GIRL CHAT: Attending a Wedding You Don’t Approve Of

Real fam, have you ever gone to a wedding even though you thought the relationship wouldn’t last?

[@deetheentertainer3879]

Tamera is sooooooo beautiful, this shade of blue is doing everything for her complexion

[@BriaBarrows]

so pretty

[@emj970]

🙌💙💙💙

[@GameOn71213]

Girl yass she is everything

[@GameOn71213]

@Kea Knight you think so, Loni got a white man herself, plus Tam is half white

[@sarahtheblue]

oh she is gorgeous!

[@marshellsmith2224]

Tamera is just STRAIGHT GLOWING! Her skin, her smile, and her spirit is SHOWING!

[@baggergurl16]

Marshell Smith Anytime I see Tamera she is always glowing

[@marshellsmith2224]

@@baggergurl16 YES girl! lol The light if Christ shines through her!

[@linda.z.1682]

that’s Jesus, only He can do that!🥰

[@daphnebailey6223]

ikr she looks so beautiful 💙👩🏽‍🦱🤍

[@marshellsmith2224]

@@daphnebailey6223 Yes! most definitely!

[@LuisLuxe]

“dont get married just to get married” yesssssssss👏🏽

[@toogeeky4u]

LuisLuxe love that!

[@QueenofHearts02]

"REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION"...YES, YES, YESSSS! Whether it is in the form of employment, relationships, and friendships...I have come to know that statement is a fact. #praisehim!

[@locafly]

Queen say it again!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ShiningBright777]

Amen in Jesus name!!!

[@alexkkx]

AMEN!!! ✝️💖🙌🏼🙏🏼🕊

[@catherinejohnson9555]

and there's the truth right there!!!

[@measme8586]

This is powerful. Can you open a counselling service?

[@sweettee6827]

Tamera: "To make a long story short..." Also Tamera: "Proceeds to give EVERY detail of the story." 😂😂😂😩

[@lexi219]

You know full well whenever a black woman says "long story short...", you still got five minutes left of that story 😂

[@sweettee6827]

@@lexi219 #Facts 😂😂😂

[@rauntieolofin1933]

Lol... I thought it was jst me... I love me some Tam though... but I had to skip to find out what happened 😄😄😃

[@sweettee6827]

@@rauntieolofin1933 right lol

[@LadySunflower1224]

😂😂😂😂

[@jordanoliver8809]

Tamera: how did they handle you saying you weren’t gonna go? Loni: they just had to handle it. 😂😂😂

[@OShawna23]

Jordan Oliver 🤣

[@capricorn2723]

😩😩😂

[@daphnebailey6223]

i love loni 💙😂

[@yahiramontanez6645]

@@daphnebailey6223 uterine

[@leomajor4145]

I would attend any wedding as long as there's going to be good food.

[@cogco4535]

SAMEEEEE

[@damiengarbutt7229]

Here here. 🍾

[@daylonwright3635]

And an open bar 🥃

[@daphnebailey6223]

SAMMMEE 😂😂😱

[@ValeriiaJ]

🤣🤣🤣

[@JenJHayden]

would you ever attend a wedding you didn't approve of....have you seen the divorce rate? 😑 a lot of people should have said I don't at their OWN wedding.

[@elenavernet8376]

Jen J facts

[@briethompson439]

😂

[@baggergurl16]

Good point

[@candi7806]

I agree with the divorce rates. If i may. Its due to our egos. Marriage and family forming is the most selfless thing you can fi if its done right.

[@nicoletaelor279]

Candi Cerna I also think it comes from pressure to get married from parents/older relatives when they’re nowhere near ready to get married.

[@daniaa1602]

Its very easy to say "well just don't go" when its not your parent or sibling..

[@amandatracey3287]

YES! This is the issue I’ve been dealing with for months. My step-brother is set to get married in February and I’ve been pretty close with his fiancée. I was supposed to stand up in the wedding. We found out recently that my step-brother is a manipulative, abusive, toxic person and neither of them should be getting married and they definitely shouldn’t be bringing children into that unhealthy environment. He has pushed away all of his immediate family because we have all called both of them out on their lies and manipulation. I know my stepdad in particular has had a very hard time with it because it’s his son and he doesn’t want to believe that his son is this terrible person. Luckily, he’s able to see past it being his son and realize what is really happening and why their toxic relationship should not be supported. And Lord knows I told his fiancée these things. When she asked if I was still gonna be in the wedding, I told her no because her marriage is doomed to end in divorce but she doesn’t have the self respect to do what needs to be done. If you didn’t want the facts, you shouldn’t have asked. Not my fault you’re delusional and desperate🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lisah.1149]

Or family in general...

[@eMrsFreakyy]

Or best friend

[@demibellini6915]

Yeah I would have had this problem if my mom decided to get married where we lived. I genuinely wouldn’t have wanted to go, but the guy doesn’t know that that. Luckily they went and got married in another country.

[@pamilton69]

Right, I was a bridesmaid at my bestfriends wedding and didn't approve of it.

[@redgurl60]

I was in a wedding where I knew it wouldn't last, but she was my friend and she needed all the support she could get. They had kids, so I understood why she was doing it. Her and I had an honest conversation, so she was clear on where I stood. I was the last bridesmaid before she walked down the aisle. I turned and asked her if she was sure, because it wasn't too late. Her dad looked at her and affirmed my statement. She said she wanted to do it, so I marched. You can't make grown folks do what you think is best for them. Sometimes they just have to find out on their own.

[@maaanuervin]

Nique Franklin are they still together?

[@gcromer903]

That's great support from you 👍🏼

[@mayab.1633]

You just changed my opinion, thanks for the wise words 😊🌹

[@daphnebailey6223]

love this 💕 she has to learn on her own but love how u were there 4 her😊

[@tagaway6173]

Update!

[@jasminefigueroa8343]

Jeannie's "I want it back" was EVERYTHING

[@londonpeach6223]

Jeannie be coming through with the Real good conversation.

[@johnanon3191]

Jeannie Mai was NOT here for it. She got mad. I'm with her though. I want my money back!

[@rodneywhite406]

I agree with Jeannie. I came for an "I do". That's what I paid for!

[@maaanuervin]

I was living for it!!!

[@NiqueTheSneak1]

I loooooove her!! That gave me life right there lmao cuz she’s right, I want my damn money! I didn’t pay all this money for my suit and shoes for no damn party without the wedding! 🤬😂

[@rae4828]

This blue is perfectttt for Tameras skin tone

[@Ohhello_itskat]

Whenever Jeanie opens her mouth I’M SHOOK. She has so much insight and wisdom in her words💙

[@MsJojotiti]

"They just had to handle it" Loni is savage! 😂😂😂

[@mariesadiebrown]

Loni makeup 💄 and hair💇🏾‍♀️ is on point💯

[@starh.5122]

It really is!!!!!

[@BriLoveMusic]

And the way her velvety lipstick compliments her top 😍👌 She's so pretty. 🙄

[@Eatloveexplore143]

I was just bout to say this!! Lol

[@moniquekyahlovewilson2374]

I scrolled through the comments looking for this specific comment! I 100% agree. Loni looks great here.

[@HannahMileyforever1]

Yoooo Loni is young but that makeup makes her look EVEN younger 😍😍😍😍 I cant stop looking at her!

[@emilyschultz6437]

PUT THE ORIGINAL AIR DATE IN THE CAPTION PLEASE. ❤️❤️❤️

[@dsjenzen]

Yup, this is an old video

[@tvm-growthisunlimited9023]

I significantly reduced the amount of time I click on The Real's videos because it's so time consuming to select what is dated as a new video but only to realize that I've looked at or skipped over it multiple times before due to it age.

[@tellittomyvoicemail]

Thank You!

[@lakendracollier5099]

Going to the wedding wasn't the problem. Keeping your mouth shut after it fell apart trying not to say "I told ya so", is what's hard.

[@ellemikaelson266]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@clANAnett]

tamera's stylist knows color theory all too well bc sis is GLOWING!

[@GB-ic1im]

Loni: "Every week you get married..." 😂😂😂

[@cococherrymango1225]

@Chosen Warrior Bruh lol

[@aliciat4173]

Jeannie's demand for a refund though...she was serious as a heart attack. She had me laughin so hard that i had to watch her reaction again!!

[@its_celeste6722]

So the tea is that my dad is now going to marry the GIRL he was with when he was with my mother..which my sisters and I never liked for obviously reasons! (also she over all not a good person drama went down between her and my sis) and NOW my sisters and I along with my dads siblings are NOT going to be attending my dads wedding 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@May-ml4tg]

Good for yall some people don't deserve your attendance

[@cicif6473]

Its_ Celeste I would like more tea

[@twokidsmom5309]

It feels like the Girl is toxic and that it's not about not supporting your father, it's about making it clear she can't have your joy.

[@its_celeste6722]

Twokids Mom exactly..

[@crystalscameraroll7192]

Its_ Celeste girl I feel you. My dad ended up marrying the girl he cheated on my mom with and left the family. She would send us pictures of the wedding and didn’t allow him to talk to us. 10 years later.. we’re helping him with his divorce!

[@ricardocintron3954]

Tam Tam is SO BEAUTIFUL AND Vibrant in that dress YESS!! And Jeannies hair isssss poppinnnn

[@corylatham3835]

"I want it back!" I agree with Jeannie XD

[@dinkyboss]

Cory Latham lmaooo same! I totally felt her there 😤🤣

[@zeytuunfiqi1276]

We can’t predict the future so let’s just enjoy the present and be thankful.

[@BriaBarrows]

YES

[@BriaBarrows]

i love this. i have trouble just saying in the present

[@christinalucas1002]

I agree but ladies (and guys) don't ignore red flags and hope for the best

[@cm5394]

I agree, but a wedding where maybe you know one person is unfaithful already or abusive that’s not something that’s going to get better

[@jeni3386]

C Mac right. But that’s like what Adrianne said. There’s a difference in having an opinion about if someone is going to last forever or not. And not being able to attend the wedding because you’re against it. Now the reason you’re against it might be one of the things that you listed. But if not, I think that the comment you replied to is pretty accurate. Like Adrianne said, you can’t see the sparks they feel.

[@deliapalacios5968]

At my parents wedding a drunk man walked in right when the pastor said “speak now or forever hold your peace” and screamed “I WANT TO MARRY HER” and then was escorted out

[@las3rdams3l]

🤣

[@debramagee7358]

😂🤣😭

[@Candaicelovesjesus]

Delia Palacios 💀👀😩🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

[@jayjaythelisma8680]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tjandcj123]

Delia Palacios 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@Deathbycurves]

Honey, never regret how you handled things when you were younger. That's how you learn, baby! You handled it the best you could at the time, and you still were respectful and kind. Don't forget the things you did right!

[@marieowens4943]

Cosign Ms. Maggs...it was a learning experience 😊

[@cm5394]

I disagree with the idea of not regretting anything. If you can’t recognize that you did something you shouldn’t have done then you can’t learn from your mistakes

[@jeannap8867]

I’m with Jeanie. I bought a WEDDING gift and if there is no WEDDING , I want MY WEDDING gift back. Period pooh !

[@cavmay5096]

Thank u. i was debating going to a wedding i dont approve of. I just cant condone abusive relationships.

[@Msdufr]

Adrian is a lot wiser than she gets credit for.

[@monk3ysAn]

Jeanie's response (7:37-7:50) was the best 13 seconds of my life!!!💀💀💀

[@TshegoMolefe]

..and I absolutely agree with her🤣🤣

[@christinaa5582]

Lol she was so serious 🤣

[@TheNoblegaz]

"...Rejection is Gods' protection."

[@biancam2460]

Amen!

[@delorianlove615]

Loni, once again slaying people’s life with the hair and perfect makeup 💄💕

[@fayepatrice1672]

Her lipstick👏🏾🙌🏾👄

[@MH-et4bo]

Prettttyyyy

[@hyperactivegenie]

I like what Adrianne and Jeannie said about the people at your wedding being people who are doing life with you. They are your community who you should be able to count on in good and tough times.

[@kenideg1558]

If you don’t approve don’t go. Your opinion doesn’t matter

[@dinkyboss]

Ken Guillaume the problem is if your friend is PUSHING you to go even if you disagree. Because I agree if you aren’t down don’t go. But that situation is tough depending on your reason

[@kenideg1558]

dinkyboss true I agree just like Adrienne said if at the moment the pastor says may you remain silent forever don’t be thereb

[@shumetesam7407]

What if it's your closest sister wedding?

[@noirfit9721]

Loni and Tam are giving me life with these colors! Loni, that’s your color honey!!! And that blue is striking!

[@oradsincesar90]

I was a Maid of Honor at a wedding I didn't approve of. But I talked to her about it, I told her why I didn't think it was a good idea but she still wanted me to be there.

[@monapotter8757]

I swear I feel like I am living Tamera’s younger life. I am 21 now and everything that Tamera went through in relationships, is the same thing I have or currently going through now. I can relate to her so much.

[@BriLoveMusic]

Well you're gorgeous and obviously a kind heart. Keep praying for that good man. Just, never lower your standards because of a few faulty guys. I know the search is painful, but patience brings you good things. 💛

[@monapotter8757]

Bri Love Thank you for your encouraging words. It really means a lot 💖. I pray that God continues to bless your kind heart. 🙏🏾

[@ceairamgivens1052]

I feel like Loni is always just slightly off topic lol. She answers a different question than everyone else.

[@IAintY0M0mma]

Well, i think she does yhar to be the "comic: of the group. She always comes with a punch line or joke. Like the Red head on the view, no shade

[@madisonhartwick8114]

CEAIRA M GIVENS I love it though, keeps the conversation moving

[@rebeccaramos3246]

I love her 🤣😂

[@lilmissbubblzable]

Different perspectives

[@sfab5039]

Always

[@farzana297]

i love loni and tamera's friendship.

[@BelindaJoy]

Tam nailed it, I attended for her reasoning. I have DEFINITELY attended weddings that I knew were doomed, and sadly (in both cases) I was right. I just received an invite to one from a friend that is marrying a guy in Vegas in January. She is marrying a guy she met on Tinder, had a one night stand (in an alley against the wall), she moved him in to her house and he is CLEARLY using her. I will not be attending. 9:11 Exactly Loni! I agree. I've only been stood up once but it taught me to never treat anyone like that throughout my dating life. I had a date this past Friday night that I WISH I had stood up! LOL! Whoa howdy, he has to be a serial killer! Very odd....

[@melissalajoie101]

Belinda Joy hey I’m marrying my “one night stand” and it’s been 7 years! :)

[@kathycollins4350]

I soo agree with your opinion and your friend needs to be took aside and clued in on what a loser he is before she invests too much into this POS.. @Belinda Joy..

[@melissalajoie101]

Hehe @belinda no .... I guess the situation is a lil different then!

[@j.graham8201]

LMAOOOO in an alley against the wall 😂😂

[@larissaleann6081]

“They just had to handle it” 😂🤣 I love Loni

[@namastewellness]

Tamara: Five years later... Jeanie: How long after...? Tamara: It was five years.

[@ashsparkle4283]

I'm like Tamera whenever something goes wrong with a guy I always blame myslef for everything. Its not good of me to think this way because it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me

[@josie04]

I LOVEEEEE Adrienne’s energy. She’s so uplifting and such positive and funny vibes 👏🏿👏🏿

[@iMolikaMenThlang]

I said it once already and ima say it again. The divorce industry is a billion dollar industry. Go figure. 😏

[@jayjaythelisma8680]

Ahaha

[@samantha9852]

It depends on the situation, but if you really don't approve of the wedding then don't go.

[@hokuokalani17]

Jeannie!!! Lol "I want it back!" Me too girl, right there with you!

[@xomcrrockstarxo]

I love Loni. Sometimes she says exactly what I say. "They just had to deal with it" 😂😭

[@cari3997]

I attended a wedding that i didn't know the couple only 2 days before they married in Cancun. I ended up catching the bouquet. About the couple they're still holding strong 👍

[@amandatracey3287]

I’m confused...you didn’t know the couple but you went to their wedding?

[@cari3997]

@@amandatracey3287 My co-worker invited me, his brother also a co-worker is the brother-in-law to the bride.

[@seoulseokjin]

Loni is always the realist in terms of being realistic/ grounded/ giving advice of The Real. Jeannie is real in terms of just spilling the tea with no filter. Tam and A def have some pink filters. They do have good points from time to time and they are kind/ good friends but for a panelist I like Loni and Jeannie best.

[@rebekahharris8713]

Loni is tooo funny..lol she said now you just pissed me off and i need his name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ChibiChick25]

Loni said it! Call a marriage what you want but at the end of the day it is a legally binding contract. That is why I consistently tell people I will have a prenup if I ever get married.

[@damiengarbutt7229]

My second eldest sister has been married 5 times. Every time she invites us to a wedding we just consider it a time to get off from work and eat free food and dance all night. We call her Liz Taylor. 🤣

[@callmecordelia7181]

Wedding guests are witnesses to a covenant being formed. Great thought.

[@tamararussell1791]

Tamera looks so beautiful with her natural hair and skin glowing !!😍😍💙

[@lynettesmith6153]

Loni said they just gonna have to handle it 😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@celaya17]

10:38 omg I love, it reminded me of sister sister when she said “yeah” I got stood up

[@DevineSpecimen]

Lanis looks so beautiful and her makeup looks stunning 😍

[@soniandukwe8981]

I did that before and I literally couldn’t look the groom in the eye when they came around to give hugs, so this time around, I told my friend straight up Im not attending this toxic fest.

[@lonestarlatina1955]

I wish I had a "Loni" in my life 😂💗💗

[@pakomotshwarakgole9796]

Me too😂😂I love her honestly 🤞🏿♥️

[@TheShooteR28]

Tam said long story short, then proceeded to tell a mini- series LoL

[@tamerilee]

Im gonna miss these daily 14m videos when the new season starts 🥺😩

[@MajesticMyronn]

Tameri Harding I’m sure they’re still gonna post these throwbacks lol

[@DaniielaVergara]

they will be back in 2020🤣😭

[@envy1xc]

Daniela G SERIOUSLY?☠️☠️

[@aimeem.h5909]

I'm in the uk so dont watch the actual show just these videos. What do you mean by your comment?

[@shanelchamik2177]

I was a brides maid, she was my best friend I tried to advise but to no avail.. 4 years later with one child the guy has moved out at least 4 times, he's been arrested for physical assault and she's had a miscarriage due to physical assault. But short of kidnapping her there's nothing we can do apart from being there for her.

[@ms.branch1207]

I agree with Tam. I would try to support my friend.

[@AlesSpot]

We all need a friend like Loni 😂

[@pathways678]

I've been in a wedding I didn't really think approve of and I know others felt the same way. No one said anything. Sometimes you gotta let people find out for themselves.

[@AllisonLee333]

I know some who marry just so they are not alone

[@karlamoreno1659]

Yasssss Adrienne!! A marriage is a covenant with God ❤ It's a beautiful promise!

[@IsabellaYBella]

Omg Tamara is goals!!! All the ladies are flawless but the way Tamara carries herself is like a goddess!! 😍

[@lovethyself4746]

Tamera!!! Is absolutely beautiful! Especially with her natural hair

[@ambriellemurray8442]

I may not support the wedding but I will always support my friend choices (unless it dangerous put her self in harm, etc). I agree with Tam on this one. You don’t know the future.

[@summerlyric506]

Tamera's shimmy 😍😍😍 Loni looks great too. Her story about the side piece at the wedding is insane!

[@rvarlcin59]

Lonnie, whatever happiness you have is showing through girl! You look gorgeous!

[@muycaliente6196]

When I got stood up that one time when I was 16, I just went to cinema on my own and had a great time. It really was a gift, it helped me realise that YOU need to treat yourself as a Queen before anyone else does. You really do learn how fabulous being with yourself can be 😊

[@ajemroberts3903]

I have a long time friend that was going to get married, I knew it wasn’t going to work, I told her my concern about it, twice and asked her if she was sure, she said yes and I was still going to be her maid of honor. I would have never mentioned it again and from that point I just supported her. She decided a week before not to get married, I was shocked but glad she made a decision that was right for her

[@naezie0439]

Loni... what happened!!!??? Hahahahaha I told youuuu i told you LOL

[@anxietyisms]

You can not approve of a wedding and still go to support them.

[@partygirl1215]

Tamera looks so gorgeous in this video!

[@princesszahara6953]

Tanisha Patel she always do

[@misssarah7195]

I was in a wedding where many of our friends felt the groom could do better. The best man didn't show in protest/disapproval and I went from being a bridesmaid to the best man minutes before the ceremony. I don't regret standing with my friend, they were getting married and deserved to have support. However their marriage did end when he came home from work early to find her in bed with another man so maybe when your friends question a relationship they might know what they are talking about.

[@ryaltygibsn8506]

I Love you guys!!! You ladies look Gorgeous!!! Love all the way from Guyana!!

[@myperspective4U2C]

A lot of people thought my marriage wouldn't last for no more than a year because we got married fast. We are 8 YEARS STRONG 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪!! So in their face!! Moral of the story, just because you don't "approve" of something doesn't mean you are right. I agree with Tamara on this one!

[@tripletsgirl]

❤️❤️❤️

[@yazmigianna2422]

I LOVE THE LOOKS IN THIS ONE!!!! and Jeannie's reaction to Adriennes story was MEEEE LMFAOOOOOO

[@shirleya662]

Wow Tam is looking so good! Edges wow. Jennie is so beautiful as well 😍

[@ScottD_]

If you tell your friend that you don’t approve of their wedding then get ready to lose that friend

[@dinkyboss]

sarah nah same result unfortunately. people don’t like being told about themselves. no matter how noble your intentions they may still feel attacked or judged one way or another. In that situation you either bite your tongue or prepare to leave that friendship behind 😐

[@ScottD_]

sarah you’d be surprised

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

So true.

[@BriLoveMusic]

@@ScottD_ A friend who doesn't want friends to protect and defend them isn't a "friend" worth fighting for. Love doesn't mean supporting everything you want. A truly good friend would at least reluctantly accept that.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Last time I checked being stood up is one of the worst things ever... but you can turn the negative of that situation into a positive outcome... don't let that ruin your mood ! But why can't people just be honest upfront and say I don't want to date you... you're just wasting their time and giving the other party false hope

[@phillipswatson3452]

😜LOL😜WHY CAN'T PEOPLE GIVE THERE HONEST OPINION WITHOUT YOU THROWING A TANTRUM ALWAYS SAYING MINE YOUR OWN BUSINESS...WHEN ITS NOT TO YOUR LIKING?!?! 💃BYE🏃 VERY CHILDISH! !

[@MajesticMyronn]

Phillips Watson u and this tantrum word being thrower around is getting on my damn nerves... I am 18 not 3... I don’t know you so I suggest you leave me alone harassing me with this bullshit... your comment has literally nothing to do with the topic I’m referring to so please leave me alone ! Thank you and have a nice day !

[@JG-co5nx]

All the ladies look so beautiful and well styled. It all pairs well together.

[@QaadirHoward]

“I ain’t ever seen nothing like that” -Loni -Me “because it didn’t happen Ms Malt liquor 🥃 USA”

[@jakemcdaid7667]

omgggg 💀💀

[@khayirafarah2834]

I’m screaming 😂😂

[@QaadirHoward]

@Open Minded Shoot me the link or it didnt happen bro. She stay lying with her non-drinking ass. Ms I looked crazy taking a spicy shot USA

[@sarahjames927]

When my best friend got married I approved of the match but I didn’t/don’t like the guy. But he’s good for her and too her. I can be a woman and acknowledge that. And therefore I was at the wedding. People need to understand that approval doesn’t mean like. If they are good to the other and it’s a relationship that looks strong and has been tested my personal feeling should not matter.

[@anisadlamini6385]

loni's makeup looks amazing

[@aliciap8583]

Adrian was a whole mood in this, everything she is saying is ON POINT. 👌

[@jg3865]

Loni looks amazing!

[@midnightmave]

This is why an old friend won't be invited to my wedding. They were over critical of everything, especially my fiancé and when I asked for more support they said "fine, if you want me to lie to you, I just won't say anything at all." I don't need that negativity in my life.

[@ganishya]

Good to know that even beautiful celebrities like Tamera can be ghosted...it's a human thing

[@dani09eveline]

I didn’t approve my best friends first wedding and I wasn’t the only one and she asked us to object at her bachelorette party. But I wasn’t doing that. It was her choice to get married. When it came to the speak now or forever hold you peace there was a longgggg Pause. The whole wedding was cringe. I was there to be supportive

[@twokidsmom5309]

I've been to a wedding that I didn't approve of. However, the friend I supported on her happy day appreciated my attendance and that's why I went.

[@InfintelygratefulCC]

My sisters wedding lol. 3 years and several affairs later they separated

[@JNgo303]

Someone should make a compilation of Jeannie saying "hit em with the shoulders" lol

[@nehapatel9533]

There is a whole spectrum between absolutely loving the couple and absolutely detesting it. The closer you get to the latter, the lesser chance of you needing to go. You can be not the biggest fan and still attend if you have enough reasons to. As Adrienne said, it's just about being so opposed that you can't even hold your peace. A third category is indifference. If you are so far from caring about them that neither good nor bad emotions evoke within you, then there is no need to go. However, it gets tricky when you are talking about indifference to someone in the family- at which point family respect is more important than your indifference.

[@BittieBossLady]

Spoke to my best friend about my concerns of her marriage. There was abuse and she never had anything nice to say to say about him. He asked and got her a big ring so she said yes. I asked if she was sure and she asked me not to show up. It hurts to not be friends but I still think of her daily and hope he really did change but I’m also always here for her

[@missondo4887]

Loni makeup is flawless- she looks amazing here