Narcs need to rotate the supply in their life. Don't get caught up in the rotation

Thank you so much, I really needed it for the situation I'm in. It's so good to find a channel where Jesus is loved, so I've subscribed and look forward to the Bible study on Saturdays. I agree, having the comfort of TMH is what gets us through the pain of dealing with people like this.

They lost their true self in a very young age. So yeah they don´t know who they are. They need other people (supplies) to fill that empty space up. True their lives they show many masks but they are never themselves. And: They can´t love or don´t love anyone - not even themselves. Thank you for telling your story...

It's not just narcissistic men, narcissistic women exist too. When it comes to this gender stuff, we need to stop saying one gender. It's always two sides of a story. It's also always atleast one of the partners and spouses being a problem, it's rare when it's both.

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There's no way you can keep a Narcissist in a space where they are being 'kind' to you by asking. Those snide comments will happen in any interaction and you'll be outta there. They're only kind to you when they want something. Apart from that everything you said is genius. ''The other side of the pendulum''...The ''excessive'' kindness is so true and really explained the fakeness of that for once.

You know what’s really sad?? -When living our boundaries keeps us from children, nieces and nephews😭

Oh my goodness, this is so true! One of my biggest complaints is that they don’t seem interested in really getting to know me on a deeper level, never asking me any questions. And on the turn will avoid answering certain questions themselves.

This is such a scary thing to go through. I’ve been through it several times with female friends. And then they gaslight you like you’re imagining things as they are slowly trying to become you and take over your life, your friends, your style, your goals, everything! And then they try to wipe you out of your own life. It’s just the craziest thing ever. I literally had someone who had been a friend for quite some time say to me right to my face “Your so pretty, I hate you.” It was so disturbing and unsettling 😳Everything in you just doesn’t quite know how to process these things right away.

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I kwow you are supportive Kevin , viv ‼️🌺 2:32

Thnx Yep he drinks every night- lies-4gets-verbally physically abusive! Blames his parents for his childhood! Yep sober or drunk he is still an S Ho!

❤💯 Thanks Kevin.

Thanks for sharing, Kevin. Thanks for your openness. Great vid, I appreciate it. It helps!!!!

So true. They are big children.

They are really very kind to others. My mother is a narcissist. I experienced the worst form of emotional abuse through her hands. It took many years and lots of tears to uncut the umbilical cord. I can honestly say I feel sorry for her. She is a mentally a very sick person. I can just pray for her. I want nothing to do with her. God knows my heart. Whatever good I did for her was purely out of love. I'm at a stage where I know I have to protect my children, grandchildren, and myself. I am praying for her deliverance, but I don't want her near me.

I have watched you for a long time, since you started your channel. I have done a lot of research since then, reading the DSM5, reading related topics and listening to experts as I'm sure you have. You have really come a long way and I was wondering where you got your information about Cluster Bs? Thanks for what you do.

I am 100% woman and I feel sex as a reward for me. I don't want sex when I am incapable of feeling like sex is a reward for me.

wow thats sad.

Hello my name is Anthony aragon I feel hater against me my mom and brother was kill and dad died feel hater against

Totally get it! Unfortunately, too many churches tolerates and condones narcissism It’s a sin and should be treated as such; like any other sin! No wonder the Lord said that not all who said Lord, Lord, or call themselves Christians will enter the kingdom of God

My neighbour has followed me in his car ,used disgusting verbal abuse ,saying he knows when i go in the bath ,,to bed ,when i get up ,and now he has broken into my outside shed stolen stuff ,then he ripped the tarmac off the top and now the shed is soaked inside and a write off ,police did nothing told me to get cameras up ,this trash rules the place and he knows it ..

My father who was not a Narcissist snuggle onto me and he said....I love you....and man your titties are so soft. I laughed and cried. He was definitely at peace.

My husband goes to an early morning walk before sunrise and doesn't take me along with him. Later he gave me the reason that he wants to see police academy girls running and it is better to see them before anyone else sees them. Mind becomes fresh.

Could you do a video about narc Gate Keepers, who hold all the control.

A fascinating approach

I couldn't agree with this more!!

Currently going through this as a 32 yr old mother who homeschools. Did work at the School until Dec 2023. We will go months at a time. No compliments.. no flowers... no birthday dinners... no anniversary gifts. 11 yrs married & 16 yrs together. I try to live for God & do right for my child. While I'm running to God, he's running to the devil. My mother & grandmothers have passed & my father was an alcoholic turned pain clinic patient. Who i met at 6 & left at 16 due to abuse. I am finally at my breaking point. Exhausted & sick feeling. From facebook videos of young girls to porn sites... Never understood why a man would rather look at a woman online when they have the real deal at home. It may take me 1 - 2 months to gather finances, leave, & have him served with papers.. but that's how it must be, or him & his mother will hang me out back to dry & take my child. & she is all i have on this earth. 💔🥺🙏

I'm not disgusted. I'm more irritated & frustrated...and probably more so at myself for allowing and enabling the behavior in order to prove the point that I'm loyal, I do care and I have their best interest at heart, and they already know all f this, which why they are even present I my life! And I sabotage my own sanity, peace & happiness to do this, and they still do not care. It's a complete waste of time & energy You can love someone but dislike their actions and attitude

This is one of the best videos on you tube!! Every word is the truth.. they don't change, people! Love isn't enough for people that want to watch the world burn. Divorce is finalized this week after I lived this.. ty sir for helping people understand what the real issue is! (THEM)

My now ex-husband has turned people against me lied told my personal business to make his self look like the victim.stole from.me amd my kid's. So true he had been planting lies all.this time

I keep mentioning the affection and the softness to treat me. And is funny how he change the narrative about me not wanting sex since there is not emotional connection to me withholding or when I been abused verbally or emotionally and definitely I don't feel like I want to be with him he thinks is just me withholding that for pride

Yes, yes, he has asked me why I do t want to ripped his pants off😂😂 now that makes sence

He is using the sex energy to manipulate me to have more sex. Yet my emotional needs are not care for. So he calls me ice cube yet he will take what he needs and because of the gaslight of if I do t get it here I will get it out there. I have done it to keep it chill yet. It feels like I have been taken over and over

Anyway, why don't you just tell us what the hell he said instead of 12+ minutes of jibba-jabba?

THIS IS INTERESTING AND MAYBE IMPORTANT TO CONSIDER…HELP IS THE ANSWER AND IT SEEMS AT TIMES THAT NOBDY UNDERSTANDS

I was with a Covert Narcissist for 23 years up until his passing in 2021. The first 5 years the sex was pretty consistent until one day he just cut me off cold turkey. After his passing we went through his computer hard drive and his cell phone to get data needed to settle his estate. Their were thousands upon thousands of pornography that he cleverly buried under "fake", named files named "art" and "photography". Some of the porn was pretty gross. I went from being sad he died to glad he died. I was actually rescued from his years of abuse and neglect.

Agreed. To me it's a form of insanity sourced in JEALOUSY, and a form of demon possession.

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Why does law enforcement and mental health side with benzo addicted Nartriad in CT. The contest rigging, the kleptotition, infestation, paranormal & the obsession by narcissists, awful.

When he used me completely up, totally exhausted, after 18 years, I quit. And he knew that. So he committed suicide. I was so wiped out that it took me months to realize that he'd made preparations for ME to commit suicide along with him. Absolutely bizarre. Totally out of connection at all.

Nice share, ❤

Narcissists only think of themselves and lie to cover their own backs in their pursuits to control others. Once they are found out they move on to the next victim and job. I wouldn't believe one word in what they say, even on their death bed. That photo of your mother looking directly at the camara with your fathers back showing sent shivers down my spine. I wonder if he was whispering something in your mums' ears which then made her realise who she just married.

Narcissists take their personal qualities to the grave.

My Narsistist mother only had me & my son when she was left on her own. She had 4daughters . But really only had one. me. Karma is a bitch.

My ex husband was a fan of Ben Shapiro and shamed me for my natural lubrication I thought after 17 years I just no longer wanted it 2 years later and I'm insatiable with an amazing partner who is worthy of me

"I never knew who I was." Yeah? Well those wedding vows darn well told you what you should _do._ And in saying them you promised to abide by them. So for starters put 'promise-breaker' in your profile.

Dont fly too close to a black hole 🕳️

Totally agree, living it right now, to him I’m invisible

...and after they're done syphoning and absorbing your personality... They want to get rid of you. Like The Thing.