Breaking off ALL ties with the narcissist is the best thing you can do for yourself. I did it 6yrs ago and never looked back. Their slanderest lies will not effect how people who actually know you view you. Move on, for yourself ❤😀
@marytaylor95045 ай бұрын
Yes it is the Best Thing You Can Do For Yourself!!!!
@flightydancer5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday! This world is a lot better because you came here. Thank you for helping so many find light in this dark world.
@justmeheidi86855 ай бұрын
That's absolutely right no contact isn't for them it's for me, I've shut it down you are no longer a part of my life. I will continue living my best life narcissist free...byyyyeeee
@hasansarhan92965 ай бұрын
especially If they have made you codependent those wicked people are the worst thing can happen to a human being
@sadiamufti88905 ай бұрын
Sooooooo true😢😢😢😢😢
@bree17k224 ай бұрын
💯 “Be selfish it's the only thing that will cause them to eventually go away.”
@AneessaMusic5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin 🎉🎉 the most difficult is when people try to go no contact with their children...
@PeterWhite-jz6np5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin, I have gone no contact with my toxic narcissistic family. God Bless you in all you do for us through your channel
@sharmar5825 ай бұрын
I am isolated. Oh, I must face my fear of being homeless.....if I want to get away from my cheating, lying, husband. I left my entire family " six kids" after my youngest sister went into the woods and hanged herself....then they started picking on me again. I'm like no.....and then I end up with a Narrasistic husband and I have got to get away... But I have a fear of being homeless....so I stay. He's always gone, so that's good. But I'm sick of getting cheated on, called stupid. Which I'm not....my parents were both Narrsistic Parents, so they taught us nothing we needed to know to make it in this world. I am bringing Me back to life. Working hard. Been in therapy for 24 years,working on this. Raised my own 2 children the opposite of how I was raised, with love and joy.....they are both very successful and good people.... Wow!!! Happy Birthday!! Make a wish ❤ Bless you
@individualspawn10775 ай бұрын
I face the same, I feel your pain!! Getting myself ready to be homeless, God has us, death has lost its sting!!❤❤
@jennyhewitt34723 ай бұрын
I'm a little late but I'd like to reply. I feel that around half the people in this world are no good for a healthy relationship. But there's the other half out there! Just keep moving forward & meeting people & you'll come across some good ones 💚
@tanyadepoalo43123 ай бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@Monkchip5 ай бұрын
It's about the Narcs making you feel not good enough. I've been punished for all of that and the reactive more!
@ΔεσποιναΒασιλικα5 ай бұрын
It was very easy for me going no contact just by simply thinking of the FACTS,and putting aside my feelings This happened in just one night.. I am out from this 2 months now.. And I am having a great time.. I am not thinking of him at all..cause I am focused in my purposes Always follow your heart, BUT take your brain with it
@BAM26135 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin. Thank you for all you do. You have helped me heal.
@williamsaloka90435 ай бұрын
A lightbulb just went off in my head....COOL!!
@sonitasKitchen5 ай бұрын
You’re very smart.people sacrifice connection. And that’s why we get lost. Unfortunately
@rootsiebee5 ай бұрын
I’m thinking of going to play BINGO next week all by myself! 😮
@LindaStokes-ff2kv5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin.. Hope you have an awesome day ❤
@FirehouseDub5 ай бұрын
Many Happy Returns, Kevin! Thank you for all the valuable information you have shared with all of your subscribers over the years. You are very much appreciated. Much love to you from England. 🎉❤🎉
@lorimiller72615 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday you are a Lion ✝️ Yes my ex husband slowly pulled me away from friendships and socializing. Now I’m nurturing myself and getting back to loving and learning from people again. I love what you said, the more selfish we are the further away we are from them ❤ For anyone new to Kevin, if you listen and watch his videos your growth will happen quickly. He’s brutally honest from his heart 😊
@totorro58595 ай бұрын
This topic is very strange for me because for some reason I found myself not to be trauma bonded to my narcissistic friend or ex husband that I went no contact with. I though I was definately trauma bonded to both of them. But after realizing who they are I went no contact immediately and the only emotions I was struggling with was betrayal,pain, shock,lack of trust, feeling guilty of not seeing and leaving earlier, anger, but also happiness and relief that i am finally free! Free to be myself, this freedom is beyond description. I wish this everyone who goes through this, these people are just the worst type of human being you can encounter in your life
@sheriallen77115 ай бұрын
It's my birthday too, 5/23. Happy Birthday, Kevin. Cheers.
@deb23195 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday🎉
@PrincessCashmonie5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday! 🎁
@nicolast.catherine79475 ай бұрын
I solo needed this. Off with my shovel to unearth the me I buried. Hope your day was special. Nothing wrong with announcing your age. There are those will never live to see it.
@BrianKlumker5 ай бұрын
I fear the narcissistic and toxic family will never ever change irregardless of contact or no contact in my humble opinion
@nassangaveronica1385 ай бұрын
Hapi birthday Kevin, thanks so much for the insightful knowledge always, especially for us who are in regions where narcissism seems normal... Much love, Vero from Uganda
@individualspawn10775 ай бұрын
Youre talking to me, thats me! Lost everything except myself, so scared, going homeless, nightmares, thank you!
@Lyrielonwind5 ай бұрын
Feliz cumpleaños 🥳🎂 Sacrifice is a word I hate. My father scared me to death when I was a little child and I thought they will kill me because being raised in the Catholic Church and telling you, you have to sacrifice yourself and you don't understand how, why... the image I had was me in a cross being tortured. I didn't allow it. I was 7 years old. That's why I can't get into anything that looks like a cult or church. It's spiritual abuse. Thanks for the video and God bless you 💓
@MaryDunford5 ай бұрын
Not every church spiritually abuses people. But that's why spiritual abuse is, by far, the most reprehensible form of abuse. If you're abused in *any* other way, or by every human being on the planet, God should be the refuge. Spiritual abusers (especially clergy that use their position to abuse people) make that fundamentally impossible. I'm convinced there's a special place in hell for these people. They earn every ounce of suffering they'll endure without end. I'm so incredibly sorry for what you've been through. I hope it gets better.
@artangel235 ай бұрын
No way! May 23rd is my birthday too! Im working on getting free from my narc mother. Pray for me and thank you for what you do! Happy Birthday!
@pamelakenny2485 ай бұрын
Kevin….Happy Birthday and Happiness Always! Enjoy your day! 🎉🥳 🍺
@heathermixson12655 ай бұрын
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@ΒάσιαΚουμουνδούρου12 күн бұрын
Ευτυχισμενα γενεθλεια Κεβιν!!!! Να εισαι γερος και δυνατος να χαιρεσαι τη ζωη σου και τα παιδια σου.Παντα επιτυχιες και να κανεις αυτο που σε ευχαριστει.
@StephODonnell-y7s5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin! Because of YOU, my brother went NO contact with everyone in our family, moved 7 states away & lost everything, but we rebuilt from scratch..Best Decision ever. YOU are such a blessing! 🎉😊
@PatriciaHodges-nd7tf5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday! And many more! 🎉
@helenenorman35985 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday, Kevin! 🥂 Blessings from Sweden 🇸🇪
@jenniferpoitier5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday, Kevin. I happen to be drinking a Guinness.. I love the fact that you did a gift registry. You give a gift with every message. #Humorous #EquallyYoked #NailedIt
@laurisullivan27324 ай бұрын
Yes!!! This is what I’ve been working on. Trying to take care of me. I know I am not strong enough to face him or speak with him. Thank you for all your help.
@jerrybridges29495 ай бұрын
❤ Happy Birthday! Thank you for uplifting the wounded spirits
@obiefuletochukwu20745 ай бұрын
Happy birthday !!!......... my teacher , we are getting better courtesy .... The Royal We. you really a blessing to this generation... Thanks
@shirleymadiva68865 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday my main man!! Have a blessed blast!! 🎂❤️😎🙏🏽
@marystraniero10375 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday! You have helped me so much with clarity & understanding. May God keep blessing you🎉❤
@mercedesmoreno36075 ай бұрын
Wow. The socializing thing was crazy. I’d get the dirty look. Then the earful in the car. The biblical aspect has kept me there to. My promise to God. 😬😬.
@sadiamufti88905 ай бұрын
😢😢
@cheryl70532 ай бұрын
Happy b/d Gemini !
@hortencia.g.sanchez24885 ай бұрын
Happy birthday
@valleyrose20244 ай бұрын
CHEERS all year!
@jennyhewitt34723 ай бұрын
Happy belated birthday Kevin! Thanks for all you do. And that beer looks good. Cheers! 🍻
@julienatoli85615 ай бұрын
Happiest Birthday EVER to you Kevin!! Praise God 🙌🕊️✝️ you speak life & truth into my circumstances more than you know!!! You're a true gem Kevin ... Thank you for all you do! God bless you abundantly!! 🙌🕊️✝️💞
@veronicakennedy52695 ай бұрын
🤗❤🎉🎊happy 🎂 birthday many blessing from our heavenly father💯🎈
@BR-cd2cl5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin! It’s great to share your birthday with you 🎉☕️🎂🧁🍧
@kelsiemitchell84995 ай бұрын
Happy belated birthday, “Our Guy”! 🎉🥳🌺
@tsitsi330_zw5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin. Wishing you many blessed returns.
@maggiesalle22565 ай бұрын
This describes church dynamics too. I go by phone and online now. BTW, Happy Birthday, Kevin!
@SusanWillans-b9q5 ай бұрын
Oh Kevin! So timely! Thank you for being you.
@ragegamer16425 ай бұрын
What goes around, comes back around! If you apologized for your ways then you're good. But to those who treated you poorly and haven't acknowledged there behaviors, well theyll be seeing the comeback soon!!
@Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday, Kevin!
@anAngelisHard2find5 ай бұрын
Blessings to you for your special day Kevin. You are the ultimate guy ! Love to you and your fam
@valleyrose20244 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday all year, Kevin! I'm so glad to find you! You are my hero!
@Chantelee3925 ай бұрын
Happy birthday. Glad you're with us.
@ziziscorsese94754 ай бұрын
Belated Happy Birthday Kevin 🎉
@hermelindagonzalez81245 ай бұрын
Happy birthday, Kevin! Thank you for opening our eyes to the truth!❤
@theresaglover46895 ай бұрын
Awe happy birthday!!!🎉 That's wonderful.
@samuelknox26135 ай бұрын
Happy Belated Birthday Kevin!
@SammyJKhan5 ай бұрын
Hi Kevin! A very happy birthday to you. May God bless you always😂
@scuLLcandylove5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin!🥳 And Thank you for The Royal We💕🙏
@valenciakeller18285 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin!! 🎉🎉
@shoshanabatshekhinah40065 ай бұрын
Happiest of birthdays Kevin and thanks for sharing your gifts with us. 🎊 🎉
@katiebabes572515 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin🎉❤
@tinakiedw5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin😊🍷❣️
@lookupyourredemptiondrawsn72853 ай бұрын
Never heard it explained like this before
@merchegonzalezvidal35815 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday!!! All the best!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
@MrMfaust55 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday and thank you Kevin 🎉
@rethasmit5005 ай бұрын
God bless and happy birthday!!!
@mercedesmoreno36075 ай бұрын
Aye. Happy birthday!
@sonjabrady10325 ай бұрын
Smart u are and help my life and heart and soul
@Arvenmillenium5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday, may God bless you!
@julianterris5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday, Kven, thank you for all of the great content, man 🎂
@laurajane48065 ай бұрын
Superfly - I always benefit from your perspective. Thank you!
@rajwinderkaur77865 ай бұрын
Mr. Kevin happy birthday
@ramonac63865 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday!!🎉
@CaliDreaming985 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin! Be blessed..❤🎂
@lydiabergmann45215 ай бұрын
Sorry, I missed this special birthday video. Congratulations belately with Psalm 16, 11 👑🌹 Cheers 🍷
@staciehulm45955 ай бұрын
Happy birthday.
@denise07775 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday, my friend! Thanks for all of your great advice and wisdom.
@Virgo3335 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎂 🎉❤❤❤
@BrideOfYashua4 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday 💜
@divinelightlounge5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin! Best wishes!🎂✨🍺(mini stout cheers)
@anAngelisHard2find5 ай бұрын
very excellent concept discussed yet again in this presentation. Congratulations. You're brilliant.
@deborahwindahl45555 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin 🎂 🥳 🎉 ✨️ 🎶 🎵 thank you for your videos ❤ my birthday is tomorrow 🥂cheers!
@gunnmorstl18424 ай бұрын
Thanks, and happy belated Birthday! ❤
@rjp61645 ай бұрын
Much appreciated for helping me understand I need to grow, let go and learn from mistakes.. I'm feel better each passing week all thanks to you
@LesleyGarvs-vo7eq2 ай бұрын
A true relationship gives you Energy...it s Like Therapy...you are Happy and have the Energy to Take Care of your children..they gives you joy...they mess they Don at the table...you laugh at it...because you are Energy😅🤸🗡️
@debrahitz73445 ай бұрын
🎉Happy Birthday!!!🎉 ❤❤❤ love this channel
@shbspl5 ай бұрын
happy birthday 🎁🎂 'sometimes miracles are a person!'
@theripper17055 ай бұрын
Happy birthday :)
@mihaelasandu56515 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday, Kevin! Be always Happy! I apreciate very much your work and each of your video's are an inspiration for me! Have a wonderful Birthay! ❤
@Evilene1211625 ай бұрын
Happy birthday 🎂
@aliciaoliverez91965 ай бұрын
Happy birthday! 🎂🌹🙏
@beverlykingrey16985 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎈🎂🎁
@987sh5 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Kevin 👑👑👑 Been listening to you for ages now & you have been invaluable to me. You look well & happy. All the best for the coming year 💝
@milica_baruha5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday to you Kevin. I wish you all the best in your life. Blessings. 🎂🎂🎂🎂💯🥳🎉🌹🌹🌷🌺🌺💞❤️❤️
@rajwinderkaur77865 ай бұрын
This is my clear cut decision that I will not talk on the social media he is trying to involving the social media to speak wrong. He is taking the topic of love.
@alecstuart52665 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin Cheers to you too.
@PatriciaHodges-nd7tf5 ай бұрын
What about children? I feel so guilty, but I've done all i could. Im too old for this! But i still feel so guilty. When i see that they have called, the stress and fear just run through my body, and i can't shake it.
@Lyrielonwind5 ай бұрын
There's a technique, very easy to do it by yourself and it's allowing your body to shake. Make a search on KZbin (trauma release shaking...or something with those key words, you will find those videos). I'm doing it and it really helps to release the trauma stuck in your body. Ex soldiers do it too. I'm sorry I don't remember the name of the channel but I don't think it would be too hard to find them. It showed up on my KZbin suggestions after I made searching of TRE or trauma release exercises and somatic exercises. Good luck.
@PatriciaHodges-nd7tf5 ай бұрын
@@Lyrielonwind thank you so much! ⚘️ I'm going to look right now! ❤️
@clareleary53565 ай бұрын
Happy (belated) birthday🎂🎉Kevin! 💛 {I don't use Amazon or on-line... but I hope you enjoyed!} Many blessings & prayers 🙏~ & yes, thanks for all of your wisdom & kindnesses... Much appreciated! If I'm ever in your area, I'd love to meet & have a coffee ☕& say thanks in person. Someday, I hope. 😊