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@MotiurrahmaAnsari4 ай бұрын
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
@KennethBender-zi9tf2 ай бұрын
Discovering my partner's infidelity triggered a mix of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, and a profound sense of betrayal. *Johnsonspy* stepped in to assist me remotely, providing spyware access to their social accounts
@priyaginiupadhayay262 ай бұрын
Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Johnsonspy
@hansrajmeena8374 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
@alphasports37432 жыл бұрын
You brought out some great points but married men and women only cheat when their routine changes. Married people don't have the time to cheat because they are trying to make what they have work so they have a routine. I'm not talking about boring things, I'm talking about the time couples spend with or away from each other. I don't mean to be lengthy but here is an example. A guy I know was paid to break up a married couple by the sister who didn't like the bride. He was paid $150 everytime he took this woman out on a date. Bit the husband and wife worked but their hours were different. She part-time real-estate usually get home before he did but it change when she met this guy. First she met him at the gym and they talked mind you pictures were taken of the two interacting. The routine never changed until he invited himself to one of her open houses. She was late getting home but she lied about why. Then they went out to lunch and she was late again, he decided to invite her to play basketball the next time they were at the gym. So she wore her sport bra and shorts and like all through their meeting pictures were taken of then hugging, him kissing her on her cheeks. The pictures were given to her husband again she was late and he asked her why. Yes she lied again. He showed her the pictures and her first words were "Let Me Explain". Her defense, were you spying on me? It was innocent but she lied because she knew what she was doing her husband might not approve. They never had sex but she was so comfortable with him she flirted back. They got a divorce after that even when he found out his sister set his wife up. He didn't marry the woman his sister wanted him to marry. Here's my point, people in relationships especially married people won't meet IG models unless they are setup too. They just don't have the time and when the routine is broken and excuses start, its a good chance they are with someone else.
@thedropzoneunlimited57102 жыл бұрын
Women with Father issues are prone to this as well.
@accidentalchannel22 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica but I am 21 and happy SINGLE - No Ex and no Next , It is always better to not Gamble when you don't know what the result will be
As an older man, if I could go back in time to my 20's, I'd immediately move out of the US and marry a women who wasn't American. Women from many other countries still value men.
@sansung423 жыл бұрын
Try a kenyan woman and you will cry and get depression those women are daughters of jezebel my friend risk and cry later
@TheTreasureSeeker013 жыл бұрын
Filipina women are the best!
@MuhammadDaan3 жыл бұрын
Take a Muslim woman. And you have loyalty
@MuhammadDaan3 жыл бұрын
If you want to go with other culture. Be able to handle the culture. I Know. Have kids with 4 African women
@bujubee97573 жыл бұрын
👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿
@abbotazimio38703 жыл бұрын
“You are Nana Yaa Asante Waa of Love indeed”!
@masingitarikhotso59102 жыл бұрын
2021, Feb 26. I ended my relationship because my girlfriend was talking to many other guys, and i mean many. We had discussed it many times before and she told me im overreacting, im insecure, im controlling, but to scare me off from raising the issue again she told me that im abusive and she knew for sure ill take her very seriously if she said that, thats the day i knew for sure that my feelings dont matter to her, and that she can do or say anything to make her flirting tendencies seem right. It was hard for me to call it quits because i had fallen in love with her, but yes i had to do it and ever since i have seen myself happier than i was when i was still with her.
@donaldyoung4052 ай бұрын
Sadly enough I am in that phase right now. My new girlfriend still communicates with her ex I believe ex husband and tells me she doesn't. But I just saw today that the dm back and forth. I had already asked her to please kill it, and there are still guys in her dm and her reaction to them as well. Really feel like that's not alot to ask someone to stop doing in a relationship.
@shaundellechase2173 жыл бұрын
Type 4 made me smile, it just makes it easier for one to detach if and when necessary.
@imjustsayin342 жыл бұрын
Honestly lol number 4 I already knew she was a pick meshia with that one. I’m single until engagement period
@youngprinceuchesondc17403 жыл бұрын
Love nowadays is scam. My woman has all of this category listed here and we are still trying to settle back once again but now i think am lucky to watch this video. May God bless you Jessica
@timossevume79096 ай бұрын
Thank you so much dear. The girl I'm reaching out and consider to become my wife has all the five but mostly flirting with other guys and doesn't want any of my people to know her. So money minded after showing me signs of relationship interest . Ignoring her for days now has brought her sorrow especially when she's other ladies coming around to buy goods from my business. I'm very grateful Jessica. ❤️🤝
@patriciadavis35493 жыл бұрын
I Absolutely Hate when people Flirt when they are in relationships!! To me, it is disrespectful. Secondly, I think Flirting is a way of trying to sniff out someone they may be interested in. I do not consider Flirting as "just innocent"
@Jeff-kq9vg2 жыл бұрын
Amen, emotional cheating = cheating
@andersnielsen60442 жыл бұрын
You are spot on. Actually the "lust" for flirting with others than your partner is the very first step of cheating. :)
@LeMerch2 жыл бұрын
Myself and my wife flirt. We have a very strong bond and trust each other more than anything. It’s just fun sometimes.
@paulfool87282 жыл бұрын
Flirting , if the girl is married , is not an innocent gesture but an intentional show of interest which will lead to something destructive to her marriage ! Cheating will result to the ff : scandal , breakup and the worst killing !
@andersnielsen60442 жыл бұрын
@@paulfool8728 Only problem is.. That it is the women with a ring on who are the easiest by far, to get laid with.
@chrissikora80973 жыл бұрын
I spent 3 years being single and was celibate for 14 months through covid. NO social media from 2015-present and im a non drinker so the bar scene wasn't my thing. In the midst of being lonely and depressed I told myself that this was my chance to become better for myself, and not for anybody else. Finally I found a girl who does not exhibit any of these behaviors and I've never been so happy my entire life! 🥰
@Sei19892 жыл бұрын
Finally a comment that takes accountability! Hope you and your love continue to grow.
@nicholasbaggsworth21572 жыл бұрын
Happy for you bro! 👍🏾✊🏾
@alexg.80652 жыл бұрын
so glad to hear it man!
@25-82 жыл бұрын
Congratulations how did you find her
@chrissikora80972 жыл бұрын
@@25-8 She happened to be one of my best friend's cousins, which made me nervous at first because I didn't want to loose a good friend if anything didn't work out, but I suppose it was destiny! And I'm still very happy with her.
@sarahboakye76913 жыл бұрын
Why would you still be looking for what you have at hand... eiiiii. Basically women are insatiable 🤦. Pls take note people, it's related to both women and men🔥. Thanks Jessica 👏❤️
@stgreaterlight3 жыл бұрын
Sis. More to the women.
@sarahboakye76913 жыл бұрын
@@stgreaterlight ..... and the men😉
@minetv13233 жыл бұрын
@@sarahboakye7691 😂😂
@sarahboakye76913 жыл бұрын
@@minetv1323 🤩
@evalino.m3 жыл бұрын
True both men and women
@Babaparis1013 жыл бұрын
She’s right you see those that seek attention are so annoying they feel like drop everything for me and they are also so selfish it always about them
@jackjyoung3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I dated all these girls and got rid of them all. You are one smart girl.
@bobbysmith20503 жыл бұрын
Oh my, you learn something everyday. I learn to stand back, just watch her and don't be so forth coming of your asset's that you have. There are good and bad women out there, but don't be so into her that you neglect your self and the type of women you are looking for.
@curtisstone27523 жыл бұрын
I can deal with my woman occasionally flirting with Tom and Harry, it's Dick that concerns me!!! LOL
@opehardesina3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@clintoncallmedeeciee14183 жыл бұрын
Idiat 😂
@josephfigueira8133 жыл бұрын
HAHA HAHA HAHA
@jarednovel3 жыл бұрын
It begins with flirting ...
@nellymolatlhiwa49333 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@zerodaygames8709 Жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
@sandersontube72363 жыл бұрын
Guess i really find one woman thats stand out for the guys. You are that eye opener thumbs up .
@nazariine3 жыл бұрын
Yoh... I’ve been cracking over the part U said, “... U are in deep trouble and no amount of praying can get U out.” 😆😆😆😆😆
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shingiraitrevormboto21053 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS u r wonderful sis. God bless u abundantly
@jamesd71543 жыл бұрын
Well said, I have to say this is very accurate. Use your instincts and read between the lines. Another name for woman #1 would be....The Gold Digger!
@apostleabieribaausmann43853 жыл бұрын
You just spoke the truth, especially point 1 and 3. U just spoke about my immediate past chic.
@Obadiah11213 жыл бұрын
I wish that I had found that type of woman on the first go. A virtuous woman is good to find.
@Mr9thCHYLD2 жыл бұрын
That overly friendly flirting been there especially at work,with coworkers my last relationship ended this way when she finally got caught up so yeah all facts in my opinion!
@abuarkam91393 жыл бұрын
My Ex is qualifying in all 5 categories, thank God the one i have now is nowhere among the 5, big up sis Jessica
@SamuelMalo3 жыл бұрын
You are still knowing each other, tell us next year kkkkk
@abuarkam91393 жыл бұрын
@@SamuelMalo Hahaha nooo we are already in two years and she knows very well why i separated with my ex b'se she knows her
@SamuelMalo3 жыл бұрын
They say we learn from our own mistakes kkkk The other one actually taught you how to be in a relationship you should thank her for that kkkkk just kidding
@Glen_Sekgobela3 жыл бұрын
This comment cracks me up 😂😂😂
@jblendsworld3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@michaell37113 жыл бұрын
This presenter is spot on. Well outlined Nubian Princess.
@Xayuap3 жыл бұрын
she is the Queen
@agyapongdaniel3 жыл бұрын
She is one of the best and famous presenters in Ghana
@Xayuap3 жыл бұрын
@@agyapongdaniel nice to know
@SM-th6cm3 жыл бұрын
@@agyapongdaniel oh thanks..it's first time listening to her and I wanted to know where she comes from.
@KraneD3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Add to that list the woman with low self esteem, who later develops the absent wife syndrome. That's the woman who is married to a man who although tries to give her attention will be cheated on still because she is constantly daydreaming about her exs, office colleagues or any random guy who smiles at her. The issue is not that she lacks attention, the issue is no amount of attention can fill the void of low self esteem that is beneath her need for attention.
@akujobikelechi88163 жыл бұрын
You're saying something.
@CookWithStephh3 жыл бұрын
Yup I knew a woman like that. No amount of attention her husband gave was enough. She cheated on him with multiple men and he still stayed. They been married 10 years. Some guys have no self worth neither
@techsprint41222 жыл бұрын
I knew someone like this. ALWAYS wanted serious attention and tried to keep me over all the time, but what was significant to me was that she was very low self esteemed and very passive aggressive. Just blamed all other men (most specifically exes and her father) for all of her issues. And even just blamed others for all inconveniences. The need for attention is ridiculously strong and if I’m not in their sight, they go ghost to try to play us. Luckily, it’s best to just fight fire with fire until it’s all over. Also had a spending habit, used to party, airdrop pics at parties and just HU with many different men, but tries, till this day, to keep it secret and not talk about it, when you know the real colors of them.
@techsprint41222 жыл бұрын
@@CookWithStephh She was probably good at hiding it. I ask myself why would they ever tell the truth.
@CookWithStephh2 жыл бұрын
@@techsprint4122 this the kick here. She came up with a story that she suffers from PTSD and her and her husband started going to therapy and now she is labeled as hypersexual. So now when she cheats her husband knows it's because of her "condition". Smh at that point u just got to blame the man for being stupid
@JohnSmith-ei2pm3 жыл бұрын
What a very sensible lady. I think there is a lot of good advice here, and I do not think any apology is needed for such sensible and well balanced views
@Helloo_oo2 жыл бұрын
Jessica, Jessica, has anyone told you that your voice is powerful!! No forced accent, just pure eloquency and command!!!
@crichardson63863 жыл бұрын
If you don't want to get cheated on stay away from relationships, when you agreed to get involved getting cheated on is a big possibility ppl mind change like the weather, temptation is everywhere..
@calvinmack1513 жыл бұрын
Good point 💯
@tyhouse30303 жыл бұрын
1 of the hardest characteristic to master is self-control. A person who is in tune with themselves emotionally, mentally & physically will know self-control and understand right from wrong when in a committed relationship. 🍷😊
@jeffreynanatakyicollins1013 жыл бұрын
Ain’t that the truth
@rosemputla17163 жыл бұрын
True
@markyd.30823 жыл бұрын
Nah, you just gotta find a Chic that aint a Smut🤨.
@chizobaani40373 жыл бұрын
And again the woman who still maintain a great deal of closeness with her EXs even after you guys have started dating. Just a matter of time the Okafor's law will come into play.
@ibexy3 жыл бұрын
They also like to spring the "we are just friends" nonsense as an excuse to have male friends. Hellooo: There is no "friendship" between a man and woman that will not ultimately lead to sex - unless the man is gay or a blood relation.
@kobbychrisnews64643 жыл бұрын
Yes bro I had the same experience
@johnhurdle4423 жыл бұрын
This is not true if you are better at what she was not getting from him. Which is attention. Validation. Same with a man that will stop cheating or being a ladies man. Wecwantvto be the Apple of each others eyes.
@isaacdennis83273 жыл бұрын
@Chizoba Ani 😆😆😆😆😆
@vickage.x3 жыл бұрын
Oya come and explain Okafors law
@gbengezy13 жыл бұрын
She's just absolutely right...I hv dated all sorts of women of such character she explained...
@dannyel13 жыл бұрын
Police
@dannyel13 жыл бұрын
Not money what it is. 🚨
@dannyel13 жыл бұрын
AI
@dannyel13 жыл бұрын
House? 💯 In 2 yeah she paid. 100 pounds for kicking BNI in Europe its question. She will die 🎲. She never thought?
@dannyel13 жыл бұрын
I will buy
@orleypowell50182 жыл бұрын
We Jamaican men need to sit at the feet of this beautiful and Intelligent lady from Mama Africa. Really leant a lot. Thanks Jessica.
@jonmatherly41553 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video and many other video's you've done. I was raised in a Christian home and grew up with Christianity. All the girls I would date were from church. Everyone of those girls cheated on me. I decided to change my life and leave those girls alone. Since then, haven't been cheated on. Not saying every Christian is a cheater. Nor trying to start anything, but I feel like this should of been included with your list.
@aeiou01233 жыл бұрын
Lolol. I never dated dudes in church. It is not about being churchy. I find ppl who have a high sense of ethics/moral values better than churchy ppl. My parents are not religious but they are the most loyal couple I know. That is why when I dont even consider churchy ppl at all
@jonmatherly41553 жыл бұрын
@@aeiou0123 yes. I learned my lesson. Since I left that life and lifestyle. Things have been so much better for me. Not only that, they are more truthful than those so called Christian. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone in my opinion on cheating Christian.
@effiya_ephya3 жыл бұрын
And the table really got shook........ 👌🏾
@jusiilicious3 жыл бұрын
I am that attention seeker woman. And that has caused me to emotionally cheat several times. Not proud of entertaining other men but like Jessica said, we need that reassurance. FELLAS just Becuz you got her doesn’t mean the work stops. We still want to feel wanted and appreciated just like the first time you laid eyes on us. ANYYWAYY God Bless y’all AMEN
@Hamy11092 жыл бұрын
Once I get a woman undressed....no attention you will ever get afterwards. That's how it works for most men.
@Strangingness2 жыл бұрын
I think “doesn’t mean the work stops” is the wrong choice of words. A relationship isn’t a job and if you have to try to hard you’re probably not right for each other. I get your overall point though.
@samuraijosh15952 жыл бұрын
And what attention do you give for your guy?
@kennethletterlou34512 жыл бұрын
Excuses 😑 if I gotta work that hard then you not the 1 for me respectfully
@destinyAlvarez1 Жыл бұрын
I 50/50 agree because a man can do everything and still get cheated on it can be that one thing he doesn’t do like maybe not spend time with you because he has to work to pay the bills and we get upset and go emotionally cheat out of boredom or something 😢
@jenthomas3453 жыл бұрын
Good men need more Jessica's in their lives.
@eugenedantzler44853 жыл бұрын
YES
@kingncaba49843 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@gitano13ninja3 жыл бұрын
This is a start to unite
@iamkwabenalighte9813 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ballers91723 жыл бұрын
Facts
@ernestoneill87372 жыл бұрын
When your in a serious relationship you wake up every morning and say too yourself what can I do for this person too make her day better and she does the same thing what can she do too make your day better .Not what can I do to make My day better
@SuccessIsEngineered3 жыл бұрын
Sister ... I'm sending love to you .... I'm experiencing #2 & #3 right now ... you're confirming my thoughts ...
@LouisianaBuddStrain2 жыл бұрын
I am 38yo divorcee. And I've never cheated on a single person in my entire life. But I've been cheated on in every relationship including my marriage. Looking back at it. Whenever I was a teen and young adult... I wasted a lot of time being committed to people who were loose with their loving. "For lack of a better term" And as I reflect... I had no business being serious and committed in any relationship. Should have been friends and played the field like everyone else. But instead I was mature and wanted a future with the women who I dated. Unfortunately they wanted to explore their options. And I was left holding the bag. Even in my marriage. I'm starting to lose hope with being with a woman as loyal as myself. Because look how well that worked out for me in my marriage. I was ready to settle down. But my ex wife just wanted a status. I've been cheated while I was dating my ex-wife... while I was engaged to my ex-wife... and during our entire marriage. Meanwhile I've never looked at another woman once. But hey... That's life. I'm doing better without a cheater dragging me down. I can focus on me and my career. One good thing that came out of our failed marriage is. We don't have any kids in common. So I don't have to deal with her whatsoever. So I consider myself blessed for not being tied down to someone who's into entertaining multiple males while being married to me. Dodge that bullet... And counting my blessings
@WDWitcher Жыл бұрын
Traveled that same road my friend.
@leanprogrammer3 жыл бұрын
Really good info as usual. Never ever ask her for her phone or messages she receives.. It makes you look insecure as hell.. Have a few plates around so if she cheats, you'll thank her she has saved you time.
@blessedbygod82993 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅 you’re right
@isaacnjoroge81943 жыл бұрын
Nice one...we love you Jessica..from Kenya East Africa
@elleakenya3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@veemunywoki35163 жыл бұрын
repping the 254 too
@evansmboya12103 жыл бұрын
I would call her the female version of Amerix
@joecharu65443 жыл бұрын
@@evansmboya1210 on some things.sometimes her biology kicks in.kumbe Hii mbogii ya Kenya tuko Kila mahali .
@douglasodhiambo98763 жыл бұрын
254 yoooh
@benardmakori69243 жыл бұрын
You are awesome, I'm learning English from you as well as life lessons .
@danielorji44693 жыл бұрын
I watched this video and I agree you made some points worth reflecting on. I have particularly dealt with woman number 4. She didn't show me off and later broke up with me amongst other signs. I enjoyed the video. Weldone.
@GeeJaye7903 жыл бұрын
Some women will show you off on some of her social media, simply to get at or hurt some specific guy out there
@avonthompson46993 жыл бұрын
I can't put in to words, how much of a Blessing you are! They say we don't realize how Blessed we are until the Blessing is gone! I hope my brothers and sisters see what I see! People like you only come along every century! Many Blessings my sister! REAL!
@abaeben3 жыл бұрын
Five (5) + one (1) types women that will cheat on you. 1. Materialistic woman. 2. The active social dating app or site woman. 3. The an apologetic flirt woman. 4. The woman who hides you. 5. The woman who lack attention. ------ 6. The Woman who uses social media to solicit for gifts 🎁. (Soliciting for gifts for her birthday. The type who runs a countdown to her birthday)
@alexismorgan26803 жыл бұрын
7. A woman who is constantly being treated like crap by her man will cheat. I know because that was me...
@abaeben3 жыл бұрын
@@alexismorgan2680 where “crap” means? If I understand you, crap- no respect? Well, you are right. But the discussion is on the woman cheating without an external factor. The natural cheater.
@mrquick67752 жыл бұрын
@@alexismorgan2680 Nah, that just means deep down you wanted to do that anyway!
@alexismorgan26802 жыл бұрын
@@mrquick6775 Most Women not all will cheat for revenge. So in a way maybe it is because they wanted to get back at their cheating partners.
@alexismorgan26802 жыл бұрын
@@abaeben Crap is # 1 cheating on the women already, Mental or physical abuse ect. But yes that's more external 😊
@jacobkgomotsomnisi67333 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Jess, very informative content....Am all the way from South Africa.
@missreche3 жыл бұрын
Am watching from kenya great content everyday
@yes350yes Жыл бұрын
All you say make me so happy Im alone , dont want or need this drama in my life. I used to try the dates apps and spent a good bit of money, but gave all that up 10-15 yrs ago and am happier for it.
@tms-fx9zs3 жыл бұрын
Ms. Jessica hit it on the nose with not bringing or inviting the man to public outings and still doing social media while so-called committed to U. I like the fact she did not mention intimacy as a factor at all and just pointed out certain characteristics that she might be creeping on U!
@adobrawlstars2898 Жыл бұрын
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
@josemigel3 жыл бұрын
Jessica is genius.. We as Kenyan men appreciate your content 100%
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🥰😊
@samguna3 жыл бұрын
Hahhaha ....so true.
@soothingrelaxingtime89763 жыл бұрын
I support this post with a goat
@robertkinuthia73713 жыл бұрын
Its a Kenyan thing to never subscribe to a channel this quick, i did it.
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
@@robertkinuthia7371 Hahaha. Why not though?
@sundayoyanda73863 жыл бұрын
My love for your content has really grown, madam intelligent and authentic. Kenya is represented.
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
I love kenya 🇰🇪😍
@sundayoyanda73863 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS you're welcome anytime, remember to travel with your bike.
@dwightclarke2463 жыл бұрын
I am a jamaican and love kenyan people,big up
@sundayoyanda73863 жыл бұрын
@@dwightclarke246 welcome anytime brother. We love you Caribbeans too, you'll always be our brothers of descent.
@elikemlee56793 жыл бұрын
@@dwightclarke246 She's a Ghanaian, not a Kenyan
@MichaelDike-ci8du3 жыл бұрын
I must confess that I've learnt alot since i came across your channel. Keep up the good work Ms. JESSY Much love all the way from Nigeria!
@Neson.Services3 жыл бұрын
I agree sis with eveythi you said. However, these traits also apply to both genders. It sucks to meet men and women of Intergrity and of moral values. In all of these, love exists and people of good heart do exist too.
@moryndelu14283 жыл бұрын
Nah some traits like "Attention" its doesn't apply on MEN . we don't put attention as priority on our relationships . RESPECT is on top to most men .
@ismailowino28663 жыл бұрын
So on point!I wish I'd known this two years back!All the same thanks alot,just confirmed and learnt alot
@johnmorgan4813 жыл бұрын
Right on I found out 4 years to late but these point are right on!!!
@onarosunday39923 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this content i just leant my mistake no 1 to 3 was what i was into until my eyes 👀 was open
@TheBest-lm3nk3 жыл бұрын
Love your content, Looks like you have massive support from Kenya.
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
I love kenya!!
@samutykuntathebantu84023 жыл бұрын
@ARINDA JC not really we are just careful about ourselves
@josemigel3 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS please visit us soon
@TheBest-lm3nk3 жыл бұрын
@ARINDA JC don't start, it won't end well.
@patrickngunjiri53403 жыл бұрын
Kenyan men are the most faithful of all men in Africa according to a recent survey.....we tend suffer a lot because the other gender is always cheating
@reggiemccoy32652 жыл бұрын
Hey Alot Of Men Cheat Too and I Always Tell Folks If The Situation Isn't Working Out The Best Thing To Do Is Break Up Then Move Forward To The Next.
@ezellpage80813 жыл бұрын
Amen sister ! You've just opened the eye's of a lott've blind men's like myself who have been hurt and I wasted time hoping that this was the right woman for me ! Hoping she'd change her malicious ways ? But like you said ? When she's with him .he's only making her s--t look good while her other man gets a full course meal ! And he gets sloppy seconds ! Thanks again sis ! And god bless and be safe !
@BORNFREE8763 жыл бұрын
🇯🇲 Any female with at least two of those tendencies should have as her medical care-giver, a Pediatrician & is worthy of a baby-sitter. She's better suited for the world of PG13 & parental consent. Many of us men assign our name of endearment "Baby" for the dual reasons of our protectorate role and the childlike temperments of some women, even beyond child-bearing.
@evansmboya12103 жыл бұрын
Jessica is such a beautiful soul. My kinda of woman
@boldandnew3 жыл бұрын
You must be blind she very handsome
@yammzyshumba26923 жыл бұрын
@@boldandnew crazy stuff lol
@peterwoods82993 жыл бұрын
Wtf
@flintvalentine40203 жыл бұрын
Clown 🤡
@evansmboya12103 жыл бұрын
@@flintvalentine4020 🕳
@samzadah26242 жыл бұрын
I ended my engagement because my ex fiancé called another dude “baby” call it over reacting or impulsive but to me that’s not loyalty and basically that’s emotionally cheating which will lead to actual cheating
@karthik53012 жыл бұрын
And you’re right
@PredatoryEra2 жыл бұрын
Good for you 👍
@POPJack1717 Жыл бұрын
You did the right thing my man.
@mutembeipharis.30393 жыл бұрын
This lady is well versed with women's character. She's excellent everything she said my gal ain't in the list but she craves attention and even complains I ain't giving her attention. I promise to up my game
@ositimmy3 жыл бұрын
If I catch Jessica's husband cheating, I will personally lock him up. We need women like this.
@sundayojogbane22003 жыл бұрын
Lol
@samuelfemidavid89903 жыл бұрын
Lol 😁
@lolapearson67203 жыл бұрын
You’d be very surprised
@yuhshouldknothaiknow58423 жыл бұрын
It's very sadly that I kno a woman who always looking for attention in all the wrong places and I pray that one day she don't find it in the wrong place...I find that she has a way of going out there and not caring about who she has left at home,
@yuhshouldknothaiknow58423 жыл бұрын
she would look you in the face and say to you that you are the only man who always at my place and you deeply want to believe that is so true but as a man he can't be foolish all the time
@gregorycarlson66323 жыл бұрын
I love what you have to say about flirting!! It’s so dangerous! There is no such thing as “innocent flirting “ if you are married or in a committed relationship!! As Jessica said, “Why??” What’s the purpose or intension?? To what end?? Furthermore, what kind of message does it send to the person who you flirting with??To them it means “I might be available.” Then what happens when that person walks by and slips you a note with his/her phone number ?? Maybe you’re going through a tough time with your partner, and one day you pull that number out and dial it. I think we all know the rest of the story! If you’re totally single, flirt away! And oh, by the way, make sure the person that you flirt with is also totally single!!
@raphaelw26013 жыл бұрын
Who would dislike this video ? Like absolutely why ?
@nernatbentley37783 жыл бұрын
The women that’s GUILTY of the behaviors Jessica is talking about.
@rudellhuff34083 жыл бұрын
Because they're the people who she's talking about. Or some weak simp who this apply too 😆🤣
@abrahamsamah34073 жыл бұрын
Someone that's guilty of these things
@lordsonashigbey92053 жыл бұрын
Great, I think I have this also I have noticed some women may feel their friends may take you away from them and may intend hiding you from them.
@seandenson80563 жыл бұрын
When you go to the flirt part, the actor you had to do the flirt smile had me falling out laughing 🤣🤣🤣!! This was sooooooo good!!!
@JessicaOS3 жыл бұрын
lol
@thelightstheatre33153 жыл бұрын
This is to me is your best and most educative video of yours I've seen...the contents are quite apt and juicy. Thanks Jessica, it was quite helpful
@jensta22572 жыл бұрын
I learned to despise cheating at a very young age when my father would cheat on my mother and she would cry. It broke my heart as a child I made a vow I’d never be that way I despise loose women, not just the men.. I’m 33 and still a pure woman, I want to love my husband and be his forever ❤️ I hope he will also be good to me, although I am afraid he will break my heart instead… some good women still exist out there!
@eddiesaenz92912 жыл бұрын
Wow I wish I could meet someone like you…e
@michaelkoii96722 жыл бұрын
You the woman your husband should value more than anything else.
@jarednovel3 жыл бұрын
She is only your wife when you are with her but becomes available to anyone when you are not with her. She will actually tell you that you do not own her. Wonder why they say you are too possessive or insecure or too much?
@mikelantern1483 жыл бұрын
Lol those one's too. They change after marriage though they usually shows you signs of you're quick enough to pick.
@Superlumy3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, I can relate to this 😂
@kingvan1433 жыл бұрын
Huh??
@ELLIOT82093 жыл бұрын
They married to flaunt the ring to their friends, not to be your wife. They have a dream guy in their mind and it's not you. It's unfortunate that they couldn't get the dream guy and you just tried to saved them in vain. They'll forever feel like they settled for less with you
@ekomzyuche34023 жыл бұрын
I always advise don't beg a woman to marry you men think oooooo we are doing these people a favour am telling you.....don't kneel to propose stand and propose if she's not ok with it find another woman
@henryozornwafor4067 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessy.. You’re amazing
@femi28733 жыл бұрын
I like this lady, she is a very intelligent and matured lady. She has great content 👍👍👍
@praizprah13893 жыл бұрын
Now the table is unrepairable, thank you Jessica 🤣🙏🏾
@vickyb25472 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@samuelikonallaholokpo90633 жыл бұрын
Damn! Your voice! I'll like and sub by all means
@newmnsilver3 жыл бұрын
Lmao the way she put her head down when it came to girl #5: "The woman who lacks attention" *head drop* 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Rob-bi8rg2 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. I never met her family members.
@MotherDaughterGaming51573 жыл бұрын
1. Too materialistic 2. Engross in Social media… still on dating sites 3. Unapologetic 4. Hides you very secretive 5. Lack attention
@johniemaxwell87493 жыл бұрын
That a well made research from my sister. I recommend every man to hear this and decide for themselves 🤔🤔
@maxwellngunga91073 жыл бұрын
You are genius Jessica thanks for the info
@jewelrobinson24703 жыл бұрын
Men to thirsty
@MegaNoroc3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, you are a breath of FRESH air!! Soooo many people get caught up in thinking that men are the only cheaters in the world. I've known/seen many women being untrue to their "significant" others only to still have the blame for this infidelity be put on the man. Thanks for telling the REAL story about some females! I dig your coolness, classiness and truthfulness!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@gregorycarlson66323 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely right !! I said almost the same thing, but dealt with flirting when you’re taken ! Check it out!!😊
@dr.bowdoin30672 жыл бұрын
CLASSY!
@MobilediscowirralCoUk2 жыл бұрын
👍🏻 Some need female to female pulling on actions then again seen messages some men would never get to see awful sad times. Its like they wanna get away with all kinds and put on croc tears. Some damaged men out there. These online social apps just all fake, can lead bad choices.
@donfreeman89202 жыл бұрын
Yes 👍🏾
@lubegasimon51453 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it's extremely difficult to find the right person these days
@Foreverdensword Жыл бұрын
Pretty much
@ZiloBaloАй бұрын
You are right
@saadhayat753 жыл бұрын
This is an invaluable advice to any man who want to get and maintain a durable and healthy relationship with a woman. One of the secrets to long life and prosperity.
@innocentezeh72002 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica for keeping up 🙏🏿
@motionstancestudios21563 жыл бұрын
I just love this lady, world class ❤️ 💕
@lakshya_264 ай бұрын
I know it's so unlikely but.. If somebody were in a relationship with me, and they weren't feeling it, regardless of the length of time we've been together.. Just tell me. I can do nothing but respect the fact that you told me instead of lying and cheating behind my back. I'd be thankful. That's what real men/women do. Who has time and will power to do all this sneaking around? Come on. Why cheat on someone when you can just tell them you're not feeling it anymore? Is it really so difficult to be a decent person instead of giving someone false hope and holding someone else's husband/wife hostage. Things don't need to end messy if you do it the right way by hiring *Johnsonspy* to do that.
@greggopez37903 жыл бұрын
Learned a lot ms O, thank you.
@ra.dawkins14413 жыл бұрын
Spot on... problem is 99% of young women out there are all of these five ... sad but true...
@sylvesterese4663 жыл бұрын
Jess,thanks for the Forensics on Relationships...! Unapologetically, I say,of course, you've heard it from so many persons,but this is my version... Jess, you're SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND JUST COOL...!
@samratchakraborty13253 жыл бұрын
Every thing u said about in this video were bang on. One of the most well reaserched & facts about women cheating. So glad I found your channel. Keep posting such things.
@andolinesibanda66643 жыл бұрын
You nailed it. Great content.
@thetruthshallsetusfree32563 жыл бұрын
7:26 No amount of prayers? That got me!😂😂😂
@eugenedantzler44853 жыл бұрын
Best part of the video
@neilledejongh12902 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂 BARS
@christopherreid68762 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power. You are totally right with all you said!
@simbagwaringa32383 жыл бұрын
generally men are not good at reading the signs, hence we are here! thank you
@Joyagb54633 жыл бұрын
If you're anyone's secret you're not their mate. That's not a relationship on either side, man or woman.
@Dmaze_Dmaze3 жыл бұрын
That's a fact!
@FonkLove53 жыл бұрын
Facts. I was my kids mom secret for 11yrs she hid me from everybody and now I am glad because I learned from it and what not to do when I want to get serious with a lady
@mosesaaron50853 жыл бұрын
Nice content I must confess, much love from Anambra in Nigeria
@temitopeoyeyemi8993 жыл бұрын
Oba people, how obi cubana and groups, I hear say u dey stone bundles of currency there
@billymuyobe3 жыл бұрын
This is powerful.Your angles in these issues are very legit..Im loving you too much..Thanks
@DmnChuiTv2 жыл бұрын
Jessica ni mkenya wa kutoka Meru
@martinmacfoy91732 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 @ type #1 - very low loyalty. Jessica, I just started listening to you a few days ago and I am all ears. keep pouring our phenomenal wisdom. Blessings always.