos so far, and I admire Daves compassion and understanding considering his position. She’s about to change..

[@babakalipour1657]

She is literally the majority of young adults in America.

[@dudelove8662]

At 60k? Nah the majority are half that income

[@Theplaymaker901]

60k is nothing when you spend it all

[@onetruth5073]

@@Theplaymaker901 well yea, any income is nothing if you spend it all lol

[@isaiahsingleton6513]

@@Theplaymaker901 I feel broke I only make 25k a year at a factory but still kinda get by if you make 60k you balling

[@uscmsw2011]

Yes I have a cousin like this

[@cholo_instinx6423]

I used to be a chronic smoker too, after a while smoking doesn't feel the same and just feels like a daily habit. I cut my usage drastically this year and from the times I have smoked this year just felt rewarding. Keep smoking as a reward once in a while not a need unless you're a medical patient

[@engulfed4372]

You are going to relapse.

[@cholo_instinx6423]

Not really, I've only lve only smoked about twice this year so far and I have a leftover edible I'm saving for a rainy day. None of which I paid out of pocket either.

[@anothername2730]

You have things under control. Good work, and good on you for knowing your limits.

[@aeromedical6750]

She was probably hitting a bowl during the call.

[@marybetheby5184]

Right before she dialed...🤣

[@KennTollens]

Funny how people are determined to quit just after they had their fix.

[@milkmanproductions1837]

Fr 😂

[@Chance8888]

@@KennTollensSo true lol

[@tac11]

😂😂😂😂

[@swiftyfn3348]

Door dash every meal man that's gotta get expensive

[@mrkusi]

Absolutely but she’s making me money 😂

[@CarlosFlores-xf2sn]

this was my issue as well. thankfully i didnt let it get too bad lol

[@fferguson2013]

It adds up quickly

[@rachelgee7894]

She'd cut her bills in half just by picking it up herself.

[@brittneymonk2543]

Nah! It’s good for my door dash side hustle lol

[@TorryMB]

I had the same problem as her 20 years ago. Once I realized, as a man, no one was coming to save me.. i changed everything about my lifestyle. It's a hard lesson as a man, but sadly, some don't hit that point.

[@myrapliska9464]

Prayers for this woman for supernatural healing 🙏 prayers of deliverance of the addictions she carries God you have a plan and a purpose for her life

[@jpdst29]

So good that she realizes there is a problem and is looking for help. Hope she turns this around for the better.

[@JesusCervantes-vl4mb]

She doesn’t sound like a 24 year old

[@FlutterSwag]

Sounds like shes calling for someone else

[@JesusCervantes-vl4mb]

@@FlutterSwag exactly!

[@ShroomFactory]

They never do.

[@normacordova3241]

Sounds about 34

[@johnfrantz5885]

It’s been a hard 24 years

[@teresahalabi6826]

I love how honest Valerie is! And she has a desire to do something she loves, instead of a job she hates!!! That's huge. I can relate. Focus on that dream you have💖🥰👍🏻

[@lexithompson7426]

Nice comment 👍🏼........Where are you from ?

[@swayy9440]

This reminded me of myself. I made 225k between age 19-23 while living with my mom, she was only charging me 300$ a month for rent & my phone bill. I saved nothing & spent it all on partying, drugs, clothes, ubers, & other unnecessary bullsh*t. Im 26 going on 27 now with my own place, a few investments, saving, & living below my means. Glad I learned from my mistakes while still young.

[@randomhiphop5055]

Why is it that everybody in this comments section makes a ridiculously higher income than me. 225k dude at 19-23 are u kidding me that's insane.

[@KarlFreeman-fe1nd]

You don't have to be smart or good to make money.

[@penguin12902]

@@randomhiphop5055 I assume he meant 225k cumulatively over those years, that's $56k a year...pretty dang good at that age but not crazy.

[@charityloar7287]

​@@randomhiphop5055 I think this person means over those 4 years, he made that much. That's only 56k per year. Little easier to accomplish.

[@FaterialL]

​@@randomhiphop5055probably combined yearly income. 50k a year for 4 years is 200k

[@PauloNideck]

that was a great call

[@m0here239]

It’s really unfortunate because I feel like she’s smoking all the time to escape hating her job and life. Smh.

[@cartercarter3484]

100% it is an escape it brings the boredom out of life i’m only 16 and been smoking for a while i just stopped because i want to get my life figured out and get working before i start again and i’ll do it much less

[@mrgaberama]

@@cartercarter3484 good job man . Very wise of you

[@haute03]

She definitely is. I had a friend who did the exact same thing. Fortunately, she left her job and is infinitely happier. I wish the same for this young woman.

[@Jason-cn5vo]

Maybe she hates her job because she's not high on the job.

[@rogers5622]

@@Jason-cn5vo my thoughts exactly . I left a miserable job but never started drinking or smoking to deal .

[@chiquicat1]

I used to smoke this stuff and it has the incredible power of keeping you stagnated in life. Just smoke all your problems away and ignore them... it’s terrible and the sooner you quit the sooner you will be able to put order in your life and have some ambition. It was this unbearable feeling that my life was going nowhere that prompted me to quit.

[@diegovargas9956]

Speak for yourself know plenty of people who blaze and do normal things. One is a hs science teacher

[@madisonbailey2564]

​@@diegovargas9956 you want a cookie or something?

[@Dontrolling]

@@diegovargas9956is he a HAPPY hs science teacher is the real question or is he smoking to cope with the day to day? That the point of this person’s comment. People can be more than what they imagined if they dropped a lot of habits some of which they don’t even realize is bad or hurting them. I know a lot of people with jobs that smoke. Are they happy? I can say more than not no and it’s because they’re looking for it in external pleasures such as substances and not equating goals for their own personal development like this person explains. It’s not so black and white.

[@xb5883]

​@@diegovargas9956you pothead, just because you can function doesn't mean you are living to your potential.

[@xb5883]

​@@diegovargas9956if that high school science teacher didn't smoke they probably would be making 3-4 times more money

[@vanguardvaluist2614]

Chronic on the Chronic. Don't underestimate the power of the Sour Diesel to get you ordering pizza instead of delivering it.

[@MarksTournaments]

I like getting high and driving so no delivery for me

[@John-ru4gz]

All while being financially literate

[@tomp7550]

@@MarksTournaments strange flex but ok

[@seabasso6849]

@@MarksTournamentsflexing a dui 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@hallaisback]

Used to be me. Then finally listening to Dave and Chris whilst high af I finally got convicted and started the baby steps

[@Realelduque]

Good for her for admitting her problem, Best of luck to her

[@michaelrains2268]

I completely applaud your honesty, I believe that your ready and willing to change your life . May GOD bless you, give you peace and the strength to change your life so that you will be proud of yourself!

[@whtsapp1870]

Thanks for commenting, i will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets

[@whtsapp1870]

[phone]

[@whtsapp1870]

Whatapp☝️

[@miracleinthemirror]

The pain of staying the same

[@Laure_Travels]

Exactly!!

[@nassssss]

Helped me change so much

[@ericagoggans7189]

Wow! I thought y'all were just about money. I was wrong! This may have just changed my life. Thank you🙏🏾

[@pimpslapish]

this video motivated me so much to make a change in my own life style. "Im sick and tired of being sick and tired"

[@tennesseegirl5539]

This is ONE of the best calls!!!! Bless her! She's being so honest. I've been there! Today's stress and pressure's are fueling these bad habits. I get depressed and I do things I shouldn't. 💗🙏

[@amytaylor5454]

Hello there👋👋,how are you doing today?hope all is good at your end? always keep your faith in Jesus Christ our savior and you’re blessed today.Amen!

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

I'm debt free, buy cannabis stocks, and cook at home. Pays much better.

[@Kmanjr0]

Preach

[@BrendanEvan]

🤣💪

[@jasminrobinson7830]

What the name of wiz Khalifa kush stock?

[@phtorres45]

Exactly!!!

[@rachelgooden9981]

Sundial

[@magicworld3242]

This woman sounds like she's in her late 50's.

[@Abraham.Lincoln22]

😯

[@santafilipina9020]

She's well spoken. Most people in her age have an uptalking and valley girl talking habit. So annoying.

[@jbdragon3295]

Drugs do tend to age you faster.

[@waterheaterservices]

30s. Just my opinion.

[@jessiegonzalez5906]

genetics

[@MrGreen-dp4oz]

If she's gonna smoke she's needs to buy in bulk or grow. The eating out thing is a big problem but ordering food delivery every day. Smdh

[@BIG2hats]

True being a stoner shouldn’t cost you any significant amount of money than a non-stoner

[@yamamancha]

"buy in bulk or grow" Those things don't get you arrested anymore?

[@ja4120]

@@yamamancha typically anything less than 2oz is the same charge. Most people buy by the gram which is between double and triple the price of buying by the oz.

[@MrGreen-dp4oz]

@@yamamancha of course it's illegal in most states. It is what it is

[@infiniteclutchgaming8206]

@@MrGreen-dp4oz lol that’s false. It’s illegal in more states than not.

[@gaberoyer]

This is an excellent segment addressing a lot of issues that are happening in society. Props to her for being open and honest and not letting her pride get in the way.

[@32kay12]

Sadly this was me at 18 years old, stopped touching any drugs and alcohol by age 19

[@joelratemo1752]

Good for you. Those are destructive things. Keep going!

[@32kay12]

@@joelratemo1752 thank you, now I'm 28 and have zero desire for that lifestyle

[@philmccrackin3427]

Well done!

[@Calibrownsfan]

good for you for doing it before it was too late.

[@Draxthemsclountz]

How were you able to do this? I’ve been struggling with addiction to many substances since I was very young since 12 I’m 25 now I’m careful about it but I worry about my heart I want to be here for my family and see as much nature as I can before I go hope I haven’t done permanent damage

[@eddieblake097]

i wish they'd ask "are you high right now" lol

[@Jack_sosa_daniels]

She barely responded, so yes.

[@BeBopScraBoo]

caller: "hold on, someone's at the door..."

[@eddieblake097]

@@BeBopScraBoo that would have been hilarious. "hold on Dave, my pizzas here."

[@peterwoods8880]

@@eddieblake097 hahahahaha

[@BeBopScraBoo]

@@eddieblake097 "ma'am could you please not chew into the phone"

[@Je.rone_]

This is an episode I didn't know i wanted to see

[@hihaters2004]

😂

[@multistack1502]

This is a comment nobody wants to see. Mostly because it’s from you.

[@glamfab16]

It sounds so ridiculous to me that I almost can’t believe it

[@savageal105]

Same here haha

[@superweeniehutjr.8019]

@@multistack1502 is it because HE’S BLACK?!?!

[@PsychoGaming805]

This was a great one Dave!

[@blixx87]

it was scripted sheep

[@candidawojcik6356]

This woman has so much courage to reach out and deal with her problem. I feel bad that she is in the addictive situation she is in but hopeful she will get good help and see her whole world turn right around.

[@keyo.1318]

Let me just say I’m 23 and pretty much in a very similar position! Stay strong and keep fighting. You seeking guidance shows you’re willing to learn and grow. You’re on the right track and most importantly God has you always!

[@boanddevan4316]

I'm to a point in my life where I understand this and make no judgment.

[@yoyo-ko4fh]

Same

[@tennesseegirl5539]

Yes. Exactly. Me too

[@JCarter3000]

You're the only person on here who isn't judging like you're better. (I'm judging the judgers)

[@emilopucci8962]

Exactly especially with the pandemic and lost money I could understand why she may smoke ..not judging her

[@Brazillianboi69]

At least she’s real about her situation. Going cold turkey is nearly impossible. She needs to properly budget instead. She’s making over $1000 a week. She can afford smoking and eating.

[@poodie3887]

She better start smoking .5’s in those blunts

[@parkermccallum4151]

Must be smoking multiple ounces a month to be paycheck to paycheck k on 60k

[@aquaticasmr184]

@@parkermccallum4151 i smoke a ounce a month I buy a quap for 650 On average costs me nothing

[@FBADC89]

@@poodie3887 😂😂

[@tomp7550]

@@parkermccallum4151 I wonder if concentrates may be her issue too. That stuff gets pricey

[@elainepatterson5587]

Makes $60K and hasn't been fired for a failed drug test at work?? And hates her job?? Some people would think that's a dream job.

[@insideoutsideupsidedown2218]

Fast food can't be that picky..If they were they'd lose over half their staffing.....

[@DillonTurner395]

@@insideoutsideupsidedown2218 Where in the world are you working fast food and making $60k?

[@TheMechanicj]

@@DillonTurner395 managers At McDonald’s make that easy that’s only a 1200$ a week salary to work 60-70 hours

[@Zacon2mlg]

not sure but it might be legal to smoke up where she is at

[@Keepitcuteorkeepitmute]

What crazy is jobs that pay more don’t require drug test 🤔

[@pamcornelius9122]

I love the way Dave immediately crosses his arms defensively when she starts talking about cash advances.

[@JoanBette]

I applaud them for not shaming her and actually trying to help her. In reality she needs to see a therapist so she can get some tools to help her with her addiction, and find alternative coping mechanisms. As someone who has struggled with addiction it is a vicious, vicious cycle and my hat is off to anyone who can overcome their addictions.

[@HHmz-rp8ht]

" Guys Marijuana isn't addictive, I just spend one third of my income on it because it helps me relax" every crackhead ever

[@Vassle]

Haha so true

[@Showersofblessings20]

A lie I used to believe too

[@marjoriebaut7981]

You are not addicted but spend 1/3 of your income, that’s interesting 😂

[@ChekuL8er]

Marijuana isnt addictive. An addict is going to be an addict with whatever THEY are addicted to. If marijuana is a problem for you, you are the problem

[@erickqwesibentilmanie2382]

😂🤣

[@jimhandler1129]

Self Discipline and Being addicted to good habits is the answer.

[@arvins.7064]

Im 24 and smoking while watching this😂😂😂

[@c0583094]

Same . Except I m 32 .

[@philmccrackin3427]

Lmao same. I must be you 3 years ago😂

[@Draxthemsclountz]

Ripped two big dabs about ten minutes ago and watched this😂

[@brendamiller6157]

Superb, brilliant, honest, compassionate, truthful. Good stuff, Ramsey Show.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

I liked her too. I hope she’s turning things around for herself. I’d love to hear a 6 month follow up.

[@Girz0r]

If her income suddenly stopped, this content lifestyle would quickly crumble.

[@SamWesting]

True. She's probably sticking it out in the job she hates, all to sustain a lifestyle that she's unhappy with. Even if she never loses that job, she's headed towards depression or worse, if she doesn't make a change.

[@cjlive5182]

She’d become the dealer

[@joshuamoore2721]

@@cjlive5182 Nah Im sure she just goes to the Dispensary cause it's legal in Chicago for recreational use.

[@---nc3zc]

Wow I got a solution to my problem without having to call in lol sweet

[@mermaidshawna8664]

This is wild cause I never comment things like this: But Valerie I am praying for you and I hope you continue to have the strength!!

[@countdown2xstacy]

🙏🙏

[@princessbabyboo]

we got to love her honesty for this one😩😭 I hope she is doing well!!

[@pathoffman2839]

Get a grip ....Stop the madness...Pray for the strength to overcome. Get started. Good luck!

[@patrick03333]

1:01 😂 great answer

[@gerardopliego-financevideo8214]

I’ve never been sad eating

[@stefanschroeder2624]

Same reason she has trouble changing

[@victoriagarcia5533]

@Daniel R It’s a vicious cycle.

[@andytemple2081]

I’ve never been sad smoking. At least I know how to budget, work hard, save, and invest.

[@jeremygalloway1348]

You're eating the wrong foods(maybe right foods depending lol)

[@BrendanEvan]

Oh I’ve definitely been sad eating. Exercise helps more than eating for me!

[@mattcrouch9348]

Never clicked a DR vid so fast

[@austinalba4176]

Right? LOL!

[@lisaluangrath]

Yes

[@milkmanproductions1837]

Fr 😂😂

[@noran4955]

She was so real and genuine! Ameen she will be fine, I can tell 😊 🙏

[@InnerGoddessProject]

YES! That's my favorite quote! "Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change." -unknown

[@philipenos2930]

It sounds like Valerie has some either emotional or mental issues, thus her addictions. She needs to see a psychiatrist to get to the root of the issue.

[@jennmenzel6365]

people always think there are "deeper issues". sometimes, it's just laziness and letting yourself slide into bad behaviors until they become addictions.

[@tonia2483]

I disagree shes needs a more meaningful career the one she has is literally draining her

[@jpm8002]

Where my successful stoners at? Currently home searching with money in the bank and been smoking devils lettuce since 19. We do exist

[@drrush3421]

Aaaand causes neurocognitive deficits in infants of stoner mothers

[@simsimmaa8343]

I make good money too, but that doesn't mean we're not wasting money and time 😆

[@zoobrizz]

Yes. Some how I made it. But not during studies or work

[@Kmanjr0]

A rarity most are crusty

[@RawDogTV]

Exactly! I know so many male and female athletes who smoke a lot and their real lives are pretty good. Its all about balance and moderation. Not every stoner is an unproductive loser

[@SelenaHernandez]

I’m so excited for all my 24 year old homies out there

[@k-mart7475]

Thanks! 😭 i was in the same boat as this caller a few months ago. Started watching Dave and im working towards financial freedom! Finally have a budget and not overspending. But I wonder how people struggle with a 60k a year in come when im getting by with a 22k a year income 🙀 I can only dream if i had a income like that

[@Fc9ers]

It’s not how much you make but rather how much you spend.

[@GR-uc1gq]

23 here but let's get it!

[@danielstrother2494]

60 is really easy to spend if you are irresponsible

[@rvw3022]

@@k-mart7475 cities like Chicago take all that extra income in the form of taxes and unaffordable rent.

[@gustavoperez7709]

They keep it real and simple even though the problem never feels that way

[@de9263]

"Ask the whys" that is such a good idea! There are so many reasons to ask that question whether it's about addiction or even starting something, like your own business or working out. Very valuable! Thanks Ramsey team!

[@JiisTube]

She also needs new friends. Get rid of your drug buddies and make friends who do the things you want to make yourself do💡

[@user-bm6wu9zw9m]

So true.

[@Peacewalker267]

Hard during this pandemic

[@dropoutdrivez2667]

Hard in general. Stoners seem to have a different mindset than most

[@peppersaltman1805]

Marijuana is a real addiction, unlike what people are led to believe

[@PHUCKyoutube689]

It can be to people prone to addiction, just like sex and gambling.

[@cannabi0]

It’s more personal than the drug itself

[@mikeb8138]

Anthony: True discipline can only come from within, but one way to find your inner discipline is to endure a deeply introspective moment of questioning the fundamentals of your life on this planet. Dave: Sell the car

[@Diesel_mechanic065]

I am in this exact position right now. At 18. Thank you Dave. You gave me some things to think about and how to do them.

[@parsa.n4012]

She seems such a sweet and telneted dady, i hope she have gotten help by now and be in a better place

[@renmcqueen]

All of my friends and neighbors. And they call ME weird because I’m sober, debt free and live simple quiet life

[@zoobrizz]

I can multi task. It’s better

[@RawDogTV]

What are ur vices? We all have them

[@esepaisakid9545]

And you have your nose high

[@jacobklein8156]

Bottom line, you have to think of sobriety as a form of work, you don't have to work all the time, but you can't spend your whole life not working.

[@lexithompson7426]

Nice comment 👍🏼........Where are you from ?

[@andyjarvis37]

"Marijuana is the worst drug in america today"' - Ronald Reagan

[@birthdaycakeremix1]

I like this

[@jackhussain1565]

Who is both high and hungry while watching this??

[@ShroomFactory]

i'm high and eating

[@Peterpet400]

High , hungry n watch 💵 soldiers grow

[@ricklenegan2294]

I'm looking at my bowl and lighter..

[@ShroomFactory]

@@ricklenegan2294 Less looking more toking

[@ricklenegan2294]

@@RawDogTV funny, how do you come to assume either? Your comment however, leads to a few assumptions. BWA HA HA!

[@randynachreiner9620]

Weed addiction is crazy. One commenter raised a good point tho, why isn’t she dealing? 😭😭😭 I do give her props for paying attention to her income and spending tho. That’s HUGE and responsible af to create that awareness

[@yalliahc]

I appreciate their approach and delivery , instead of scolding her. As they said her actions are the consequence of her not caring about herself and other deep rooted issues. Once you work within other stuff can be addressed:resolved 🤎

[@Antony0098]

I'm so glad I talked money with my Wife way before we got married.

[@RawDogTV]

Elaborate

[@ChristianSedaPlays]

Facts I’m doing this now with my girlfriend.

[@itsjay7237]

@@ChristianSedaPlays how i be feelin like its overstepping even though its not cs finances can really make or break a future with a person

[@ab6551]

Was it awkward or was it natural?

[@randomrealestateinvestor1694]

When me and my wife got married we already talked money all the time and we were just confused on why that’s such a problem in relationships. Almost at 100k net worth at 19 and my wife is 20 marriage and relationships is what you make of it. In my opinion it’s amazing but others not so much

[@user-fp8xc8lf3f]

This woman is 10x as brave as most of us

[@QUICKNEASYHANDYMAN]

No

[@crystalhull1677]

Same Valerie, same.

[@Fukinguy69]

Family!

[@RagnarLothbrok2222]

Time to grow up. “Extreme Ownership” -Jocko Willink, read it.

[@owenmead7587]

@@RagnarLothbrok2222 great book, read it about a month ago and loved the principles in the book

[@austinalba4176]

@@RagnarLothbrok2222 will look it up!

[@BrendanEvan]

Atomic Habits by James Clear is also excellent. People who change don’t do it all at once. They do little things over and over. Tiny things. Then slowly your life is totally different over the course of years.

[@sarahzayas2938]

Dave is so patient and kind