混血兒子移民英國後被當眾羞辱和取笑！亞裔在歐洲如何應對這些問題？能真正融入白人圈子嗎？“Go Back Home” - Experiencing Racism in the UK - Q&A

歡迎回來Reynolds Family的頻道
Welcome back to the Reynolds Family Channel
我們怎樣處理種族歧視呢？我們怎樣教導混血兒子面對被歧視的情況呢？😟
How do we deal with racism? How do we build up our kids to face racist encounters? 😟
影片中是我最近收到大家的疑問📥
These were just a couple of questions I received recently 📥
今天是一支Q&A影片，分享每個人都最不希望經歷的問題…種族歧視😔
Today’s video is a Q&A all about that topic you never wish to experience, Racism… 😔
其實Noah小時候在香港已經被學校的同學取笑他的血統👦🇭🇰這不禁讓我想起自己曾經在英國也被遭同樣的對待🇬🇧
So when Noah recently was laughed at by some boys for being from Hong Kong 👦🇭🇰 it brought back some hurtful memories of racist encounters I have also experienced here in the UK 🇬🇧
所以我覺得是時候要跟大家回覆有關這主題的疑問了🫶
Which is why I felt it was time to answer your questions about this important topic! 🫶
快點進影片找出答案吧～☺️
Jump into this VLOG to find out all the answers ☺️
大家記得在下方留言哦～別忘記按讚及訂閱👍
Get involved in the discussion in the COMMENTS and please remember to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE 👍
謝謝大家，下次再見🥰
Thank you so much and see you next time 🥰

[@kimlee3787]

我阿女比鬼仔鬧問點解嚟我哋國家之類嘅說話，阿女好輕描淡寫講咗句：I’m here to kick your ass ！

[@gabriella..kW..]

Kudos to your daughter 💪💪🍀🍀

[@kelvin19949]

❤❤❤

[@pandais1217]

正確👍咪俾啲死仔以為女仔好蝦😤

[@dicky5065]

阿女講得好

[@bonnielo6121]

有次睇片 幾個鬼仔笑越男仔 結果之後比成班越南仔打

[@gwenhannah722]

You have taught Noah well and I am proud of both mommy and Noah ❤

[@ssleung8141]

就算唔係種族問題，有時都被歧視得很hurt，氣難下……我曾在香港的職場被一個有『大後台』的女上司歧視得很厲害，起因是嗰個『大後台』話我的步姿很得意，跟住女上司除了週不時自己『目及』下我工作，亦叫其他IC或同事睇住我做嘢，因為該機構員工係有免費醫療的，佢覺得我有腳患做不到相關工作，同埋加入該機構係來醫腳的…....我其實都有朋友响嗰度工作，係佢話我知的，雖然該女上司低級過我朋友，但『大後台』係佢阿頭，佢都冇辦法，亦都唔會諗辦法

[@8888Vinc]

You are an awesome mom as you know how to guide and lead your children to grow. 👍🏻

[@likitman209]

多謝你既分享，好有智慧既處理方法。

[@henrykwok8869]

Very well said and good role model for the immigrants

[@karinawong5063]

其實了只有弱者先會欺善怕惡。有Lawrence係度佢地唔敢亂黎就係最好證明。 咁我好好彩，係澳洲遇著既都係好人。去Hiking 遇著會邀請我溪邊煲茶既人，迷路會帶我行既人，又有阿婆俾free lift我去火車站。以前寄宿隔離房又邀請我去佢屋企農場玩4WD、射擊，全部都係澳洲人，所以我都無咩不愉快經歷。我既英文無Gladys 好㖭，只係大學時有個鬼妹鼓勵我，話怕咩講呀，我明你，你明我咪得，communication 最終目的都係咁啫，如果我既2nd language 有你英文咁好我都好開心啦，所以自此我就放膽亂噏一通。😂😂

[@ukmonk]

I HATE bully's and racism with a passion. Both my kids are mixed race (I am white and my wife is HK Chinese) now they are grown up (21 and 24) and one day when my son came home from school (he was around 11 years old) he said some boys were making fun of him and calling him 'Ch1nky!!!' etc. I was furious and I asked him how he replied, he said 'NO I AM NOT, I AM HALF CH!NKY'!!! 😅 Luckily it didn't bother him and he just ignored them, he did go through a phase though where he didn't want to speak Cantonese, and we always speak it at home but he felt embarrassed speaking in public, now both him and my daughter (and their friends) think its the coolest language ever!!

[@zhuleon3564]

So he is proud of the other half, wonderful!

[@doriswaddington2418]

Bullies is spelled B U L L I E S - the failure of the British education system

[@juliepaiz6669]

Your wife is Chinese from HK, not HK Chinese. There is no Hong Kong Chinese or Tai Wan Chinese.

[@ukmonk]

@@juliepaiz6669 🤣

[@walyduj]

@@juliepaiz6669You’re funny 😂😂😂

[@lebbeus]

歧視度度都有，香港人咪一樣習慣歧視開南亞裔菲律賓人黑人，我哋有在乎過佢哋嘅文化咩？唔使睇得自己咁重要，人性去到邊都係一樣

[@kazewendy12]

同意，如果simply一啲例如ching嗰類嘅稱呼式岐視，我覺得你太大反應，反而正中下懷，或者喺香港我覺得我地都會稱呼外藉人一啲名，其實可能幾十年前會係好offensive，但講真到今時今日都唔當咩一回事，主要係睇應用場景；重點係，對方原意就係挑釁，你越serious越嬲佢地會越開心，反而你冷對佢，唔比反應一笑置之，根本係佢地自己冇癮敗走. 好多人就會好激動‘咁咪比人洽上心口’ 我會睇長遠，只要我生活得開心快樂，君子不立危牆，下下同人講打講殺（大前題你唔知對方咩實力底勢）唔同人嘈唔一定係怕事嘅，一時做英雄，然後比人拉去坐監好型咩？ 惡人自有惡人磨，我其實都幾怕啲人乜嘢都去惹事生非! 媽媽講得好啱，最重要係仔仔自信冇被影響，健康成長!

[@GTO.007]

講係容易既，但小朋友面對歧視唔開心係好可以理解既。唔好否定人哋既感受。

[@mnn2344]

我也是個在英國居住的香港人，歧視問題已經是無法避免的事情，我自己經歷過好幾次，在街上，和家人一起走路時或我自己單獨一個女生特別容易遇到。兩年了，只要我不是一個人時，我是會回嘴的，我會保持距離警告他們再繼續我會報警，他們就不說話離開了。但自己一個人的時候還是離開較好，我很認同一點要保護自己，好漢不吃眼前虧，真的很視乎情況。另外一提，遇到通常沒禮貌的人他們都是癮君子、醉漢，或一看知道是社會底下階層的人，他們的生活不愉快才會想令人不愉快。照顧好自己是最重要的❤

[@jakexgold3879]

Oh, I just mocks them and makes it even louder and screaming it like DANCING IN THE RAIN, screaming all the racist words about the Chinese! So they wanted a circus I would have it delivered, but even more louder and chorus!

[@mingchan2594]

8:10 呢啲老豆喫屎啦…小朋友可以話係唔識野，做人老竇呢啲時候點可以唔教自己個仔嫁😠😠😠

[@thereynoldsfamily]

😭😭😭

[@amychan6190]

咁熟？叫人番英國？！祖家😂

[@ehislqwezad316]

香港有成400萬中國兩岸(中國籍)移民。 唔係講廣東話就係香港人

[@elliepoon25]

我以前係英國讀書都遇過歧視既經歷，有幾個年青人係我面前講'ching chong'，做一啲好挑釁既動作😅我望一望佢地，無做任何反應，佢哋見到我無回應，互望大家，個樣勁無奈🙊其實佢哋係度等緊我作出回應，所以唔好理佢哋就係最好既辦法😉

[@tungtung8378]

Some staff in my company talked to me " ching chong" too some thirty years ago when I first worked in there. I told them I didn't understand 'ching chong', but I respected them as human, so didn't say foul language in front of me, then they stopped.

[@Arianacccosta]

I was called Chinese chicken in Scotland ☠️

[@yulin1013]

Sometimes i heard about Ching Chong in Europe but I didn’t realize it is bullying lol now I understand

[@geodarnodan6750]

二十二年前我20岁在英国读书，遇过种族歧视。之后又再去过伦敦几次，还是遇到。 刚去年从澳洲悉尼实习一年回来，虽然悉尼到处都是亚裔，一些白人还是会不喜欢我们的。尤其是一群白人小孩，当他们经过你而且旁边是没有大人时，他们就会做出歧视的举动和声音，这是刻在他们血统里卑劣的基因。原本撇开白人小孩不谈，我对他们大人印象还大致上不错，可是在离开悉尼前两个月就遇到两次大人歧视我，一次时柜台服务员，问她付款的事情，她就一副不屑的样子。另一次是在电轨车，一个白人妇女无缘无故说我“disgusting”。可能她神经有问题，所以我得出结论，虽然悉尼是大城市，那里白人心里还是一副高傲的心态。

[@pakhowong4133]

但係要小心佢以為你唔識反駁然後更加取笑😢

[@mindretreatful]

From Australia, many years ago,I saw an old woman took her dog to our front yard, I asked her why are you coming to our front yard and she said that oh, my friend is living (we are living an apartment)here, I asked that who is your friend? She had just took her dog went. Later I saw her again with her dog, I asked her “why you came here again without any permission, I told her I will call police“then she yelled me “you should go back to your country “ I told her “the government would let me know wether I should stay here or not but not you”. I never seen her again ever since. The bloody old woman. I never afraid about this. I met the kind of bullying for few times, I always fighting with them, I can’t say I win but till they were shutting up. First few years, friends admired me about my English, t told them learning better English is easier for me to fight those bullies. 😂😂😂

[@rbf-9326]

This happens daily in UK

[@yapyapyap2805]

Isn't it a bit tiring, when you have to put up with this every day ? I do agree with the lady : You should go back to your country? That was exactly what I did, I came back to HK, 30 years ago.

[@QJN2022]

Australia is a bit better, as you can ask them to go back to Europe or Britain.

[@luckylucky9588]

She deliberately bring her dog to shit in front of your apartment

[@tuesdae666]

Good for you. Tell them to go back to Europe.

[@petertse4711]

以前我們對仔女從小開始操游泳, 打羽毛球及去滑板場操花式BMX, 晚餐後就去公園練unicycle, 再大啲就上山鬥mountain bike. 細細個操游水同BMX, 佢地個體形比較同年紀班細路仔為健碩, 所以在公園玩耍時沒有人會bully佢哋, 從細時以經同班小朋友蒲街埸, 一般係滑板埸玩都係街童或同類style, 相處期間學到一些溝通技巧, 生存技能. 上年我們在澳洲, 大家一起坐在海邊街凳食熱狗, 突然有羣(白人)兇狠外表街童踩滑板/BMX經過, 個仔同他們眼神一望, 大家自然有善起來揮手致意, 聞到係同類 🤣! 今年係英國讀寄宿學校, 好OK! 自己成長經過哂, 小朋友係要自己白紙一張面對bullying! 家人最多講人生道理, 但從小去玩運動操fit係防bullying好有幫助. 做父母唔好心痛佢地因操時受傷擦到損手損腳, 我太太成日罵我搞到個女損手損腳入醫院! 😱今天我女多謝我!😬

[@hungmark6953]

你岩，太溫室寵愛小孩會讓他們失去求生技能，應該早點放手讓佢比環境培育得更強，幸好你的小孩很好動和適應力很強。早點放手對他未來很有幫助

[@YAHOO-hj9rs]

我諗小朋友另外玩埋泰拳，全接觸空手道，對著bullies 會冇咁驚

[@realmanchurch]

接觸多d運動學習同人接觸同比人認識你多d都係好好既方法 我個仔都係踩freestyle bmx 都識到好多人教佢野

[@danielchan8765]

咁你仔女有冇去bully人？

[@cubebb6675]

在英國讀大學時, 有幾個男仔出言歧視, 我未及應對, 我身邊幾個鬼妹朋友即時幫我破口大駡, 駡到個班男仔即走, 之後我勁笑話唔好睇小女人. 其實每個地方都有好人和差的人, 有些人如果要傷害你, 會利用膚色, 家底, 身型, 宗教等任何莫需有理由, 只有做好自己, 勇敢面對.

[@ritatsang8648]

去白人主義的國家是自找羞辱吧...

[@AlfiyaOzhanova]

​@@ritatsang8648. White people invaded, colonized and robbed Asian, African countries, American continents, Australia and others. Some European countries are still robbing resources of African countries. They've made native Americans of North America nearly go extinct. Why can't we go to their countries? Russians are white, but most of Russia's territories are located in Asia, those territories originally belonged to Asians. White Americans claim USA as their country, when those territories originally belonged to native Americans. Ancestors of native Americans originated from Asia. In my opinion Asians have more rights to be in the US than white colonizers.

[@jakexgold3879]

Oh shame on me, I thought I taught them well with all the ugly words to abuse the Chinese! My fault, I should make my team stronger!

[@5464654135756]

Having a parent like you is such a blessing!

[@waichong9389]

I went to the UK when I was 5 years old in 1976 . I got bullied for 15 years . I get beat up lots of times. I get in trouble with the police. now I'm in Hong Kong. I find lots of Hong kongers are very selfish and have no manners. Saying good morning and thank you and please does not cost any money .

[@alexcheung3762]

100% agree no manners and very selfish

[@boyzinpainworld3620]

我是香港人在歐洲己居住了四十五年，有十五年在英國讀書大學畢業到出來工作，有時亦遇到被人叫 Ching，我都一笑至知，我們香港人叫白人鬼佬，黑哥，亞差，這也不是岐視他們嗎？只是他們聽不懂，我太太是德國人，和她在香港逛街買衫，多次聽到售貨小姐說，唔好被個鬼婆試衫呀，佢地D人周身臭，我在傍附近也無出声，每個民族都會有岐視的，train yourself to accept it. Don't let it bother you too much.

[@LSKeith6412]

​@user-bi1nr3do4p咁怕被歧視你就返中國生活呀 係中國中國人咪又係一樣歧視所有外國人

[@dominic213w]

@user-bi1nr3do4p 我就係試過响英國遇到俾大陸人歧視，我都知唔係每個大陸人都係咁，因為我都遇過啲好好同埋好友善嘅大陸人。但係自從嗰次之後，我都會有少少陰影，我見到大陸人同我講國語都會有少少提防。

[@maxyi2672]

沒錯。老移民把「歧視」當笑話，只有新移民一本正經的去抗爭。這「抗爭」在老移民眼裡也是笑話，哈哈哈哈。

[@KK-jj7bl]

當然啦，超有錢的大陸人眼角生在頭頂😂​@@dominic213w

[@geodarnodan6750]

二十二年前我20岁在英国读书，遇过种族歧视。之后又再去过伦敦几次，还是遇到。 刚去年从澳洲悉尼实习一年回来，虽然悉尼到处都是亚裔，一些白人还是会不喜欢我们的。尤其是一群白人小孩，当他们经过你而且旁边是没有大人时，他们就会做出歧视的举动和声音，这是刻在他们血统里卑劣的基因。原本撇开白人小孩不谈，我对他们大人印象还大致上不错，可是在离开悉尼前两个月就遇到两次大人歧视我，一次时柜台服务员，问她付款的事情，她就一副不屑的样子。另一次是在电轨车，一个白人妇女无缘无故说我“disgusting”。可能她神经有问题，所以我得出结论，虽然悉尼是大城市，那里白人心里还是一副高傲的心态。

[@ChengtengLam-o7r]

我剛搬到歐洲一年幾，目前遇過1-2件小小既種族歧視事情，一開始會有啲吾開心，但後來就諗通左了啦。我覺得素質低下+冇見識既人先會歧視同自己吾同既人，因為佢地呢一世都只能夠活系自己狹窄同寡聞既世界裡，佢地都好可憐好可悲。所以我地吾洗同呢啲人一般見識！❤希望Noah同FinFin可以越黎越有自信，為自己有asian血統感到自豪🎉

[@vapaus831]

冇人出生時可以決定自己的種族， 所以任何有關於種族歧視和自豪的言論是廢話

[@nerolilin]

Stop Asian Hate組織撥經費了？

[@gumcimau1318]

Exactly. You got your point perfectly correct.

[@Adam-sf7mt]

Tell racists that they have 😢 nevetravelled the world before, if you have you would never say anything like this! 無見識！

[@Ccccccc007]

👍

[@edithleung2349]

Noah勇敢、善良又可愛，必定可以渡過這些人際關係相處的難關，加油啊💪💪

[@pollyting-jg7ng]

I am Chinese from HK. Ilive in Vancouver, Canada for over 40 years. I have experienced these situations numerous times. I suggest that don't walk away from these racists or nasty comments, if you do, you are giving power to these people. You need to stand up for yourself and tell them " shut up" what gives them power to say that. They have no rights to putting you down. When you say something and stand up for yourself. They will stop.

[@yapyapyap2805]

Oh, really? I think you will get a black eye more than likely.

[@pollyting-jg7ng]

@yapyapyap2805 No, I think you're so wrong. Thus is the reason why we are keep getting these non sense racist comments because we don't say anything.

[@kimlee3787]

Make it simple ，you should say I’m a hongkongese instead ! Please get rid of Chinese this word ,it really gets on my nerves !

[@andylam2523]

When I am in good mood, I say screw you, when not, I would say xuck you. Of cause we are legal to carry in the US.

[@QK-A]

@@kimlee3787 🤧

[@alectang1614]

I always tell my HK friends who move to the UK - you dont think you're chinese here in HK but you will feel VERY chinese once you're in the UK. Im a born and bred British Chinese who has now lived in hk for over 10 years. Not going back.

[@jameskuo3357]

作為一位在德國留學的台灣人，我也經歷過好幾次種族歧視，曾經這些經歷也讓我很受傷、很難受，但現在我已經能漸漸用不想和這些白痴一般見識的態度來面對種族歧視了，也比較不會受影響了。Sending love to you and your kids!

[@nerolilin]

你們台灣人不也歧視台灣混血兒嗎？全校女生共同來霸凌。她中文名何心寧。

[@timtung123]

@@nerolilin 中國人最喜歡河南人。

[@nancyso5361]

​@@nerolilin 台灣的欺凌出名會殺人！打死了一個內向的小朋友之後學校還特別去清理現場！

[@wii3604]

全台灣人都霸凌嗎​@@nerolilin

[@pingho1437]

@@timtung123 外國人非常容易從你長相，身體特徵，膚色，髮色，就會認為你係中國人. 就要欺負你

[@alvindurochermtl]

點解呢個係人地嘅問題？人地個社會比d移民難民搞到咁亂，點解佢哋重要欠外人包容？英國出左名一向階級歧視重，就算你係白人，你唔係英格蘭人，唔係同一個郡，唔係posh口音，唔係Eaton ，唔係Harrow，唔係Oxbridge，你咪有一樣比人歧視。唔鍾意唔友善，最好咪去英國。

[@mbaocmbaoc6365]

這位靚媽是一位智慧型的媽媽，你有的是智慧及自信，足以保護到你兩位仔仔💪在你的教導下，他們會建立自信，在任何一個地方都保護到自己，屹立不倒快樂成長💪

[@oileengrace8228]

Poor baby, I too am Eurasian and grew up in HK where I was always neither nor, either or. I am glad you fully support him. The world is cruel, wherever we are. Support from family and friends help lots.

[@shirley_li]

I am a Chinese person from Mainland China and have lived in the UK for 14 years. I completely agree with your approach: while we cannot control what others say or do, we can control how we react. When someone is impolite or racist, I usually respond by saying, "It's a shame for you to say that" or "Please mind your own business." Of course, it's important to always ensure your safety when standing up for yourself. Never take their words seriously or personally; it's often clear that they come from people with narrow minds and a lack of proper education.

[@jackie406coupe]

英國人還活在日不落帝國的年代你問德國人就知道。

[@kathyl1924]

多謝你個分享。雖然我冇係外國生活，亦都冇遇過種族歧視的問題。但係我相信係呢個世界上生活，點都會遇到啲帶惡意嘅人。我依家有一個一歲嘅仔仔。我自己本身係個容易受人影響嘅人。我都好擔心將來仔仔都會面對外界不友善嘅對待。亦都擔心自己唔知點樣開解佢，或者令佢唔好在意人地嘅說話。你呢條片都啟發到我點樣佢同仔仔溝通同教育佢。最後，希望世界少啲偏見，多啲善意啦

[@andylam2523]

我是古代的人，小時不喜欢經常被老妈打。打有双重意義，被打的感觉不好，長大後学会善待別人，2. 被打時忍得了痛。

[@hosuzanna5493]

大仔好叻仔。爸媽教得好。❤

[@thereynoldsfamily]

🩷🩷

[@christineclark4721]

Racism exists everywhere. When it happens, one can be so hurt. I migrated to Australia in 1991 and have been working in a university in Melbourne. One day I was waiting for a colleague at the university office entrance to go to a meeting. A man walked by and turned his head and said” Go back to your fu.. country “. I was totally shocked and my jaws dropped, just like Noah not understanding why the man was so mean. It was afternoon and I was in my business wear, so what had I done to upset him? Yet having lived and worked in Melbourne for over 30 years, this was the only time I was treated so badly. To be accepted by local community, I believe one has to take the first step to participate in functions and activities. I am happy to see that you teach your kids to be confident and believe in themselves. This will help them go far. Best of luck.

[@thereynoldsfamily]

Absolutely this can happen anywhere! As we can’t control others we can only control our own reactions 🩷

[@geodarnodan6750]

二十二年前我20岁在英国读书，遇过种族歧视。之后又再去过伦敦几次，还是遇到。 刚去年从澳洲悉尼实习一年回来，虽然悉尼到处都是亚裔，一些白人还是会不喜欢我们的。尤其是一群白人小孩，当他们经过你而且旁边是没有大人时，他们就会做出歧视的举动和声音，这是刻在他们血统里卑劣的基因。原本撇开白人小孩不谈，我对他们大人印象还大致上不错，可是在离开悉尼前两个月就遇到两次大人歧视我，一次时柜台服务员，问她付款的事情，她就一副不屑的样子。另一次是在电轨车，一个白人妇女无缘无故说我“disgusting”。可能她神经有问题，所以我得出结论，虽然悉尼是大城市，那里白人心里还是一副高傲的心态。

[@DL-ku2bc]

移得過去預左俾人歧視，係佢地眼中同你係香港見到南亞裔冇分別😊

[@chanmicky99]

認同。想起那些香港“中產”在香港的口面。。。

[@pakholee9561]

香港人見到鬼仔鬼妹踎地鐵就叫 style 就叫隨心，見到人陸人做同樣既野就係阻街，菲律賓人叫自己阿 sir / madam 就以為自己CEO，見到鬼佬鬼婆就叫人 Sir/ Madam , 成9 日話比人歧視，都吾諗下自己平時係點☺️

[@andrrewhhmak]

由細到大有鬼仔走嚟Ching Chong我一律以bo'ohw'o'wo'er嚟回應，佢哋就會知自己啱啱做嘅嘢有幾搞笑

[@HONCHINGLAM]

自細EQ就咁高，長大真的不得了

[@Paul-ls7tt]

Honestly they’re not gonna care or know the difference if you tell them you’re from hk, they see all asian looking people as Chinese. He needs to fight back or else they’ll keep thinking us asians are timid and weak.

[@ChinaSongsCollection]

@9:16. Hong Kong is a place. Not an ethnicity! You can't be "half Hong Kong' just like you can't be half of Britain! Your ethnicity is Chinese. And your son's ethnicity is half Chinese.

[@Feudorkannabro]

Yes. Half Chinese and half English

[@lalaeuro]

The UK is a brilliant place to live... Until it's not. In this case, the racism. I'm really sorry to hear this happening to you. I'm 60ish, came here at 3 from India in 1969... I went through this, my children too - while of being mixed background - and am so upset to hear this kind of nonsense is still upsetting children. The world is super-upsetting sometimes. So stay strong, and hope you and your family is also getting plenty of support to deal with this, and enjoy the positives of the UK too.

[@waichong9389]

This is normal for every Hong Kong child mainly boys . That will get bullied every day in or out of school. I did not fight back at first . But when I did fight back in secondary school. no one ever beat up a Hong Kong guy again.

[@taitaichoi2330]

Proud to be half Chinese! Noah is a very sensible boy 👍

[@nickz83]

I was also born and raised in Manchester, throughout my childhood I was racially abused and constantly beaten up just because I looked different from them, times have changed and more people came to accept who we are more and more, thinking back it made us growing up much more stronger as we took all the abuse and managed to live through it and succeed.

[@familysiu3744]

表妹（香港人）表妹夫紐西蘭人有色人種，兩個劍橋博士，在香港生活時，基於膚色，妹夫基乎每次出親街都被差人截查，搜身嗰隻，每次見到差人都係徹底搜身查身份證！投訴都冇用，歧視邊度都有，香港其實更嚴重，香港人歧視南亞人、非洲黑人、菲律賓人、印尼人所有非我族類嘅人😂

[@andylam2523]

民主，自由，平等全是西方的謊言。 香港人岐視穷的香港人和新的香港人。

[@YvonneFung-jv2pu]

由於太多南亞人及黑人犯法， 警察才查南亞人及黑人身份証， 這不算是歧視， 是要確保市民安全。

[@OOO_KKK_]

@@YvonneFung-jv2pu點會係香港又唔係歧視？😅 唔好雙重標準啦，歧視各地都有，呢樣野係某一啲人覺得自己比人高級，自卑心作祟

[@YvonneFung-jv2pu]

@@OOO_KKK_ 點解查身份証就係歧視？

[@andylam2523]

针对某一族群叫做 race profiling，在美经常發生，法庭也宣判为侵犯个人憲法权利。

[@shi.l3571]

Gladys欣賞你好堅強＆教得仔仔好好；wish you and your family all the best ❤🙏🏻

[@dudu-mu9py]

Noah是一个善良的小朋友！proud of him！

[@johndole9381]

No doubt safety is everyone's primary concern. But the situation allows, I WILL tell him/her to stop, otherwise, they will keep doing it without second thoughts. We have to stand our grounds....

[@zmo01]

「神」咁偉大都有人唔鐘意，作為普通人嘅我地，有人唔鐘意自己都好正常。 但！ 唔代表默許呢d 歧視發生。做好自己就可以😌 加油😊

[@kafka494]

I understand your stance ofc, but I don’t agree with dealing with these conflicts by being non confrontational. That’s exactly why it keeps happening to Asians. They’re your boys, so ofc you can teach them what you want, but I do think you should be teaching them to stand up for themselves. Loudly and aggressively, to match the bullies. Maybe it’s the American in me but I don’t think being meek is the answer. Otherwise the bullies never meet their match and can just keep doing the same to others.

[@de7uz]

I totally agree with you. Eastern culture teaches non confrontational way to solve problem and keep harmonious society. That's not working at all when facing bullies/racists in NON-Asian countries.

[@estherlau2641]

其實呢個問題係每個年代都發生，以平常心及正面方式從小教小朋友如何面對先最重要，例如先要接受自己有一半亞裔血統，呢啲都係優點自己有 人哋無，學到更多更深入文化（係由父母教導），建立小朋友自信，佢哋比其他小朋友有雙重優勢。 如果小朋友需要作回答，建議： 小朋友可以禮貌地回答其他小朋友，例如：我有住過亞洲地方，你哋有無住過？ 我有食過好多不同亞洲美食，你哋有無食過？ 我有去過不同亞洲國家，你哋去過未？ 如果你哋（其他小朋友）有需要或想知道關於亞洲的事物，我（自己小朋友）樂意解答。 😉

[@maggiefung3060]

所以老公話申請我及兩個女去美國，我唔去因為唔想兩個女比人歧視，對佢地做成傷害。😢

[@Sesame0209]

別人的不禮貌，造就咗我們更加努力工作和生活，為對方祈禱🙏，祝大家生活平安順利健康快樂🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤謝謝你的分享😊🌈

[@raychan-123]

你個"仔"既遭遇同你基乎成個channel既政治主題好貼題 藍人身邊特別多哩啲事發生係唔出奇既 慢慢你就會慣 仲有對你某段時間基乎隔條片就比人入屋爆竊既遭遇深感同情😂

[@kagawanani]

呢個世界係咁噶啦，歧視邊度都有噶啦～係香港，香港人歧視大陸人，相信你或多或少都會有，大陸大城市歧視外省或者鄉下入城務工嘅，國外一鳩樣，白人歧視其他膚色，呢D歧視都係同近代史邊個群體撈得好唔好有關，撈得好嘅地方味會歧視窮嘅地方咯～不過有睇開新聞都知狀況改變緊，大陸唔再係落後嘅代名詞，係下一代眼中，好可能中國會成為高科技嘅代名詞，又電動車又5G又上月球背面，自然海外華人都會受惠被睇高一線，無論你認唔認同自己係咪華人，同當年李小龍帶協華人一樣，全世界都以為中國人好好打，唔敢隨便蝦華人～不過全世界係得香港人先咁鐘意踩自己國家，唔通叫兩句民主自由，外國人就會睇得起你咩～你國家有頂尖工業能力，你味唔會被人歧視咯，除非你染白自己，係鬼佬眼中，你味又係chinese，中國好華人自然與有榮焉～即係好似你見到中東佬，你第一印象以為佢屋企有石油好有錢一樣，見到黑人，你會以為佢識打籃球～一時三刻好難轉變呢種固有印象，歧視係需要時間同國家實力沖淡嘅，通常受教育程度低或者混得不太好的本地人才會更容易用固有印象去歧視其他人尋找優越感～ 以前廣東人歧視洋人貶稱其為鬼佬，樣子同鬼一樣咁奇怪，咁依家鬼佬都唔算貶義詞啦～😂

[@clarac7293]

Racism exists not only in foreign countries, but also in Hong Kong😔As a student in a direct subsidy program, I hear the word racist all the time😢 I have a friend who immigrated to the UK with her family to study. She told me that she was discriminated against by foreigners.And I actually feel bad about her

[@alee2204]

Actually you don’t even look like Chinese. You look like Vietnamese or ppl of southeastern Asia!

[@crowin88able]

其实都係好普遍嘅问题，自己心态摆正好重要，因为别人怎样我们改变不了，在國外呆的時間久了，明明自己生活比本地人還好，對方卻看我不起，也不知道對方哪裡來的自信😂，不過反觀有時就算是自己國家的人也會有歧視的問題，所以我就比較釋懷了，可能也是人性的一種，我指的是心裡的，有時就算嘴裡沒有說出來，但內心還是會有歧視

[@Hohohahahehe8964]

我試過比英國白人問香港有冇HSBC ?我叫佢答我what HSBC stand for😂，唔好將人哋嘅愚蠢去懲罰自己😅

[@joshwong5683]

呢個就係我回流香港的原因，人人不同，我可以接受現在香港的自由度但卻接受不到歧視，個人人生安全感覺不受保障，就是永遠是外人的感覺

[@ffgtyamm6176]

無論你幾有錢香港人去英國 你甚至可以俾一個乞兒歧視

[@宝蛋的玫瑰人生]

i am living in Australia with a Caucasian husband and a mixed kid. Funny i never encounter racism WITH my husband, only when I am alone. People that bully Asian women with racism comments definitely do that cos they think they can get away with it. Over the years, I get less and less emotional about it because as you said as long you are confident in who you are, you don't need to be hurt by people's words. But I do worry about my son, cos I feel as a mixed child, he will encounter more identity issues than me.

[@cancherie38]

歧視邊度都有，日韓都好嚴重。不過人地唔會係條街度騷擾你。英國太多無品窮人生埋一大堆拿救濟，又唔教仔。呢d細路係學校同係街騷擾其他人來kill time。就算你係本土人都會被騷擾。成日倒亂超級市場 同食店。 所以問題不在於歧視，係呢個國家太多無人理既細路。讀書時就已經連群結黨做壞事同蝦人。長大後就偷呃怪騙，無錢又生幾個拿救濟，無限輪迴。係英國，呢d壞人比例實在太高。 所以我沒選擇英國生活。。

[@chinglish-cat-6189]

我是在英生活的中年純中國人，久不久會發生被歧視，通常都會透過聯絡客服去投訴。如在街上會在安全情況下反駁，盡量不畏縮，以免令人以為我們中國人好好蝦，好怕事而令對方得寸進尺。

[@wendychiu8649]

Cant agree more with you. 華人傾向忍耐、無視、避開， 不會斥罵別人也不喜歡在公眾場合爭吵，但這其實只會讓情況惡化。不表達不回應不會讓人覺得你品格高尚，只會讓人覺得亞洲人好懦弱好欺負。太多太多華人不懂保護自己，歐美人倒沒有這些標籤。 我認為最好的回應是（有勇氣的人可選擇更後的方法, 適用於但不限於歧視)： 1. 給對方一個自信又鬆容的微笑（他們看到你淡然又不為所動會愣住） 2. 也可以給他們一個輕視的眼神，微笑著地說「Thank you」（他們會生氣的） 3. 你有勇氣反擊的話，可刻意地全身打量一下對方，然後以恥笑的姿態跟對方說聲謝謝，不說話也可以。 或者你可以單純給一個laughing的反應，笑出聲來如「Hahaha」，這樣他們會知道你是為他們的歧視行為而感到可笑。 （他們會感到被挑釁，要做好有口角的心理準備，但通常不會） 4. 如果不介意跟人口角、起衝突打架、成為一名瘋子，可以直接嚇對方，如突然衝著對方去（1百米衝刺般）、作勢想打對方、向著對方咆哮扮鬼扮成一個瘋子。 基本上對方都會被「不正常」的人嚇到，這可能令對方嚇跑；或者你有勇氣的可以在對方被嚇到未回神時，放聲以「Hahaha」取笑對方，讓歧視者更措守不及。 （請自己衡量對方身上會否有攻擊性武器及附近是否有CCTV） ！！還有，不卑不亢地指出對方的行為屬歧視行為，公開公眾地Shame對方，讓別人知道這個人歧視別人，也是需要的（按情況）。這會削弱對方的力量膽量和自信。 不要用動真格生氣的姿態，一副想討論對錯教育別人的"客氣"姿態去跟別人嘈，這是最差的，不被禮貌地對待時 不要客氣。當你將自己放在 期望別人的回應（如合理回應）這個位置時，你就輸了。 寧願各位發洩情緒式罵對方（典型小巴的士司機態度），即使對方可能會感到高興挑釁成功，但同時也知道會被罵起衝突，之後不會太輕挑膽大。 要吵架的話，我認為 惡/ 淡然輕挑的八婆（像綠茶婊般） 姿態，就是最好的。

[@kimlee3787]

最爭啲鬼佬用煲冬瓜你好你好咁對我講，我會用好厭惡嘅態度同佢講：that’s not my language ，please stop it ! 然後望都唔望佢！

[@pw2.038]

19才子同埋鮑sir 話呢啲係小龍dna， 自己歧視人哋先至會覺得畀人歧視

[@crus2334]

你系中国人，人地系香港人，唔一样嘎😊

[@winniemak886]

通常西人是看華人舉止！不論是香港人或中國人，他們都是認作為中國人看待，最好別選白人區居住！

[@waichong9389]

Never tell your next door neighbor your going on holiday. When you come back. Everything in your house will be gone .

[@sarahchan5604]

Racism 根源就是無知或缺乏自信。自己無足夠自信，只好用不同種族作欺人的籍口。Noah 這麼可愛又懂事真好，千萬不要介懷。記住：任何明理人都會喜歡Noah 的，那些說刻薄無禮說話的人是他們自己欠缺家教的問題，而不是Noah 自己有問題，所以無 需介懷

[@GTO.007]

同埋係父母教出黎。

[@wongbingo9523]

對付歧視最好嘅方法咪唔好移民去果度囉😂

[@JaDEnLai0528]

会不是是每次你都以保护别人为借口不反击 造就你的软弱呢？ 你这几个故事都是默不作声不然就快速走开的 如果我自己的父母是这样的我实话我真的没办法接受 被欺负了就要反击，而且绝不妥协 这里的反击也不是以更加攻击性或更加歧视性的字眼骂回去，但实话说这样的做法是最容易也最有效果的 你小孩的做法就很好啊 他就是跟别人不一样，但他先到那里的，别人攻击影响不了他，只是屹立在原处就可以让攻击者挫败（没有人愿意用脚踢钢铁几十次），我觉得你要做的不是见到这样的事情就是逃跑 即便带着两个小孩也是，当下做什么就继续，该做什么就做，你加速逃跑的那一刻就已经被影响了。

[@L.YouT123]

很多說普通話的人（由於人口基數太大），無論是出國還是移居去港澳地區，他們的行為大部分沒有基本禮貌沒有邊界感以及不尊重他人文化，導致連累了其他黃皮膚或者和他們說一樣語言的人。

[@DDDaaaDDDaaaDDD]

你继续抹黑吧，每个反贼对中国人的抹黑最后都会作用到自己身上😅

[@KenChan-d2k]

影片說的是種族歧視，歧視亞洲人包括日本人。歧視大陸人那些是屬於行為歧視，與種族文化歧視不大一樣。

[@ffgtyamm6176]

@@DDDaaaDDDaaaDDD不停罵中國人結果大部份中國人連飛機都沒有坐過 最後自己出國讓人歧視😂

[@lhlayla2627]

​@@ffgtyamm617614億中國人只有1億出過國都已經係好多人😅

[@kedaya]

那Ching Chong 应该是普通话吧？

[@tochangetheworld1]

說到底就是欺弱怕惡, 直接叫孩子多做運動增強體格, 學習摔跤和綜合格鬥。 如果是中亞移民, 例如阿拉伯人, 伊朗人,巴基斯坦,車臣, 哈撒克斯坦之類的孩子, 白種人種族主義者比較避忌一些。

[@beckyip2151]

Don’t be upset, Noah. You are unique and the best! Smile!

[@BlairWodalf]

好心痛 但又so proud of Noah!!!!!

[@mie2561]

D人見識少先會歧視人。 我都試過比一班10出頭嘅小朋友係咁叫青蔥青蔥😮‍💨我話青蔥又點，你夠有顏色囉🙄。 咩色人邊到都係人。互相尊重先得架麻。係外國太腍啤啤又會比人蝦。😮‍💨

[@terencetong4896]

I went to US when i was a kid and experienced all those back then. I went back to hong kong . I will never let my kids suffer the same.

[@jiminshi_xx6610]

I’m from Hong Kong and moved to UK to study and when I was in year 8 (I was new to the school) I was casually chatting with my friends and a year 9 boy came to me and asked where I’m from so I told him that I’m from Hong Kong and he shouted” FXXX YOU” and left. Me and my friend were just shocked but I didn’t say much cos I thought he will leave me alone after he left cos we were in different year and won’t see each other again. But I attended a school activity, then once I got on the bus, the same person literally said “ there’s a Chinese person”, I ignored him cos I don’t wanna cause a scene so I sat down. Then, in the activity, I think it’s cos he saw many Asian ppl in the activity and overheard one of their names which is prounounced as Ning Ning, so he started calling me that every time he sees me and it’s annoying and I was so mad, I still ignored it. But when one time he came up to me at lunch (I was having a pack lunch, chicken sandwich), he came up to me and said loudly “excuse me, do u eat dogs for dinner?” I told him I don’t eat dogs and he shouted again,” ur lying, ur clearly eating dog sandwich right now”. I was so mad at that time cos he is literally spreading fake rumours around the school. That’s the time I couldn’t take it anymore and told the teacher about it and he got suspended. I honestly hope every parents should teach their children to respect everyone no matter what religion, ethnicity etc, everyone needs to be treated equally cos we are all humans.

[@hing6685]

歧視邊度都有，香港人又歧視大陸人又南亞裔！

[@gurakko_zetta25]

而家大陸人都歧視香港人呀, 同埋佢地咪又係歧視非洲人、印度人, 仲好嫌棄blackpink個lisa嘅真實膚色, 話佢似菲傭, 好痴線

[@MrKiar1611]

攪清楚racist 同sterotype既分別, 我未見過亦未聽過香港人因為唔同色而上去打人2拳插人2刀

[@Sharer01]

​@@gurakko_zetta25我们大陆人不是歧视香港人，是不喜欢反华的香港人！也不会同情这类香港黄丝

[@andy5867]

媽媽你處理得很好，心態戰勝一切👍🏻。歧視真的全世界都有，你看香港一樣歧視南亞人，連內地同胞都是嫌棄的，不過華人就温和些，多數是言語上，外國人就會暴力些，說話也凶些。

[@GilNg-fp3us]

謝謝你的分享，Noah真係一個好善良嘅小朋友

[@mhlai999]

可能小朋友又真是不知道香港在什麼地方，如對方不是惡及安全情況，可以叫仔仔介紹香港有很多得意的食物在711賣，又有海洋公園有中國獨有的熊貓問問他們有否見過熊貓？冒險樂園，又有很多高楼大廈超過100層，美麗的夜景每個週末都有激光在維港等等，给他們看看，介紹香港可在1小時內到海邊，郊野和市區等等！還可以拿出一個舊兩元印有英女皇波浪形的錢幣，跟其他小朋友说香港有過百年的時間是英國的殖民地，所以之前的貨幣都跟英國的貨幣设计差不多，以前香港的郵票都是印上英女皇肖像等等，當時連印新郵票都要英女皇批，甚至連法律都是用英國法律，反問他們為何不知道？還有香港的車都是右軚，道路是左上右落，普通市民都會坐雙層巴士是由英國引入，香港人的平均IQ及壽命都是全球頭幾位，有何值得恥笑？另外，混血兒的基因是特別好，你和倆仔仔搜集混種基因好處資料跟他們说说，老實说你兩個仔仔都好靚仔🎉

[@skytral]

Noah好叻仔，就算人哋唔係批評種族問題，長大都會有可能遇到其他方面既抨擊，佢從小就識得咁成熟應對，第時大個一定好堅強！

[@yannesho1098]

Saying 'Nihao' to Asian people on the streets is RACISM. This is catcalling and Asian people living in Western countries should not just interpret it as 'being polite' or 'they arent doing anything'.

[@Ztef6828]

Gladys, great job bringing up Noah. He’s such a beautiful soul - so mature at his age and gentle. ❤

[@GermanNana]

这么严重。在德国，仇外主义属于刑事犯罪。外国人管理局有投诉电话，会处理相关责任人。由于当年屠杀犹太人的历史，现在的德国没有人敢公然歧视外国人。之前有派对的相关人员都因为仇外言论直接被公司解雇。这一点来讲，住在德国还是很安心的。😊

[@zoie0129]

你哋真係父母嘅榜樣，咁後生已經咁識教小朋友，小朋友都好生性❤❤❤

[@gurakko_zetta25]

老老實實, 可能我嘅性格都算火爆, 公園嗰個case我會當面鬧爆 / 串爆個男人同佢個仔, 以德報怨係好有修養, 但可惜呢d人只會覺得其他人唔出聲係好恰, 冇人反擊就係自己贏咗, 欺善怕惡. 佢地唔受過教訓, 亦唔會知出口傷人嘅嚴重性

[@leeoilun]

以德報怨，係句癈話，正確係以德報怨，何以報直

[@yian9226]

為什麼華人的英文寫作Asian ? 不應該是Chinese嗎？ 常看到很多香港或台灣的人自稱Asian，實際上被統一稱作Asian 是一種對於亞洲各國人群分不清楚的稱呼，沒必要自稱或稱其他華人為Asian。除此之外你說你在英國讀書，英國的Asian通常指南亞裔（印巴裔）而不是華人。 In the UK, Asian are usually referred to South Asian, not East Asian (like 華人) Chinese is Chinese, don't be shame for who you are.

[@dominic213w]

呢個係美式嘅叫法，通常英國都係叫做Orientals／Chinese。但係又好奇怪喎，响NHS個網同埋英國嘅人口普查，佢哋又會寫住Asian係包埋Chinese。

[@kayintam1745]

見到Noah笑番到安心D,一定要睇住佢嘅情緒💪加油

[@GuanHuaJiang]

還是搬來美國吧，英國小是沒有看過華人嗎？傻眼

[@aava2221]

我系英国生活过几年，遭受过最犀利的种族歧视反而系来自自称系香港人的女人对中国大陆的种族歧视！

[@theallochan]

是兩個種族？

[@Sharer01]

黄丝都是这样，他们自作自受😂

[@eugenelim5502]

​@@theallochan😊黄皮肤 Vs 黄皮肤

[@beelalala5609]

自問冇傷害到人，人哋無端端要對你無禮，唔使同佢講咁多，原生家庭家教素養方面你已經係贏晒👍💪🏻😂（如果喺原生家庭唔係健康快樂有愛富足完整咁成長，根本養唔出咁好嘅小朋友）

[@春暖花開-c9l]

哪裡都有垃圾，不必理會。 There will be trash everywhere, ignore them.

[@bryensaeed]

It happens everywhere. Somehow most important is safety. If only mouth talk is ok (UK racism problem is people using violent physically) I believe we all do have some racism on some ethnic such as many kong ppl also discriminate muslim, Indian, Pakistani, filipino. But just not apply violence physically is ok

[@rakuraku8043]

When I was a kid growing up in Canada... I experienced varying degrees of racism... but I pulled through just fine since I didn't have much support from my parents and it was just tough for new immigrants anyway.... but now that I got kids, I would always remind them to report any sort of racism/bullying when they get home..... I always assure them that I would immediately take appropriate action with their school/teachers.... PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR KIDS ALWAYS FEEL LOVED & SUPPORTED AT HOME!!!!

[@エイセンシイ]

種族問題倫敦真係好好多 倫敦以外個人覺得都算鄉下 比較排外🤔 不過始終都係好人多過壞人

[@38nacy]

國家強大歧視自然會消失，當年日本強大到處受到尊重敬畏就是一 個例子，中國有五千年盛世，只是近百年昏睡了，現在又重回世界之巔，重建需要時間改變，中國人到處受尊重敬畏是必然的，因為中國一定會再次強大！

[@ciqi]

在香港會有人覺得有外國mix樣會話怪，可以説甚少！ 而家又唔係清朝！就算清朝都好多外國人樣啦 ！香港咁多外國人 ！而且多數只會羨慕， 想淡化喺外國被歧視嘅現象？你即係想話香港都有？ 唔需要咁講嘅！ 喺外國畀人歧視咪畀人歧視囉，係係外國嚴重好多呀。 咁又點呢？ 使唔使醜化香港嚟淡化呢件事呢？ 喺香港一個小朋友話怪， 就可以同外國真正歧視你， 真正口出惡言， 講啲真正侮辱嘅說話嚟比較咩！？

[@josephineqk]

Racism is everywhere. My family and I are living in Zurich. The best way to deal with these people is not to take any nonsense and confront them. Often, they are not ready for confrontation.

[@chanamy7446]

It's very normal in uk 😢! No big 😅deal

[@nerolilin]

@@chanamy7446 快點走吧～人家英國人都趕人了，還不快滾！

[@jpssb-f7z]

小孩之間的事要好好處理，無需處處動不動就上升到種族歧視的層面。 我孩子小時在學校被黑人同學取笑欺負，還經常搶他東西不還。不過，我覺得這比較像小孩頑皮無理口無遮攔。我有跟老師反映這問題，也叫我的孩子疏遠他，情況後來就改善了。 如果要說種族歧視，亞洲也有很多會歧視東南亞國家的人，歧視外勞。所以，大家生活在一個多族群國家的人應該多包容，有些人是很沒禮貌，但那不是我們的錯，我們就別跟他們交往太多。

[@lollol-dp9ue]

亞洲人會當係鬼佬 歐美人會當係中國人， 好多女仔以為跟鬼佬結婚生仔 個仔就係外國人， 但其實人哋都係當你個仔chinese😂

[@jlouie8835]

Very true.

[@landhappy1190]

Why the headings have to sound so negative? In fact, terrible people are everywhere. They can pick on you for anything, not just the race.

[@rebekahwong3088]

Noah 真是好好的小朋友。爸媽都教得好好

[@winnielau2256]

不論香港，度度總有d多口百嚴星，我同d細路講唔洗放上心，say no ,無禮貌就唔洗理會佢地，講多都費事

[@AgnesSo-o8q]

Thank you for sharing! You are such a wonderful mom! Look at the bright side: 1. Recognize that these occasions are just opportunities to make you stronger. 2. They are the best way to practice patience and self-love. 3. See yourselves as more educated and capable of sharing more information with others! Although the UK has been promoting diversity and inclusivity in recent years, we still face challenges. For example, when we went out for a walk with our Buddhism teacher, a Tibetan Buddhist monk from the Netherlands, people on the street still made fun of our teacher. This shows that the issue isn't solely about being Chinese or Hongkonger; it's about some people's afflictive mindsets.

[@leathermanwoo5477]

香港人歧視大陸人, 南亞人又唔覺有問題, 去到外國俾人歧視又覺得好嬲😐

[@Dotherightthingattherighttime]

多謝你 近來第一次去歐洲旅遊 雖然講唔上歧視 但都被不禮貌對待 剛好你依條片出 我覺得有被安慰到💪🏻 仔仔咁細個就要面對依啲問題 作為大人都好心疼 但亦都好proud of Noah既堅強！ 希望你話番俾Noah知 依到有好多大過佢既哥哥姐姐都以佢為榜樣 真係好叻仔呀👍

[@pollyting-jg7ng]

Please stop being humble or keep quiet when you or your children encounter these situations. Teach your kids they are unique and special regardless of others think or say or our skin color. Those who think they are "bigger" than us because they are cowards with low self-esteem. Don't ignore them, if you do, they keep target you. Just teach you kids say, " they have no right to say that, I am special. What makes you feel you are better than me? Do you think you have extra brains? " as soon as you kids stand up for themselves, I guarantee they will stop