There Are Only 2 Genders (3rd Edition) | Change My Mind

In this latest edition of Change My Mind, Crowder & a partially-deaf lady Gabriella, have a civil discussion about an extremely polarizing topic in gender ideology. This was a warm-hearted conversation where two people who vastly disagree came together to discuss a complex topic without yelling, screaming, or calling each other names. Enjoy!
In this latest edition of CMM, Crowder has one of his most favorite conversations yet! A partially-deaf lady named Gabriella.
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[@StevenCrowder]

Genuinely one of, if not my favorite installments of “Change my Mind” ever. We agreed on nothing. We were able to respectfully discuss anything.

[@Ruprecttt]

It was really refreshing. I'm tired of all the manufactured outrage from both sides.

[@leriakuzyk7975]

Steven, have you tried discussing why these umbrella identities need to be gendered or tied to gender at all? Why not personal identities?

[@GruppeSechs]

And yet, it still left the same bad taste in my mouth the second you hit the subject of transitioning children. It all leads back to that, just like how you say you can't take a candidate seriously if they still value the FBI and CIA. If anything, the polite ones who still believe the same ideology are more dangerous, because they'll make their point of view the most palatable to people with no backbone.

[@Confused_Dog]

Fantastic and respectful conversation and props given the absolutely chaotic environment. Cheers to Gabriella for her courage to sit in the hot seat and keep a level and kind head.

[@BigRaddi]

Couldn't Agree More! One of the most intellectual debates I've ever seen. Wow! Miss Gabriella is phenomenal. I understood both of you 100% This Is Crucial to Our Country. "Could Discuss Anything" This Has To Be The Norm Guys! It Has To Be The Standard For Communication in The United States of America. Period. Kudos to you both! Great Job Steven & Production!

[@jongrier5093]

Bro this deaf chick listens better than almost anyone.

[@ventilate4267]

Funny ain't it

[@bob757]

Irony is the best.

[@Hugo-Hernandez]

🤣🤣

[@brendanmartin4489]

What?👂

[@ziro0798]

Oh you did a funny

[@Nicole-tq9jo]

This woman was so respectful. Props to her. I love that she's able to openly have a discussion without screaming or trying to insult anyone.

[@WJACOTT]

but also is sad to see how she is only repeating verbatim what her teachers and friends told her is fact.

[@chrisc5574]

I prefer the screaming

[@AnActualWoman]

@@WJACOTT this is true. But I see so many college kids come try to talk to crowder and they just make a fool of themselves. She did a really good job carrying herself, being polite and listening. Props to her even though she isn’t using her own brain to think critically about what her teachers have told her.

[@atgrandfathersknee3065]

@@WJACOTT I say this as a right-wing person myself: Don't most conservatives simply parrot to others what their preferred media source or select intellectual tells them is a fact?

[@justabunneh6490]

Only a couple minutes in, she is so extremely sweet and pleasant...

[@9500Lokki]

What people fail to realize is that you can disagree without being disagreeable, this conversation was pleasant to watch.

[@55Quirll]

I agree, I prefer those types of debates or discussions

[@matthewhyde9426]

its the only way to be. I will often have to say "its best we agree to disagree on this topic" and recently someone told me "no, you are not allowed to disagree on this!" and I was shocked. (in person)

[@benfabternas5073]

Except for the fact Steven crowder beats his wife

[@wvrnstng]

The fact that she just says “I disagree” in response to any uncomfortable statistics the interviewer presented, makes her disagreeable. What’s the point of having a rational conversation on an important subject if the whole talk boils down to very opinionated theses?

[@9500Lokki]

@@wvrnstng no, being disagreeable means to not be pleasant, she was very pleasant. No disrespect but Google disagreeable and it’ll make sense.

[@kallumfrybrookes2618]

Gabriella is such a sweetheart. Respectfull, sensible and in controll over their emotions. We need more people like her. ❤

[@GuidelinesViolater]

Yea,i hope "it" will get some help with her brains problems

[@olikedk3119]

She look like dr. doofenshmirtz and she-hulk had a baby tough

[@DerekChauvinsKnee]

You serious? This thing wants to tear down everything you've believed in and replace it with a mad house. Eventually, if you don't fall in line, they'll be throwing you in a slave labor camp.

[@DemocracyManifestJr]

@@olikedk3119where’d ya get the she-hulk part from? 🤣

[@weirdasfcat]

@@olikedk3119 go fuck yourself, they're adorable.

[@Fire-burd]

It is so refreshing to see two people who disagree actually have a civil conversation

[@smellme6313]

Even though the left is outright verifiably wrong.

[@shardinhand1243]

im real disapointed in crowder, just found out from Candace Owens Podcast he's a wife abusing bastard... id say he should sort himself out but i know damn well how abusers minds work, all theyre fualts all theyre problems are always someone elses fault....

[@user-qn9tm8yp5b]

No it's not.

[@Gabimarut-The-Hollow]

@@user-qn9tm8yp5b yes it is

[@Lachugah]

​@@user-qn9tm8yp5bno, it was.

[@elliewillow4556]

Can we just protect Gabriella at all costs. We might not agree but she was nothing but respectful, kind , and understanding. She was a breath of fresh air. I truly hope the kids at school don’t bully her for this

[@hunterbradford6571]

Fr. It’s crazy how far being respectful and listening can go. If anyone bullies her let’s go handle it❤️

[@wahoo.]

I will bully her. *doom music plays*

[@CaptainSpalding72]

No way she is a loser liberal

[@alexanderthegreg]

she's awesome!

[@Betta864]

@@wahoo. no one thinks you’re funny

[@emilyeccles9212]

We need more people like her on BOTH sides. Imagine how productive we could be as a country if people that had different views sat down and found a way to meet in the middle. Nowadays people aren’t respectful enough to do that. Props to her, best of wishes to her in regards to graduating 🎉

[@MrSkullHead1250]

For real, if we could have more of this, oh the things we could possibly solve. But no, people get too caught up in their beliefs, and emotions, they want to be right. So what do they do? They act out with violence, and yelling etc. And that just solves nothing.

[@PowerShellNoob]

Gabriella is a very sweet girl and I love how pleasant she made this interview. We can coexist with different thoughts and opinions, this is what makes us human and a society. It's the people on the extreme end that truly ruin this concept. Kudos to Gabriella for being their self.

[@user-zr6pl6nb6z]

She'll make a good nurse. Far too many women get into nursing who don't have the personality for it.

[@Benjutsu1]

Texas hospitality. I knew she was from Texas the second she sat down

[@promanchildjosh]

The ability for two individuals to debate with one another without showing a emotional outburst on such a sensitive topic shows true maturity! Good job you two!

[@Marconel100]

I agree

[@shawnhaines1659]

It certainly helps that someone isnt screaming in his face and calling him a bigot ect. And he in turn isn't being smug and retaliating with insults. This is how a conversation between two people who have a difference of opinion should talk. In my world, if you and I have a difference of opinion, it doesn't make you my enemy. Unfortunately in this day in age, a lot of people have a very hard time having a healthy debate without insulting the other person. I hope more people on both sides see this and learn from it.

[@friendlyneighborhoodmemer18]

This is not a really sensitiv topic tbh, pple who have an outburst on this are just childish and immature and dont know how to properly debate.

[@MohammadAlaliirhabiubidu]

If I try this with my parents, I would be dismissed immediately.

[@stepan6457]

kinda sad that we view this as an exeption and not a standard tho

[@jaya-ql5zl]

Society would improve 80% if most were like Gabriella. This was the best interview you've ever had.

[@normandy2501]

I don't think it would. It would just make conversations where people still walk away with the same position(s) they came with more polite. Crowder is a guy that will never "change his mind" based on his brand alone. It's just meant to bait emotional people into sitting with him and give his audience people to throw digital tomatoes at on their lunch break.

[@Jonathan-jq5cl]

@@normandy2501 People don't have to change their mind for society to become better, we just have to do a better job respecting each others opinions.

[@chicken4090]

@@Jonathan-jq5cl whether or not there are two genders isnt an opinion, there are only two and this girl is just a moron

[@acuddlypuppie7928]

@@normandy2501 noone will ever change their mind from one discussion. The point is not to change mind, but rather find the root of the problem and a solution from the two believes.

[@normandy2501]

@@acuddlypuppie7928 On it's face sure, but his solution would just be whatever is on brand for conservatives. Banning gay marriage, restrictions on Trans services into eventual non-existence, etc. It's not just that people have different ideas, but that they want their ideas to be the only ones represented. It's like when people say that the government should serve the people, but never finish that statement with what group of people they're actually talking about. Obviously you're not going to change your mind from one conversation, but it's common sense that Crowder never will if he wants to keep his bag.

[@antman7673]

She is such a gem. With low expectations, she won my heart over.

[@Binteh]

What a refreshing young woman. Regardless if you agree or disagree with her opinions, you can't argue that she isn't being respectful and empathetic and thoughtful. I really enjoyed this and wish more people were like her.

[@jcost0099]

She possesses a skill. She can coordinate and communicate her thoughts AFTER listening and processing to her conversation counterpart. She doesn't shut down DURING the conversation and stew on emotions. She is going to make for an exceptional nurse.

[@mgm57901]

So long as it's not with children... she probably will.

[@ThePresidentialTouch]

....until the patient starts screaming.

[@jimthompson8947]

Gabriella for Canadian Prime Minister on grounds of her listening abilities alone.

[@thatguybonds9571]

Stfu. As soon as she knows your a cis straight white male, oh I thought they were a gorilla and then you overdose.

[@thecamillarose9806]

She really will be amazing

[@TechnicolorTube]

Gabriella was so kind. Everyone deserves the level of respect these two showed for each other.

[@djpuplex]

Sad to say as "tolerant" as that generation is her fellow students probably treat her as a outcast.

[@MintRye]

@@djpuplexmost likely. Us deaf people don’t have many friends due to hearing problems. Most kids in this generation want to party and this and that. But again being deaf. Doesn’t help 🗿

[@tisjustangie]

@@MintRye unfortunately, and i say this as someone who took some basic ASL classes, trying not to offend yall is whats keepin me from interacting (other than the fact i try to keep myself away from crowds regardless). There was a lotta rules to ASL that we had to learn in that class, and while accomodating for Deaf ppl is nice and all, itd be hard for me to actually sign and have a conversation unless i actively pursued learning more ASL.

[@vinnythevagguy]

@@MintRye weird i didnt know being deaf stopped you from doing drugs on the weekends thats lame

[@MintRye]

@@vinnythevagguy huh? 💀.. i smoke weed daily. Plus it’s medical. Get your facts straight kid.

[@kategraham5186]

when those people screamed my heart went out to her…. this is why people need to behave as adults

[@tomorgill8890]

She's switched on. This is really fantastic to see, even when though they disagree it's refreshing to see critical thinking and people being able to articulate their thoughts

[@agentalvin]

This is how two people who disagree can have a respectful debate and conversation. Bravo.

[@ianhargrove6079]

Yes

[@Duster29to86]

Whats there to be respected when discussing something that should be obvious?

[@FreelanceSaul]

@@Duster29to86, if you can’t see why you should still respect someone who disagrees with your “obvious” opinion, then I’d spend some time thinking about that if I was you. Hope you find the answer, it’s obvious to me ;)

[@josh18230]

@@FreelanceSaul This woman flat out said that there are infinite genders and that it makes no difference in the medical industry, sorry some things shouldn't be treated as if they are up for a philosophical debate. You debate reality, mock stupidity.

[@BlazingWolfTV]

Was thinking the same.. My mind is blown that someone with bad hearing hears betters than many other debaters. 10/10

[@matthewbursik3715]

This conversation gives me a lot of hope. She was able to sit down an argue her points and have a great conversation. Id love to see more of this

[@andreeijbers4300]

She finally made me realize that people that support the whole gender identity vs sex debate are just very disenfranchised and are trying to find their place in the world. They are barking up the wrong tree, and are doing more harm than good by allowing kids to transition but she finally made me realize that many of these people are not full of malice or anger. They're just lost. And deeply sad.

[@Filterdeez]

Idk they seem pretty angry and malicious, this lady seems to be the exception imo

[@d1onysus]

​@@FilterdeezI think that's the whole loud majority thing all over again.

[@yatharthsharma7442]

Agreed

[@SkawarsXE]

Idk. To me it seemed like she was just doing a lot of post hoc rationalization to justify things she's never thought about before but just accepted as good and positive because it's being presented that way through "official" channels, and is also told that those against those things are misinformed.

[@Jkrocsko]

You're exactly correct. Having friends who I converse with. They GENUINELY think its helping and its the best way for them to fit in. Whereas I feel its a temporary solution that only works with a very specific groups. Which can be super harmful to their mental health overall

[@esteehanvey5647]

this video is proof that Steven always starts with respect, where it goes after that is largely dependent on the other person. Gabriella was so respectful and so was Steven. Love it.

[@ferasrn]

ya now that he has millions of subscribers and dollars, and second, it would make him look like shit if he actually was a bully to this half deaf sweet girl. She set him straight on this one LMAO

[@enriquecrespo2650]

@@ferasrn no one set anyone straight. It was a good dialogue

[@VolTrixYT]

​@@ferasrnshe set him 🤓 no it was very good dialouge being said back and forth and educating

[@HelloNotMe9999]

So refreshing to see someone at college that can actually act like an adult. One of the best segments ever.

[@only2genderkennder268]

Why would those stupid women start yelling? Then they yell even louder when Steven tells them about her hearing aids?

[@davidkrappenschitz253]

It's nice to see a civilized debate but this shows that even civilized people can be brainwashed

[@bigdaveyeo350]

agree. as fun as it is to see leftists scream and ree cus they can't argue, its just as good to see an actual flowing conversation and understanding

[@dodgdurango6128]

This is how most people are. a lot of people in that community are crazy

[@victorsalinas4666]

She has good manners because she’s grew up in South Texas

[@firstamendment8850]

Gabriella’s friends and family should be proud of her rational, thoughtful and compassionate personality

[@HuckFunter]

Amazing conversation and her parents did absolutely amazing raising her.

[@LadyHermes]

The paradox of this woman having hearing issues but still being able to listen to someone way better than the average person ever would, me included...

[@clap5108]

RIGHT. She listens so diligently and really does try to hear you. We need more people like her!

[@shade0636]

How is she able to listen well? She says "I don't agree with that" to statistics more than once in the video and doesn't directly address what crowder is saying times. I think we can commend her for being respectful and civil but I don't think she was very good at directly addressing the concerns Crowder has.

[@Xsouplaxy]

@@shade0636 but hey beats a lot of rude ass people now days especially cussing is becoming more of a norm or an excuse to say it’s a joke and a norm to interrupt and expecting it to not be rude

[@shade0636]

@@Xsouplaxy Yeah I definitely agree with that.

[@drakoinx]

I mean it is just what happens. If you have hearing issues you have to try harder to hear what people have to say. Though the irony is very aweet

[@glitterdrip19]

I got to give this girl credit for being respectful and actually setting up a great conversation, you don't see that a lot nowadays especially with the younger generations

[@glitterdrip19]

@@user-ve9ek7iw4p nice try scammer 😂😂😂

[@StephenPaulTroup]

True, but her ignorance is still stupendous and dangerous

[@glitterdrip19]

@@StephenPaulTroup all I did was compliment her being respectful and a good conversationalist and nothing else

[@StephenPaulTroup]

@@glitterdrip19 All I did was observe and comment on the substance of what she said.

[@wearethewearethewearethhe]

@@glitterdrip19 no reason to compliment someone who is completely and entirely delusional.

[@cavinrauch]

This is the perfect example of what a constructive debate looks like. Listening and not immediately jumping on what the other person says and letting them explain their view point further if there's a misunderstanding.

[@TheOFFICIALBenjayy]

i absolutely love seeing this interview so civil, fun and fair on both sides! well played from Steven, and the individual sitting with him! this made my day to see such a delightful and polite conversation :D

[@olivercrespo2329]

The reason she’s so respectful is because she’s dealt with real struggle in her life so she has no preconceived notions of privilege or any of that garbage. She’s an actual working human being with real life experiences most of us are totally ignorant too. I wish her the best.

[@aaronwilson8403]

Actually if you listened to the whole video she was raised to be respectful. And it shows 100%.

[@AndrooUK]

How do we know she's dealt with 'real struggle' in her life? I got a somewhat entitled 'my parents don't understand me' vibe, with that whole dumb 'queer' spiel, offset possibly by good upbringing and requiring a hearing aid (that she seems to not have set correctly, or got fitted wrong).

[@LiamDePaux]

Pain and privilege or lack thereof doesn't make someone a good person?

[@LarissaDawn]

@@AndrooUK shes....deaf? That's a big struggle within itself

[@archangelshiro]

@@AndrooUK the real struggle of living with her disability with hearing and clearly eyesight as well

[@sunkitty19]

Steven, as the mom of a Deaf little girl with hearing aids I just want to tell you your kindness, understanding, and patience here was so heartwarming. You treated her with respect while also making sure she understood the conversation and clearly repeated yourself when needed. My daughter is in 2nd grade now and I’ve been watching your show since she was a baby. I wish I could have the assurance that everyone she meets in her life will be as kind to her as you were in this interaction, but sadly I know (and have already experienced) that will not always be the case.

[@shawnshawn2699]

Small steps everyday towards goals. Adds up after time ❤use Steven vidz for inspiration but value precious time of the day for results and dedication towards hard work with your daughter. God speed.

[@ashleycrystal9719]

❤️❤️❤️

[@atrain7050]

I would never expect any different from Mr. Crowder. 🙏❤️

[@amberlayne4206]

Don’t teach her to expect kindness, that’s not realistic. Teach her to not let the negativity of others tear down her own character to their level. She will be the better person even if someone else can’t see it. Then every so often she will come across another respectful kind soul and have nice interactions to make it all worthwhile.

[@beelowe3474]

@@dickhandy8514 no but you are. You should capitalize the d in your name because you are one with a capital D! 🍆

[@agnomeagiantandatinydog1871]

One of my favourite debate talks I've seen, shows that people can disagree on topics and still get along, something that's been lost of late

[@florixn_de]

This is the first ever debate I see about this issue without anyone starting to yell, insult someone else or get offended. Well done!

[@bamie16]

I like how the crowd started disrupting the conversation. They sure felt embarassed when they learned she had hearing problems 💀

[@SavedSmitty]

Agreed! I hate she seemed upset by whatever they said regarding her aides.

[@Blake-bp9lq]

@@SavedSmitty yeah they must have made fun of her for them. Just sad

[@CassTeaElle]

Yeah, that was very ableist of them. Not very inclusive.

[@alimachowdhury7435]

They could no longer allow a civil discourse to take place any longer. The only acceptable discourse are ones with temper tantrums. 😤

[@portalpr1nce14]

Time stamp?

[@ryanritchie3253]

What a respectful young lady, I genuinely wish her nothing but the best in life

[@leedavies3563]

Watched the video and there is 2 men talking, goto specsavers

[@randrand.]

What in the hell are you talking about @Lee Davies? She was lovely and I’d be grateful to have her as a nurse.

[@leedavies3563]

@@randrand. he, not she

[@Rriadda]

@@leedavies3563 she*

[@leedavies3563]

@@Rriadda 🤣🤣🤣 no

[@tylernichols6768]

I applaud the respectful conversation yall had, and I would like to recognize this lady was very brave taking on the controversies with you and all your knowledge and background. I hope people can get into these talks more often.

[@Exotic_Butters21]

I absolutely love that people talked about a topic like this and use valid responses and actually are mature❤

[@MrJames769]

It's shocking how refreshing a simple respectful conversation can be in this day in age. Great video

[@0sAndOnes]

Crowder always seems to be respectful in 1 on 1 dialogue change my mind segments. Idk why he switches up with the disrespect/racism on his podcast. He would actually be a pretty persuasive person without all the clown shit.

[@rileydennis2283]

She is so damn sweet I almost want to agree with her!

[@Grawwler]

I enjoyed every second of this conversation! Such a champ for sitting down with crowler! You rock girl

[@socialsheen91]

I love that they are both listening to understand instead of listening to respond. Definitely one of the best change my mind episode. ❤

[@Gabriellaisirrelevant]

Gabriella seems like a really nice person, a lot of empathy and has the ability to have a conversation with someone that has a different viewpoint. We can’t get anywhere with these issues until we start having civil discussions. And we’re name twins!💗

[@camikazi2737]

You know, I really appreciate that Steven made sure to respectfully adjust his behavior to accommodate her disability, and she was comfortable enough to discuss the topic with him civilly. This is possibly my favorite Change My Mind episode.

[@AnythingwithaMotor]

yeah how boring, lets go back to when it was exciting.

[@LaneMcCall]

@@AnythingwithaMotor The rowdy with Crowder days 🤣 LMAOOO

[@sbaker9479]

The Steven the media doesn’t want to show you

[@LavaCreeperPeople]

2 genders and you cant swap to the other + 52%

[@markomajnik416]

@@sbaker9479 it's not just the media, it's crowder himself. Videos with angrier, less rational conversations get a lot more traction because most people are interested in proving their worldview through seeing the other side of the argument as idiotic.

[@Eproductionz]

I love her! Honestly, to have a hearing impairment, to be in university, to speak with Steven while her peers heckle, to speak with someone who you disagree with and still not start crying, swearing, getting overly emotional. 10/10!

[@payni1992]

OMG WELL DONE FOR LITERALLY JUS HAVING A CONVERSATION.. Behave, she's not a hero, she had a chat 😭😂

[@garrettdavis6444]

@@payni1992 It's a lost art in today's age, that's why people freak out about it. Society has mostly forgotten how to have a civil conversation.

[@MrSlantwise]

Yea, like all those crybaby insurrectionists.

[@ShadiC636]

@@payni1992 “Common sense” isn’t *common* anymore.

[@ShadiC636]

@@MrSlantwise What insurrectionists?

[@demoniccrunk]

I love this lady, these conversations are undoubtedly a million times better when they're calm and respectful.

[@blakewarden2487]

*not a lady xd

[@AsherTheFemboy]

@@blakewarden2487 your just rude lmao

[@notyourpgainstructor5139]

MAD RESPECT. This is such a great conversation. doesnt matter if my views are different from hers. the fact that two people can have different thoughts and articulate those thoughts in a civil manner has unfortunately become a rarity.

[@joseywailer7624]

Nothing but respect. Called him 'sir'. Didn't lead with emotions. Didn't interrupt once. This is how things get done. Even agreeing to disagree is progress.

[@ladykavia]

I agree to agree on this

[@alphapilly]

She should replace piers morgan

[@gerardoibanez4703]

Right no "I feel like" responses

[@luciferianjesuslover9453]

Yeah, but she’s chill with children being mutilated. That ain’t cool.

[@joseywailer7624]

@Public Square You sure about that? Cuz I'm pretty sure the point to ALL his 'Change my mind' is showing how ignorant they are.....so why would this be any different?.....oh, because the point is her candor and lack of wingnuttyness, just like I said above. But I'M the dumb one. GTFOH...

[@fighterthefoo194]

She, 100%, is the most respectful person you've spoken with on this series. @ 17:32 she makes a comment she doesn't quite stand behind, but more slips out, immediately realises how she has worded it and apologises. A great candidate for nursing!!!

[@GrasshopperKelly]

Nurses learn about half of the state of their patient through their patient's behaviour, and what they say. Encouraging that info to come out requires a certain bedside manner, yes. Tbh Nurses do far more work with patients than typical hospital Doctors.

[@Andronicus87]

its not gender or sex that is fluid it's language! People are just changing definitions..... then expecting the people raised a completely different way to understand wtf they are talking about without being taught.

[@lindamashhadi2279]

I pray this girl is so successful she is amazing. Thank you to this girl for being so respectful.

[@cortaziacausey6226]

This is what I have been wanting to achieve. For the love of debate and Maria Montessori’s “to hear opinions and understand them, not to disagree”. I need people, a group, of people who can just TALK while being utmost completely different. The entire interview/conversation tugged the magnetic strip in my chest.

[@BatCaveOz]

It is indicative of how bad society is becoming that we can marvel that a respectful conversation occurred.

[@Fecal_Eruptions]

yeah the bar isnt very high these days

[@salenamartinez8576]

Good point!

[@wyattearpswoman838]

Amen sir.

[@Cub__]

Just like how abortion is even a conversation/debate... Humanity is insane.

[@azayzelderegis1655]

Respectful conversations happen all the time. They just don't show it because it doesn't get views. The reason this one got views is because Steven Crowder always posts the opposite, he posts mostly videos where the conversation *doesn't* go well. And part of that is because of his poor handling of the conversations. Very rarely do I ever have conversations with people in real life that don't go well. I am able to control the conversation rationally and calmly. Steven Crowder is not capable of doing that, so he leaves it up to the other person to do it. Not a good example of a conversationalist, if you ask me.

[@chuckbrown5035]

This girl has single handedly restored a small part of my faith in the mental wellness of Gen Z.

[@thereal4579]

SCAM ALERT

[@barr4ckObama240]

@@thereal4579 it’s a fake scam it’s a joke

[@CharlieBrown-mx4gq]

She sounds sane, but insane ideas populate her mind.

[@StyleS_]

She’s like smart dumb

[@Heartwing37]

Agree! This is how adults converse. This should be mandatory in every speech and comma class.

[@sartiaash]

I love this conversation nobody is degrading or yelling. She is very relaxed and gives good information for having cons against you. Makes it a very relaxed conversation with both sides respecting each other.

[@nhoenvex7254]

This is the best and more wholesome discussion i've ever seen... god, this is amazing.

[@peshy6912]

I am 7 mins in with listening and this women is a sweetheart. Regardless of disagreements, good character needs to be recognized and appreciated.

[@Wickedtingzz]

I feel like she could be reasonable , but to even believe such fallacy’s in the beginning is a red flag

[@komraj7851]

@@Wickedtingzz I’m not sure. I think some people are just prone to it simply out of open mindedness (naivety, maybe) and compassion. I know I was similar to these people but I am very naive

[@GHolcer]

@@Wickedtingzz Give the young a break. It's not their fault they were raised in the age of participation trophies and everybody is equal. She's been brainwashed by lies her entire life. It takes time and experience to overcome such things.

[@celladoor_uk]

@@GHolcer well said.

[@TheRazzmatazz24]

@@GHolcer Drunk on Dunning-Kruger are we?

[@thomasdlt24]

This woman was incredible. Not emotionally driven but ready for conversation and debate that is humanity

[@memeyoucanbuy]

She actually has to self improve, unlike some average hoe

[@patrciaclemons8183]

Probably a man who flipped into a woman

[@huss4071]

@@patrciaclemons8183 😂😂😂

[@marciamckoy573]

Who said she is a woman 🤣🤣😭

[@Kabawan11056]

This !!! This is how you represent your beliefs… CIVILIZED, CLASSY and INTELLECTUAL. No screaming, no rage, all logic…

[@crumbskoniecko100]

If more people with this viewpoint were like this young lady, we might actually get somewhere! Well done, fantastic conversation!

[@PsychClub]

"I may be 100% misinterpreting what you're saying" is the best statement ever uttered on a change my mind video. There is hope, evidenced by this single college student.

[@marjorie4310]

I wonder if she realizes how well she was raised when she’s condemning her family for their religious beliefs.

[@dr.emilschaffhausen4683]

Nope, because religion is bad and orange man bad. That is the narrative of the century.

[@baileybrinker5935]

@@marjorie4310 many, in their hubris, will say they are well-reasoned in spite of their upbringing. I’ve known many who have completely disregarded and maligned the values of their parents without giving any credit to what those same values crafted in themselves.

[@vladapostol5950]

You can tell her parents raised her right. Bravo.

[@User75314]

Its not always the parents, sometimes you learn things yourself.

[@mikec4308]

@@User75314 sounds like your parents failed you

[@va941]

No you can not.

[@mrazimusheta1899]

@@va941 Ofc you can.For example try being disrespectful to someone (because your parents didn't teach you how to act) and he beats you up. Im sure you will never act that way again. That's how you learn for yourself.

[@alphamega2481]

@@va941 Yes you can.

[@ryandavis2377]

I absolutely love this interaction. I believe it's a more about common ground when it comes to conversation, you know, you don't have to agree with each other on. Everything is just about finding common ground trying to meet each other in the middle. And I felt that in this video which is absolutely amazing. Please more contact like this.

[@devonmorsey3872]

Imagine being part of a group obsessed with labels and not being able to explain their labels

[@SkawarsXE]

@@HiddenRealm Right, and then having to make a new label other than that label because that label has certain implications to certain people. 'But hey, None of these words mean literally anything because someone that identifies with that label might have a different idea about what that label entails than I do' At WHAT POINT do you stop and say why TF do I have to have a label and go out of my way to identify which slot I fit into in a certain 'community' All of these identity politics 'communities' are so ridiculous. What's the point? and they don't see the connection between the popularization of identity groups/genders etc and the massive uptick in various narcissistic personality disorders and suicides

[@Androtesh]

watching this video made me realize, they themselves don't know what they are Identifying as...

[@GuoJing2017]

​@@SkawarsXE@SkawarsXE I also get a bit confused by some of these gender politics because of the absence of clarity on some of the labels like you said, so why do we need the labels in the first place. For the uptick in suicide rate along with the popularisation of identity groups, I am not sure there is a link there, because A and B happened at the same time snd correlate with each other it doesn't necessarily mean that there is a causal relationship. As to Stephen's point, why is suicide rate specifically so high in trans and why does surgery not improve this percentage, this is a very important question that I think we all need to try and address and think about. Especially his examples comparing to slavery etc

[@zachz3752]

When she playfully laughed and said "I know you don't like this answer and I'm so sorry" is the exact moment I fell in love with this girl. Truly an amazingly genuine and courteous human being. Good on her for challenging you by not challenging with malice but with dignity and respect. (I liked her within the first 10 minutes but that moment at about the 25 minute mark or so got me)

[@alexmckelvey3768]

Go Birds! Also, good point. .

[@Cyge240sx]

Disagree wholeheartedly with her but she’s insightful so much respect

[@deathproof8732]

I didn't expect Dave to run by and call her a cross-eyed fatty at the end. So rebellious that Dave.

[@samueldavis5895]

You should have your children transitioned! How sweet! ❤️

[@Jimb0tr0n]

She's going to be a great nurse. This is the epitome of conversation. Nicely done, Steven and Gabriella.

[@philobetto5106]

The problem still exists, with a logic equal to letting a person drown because it takes away their dignity if you help them

[@StandYourGroundHomestead]

​@@philobetto5106 wouldn't the hypocratic oath keep her from intentionally letting someone drown?

[@jaeman8]

A great nurse, but a stupid one

[@philobetto5106]

@@StandYourGroundHomestead yes unless you have a bag of money dangling over your head along with the threat of ending your career

[@natehorsman5670]

I think this is the best video I've seen come from this channel, I have been a long time subscriber and watched hundreds of videos. This was the most educational and prospective opening video on this channel in my opinion. Please make more videos like this 🙏

[@0422Juls]

so respectful and refreshing. What a lovely and intelligent person. I love seeing an intelligent and civil discussion like this.

[@a_man_of_clay4080]

Gotta love how Steven politely and calmly asks the crowd to quiet down for the young lady with hearing problems, and their immediate reaction was to scream at the top of their lungs...just shows you the mindset of these kids.

[@user-ne1tb2cm4d]

To a damn tee.

[@aflyingcone_2840]

yeah what assholes.

[@swiftyblueredblue715]

Just U.S logic at play

[@jodrafting]

no way. he's a misogynistic able body supremacist outing her disability like that. :-0 LOL

[@jimred3538]

that's actually most teenager behavior. they don't like others telling them what to do

[@thomasgranat8858]

I love how polite, respectful, and civil this young lady is. We need more people like her.

[@nittojoe136]

If we had more people like her the problem would only be larger good sir

[@sydneyhudnall3566]

She is part of the problem... yeah she's not a blue hair raving loony but she's still wrong when it comes to biology

[@DionysusVoice]

@@nittojoe136 I disagree. Whereas we may fundamentally disagree with her, the very fact that she's willing to listen without attacks and accusations and at least *consider* what's being said means: There may be an ability to compromise with her at some point. She may walk away from this conversation believing what she did before it, but she still allowed the proverbial mustard seed to settle. Thomas has a point.

[@thomasgranat8858]

The thing is there are already people who we disagree with in this world, at least she is respectful and polite.

[@brianmitchell22]

@@nittojoe136 I think you’re only saying this because of her stance on the subject, which I would definitely say is misled and incorrect, but comes from a place of kindness. She’s a kind person who is willing to sit and discuss controversial things with people who oppose her own opinion. I think that’s a fantastic trait to have, because that’s how ideas and information are exchanged and minds can sometimes change, hence the title of the series.

[@prouddad1]

I'm only 14 min in and this is the most respectful conversation between apposing view I have seen..And I've officially finished and I have never seen two people so respectful of each others view points and willingness to listen there should be more of this

[@Zero-pg1ft]

This is such a headtrip to watch. Two people who don't agree at all yet are completely calm and rational when discussing those disagreements. Unlike anything ever recorded in human history

[@1592Whitecloud]

I appreciate how respectful and grounded this person was. She's at least willing to make it an enjoyable, intelligent conversation.

[@Elpappydaddy]

100% this. Not often do we get good change my mind segments with lovely people like her.

[@discussioncorner]

that makes 3 of us .

[@mortisnoctu]

Intelligent? Will have to agree to disagree on that. She was unable to provide an explanation for her belief of gender being different than sex other than “that’s what we’re taught”

[@traviswhard4817]

I would actually have respect for the left if they were able to do this consistently

[@michaelquaid4679]

For real. If only most Young folks on the left were that easy to talk to and truly open-minded like she is. We could work out so many things and protect children better

[@diegobarcella1245]

I crave a world where I can talk to people i disagree with this way

[@legoguy2773]

Love your work man keep it up 👍

[@gigamoe1287]

Utmost respect to this girl, she disagreed more respectfully than most people agree

[@everythinghaschanged42]

Utmost*

[@MAW1979]

she's still deluded

[@gigamoe1287]

@@everythinghaschanged42 thank you

[@gigamoe1287]

@@MAW1979 Deluded sure, but not insane beyond understanding

[@TheEroina]

she doesn't identify herself as a girl

[@VintageCupcake18]

This was so wholesome to watch. I hope Gabriella continues on her path to become a nurse. She was so respectful and it was refreshing to see that from someone her age.

[@imgone1078]

That’s so terrible that you have point out being respectful. Our world has gone to shit

[@GoofyManMF]

That last part was rather depressing

[@imgone1078]

@@GoofyManMF exactly, it’s not refreshing to see a grown women act like a grown damn women

[@k.c.r.5974]

There are only two genders and a small percentage of grey areas along with the existence of the trans-people community. And this conversation about pronouns ends with this... you have trans-men and trans-women...and the combination of the two are trans-people. Thats it. So we know what a trans-man is...its a biological female living life and identifying as the stereotype idea of a biological male. Thats what this condition is. A trans-woman is a biological male living and identifying as whatever the stereotype version of a biological female is. People who do these things and have this condition are known as trans-people. Im very surprised with the censorship and violations of human speech rights done by KZbin that any of this is allowed here. KZbin continues to violate free speech rights but under cover...they get into the comments and delete and censor and threaten people with removing them from the site. Keep in mind these are comments like mine with zero hate speech...zero curse words...zero threatening language. People need to start defending themselves against these human right violations and seeking legal councel. Make sure to document what is happening here as well...

[@juanmccoy3066]

U want her working with children and families given her position? Hmm. This is exactly how they've gotten their positions accepted in the first place. The lot of you are very easy to please.

[@themers2474]

I like this type of discussion and debate. It warms my heart to see two people of different opinions be able to disagree so respectfully. It is concerning that such a lack of objective terminology is causing communication to be an issue between generations of people.If we can't even define what a word means and all agree on it then I fear we are never going to resolve any of the troubling issues we face today. As anyone who has any type of relationship with another person knows if communication fails, a healthy relationship is difficult to establish. If not impossible. It is really demoralizing to realize how much of a gap exists between past generations and our present generation. My hope and prayer is that in time we will grow to understand each other better and learn to exist harmoniously.

[@ckosturik]

Nice to see a conversation between two people that basically agree on nothing, but still having a completely respectful talk

[@copsuicide]

all this does is paper over very real and intractable differences with the veneer of respectability politics. the mask drops once bigotry becomes a viable way to make money again and bottom feeders like crowder will be there to scoop up the mud into his mouth.

[@Churchman118]

Such a great conversation…. Loved this.

[@blinkth3dog]

She started out by saying yes sir. Instantly won my respect. Im 40, grew up calling all strangers sir or mam, and still do, and am proud to be respectfull!

[@AAAA-gj7tn]

You're not that special for doing that. Most people do...

[@sweetlifeofHoney]

I'm 35, some say I look younger. But whenever I address someone that way in Portland, OR, they freak out......

[@jamstagerable]

@@AAAA-gj7tn I almost never hear that unless it's someone 40+ yrs old. Most people don't..

[@mukuroikusaba7347]

@@sweetlifeofHoney you pfp makes you like 45 ngl

[@mukuroikusaba7347]

bro a furry at 40 damn

[@PamMinnick]

She said she was taught to be respectful, her parents did well, but I also feel she is just a generally a very kind and sweet person.

[@_on_nicegram_DougHelvering]

Let's talk......

[@thatfishindude5459]

Such a wonderful conversation! Open discourse is so beautiful!

[@toobootay4450]

Kudos to her parents for raising such a respectful kid. Great talk.

[@amberlayne4206]

Be careful with the thought that someone’s behavior or demeanor is always credible of their parents

[@derekhiebert1654]

You can be respectful and still be completely wrong!

[@komodoswagon628]

@@amberlayne4206 I’m positive her parents instilled that in her. Respect like that is taught and she even said she was raised that way. Maybe her parents weren’t so bad after all

[@WilliamCronin]

Not to be rude or anything but i'd almost say her looks have seemed to made her that way as if she'd push someone they just call her ugly or something

[@alexc664]

@@WilliamCronin You mean her physical defects made her experience hardships and that in turn gave her strength of character.

[@audioelitist3677]

Somebody put a lot of love into that woman. You look at all the people out there in the world, that break so easily, giving into frustration, for being ridiculed, put down, etc... and you see her. An absolute pillar of strength. Her views aren't the best, but I think she'll get there. What you can tell is how much love she received in her life, to be so centered amidst the chaos around her. I can't help but to love her.

[@ivantheunknown4545]

I agree. In my eyes, she is insperational! Some of her views as you said arent that logic sounding, but otherwise, she is an amazing person! Even any and all her views are of compasion. Everyone can learn something from her

[@billwillson5361]

This is a great comment,thank you for being you

[@lordvoldemort3928]

Your comments just made this 63 year old dude cry. I'm serious. She's the daughter every parent would die for.

[@dreamchaserfishing8397]

The thing that sucks is chances are instead of her views coming around she will be further pushed into that mindset because of her profession

[@kaysupa361]

Great analysis of her character.... she is amazing, and I see why he said she is her favorite person that he's sat down with. It would be amazing if he started a go fund me for her to pay for her nursing school.... she deserves every cent she would receive, and I'm sure so many people would support

[@heart8271]

Wow. What a balanced, respectful and refreshing conversation.

[@elizabethkhamermesh8647]

Both intelligent a kind people having conversation. Love it

[@timokk3]

Gabriella is the most impressive "change my mind" guest I have seen yet. If we just had more people like her, and Steven, there would be much less conflict in the world.

[@directmessages1157]

Thanks for watching and commenting,kindly touch my profile and send me a direct message right away for more enlightenment💬🔝🔝

[@NewLifeFromTheWayofTruth]

No incorrect we need more people that are willing to change their minds based on facts instead of just stare at you when you say them.

[@timokk3]

@@NewLifeFromTheWayofTruth False. We need empathy, compassion, and respect from ALL sides to have a productive conversation.

[@10_Percent_For_The_Big_Guy]

@@timokk3I think we need everything mentioned in this comment thread.

[@timokk3]

@@10_Percent_For_The_Big_Guy I agree. Reason must be balanced with feeling and vice a versa. It's the old New Testament/Old Testament dissonance.

[@Roboman412]

I couldn't imagine the brain function needed to be able to focus while talking to steven and having to ignore the entire crowd. The conversation between Steven and Gabriella was one of the best I've ever seen, and it shows that even with people with opposing opinions, two adults can rationalize a and have a civil conversation.

[@Eve.n.t_horizon]

im hearing able and *even i * was having trouble! Props to her

[@darkomen42]

Not only that, but those hearing aids are like a freaking superpower, she can hear better than anyone around her and she is still hearing all of that and participating in the conversation with him and you can't even tell. Apparently the girls made some smart ass comment about her being deaf, that's what she was responding to at that point.

[@jaredfullmer7043]

This chick’s got to be reasonably smart if she’s a nursing student and doing alright with it, it’s just a shame she’s gotten some of these crazy ideas lodged so deep in her mind.

[@mrsflo580]

@@darkomen42 someone made fun of her for being deaf? Wow. EFF them very much.

[@emiliosanchez9406]

Gender transitioning is never necessary for a child ever if you believe that, you’re kind of a monster, scratch that you are a monster 👹 damn demonic people. I’m heated

[@IanDaMann12610]

I love seeing two people who represent both sides of this issue so well and both give good arguments and say the things and both say the things that both sides need to say and what both sides need to hear

[@SUMO1503]

Damn. 2 people that can talk to each other about their views without issues 👏👏👏

[@mcnallywacka]

Yo- this is legit one of the most well adjusted college kids I’ve seen on an interview. Mad props and love to her

[@wombat5252]

You can tell she's going to make an excellent nurse even though I don't agree with her opinions. I wouldn't mind her being my nurse. She's respectful and kind and doesn't act like a loony leftist.

[@SaltnPepe]

@@wombat5252 😂 your bar for healthcare must be crazy low

[@jasonbisdead]

She says she’s a “queer person” and believes that gender is a spectrum. No, she will not make a great nurse. She is already thoroughly indoctrinated and brainwashed. She will hurt people. She will talk about “gender affirming care”, and tell mentally ill people that their mental illness is a virtue and they must delve into it and believe that they are something they are not. Objectively, this moron will hurt people and contribute to suicide.

[@maltborg]

Nobody is including Crowder is not gonna address the elephant in the room in regards to the interviewee. What has the Internet turned in to?

[@phillygreekfeet]

mad props "dawg"

[@chadspeller]

I’m 50 years old and this is how you used to be able to have conversations when you weren’t in lockstep on issues with different people!! Great young lady!

[@Tinker-nn4yy]

I'm 46 from Cleveland Ohio and yes this is how working class people used to talk about politics. We could agree to disagree. We would debate things intensely and still be friends later. I'm also gay and this woke narcissism is SO bad, toxic and self immolating, gay narcissists routinely go hunting other gay people and bully them openly with the open support of onlookers. Its just so sick. Everyone's trying to out crazy one anther.

[@jcrunch2955]

What a great convo, super respectful from both sides.

[@rokusansangen1475]

Every interaction on either side was soooo respectful. We need more of this From 13:00 ish to 15:00 ish is sooo wholesome Gabriella is soooo wholesome and smart. Protect at all costs! People like her are rare and amazing. 43:00 I cannot get over how mature and respectful this exchange has been. Props to both Steven and Gabriella!!!!

[@makeda6530]

She’s a sweetheart, bless her. As a 27 yr old woman who was a tomboy, I was a bit confused but I did grow out of it. I’m happy I wasn’t born after 2000 because who knows where I could have been. Lord have mercy on these people, they’re hurting so much.

[@seandoesnpcshit]

Take the testosterone, Emily, you want to be cool like those boys and not a disgusting tomboy, right?

[@seandoesnpcshit]

Nobody is tying little girls down in restraints and injecting hormones because they express a form of masculinity 😂

[@lyricalangst21]

@@seandoesnpcshit that's not what she's saying. I think she is saying this generation while not "being tied down and restrained" it seems it's being encouraged to follow through instead of truly weighing the cost of either choice. There are little girls and boys being forced though to counter your statement. Although to you it may not seem that way. To me a 7-8 year old girl or boy that tell there parents I am *insert gender identity here* and then said parents response to that is to give these kids hormones or whatever injections they give to stop, reverse, halt or what ever God knows what to help them transition to what ever identity they claim. To me that's forcing. A child is not mentally capable of a decision like that without fully understanding the consequences of what they are doing. Things like this should be truly thought over and discussed because as many positive cases there are to people being happy there just as many where someone transitions realizes they made a mistake and this suicide comes into play. I believe that's what she was saying. Don't be so sensitive maybe try and clarify. If I'm wrong I hope she reads this and corrects me.

[@stankguac]

@@lyricalangst21 do some research. parents hardly ever inject their kids with anything until they are very very sure, and there are a lot of laws and policies about this

[@lyricalangst21]

@@stankguac I have done research. Seems you haven't done much of any but to find what you can to prove your point and stop. While what you say is true what i say is also. Your comment is not absolute. You said "hardly" so it still happens yeah? And forgive me but I don't give a shit how sure any one is about anything. This shit WITH KIDS should never happen even if it's "hardly" because who the fuck knows what a fucking child is going to feel or believe when they are 18 and older, shit even when they are 15. You do research and have a seat while you do it.

[@nickgreene2971]

Holy shit, I think it's been like 10 years since I've heard a logical long form disagreement with mutual respect. This was such a breath of fresh air these days props to this thoughtful lady.

[@BloodyCanadian]

I'm trying to figure out what kind of far right hate speech this is lol

[@hmpz36911]

We can do that. Pick a topic until we disagree on something.

[@hxrnvndxz187]

It’s so refreshing to see a disagreement this civil

[@Crakxzz]

There needs to be more people like this woman. I agree with Steven, but it makes me feel so good to know that there are still such things as normal converstaions in the world.

[@chrisgast]

As someone with hearing loss, I really appreciate and respect you for your patience and understanding with Gabriella's hearing loss. Over the course of many years, I've witnessed so many instances of impatient and disrespectful people who lack or choose to lack the patience and understanding for people with hearing loss. It's refreshing to see people who are willing to still communicate with those who are less fortunate.

[@ssp4795]

again, this is something that would never have happened 20 years ago. kids with hearing aids got picked on at school in the 80s. but sure, GenZ has it worse.... 🙄

[@stevenaugust8657]

@@ssp4795 gen z makes quite literally everything worse.- gen z

[@sp00kyd4ddy6]

My grandfather's hearing was so bad that about 2 years from his passing you couldn't have a conversation with him anymore because you literally had to scream what you were saying even if you were 3 ft away lmao

[@chrisgast]

@Plink for your information, I DO wear hearing aids and it's still not enough. And cochlear implants are a bit invasive of a procedure. And guess what? I've seen people without hearing loss have moments where they don't hear or listen well. So get off your high horse, asshole, and for once have some compassion. People need to stop being lazy in their speech like they are in their lazy job searches.

[@wolfebeardsnarl5691]

@@plink7236 you must have missed out on a lot of nurturing and hugs! I think someone needs a hug😊 Bring it on in little buddy💚

[@yuyulliz]

I love the fact that after disagreeing and having a good conversation they start to have a friendly conversation about a movie

[@danielrhode6650]

This is how the world should be 😢

[@Uncle_Jacob]

You might have saw a friendly conversation about a movie but I saw a rather distasteful picture being painted of that movie. Almost as distasteful as that ramen. LoL

[@zainmushtaq4347]

Beautiful soul, I hope she becomes the best nurse. God bless them both for this astounding conversation 😇

[@oliverhg3437]

These are the kind of conversations we need to be having. Both parties need to provide constructive input, to make for a constructive conversation.

[@ryei6]

She is amazing. The fact she said “sir” in a respectful and sincere way multiple times is a telling sign.

[@damienmulder909]

That she had good parents, the only bad thing about her is when she decided her parents are intolerant.

[@5T3LTH]

It is because she is from conservative Texas. That is how people speak there

[@ktktoo8462]

What a beautiful soul she is. Respectful. Thoughtful. Well-spoken. I’d love to see more conversations with young students like her.

[@aaaab384]

Yes, her soul is beautiful.

[@herogebrial]

She was raised right.

[@gazpsychodrilla3278]

yeah but she is "Special Ed" Barely valid in any way.

[@JesusChristSaves.]

@@gazpsychodrilla3278 delete this while you can man

[@imtubin6222]

Nothing beautiful about a soul that is self destined for hell. Blatantly living out a sin is not beautiful