There Are No Wrong Decisions in Life | All Decisions Are the Right Ones

With mindfulness and being able to be present, there is no reliving or regretting moments from the past. There is only understanding and wisdom gained from these experiences. These are the ways to let go of the past, to forgive ourselves, and how to move forward.
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[@heidihosey9652]

I just found you and I love what you are doing. I just wanted to let you know that your videos came today just when I needed them. Thank you 🙏

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Incredible! That's so great to hear 🙏

[@FrancisTrach]

This is absolutely true. From a Higher level, there is no right or wrong decisions , everything is just contrast and a learning experience where we realize what we do not prefer through our emotional guidance system, or us being completely in alignment with our Higher Self. Being in alignment with our Higher Self and true hearts desires may seem like the "right" choice, but of course without the contrast of making the "wrong" choices we could not have gotten there, which means that EVERY step of our journey is equally valid and actually a completely necessary part of the journey. Great video Todd!

[@ToddPerelmuter]

You said it, Francis. Perfectly said 🙏 ❤️

[@RonCecchetti]

Do you ever regret a decision though like you look back and see how things could have been different

[@jayneshort8603]

Like the fact when you say with every wrong decision comes incredible learning opportunities that can be so valuable.

[@sonjalillard114]

His words have changed my life over the past few months. Needed to hear this . Thank you Todd❤

[@ToddPerelmuter]

You are so welcome💗

[@mikefaff-livingintheillusi9636]

It feels so right to hear you say, “You can’t make a wrong decision.” That seems to complement the understanding that there are no accidents. They both ring true for me. Thank you for your insight. Mike

[@ToddPerelmuter]

So glad to hear, Mike 🙏

[@jadechiara1877]

Some decisions hurt and continue to hurt for a long time. Its hard not to look at the source of pain that remains in the past

[@ToddPerelmuter]

So true. The best we can do is try to see it as the growing pains that are making way for something better.

[@aminatoluwafunbi8758]

This came at the right time when I was beating myself up for my bad financial decision

[@iamgodphotography]

I am FULL OF REGRET 😢 If I stayed in Chicago, I wouldn’t be poor and stuck in Ohio with depression. I was successful with property and rentals and WHY did I decide to move back to Ohio and “family”??? These questions and blame loop day and night and I am DEPRESSED. Maybe it is Kharma or fate

[@riffraft2584]

You are not alone with regrets. If I could go back in time the things would most like to do over is how I treated people, how I let peoples treatment of me affect me so strongly. But here we are. I'm 66. Once was a fairly extroverted guy. Now an introvert. Why.... I can't get along with people. Been this way for decades now.

[@iamgodphotography]

@@riffraft2584 sorry that happened to you and thank you for sharing. I guess things happen for us to try to see the bigger picture and learn from it. Plus, we don’t really know if things would’ve worked out better so really the regrets some waste of time. I still have it from time to time and a little bit every day, but I hope not to dwell on it and that’s why I try to watch videos to be encouraged.

[@marcijlo]

Todd I just found you and love your words! Thank you!!!!

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Thank you. It motivates me to keep doing the work.

[@playlifebro]

Very grateful for your content man! Keep it up!

[@sj2024sj]

Thank you for this💛⚘🙏

[@laurenpearl8088]

New subscriber! Thank you! Loving the content so far. You’re very calming.

[@Robert-di3kv]

Great message, true, concise, effective. No commercials! Thank you 🙏

[@ToddPerelmuter]

So glad you liked it 🙏

[@maryseokley6061]

An elegant choice.....decision when UR ready ,no mistake

[@maryseokley6061]

Providing.....U did not let UR self be influenced, mentally, while asleep, for there are some very clever ones who do know and/or do such vile stuff! i.e using AI/ computer programs !

[@gemcolors9179]

That was Beautiful and Very Needed for me Right Now.A Confirmation.It also Brought Me Peace.Thank You!

[@ToddPerelmuter]

That's so wonderful to hear. Thank you 🙏

[@kimberlyjaquay1144]

Thank you 😊,just what I needed.

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Your kind words is just what I needed to hear. :)

[@sherrywilliams9968]

Lovely!! So nice to take a gentle approach to ourself!

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Thank you so much 🙏

[@ElisPalmer]

Beautiful, thanks~🌟

[@meghatiwari9844]

Really valuable video for everyone! Thanks for training us to become unbeatable strong individuals.

[@RashaMp-xq5he]

I just made a decision by myself I don't regret on that, but people around make me feel regret..

[@TheEvaluna1975]

This is a beautiful truth! Love it! Thanks for sharing 🙏❤❤❤

[@kennelson3848]

Manoman - perfect pure truth right here now even without ethereal music.

[@tundupdolma3207]

Thank you🙏🙏🙏

[@alexsilkin5222]

What seems to really get me about the bad decisions I made, is that at the time I could feel inside that they were not the right decisions for me, as if my inner wisdom knew better. But I didn't listen to my inner self and proceeded anyways. This was in my 20s when I was passionate about life and the future. Now I feel hampered by the fallout of those past decisions and don't feel the same zest/passion for life or fixing things going forward.

[@arunimakalita3598]

I recently came across your channel.. honesty i am in love with your voice 🥰

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Thank you so much for your kind words, Arunima. Infinite peace and love 🙏🏽

[@adikeys]

Golden fact 🌹 Thank you 🙏

[@matangidesai3437]

You are godsend human being love the way you deliver with so much patience and love

[@chantalhanby5271]

Agree with you. Beautiful words 🙏

[@Earthtime3978]

I have to listen to this again to save myself from misery

[@enough1494]

Saludos Todd! I had made the decision to limit my social media. Glad I am back on. Blessings to you and thank you for blessings us.

[@maryseokley6061]

Learning is a life long process....

[@roshinvarghese6879]

I hate how life defined by mostly by our career because I chose quite possibly the worst one… regretting every second but using this experience to learn to think in the present and be positive

[@davidionesi9207]

Thank you Todd.

[@SuketaPatel]

This is beautiful! 🙏🇨🇦❤️🌈🌎🦋🌺🏄‍♀️

[@daylankp1]

Thank you

[@spiiriitual_ninja]

Always always always right video at the right time, I'm stunned 😇

[@maria-u4g2c]

There are no wrong decisions in Life. This message is powerful. I am standing in front of a big decision staying in Australia or going back to Germany. I have this decision a while in my head and i cant find any answers. And i feel total lost. Any advice?

[@luciddream6603]

Beautiful ❤️🙏🥰

[@AN-ym7it]

Gratefull to u Todd ..came across the video at the right time... 😊

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Glad it was helpful! ❤

[@donnawoodford8145]

Make your decision and accept the +/- consequences!

[@Gaurav.P0]

Beautiful video 😍

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Thank you for watching!

[@dieeinhorn-atemschulefurki8167]

Thank you, thank you🧡🌈

[@katherinewong2901]

Just found you. You so rock young Dude!! 🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Sounds like something an awesome person who rocks would say. :)

[@hlf2102]

This video helped me very much, i've made a decision about quiting. And now im confused if that was the right decision, if i continued i'd live every day in fear, now i can focus on other things. But have i made the right decision? People are going to tell me that its a pity i quit, that i would quit anyway later on so why quit now. But nobody sees the perspective i see. But what if i did as they said. I thought i'd get rid of fear, anxiety and deppresion. But this desicion just let to more of those emotions, but i keep telling myself, that these are not going to last forever. I know that weeks are going to pass by and i will get used to living like this, if i continued, i know i wouldn't get used to it, because i tried before. But i know, that in a month, ill look back at this video and say to myself, that this wasnt that much of bad decision, people need to get used to every change and when i think about it, this decision may just made my life easier. But right now, im in stress. But again, i know ill get out of it. Thanks Todd! :)

[@meerasingh2327]

Thanks 🙏

[@richNfit4life]

There are NO wrong decisions. Except one…indecision. But cannot indecision also be a learning experience?

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Really good question. It can be learned from, but we can also learn from it without having had to go through it.

[@richNfit4life]

@@ToddPerelmuter Yes, and for many, one has to go there to learn that they did not have to go there.

[@roshinvarghese6879]

Just never regret anything even regret or despair itself. It’s inevitable to be in this darkness but we can always grow whenever we want

[@cynalecm]

"Live n learn" but LEARN

[@lorenzog7811]

I don't remember deciding to be born? Who put us in this torture world? This is obviously hell

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Maybe you decided to be here to lead us out of the suffering? Peace and love ❤️

[@faridabedrabbo1544]

We live in a non dualistic reality

[@marklayman8452]

LOVE THIS❤

[@zhulyi]

I think having a drinking and smoking woman friends and going to hotel to vacation with them it is a very bad decision to go to somewhere without knowing who is going to be in area and how to be strong alone

[@stanleymaestas5441]

Practice makes improvement 😊❤

[@ranvijaysingh5002]

I must say why we do meditation is just to habituaLise the Brain to be in present Like if we wake up at 5 am daily for so many days then after certain time our eyes will be open at 5 am because our Brain has got habitual to it Similar goes to meditation Isn't it?

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Absolutely! Whatever our state of mind, that is how we are training our mind to be.

[@Gaurav.P0]

Wow

[@sansanmaurer836]

I live in a developing country which is corrupted, money and connection really matter here, people here are so lunatic...I have chosen the wrong path back then, meanwhile I was sensible enough to recognize that time was when my life defined by single action....I had made up my mind with my courage....but now I lost everything...I lost my relationship with important people....what should I do? Should I leave my country?

[@ToddPerelmuter]

Thanks for the question. I want to give it the time and thought it deserves. I will answer it in my newsletter so that others who are going through something similar can hear as well.

[@pennyperry1951]

Guilt about feeling great when family is suffering or it seemingly.

[@ToddPerelmuter]

I understand the guilt. But it's the only rational thing to do. Perhaps, your flame can rekindle theirs

[@JacquelineMclean-oc9zn]

❤

[@sakshi2837]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ToddPerelmuter]

🙏

[@Sunline7]

What am i missing , can you Explain the Ukraine war for Humanity ?

[@ToddPerelmuter]

When I use the term wrong, I don't mean right versus wrong. I mean looking back on our decisions with negative judgements rather than with positive learnings. I can only hope that any act of military aggression will quickly be learned from, seen as the tragedy it is, and stopped. And hopefully, with enough love in the world, we won't feel the need to act out in these destructive ways.

[@luciddream6603]

It’s simply what happens when people are “Lost in Thought” (= the human condition) … and therefore, they don’t know who they truly are. Unconsciousness. ❤️🙏😇

[@julianlange8132]

Thank you