Therapist Reacts To Don't Reach For Me By Knocked Loose

Therapist analyzes the lyrics from Knocked Loose's new single Don't Reach For Me to discuss how people can use this song to come back to a place of stability when they have the desire to reach for someone who is not good for them. Instead of singing it at the person with anger, they can sing it at themselves as a reminder.
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[@StephenJPilat]

this song gave me major goosebumps the first time i heard it. pure unfiltered rage yet so damn catchy, a real balancing act that knocked loose pulls off perfectly.

[@toxicbanana9923]

The band adding more choruses to their songs is such a great fucking move

[@mattroden4544]

Frontman Bryan Garris explained the track “may be the meanest song I’ve ever written.” He added that it’s a takedown of “someone who tried their hardest to come into my life and mess with two out of the three closest people I have.”

[@lastat10]

was this on a podcast or post?

[@kingchuckfinley]

@@lastat10podcast

[@patrickadams4598]

Basically the best therapist ever.

[@jamesbuck11]

Do some Alice In Chains please!!!!

[@Chinatsudragon]

Shivers on that chorus every single time. Unfiltered, unbridled catharsis.

[@Hooliganius]

This album is already AOTY and it's not even out yet!

[@danatheman7690]

As a person with a lot of religious trauma, I’m so pumped for this album.

[@KyleHarmer]

Hell yes

[@BK_ZERO]

SAME. That shit is gonna be so cathartic to listen to

[@lastat10]

Same man, I have been deconstructing & healing for over 12-15 years and I still find myself discovering new scars. Hearing music and lyrics like this is so fucking validating.

[@BK_ZERO]

@lastat10 Feel exactly the same. Wishing you strength and healing mate

[@lastat10]

@@BK_ZERO thank you, you as well!

[@NogrimStoneson]

"don't reach for me" immediately made my mind jump to drowning people, how they latch on to the person trying to rescue them, usually drowning their rescuer in the process.

[@dancoots8225]

Religion is a sinking ship and they’re putting everyone on notice.

[@dodgyhida7914]

Same.. and then drowner ends up surviving and the rescuer dies 😖

[@OhWord3]

i would LOVE LOVE LOVE if you’d do their EP “A Tear in the Fabric of Life”. It’s a short concept EP with an incredible story that needs your analysis. it also has an accompanying animated video that goes with the whole album that just adds to the story and atmosphere. PLEASE!

[@hansolo12p27]

I second this

[@dearillstaygold]

🙋‍♂ here too

[@ProjectileComet]

Same here, their best work imo

[@trthegreat91]

i agree. this would be incredible

[@McIntosh.R]

Please!!

[@Perceptionisreal]

Generally by the fourth album of bands like this they’ve slowed down, started singing cleans about their feelings and shit. This band just gets heavier and heavier with every drop. So refreshing.

[@rybo0072]

From the singles we've had so far their seems to be a theme in the lyrics which leads me to believe its a concept album which i love when bands do that 🔥

[@Josiah_Cornett]

I don’t think it’s a concept. I think it’s about his experience with cult like fundamentalist churches. Based on my experience and the type of stuff they’re talking about. I could be wrong, though

[@narlom1520]

I think it will be a concept album because of how abrupt the song starts and ends. They did this for Laugh Tracks too.

[@mangopie7602]

This makes me think slaughterhouse 2 will be about the megarich pastors with their megachurches which are so obviously corrupt yet people still fall for these fake christians

[@x93tilinfinityx]

@@narlom1520that might just be because it’s a single. Let’s see how it’s laid out once it’s on full record

[@mangogoat4691]

I believe the album isn’t a concept album it just has heavy religious themes

[@charmychong-zz1tu]

Hi Heartsupport! In Bryan, the vocalists announcement post of their album- he stated that the album is inspired from his dilemma regarding his religion-

[@Mahbeiserts]

I devoted 20 years of my life to a fundamentalist evangelical church. I taught, did sound, etc. Got fucked over by our abusive, controlling pastor. I slowly realized that it was all bullshit. He used the Bible to control us. We hurt a lot of good people in my time there, all in the name of God and salvation. People that were vulnerable and hurting. My family feels like I betrayed them because I left the church. I feel every word of these last two songs with all of my heart. Read the lyrics thinking of that context. I don’t know if that’s his meaning but it fits well for me. Great reaction!

[@mangopie7602]

I really dont understand these kind of people... Justifying their evil through the bible by removing half its context. The hypocrisy is insane. Their only last destination is hell.

[@HeartSupport]

From toastaintbad: @Mahbeiserts Hi @HeartSupport_Fans, Religion can be scary sometimes because the pastor can influence and manipulate you. Each pastor is different but not all them are evil. I do see a few pastor that help others like running a charity or food pantry. I used to go to church due to private school and it traumatize me ever since. They forced me to sing worship songs. I can relate to your post about feeling lost and confused. People have no clue that religion can impact someone's lifestyle. These days I feel most pastors these days are preaching things that aren't from the Bible. There are pastors that want their followers to donate money so they can live in a mansion like Pastor Kenneth Copeland. You may feel betrayed by your family that you left church. I feel that you made a good decision. I'm super proud of you. It must have been hard to leave your family behind. You need to do what makes you happy. Religion isn't bad because it helped people live a good moral life. However, don't make religion like it's part of your personality & lifestyle. I love how songs can helps us reflect our own emotions. It's okay to cry or be upset with certain songs. Music can be interpreted in different meanings.

[@lastat10]

Same brother, spent 2nd grade till my early 20's lead music. I feel like I wasted so many years of my life.

[@HeartSupport]

From DyllonKG: @Mahbeiserts Hey hey friend. Thanks for commenting here and talking about this. Religion is one thing but when beliefs shatter a family - that must be so difficult to deal with. You mentioned in your post that you dedicated 20 years of your life to that church and that your pastor was controlling and abusive, manipulating scripture to control and inevitably hurt people. On top of the betrayal there, your decision to leave the church created a rift between you and your family that likely still lingers with you today. First off, I want to say that Im sorry. I know what it's like to cut ties with family, though mine is different, it's a specific pain. And it's a specific anger that rises in the back of your throat. I imagine that maybe you felt like you were genuinely the bad guy for a time. Perhaps you questioned if your family was right. Perhaps you ended up isolated and alone, betrayed once by the church and once by your family. I cant imagine how hard that must be. How hard it must be to find trust for others. I am sorry friend. While I myself am not religious, my partner was raised in a fundamentalist church and has done a lot of deconstructing in her time since. That's her story to tell though. What I will say is that it's one hell of a journey, to an observer. From defiant rage to acceptance, and anywhere in between it seems like one hell of a journey either way. I'm not sure where you stand on faith or the delineation between faith and church - but I hope you know that you;'re not alone in that. The betrayal you've experienced is one so many people have felt, especially LGBTQ youth in specific states here in the country. You sound like you've come along in your healing journey. Discovering music to help cope is so powerful and after reading the lyrics to this song, they seem to fit perfectly for those days where you really need a catalyst to get that energy out. That being said, I hope it is just that as there is a level of aggression in the song. Though I trust that you have a level head about these things. On broken bonds and broken communication with family - I get that. I dont speak to my parents much anymore, though this is primarily due to their behavioral patterns more than their believes. But regardless, it can be hard. I see loving families in movies and TV or see the relationship my partner has with her family and it's a gut punch. Though over the last decade, it's gotten easier as I've worked through a lot of it in therapy. I hope that either your family can bridge that gap or you can embrace found family some day that helps you through those moments that you want to share. You deserve that. You deserve kindness and love and joy and I hope you find it my friend. Im proud of you for standing your ground and doing what is best for you. Hold fast and take care of yourself, ok?

[@Kr00ked32]

My most anticipated album of the year so far!

[@bepperson2012]

You reacting to this, after just discovering you yesterday - immediate subscriber, thanks for the content!

[@HeartSupport]

glad you're here

[@dodgyhida7914]

I love this therapists reaction to this song.. literally my reaction too, after the initial head banging and enjoyment.. listening to it on repeat the lyrics melted into my brain and made me feel or sorts of unsurfaced anger. For what I thought I healed from, brought me back intense feelings but not in a bad way but a solidified anger. Like guilt, shame and regret can lead to painful anger but this time it felt so good.. like healed and justified. “Don’t reach for me” means I’m so done with you for good, like the therapist said, I’m grounded now. Like the lyrics, “returned to form” and free of you forever 🔥🤘🏽

[@avonlythe1588]

You gotta check out Currents. Songs like "Withered", "Monsters", "Better Days" or "Over And Over" have hit me in feels in a way it's hard to describe. Well, pretty much everything from them resonates with me so, so much. Like, "The Way It Ends" feels like a soundtrack to my own turmoil at this point. Love these guys!

[@XavierMacX]

Absolutely this.

[@jamminwithjam]

Taylor’s giddiness and joy listening to the track is sooo wholesome 😍

[@avgppltalking]

I’ve been in therapy for many years for religious abuse and trauma stemming from my parents. They used their radical evangelical beliefs to stifle my personality and intellect. So much of this song hit both what you said regarding the negative relationship which I have since walked away from, but also the extreme catharsis of wishing I could remove their tongues to stop them from spreading their lies. Would love to chat with you, perhaps for content as I’m also a creator about the duality in this song. I’ve listened 50 times in a week.

[@SpeedyMckeezy]

Never seen a more excited reaction!

[@rmvmoose27]

I love your reaction to this song. The big smile on your face and the way you rock out is awesome! It reminds me why super heavy music makes me feel so happy and purge out any negative feelings I’m holding. Immediately subscribed!

[@cococurie2322]

i love the engagement and the pure enjoyment you get from listening to heavy music. totally infectious

[@renndeath]

This has to be the coolest therapist ever!

[@NogrimStoneson]

really like the new format, seeing you jam out is awesome lol.

[@RJNewbz]

I just saw these guys live and omfg it was insane

[@nicolek3930]

This is the first video I’ve watch of yours, and I am obsessed with your reaction!! I feel like that’s exactly how I look when I listen to metal😂 and I love knocked loose so much 😭🙏

[@Cx_Howlett]

This guitar and drums together sound like fucking explosions. And it’s fantastic

[@Reddline198X]

This was an awesome video and a great analysis too! Watching your reactions to some of the bits was great because I could tell the therapist gears were turning like "There's a lot to unpack here but that can wait til I'm done headbanging" 🤘😁

[@russfed1120]

So many things I am interested and care about blended into one channel. This is amazing, psychological takes on metal/hardcore. Liked and subscribed!

[@bradkohl99]

I’m so excited for this album to come out.

[@craigroberts6374]

Oldham County, KY! These young fellas rock.

[@chevellefan12]

the fact you picked this one HELL YEAH XD

[@Liaaaam]

New knocked loose and Poppy dropped!!

[@TheGamingWard]

This is probably the most fun reaction to this track ive seen lol. Love your content.

[@shadydelivery]

love the facial expressions. this song goes sooo crazy. loving it, album is so great too

[@michaeldowney6533]

Knocked Loose absolutely slays!

[@sploffo]

Would absolutely love to see you react to save yourself- make them suffer! Either way, awesome video and look forward to seeing more!

[@brandonswaney_88]

Just seen them this last Friday in Newport and this song was sick asf live!!

[@manwithtwoeyes6911]

I love the instrumental during the chorous

[@Peteryification]

The actual terror in your face :D made my day! Thank you!

[@kingchuckfinley]

This is amazing, because this is exactly the reaction I expected lol

[@Mineralweiss]

I like this therapist

[@DaisyFlower690]

I love your insightful and energetic reactions! If you haven't seen it, their dual-song music video Deep in the Willow / Everything is Quiet Now is AMAZING and my introduction into Knocked Loose!

[@MikeyMyers86]

You’re the best, seriously!

[@HeartSupport]

wahhh thank you!!! - T

[@paryfagh7575]

could you please do one of these at some point? Would love to hear your Therapist way of looking at it. These helped me through some dark moments: - Placebo - a million little pieces - Placebo - A song to say goodbye - Annisokay - Good stories - Shallow side - You're the reason why - Soilwork - departure plan I got a lot more, but these ones come first in my mind :)

[@wickedskee213]

I've been in that exact relationship for the last 10 years! It's been killing me slowly for years now More than usual

[@codylee3652]

this is how I want everyone I show music to to react

[@a10000001]

You guys do great work. I gotta recommend Silent Theory as a band you should look at. They have some amazing lyrics all around mental health and have such a unique way of describing that dark place while moving forward. Songs like fragile minds or shaking cages come to mind off the top of my head

[@Magdalena8008s]

Just ran across you today. Havent looked at any other video yet. But your reaction to this alone gets a sub. I just looked at what you've reacted to so far. If you love some Knocked Loose. I suggest Stray From the Path.

[@Remmy-iq3bs]

Phenomenal breakdowns

[@Maroon_Panda]

I recently found you all, love the message of the channel and organization. The song Scars by IPrevail may be of interest to you. The band helped me and my wife through some hard times in our lives years ago and remain our favorite band. Keep up the amazing work!

[@cingiah]

Love them Kentucky boys! Oldham county!!

[@gladess5738]

This one helps a lot. My own family Don’t reach for me💯 Thank you beautiful therapist for the reaction and your explanation 💯 and also a bible verse “ the house will be divided 3 against 2 and five against three” and another verse Christ came to divide families. Don’t reach for me you 5 against 3 Don’t reach for me You 3 against 2💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@maxdorsey]

I need you as my Therapist. We can be Thera-Pissed together to Knocked loose then you can listen to my thoughts and then my tunes too. Lol this react is great!

[@bunnychacha]

This is rad!!!!

[@breather7001]

And also check out Norma Jean -Anna. That song is about a fan of the band and a friend of them who passed away

[@LifeBoostedMotorsports]

She absolutely needs to do some of the amity affliction songs, it would be phenomenal

[@baileyammons4437]

I was listening to this when the earthquake hit lol.

[@HeartSupport]

LOLOLOLOLLOL - T

[@sicboi80]

I kept hearing about Knocked Loose, and immediately thought, "overhyped". This is album of the year for me. Sit and Mourn at the end is probably my song of the year now.

[@gregwilliams5943]

Love her She's so cute💕

[@DannyPhilipsen]

I played this at work the other day, and one of my coworkers said "who is so angry?"

[@galacticriminalx]

🔥🤘😝🤘🔥

[@9xqspx6]

I fuckin' loved your reaction listening to the song. And your cardigan. :)

[@jonkoepnick3012]

I love how into this song you are. Almost none of my friends like music like this, so it makes me feel seen. Check out the band "Silent Planet". They have lots of powerful lyrics. The music video for "Share the Body" is intense, but I think you would like it.

[@HeartSupport]

WE LOVE SILENT PLANET!! They have been huge supporters of ours for a long time. We've done a few reactions and also have some interviews with them. They are the homies. So grateful for them and the music they make - T

[@jonkoepnick3012]

@@HeartSupport !!! Just found the Annunaki reaction and the love for Silent Planet makes me so so happy! Love the channel, keep up the good work!

[@jackal1261]

This song is reminds me a lot of “The gospel” from their Pop culture EP

[@SunnyBunny3003]

Love your work! Have you considered "through glass" from Stonesour? Would love your reaction to that one.

[@joelane800]

Hello! I love you! Its great to see metal broke down like this. Please do KoRn- Dirty, and My Gift to You. 2 diff songs

[@itssticknick7221]

Recommendation- Fallen by Upchurch. I don’t know if you’ve heard this song before but it really hits home for me.

[@ryandonavon7451]

you should hear their song with Poppy, it's.....AMAZING!!!!!!!

[@newman121212]

The buzzing sounds like the intro to Antimatter by silent planet.

[@jessedominguez543]

More Tool more Knocked Loose!! Channel is awesome.

[@stew4313]

I want you guys to analyze some Shinedown songs. Great band with some deep songs.

[@Breekon_Hope]

I recently left a bad relationship and community. I worked with this woman for 8 months, helping build her brand. Her and her friends were toxic as hell but, now I realize, she love bombed me like crazy. After realizing and calling her out on her manipulations. She blew up on me and banned me from her community. Now things for her are turning sour. Don't Reach For Me.

[@PedroAnbanks]

Nice video as always! You should react to Hope by Lucidious... This song gives me goosebumps all time I watch it, its lyrics is simply incredible.

[@lucpoirier2883]

First time listen that but i reconize The Dillinger Escape plan. Calculating infinity

[@carmat6225]

If you want to analyse a load of deep lyrics and head-bang at the same time, you should react to a song from cattle decapitation, either Just Another Body or Bring Back the Plague. I would personally love it. thanks!

[@painkiller666666666]

Slaps

[@elsieflores197]

I wonder if there's a way to get talk therapy services from yourself or another @HeartSupport therapist or are the song reaction videos all that's available? I love Taylor Palmby's reactions

[@hokeeyphan]

Check out Ghost by Badflower

[@Artorias001]

Would you do a reaction to Jinjer pisces (specifically the live session) avoid reading the comments though

[@TheBrunarr]

New to the channel. She seems to know the band but i dont see any other knocked loose videos on the channel. How does she know them

[@asiastarleyadams1551]

@StephenJPilat if I might be able to make a song suggestion.... It's mass of man "fallen Angel".... Not that it matters to anyone but I've never come across a song that's spoken to me more... It's a very powerful song... Very truthful song.

[@dancardwell5004]

Against the Current Blindfold would be a great one to do next..would love to hear your take

[@RoosterKing777]

I’d love to see you do Severed by Mudvayne

[@AtlasZero13]

Angry music for happy people ❤️‍🔥

[@user-ru3nv1hg1t]

Please look at Memento Mori by Architects - written by guitarist Tom Searle who was diagnosed with cancer at the time - a song about him facing up to his own mortality

[@housey_]

I enjoy the that we get to see a song Taylor is excited for and personally interested in each Friday. During the rest of the week I know you probably pick all other songs from suggestions in the comments but I have been wondering why you don't run any organised polls in the community section, maybe creating polls comes with it's own issues it just seemed like possibly another day of the week could be a community vote. Just an idea.

[@robbyjessica84]

Literally can hear the lyrics

[@hamilkarbarkas8711]

Great reaction videos! ❤ I'd love to see you react to these bands Thrown - On The Verge Spite - Made To Please Cattle Decapitation - A Photic Doom Humanity's Last Breath - Instill

[@hansolo12p27]

Made to please is diabolical lol

[@hamilkarbarkas8711]

@@hansolo12p27 They're so good. Added Humanity's Last Breath now. Hope to see a reaction to that as well.

[@RenatoTripi]

should react to "sit & mourn" from the same album

[@-KiTToBuG]

Please do "Inside the Fire" by Disturbed. I'd really love your take on this one of a kind track.

[@brandonsours6616]

Id love to see her take on Mudvaynes Death Blooms.

[@kidneystonermusic]

The Callous Daoboys!!!!

[@xCythex]

Waiting for the day when she reacts to Jinjer - Pisces

[@ayaalka1990]

Paleface Swiss - Please End Me 🤘🏽😎🤘🏽

[@LeperMessiah2]

Been browsing these last hours. Why no FIR? They are one of the most hype "reaction worthy" bands since 2019's Popular Monster. Topics are often depression, anxiety, addiction and rehabilitation.

[@marc_svsengineering4319]

wow, I'm surprised your staff hasn't introduced you to "Falling in Reverse." as it fits your channel and discussion. At least you found REN :)

[@GingerBeard7411]

This is gonna be my religious healing album

[@raihanrahaidin7330]

Request: Liberate - Slipknot

[@patrickcanter2887]

React to blinding faith if you haven’t already please!

[@Botc_8686]

Fucking awsome!

[@mattg9388]

Please do A reason to fight by Disturbed. Official live version