GIRL CHAT VAULT: Is It Ever Okay to Lie?

[@jamiesanders270]

I’m with loni 100% on this. I personally have been hurt by friends being ‘honest’ when it wasn’t asked for. Just because someone’s has a different opinion doesn’t make it fact

[@LiLmSzDiVa]

I’m with Loni, I’m not tearing down my friends. I don’t believe in people necessarily “looking better” than other people, that’s an opinion. It’s not a set in stone fact that someone looks better than another person. In my opinion my friends are the baddest out, period. I’d say the new girl is pretty if she is but I’ll never say she looks better than my friend, which is me being honest.

[@jackson5643]

I totally agree with you

[@susyyqt.]

So, true!! That's Adriennes opinion. And theres not only one type of pretty/ good looking, theres ALL kinds of beauty out there

[@vpersaud3829]

Its really awkward when u guys get ur drinks, drink it and tell the audience how it taste knowing fully well they aint getting any 😂

[@jenc9468]

Ehhhhh to me not awkward just rude lol

[@selma8337]

jolie it’s rude to drink in front of people and not give them any

[@chrystaln1709]

I don't think it's weird or rude. It's just a drink 😂

[@NaNa-wy2tk]

this is why they're celebs lol

[@joannphillip847]

I'm with Loni on this one

[@googleuser6692]

M

[@tenillen4191]

YUPS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@zeliarodrigues2436]

Everyone needs a friend like Loni

[@lindarodriguez8225]

@@zeliarodrigues2436 She talks about sex too much. If not saying it implying it 😳

[@queenjoycole9710]

Me too I was literally about to say this. I’m all about uplifting and motivating my friends for sure ❤️

[@chandlerpope2072]

There’s definitely circumstances when it’s ok to lie. Ur friend’s cooking may not be one of them. But there’s definitely situations in which lying is perfectly acceptable

[@kianaontiveros9169]

I miss it being just them 4😞 I love Amanda but I feel like 5 people is too much and everyone talks over each other , no one is able to get out there full thoughts anymore like when it was just 4

[@ellaa5986]

she isn’t even there anymore

[@Shalayah2010]

It was always 5 from the beginning when Tamar was there.

[@Imokayluv]

@lanie1247 the real didn’t renew the contract with Amanda ..

[@JennHayden]

​@Imokayluv let's do our best to stop spreading lies. Truth still means something. A 5 Second Google search will tell you : Amanda Seales is out at The Real. The 38-year-old actress and comedian revealed on Instagram Live on Tuesday that six months after joining the daytime talk show as co-host, her contract was up -- and SHE decided not to renew it.

[@kianaontiveros9169]

@@JennHayden what lies are being told. I’m simply saying I miss it when it was just 4😂😭

[@IAmSyeK]

Tamera saying “why you laughing” makes me laugh every time 😂

[@ricardocintron3954]

Adrienne not that into jewelry then - now owns her own jewelry collection. Love it

[@maimounadiasse2142]

😂😂😂

[@jasminelopez8358]

Rule #1 when you receive a gift, you smile and say thank you ! regardless if you like present or not. ❤️ use it or put it away

[@s_.777]

“i am not into jewellery like that” - Adrienne and now she has a jewellery line

[@nicolem1865]

Am I the only one who thinks they should at least give the audience sample drinks

[@animebabe539]

They did that for the Oprah show, they just supplied food and drinks before the show as they didn't want to ruin the set.

[@nunyabusiness3516]

Right! At least give them the mock tail

[@teeolu1900]

Nunya Business I don’t think they could. They would have to take responsibility if anything happens in the audience

[@nunyabusiness3516]

@@teeolu1900 the "mocktail" is a non alcoholic version of the drink

[@MsBtheScienceTeacher]

Probably not in the budget 😅

[@eb8555]

I feel like in certain circumstances it is okay to lie. I don't like to lie but I find sometimes it's just the better option.

[@Just-Princess]

I love Adrienne and Jeannie's relationship! They seem like they would have been friends even if they didn't work together!

[@LarissaZavala123]

I disagree with everyone except Loni!! Tam is being a little too high and mighty... You should ALWAYS be polite. Point blank period. YOU may think it needs salt but someone else may think it’s bomb. YOUR OPINION is not A FACT. Sorry to burst all their bubbles 🤷🏽‍♀️ Have some manners. Sometimes it’s ok to make others feel okay...lol. You don’t ALWAYS need to think you’re so “blunt” and “honest” and “real” There’s a fine line between being honest and kind and being an ass. Sorry not sorry.

[@amethystwolf24572]

My mother has told me time and time again that it is more important to be kind than it is to be right. I've spent my life struggling with that to be honest. My mother recently passed, and it just was such an eye opening thing for me. Like, I believe that in a way that I never did before.

[@ceeceedior21]

Well you shouldn’t lie to make them feel good. That’s dumb

[@selma8337]

Chelsea Robinson she didn’t say that.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jonb903]

@@ceeceedior21 What's really dumb is your need to have outside approval to feel good about yourself.

[@ladiired00]

It's not about always needing to "" think"" I'm blunt honest and real" some of us just are. It's not an act. I do agree no one should be rude and I don't take kindly to unsolicited opinions but if you ask a question, expect the absolute truth from me. Being honest and being rude are very different. You may feel bad at first but in the long run that's being a better friend. A lot of people can't handle honesty but then say they hate liars smh it's one or the other. I'm not lying to appease your ego, if that's the case dont ask

[@nobeautynobrains4003]

I looked at this. Saw double digits in the minutes. And immediately know that this is a very old video. No hesitation. And I’m from the UK. @The Real Daytime. Fix up please

[@brandihill5439]

Yes just put 15 min clips up for all of girl chat- stop piecing it together

[@lakevalowe4268]

@@samsamiam23 thank you

[@selma8337]

That’s why it’s called a VAULT dumbass

[@nataliandlovu3155]

Selma you calling me a dumbass did you even read my comment bitchass

[@lmm7879]

Loni cracks me up so much!! I love her so much!! She keeps it real and hilarious as well♥️♥️😀😀😂😂😂!

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think when it comes to telling your friend something whether it’s the truth or a lie.... You have go about it a certain way... I use Loni and Tams situation as an example... Loni didn't lie & she didn't insult , she joked while also telling her what she felt and Tam received it and came up with a compromise ! That's all you gotta do... I always think of what Iyanla says which is “ Your Delivery Diminishes Your Message “ so come up with a way to deliver the message in a way that is well received and well given !

[@carltonbanks6025]

To me lying is a childish quality...people lie out of fear, mostly from the reaction of that person. Be and adult and tell them what it is, and that doesnt equate to being rude. If you cant be real with the people you care about they arent your REAL friends.

[@xlpzten9274]

This is why I love Loni! She is all about her friends and it always shows. I love you Loni!!!!💕❤️💕❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🎉🎉

[@ndariamchenry3816]

I love this show 😍 because the ladies the show hosts be telling the truth very and keeping it real 😆😆🥰

[@nehwonmantor7266]

I am a empath. I can't lie to save my life. Lying will mess with my head and emotional drain me out.

[@erissromero3822]

Then in no way shape or form are you truly an empath sorry, just a narcissist common for them to feel like empaths but youre not sorry, an empath would definately choose to lie to protect feelings over letting out their true thoughts just to make themselves feel better get over yourself dust bunny

[@SC-hi6tp]

adrienne lied when she said she wasnt the flamingo so I guess it is haha

[@syanderson83]

Thats literally the next video on my suggestion list 😄

[@Monique215_]

Swift Cat they was supposed to lie 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lifeassaniyah121]

She had to

[@mattyybearr]

is it ever ok for the real to repost 30 year old episodes?

[@nobeautynobrains4003]

ariana doing tingz 🤣🤣🤣

[@victoriak1866]

im yellingggg

[@kaylenejantjes8113]

Discuss 😂😂😂

[@tabithaleister1097]

yes! because not all your guys viewers are older than 30 xD

[@jazzzzzz1233]

ariana doing tingz these are my faves because I missed episodes before

[@alize_paredes]

It’s never okay to lie. Honesty is the best way to go. No guilt, no regret. So simple. Why lie and put more stress and guilt on yourself.

[@xxmrbadxx8626]

Alizé Paredes I agree

[@SC-hi6tp]

adrienne lied about not being the flamingo though... some lies are ok

[@JayLawson]

Not true. When my girlfriend is noticeably gaining weight I have to act like I don't notice otherwise she will have a nervous breakdown(she always gains around the holidays). So I tell her I don't notice and say that she looks fine because I know she will lose it after the holidays, but im not gonna be the one to tell her the truth because I value my health lol.

[@erissromero3822]

No youre just a narcissistic bitch who chooses to make your world perfect by ruining others, classic narcissist

[@izzyem]

i am a VERY honest person and i will cut someone off if they are a pathological liar… honesty is big for me

[@darrylsays2009]

4:12 Jeanie tried to put Adrienne on blast about something she said earlier that would've made her look like a Hippocrate so she changed her answer at last minute. 😝😂

[@carlayfbabii]

Sometimes I cringe when Adrienne says certain things ... I think she thinks she's being real but shes kinda just rude

[@animebabe539]

I think that perfectly explains most people that classify themselves as 'just honest'

[@nivyrivera]

I think it has to do with her being Hispanic. I’m Puerto Rican. When I speak sometimes some people assume I’m coming out rude and I’m really not.

[@Relrellz]

They really should give the audience the option to at least buy the drink. And I'm with Loni in that situation Adrien described I'm boosting her self esteem.

[@tabithaleister1097]

It's called "Constructive-Criticism" I feel like whenever I ask an opinion from one of my girls.- I want brutal honest opinion.. hate when people think to tell you only what you wanna hear

[@darinaangelova2882]

Then you go hide in the bathroom and hate on them haters...

[@lerayshaaen]

I rather someone hit me with the truth on my way to heaven than hit me with a lie on my way to hell 🙏🤣🤣🤣 meaning I will respect someone more when they tell me the truth. Remember it's not what you say but how you say it 😁😁😁❤

[@itsQueMajor]

Adrienne: POINTER !! Audience : index finger. Adrienne: Oh.

[@sonrisaverdean757]

Deinelle Burke it’s pointer finger and index finger. Both!

[@dinishalewis425]

@@shari-annjones9887 lol did u look it up b4 you told some one else to? Just delete your comment lol

[@shari-annjones9887]

@@dinishalewis425 What? Wait, was I supposed 2 b intimidated by u now? Chile plz. First & foremost, my account was actually hacked, so I had 2 report it in order 4 me 2 get it back. Secondly, I'm MOST DEFINITELY NOT interested in any sort of petty feud or an ongoing back and forth conversation between us 2. So u can calm yourself down and chill. Tf.

[@dinishalewis425]

@@shari-annjones9887 ummm.... idk how I was perceived as trying to be intimidating lol. You attempted to fact check someone in a rude manner (at least imo it was rude) telling them to look something up and you were completely wrong. The pointer and index are both the same finger. It was funny

[@dinishalewis425]

@@shari-annjones9887 I also see you did what I said and deleted your comment lol

[@elisabetsarai4673]

Loni is soooo funny!!! 😂😂😂

[@lynnramadan9855]

Yesterday , I just saw Adrienne ‘s video on her flamingo experience and her lying to everyone . And now this video hahahah KZbin u cheeky!

[@SKYYLOVE]

*what’s disgusting about jewelry...?*

[@seaanna41]

Tamera’s love for her husband ♥️

[@SuperMurray2009]

Most would say yes it's ok to lie. As long as they making sure the spouse doesn't find out

[@prudencedantye9297]

I love Jeanie’s look. So dope!

[@ilenix3074]

Adrienne being extra about the jewelry 🙄

[@heyheyhey40]

So Loni was going to Tamera’s house and eating Adam’s portion of the meal

[@youcantsitwithus3102]

Joe T right!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@God_dess_love]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

[@kayhaughton3181]

😂😂😂😂

[@annam8983]

Lol

[@thelmankenda-bikoumou4474]

Beauty is subjective so my friend is definitely hotter than her ex’s new chick 🤨

[@vanessaissa3577]

I LOST it when they went “EWWW” to the thumb ring 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jenniermartinez8801]

I feel like the audience should have like a taste of the drinks lol I can’t imagine watching them drink and being thirsty or like craving it lol

[@jennyvenditto2943]

I like to watch these older episodes that Amanda Seales ain't on so I can actually hear the REAL cast.

[@emmam8876]

Can you imagine the uproar if a group of men where discussing whether or not women should wear jewellery lmao 🥴

[@dy1228]

Did They Pick You Yet 🤔 🧐

[@denissealmonte8664]

I’m with Loni on this lol

[@naiiiim]

she said “thank you, contour.” 😂

[@fahlala11]

Jeannie is my Bishhh!!!! I love that girl! 💚

[@Quadcast88]

Tamera’s Fri-Yay, so opera like..... 😂😂

[@Vanessa-54]

jewelry doesnt need to come off to get it poppin'

[@ericakang]

Loni, “the best breast in the business!” Hahahaha best use of alliteration I’ve seen in a while.

[@GamerBabe16]

i really like this hairstyle on loni

[@OmKhadijah]

I'm with Loni on this one.

[@cleopatrawf]

Silence speaks volumes lol. I'm the same, don't ask if u don't want to know. But unsolicited compliments r genuine from me. But of course sometimes friends need a gee up.

[@starrytvng]

Jeannie's fashion side showed up

[@ragslittlebutmscuty2966]

Is it just me or did anyone else notice when jeanie said stomach ache she motioned towards her head. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mindofzena8447]

Lol I was looking for this comment

[@keyunadeshay5259]

I’m with Loni ima be like “mmm she coo, but she ain’t got NOTHING on you” definitely keep my friend juiced up at all times !!!

[@janellebaidein3465]

Love these kinda of talk shows to be real wayy And I mean way better than Willy.. show the essence Hillary something show or whatever this is the best show with amusing acts laughter romance pranks juicy secrets and not forgetting all their drama this is one of a kind love u guys

[@adduranadrian]

Loni was extra funny this segment

[@ExRatedEmiLy]

Adrienne: I am not into jewelry like that 2019: starts jewelry line

[@sharonwilliams4074]

The segment was about men wearing jewellery, her line is for women.

[@ExRatedEmiLy]

Sharon Williams doesn’t matter she just said she doesn’t like jewelry like that lol

[@celestesharp6120]

If you have someone who asks you a question, who will be hurt no matter how you answer the question...maybe next time they shouldn't ask.

[@chassnaecarter4528]

Poor Tamera. Her whole face fell🤣 loni broke her heart for a minute.

[@SepangGuy]

Tamera is a ten stars Michelin dessert!

[@rawwithcrys9847]

I’m not into jewelry like that... creates her own jewelry brand 😂

[@dreamgrlarchive]

I wouldn’t tell a friend another girl is prettier than her, especially in the midst of her heartache… I mean why would I

[@bubblesbunnyful]

I agree with Loni especially if a friend is asking if an ex bf's new gf looks better of course it would be no. Better yet she's beautiful but your just as beautiful and he missed out on something special with you To tell your friend another woman is better looking is never needed.

[@leishavanessa6213]

Tamera is straight glowingggggg❤👏🏾

[@themunozfamilyadventures]

Loni with a WORD HERE 👏🏾

[@kesandrawilliamson2464]

Jeannie and tamera looks cute. Lol jeannie

[@cyn725]

How is Adrienne going to be ok with a pinky ring but not a thumb ring lmao

[@anahatahandmadeproducts4319]

Odd Fact about me....I cannot ingest lavender. I can have it on my skin, I can make products with it, I can touch and smell it but not drink or eat it. Makes me sad.

[@mea174]

Jeanie: like a thumb ring Adrienne: ewwwwwhhhhhh AHAHAHAHA

[@ladaa.1819]

I need all the drinks they have on the show...

[@lynnramadan9855]

She is dating jeezy that is no 85 year old man, sorry Lonie hahahah love u girls !

[@kimberlybrabson3988]

Jeezy is 42 years old, and ooh wee , whew!!!!😜😜😜😜😘😘😘😘

[@jasi7313]

I know y'all read the comments so please start putting the original air date on the girl chat vault vids. 🙄 we been askin forever.

[@Matthew-vp9rh]

Not the Jesus warrior saying, “Y’all know how I like to turn up” 😂. No girl, we don’t

[@idawilcox5275]

A true friend would tell you the truth in Love

[@amandah.2202]

It’s really hard to give Critism because people can’t handle the truth .... also depends who

[@meganlopez560]

Sometimes Jeannie tries to hard to be....I don’t know....different?? Lol y’all know what I’m talking about

[@cicicerreta]

I learned the 3 day rule with phone calls from Sister Sister hahahaha

[@marcielouset6186]

Adrienne shared on her KZbin after the show ended that they sometimes would take shots before the afternoon recordings. Loni was definitely drunk here lmao

[@jenc9468]

Loni”s hair 😍😍😍😍

[@shanice_a]

It depends on the jewelry and the man. Some men look good in certain jewelry, Index finger rings, Pinky Rings , Thumb Rings, Chains, Diamond Studs, etc. And some don't .

[@meaganbianca2978]

16:15 Loni is mean to Jeanie a lot of the time but Loni really cares for Jeanie. Loni knows what Jeanie went through and wants to help her through it.

[@Runzararun]

Meagan Bianca didn’t she meet James on a dating site?

[@jordankay8578]

Me and my man hooked up on a one night stand. Have. Even together for almost 10 years. December 2020 will be 10 years we have been together

[@vsriracha]

Excuse me but JEWELRY IS HAWT

[@ShiningBright777]

To all. Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand! No matter what you may be going through, Jesus loves you and will never forsake you. Just call on Him about anything and He will be there for you! Love you all and May God bless you in Jesus name!!

[@tajahneyespinosa1208]

@Loni need to be my hype man ! I love her 😍 😂😂😂

[@danny-geenaosusuga1942]

Anyone peep when jeannie said stomach ache but she was motioning a headache 😵‍💫

[@krishernandez7259]

The only time I've ever really (as an adult) said i didn't like a gift was when my dad's 3rd wife bought me and my sisters POS gifts like stuff we would never ever use and I said something to my dad because his wife didn't even come with him and he was even like yeah I'm sorry she said she would take care of it and clearly didn't know us and then he gave me and my sister some cash to get something we would like and from then on he bought our gifts lol otherwise I was raised to say thank you because no one owes you anything that's why it's called a gift

[@mckenzie.8653]

100% honesty ALL the time is a surefire way to lose your friends. Sometimes it's ok to lie to protect someone's feelings. It's not ok to lie to deceive, manipulate or take advantage of someone.

[@kokikodevereaux4932]

How about saying what you like because you may like more spice than not. Then there are friends who can't handle the truth. I feel no need to offer a "honest" opinion on non- important things that they aren't going to be receptive to it anyway.

[@justsaying8]

Ok Adrienne! let's see how she will like it if she has a dinner party after cooking and all that and when she asks how was dinner and someone says it needs more salt! Let's see how ok will that be getting embarrassed in front of ppl. ALSO let one of Ur gf's come tell u ur ex is with someone way hooter than u let's how u will take it Adrienne! All BS from her here im with LONI in all this

[@maryhawkins4022]

what’s the point of lying if grown asf that’s just dumb 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@nadda698]

In my religion lying is only allowed in three situations, Reform between people, war, and the conversations of a man his wife and a woman her husband ( as in keeping it to only you two)

[@ariannadshae]

i would only lie if telling the truth wouldn’t be productive. if you tell your friend they need to season their food a little more, their cooking will improve and people will enjoy their food more. telling your friend she’s less attractive than her ex’s new girl would do nothing but hurt her feelings. some truths are just unnecessary to say.

[@demetrishoward7032]

It's really annoying to hide behind not hurting feelings to excuse BS'n people.

[@lindaibude4264]

the real check out Loni's makeup... Lord have mercy!

[@wandabellahiles]

This is the first time I’ve seen Mai speechless

[@Thegoldmoss_]

My man wears a necklace with his daughters name on it and it's SEXY!

[@PrincessPowerUp]

Loni is single to but we only ever hear, see, smell about Jeni dating. We can play into the bullshit if we are trying to change it.