PART ONE: A Father Confronted by a Racist

[@hildasmith5115]

That's why the children are bullies because their parents are that way. Sad.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

Exactly

[@cinthiagiron4852]

Yesss

[@taywright4389]

If I could like 1,000 times I would SO VERY TRUE

[@kathleenjohnson1354]

Hilda Gibson Ive always told my child that. Bullies are being bullied at home. PERIOD.

[@TAMANDJON]

EXACTLY!!

[@thagoldenbabe0359]

And I like how shocked he was acting that everyone was offended. He really thought that was an okay comment.

[@Sugafied08]

Omg! Yes😂😂😂

[@dimplepascua3921]

The audacity.

[@dannyt3668]

If you think this is bad, you should be even more astonished by the things those kids were saying for the meeting to be had to begin with. We in a Trump world and I hope y'all go vote him out! It's a start.

[@iggychuck3679]

For real... He really said "yeah this is it, I'm gonna killem with this one" Disgusting.

[@Taikyaa]

I think he thought all the white people in the room were going to agree with him and stand in ovation for his brave and heroic statement.

[@tiffanyk.1955]

The woman who shouted the "You need to leave!" part, is sending me LOLLLLLLL😂😂😂😂

Irony just fly over head.

[@TroyTalks.]

Her voice lol

[@Alexsh2010]

I’m sorry but I laughed too! 😂😂😂😭

[@curtissimmons2287]

😂😂 its funny but also its crazy cause people in Michigan are Prejudice

[@curtissimmons2287]

@ that was outside of Detroit cause there arent too many schools with diversity its mainly all black kids in Detroit public schools...that guy would've gotten beat up in a Detroit school

[@xredb]

I'd be so embarrased in that school if that racist man was my father😶

[@SammyPebbles]

But I'm sure he'd be sooo proud if you were his daughter smdh 😪

[@SammyPebbles]

@ It's like you fuckers want to have a victim complex lmao

[@ErrisOfficial]

dreamsdo cometrue And people mad at football players for kneeling for an anthem this country doesn’t even live up to....

[@kyronlewis6975]

Erris you speaking nothing but facts💯🙌🏿

[@kyronlewis6975]

If that was my Dad I would’ve cursed him out myself

[@Averia89]

Racism just released their new single called “Still Here,” y’all should really go check it out.

[@eddiy335]

🤣🤣

[@along58]

Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂

[@aztro187]

We all a little racist bro... Thats human nature

[@along58]

aztro187 correction, we are all a little prejudice. Not racist. They mean two different things.

[@aztro187]

@Anonymous x am not justifying anything ... Am telling like it is... You americans live in a another world man... BTW i went to Houston a year ago, and i was astonished that it was like living in Mexico... And am latino too jajajaja go figure...

[@diadia_loyal]

The way that dude threw his hands up like he didn't say anything wrong...says so much!!

[@ilac3803]

The Dracobirthstonian where did this come from lol

[@jermen5137]

He’s used to it....disgusting

[@SabrinaHendrix.]

They don’t think or realize that they are wrong because they are not teaching real history in schools whites thinks we put ourselves in this situation

[@emeraldpeony]

The Dracobirthstonian WHAT. I think you mean ethnicity....anywhooo not the point at all.

[@lleexxii]

It seemed like he was shocked that everyone disagreed

[@jsbreezy]

I’m confused-didn’t his family immigrate to America too? He doesn’t look Native American to me...Nobody asked him to go back to Ireland or wherever he came from.

[@imlikett5293]

J9 B exactly, it’s always confuses me when white people say that with so much confidence.

[@Wildpeonies23]

Some folks forget how they got to America... I mean the New Europe.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Pink_MobStudio]

Facts

[@jsbreezy]

Charles Crandall holding someone at gun point and taking what they have isn’t ‘founding’ it’s called theft. Both now and back then. And what are the stats on EBT disbursement? About half of the recipients of welfare are descendants of those ‘settlers’ you’re so proud of. But feel free to twist facts so you can feel superior. News flash-you aren’t. lol

[@Destinay4lyf]

I literally said that out loud when I heard him say that... even the Ireland part😂 idk why we got Ireland vibes

[@theenergyisoff]

The father was expecting hand claps and cheers. He felt that he was among his peers. I’m glad he experienced that awakening moment

[@theenergyisoff]

Charles Crandall What is Laquishits?

[@theenergyisoff]

Charles Crandall Ok.

[@summer7293]

@ I pray and hope you are not an inherently evil person to say such things. Hope you become a better human one day.

[@pinktink_fairy]

Charles Crandall how about the man go back to Europe then . Foh

[@summer7293]

@ yes though I am an atheist, and yes elephants are awesome animals and I love them❤️ I wish you an awesome day and hope your heart turns kind. Much love❤️❤️

[@EleashaD]

2:30 Adrienne is so right on that. If that man can say that in front of all those people, i really wonder what he says behind closed doors.

[@GETYOUREDUCATION]

AND imagine how confident ppl feel to tweet hateful things behind web accounts...

[@liliwms508]

eleasha dorvil right?!?

[@queenbutterfly4888]

all the white gentlemen said was go back to your country if you don't like America. White man was absolutely correct.

[@abigailwilliams8889]

@ You're an actual ignorant ass.

[@TraceyJean]

Queen Butterfly: actually he said why did you leave Mexico. That question/comment is problematic on many levels, especially if he doesn’t know the man speaking well enough to know where he’s from.

[@inspectorgadget1368]

The man was explaining how his son was being bullied and his reaction, “Was go back to Mexico!”???? Wtf!! First off he may be from Honduras or El Salvador not every Latino is Mexican, secondly that man could’ve gotten his citizenship to be here which is hard af. Many natural born citizens wouldn’t even pass that test. So fucking rude!! Hope his employers see him on this clip. 😤

[@britneyaguirre4088]

Agreed! And also, the Hispanic man was VERY well spoken (not saying we all aren't) what I'm saying is you're right, we don't know how hard he possibly worked to get his citizenship if he did. And if he didn't it wouldn't matter. The struggle to get here is real 😤

[@inspectorgadget1368]

Brittany Aguirre My heart hurt for him at that moment. He was sharing a hurtful experience that his baby boy went through and then this jackass pipes in like that. I’m so glad I wasn’t there. I would’ve been heated.

[@chaniecekinglife14]

Basciacally cuz he asked "then y didn't u stay in mexico" jus sad.

[@Mm-wq6no]

Wow I loved your comment ❤️

[@MarianaLopez-pg1mp]

The news said he is a citizen and not just that, his actually a business owner to.

[@signalfire15]

The son publicly disowned his racist father lolol gotta respect that.

[@queenbutterfly4888]

the son is a lost cause...probably a raging homosexual atheist

[@ryrysofly09]

Queen Butterfly a... “raging homosexual atheist” you’re tragic....

[@aschmum]

I would have made a public statement too tbh. If he didn’t, we all know he’d be getting bullied for his fathers doing.

[@marzblaq7267]

Queen Butterfly It’s a shame that someone so gorgeous is so ignorant. Damn shame

[@moons4363]

@@queenbutterfly4888 ??? You look like your mixed with black 🤦‍♀️I am confused

[@asli353]

“Those that do not stand for the oppressed, have become the oppressor.” - Prophet Mohammed, may peace and blessings be upon him

[@brandih7924]

But Jews and Christians have been oppressed in Middle Eastern countries

[@rosexo9389]

Brandi H Muslims are oppressed in Europe , there’s been countless amount of hate crimes against Muslims especially Muslim Women

[@Samirahsworld1]

tototi95 preachhh

[@JD-kp6pt]

@Rose Xo Lol Muslims are not oppressed in Europe. There population is rapidly growing in Europe. Meanwhile the population of Christians in the Middle East is rapidly declining and they are expected to become practically extinct from the region. Christian women frequently get kidnapped converted and are used as sex slaves by Muslims in the Middle East. So you really can't compare the 2. Also several rich Gulf Muslim countries like Dubai, UAE, Qatar still practice slavery.

[@laylah6192]

Brandi H what does that have to do with this statement? Just like there’s bad Christians and Jews, there’s also bad Muslims who don’t follow their religion.

[@trulyt247]

I love that Amanda felt the need to challenge Tamera and her "calmy" comment. If I'm passionate abt something and my voice raises now I'm a stereotype.

[@Ari-br3rd]

Shout out to the African American man that STOOD UP for that father! 👏🏽 I love to see our people coming together. United together we would be unstoppable 🖤

[@RicoLamar987]

We millennials and gen Z need to educate our sometimes ignorant parents...

[@RicoLamar987]

The Dracobirthstonian Embracing and accepting people for who they are & where they come from...what a concept?! It’s difficult to grasp right?

[@Evee101]

FACTTTTSSS!!

[@TNDCBaby]

@The Dracobirthstonian WTF are you talking about? People are offended because people are still saying foolish stuff.

[@TNDCBaby]

@Bo Stephens Younger generations have always enlightened older folks about progressive things. If it was only the other way we'd stay stagnant and outdated.

[@TNDCBaby]

@Bo Stephens I hear what you're saying but i think your take is off. We've got the same background

[@simply_me_sg922]

I think Tamera was trying to go with the whole “when they go low, we go high” approach. Unfortunately it came across like she afraid of being labeled. I also see where Amanda is going with it. Like why do we have to respond calmly in in order to be heard. I understand both sides. I’m just really glad that in a room full of different races, they made it clear that what he said is unacceptable. It gives me some hope. ❤️

[@annvaughn8974]

Truly agree we've always have to be calm and teach others how to treat us I'm here for Amanda is it just me or dr I'd loni to seem ti o not give a damn about the whole thing

[@ifunanya24]

Shana Glover .. I think basically Tamera meant there was no ass whooping. The guy was reprimanded in a civil way. To become hostile or violent towards him is NOT helping anyone. Usually we see something like this escalate to a physical brawl or mad loud shouting and screaming. Understandably we’re angry at this man but your wild anger feeds them!!! They hate it when they don’t get a rise out of you.

[@simply_me_sg922]

Ann Vaughn she definitely seemed very nonchalant. She’s normally the one that’s the odd one out on her opinion.

[@simply_me_sg922]

ifunanya24 right. I love making people feel dumb by using a calm, condescending tone.

[@jackieagard537]

@Katrina M I think Loni doesn't know who side to me on now , remembered when Loni was black !?!?!? , now she white racial black, and if she get any children for Adam-lookalike they will be biracial,and if she adopt No way is she adopting black children, her children has to look like Ariah and Aidan.

[@MiMiOrt]

Amanda is on to something with Tamera. Mark this comment, Tamera ALWAYS stays shy on these topics because of her background I guess but soon you'll see...

[@ericajohnson2256]

Yes, I think you are right, it's her background. I think we filter our responses through our dominant personality traits. Since Tam is just a peaceful, non-confrontational person at heart, she values when people respond calmly while someone who is more confrontational would value a more aggressive response. I have struggled at times in how I respond to people who really get me angry. I have always regretted losing my temper because as Tam and Adrienne pointed out, people only remembered my anger instead of being able to focus on what they did that caused the situation and what we can do together to resolve it and move on.

[@ErikitoMoreno95]

@Leyah I've noticed this as well. I feel like it's because to some people "she's not black enough" in order to speak about black views, cultures, etc. She knows this, and doesn't want any backlash which is sad...

[@Smileynoiiex3]

It kinda breaks my heart. But Amanda should leave her alone she doesn’t have to speak on a topic if she doesn’t want to.

[@Samirahsworld1]

Noe Salaz Amanda shouldn’t leave Tamera alone , I don’t feel sorry for her one bit . She’s a person of colour & rarely speaks up on race topics & likes to dismiss them so it’s great that Amanda is putting her on the spot

[@queenbutterfly4888]

Amanda hates whites...should be locked away somewhere

[@AaAa-qq5wr]

I disagree with tamera and I loveeee how Amanda pushes Tamera to talk more about race because she loves to be quite about race.

[@natsohigh5552]

I get the "Go back to your own country" thing allllll the time. I'm like "I'm already here. Fool"

[@natsohigh5552]

@ I'm not American 😂🤣 You tried though bless you. Better luck next time

[@Irenxic]

Charles Crandall you really tried it 😂😂😂. Next time stfu

[@taneciadepass3760]

@@natsohigh5552 😂😭😭 This took me out.

[@natsohigh5552]

@@taneciadepass3760 I would just love , even for a week for all people in America who are not white to just up and leave the country. Watch everything crumble 🤣

[@mandys1038]

I love how that racist man was left on his own while the other parents stood united, this is what we need more of.

[@MaishaOnTop]

Exactly they checked him!

@@MaishaOnTop Have you considered learning English?

[@pb66]

How is what he said racist?

[@rayshelekonde]

Tamera is like a robot when it comes to these issues. She either doesn’t say anything or gives the same surfacey safe answer

[@shenquejames7598]

Guys Tamera is part of both communities. So, she knows how white people take aggression or being demonstrative. So, she is stressing calmness because of that.

[@TresJolie7]

Rayshel Ekonde Tamaga is scared to speak freely because of Adam.

[@melodramatic7904]

Strange since she has a valid point.

[@Ahsital]

@@melodramatic7904 Right? I think they are misinterpreting or losing the point she's bringing across.

[@rayshelekonde]

melodramatic7904 I mean great for you if that’s how you received her message. We all will have difference of opinions. But I think most people are tired of the whole ohhh just be calm and nice or the message is lost bull crap. That’s too much cuddling for a grown ass man who knows damn well what they saying. These ladies...except Amanda...are sitting here acting like a grown ass man doesn’t know he’s being racist so we should cuddle him and ask him why he’s saying what he’s saying...that don’t make no damn sense. Also they are speaking very objectively. If you’re actually in a situation like that and someone insults you..the last thing you’d want to do is sit there and try to decipher why a racist is racist...

[@IMADIVA1127]

Amanda is a force to be reckoned with. I truly feel like she is on the wrong show and should head over to the view. These ladies have a warped reality. They don't have strong opinions especially Tamera and they seem annoyed with Amanda because she challenges them and they can't rise to the occasion. I think they are better at discussing pop culture. I just dont think you can find an intelligent conversation among these women excluding amanda.

[@annvaughn8974]

Finally someone who gets it I've been here for Amanda they need her to get t some real conversation going not jlo again but adult topics

[@jackieagard537]

The ladies of the real best at the L train segment, cardi B , Future, the royal family crap , Tamera, Adam and her children , Adrienne shouting , and pouting and flipping her hair getting answers from the lap top , maybe meking sure that husband of her is where he say he is and not out making side babies, Jeannie could hold her own , Loni is not letting Amanda take over , for now boost the rating by having more of a cross section of viewers but after that Amanda YOU GONE.

[@Awillii]

Jackie Agard you are too much lol

[@laqueshagirl177]

I agree to a certain degree, I don’t think they have a warped perception of reality, I think they have a specific image they maintain by speaking lightly on things while Amanda’s image is speaking very blatantly and direct. She holds nothing back and is very unapologetic, I think Loni & Jeanie are the same way, but less cut-throat as Amanda (slightly less critically thinking, & she usually has a lot more facts to back up whatever it is she is speaking on) & Adrienne & Tamara are more reserved in the way they speak on things because of their specific audiences they cater too & the way they want to perceived in media.

[@tannaloren3088]

Jackie Agard lmaooooo!!! ok but what’s the tea with adrians husband making side babies?? I’m shook 😂

[@eltina21]

The only person that can bring out a conversation about racism with Tamara seems to be Amanda 💀

[@Angeliina1]

exactly

[@palikane8998]

Yasssss

[@anabelleee26]

eltina21 I honestly think it’s bc Tamera gets the most racial hate on the show. She can’t say anything without someone saying she isn’t black enough or that’s her “white side talking” so she opts out of having an opinion for fear of backlash

[@laurencameron3150]

Stephanie C Um your statement isn’t true at all and it isn’t that Tamera isn’t black enough, she’s not black. She’s mixed. The two aren’t the same! I read the comments and when race is being discussed ppl never say the things you mentioned. They ALWAYS talk about how she says away from the convo! They rarely bring her race into it.

[@annvaughn8974]

And i like it that she does tam apart of this discussion also so get involved or be like loni jump in every other word just saying

[@MRS.TRIPLE-A321]

BRAVO TO EVERYONE IN THAT ROOM WHO HAD THAT MAN’S BACK!!! I WAS PROUD TO SEE A UNITED GROUP OF MEN & WOMEN FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS SPEAK UP AGAINST THAT STUPIDITY. A GREAT REMINDER THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A PERSON OF COLOR TO CARE ABOUT THE MISTREATMENT OF PEOPLE OF COLOR. THE MOMENT WE STOP CARING FOR OTHERS IS THE MOMENT WE LOSE OUR HUMANITY.

[@darkwriter_xx94]

I don’t get why people think we’re not allowed to critique the country we call home and ask for change. Comments like “go back to..” will always baffle me.

[@kennedyjojackson1202]

Another thing, it's in the constitution (the very fabric of this country) SPECIFICALLY STATES that if the people are not satisfied with the government, then it is their right to alter or abolish it! Also if all people who're dissatisfied with America just up and left, this country would crumble 💀

[@shanellnicolearee]

The Caucasaudacity!!! Smh!

[@TherealFrancia]

😂😂😂 I love this comment it's hilarious

[@jordanjay5143]

@@TherealFrancia Laughing to fit in, hun? Real sad. You should see what they are saying about /ALL/ white people being problematic(specifically "white liberal try hards") a few comments up.. That means you, hun :)

The Negritude! Entitled, ignorant and welfare-dependent.

[@TherealFrancia]

@Jordan Jay you are so ignorant! I am Mexican idiot! I look white pero soy Mexicana pendeja! And no I am not laughing to fit in I am laughing because it's TRUE! Me and family have been discriminated before because we are Mexican so shut up I could care less what they are saying about liberals because what people of color have to endure is so much more than words IT'S INEQUALITY AND INJUSTICES FOR A LIFETIME BECAUSE OF RACISM!

@Ana Caona "...Racial segregation is the answer..." And it seems to occur naturally in social settings.

[@BigbossBonita]

THIS DAMN SHOW NEEDED AMANDA OMG their conversations used to be soooooooo shallow when they discuss these topics

[@MelitaRichardson]

I have to agree, she brings a depth and articulation and even challenges the other girls to speak with more context than “We are all the same.”

[@mmendo6895]

She's the real one!

[@pattycake3056]

A effing GREE!

[@B103-t4k]

If I wanted a serious show I'd go back to the boobs at the view. Ugh.. can media have anything that's light hearted these days?

[@BigbossBonita]

@@B103-t4k oh poor baby are you uncomfortable with these type of topics. Welcome to the life of a person of color. G

[@kevinmccoy2160]

I understand what Tamera is trying to say but I can’t be mad at marginalized groups for being upset and fed up with the discrimination they are experiencing on day to day basis. | Would we tell a battered woman to calmly speak to her abuser about not hitting her? We wouldn’t.

[@Its_ReneeNicole]

Kevin McCoy Absolutely! I totally agree. I am glad Amanda was there to not let that comment slide by. Enough of requiring people that are mistreated to walk on eggshells.

[@jacquelinebuan8336]

Thanks for putting that into perspective, it’s a really great analogy

[@pregikumary8381]

'his son doesn't even go here' But all jokes aside I love how everyone attacked the racist when the racist obviously assumed people would support his stupidity.

[@pregikumary8381]

@The Dracobirthstonian Sorry, I apologise. I should have said prejudice instead.

[@danielarincon1071]

The Dracobirthstonian most likely the guy didn’t even know if he was from mexico or not, so the comment he made was for Latinos in general, that parent could be from so many other countries

[@brandycampbell-mills11]

“Betty wasn’t calm,.....she almost broke her neck” 😂😂😂😂

[@Josrodcr1]

I love Amanda. She ignites controversy, getting the ladies to really state a point. Not just “all is rainbows” “we agree”. All of them are on edge and it’s exciting.

[@eduardomerino8098]

Sad to see that schools are still struggling with racism. I am Mexican and I applaud the non-latinos for standing up for that mexican father.

[@kyleighwhite1409]

Eduardo Merino and bullying in general. The schools don’t care.

[@eduardomerino8098]

@The Dracobirthstonian Why do you think I mentioned latinos in my comment.

[@rgdssd]

Eduardo Merino I'm Mexican and I would stick up for ANYBODY being mistreated. That's how it should be.

[@Rafiawinters]

Why didn't the settlers stay in England

[@jamesvandao-vergona3257]

Yasmin Kasim because they wanted religious and personal freedoms from the king...

[@Rafiawinters]

@@jamesvandao-vergona3257 I am English I know... But America seems to be quite racist still... I absolutely love America I graduated high school from Arizona I lived LA and Utah. But if we want to be truthful the true Americans are the Native Americans..... However people move about so therefore the whole country of America are people who are immigrants it doesn't matter if it was 1607 until now America is a country of immigrants.. England is also a country of immigrants... One needs to know one's history... The Queen's grandmother was German her husband is Greek and Danish but nobody questions their Englishness because they are white.... You do not need to be white to be American, English etc.... How come people don't question the origins of white south of Africans and white Australians they too are all immigrants... How come I never hear people saying Dutch people should never have conquered South Africa.... At the end of the day we are all one race... You would never say a Labrador was not a Labrador depending on the colours ... RACISM IS SO DUMB

[@Rafiawinters]

@The Green Knight that's extremely racist....... No point in furthering this discussion as you can't comprehend what I'm saying... Peace and love to all Americans ❤️

[@brie8678]

3 stooges “white people are probably the smartest culture...” That right there shows how incredibly dumb you may as well be. And if you are so smart, why don’t you know the difference between “baby’s” and “babies”?

[@jamesvandao-vergona3257]

Yasmin Kasim I didn’t say anything about race...you asked why some people left England...and your confusing nationality with someone’s race...no one questioned the queen because she was English...I’m Italian Puerto Rican and Vietnamese ...but I’m American...

[@makwesemaepa7645]

Amanda really does ask THE REAL questions........

[@MMAACC2014]

School: we have an issue with racism The guy in glasses: AllOw Me tO pRovE yOUr PoinT

[@boujeeboujee6083]

The fact that the white man was like “what? I said something wrong?” Proves how insensitive and ignorant some people can be. Imagine going back to school and the whole school be like “isn’t that your racist dad in the video”

[@kind2423]

And it’s 2020 and some people unfortunately still think this way

[@angescobedo]

Amanda asking the tough question 🥴🥵 Lol

[@Angeliina1]

i love it

[@queenbutterfly4888]

@@Angeliina1 u would

[@semajdee]

I’m glad y’all are finally observing Tamera.😏☕️

[@Theartsymuslimah175]

Semaj Davis why

[@semajdee]

If you know,you know.

[@TheMRS]

I’ve seen right thru her! I speak code language, sooo! I watched every episode of taMAGA reality show w her twin sis👯 You get a real sense of her entitled personality comparison to her twin! (her twin is a genuine sweetheart) taMAGA & Adam Housley luv Lonnie bc she behaves like a Mammy- which takes Adam back to the good ole days when there was no need to MAGA by their standards. 🙄 That’s why I call Tamera, taMAGA instead.

[@kennyray4458]

Tamara I’m SMH! Do you really think that our people, Hispanic people and any other minority race would be more calmer when using their platform or voice would not be considered stereotypical ? So you are beautiful but a bit ig....... my sister. I always try to be respectful in my comments and I do love all of you ladies

[@NayNay-zq5dd]

You sir i admire❤ not only was your comment respectful but it did not bash her like so many i am reading.

[@natashaa691]

She tried to clean it up at the end though, shifting from “stereotype” behaviors of the coloreds to calmly speaking in order to hear one another 😂😂😂

[@megmeg1686]

You can't expect much from her on this issue. I'm rooting for her to give me reason to stand up and do a church praise dance and she always disappoints.

[@-.a9942]

Yeah there’s not need to stay quiet for the sake of a stereotype when someone it’s being racist with you or anyone. They have already crossed the line and shouldn’t let them go quietly

[@marilynrobinson8119]

And Tamera keeps quiet about these topics is because of the back lash she receives Everytime she talks about it she can't win with you people

[@marilynrobinson8119]

@Quiana Loni and Tamera are 2 different people Loni is a proud black person but Tamera is mix so she gets it from both sides everyone can't take people bashing them

[@crest4sensation938]

@@marilynrobinson8119 Tamera is not a Pekingese for God's sake! She is multi-ethnic and not a hybrid like a Prius!

[@crest4sensation938]

@@marilynrobinson8119 Loni Love is not a proud Black woman. A proud Black woman doesn't have a need to all bash Black men for the mistakes of few. Loni has issues and she needs to work them out.

[@marilynrobinson8119]

@@crest4sensation938 let me rephrase I didn't mean like she should be silent but I'm saying that she probably feels that way and not only that she said it before that she gets bullied from both sides

[@sisterslounge256]

@@crest4sensation938 do you hold the same opinion about black men that bash black women??

[@Minzies2]

We don’t always have to be the bigger person Tamera , these ignorant racists don’t deserve patience & kindness . No matter how nice you are to them they’ll always hate you 🥴

[@halleann6495]

He was in the wrong but I can’t stop laughing at how the people reacted to him 😂

[@daniihawaii5713]

Halle Ann right the audible gasp had me fucking rolling. I completely agree that was wrong of him but the reactions were prime

[@Sugafied08]

Omg! Yes, that comment almost took "betty" to the grave😂

[@m.e.l7503]

Halle Ann forget the people the dad turned around and went 😃 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jyn88]

Same! I know it’s a serious topic because people have said that to me before too but it still made me giggle at the people’s reaction.

[@halleann6495]

_.melyxedits._ yeah he was like “oh please” 😂

[@camillee2020]

That video of the father speaking just gave me chills. Thankful for the parents who defended the father. We cannot sit and be passive towards racism.

[@jeanetteh.8393]

The fact that the parents came together to try and help their kids is very sweet. At first I thought alot of people were ignoring his story the way they kind of just looked bored until that man said that and everyone got in. I hope it fixes things with those kids

[@sugarbearasmr]

Wow... kudos to absolutely EVERYONE in that room for sticking up for that father 👏🏼 almost made me emotional to see so many people come together SO quickly

[@LovingYouToMars]

I graduated from this school.. i didn’t face the rude comments the way my brother has had to face since Trump has been in office. I am glad to see the racism from the city of Saline is FINALLY coming to light. These comments are said daily from select students and they start with the parents. Something must be done.

[@kosiegbuonu5124]

Im so sorry for what your sister went through. Was any action taken by the administration at her school if racist comments were reported?

[@LovingYouToMars]

Kosi Egbuonu No action was taken actually, you can see (him) speak on The Saline Posts Facebook page by the end, blue jeans red hoodie black jacket? It’s the live video taken tonight.

[@kosiegbuonu5124]

Alejandra Gomez Damn, that sucks. The things Hispanic/ Latino people have had to deal with since Trump got elected is so disappointing🤦🏽‍♀️

[@poalab]

Nah this isnt new to this era or this trump era I have had this said to me since jr high early 90s...

[@jonathanmolina3423]

People are only racist cause they fear something they can’t understand or don’t want to understand racism is there escape route

[@kittenmayz611]

I’d rather the racists let us know their racist then to deal with the closeted ones.

[@MelitaRichardson]

KITTEN MAYZ It’s when the closeted ones go unchecked that they become overt ones tho.

[@kittenmayz611]

Melita Richardson yes that’s true

[@keepinitkawaii]

@ thats not how it works lol you cant go about life perpetuating your fears onto everyone you meet

[@lesleypenny1458]

So you have to be calm when someone says something racist to you!! Yea ok got it 🤬

[@Aja.l_]

I was just thinking this

[@bizness3]

I hate that Tam and Lonnie always push that. It's almost like they are worried about the fitting some stereotype and are more concerned about not acting out in front of "massa". If someone comes at you with some racist BS, it is very well within your right to address them with whatever emotions you are feeling in the moment. Why do we always have to consciously tame our responses to bigots. I hate that we are expected to take abuse, and then address it nicely because we are afraid we'd be stereotyped. FOHWTBS

[@ruruvarela]

@@bizness3 correct and I do believe contextually she was referring to those white ppl. Her were were addressing the other white ppl in the room. I dnt believe they should be calm with each other. The lady in the scarf reacted perfectly. Everyone including the whites should be in shock and anger that someone would say such a thing.aybe it would get it thru the racist head. Like dude you are wrong and everyone sees it

[@Angeliina1]

@@bizness3 they gotta please there white men

[@marinanunez8986]

I’ve reacted both ways. I’ve challenged an incredibly racist HR manager directing her racism at others along with racism thrown at me. I whole heartedly agree with Amanda. It is not the POC’s responsibility to talk out why someone is racist. It’s 2020 y’all. People in the US have smartphones that give them access to something amazing called Google. If we constantly worry about our image, nothing will ever get done.

[@LilWera]

This made me tear up...pray to God your family never gets a taste of this hate. I was sad because of what that man felt but then i started thinking and i felt joy of those that came to his defense, there’s plenty of good people out there.

[@jqo3734]

So sad because I’ve been through what his kid went through. Thank you to our allies seriously for standing up for us.

[@josephinewachu8219]

The society we need to live in, people standing up to help others ❤

[@hailie_Selassie]

The person who had the strongest reaction in this situation was the black man.

[@kool3884]

Haïlié Sélassié 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@trnigyul]

Who felt it knows it.

[@balaia29]

I don't know why the Black men was so offended. Most Hispanics consider themselves White and they dont like Blacks.

@@balaia29 Hispanics LOVE mayates.

[@keepinitkawaii]

@@balaia29 he obviously couldn't care less if a few Hispanics dislike black people for whatever reason, if he saw injustice he was going to stand up for it . And i live in a predominantly Hispanic town and everyone loves my family so dont generalize about who hates who.

[@swirlyferly]

Guess we don’t have to ask who HE’S voting for come the next election

[@roter13]

Yup. This country is so f***ed up!

[@user-nq6um4bs5y]

Ferly P TRUMP 2020 !!! No more welfare queens bahaha shaniquas will go broke

[@swirlyferly]

K L sureee

[@JD-kp6pt]

Bernie

[@jonniehickson5599]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y Are you aware that the most people who are on welfare are caucasian?🤔Please research before commenting.

[@graceramey4443]

I SO wish I could focus on the bigger picture but I started laughing at the way the older woman turned around in the clip then I laughed even harder when Jeannie, Adrienne, and Amanda imitated it

[@manuela1102]

The fact that he said it so comely makes me wonder, he probably said it thinking everyone was going to be on his side

[@sweetlistenings3324]

I have some advice for everyone in confrontation to remember: Piece is made of steel Hold your piece Load your piece Put it out on the table and there will be peace. Thank you! Amen!

[@apru4065]

I'm so happy for the people in that room of all colours speaking up for him

[@micaluv3232]

I love the woman that yelled “you belong here” because he does just like every single one of us.

[@jol8185]

He simply said what A LOT (and I do mean A LOT) of us are already thinking. He had the balls to say it in this candy ass society. Good job sir!!! We salute you!

[@kafkaskitchen]

That "you need to leave" lady cracks me up every time

[@mt3388]

But I honestly Stan her thoughhh 😩

[@rexsmithehiggins]

I see Tamera's true colors are starting to show with these topics of race. She's been able to slide and hide under the radar with her true views but now she can't when she's put on the spot to further explain her stance. I pieced together so much from her with this whole "remain calm and demure" in the face of racists who have prejudged you. She exposed herself in this segment and Im glad people are finally seeing her true tea.

[@PhillipJordan]

rex smithehiggins !!!!

[@kiranmaziz1990]

What did she do to expose herself? What time in video?

[@marissacarter2013]

Good question Amanda, I also gave Tam the side eye when she said she was glad that everyone remained calm. Bish whet!?

[@Alicia-kg3hs]

Hey Tamera, "I speak out of direct and particular anger at an academic conference, and a white woman says, "Tell me how you feel but don't say it too harshly or I cannot hear you." But is it my manner that keeps her from hearing, or the threat of a message that her life may change?" - Audre Lorde. Miss me with that stereotype bullshit. It's the message they fear, not our anger.

[@beautifulmind1111]

Thank you for supporting this man while sharing his story. 👍🏽 I love The Real show and I love how Betty’s reaction with the others helped stand up for that Wonderful man. Hand 👏 👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿 good job!

[@tiffanygriffone7272]

That "oooooooooh" literally gave me life😍😂

[@Samirahsworld1]

Tamera is annoying when it comes to topics like this , she always gives that Becky input that nobody cares for 👋🏽

[@queenbutterfly4888]

another black bully...YOU

[@Samirahsworld1]

Everyone please ignore the troll above me , that person is desperate for attention & isn’t worth it at all

[@Vardjess]

@@Samirahsworld1 no honey you're the real troll speaking ill on others. You look like your thirsty for attention. Well here it is.. Get a damn life and stop bringing other sistas down with your fuckury.

[@Samirahsworld1]

cardjessic if you say so

[@lsucollegelife]

OMG!😂😂😂😂😂

[@isatounying6353]

I love the question Amanda asked today,usually I’m not here for her race talks but I find her question for Tamera so important 👌

[@MelissaAlnardo]

I just feel bad for his children, adults like him are irrelevant to the world and it's existence.

[@mariacancel1021]

“Betty wasn’t having it and neither was Darryl”haha haha🤣🤣Amanda is hilarious!!!!!

[@selessrojas8464]

Why am I crying rn! This really hit me because I’m Mexican and you hear stories like this everyday and it’s so hard to hear stuff like this!

[@folashadeabayomi5285]

The people in that room of ALL colors stood up...they are heroes in my eyes because they did not stand by and watch ignorance happen. They were not having it.

[@queenbutterfly4888]

they are all overly fake outraged jackasses actually

[@journalingwithtam]

It's sad that these parents are trying to solve a problem, and he is part of the problem. Shame on him

[@duecethird22333]

Tamera was way off lol

[@malh8932]

Duecethird22333 she’s always way off , she stays trying to please white folk its getting annoying

[@duecethird22333]

Mel H right, wasting time and useless

[@OSinghGyallll]

Yes she so busy trying to ride with Loni and get back a## attitude. I'm surprised by Tamara

[@constipatedaf]

@MrSpliffstarz am Tamara is mixed, she is White too

[@thruthemotions]

@MrSpliffstarz you do know that Tamera and Tia are half white right?

[@jakarahporter8787]

I appreciate Amanda being on the show! She pays great attention to detail and provokes her fellow co-hosts on “The REAL” to actually get “REAL”. For once, ‘THE REAL’ is intertwined with REAL intellectual and challenging conversation, plus great humor!!

[@imsofancy4064]

YOU NEED TO LEAVE!!!! 😂😂😂This was a sitcom moment

[@Bianca_1111_]

Bravo and thank you Tam. Always making the most sense👑💅🏽🦄🙌🏽Not many are cut from a different cloth as everyone claims. Tam definitely is. Jeannie my favorite color is green Hunnay. All greens💚

[@jonathanmolina3423]

Some people don’t even comprehend what coming from different cloth means

[@actualwakandangirl7121]

There’s a point at which your “calmness” is just useless.

[@wpizdets2640]

"wakandan girl" TFW your only sense of pride is some fictional black paradise that's never existed in real life.

[@actualwakandangirl7121]

@@wpizdets2640 Lmao I’m actually African straight from Uganda so my “sense of pride” isn’t from your so called “fictional paradise” take your hate somewhere else! And YES I am a proud East African!

[@actualwakandangirl7121]

@ Aww and you’re incapable of being a decent human being.

[@KharisB.A]

I like how Amanda took Tamera on about that "calmly" nonsense; she always spews such incredulity on race topics. It was the same talking point Tamera was on when a brother with melanine complexion was killed and his family were outraged at a press conference. I commented on one of such videos that if she (Tamera) lost a loved one through a violent racist attack, she would understand and appreciate such outrage. Unfortunately, she did loose her niece through such attacks. It's incomprehensible that she would still be on this "calmly" nonsense. You don't "calmly" deal with a sick racist in a setting like the parents' meeting in that clip. It's not a match against oppression based on the provision of the constitution. You let such a sick person know without beating about the bush how sick he is. Racism is a disease and must be treated as such.

[@shannoncossman]

Chills! I can not believe people still feel that it's ever ok to say things like that or to think that way at all! So happy to see that the whole room immediately put a stop to that and to see that the son has some better values than his father!

[@jayd8217]

I’m proud of everyone that stood up for that man because that racist should be called out and thank you ladies for showing this

[@ChrissyGotTheCoils]

Yessss Tamera, get your point across 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 without another host trying to twist it 😒

[@deer1843]

I disagree with Tamera, I’m kinda glad they reacted the way they did cause what the man said WAS appalling and that’s the reaction of being appalled. I’m glad that the rest of the room was just as offended.

[@Angeliina1]

yuppp tam just apeasing to her white side and white husband

[@jyn88]

Tamera didn’t say she disliked the way they handled it. She said she’s glad they did it in a calmly manner @1:55. She thought it was done effectively.

[@tyrakhan7106]

Idk how Tam expects a calm response when racists intentionally try to provoke and attack you

[@shallog2004]

Self control

[@tyrakhan7106]

shallog2004 I get what ur trying to say but I think some people just blatantly don’t deserve your respect and peaceful approach especially when they’re intentionally being racist

[@naylani7790]

@@shallog2004 how about those people who are perpetuating racism learn some self control first?

[@jg5272]

I love how these women are so beautiful and loving towards everyone 🙏🏼❤️

[@reneediaz951]

that video the moment that man said that “why didnt u stay in mexico” my mouth dropped open so wide that lady in the scarf was me 😂😂

[@en1575]

"We wanna be persons judged not on the color of our skin but on the content in our charecter"Martin Luther JNR

[@danyielsays4621]

As a Mexican American living in california...I hear this all the time! The funny thing is this used to be a part of Mexico..I have native American blood as well and this was our land😑 funny part

[@user-nq6um4bs5y]

Danyiel Says You have gay blood 🤮🤮

[@danyielsays4621]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y yes I do thank you for pointing the obvious 👍love you too boo❤

[@pawsonarove]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y Who hurt you my child?

[@Graeberwave]

“In a calmly manner”

[@biancacooney5845]

0:28 that lady in the scarf was literally my reaction lmaoo

[@Locsmth]

RIGHT!!! She wanted to speak to a manager! 😆

[@Traytay0612]

That video is appalling! If that was my dad, I would’ve been so embarrassed and ashamed.

[@Ari-br3rd]

Charles Crandall So are people that have nothing going on in life so they leave tons of negative KZbin comments begging for attention or a stir up. Foh. You’re lame AF 😂😂😂😂

[@Ari-br3rd]

Charles Crandall Well aren’t you clever with the racist insult’s. I bet you feel so tough 😂😂😂

[@Nnnnnnnn426]

The sad part was he thought ppl would be on his side

[@yuki.s.3881]

Cali God shut f up

[@ms.beautiful]

🗣🗣🗣This is how WHITE people are and they have been this way for centuries!!! When are other racial groups going to learn!!!

[@aidaaces5173]

Ms. Beautiful Say it again 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@melanatedqueenelle6748]

They never will learn

[@inoueai4736]

Others know already

[@joannasaadati8810]

Ok but what about the white people in the room that were appalled and addressed the racist one?

[@charles1413]

You Americans live in a bubble. Travel a bit, meet various nationalities of white people and then make a judgement.

[@jellybelly9662]

I am SOOOOO glad to see so many people checked him immediately. The fact that he was shocked that people weren’t having it is unbelievable... The more people that speak up in these situations, the better. This crap has got to end. All types of minorities have to deal with this stuff in their everyday life-please put urself in their shoes and stand up against any of this stuff if you see it happening to someone. 🙏🏼

[@MiSsMaCy]

🤣😂🤣😂 laughing at the ladies post- acting of the woman. I died.

[@Sugafied08]

This situation is not funny, but the way the old lady in the vid turned around took me tf out😂

[@latjaz5812]

Questions are great because they CAN allow us to search deeper and uproot some beliefs that were handed down to us. I appreciate Amanda’s question to Tamera. 🙃🙂 I am pretty sure this seed will sit with Tamera and grow amazingly.

[@bartkent6663]

But wouldn’t assuming the older ladies name is “Betty” and gentlemen who stood up for the speakers name is “Darryl” be seen as some type of stereotype??

[@ms.rolltide256]

No, a lot of black men are named Darryl and a lot of older white women are named Betty, it’s just factual. Is that their name specifically? Maybe maybe not, but it wasn’t out of line or anything because it is what it is

[@ajademarcus4678]

“3,2,1”... and then Jeannie turns the wrong way 😂😂😂😂

[@ThuggyMacho]

The video made me cry. It hurts me how evil people are.