How Long Should Sex Last?

How many minutes of sex is enough? Five minutes, 10 minutes, an hour? The hosts get REAL about how long sex should last, in this Girl Chat. Watch!

[@arlenemontiel7341]

30 mins, isn’t long. Especially if it’s including foreplay! That’s accurate.

[@shyamkajibajracharya2614]

hi montiel how are you?.

[@lifeisrosyyy]

I don’t think many men can last that long tbh

[@kerrian2731]

Thats plenty enough

[@megansimpson1918]

Arlene Montiel I agree lol

[@lovewarren7551]

Arlene Montiel ola bonita

[@Jezabel-in-Hell]

Adrienne is the only one getting anything proper. LOL

[@clemonjgraham7038]

Truth

[@lamoskgr]

I agree. She has that Caribbean blood right there. lol

[@chelseagwenzi4343]

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[@chelseagwenzi4343]

Paisley Stovall yowb

[@chelseagwenzi4343]

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[@bevz90]

The awkward moment when you can't relate because you're a Virgin..... but I agree with Adrienne if I was guessing I would have thought 30 mins too

[@daniphantom6934]

me too, 7 minutes sounds ridiculous

[@n.o1143]

Right loool

[@deborarodriguez7899]

bevz90 yesss when the other one said that it was 3-7 I was like that short I though It was moree

[@wigginskidst.v8427]

bevz90 hello my name is Bryan let me change that

[@naldotubo]

Bryan Wighins your late by a year bro lol

[@shelseajat]

I feel bad that Adrienne’s the only one getting it right 😭

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Ikr?!

[@bribricatherine8577]

Right! Like her timing adds up. If 7-13 mins is adequate sex, then take 5 to do kissing and all that 10 for foreplay, 10 for sex thats damn near 30 mins lmfao

[@agentorange153]

@@bribricatherine8577 So I guess the afterglow is NOT included?

[@markk4473]

Ikr, I came to comments thinking it would be same, disagreeing with Adrienne. Trust me 20-30 minutes is so correct for real normal realistic people and if living with partner long, it’s not even an everyday thing. They’re just saying it for camera. I believe Tamera but sometimes making love but close to 1r and that will be once or twice weekly

[@agentorange153]

@@markk4473 If you take a full hour, then you'll probably have to give up simply from physical fatigue, even if you take breaks during the act (been there, done that)!

[@Akimaj]

I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is about right. That includes EVERYTHING! Kissing, hugging, foreplay, the wam bam and then you continue about your day, lol. Unless, like Tamera said, you're just looking for a quickie then that could take about 5-10 minutes. I hate how they tried to make Adrienne look like she was crazy. I AGREE WITH YOU ADRIENNE!!! Lol!

[@leyway]

The other ladies are married and with kids they cant exactly just have a whirlwind going on in the bedroom. Its different when ur married and things are different when ur still dating. Different strokes for different folks as long as there is a happy ending in the end duration shouldnt be an issue. Coz u can have 30 mins of horrible sex.

[@Akimaj]

Leah S. I'm married with kids too and I still agree with Adrienne lol! But it's like you said, different strokes for different folks.

[@leyway]

Akimaj well i never really sided with anyone. im just saying ppl shouldn't judge the quality with duration. im not married btw.

[@charliebrown6425]

20-30 is not long if u think about. but I feel it's long enough to please each other

[@dariannelson8103]

I agree

[@Misslovlii14]

That awkward moment when Loni says, "Idk what man you're with" to Adrienne and Adrienne just recently called off her engagement...too soon Loni, too soon... And I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is a good amount of time lol.

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

I know it look like it pierced Adrienne's soul lmaook

[@saderoberts4877]

What are Yall talking about I would say 1 hour so what is she talking bout 30 min Thats too short #yesimafreak

[@sandi-lynneshun1739]

+LexiMB Right?! I was thinking the same thing lol

[@prettienini]

30 min is too long. I can be a freak in less time than that lmao

[@lenamonique18]

I agree! 30 minutes for the whole thing is on average. not including complete foreplay of oral and allat. anddd if you're going back to back with different positions that's about an hour.

[@khronicallykatt]

If sex was over in 10 minutes I would be hellllllaaaaa disappointed. 30 minutes including foreplay is prime. Anything longer is just a bonus.

[@laiks5485]

Ok 🐷 oink

[@ellyadoyo]

Thats true

[@allanpearsall8879]

29 mins 59sec or no deal

[@shooklizard9039]

@@laiks5485 ?

[@zozochichi]

1 hour is the least I expect. Never been with a girl who wanted less than 1 hour with me. Every girl I've been with went on and on with me even on regular days. Never had sex for under even 45 minutes before. Not sure who these ladies have been fucking. They seem really unsexed at all. They need to really get fuckedddd .... loooong

[@shimariee5893]

Sex should last as long as you please different stokes for different folks period

[@stevedossa4966]

Sure

[@shawnsmith3713]

Shi Mariee do you have a man

[@shimariee5893]

Shawn Smith No

[@shawnsmith3713]

Shi Mariee where do you live at can I have your phone number

[@shawnsmith3713]

Shi Mariee dame you look good

[@JaguarStar999]

3 to 7 minutes????? What, they interviewed 60 year-old housewives??? 7 minutes is barely enough time to say hello and kiss a little.

[@user1982]

or maybe you're just doing it wrong

[@electromaitotandonde]

+James Kiefer what is wrong with you telling everyone who does it for more than 2 seconds that they're doing it wrong? How do you even do sex wrong lol. If you finish that fast it's not everyone else's fault for being able to enjoy it for longer🙄

[@user1982]

electromaitotandonde i'm entitled to my opinion and obviously my opinion has studies and focus groups to back it up!!!

[@georgew7405]

A lot of time it takes me half hour to come is that normal?

[@SheaRealSavage]

+George Abdo yes...i like 3 hours myself

[@JammyG360]

I'm over here like nothing under 45 minutes unless it's a quickie and y'all talking about 5 mins and 15 mins. Obviously I need prayer...lol...

[@ArtButFood]

lmao

[@laurena1004]

Girl okaayyy! 😩

[@thiagobailon]

+Jameela Rosaé You and I both lol 15 minutes??? Really??

[@Sunshine00816]

Lmao right!

[@maximumrisk2004]

+Jameela Rosaé I met a 5 minute guy once. Was finished before I even started. O.o

[@latina7292]

Am I the only one who just never wants it to stop once I'm started...like ever?! They're making me feel like nymphomaniac.

[@TheFruitney]

+latina7292 dont feel that way... do you even if you have to hold a gun to his head.

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

+latina7292 Agreed, if I don't got anything to do that day I could have it all day tbh lol...but I think what Adrienne was saying is normal, 30 minutes is a television show how is that too long? I think it's funny us as women be acting like we doin ALL the work anyway

[@etherealdeal1792]

+Tany Britt hahaha true that

[@nicolevanessa4022]

+latina7292 Lol I feel you, we latinas baby. Like we can go all day if I have nothing planned

[@latina7292]

+Nicki Santiago YES! Seriously!😂😂😂

[@loveislife77]

I agree with the first chick, 20-30 minutes is fair game. Women who require and demand 4-6 hours AND more than one round are insatiable and need medical help. That's almost a full time job.

[@dattepo7534]

JesuCristoEsREY full time job lmao so true

[@magicdivinity5157]

JesuCristoEsREY Full time job... hahaha

[@juliasmith2271]

JesuCristoEsREY hahhahahahaa. I can't with u LoL.

[@GarySmith-ph2qy]

JesuCristoEsREY yupppp

[@spinosaurusd2985]

Zack jay Women are different and get satisfied in different ways. Some women anatomically can only orgasm through their clit. Its like they don't even have g-spot (or it takes hours). I also know women who only take 2mins. Its all varied. Regardless of a man's technique, there's some women that you may never satiate

[@AyyRalphy]

Adrienne was right wtf was all that screaming and nasty eye aimed at her for?

[@normaniii8498]

Exactly

[@witchywisdom4505]

Exactly. They're haters

[@mzcaribbeauty5283]

yup

[@user1982]

because she was WRONG!

[@polo4127]

She even said including foreplay

[@Jennifer-wc5fs]

i always thought 20-30 minutes was the average time. it scares me that some people want it shorter. and I'm trying to make it last longer.

[@Maddiemaddiemaddie123]

Wait, you're like 7?

[@CrissVaughn]

+Diya K lololololllllll

[@qiarnab]

go do some homework...

[@Jennifer-wc5fs]

+Diya K I'm like 22. try again

[@Jennifer-wc5fs]

+peachpetals what homework? experience is the best way to learn about sex

[@tamaras.e9266]

I've been married for 10 years and together from 12 years with the same man, it all depends when we are tired it last about 10-15 mins. When we are not tired and it s on and poppin' it's a good 40-120 mins. Like Adrienne said that includes kissing, foreplay, etc. You need passion to have a good sex life.

[@Lokey_8664]

Tamara Eubanks you must be gay and with a stud no man can do that but a stud with a strapon yeah

[@shawnsmith3713]

Tamara Eubanks I am looking for a real woman

[@andrewjackson2098]

How often do you have sex

[@e.c.1975]

These ladies must be having nothing but quickies 😂

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Really though!

[@blyat4842]

30 minutes for you is a quicky? Stop

[@mimia.4810]

Sam_ S No. they're saying the other women who are disagreeing with Adrienne and saying 30 minutes is long are having quickies.

[@gawaynelynch8679]

One hour or more is a good sex time.

[@jaypay8954]

Jeanie made it clear she likes quickies.

[@ebonythomas9675]

They aren't listening to what she's saying, she said 20-30 mins with foreplay involved. When you include foreplay it's not that long

[@shawnsmith3713]

Ebony Thomas where do you live

[@shawnsmith3713]

Ebony Thomas how you do miss lady I am looking for a good woman in my life do you have a man

[@shawnsmith3713]

Ebony Thomas I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@warrenaray]

Sex doesn’t have a time limit. As long as both parties 🎉 then it’s good!

[@Xk8rsx]

I’m a virgin so I can’t talk, but 30 minutes doesn’t seem long.

[@GarySmith-ph2qy]

Xk8rsx yeah ok

[@itx02]

30 min ALOT, the average time is 6 min and maximum is 12 min

[@GarySmith-ph2qy]

Xk8rsx oh ok getting of this channel no one cares

[@TheBurnonme]

well stick to being a virgin. Cause you would know about that yet.

[@ericnnamdi3062]

You are missing a lot dear.. Lol.

[@leroyrobinson7018]

i was already in love with Adrienne but now... I am even more. she's just perfect

[@LaCheleWallace]

Chile, sex should last until we can't do it no mo'! Just sayin'.....

[@nellyluscious]

+LaCheleWallace OKay!!!! I'm just saying!!! lol

[@LaCheleWallace]

***** OKAAAAAY!

[@LaCheleWallace]

Anthony Simmons I'm nothing like Rhi-Rhi. Yuck!

[@TheRetroWoman80]

+LaCheleWallace LaChele, that was too hilarious!

[@LaCheleWallace]

TheRetroWoman80 okaaaaay!

[@MajLouisa]

45 -1hour without break, if there are chemistry and passion. I love Adrienne she's always keepin' it real.

[@femaleking493]

'The day I'm married' Who else is watching this after Adrienne IS married.

[@kikilicious99]

Female King It happened sooner than expected. U Still watching?

[@mwacheas]

N with a kid🥺

[@ChastityBTheEntrepreneur]

30 mins is not a long time! What the hell is wrong with them..they acting like she bugging.

[@shawnsmith3713]

Chastity B. The Entrepreneur I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@janaemurray1862]

There’s nothing wrong with them, they just have different opinions

[@jimmyfrancois6111]

You can not even run for 15 minutes... Can you !!

[@kaylabey]

cause she is, what kind of man can just screw for 30 minutes without ejaculating? i feel like y’all are dragging the time

[@UnexpectedWonder]

It really ain't! It's crazy how short the average is to me.

[@sarahjay5484]

Gonna come back to this tomorrow cos I know the comments are gonna be a mess.

[@user-cv5rb5cj1y]

+coco chilli same girl. same.

[@mscourt]

I don't think I can bear to read the comments on tomorrow.

[@flowfreely]

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[@winniehayter6003]

mscourt

[@MrUnattainable]

Why are they acting like 30 minutes is a long time for sex, including foreplay?? I'm so confused... lol

[@natrai95]

Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan that's what I'm wondering 😂lol

[@NataliaRomanova]

Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan so true

[@shakilahermine8712]

rare2b exactly I go 2hours at least wtf about 30min

[@angelsalvador148]

I guess they're just busy women lol

[@weliveforages7696]

Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan I'm young and only been with three girls, but I read up on sex positions and foreplay and stuff, so I've always tried to good even though I had no ideas what I was doing, but usually foreplay is about 10-15min, I learned 20min might make her mad cus its taking long (some women think that I guess). after that I go through the usual missionary, doggy, spooning, whayever that would be I guess another 10-15min at least. I also read Kamasutra recently so I've added like three of four others to try. I'm doing all this and I'm only a teenager. I'd say about 45-60min goes by like NOTHING.

[@juliocesararias5920]

40 minutes when there is love... 10 when there is not.

[@myaudiobookschannel3625]

Julio Cesar Arias hell yeah

[@oceaniamonarch5404]

Julio Cesar Arias Damn ninjas is ruthless out here

[@siphomabadi2931]

Julio Cesar Arias ,that is true dude

[@youngspunky2835]

well when your atracted to woman you may cum faster ...but when there is love it's difrent story for me personaly i try to make the girl orgasm before me and then i can let my dick do his work lol

[@GarySmith-ph2qy]

Julio Cesar Arias jackpot

[@syn0dicc]

I'm dying of laughter at their reactions to 30 minutes because thats like a quicky in my sex life. Adrienne knows what good sex is 😂😂😂

[@zbluepirate]

when Jeanie admits she likes the wham bam thank you ma'am aka quicky. "i love that one" and points at herself....LMFAO Dead

[@shawnsmith3713]

zbluepirate I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@robyndae5416]

it's a known fact that women take longer to reach their climax. Besides Adrienne, why is everyone else talking like their men?

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

because they aren't having orgasms

[@jessicac1623]

+Robyn Dae Thank you ... seriously ... i don't get loni .. either she can reach orgasm as fast as guys could ooor she really doesn't get any herself which would be extremely sad ..

[@joshuamcdowell5782]

+Robyn Dae All women bodies are different. I remember Tamera said it don't take her no time reach climax.

[@MajesticMyronn]

+Joshua McDowell yeh Tam Tam said that on the trial run when the Sex therapist was there here was the exact quote "I get it almost immediately" .

[@xoAuthentiChick]

+Robyn Dae I don't I can have one within a couple of minutes, but I still keep going.

[@shrutikaondich8416]

Loni annoyed me in this discussion for some reason

[@rubisanchez09rs]

I knw I'm disliking the way she's reacting to the subjects they be talking about. like she don't care & looking at the rest of the girls like their dumb or something.

[@CoCoGemel]

+Shrutika Ondich I wish we could've seen the look on Tamera's face when she paused when Loni was making annoying ass noises and comments when she was talking about the different types of intercourse

[@MissJness]

Loni can be really annoying on a lot of these discussions. Like I know you're a comedian, but come on.

[@lenamonique18]

+madeyoulook I think its kinda funny that they pick on Tamera, but I agree. she's married! she knows what it is! Loni acts like she knows everything about sex

[@ohheyshy1550]

+lmkp18 but shes not the only one married

[@gwenjordanisfine50]

Five minutes Tamara, you have got to be kidding me.

[@ericnnamdi3062]

G J five minutes.. My dogs at home last more than... Even the birds... Lmao

[@TheSuperedogg]

🤣

[@ericnnamdi3062]

eric sample you don't believe?

[@shawnsmith3713]

G J do you have a man

[@ericnnamdi3062]

Hello Shawn Smith

[@2KAYE9UNRULEY]

Adrienne you not buggin. The rest of them are just old. 20 - 45 minutes I would believe is the ideal amount of time for most people.

[@lallipoppin]

I still can't believe everyone on here likes such short sex! Wtf is 3-7 minutes?! I'm with Adrienne!

[@jtcartermusic]

For me, and I can only speak for myself; the amount of time spent having sex depends on how often we have it. Like if we're having it everyday, multiple times a day, I need it to last only like 5 minutes max. But if we're having it only a couple times a week then yes, I agree 30 minutes is not long at all.

[@tinychamberz]

im in shock tbh! 3-7 minutes WITH foreplay? thats like not even having sex!

[@davidvusi4621]

I think 15 minutes not 30is too much

[@jordangrier4842]

Most of the people complaining about 7-10 minutes being short are the same ones who can't jog for 5. The problem is that everyone's adding foreplay. That's NOT sex. That's the prelude to sex. 10-15 minutes isn't short for the actual act of sex.

[@jordangrier4842]

abc zyx EXACTLY! I've noticed (experience & conversations) that a lot of the lazy ones like to have sex for a long time. Of course, because you aren't putting in work. Sex with a tranquilized mattress will take 30+ minutes

[@divinelight2089]

I totally agree with Adrienne about the 20 to 30 minutes. And yes, that is including foreplay. 20 minutes is reasonable. That is, if you really love and care for each other and want the sex to be good. I think the other "real" gals thought she meant doing the actual deed for that long. By what Adrienne said here, you can tell that deep intimate sensual good sex and connection is important for her.

[@reuelnampui3547]

Adrienne was just talking about her weekdays 30mins and all of them jump on her so she couldn't say about her weekends 😆

[@maximumrisk2004]

I am confused, do they not want 30 minutes or do they think no man gets that far?

[@melissajacksonmenny8515]

Sounds like they don't want 30 minutes and they don't get that far. Jeannine said 5 :-/ and Tamar and Loni were gasping like that's an outrageous amount of time. Smh

[@Robbynie]

+Melissa Jackson well tamar I love my girl but let's be honest her man can not last that long at all. only position she getting is he hitting it from the back and she riding. and he has health problems so that's y she acting like that. loni ass ain't having sex cause she so lame nobody ain't running to hit that.

[@TylerMauga]

jerk I thought I had a spider on my phone😂😂😂

[@annieparker2788]

+Robbyn Kennedy Yeah cause you in they bedroom sit down hater just cause nobody running to tap yo ass.

[@maximumrisk2004]

kaitlyn jackson She has a point though.

[@jodiii122]

I'm guessing that Tamera, Jeannie, and Tamar's perspectives are all coming from women who have been with their men and have been married for years. A perspective I can't at this point in my life understand and hopefully one that I never have to accept as truth when I settle down and get married 😂! But for now, 30 minutes or more, please!

[@kikilicious99]

Yes!!

[@kikilicious99]

Yes!!

[@kikilicious99]

Yes!!

[@lenamonique18]

yes, PLEASEE

[@latina7292]

YES EXACTLY😂😂😂😂😂

[@houstonscott4362]

I don't know how long it SHOULD last but it tends to last over an hour most definitely. I can't have a quickie. my body won't let me. lmao. 45 minutes minimum is all I got.

[@houstonscott4362]

Hell! foreplay lasts a good while with me also. Lol I like to build up to the actual moment. ;) lol!

[@musicismylife320]

Dang

[@ishrathuque2130]

+Houston Scott I agree. with my bf and I, we could both go 45 minutes pleasuring each other easily (not including foreplay). with foreplay, that's an hour. even in a rush, we need at least 25 mins (without foreplay). my bf and I both like the intimacy that you get when you're building up to the moment. Like Tamera said, making love is different from "wam bam thank you mam"

[@houstonscott4362]

+Ishrat Huque I love foreplay and I can hardly go without it when it comes to sex and like you it lasts quite awhile. actual intercourse is never short for me. haha

[@serenityq26]

+Houston Scott same here

[@unapologeticbooty]

3:45 THAT LAUGH

[@chinitahh94kc]

Lol I need Jesus I was thinking 30-40 minutes and they said five 😂

[@christiansims7952]

30-40 min is average to me and I'm a guy

[@user1982]

LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kamthetrill2376]

1 hour

[@myaudiobookschannel3625]

chinitahh94kc I need Jesus HAHA

[@DJoHnnY181]

lovelylina come to daddy....i can go over 1 hour

[@sharonc5914]

I completely agree with Adrienne that 20-30 minutes is a good time to make love with someone. That's not a very long time, because you're doing different things within that amount of time. I don't believe that the girls fully understood what Adrienne meant.

[@CharletteG]

30 minutes is not a lot of time!

[@christiansims7952]

Ike and I'm a guy

[@jazariathompson3402]

rt

[@cortezdavis115]

What world you live in!

[@rebeczilla]

totally agree

[@desireepaku1910]

I agree

[@KYRAA30]

I completely agree with Adrienne! 30 mins is just right. I’ve never had 5 min sex and I hope that I never will lol

[@ChellesShell]

I never had that either well not with a partner 😂😂😂

[@michellewilliams6266]

lol at Jeanie "I love that one "

[@blessedandredeemed8529]

I died! I'm surprised the comments ain't going mad at this, she was like a kid is preschool who wants to get picked to answer a question but spills the answer too quick! 😆😆

[@michellewilliams6266]

+BlessedandRedeemed lol

[@brookelederer8380]

You all are nuts. If you can get it longer do it. My fiancé and I go for at least 30 minimum, our first night was6 hours. If you can't last 30 minutes your gone.

[@witchywisdom4505]

+East African Queen 😂😂😂😂

[@livelaughlove4459]

+East African Queen... Lmao 😭

[@user1982]

A: 6 hours? Lies you tell! B: If it takes you that long then you are doing something wrong

[@maroonhorizon1693]

+East African Queen LMAOOAOAOAOOA

[@brookelederer8380]

+James Kiefer not even funny. What is wrong with you all?! Everyone is different! So what that I love long sex. I'm not here for 10 minutes. And if I'm telling lies why don't you come find out!

[@melissajacksonmenny8515]

😩 ........ I'm with Adrienne. This is a thumbs down to couples, especially married ones. 20-30 minutes makes sense.

[@champagnegold8614]

I agree with Adrienne. I don't know who the hell Lonni has been sleeping with. Sounds like Tamar ain't used to getting it for at least 20 minutes either. Either I've been with some really good men or they just are with the wrong ones.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Really though! Very well said.

[@princessreal6134]

Bad man? Why a man would be bad in bed cause they can make you finish in 20 minutes?

[@UnexpectedWonder]

@@princessreal6134 Naw...You misunderstood. It was talkin' about him being done, not her.

[@CoCoGemel]

LMAO!! Adrienne looked genuinely confused @1:43. I don't know why they were acting like what she was saying was such a long time. Of course not every time you foop with your partner is gonna be that long. There are some times where you wanna actually make love and caress and canoodle and all that and there are times where you want that quick fix and have that quick shake down on the bathroom sink. It varies but Adrienne's response is definitely not incredulous like they were making it seem.

[@shawnsmith3713]

madeyoulook I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@RootedWings]

I agree with Adrienne. I think a good amount of time is 20-30 mins and I've been married before. I thought more people would agree or say longer lol. A quickie to me is between 2-10mins! that's the same amount of time I take for a smoke break! p.s Yes i know smoking is bad. I don't encourage anyone to start...")

[@MegaCadette55]

thanks for your honesty(last line). you have my like

[@RootedWings]

Lol aww thank you hun!

[@merahabu6965]

Adrienne was the most honest of them,she spoke to her mind ,I can feel the others were not being honest their playing social politics to appear acceptable,and shamed Adrienne.How ever practically it is well proven with many researches that women need more time than men.For men 5 to 10 min may be enough but ,for women it is just a start of the marathon .....,

[@malikiyusufu7394]

merhawi zerom Ummmmm

[@denisegarcia9176]

Y’all 30min is the perfect time. Any longer and I start getting frustrated cause I gotta move on with my life and got some work to do

[@stajamarie4431]

Adrienne has the right idea. I don't know WHAT the other ladies are on.

[@NaughteConsult]

30 mins is too long?? What? 5 mins is not acceptable on no day, Lmbo...

[@miaking6839]

That's all some of us get lol

[@user1982]

then maybe you are doing it wrong.

[@junny16]

when you have been with the same person long and you have sex frequently. you know what they like and they know what you like. so it 5 to 10 mins and your done!!

[@JosephWax]

London Naughte pretty

[@nelsonrobinson2255]

HV by

[@shaya550]

Honestly, we'd just be getting started at 30 minutes; Making-out and fondling. One hour later, still making-out and fondling; "Get your life" ladies of The Real.

[@LifestylewithGifty]

Preech, Girl they need to get their life...

[@ninagalarza6965]

Shay A um

[@WaffleHouse365]

u better say that, cause ur right, i mean 1 hour i havent even got to my fav position

[@cowboicode2285]

I hit 3 hours a few times so I'm really confused 30 mins is being debated

[@JChiwi]

Indeed it's shocking they r debating 30min! Have easily hit 3hrs with all ingredients at play a number of times before.

[@EmileeBreeana19]

I feel bad for everyone but Adrienne lmao

[@salomephillips1876]

20-30 is just fine.....minimum really.

[@makpusamuel8355]

Salome Phillips hello

[@DJoy221]

30 minutes really isn't a lot of time lol

[@francesjames7055]

It depends on the sex. You can have boring sex for two hours or a mind blowing quickie that lasts a few minutes.

[@RacerNight86]

Frances JAMES Facts💯

[@greeneyes9448]

Can’t believe I am still watching after 4 years

[@ramiii171]

Can’t believe I’m reading your comment after 4 years …

[@alleydaprince]

lol lol Jeanie is a mess "I like that one". Poor Freddie

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

she last longer when it's a black rapper

[@kikilicious99]

Or when there are more people involved. Lol!

[@kikilicious99]

Or when there are more people involved. Lol!

[@alinaitwesamuel808]

Five minutes????? Are you chicken.??

[@childishbrokeboirespectwom872]

Shes into virgins...

[@chriskeepit100]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@a.j.kstore2351]

Alinaitwe Samuel haahahaha

[@dianeslate4049]

Alinaitwe Samuel we do quickies. . We both work an do some Ot

[@officialblessingoTvcooks]

Lol

[@Auroracle]

Sex can last however long you and your partner wants it to.

[@christina2311]

Absolutely with Adrienne. I generally get 20 min of actual sex ( when he's really focusing) and 30 minutes of foreplay (him and me)

[@siennaleonne2645]

Loni look like she don't want to be there

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

loni should be replaced

[@dimababay]

+Natasha AndCompany yup

[@livelove7475]

+Sienna Leonne Yeah. The producers may have had a chat with her and Tamar. They've both piped down this season. The others are actually getting to speak...

[@siennaleonne2645]

+C Fas probably

[@lenamonique18]

+C Fas yeah, even though Jeannie ain't get no type word in 😣😣😣😣

[@girlsgeneration9130]

jeanie's "i love that one" killed me XD

[@shawnsmith3713]

Girls' Generation I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@Groanola]

Am I the only person that agreed with Adrienne? Why was everyone looking at her weird lol, I would rather have 30 minutes then 15 minutes of just rushing the entire thing.

[@elocinaqui24]

"5 minutes... I like that one" "making love takes 15 minutes" "doesn't that hurt?" "that's a lot of cramping" i feel bad for these ladies. different strokes for different folks, but i guess they're not getting a lot of strokes.

[@Sophie.H]

Right ? Who are they married too ? 5 mins ?! My man needs longer than that to come.

[@ss5187]

@@Sophie.H just depends, I was with a man who lasted about 40 mins with his last gf, and with me it would be like 10 minutes. He just got off quicker with me.

[@princessreal6134]

Man. They are not getting that many strokes so what? If she finishes why would she want sex of a thousand years? My boyfriend is amazing at eating me out and i can finish in 5 minutes when he does that. Sometimes we have time to keep fucking after oral to each other sometimes no.

[@positivevibes709]

Omg you making me laugh

[@Skimmylou]

sabrina berriez I’m a mom of 3 year old twins. 15-20 mins is perfection for us. We get what we need and it feels great and we don’t need much else. That’s just average for us though, it depends sometimes. But I don’t have a lot of time with these damn kids lol

[@theycallmemo]

LMAO!! I never comment but I MUST chime in on this one! Adrienne boo boo kitty, I feel you girl! 20-30 mins including the wind up is definitely adequate. anything beyond that is just too much

[@thickumschick2700]

can't stop watching these old episodes. seriously misses tamar

[@isiibelieveinmiracles1903]

random mari thickums omg yeah...she brings fire into the conversations

[@shawnsmith3713]

thickums chick I am looking a real woman in my life

[@SkyUchihaxX]

psh. even if its a quickie me and my man end up going for over an hour because he keeps holding back.

[@felin_de_la_nuit]

You took the words right out my mouth!!! lol

[@SkyUchihaxX]

Lol right? If it isn't over an hour it isn't for me. Been there, done that. I finally found a man to keep up with my sex drive!

[@MrThekidisback]

+Janina Buscus That's me right there.

[@qtq7680]

It should be good enough that you don’t keep track of the time. If you are watching the time, you’re probably doing something wrong

[@nyecore]

I’m with Adriene! 20-30 minutes is perfect

[@lucecita19]

I´ve never has sex, becuase I wanna wait until marriage, but Loni´s schedule of cooking while getting it on sounds interesting. You enjoy, then you eat.

[@santriciajones2579]

+lucecita19 Good for you!

[@CharreseMoniqueMusic]

I'm happy for you! That's beautiful :)

[@shawnsmith3713]

lucecita19 I am looking for a real woman in my life

[@iiiJenii]

Love this show!!! I literally could watch these videos all day

[@derekchangedyou1392]

Everyone is so judgemental about this topic lol as if there is a right and wrong amount of time sex is suppose to be. Do what works for BOTH OF YOU problem solved!

[@Kannadatayi]

Fantastic💥

[@bratndahwz]

They left out so much of this discussion. Jeanie used Lionel Ritchie's "All Night Long" as an example, "Are you counting sleeping? Because I want to sleep 5 hours, and night is 8 hours, so you have 3 hours left. All night long?!? I can't get up and walk!!" Then they say that there's breaks in between. Tamar: "Ain't nobody kickin' it all night...Good Night!" Adrienne: "At the same time, you don't want Missy Elliott's 'One Minute Man'". Tamar: "Well, you know...Fine with me!!" Adrienne looking shocked. Tamara: "Tamar, would you agree with this...When you have a toddler, you learn the art of a great quickie" Tamar: "What you talkin' about Willis" and they high-five. Tamara: "Because the toddler comes walking into the room wanting mommy and daddy and you have make sure to take care of yourself and you don't want to get caught." Adrienne: "Have you ever been caught?" Tamar punts, but Tamara looks uncomfortable and winces. Adrienne: "Tamara, have you ever been caught?" Tamara: "No comment." Adrienne's jaw hits the floor. THEN they go to commercial.

[@TheLadyWolf1]

I'm with Adrienne. 30 minutes is a bare minimum.

[@TobyTV]

Did Tamera yell "doesn't it hurt" when Adrienne said 30? Lol everyones body is different because sometime I feel like I don't want my hubby to ever stop lol. I would have thought Tamar would be the one to say 30 because she talks about cracking her back...guess not lol

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

she probably be hoping Vince hungry and not horn lol

[@TobyTV]

Natasha AndCompany​ omg lmao

[@XAmericanGirlDollzX]

am i the only one who doesn't want sex to last forever ?? like 15 minutes (not including foreplay) is good for me

[@blackqueen543]

Bri okkkkkkkkkk

[@blackqueen543]

AGREE

[@victoriasmith2965]

Same... I think its mostly because Tamar, Tamara and Jeannie all have been in a relationship for a long time and are married.... in the beginning obvi sex lasts longer when it's still fresh and new... but after years of being with someone it doesnt last that long... I've been with my boyfriend 7 years and I agree with the others and not Adrienne...

[@zozochichi]

@@victoriasmith2965 Whaaat? Who are you married to, a 65 year old retiree. My wife and I, 50minutes - 1hr .15 minute averages. Yep, we always keep track of time. Ever heard of sex therapy as a form of keeping a stronger bond in marriage? We are still in our late 30s, got married in our early 20s and have kids .... we F like rabbits ... atleats 4x in a week and all of every weekend except for the 5 - 6 days period breaks. Please please please .... get the book 365 Days of Sex by Anne Harper. Y'all ain't living. I truly feel sad for your sex life ..... like seriously?

[@zozochichi]

OMG no wonder why women are so rigid in today's world .... 😂😂😂😂. Y'all ain't getting DICKED right. Wow ..... y'all been living with 10 minute sex men. WTF .... are you even happy? .... WOOOW! ..... Get into sex therapy with your man ASAP! Get 365 Days of Sex with Anne Hooper. Y'all will F like rabbits. I love quickies .... but that's always a prelude to a good 1 hour average later that day or evening. My wife and I only stop F'ing when she's in her 5 - 6 days period. We jump right back at it. Sex therapy teaches, never use tiredness as an excuse not to F*. Get a good 30 minutes in even on the days that your are very tired. Teach your brain to F your lover, ALL THE TIME .... and no, THERE IS NO SICH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX. Married since 2005 ..... in my late 30's with MULTIPLE KIDS .... soooooo 👀

[@anyas8714]

If its not at least 20 to 30 minutes, it's almost not worth it honestly.

[@livelaughlove4459]

I agree

[@user1982]

if you need that long than you are not doing it correctly. you might need to learn something

[@lallipoppin]

+James Kiefer maybe your the one not doing it correctly. U don't sound like u know how to have fun

[@user1982]

Laini D or maybe you are just a pathetic woman commenting on a thread that is dead

[@lallipoppin]

+James Kiefer u can't last 20 minutes and u have the nerve to call someone else pathetic? lol

[@yaaaamaaaa]

"wam bam thank you mam" hahaha i like that xD

[@CharliePowell92]

I agree w/Adrienne 30 min is good

[@kaylaking6687]

Being in love with each other FORREAL and the kids are away for a few days makes ALL the difference. When you're in love and he's crazy in love with you makes the difference.

[@wiscovirgo]

I sometimes feel like the other hosts don't take Adrienne seriously because she's the youngest. Did you notice they were all laughing at her & she was trying to share her opinion on the topic? Like, stop snickering & let her share her viewpoint.

[@damiengarbutt7229]

Someone forgot to finish Tamera's dress.

[@francineamk4202]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Zzucia]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Thatsexyface]

I think 30 mins is perfect for those who live together. obviously if you guys don't see each other all the time it will be much longer.

[@blancamunoz3151]

15 mins is a quickie for me, I need an hour or 2 then we are good. As long as its good to u, I dont think a time limit is necessary and long u 2 can get ur satisfaction.

[@Jambuc829]

blancamunoz3151 2 hours??? Hell no. 15 minutes is not a quickie either. A quickie is 5 minutes or less. I know for a fact you can’t stay wet that long and after a while you get dry and makes the dick numb. If I was fucking past an hour there is no way I could reach climax I would be too tired and my dick would be too numb to cum. So it would just be pointless at that point.

[@lilcortez1901]

You're crazy

[@lifeisrosyyy]

What man is able to penetrate for up to two hours and not cum?

[@evalynn1863]

One of the things I hate about this show sometimes is how judgmental these women can be. This is a matter of opinion. Personally, I agree that with foreplay included, sex should last 20-30 minutes. That's not some bizarre thing. The actual sex may only last 5 minutes, but there needs to be that 15-25 minutes of foreplay for a normal sex session. Quickies can be a few minutes and love making and be 45+ minutes of seduction and romance and sex, but for me, 20-30 is ideal and that's all Adrienne was trying to say and these women hound her and make her seem crazy for what she thinks is ideal.

[@NUTZONYALIPZ]

Depends on the quality of what you're dealing with..

[@ReemThearab]

Tamar”wait! How long?!” her face 😂

[@mactheprince8319]

In my opinion sex is not a time thing. It’s about enjoying the moment. That moment can last hours or minutes. It all depends on the moment .

[@israeliloba]

an hour is a perfect time😉

[@ohimgodly9257]

israel iloba hell no thats mean her pussy lose

[@alishawright1213]

Oh Im Godly !!! Bahahaha oh dear!

[@josephdowner346]

israel iloba u must be taking a pill..........

[@kelvinkibet8081]

israel ilob

[@dylanrich69]

Do you happen to still be a virgin?

[@idkmyuser1]

I'm Adrienne AF

[@mimisophisticateddiscussio741]

Woooooo!!! HILARIOUS! 3-7 minutes is adequate! ROTFScreaming! Hell NAH! A quickie is 23 minutes in my household!

[@reigncandy7442]

I need a full hour

[@franciszomba8623]

Reign Candy come. In Africa my sister 5 hours state

[@mmanhira4994]

Reign Candy if you want satisfaction bold sex chat plz WhatsApp me [phone]. I am a young boy

[@GarySmith-ph2qy]

Reign Candy no love just fucking anal and all

[@dirtyred2411]

Freak

[@ericnnamdi3062]

Lol... She gone here... Wasting time dropping messages.. She ain't even in Dubai dude so take your number back

[@kashiefbebeto1]

I'm gonna have to agree with Adrienne, INCLUDING foreplay and all the stuff besides the actual intercourse, it should last a good 20-30 minutes. I think it all depends on how you do it

[@bellaccino129]

Tamar cracks me up everytime!😂 1:00

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

It depends on how long you/your body wants that pleasure. Besides, it's not about how long you do it, it's about the quality of the sex. Me personally, I'm good as long as I actually got my satisfaction met. I don't necessarily need marathon sessions. As long as we got our enjoyment out of the sex, that's all that matters to me.

[@samanthamostowicz9790]

Adrienne be counting the foreplay😅😂😭❤️