Therapist Reacts To: Champagne Problems by Taylor Swift *tangent at the beginning - very emo*

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[@lovingherwasgay]

the detail of saying "til someone's on their *knees* and asks you"... he's not just proposing on one knee, he's BEGGING on *both* knees for her to answer while everyone around them is expecting a reply. you can imagine his desperation as he realizes with every passing second of silence that she's not going to say yes, the moment he goes from one knee to two

[@mendwithmere]

Omg this is everything!! Yes yes yes

[@TheAnastyB]

Oh reminds me of Gilmore girls and Logan’s proposal 💔💔

[@JRay.R]

Literally came here to say some version of this. I just noticed this detail.

[@blueberrypiexx]

ahhh I said this to!! it makes the song even more heartbreaking

[@onlytoankita]

Imagine being Taylor and perform this multiple times every week She's also going through a lot Love and hugs to you both

[@aihsokin]

It's just incredible how Taylor and Joe were in a healthy relationship and were able to create the most heartbreaking song in the middle of a pandemic. Like, how did they do that?

[@mariahmorganti5901]

I think it weren’t that healthy… :(

[@yuns9364]

@@mariahmorganti5901 Yeah i think so too after hearing "you're losing me"

[@knoxlphoenix3522]

The fall out of their relationship is “your losing me” but the start of the problem was the “Question…?”

[@ericamorg722]

when i think of “your midas touch on the chevy door” i think it means: everything midas touched turned gold. it may have been pretty, but those things don’t work anymore- they can’t serve their original purpose, they’re rendered useless. this means that their relationship may have looked good from the outside but wasn’t actually working.

[@Sitting_on_a_perch]

Yes! He couldn’t eat bc the food was gold and he when he went to hug his daughter she turned into a golden statue as well

[@auraquartz5575]

I know everybody sees this song as a sad song, but I personally see it as a lesson, a lesson to not put pressure on the person that you want to ask to marry you, because otherwise they feel uncomfortable to say their true answer. For example, it’s like going to a football game and having the whole stadium what you propose and the other person would feel so uncomfortable that they have to say yes to either save your reputation or something. I think the lesson is basically if you’re going to engage with somebody, don’t tell everybody about it, don’t make it a massive public affair because it will make the other person feel like they can’t give an answer without being destructive.

[@zac_con]

Glad to hear that your healing is going well, and I hope your physical heath gets better soon! Just a bit of a random recommendation loosely based on what you were talking about in the beginning. Graceland Too (Phoebe Bridgers) is the best platonic love song I’ve ever heard, and I think it would make a great reaction video, and I of course would love to see your reaction to it! Edit: Crazy coincidence… I only saw the part where you talked about Elvis after I posted this, and ‘Graceland Too’ is partly related to Elvis’ home ‘Graceland’.

[@mendwithmere]

Wow!! That’s the powerful synchronicity that I believe it! I’ll definitely check it out! Love the Elvis connection. Do you think it’d be good for members only or everyone?

[@zac_con]

⁠@@mendwithmere To be honest, I think that’s up to you. I think that ur reactions benefit many people who watch them, so I think if I could choose I would want everyone to see all of ur reactions 😂, but I understand that’s not really feasible now that you have started memberships. If you do decide to react to this and make it a members only reaction, that may be enough motivation for me to join though, as I haven’t joined yet… 🤣

[@kellypritchard6516]

Hey, scrolled through the comments and no onehas said it so i will. In an interview Taylor said that the song is based on the relationship between Rory and Logan in gilmore girls, but in hindsight theres sooo many things in here that could be reflective of Taylor and Joe's relationship. But the way she describes the proposal is just like it plays out in Gilmore Girls.

[@OliviaNasstrom-ll1ks]

I love that both Lana and Taylor have used the line "one for the money two for the show"

[@PaulaMitchell-xg7mp]

So did Elvis, it is an old adage.

[@maryclark6661]

Listening to this reminds me of the line “ I was a functioning alcoholic until no one noticed my new aesthetic” she was always out partying during the lovers era there’s even a meme and video of “drunk Taylor, and then after that is folklore and evermore which is a completely different aesthetic and sound than her previous albums. Completely different than what ppl are used to very poetic and somber.

[@sandatsinfetchly2539]

My interpretation: on the line "your hometown skeptics called it, champagne problems" as in they predicted the end of this relationship "they called it" and that speculation makes part of the whole thing that the narrator is calling champagne problems, assuming (with strong reasons) that everybody outside the relationship thinks that these are problems that are not hurtful and probably don't cause any pain, when in reality it's the other way around

[@ava2649]

This is my favourite song so im really excited about this

[@mendwithmere]

yay!!

[@jimenae9316]

I love this song but why don't people talk about the fact that the guy ignored all of the signs. She is being honest, she never loved him in the way he needed. Even if she says "til someone's on their knees and asks you," she also says she never took his hand while dancing, left him standing, and he ignored that. I'm thinking they were the kind of couple everyone expected and to a certain degree influenced them to be together. He took it seriously while she only went along until he proposed and that's when she just couldn't continue with it. She feels bad but she knows she did the right thing. And eventually he moved on and found someone who held his hand and stayed with him. More than the romantic relationship, to me it feels like she's mourning a friendship and a status quo. Does anyone agrees? Or did I misunderstood that part of the song.

[@Elisabethensy]

Agree! And your comment reminded me of Getaway car. She didn't mean it and he didn't see it...

[@theStef23]

I’m glad you did this song! When I first heard this I was so sad but I loved the song, I can relate like many to “She would've made such a lovely bride What a shame she's fucked in the head”

[@mendwithmere]

That lyrics is so powerful!

[@TheAnastyB]

Folklore and Evermore is loosely based on real life, I think there are parallels with their relationships but not to the t. Otherwise, loved your reaction and overthinking too - you definitely got something there with Elvis 🙏🏼💜✨

[@mendwithmere]

definitely agree. it just makes me sad that they wrote it together so it probably takes her back to creating that art together. I feel like that would be really painful.

[@TheAnastyB]

@@mendwithmere oh 100% 💔

[@mohitmoudgil7527]

There so much change happening in my life and it's so chaotic. Watching your videos gives me so much calmness. It feels like I'm having a conversation with you

[@friendlyneigborhoodbean]

Hope everything calms down in your life soon ❤️

[@crystalkadletc1944]

This is one of my favorite songs, Taylor has written. It’s so sad and beautiful at the sametime.

[@MS-bs8dd]

Taylor? I think she said Joe was a co-writer

[@katiarose2428]

Mere - You look lovely, as always. Thank you for having the strength to review this song. It's one of my favorites. Taylor's poetry sometimes contain many layers, and you're able to plummet the depths more than most. Always interested in your take on her songs, and find your insights valuable. Keep doing what you need to take care of you. Sending you peace and love. 💖🕊️

[@hannahfreya2326]

Love everything you post! Your analysis is so detailed, and your empathy, so apparent.

[@mendwithmere]

Thank you!!

[@brsixtn]

You really gave your best analysing this one. I'm glad for every single video and for your humanity. I feel you like a friend, your videos really help me. You don't have and idea how many people you make the day better, even when is such a bad day

[@karenpaolalopes9524]

Lots of love to you Mere! What an amazing human being you are!! You are an inspiration!!

[@joaolifesimulator3226]

I'm so proud of you and I feel special for being here kinda early on your Journey!

[@bellaviolet20]

New subscriber here! I’m a Swiftie so I’ve slowly been checking out your Taylor content but I definitely want to watch more because I love your analyses. I’m so glad you did this song because I really like it but it’s been hitting me hard since I’ve been dealing with the end of a relationship (haven’t watched your whole reaction to You’re Losing Me yet for that reason). Anyway, thanks for the content and for your vulnerability. I appreciate it and it makes me feel a little less lonely. Also, when she says, “Your hometown skeptics called it,” I first read it as “they called it,” as in they said it wasn’t going to last, perhaps because of the “champagne problems.” Maybe it’s because of the way she pauses before the chorus but that’s how I read it as well as the way you interpreted it.

[@jrm4625]

Her song writing in Folklore and Evermore is just unmatched. This song in particular is written so well that I am STILL clinging to the lyrics years after listening no matter where I am, what I’m doing during the day, no matter what year it is.

[@liviaahmad]

love ur reactions, Mere. hope ur doing well, u deserve all the best!

[@justshakeitoff1989]

I hope this channel is a happy community for you! Also I LOVE THIS SONG

[@gabriellacibran8194]

I have been going through a rough time this year. I was able to overcome it with the help of friends but it took me eight months to heal. I am doing a lot better now but sometimes little things still make me remember what things we could have had. I hope your health gets better soon and that things get better for you with time.

[@tiff5756]

I think when she says “mad house” she’s referring to a mental health facility and saying it’s made for her because the speaker feels they struggle with their own mental health

[@FrenchRedHawk2011]

I was born in WV, too! Grew up in SE Ohio. Feel better and get rest.

[@3Chinchillaboys]

I didnt know the Elvis lyric. I only knew it as the children's rhyme. She turn her favorite turn of phrase at the end. The entire rhyme is: one for the money, two for the show, three to make ready and four to go. Children have used this little poem since the mid-1800s as a countdown to starting a race or competition.

[@breebee83]

I am on a mend with mere rabbit hole...so a lot of comments. But so much about this. Thisbhas been my favorite song of hers since my first listen. I think this is what made me resonate wirh her as an artist. You highlight a lot of points, which has been my heartache over the years.

[@HM-rw5dz]

I can't wait till next pay day to join the membership. It's worth it for you and Taylor...and Lana!! I have so much to say hearing this as told from a "rich perspective"... I've got to start journaling but would love to analyze Taylor lyrics

[@HM-rw5dz]

With others.

[@anam3584]

14:41 also in Million dollar man Lana says One for the money Two for the show I love you honey I'm ready I'm ready to go

[@user-bo4rr3we7k]

This song had a big personal meaning for me too . Except I was the rejected .I was married for three days. It provides a weird comfort .and people saying the problems are trivial " champagne problems " does happen . And another angle sometimes the most selfless thing a person can do is break up when they believe they will only cause the other person pain with their current mental health issues .

[@willn9568]

Really appreciate this reaction. Deep insight. Thoughtful take on champagne problems, on crestfallen, on the Elvis reference. It’s great

[@3Chinchillaboys]

I think of Champagne Problems as a situation where you expected to celebrate, or thought things were going to go really well, and then everything fell apart instead. He expected to be celebrating with champagne, but instead was heartbroken.

[@mattgreg0307]

Hey mere!!! Great reaction btw ❤️ how long are the videos up for members only before they get released to the rest of KZbin? Just curious 🥰

[@mattgreg0307]

[@bmacd13]

Lana also references Blue Suede Shoes in Million Dollar Man, and refs Elvis in Body Electric

[@justinjay2318]

I love when she did it live on Eras

[@jillsandwich131]

Taylor used the metaphor of dancing to mean relationships all the time and i find that so interesting. "Dropped your hand while dancing" we were in a relationship and i broke up with you. She mentions dancing a lot in her songs and i think its a very clever metaphor

[@nicoletabulai8764]

Like in Dancing with our hands tied. We surely need a DWOHT analysis

[@Moonsong_]

Woah, I’ve never really understood the meaning behind this song. Thank you❤

[@hannah.1989]

Yassss another TS vid!!!! Queen behaviour

[@mendwithmere]

Love her! Much more coming! I know it’s been Lana heavy

[@Nico_lente]

A shredded tapestry can perhaps be patched up, but you'll always see it once was damaged. Ouch indeed. Lovely reaction and all the best to you :hugs:

[@meg_th3_ant1_h3ro]

As far as this song goes, I think Taylor may struggle with an addiction to alcohol. Maybe not an every day kind of thing, but more so a binge kind of situation. I mean, there are many songs in which she mentions alcohol in an addictive manner. What do you all think about that?

[@MS-bs8dd]

I have no idea, wouldn’t venture to guess. I’ll only say having an alcohol addiction at some point and often in the early years but not always is so common. It’s a good saying: “I keep my side of the street clean.” Prioritize your own health / sobriety / wellness.

[@sonicroll3000]

she did admit she had an alcohol problem recently so you're not wrong there.

[@meg_th3_ant1_h3ro]

@@sonicroll3000 Oh…I actually didn’t see or hear anything about her saying that. I know she spoke up about an eating disorder she once struggled with, but I haven’t heard anything about her addressing an alcohol issue. Where/When did she disclose this? Do you have an article or video link?

[@meg_th3_ant1_h3ro]

@sonicroll3000 She hasn’t addressed it personally, but being a big Swiftie, I’ve listened and analyzed pretty much most of her songs, and she mentions consuming alcohol, liquor, “drinks,” being drunk, and various alcoholic beverages an alarming amount of times. Before I get into it though, I have to preface this by saying I’m in no way diagnosing her. That’s not my job. But, I’ve had experience with family and friends, and it’s awfully familiar. Now, there are a couple in “1989,” but from “Reputation” through “Midnights” she makes it quite clear she likes to drink…or maybe she doesn’t “like” to drink so much as she uses drinking as a coping mechanism. And as her albums progress, it seems her penchant for not only drinking, but actually getting drunk seems to be the overall goal. I’d also add she uses references to alcohol, and drinking/being drunk in her lyrics when something unfortunate has happened to her, when she’s singing about depression, or when she needs a means to escape whatever emotions and negative thoughts she can’t or won’t process at the time feeling them or thinking about them. It seems to me that later, after she sits through an issue, uncomfortable emotion, and/or defeatist thought and becomes more settled, then she writes these lyrics in hindsight. So, from “Rep” through “Midnights” those particular words or a certain type of alcoholic beverage is referenced around 25 times give or take a couple. Also, if you haven’t already, check out the song “this is my trying,” from her “folklore album. It speaks to AND ties together all of the reasons I stated above as to why I feel she’d use alcohol as a means to check out of real life for a little while. Another example would be the “Anti-Hero” video. Plus, you can just Google it and all kinds of graphs and articles pull up. 😊

[@mariai.3918]

I was thinking about it the other day! So many drinks and drunk moments! I think Delicate was the first time we heard about it (you can make me a drink) and then Getaway Car (Old Fashioned) and then the entire Lover Album is full of alcohol references!

[@leelu1759]

I don’t know about anyone else, but this song gives me Rory and Logan vibes so much

[@floosierhyme668]

love u mere

[@robstanley9779]

It's so strange going back to your childhood bedroom. I was back at mine a couple of months ago and had the worst nightmares about things 20 years gone. We didn't talk about it but my mum had put an extra pillow on the bed the next night 🥹

[@mendwithmere]

It’s so so strange. I find myself reverting back to old ways and more irritable than usual. It’s hard

[@user-kx5wj6nc7d]

Going thru that right now. He told me he loved ask me to marry him rings and all. Then out of the blue ended the relationship kicked me out gave away my puppy. Keep me from getting my belongings. That was in the beginning of December. He was getting a big inheritance three days after kicking me out. He knew I did not care about the money. He broke every promise he made, so many lies. He still six months later he is still trying to hurt me is hurting me. I never did anything to him to him. We had been best friends since 2003. We decided trying to be a couple and I moved in January 2023. Then in the beginning of December one night he asked me to plan our honeymoon. The next morning he ended the relationship and put me on the street.

[@rafaelpinheiro4195]

Loved this!!! I didn't listen to Taylor before your videos, but you really made me like her! Thank you! Please, do Billie Eilish as well. She has really good lyrics and I think you'll enjoy her :)

[@danameyer9198]

I always struggled with champagne problems and her description of what feels like more champagne problems.

[@Elisabethensy]

Now that you're talking about alco problems, I'm thinking about Fortnight 😮 there she says she was a functioning alcoholic...

[@_sergio._148]

I think that "one for the money, two for the show, i never was ready so i watch you go" It also references lana del rey's Million dollar man "one for the money, and two for the show, i love you honey, im ready to go"

[@priiifrg]

Interesting

[@AsiaKishai]

You always shaking your head like "no no no its not okay at all" 😂❤

[@TAYLORZACHLANA]

I feel like this is about T and K. There was this magazine they were in that said “two for the show” or something and if it was anyone else I’d feel like it was coincidence but knowing Taylor she loves her Easter eggs

[@rturney6376]

“You had a speech 🎤 and your speechless”. Tay is brilliant!!!

[@itsmadds19]

i feel like taylor wrote this about selena and justin's relationship she has said she's written songs about friends and their lives and the song matches up so well with what happened during that time

[@ashleywurm6350]

Yoooooo that makes so much sense

[@claudiabcarvalho]

Taylor hates Justin, she would never portray him like that.

[@a.a677]

it's about karlie bye

[@anja8510]

I also think this. Despite the fact that she may not like Justin, I think she is able to see both sides of the story. Additionally, I believe that the song 'happiness' is the continuation of 'champagne problems.'

[@julialara609]

what a sooonnng! so happy to hear your thoughts about it ❤

[@strawmuncher]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE do “I know” by fiona apple next !!!!! a lyrical masterpiece that will leave u emotionally wrecked

[@di380]

That is very good interpretation of the song.

[@alissaahlemeyer2042]

This song is so amazing and I’m thinking this song is a person is not ready for the next step

[@ItsRodolfoSousa]

I'd love to see a reaction of Ronan or the moment I knew both by Taylor

[@aasthasharma8392]

The switch from "My picture in your wallet" to "Her picture in your wallet" is devastating

[@tastelikepepsicolaa]

you’re my comfort person 🤍 ily so much

[@thevilkids]

Such a sad song 😢😢😢😢.

[@mendwithmere]

It really is

[@haydenswords]

Aaaaa i love your videos so much you’re so cool and sweet

[@stephaniepritchard1049]

Can you do an analysis on Drops of Jupiter please? I love your videos, thank you ❤. Chosen families are a beautiful thing. Ive always said that you are born with blood family, but as you get older you choose who you want in your family.

[@Artdeco_bby]

My bff lives on the Ohio/ West Virginia border. It’s such a different area, in comparison to the city!

[@shantipadilla7935]

It paints a story if you listen back to Folklore’s Track 1: The One I'm doing good, I'm on some new shit Been saying "yes" instead of "no" I thought I saw you at the bus stop, I didn't though It would've been you In my defense, I have none For never leaving well enough alone But it would've been fun If you would've been the one I, I, I persist and resist the temptation to ask you If one thing had been different Would everything be different today?

[@thefabledfish]

Thank you for the reaction! And you’re still plenty professional- we’re for insight, not sleeves! 🤗

[@knoxlphoenix3522]

The writing skills are on point. Present - past - future Your mom's ring in your pocket My picture in your wallet To Your mom's ring in your pocket Her picture in your wallet

[@monpetitm]

I also thought of the "your hometown skeptics called it champagne problems" as if the rejected person's hometown friends, or those who knew the couple, called it "champagne problems" because in their minds the rejection is just a typical problem in couples that'll be resolved; a bump in the road, an obstacle that in the future will be resolved and just stay as a not big of a deal in comparison to those worse problems they have. Though your interpretation seems much more plausible tbh, I think they could complement each other

[@aasthasharma8392]

Midas touch on the Chevy door can also be interpreted like once the car is turned to gold it's useless, it doesn't serve its purpose. So Midas touch was not always a good thing

[@ryanmiley]

Am I the only one who thinks it’s just a sticker from Midas car maintenance place? Lol I had a Midas Touch on my ford haha

[@tiff5756]

Please do Castles Crumbling! It’s a vault track from speak now and I think it’s one of the saddest songs she’s done

[@mendwithmere]

Just about to record it!!

[@nashwagemakers]

❤

[@mendwithmere]

[@myopia2020]

I was teased (mostly by my sisters) for liking Elvis!😊

[@mendwithmere]

😂

[@SaraIsFangirling]

Also maybe the person that proposed thought they would fix the other person’s issues by marrying them, and it is heartbreaking but it’s also good that they got turned down cus then they’re going to find that “real thing”

[@connorburnett07]

awesome :)

[@mendwithmere]

❤

[@somuchsavv]

Ahhhhhh I’ve been waiting for champagne problems! As a fellow Ohio girly hiiiiiiiii 😍👋🏼 except I’m southern Ohio in cincy lol! I’m also dying bc around 2nd grade I too went through a huge Elvis phase so much so that I begged my mom to bring me to Graceland bc I needed to stand in the same place as Elvis had before. 😂 Actually unhinged when I look back at how much I loved the king!

[@mendwithmere]

omg that is CRAZY!! How was Graceland? I've never been. Did you go to the Taylor concert in Cincy over the weekend? Thank you for watching!

[@somuchsavv]

@@mendwithmere Graceland is amazing! It’s sad that Lisa Marie and Pricilla fought so much over it. Ugh, I wish! We got last minute tickets… paid and arm and leg and got scammed. In the process to try and get KC or Denver tickets. My outfit is too good not to be at the Eras Tour!

[@stevec6002]

Mere, I thought you went to the ERAS Tour...wouldn't you already have heard this song?

[@rturney6376]

We know Tay Tay could never take a train to hide 😂😂😂❤

[@timamaed]

Sorry, Im not member, but I was already able to watch the video when it wasn't available to standard users. Looks like you posted it public first and sorry again, cause Im embarrassed that Im not member, but have access to this video beforehand🙏

[@jamioles7515]

I’ve always felt this is a song about Selena and Justin - she often sings about her friends

[@user-kx5wj6nc7d]

You have great friends. I just retreated and am talking to know one as I go thru my divorce.

[@runwonderland5777]

omg, next song is coney island* pls

[@justshakeitoff1989]

The way I see it is that for such an expensive bottle used for a happy purpose (celebrating) it comes with tumultuous problems when abused. I think their relationship was cause for a celebration but when abused it was problematic.

[@grettaoltjer]

I never interpreted this song as the narrator having mental health issues. Rather she was in a relationship and when she was proposed to, she couldn’t imagine spending her life with that person. Only when he was proposing, she realized it’s not the right fit, he loved her more than she did, even though there was no actual definable reason to say no and nobody understood why she said no, she just wasn’t ready and she couldn’t see the relationship going this far with that particular person. Sometimes people in a relationship are in different places. One is ready, the other is not… one wants to get married, the other one wants to focus on their career and doesn’t want to move the relationship forward… and maybe the champagne problems refers to everyone else thinking that the feeling she was lacking when he proposed was a pseudo problem, a champagne problem, it wasn’t real, just a spoiled girl wanting it all… that was always my interpretation of the song anyway. She really hurt him, crushed him, but one day he will find a girl who will love him the same way, who can heal his wounds and make him forget her frivolous reasons for turning him down (or her champagne problems, if you will).

[@angelas.g.9848]

Her and Joe wrote this together.

[@rturney6376]

I am confused she didn’t want to get married and in her recent song 🎧 “I wouldn’t marry me either”. Is it about KK?

[@jillsandwich131]

Seems like something went down between those two re marriage.

[@TAYLORZACHLANA]

I feel like a lot of folklore and evermore is about Karlie. Specifically Betty. (Taylor is James bc she was named after James Taylor and betty is Karlie) Karlie’s middle name is Elizabeth that shortens to betty. The whole song makes sense after that

[@rturney6376]

@@TAYLORZACHLANA me too 🌻🙌🌻🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️ The one ☝️ that got away 🤔

[@midnights3442]

can you PLEASE react to growing sideways by noah kahn

[@aidenrushing9841]

I get the Elvis vibes. My ultra-religious parents would shut down so many different artists and lyrics. But this one was never criticized. Weird. TLDR I remember hearing this lyric in the moment and thinking "why do my parents approve of this line over all the other lines." Especially as a published author. lol!!

[@hcrsongbird74]

I've always interpreted this song as a woman who loved this man but who did not fit into his world, and his family and friends never completely accepted her and therefore blamed her for any issues they may have had. (IE, there's no possible reason for "a woman like her" to turn down "a man like him," so she must be even more fucked in the head than they had previously surmised.) He never had to reflect, introspect or really look at their relationship objectively, so he missed a lot of important details that led to this botched proposal.

[@aaarcg]

I think this is totally fictional. She said they both liked sad stories, and they wrote it together when they were still together, and in a good place.

[@meg_th3_ant1_h3ro]

I love you so much, Mere! Please take care of yourself…You deserve it and you’re worth it! And please know that with us, you can also just be your true, authentic self and show your feelings good, bad, and ugly and know we accept you and honor what you’re going through. Please take great care of YOURSELF. 🫶🏼

[@LewisEthridge_95]

it is sadder thinking of "i wouldn't marry me either" in You're Losing Me

[@fitiaratsirarson6781]

Taylor: You’re heart was glass, I dropped it Me:😱 Why the hell…? Also Taylor: I was never ready so I watched you go Me:💔 TAYLOR HERE YOU REALLY CROSSED THE LINE!!!!

[@ryanmiley]

Or ya know maybe he got his oil changed at Midas and has the sticker? Lol or could be the gold thing as well or both

[@pointerlover3492]

I don’t think Blue Suede Shoes has anything to do with her song.

[@Eiko286]

Wait!!! You haven't done this one before.😲

[@brucebrown3837]

Did you misread the lyric or just mispronounce the word, she'll patch up the tapestry that I "shred"

[@ss-mk5bt]

Starts from 4:44 thank me later

[@pauldubois4668]

This album was deliberately not autobiographical