“You’re Not Going To Like My Answer"

[@zsryann]

Any time I’m thinking about doing something stupid I just binge watch this channel.

[@3rddegreeburns494]

LOL!

[@Trev_Swen]

🧠

[@lavenderkisses9461]

Legit

[@GinaGrimmer]

Literally why I’m here right now 😂

[@TheKingsOutpost]

lol so true

[@rl1271]

As someone whose lived in both TX and OR. These plp are on crack if they think Oregon has a lower cost of living

[@flygirl2447]

If anyone thinks Oregon cost of living is less than Lubbock Texas cost of living, they are clearly delusional.

[@TheSoulCrisis]

Their math is delusional. 😂

[@Matt-cr4vv]

Dave called that out. That’s either what her in-laws or husband said to justify the move.

[@om617yota8]

I'm in Oregon, moving here to reduce cost of living is a non-starter. Even a fixxer upper home will be $400k+.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Plus the druggie freaks and horrible Leftist legislature.

[@chrismitchell5745]

I'm from Lubbock (same city as caller) and you can buy a fixer upper for like 80-120k 😂

[@debbiejagow8798]

I’m a truckers wife, and him being gone is never easy. My husband is a hard worker, great husband and father.

[@miltoncat]

I have full respect for truckers. People don’t get how hard a life it is.

[@mailmanjoe]

Dude is getting paid peanuts to drive truck. He could be doing so much better. Probably drives for Swift. 😂

[@debbiejagow8798]

@@mailmanjoe 😂😂 He could be!

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Where I worked we had married couples in the nicest big rigs I ever seen delivering Boeing 767/777/787 jet engines to the base. They are there all day unloading and we have overnight/weekend parking areas for them. I would go out there sometimes when I had nothing to do and talk to them. Some of those cabs were almost as long as a school bus with all the comforts of home. Lights,custom paint jobs,chrome wheels,showers,kitchen,internet,etc.compartment for motorcycles,mini cooper,etc.. Couples were also retired,sister/brother,father/daughter,etc.. Some would have their kids or grand kids. Very nice happy bunch.

[@dungeonmaster6292]

How can he if he's always gone

[@millertoyal]

"Did I mention you need to sell that CAR!? Hope I was clear about that." 😂😂

[@Erikkurilla01]

Finance and Business books have been so helpful. I’m 55 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.

[@jessicasquire]

You have done great for yourselves. I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do for me now because I have no idea of how and where to invest in. I would be happy if you could advise me based on how you went about yours, as I am ready to go the passive income path.

[@Lemariecooper]

That is so amazing, I’m trying to get onto the housing ladder at 40. I wish at 55 I will be testifying to similar success.

[@Erikkurilla01]

Credits to STEPHANIE KOPP MEEKS, she saw me through the process. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience.

[@Lemariecooper]

Heard many good recommendations about Stephanie Kopp Meeks by some YT channels, Seminars and other platforms

[@jessicasquire]

Thanks so much I was able to find her page and I already leave her a message.

[@windsongshf]

Before Ramsey we bought a 30K car 10 years ago. Now we're driving a 3K car! (it's the same car, lol!)

[@aolvaar8792]

I bought a $4K truck 50 years ago. Now I drive a 30K truck! (it's the same truck, lol!)

[@windsongshf]

@@aolvaar8792 That's so awesome! Geesh back in 1980, I had a relative who was widowed and sold her husband's '57 red and white chevy hard top convertible. It still looked great and it ran just fine! She got a whopping 300 bucks for it!! 😵‍💫🥴😭🤡

[@MrBrewman95]

That's my plan. Buy a new car in cash and drive it for 10 years until it collapses beyond repair.

[@MB-uy5kh]

@@MrBrewman95my 2000 Toyota Camry is still going strong. I drive very little. It has 70,000 miles. My mechanic says it will last until 200,000. Yay!

[@Hannahnanners123]

As an Oregonian I can't stop laughing at this

[@weswest8666]

Right it ain’t cheap here anymore

[@bailey-k6b]

I took a little trip to Seaside and Portland with my gf last week. Downtown Portland is like the walking dead. Haven't been there in 27 years. Shocked by what I saw: homeless everywhere, smell of urine and homeless everywhere, hardly any one walking around visiting, hardly any restaurants, bars or shops. Un-real. We visited east Portland and walked around, nothing much there either. Lot's of poor renters and empty, old shops. Vancouver, BC seems like heaven in comparison.

[@vanillafutz]

Right!? Aint no way Oregon is cheaper than west Texas. LMAO

[@vickieclark5931]

LOL. So true. When I think of lower priced housing, Oregon is not on the top of my list as one of the best choices.

[@weswest8666]

@@bailey-k6b anywhere outside of Multnomah County is still nice, laws are still enforced too.

[@chookchack]

Its pretty obvious she’s not a listener for so long. A 30k car loan cashing in 40k is insane. Shows how irresponsible people can be. Shout out to the car loan agent. 👏 👏 👏

[@tkleo2006]

Car repo's are viral :(

[@keska01]

"Shout out to the car loan agent" literally made me crack up lool

[@ChiefDLK]

She is probably a listener. Her husband is just a moron and the one making decisions.

[@JustinCase780]

Wants to move from Lubbock to Oregon? 😂 That is bonkers.

[@TheOriginalLugnuts]

Must be Biden voters

[@vicepresidentmikepence889]

They obviously want to live in a place with mild weather and beautiful scenery, and not a place with suffocating heat and humidity, and flat. dull scenery

[@blackonblack...9244]

Lol, don't stop them! Sometimes you gotta feel pain when a bad plan fails.

[@JustinCase780]

@@vicepresidentmikepence889 try listening to the call...they are not in that state if mind whatsoever

[@blackonblack...9244]

​@@vicepresidentmikepence889There's a reason why Lubbock is called the Panhandle of Texas.

[@TxLoneStar817]

I swear if Dave Ramsey ever did stand up comedy id pay for front row seats. (With Cash ofc) 😅😂 He keeps it so real regardless of your feelings.

[@JonathanIvy221]

I would pay with a credit card just to piss him off. And also prove that I don’t need to cut my credit card and rather use credit card over debit and pay in full each week

[@TxLoneStar817]

@@JonathanIvy221 lmfao

[@stealthyman789]

As someone that works as an emt, I hope she realizes starting off as an emt she is going to be making $18-20/hr, especially in Oregon…

[@zimmermanlandscape9287]

What ain’t going to work is blowing 25% of the budget on a car before you even leave

[@deeplansandbudgets]

I live in Texas and currently visiting Oregon. Cost of living is not lower here. It is far more expensive. Gas here is $2.00 per Gallon and Food 35% higher. Rents are way higher here as well. Texas is one of the most affordable States to live. Many other reasons to want to live here, but lower cost is not one.

[@mnoble247]

Wife and I make ~250K a year. Our most expensive vehicle purchase ever was used @ $16K

[@Jose_Jimenez]

Oregon is as expensive as Seattle.

[@johnfelix9803]

there's also state income tax in Oregon where there are none in Texas

[@linuxsurfer2002]

Fixer-uppers can really ding you. Plan on double the estimated price, and triple the estimated time. If you don't have the time and cash for that, don't do it.

[@carlaritchie331]

Glad she called for some reasonable advice. Hope they will follow the guidance and get on the right path to financial stability.

[@texdevildog9174]

She will call back in two years and say that I called two years ago and we are in a mess in Oregon.

[@tashanapink7688]

I think couples should call in together when coming to Dave with questions like this. They both need to hear the answer because one spouse may not communicate the suggestion as well as Dave.

[@IamEnygma]

I always imagined that they would just send a link of the video to the other spouse.

[@insideoutsideupsidedown2218]

“Here is our plan, it is a really bad plan, what do you think, and we are going to do it regardless of what you say.”

[@insideoutsideupsidedown2218]

Edit:They should move to Oklahoma, not Oregon.

[@blackspiderman1887]

These car salesmen sure know how to say the right words to get people to buy

[@jml9550]

That’s only half of the equation. If they think about their finance, they shouldn’t have bought.

[@fuse911]

Not really man all salesman got to do is make sure the monthly payment is affordable enough for the buyer. People just want better and nicer stuff

[@romeoj30]

They probably had zero business at the car dealership to start with.

[@jml9550]

Exactly. Don’t blame others if you made that decision. No one is forcing them to buy at gunpoint

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@fuse911 They do not care about affordable, they care about their commission.

[@martinmi5]

Why would anyone want to leave Texas for Oregon?

[@eatpigsnot]

green spaces?

[@bnorvs5929]

A higher state income tax

[@MrWookie1981]

seasons

[@justkimintheworld6298]

Lol. It would be a cold day in he$$ before I would leave Oregon for Texas. Not only do I live right in between gorgeous mountains and a spectacular coastline but the weather isn't scorching hot so I can actually go outside and enjoy all of the green spaces and the beauty of mother nature year round.

[@sblijheid]

@justkimintheworld6298 And beautifully high taxes?

[@greaterishe7197]

I think Dave is spot on. He doesn't want to do whats necessary to help the household and moving close to his family is to obtain some reprieve.

[@premchettri7170]

This is why, this Show is famous !! Dave in this case is 100% correct + the way he delivered !! None of the other host is capable of facing this call be absolutely right about it !! Fact is Oregon is way more expensive the Lubbock Tx , The are mess of a people. Having 60K savings with 30K car and thinking of moving to Oregon where avg house I was checking in north of 400K, Fixer upper less thn 200K is something his momma may be trying to spare her barn !! kids are among the worst of all callers

[@Shortballa11]

they have 60k savings?

[@bunscita]

Just imagine if therapists gave people 'wake-up calls' like DR instead of affirming their behavior and encouraging them to focus more on themselves.

[@premchettri7170]

​@@bunscita They should do !! I was with therapist for like 2 months.. Didnt like their sweet talk. I am a grown ass man with over a mil buck made on my own.. in low 30s. cut the crap.. I have seen enough of the world to figure out pls.. This is why that mad man show was correct in saying, Once you are in mid 30s you have seen all the diff kinda people and are very fast in analyzing where they belong.. Not a fan of Dave but he has been in shit and crawl on the other side, so he can smell the shit !! his kids and those show host will never be able to match him or talk like him !!

[@chewyskyline1394]

I live in eastern Oregon and believe me there are no fixeruppers for 40k a fixer upper are 100000 and above.

[@Alex-mj5dv]

40-60k HOUSEHOLD income and a vehicle loan of 30k?!

[@MelanCholy2001]

ZERO equity in anything. She has a bio degree and (relatively) low college debt, but she ...wants to be an EMT? And she bought herself a car?

[@neilsmith9066]

It’s the average American now of days. Or it’s 80k income 60k truck

[@penguinc2653]

My cousin makes bout 100k.... also has bout 90k in two cars in debt!...bonkers! 😮 And he wonders why they always short on $ $,, and always renting, i swear some apartment complexes have the nicest cars in their driveways!

[@Sylvia-rp1xq]

Did anyone else catch her say that her plan is go be an EMT, and then go to medical school? I’m rolling my eyes hard af. She’s being completely delusional and planning very far ahead into the future instead of trying to solve her present situation. If she can’t even get herself to enroll in EMT school by September and is waiting until January than she clearly lacks ambition to make it in medical school. I really have no idea how people live in such delusions

[@BabyGators]

Agree. Especially when their total household income is so low

[@BabyGators]

I’m not sure she’s oblivious so much as lazy and entitled. Expecting her husband to bump it up so she can keep sitting at home with the kids.

[@Sylvia-rp1xq]

@@BabyGators yea exactly, and she’s saying that being a biology teacher is not worth paying for daycare. She sounds like a real loser.

[@greenracer319]

And EMT’s make no money and work terrible hours in terrible conditions… not a good plan

[@littlesongbird1]

@@greenracer319 Exactly, she mentions she can be a biology teacher. Why can't she tutor even part time online?

[@ZukoTheShinigami]

"The cost of living will be cheaper in Oregon" -Caller from one of the smallest cities in America

[@nathanl5856]

Do not buy a fixer upper if the requirement to afford the mortgage or construction loan is that the husband has to work all the time and therefore would never have the time or energy to do any of the repairs.

[@ruthirwin8222]

I bought a bungalow and knew it needs a nit of remodleing i had budgeting 15k but it actually 17k, i made many compromises to even get it done for that

[@dc76384]

WOW. College debt, and not working...yet shes scolding her husband for not making enough. Arrogence.

[@ThePrinceAJShow]

Red light going “error error error” 😂

[@peternguyen1911]

She wants to go to medical school? Adding $300,000 on top of what they owe?

[@miltoncat]

Dave: GOOD LORD! 😂 I said the same.

[@dfoster4761]

Sorry, but lol. I know someone in Oregon that wants to move to Lubbock due to cost of living. They are so similar.

[@benjaminsatchell9216]

The title with Dave's face says I have quite the call I am about to experience. 😂

[@teripittman]

Accidently deleted my comment. Cost to move cross country will likely cost more than $3k, as it did for my move. I moved from Wa state to KS in September. Also, there are no cheap places to live in OR anymore. Even in the eastern part of the state, home prices are higher than elsewhere. Cost of living is higher there too.

[@thomasmorrison3279]

I can't imagine Oregon is cheaper than Lubbock, TX. Wife needs a job taday. Fixer-upper = money pit.

[@aolvaar8792]

In 2011, I bought an unmarketable Fannie Mae foreclosure for $50K, 2022 ~$500K It cost me 2 days and $800 to make it marketable.

[@kennymartin379]

I have to agree with Dave on this one

[@BarelyNoticedADD]

Adding messes to messes leads to a mess greater than the sum of the two smaller messes.

[@Bo_Knows_Tecmo]

This lady needs to get a damn job. He is supporting the family and she is trying to say he needs to find the wisdom😂😂😂😂

[@5stringpickin]

She told him he needs to stay gone from home and work more to pay for her 30k SUV while she sets at home all day and watches TV. What a lovely selfless wife.

[@UtotheJ]

Her goal is that she wants to go to medical school? With her approach and discipline, homegirl is going to call back in 2-3 years with 400k in debt and dismissed without a degree.

[@TheMCGamer2012]

5:30 "the next step... That's what husbands have to do..." a few minutes earlier "No I'm not working, maybe January"

[@truthseeker6370]

With a Biology degree, she could work in public health for the State as a scientist- and make way more money than as an EMT... and without the danger, trauma, or crazy shifts. Also County level jobs, or a hospital laboratory.

[@jeanettealfred3054]

SHE DON'T WANT TO WORK 😂😂😂... she talking about continuing education

[@romeoj30]

She’s a perfect example of what most college grads are these days. She got a degree with zero plans. She put her energy into finding a husband, but now she loses sleep over debt! So… let’s spend more money on a crappy house, pay more money to move, accrue more interest on a student loan, and she mentioned going to medical school which starts at $100k+ if she can get in! At some point reality has to factor into this!

[@TheSoulCrisis]

@@romeoj30Fax!!

[@truthserum5310]

A biology degree is about as valuable as a basket weaving degree.

[@truthseeker6370]

@@truthserum5310 not in a medical community. I work in one. That's why I put out the suggestions I did 😊

[@Tashas_Travels]

Ever since I started listening to Dave, I admire brand new cars when people buy them but I will not buy a brand new car myself. I am buying a second hand car cash, for now I walk and sometimes Uber if I’m really tired. I’m even looking at getting a bicycle if that can help cut out transportation at all costs lol 😂. I need to save all the money I can get.

[@bnorvs5929]

As someone who lives in Oregon, this is the worst place I have ever lived😂

[@hedgiegal3340]

She also needs to get off that idea that the husband supports the family. Maybe back in 1950 or on an Amish farm somewhere but not in 2023. It's a partnership.

[@CurieBohr]

She told her husband it’s his job to provide for the family while she sits home and lets the school feed her kids

[@davidpaul9961]

Oregonians are doing the opposite of what she wants to do, for the same reason. Speaking as an Oregonian.

[@xlerb2286]

Yeah, I understand why someone may want out of TX, it's not for everyone. But these days Oregon wouldn't be at the top of my move-to list. Portland used to be such a nice place, I had friends there in the 80's. But times have changed. If they want to save on living expenses I'd take a close look at the midwest. The landscape isn't exotic but there are more opportunities there than people that dismiss it as fly over country realize. It may not be for them either, but if they do decide to move it would be good to look at the options and make an informed decision. Not just go with what uncle George says.

[@Primitive_Code]

How about Idaho, that's a neighboring state and way cheaper. He can visit family in Oregon easily. Boise is right on the border with Oregon and is cheap to live minus the racism 😂

[@bailey-k6b]

@@xlerb2286 Ya I visited Portland last week, what a complete and utter dump

[@the_industriaist]

​@@Primitive_Codethe average house price in Boise is about $600,000 last time I looked it up. I know it has dropped a bit since then. But there are several really nice houses in Lubbock for well under $200k

[@Conservative1001BG]

@@the_industriaistas a Boise native, you’re pretty much correct. Love my hometown but have to leave in a couple of years after I complete my graduate program.

[@janhatcher6991]

I live in Oregon and the cost-of-living is not cheaper here. It is extremely expensive up here so I would rethink this thing.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

40k as a trucker? UPS drivers make double that.

[@om617yota8]

Doubt he's a trucker now, just has his CDL.

[@suen5006]

I would move to Oregon in a minute to get away from the heat!! You couldn't pay me enough to move to a hot as hell state like TX. I'll stay in Western WA.

[@screwdriver_bandit]

This isn’t a cost of living issue it’s an income issue

[@metaltera86]

I wonder what part of Oregon they wanna move to. I live 2 hours south of Portland and there are nice places here but this state is no where near cheap. Just do a simple google search and Oregon is in the top 10 most expensive states to live in. Being above California should give you a clue

[@FTG2Eli]

This caller is smart and kept Dave engaged because he was ready to push the hang up button a few times. 🙂

[@jimroscovius]

It doesn't hang up. It just mutes.

[@jessicahalfmann7218]

This is really weird...No one ever moves from Texas to Oregon.... Lubbock is a nice town. Guns up!

[@Matt-cr4vv]

I can’t help but roll my eyes hearing her say that her husband needs to make the wise choice and take whatever job where he will never be home and how it won’t be comfortable because that’s the husbands duty while she stays at home. A full time income would multiply the cost of child care for one singular child if she really wants to pump up their money but seems ok to just have her husband working day and night to carry the load. If he doesn’t feel that it’s a team effort I’d be worried.

[@stevegolacks8731]

I cant imagine living in a state like Oregon. For many many many reasons

[@kevie1166]

I live in Oregon. Pooey

[@MKK-wg7fz]

Their household income is 60k (yikes) and they have 40k in debt , practically zero savings & they are talking about buying house? Apparently they have never listened to the show.

[@alex5308]

You think Oregon is cheaper than Lubbock TX?

[@diggernash1]

People think they are supposed to be comfortable and happy...that is the problem. We have the right to neither and will likely never have either.

[@marcenelj]

Dude just wanna to move closer to mommy and daddy.

[@Shortballa11]

parents help with childcare and other resources. Nothing wrong with that

[@adamseidel9780]

Closer to the parents is the best argument out of this because it allows her to work without having to pay daycare

[@linuxsurfer2002]

@@adamseidel9780 Only if the parents want that - not all parents want to be full time daycare

[@adamseidel9780]

@@linuxsurfer2002 I agree, I just know she mentioned something along those lines related to childcare

[@lynetteplans7974]

I can't believe someone would think that the cost of living in Lubbock, Texas is more than the cost of living in Oregon. Hubby wants to be close to mommy and daddy.

[@lgrantnelson2863]

I live in Oregon. My advice is don't move here. It's a whole nother can of worms. Not sure trucking is the best job.

[@jloop_2008]

I like the segments where Ken says nothing.

[@im_br0ke]

OUCH.

[@mailmanjoe]

😂

[@ArtaxForever]

Rude, I have issues with Ken's viewpoints but he has insightful stuff to say

[@BlessedOne_91]

Goated commented 😂

[@santieldasavage]

Good ole Daddy Dave

[@AdrianCardoza]

Oregonian here, cost of living is insane! Hope you like state taxes.

[@truthserum5310]

Rumor has it the car wasn't sold, and they enjoy paying the bank 14.97 % interest for 84 months on their depreciating asset.

[@stephengamber7000]

Bought a $30,000 car on their income?!!!

[@neilsmith9066]

Bought a fixer upper 14 years ago I made 25k a year when I bought it, it was a grind but sold it for 130k profit tax free. It’s a grind when your broke replace a window every paycheck but could be worth it.

[@essbenita]

The fact they want him to work more is baffling to me. He's not a machine and there's no relationship if he isnt home

[@jimroscovius]

They didn't say he had to. But she sure does.

[@bygone8676]

"But that's what husband's do" sorry not sorry

[@essbenita]

@bygone8676 I'm not having my husband work to death. I didn't sign up to be a single wife. Please understand I'm not saying the husband shouldn't work but what quality of life is it if you don't spend time together

[@jimroscovius]

@essbenita Truck drivers are away from home. That's the way it is. Don't like it? Don't be a trucker. I do know some truckers who take a kid with them every so often. The kids love it!!

[@jimroscovius]

We both worked and we had kids. Worked out great. The kids loved it. We loved it.

[@jdezziful]

I thought Oregon’s cost of living is high ….

[@jasonmoquin]

Unless his parents are footing the bill for a lot of this, it would be a silly choice.

[@SageKayDee]

“Good lord!” 😅

[@linuxsurfer2002]

Just like most other callers, she is not at all concerned about her debt, but she needs to be.

[@linhaton4957]

She needs to be working. Lots of excuses, no action.

[@acewings221]

Wait so she’s not contributing? Why doesn’t she have a job?

[@midnightblue117]

Because she wants to be a SAH mom.😂😂😂 She’s lazy.. Period!!!!!!

[@weswest8666]

I see a lot of cars on the road with Texas plates here in Oregon

[@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal]

Yeah me too. They made a mistake. Nobody should move here.

[@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries]

Everybody needs to go to work and bring in the $$$

[@djpuplex]

Yup. Maybe that's the reason for the move help with child care.

[@iamthomasgreenman]

Sounds like she’s pushing him to take a job making more but being home less, and he would rather move back to Oregon, closer to family, and “spend less.”

[@magicrehab]

Dave is Raw

[@Shortballa11]

Need advice! Spoke with a good friend yesterday who is married. They owe more than 50k in student loans. Single income home cuz his wife is in law school. They are thinking about buying a house, having kids within the year. And they just bought a 2022 SUV. Finances are killing them, he is miserable. For the past 6 months I’ve lightly told him all these things are bad decisions and yesterday I was as straight up as possible. Anybody have advice on appealing to ppl and getting through to people who are close to you but continue to make bad decisions

[@kagnewcobra5228]

Very rarely can you save someone from themselve.

[@om617yota8]

Keep sending them Dave Ramsey clips. All you can do is lead the horse to water.

[@Shortballa11]

@@kagnewcobra5228 man there has got to be a way. I dont want them having to call in here in 10 years in a much worse situation.

[@bigmike3541]

I can’t imagine questioning my spouse’s “wisdom” to do what’s “uncomfortable” while I’m not contributing anything

[@MelanCholy2001]

I was going to say that being a stay-at-home mom is "contributing" quite a bit if she's really got a BS in biology and only 10K in loans... but she trashed out her husband (we don't hear HIS side) and she's probably the one who, ahem, "needed" the NEW CAR. When they're broke! _She doesn't want to move because the in-laws would "educate" her._

[@Mr_Gabbles]

She could be a teacher (55k) or do an EMT program to make 35k

[@user-hd8ej8yx9p]

And you will never hear Dave Ramsey calling out these types of women who contribute nothing and has the man to do everything because Dave Ramsey is a Simp

[@dudeorduuude5211]

​@@MelanCholy2001the husband seems to be the unrealistic one. You hate women or something?

[@sblijheid]

That's the dumb problem. Since she's not working, he's making all the decisions and they are stupid. One look at the cost of living in Oregon and anyone with a pea sized brain would stay away. Even if his gross pay would be higher in OR, his take home would be less, while having higher costs. They are renting right now. If they move and then decide they can't afford it, and move back to Texas, they would look at a higher rent, all because the husband is emotional and wants to live close to his mommy? Some women are too stupid to put themselves in this position. I may not like feminism, but this is one of the core reasons for it. Yet men complain that women should be more traditional and as soon as they do, they bring up the "you don't have an income, you don't have say" mantra. You call him a responsible father buying a car worth half his income, while being the sole provider? What if he gets sick?

[@paul_domici]

I have 3g in the bank and owe thousands should I buy a house? Dave should've hung up right there and then!!!

[@foedeer]

30K car loan on a 40K income?!

[@arodgefan589]

Lubbock is expensive? Come on.

[@geomodelrailroader]

And Dave would be correct. You don't need a fixer upper if you can't afford it and using the Home Equity Loan is stupid. West Coast states are high rent and the cost of living is through the roof. If she moves to Oregon she will be back in debt and she will be broke. You can not barrow your way out of debt and her plan is stupid and dumb never use the home equity loan when you are moving stay within your means.

[@Brandon-ol1fv]

Uhhhhh Lubbock tx vs Oregon is in no way a cheaper cost of living 😂😂

[@aaronkennedy1090]

dave is advising them to pay cash for their first home lolllll

[@RespekfulFungus]

You live in Lubbock and think Oregon is cheaper?!

[@JinksMcGee]

State income tax of nearly 10% will take a big bite out of your income.

[@kathya1956]

Does she not need teachers certificate to be a teacher?

[@lindacornell7881]

Instant gratification is a big enemy. If you both agree you would like to live in Oregon, that's OK. But going deeper in debt is not the answer. Also, remember, if you can't get along with his family, it will make it harder. Especially when his basis decides on what they think. You be unhappy because you won't have a voice and you be regulated to child statis.

[@mailmanjoe]

She's going to really be hating herself if they follow through with that. If anything the cost of living is definitely lower in Lubbock. I'm personally wanting to move down that way then stay here in salt lake, UT

[@kagnewcobra5228]

Well, then, do it!

[@mailmanjoe]

@@kagnewcobra5228 It's on the agenda. 😊

[@Shortballa11]

family will probably help with childcare. I doubt they regret the move as long as they follow Daves advice first

[@smbanglatutorial7261]

Hey, when will you talk about the real company Cannafarm Ltd that brings profit?

[@junebyrne4491]

Family wants him home so they are misleading them. He is lazy about Job hunting. The whole country needs cdl drivers.

[@danielredziniak2996]

The owner operator is crap right now. All the hindus are taking the crappy pay. A dollar 50 from Michigan to New Jersey.

[@kagnewcobra5228]

Well, 30K cdl folks just hit the market with the closing of Yellow Freight.

[@tdgdbs1]

Not of late; you are two years behind.

[@armandoc2584]

They are definitely not gonna do what he’s telling them lol