These Are The CONS Of Being An Attractive Man

[@jonnygraham2372]

Honorable mention on #3 : Other men will view you as competition IMMEDIATELY and guard their love interests and their groups from you. They will insert their negativity bias onto you and work against you, usually passive aggressively as if they’re being sincere. If you date their female friend they will be in their ear trying to misunderstand you.

[@CodyluvsPaint]

Would it get to the point of severity wherein they could even start downplaying your looks or call you ugly infront of others?

[@jonnygraham2372]

@@CodyluvsPaint always. Men that are threatened by you physically will adopt female/ feminine behavior by being extra affectionate with their S.O and by calling you “mid” or will discredit you anyway they can.

[@piedpiper1201]

this is actually the worst part by far, i find it incredibly difficult to relax and enjoy myself in environments where guys and girls are meeting like bars because other guys literally want you dead. I notice its the men who are similar looks level to me but maybe only shorter who get the most triggered as we are in the same pool for women. Also if you are around couples of similar age you can sense the hostilitiy from the man as he sees you as a threat, this can be anywhere even at the beach or walking in the city. They normally try really hard to make sure their girl doesnt even look at you

[@DesiNic02]

Good

[@DesiNic02]

@@piedpiper1201why would you want their girl to look?😊

[@RAGEBAIT19]

1. Women ASSUME youre a Player! 2. Men are always DEFENSIVE/ Aggressive/ Intimidated when youre simply breathing!

[@WolfGangRagna]

I'm not a defensive or aggressive person I'm just shy and my shyness is what keeps me alone I'm very nice

[@Blast_XRP]

Me too

[@themuthafuckinlovedoctor5640]

Women also assume that your arrogant or gay because of your confidence within yourself which makes them feel insecure.

[@BigAllan95]

​@@WolfGangRagna This is me in university

[@ahmedtanvir9299]

Being handsome is best gift of nature.

[@DesiNic02]

Facts

[@ancientindia5464]

💯

[@MrLigersPride]

All of this is true also here's some more, 1. you can't be too nice to women you aren't interested in cause they'll perceive it as flirting. 2. If You have a female boss, 9/10 she's interested in you and will make flirty comments. The day you get a new job and put in your notice they will get extremely hurt by this. 3. Some of your male friends will be jealous of you, so either learn to manage that or don't have too many friends. 4. A lot of the times women that are interested will act cold toward you or pretend they don't like you because they think they can't have you so it's their way of turning you down. But if you know any of their friends and ask why they act that way they will tell. Many more but I'd fill the page. cheers gents!

[@ChristopherChu-xg7ld]

Bruh do u literally have to look like a model to experience this

[@MrLigersPride]

@@ChristopherChu-xg7ld Good question, being handsome and personality play a big factor. If you're confident and nice to people, generally you'll have a lot of people that gravitate towards you. And yeah I've had a few female bosses flirt with me in some way or another. You may think it's cool but it can get awkward if you aren't attracted to them and they have the positional power over you.

[@ChristopherChu-xg7ld]

@@MrLigersPride yeah i know a dude who literally modelled for calvin klein and looked like a supermodel with 6'3 height and jacked, but he only said unattractive women approached her and for attractive women they often treated him rudely. would this be your experience?

[@MrLigersPride]

@@ChristopherChu-xg7ld Yeah, mostly unattractive women have the confidence to approach and I respect them for it. I've also had some attractive women approach me before but it's very rare. Also back when I use to go to clubs, I've had attractive women approach but sometimes it would be to hook me up with their awkward friends...lol

[@ChristopherChu-xg7ld]

@@MrLigersPride yeah i haven't had female bosses flirt with me, but i think i'm ok just being average to slightly above average looking. i'd rather not deal with that. I do wonder if i can become attractive hitting the gym tho. Though I am autistic, so that can impede some interactions, make my behavior weird, and my interpretations of social signals isn't the best. I felt better when I realized that really attractive women rarely flirt with people in clubs or hit on those people, it's a man thing not a looks thing imo. I think women might not be as visually simulated as men tbf

[@joebloggs339]

A bad combination is to be good-looking but have a history of being neglected and unwanted as a boy. You will get attention from women but feel too shy and empty to act.

[@zenostrixster]

Holy shit this is me. I got so bullied to the point where I become a stone pillar of shyness. God dangit

[@Tim666-o5n]

@@zenostrixster Try to learn to be outgoing. It can be done. I did it myself although it took years. I wish you the best.

[@MiltonShipmanII]

Bruhhhhhh

[@Ben-pg1yz]

​@@zenostrixster learn to be a narcistic (love yourself more than anything) . Sometimes narcistic is not a bad thing especially for shy and unconfident people.

[@CarnalEssence]

Me!!!

[@EriPages]

I'm still shocked with how passive aggressive dudes are around me. But I've now noticed it's primarily the dudes who were raised by single mothers, or dudes raised by beta fathers. Dudes raised by Masculine Fathers have always been solid around me, regardless of their own looks level.

[@thispersonrighthere9024]

if you're a black american man and handsome, many other black people will try to suggest that you're gay. lol

[@holdfast7182]

Dude, I'm a white guy and handsome, and everybody said I was gay. My own mom asked me if I'm gay.

[@cardinairforeva3480]

It’s biblical

[@thispersonrighthere9024]

@@cardinairforeva3480 wtf? i'm irreligious, but what does the bible have to do with any of this?

[@Fusion237]

@@holdfast7182agreed my parents do it to and sometimes my friends

[@thenostalgicbytes]

im a brown guy and my mom thinks im gay lol cuz i have too many female freinds@@holdfast7182

[@sasha1551]

My coworkers all tell me I’m good looking. But no woman ever flirts with me. I sometimes catch women lookin at me but that’s about it.

[@Hoki4]

You most likely don't look too approachable. Women will approach you if you look like a guy that's not an a-hole. But if your face is always stone cold with no smile, serious look on it, then they wont approach and flirt with you.

[@kamartaj3010]

Same girls tells me i m handsome but no one dates me neither take efforts.

[@AnadonAyleid]

Pull up images using the search term "trustworthy vs untrustworthy face" -- I think checking how you stack up is a pretty good way to measure your approachability

[@arpitkumartomar]

Girls have higher stakes on the line than guys while approaching opposite sex. This is because women are taught to attach their value to their beauty and they usually don't risk being rejected by someone. They would stare, probably drop a smile or some other subtle hint. Now, someone would say go look at how girls mobbed Chico. Well, those women themselves are mostly mid and no conventionally attractive woman would risk her value irl directly like that.

[@Rulayrollie]

You’re intimidating, basically no status she’s thinking “handsome asf but looks like a killer” if she sees you socializing with other people it’s inviting to women , especially if they see you speaking with other women. Gain status, smile . Approach

[@wanr5701]

I was considered good looking by most women around me, and they often use that as an excuse to reject me by saying "men like you always in demand" therefore thinking I can easily attract another women to fill my heart. What a stupid thinking that is.

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Group of friends being a jerk or bringing up silly things about me really hit hard. they have stopped doing that but I could totally relate to it before.

[@wesleynicholls]

100 Percent true. I remember my boss making a pass at me, I turned him down and after that my life at the office was made into a living nightmare. I had to leave the job because the abuse just became unbearable.

[@mrmillennium2697]

Your boss was gay?

[@JihadBunnydick]

​@@mrmillennium2697lmao!

[@adrian3747_]

lmfao i remember working my first nursing job in a facility and this gay of mine made it personal and gave me a hard time after finding out there’s women admiring me at work. I’m not even all that but my bodyfat was wayyy lower back then lol

[@Doomedworld66]

good choice to leave because I'm having the same issue as you and leaving the company like a boss

[@HannibalRex00]

What’s their name?

[@Steve-n9g7i]

Being treated like an alien by some and adored by others. In a way its like being rich. You constantly deal with envy and insecurity from others.

[@zenostrixster]

Honestly Id say just say fuck you to those people. You really don't need to waste your time with them

[@DesiNic02]

Or being black

[@themuthafuckinlovedoctor5640]

Story of my life I promise you.

[@tyronegreen1961]

Jealousy is too much in society wether you're attractive or not💯

[@DesiNic02]

@@tyronegreen1961 Probably because people who are jealous don’t have something that the person they are jealous of has and that thing the other person has 9/10 is what makes them attractive

[@SmartDumbNerdyCool]

Older women flirt with me so much I'm considering settling for a 70 yo.

[@AwkwardlyChill19]

That's what I've been thinking too, gotta go for a Cougar who doesn't play Games , though 70 is wild 😂 😭, I prefer between 40/50 LMAO

[@C.R886]

Lmao it's true! They touch alot too

[@Lonelyahk30]

My soul dies everytime I hear this lie, Older women are even WORSE .

[@ColdIce99]

Being an attractive man has pretty much guaranteed that I will never have a relationship again. All the matches, likes, FB DMs etc have made it to where focusing/caring about what happens with a single female impossible. Your mind just gets overwhelmed and it devalues relationships. I literally can’t even keep up with the numbers, DMs, etc. This is not bragging. I live a very empty life that revolves around work. I think I’ll be alone forever tbh. It’s pretty sad.

[@AnadonAyleid]

Quit social media and go to a modest church. See, this is what people don't understand nowadays: There is a _whole life_ outside of that modern paradigm which still exists, but it's just off your current radar. There's a society outside of the sickness where people still meet naturally and have kind, honest, and humble hearts. Even to the point where there's no competition, and people are actually sober-minded and level-headed. There's a lot of truth to the verse: "Seek first the Kingdom of God and all shall be added unto you." Because, truly. Once you drop out of this mental illness infested rat-race, focus inwardly on having a pure heart (very important), and find yourself in a place where people are actually decent? You'll understand that every word I've told you is true. You'll have no trouble finding someone.

[@AnadonAyleid]

I wish youtube didn't auto hide long replies. I just gave you some heartfelt advice.

[@Iililiillilllillllliiill]

An easy fix to your problems: delete IG and other social media.

[@imlevitating___]

Hey man, I am attractive too, was always complimented by women, getting dates was not hard and I am accustomed to have men envy me. I think you should settle with a good woman and start a family. Also, who cares what people think of you? Just make sure not to let your guard down as other men can "attack you" from different angles since you'll naturally raise their insecurities. Read books that will empower your mind and teach you how to survive, such as Robert Greenes books and stoicism. Being handsome is a gift from God.

[@itb8155]

@@imlevitating___damn bro I wonder what life is like as you I’m really ugly and never get any dates I was seeing a girl and I saw messages where her sister called me ugly and it made my insecurities even worse

[@jeremyking5309]

As an attractive guys I can guarantee that this guy is absolutely correct

[@mikem859]

Yeah, I would also add that most girls from school/work/other places are offended if you don't want to be with them -.- And you come to work and you feel that the girl who used to smile to you now hate you even you did nothing wrong

[@jeremyking5309]

@@mikem859 another one the reason usually why they are angry is usually not because you she something to them but because they know you are confident and attractive so if you are not their friend automatically they consider you as their enemy mean while as attractive guys when people approach us we never downplay them because we are humble but they are always in their head thinking that we are arrogant and might reject them but the honest truth is they usually always in their heads

[@mikem859]

@@jeremyking5309 Thats right bro, good to meet someone with similar experiences 😎 Wish you all best my friend

[@jacobdaigle2572]

Even my step brothers and stepfather treated me like crap.

[@sangovere777]

People love to hate man! to the point that when I take the subway, I do not pay attention to anybody, I listen to music and mind my business. I still hear people calling me boastful or conceited. I purposely wear basic neutral clothes to not ruff off feathers.

[@darksideofthebright4284]

I'm fighting with this weird "competition" since school. I'm 37 now and what been said in this clip is true. I have the feeling I always get to prove my worth, that I'm not dumb or unqualified, especially at work, defy attacks that try to compromise me, many people are suspicious and not really trusted towards, even though I show my vulnerabilities and weak side, same mistakes that others did gets more in attention and blame seeking... You're cruising through street, mall, people stare and sometimes it feels a little hostile or competitive, likewise, they stare with interest but quickly turn away. On the other hand, people often circle around, asking for advice, help, they're handing me their secrets or worries, which is good, but I don't feel that deep connection. I don't have a best friend, last two girlfriends were obsessively jealous, no matter how basic and honest I tried (but I'm guilty of addiction, lying sometimes, yes)... Like, there's nothing really that different that others have or do, yet I see them get along better, talk or show to themselves with ease... It feels lonely sometimes.

[@johnnylego807]

Absolutely correct. Unfortunately, people will never realize this. People should be careful for what they wish for……. Life ain’t always greener on the other side.

[@NomadSupreme911]

As an attractive man I can concur that all of this (jealousy) is true.

[@jamesjeffers7270]

Show a picture and let a woman decide. As of now your hiding behind an " N " which tells people you are probably lying.

[@unionverse4988]

Here is another sign that i get mostly at the workplace people look at you like you took something from them or you owe them something, weird isn't!!!

[@dukeonwheels]

Hmm, maybe this is why I get along with older women more easily. Younger girls seem to be intimidated by me, and I always thought it’s because I look intimidating with my tallish stature and dark skin. It made it really confusing when people every now and then would say that I’m attractive or something to that effect. Because if I really was as attractive as some claim I am, why do I have so much trouble finding a relationship?

[@dthegreat777]

It’s as if chics are looking for something to be wrong with you and gay is one of em. Or he think he the sh**. Or he think everyone want him. You can’t be nice. Can’t even say hello. They will take it like u tryna get at em. It’s insane.

[@christopherjameswright9614]

Yes it's crazy even other men see you as competition

[@AnadonAyleid]

Take my advice. Just have a good heart and be above that. Let the children play their games. The real adults will talk to you.

[@recklessnotion1899]

​@@AnadonAyleid"the real adults will talk to you" Facts

[@onyiiilo378]

The women one is what I am dealing with at work atm. For a long time I was wondering, what did I do to them? I mean, I don't even bother anyone. I would smile and say hello, they just frown. I am an African in Australia and I consider myself attractive. NEVER had issues with getting girls, in fact, I do NOT approach women. In this new workplace, things are weird. I am isolated. At first, I thought maybe they are racist and hated me for no reason cos I am black. Then I see the same people being really nice and friendly with other Africans I work with. I am usually confident, now I start having self doubts. Wondering if I give off negative energy. When I come to work, it seems like it gets worse the more I am trying to be nice to people. The minute I withdraw and keep to myself, I am called arrogant and snobby! wtf!?!? 😩

[@blah9664]

:19 i can relate to that so much. Every so often a woman will actually give me a compliment. Meanwhile most women down play it and won't tell you but they will tell others.

[@christopherjameswright9614]

That's very sad

[@piedpiper1201]

another big one is that the people you meet expect you to have lots going on in your life e.g. tons of friends, tons of women blowing up your phone, wealthy with a great job etc etc. if you are very good looking and introverted girls will get really suspicious of you and often times it would be a deal breaker for them

[@user-pl2zn7zn4h]

Gentlemen, own it. Bask in it. Let them hate and continue to be who you are. Just know that the game is different for you. Everywhere you go women will be choosing you and men will be jealous, so will women that think they can’t have you. Play the hand you were dealt. Take advantage of the privilege. I get free stuff all the time, women so nervous that they fumble etc. It comes with the territory. The hate is normal, accept it.

[@Garraad]

Women assume the worst "player or at least a gay" and men assume the worst "a threat" and if you are confident you become arrogant bastard I had a male boss, that perceived me as a threat _in a job I told him I am leaving in 18 months_ both male and females who told me I am attractive, yet no female ever flirted with me but some told me I cannot be kept! but some boys were off the chart flirting! _and I 😊loved it_

[@nortesur9504]

The bless about being ugly is that when you get older you're not gonna miss the beauty of your youngest days!!!! Greetings from Colombia South America!!

[@JihadBunnydick]

😂

[@moonboy2022]

Colombia has the best women though..

[@nortesur9504]

@@moonboy2022 Yup! Alongside with Brazil and Argentina. Also we have not good looking people.. Cheers!

[@konstantin6705]

When you are a young guy, you most likely have not yet figured out how to use your looks. And when you realize later, you are already over 40 and have lost your attractiveness

[@dreamchaser6381]

How can i use my attractiveness ? In what way? Can you help a young fella?

[@earlito9044]

Man this hit home everything he said on this video is literally true bcuz I experience all this my whole life and currently in. My life I’ve just gotten use to it and learned to live with it

[@mojojeinxs9960]

Dated a very handsome gentleman, he also dressed sharp smelled good perfect manners plus street smarts. Almost turned him down because he was too perfect. Sadly he passed away sure he is a gorgeous angel now.

[@nickmauge7696]

Would you feel more comfortable dating a felon instead or a guy fresh out of jail or prison with no money, car or job? That seems to be the trend nowadays with women despite them saying they want a really good man

[@NolimitIzzo]

@@nickmauge7696a lot of women don’t got dads in the house either they weren’t taught how to pick em women are notorious for this

[@Cory-zn5mq]

You get perks like people do nice things,girls smile at you and stare at you but if you don't got money it don't last but jobs are easier to get

[@_Farhan.]

Its greatest con is as a socially introvert they fucking stare at me and its so fucking uncomfortable 😤😑

[@natebrook]

Malay? Do Chinese women stare at you too?

[@_Farhan.]

@@natebrook bruv I'm indian so how can Chinese stare at me, what's Malay?

[@michaelazariah73]

I have handsome problems

[@dreacul]

I always asked myself why so many female coworkers asked me if I'm gay?I even have some experiences in which both genders had crushes on me (I'm straight). Some people told me I'm beautiful and have charisma, but because I rarely noticed women looking at me (really, that's so rare and I know to read signs when a female is interested) I assumed that people only tend to say that because I might look too unsecured and they try to make me feel the opposite. I'm not unsecured, I always speak what I have to, ask, socialize and overall very friendly and approachable. Maybe I am attractive, I'm thinking now. I studied history, I love politics, I have imagination and people can discuss everything with me about all topics, etc.

[@ac46589]

WOW, you just described my life

[@SpenceCurry]

Game means nothing. Women use good looking men to impress and make other women jealous

[@user-qr6eb4jg9n]

Not all the time. Women don't like their boyfriends to be too attractive. The reason is they know that other women will hit on him constantly, and will ultimately decide that he can't be trusted.

[@SpenceCurry]

@@user-qr6eb4jg9n to say nothing of their gay best friends poaching pretty boy away. Being too handsome carries the red flag of narcissism

[@Coyote-wm5op]

And then when you make a move you get ghosted or rejected. Meanwhile women are staring at you, may compliment you, some men will compliment you, and some men will try to put you down . Then you’re left wondering wtf is wrong with me?

[@addafellahi6890]

wtf is wrong with us

[@ZedZed-qs4my]

if your Extremely Attractive the world becomes your enemy theres no loyalty in this life.

[@GoldCODMyt]

Agreed! This shit is insane. I’m a 10/10 no lie. Did modeling my whole life and everything you can imagine when it comes to looks. But this life is a lonely one. Envy everywhere

[@ZedZed-qs4my]

@@GoldCODMyt its because Gods blessed you but the people wont so they close and play with your opportunities believe me they will cast you out once the women start to like you in work enviroments there little men will plan to take you out and when your a 10/10 ppl will literally try and Kill you! this is a different life.

[@ZedZed-qs4my]

@@GoldCODMytme too graduated good work resume can you believe i keep getting fired at work because the women end up gravitating towards me and managers get jelous and passive this is why im broke on goverment cheques everyone wants you down no one wants to see you progress so i stay at home and purposely relax to the max

[@TheAleksandros]

@@ZedZed-qs4my lol same here. I've withdrawn and just stay at home. this shit is so sad

[@ZedZed-qs4my]

@TheAleksandros (it just shows you won) its lonely at the top dont stay at home doing nothing occupy yourself and Love God and pray whos blessed you with being attractive i rather be pretty than ugly anyday and becareful cause ppl will try hurting you and your going to have enemies you dont even know of look at the acid attacks by ugly ppl and i dont want to be in prison for life cause you know when you know. ppl will set you up everywhere you go to get fired from jobs for no reason as misery loves company.

[@jackm3720]

The very first sentence is so true. It gets your foot in the door, but you’ll got nowhere if you have no game. I literally have no game, I’m constantly given an opportunity where it’s a girl or something else and I always fumble it every single time. I’m a problem for everyone, until I open my mouth😂

[@zenostrixster]

Hey gotta say this is quite accurate . I still wouldnt opt for being unattractive. Yes women stare a lot at you. Yes you make people jealous and they become passive aggressive. Yeah people generally assume good things about you. No you cant go through life being just handsome having an attractive personality is improtant. And yeah i never got past the talking stage. Its taking for me to be more expressive and more approachable

[@no-bozos]

Let’s qualify here, I WAS an attractive man. I’m 63-years-old now and overweight. I still look young because I took good care of my skin and people are still nice to me but no one ogles me anymore. So, when I was young a lot of women would act fake for me. They would ask me a bunch of questions and then try to model their behavior to match what they thought I was looking for. Men, just like the video said, were always takin passive-aggressive shots at me. They would never outright say anything to directly challenge me because I was quite an athlete and had a reputation for being a badass. (I got in a lot of fights when I was young and never lost one) So I was constantly fielding digs about any flaw or mishap I had. At one point, I started to turn the tables and would join in with self-deprecating humor, which would make the ribbing taper off faster. I got treated differently, even as a small boy, and some of it was good and some of it was bad. I became somewhat introverted at some point in an attempt to avert attention but people thought I was stuck up. As I aged, became a husband and a father I came out of my shell more. I would occasionally get some attention but no where near as when I was younger. Needless to say, I understand what pretty girls experience, but it’s worse being a handsome man. To this day I lead a bit of a lonely life because of my guarded nature.

[@danymitehazard]

Yeap Ive had this happen to me ALOT. Jealousy at all places from other men

[@muckeyduck3472]

It can be an asset to be extremely handsome, to be the best look guy in the room, any room, but it can be a curse if a large part of your self-value come from your looks. If in later life, if you try and hang on to past thrills, you risk becoming a bitter old man. That feeling of knowing that every woman in the room is looking at you becomes additive. That you can easily sleep with a different and new girl every night, of always knowing that when you meet a girl, that you are going to be able to get in her pants is a wonderful thing, but when you get old and all you have in a ghostly memory of that time, if you haven't move past that time, you will become a dreamy old man who lives in the past, instead of moving on to new thrills that older age offers.

[@thesunisout2858]

I have always just enjoyed all of the attention I have received, I am 61 now and its still giving.

[@peanbean1973]

Sometimes it kills me cause half the dudes I've made friends with have ended up telling me they got feelings or something.

[@neilanthonydas5140]

100 percent true brother......

[@kwekswilliams6884]

I thought i was alone. Thanks for this video. Thanks for helping

[@b.johnathanwarriorinagarde7980]

"The hate is swelling in you now.."

[@AnadonAyleid]

Maybe don't. It's not good for you. Sure as hell won't lead to likability and an innocent soul (most important) either. Be happy on your own terms. The best advice an older man ever gave me was to be relentlessly positive, and to take all things lightly. Life's too short to be full of bitterness. It's just another form of self-restraint which keeps you from your potential in life. Not the potential to snag game and live a lavish vapid lifestyle, but to live a truly happy and fulfilled life. Find that, and whatever you're so focused on right now will come to you naturally as a result, or side-effect. Being pure of heart means so much more to your future than you could ever know.

[@user-pl2zn7zn4h]

Gentlemen, own it. Bask in it. Let them hate and continue to be who you are. Just know that the game is different for you. Everywhere you go women will be choosing you and men will be jealous, so will women that think they can’t have you. Play the hand you were dealt. Take advantage of the privilege.

[@Cccccccccc7850]

was this video made by matt riffe?

[@gerhard6105]

Never will i say that i look handsome but several colleagues and friends told me i am. Indeed many women look but it seams to fear most of themin a sort of way. A former female college told me a belong to the handsome people and a good friend of mine often refers to my " handsome face". And one young lady complimented me with my handsome child. Probably she wanted some handsome children but she was occupied at that moment. I heard she is single now. She was one of the few who was really interested in me. Already since me teenage years i get compliments about my eyes because of the green/gray color and a black circle around that.

[@rickyrick9501]

I hate it when they call me pretty boy or pretty Ricky by my name. Or they pick apart the way I dress or make me feel like I'm feminine around a masculine task. I own a Handyman company for 17 years. Nothing remotely feminine about me.

[@richardpetitclerc9793]

I m 36 , i just recently understood that i m good looking 😂 ... and yes this is the story of my life 😂 the down side i could say

[@AnadonAyleid]

The intelligent man is self-doubting. While this leads to good character, generally just behavior, and introspection, we often find out about things like this later.

[@junioraime1119]

Me at 27 understanding this

[@Andy1119]

Not an attractive man but I know some and none of them get free or discounted things from stores.......

[@FeloniousMyronius]

More like this, please. Crazy truth😢

[@chunchapbounewmai3598]

I never mentioned that im handsome but honestly most girl think i am playboy they will say how could you possibly be single and after they realise who iam they will propose me,in these situations as a guy i got nothing to say i simply say thank you but im not interested in relationship because of my past experience i said this and kept cool and they will chase for my attention until they get married 😎during my high school days and college days they called me Hitlar coz im very popular 😎even some male friends will say i wish to be you. But my taste in choosing girls is different I want the shy and cool girl 😎

[@Drew-b9p]

Henry Cavill, Tom Cruise.... Don't know the other two dudes....?

[@mobarenleidowu1336]

Chris Evans and Chris Hemsworth

[@FettiMagazine]

I'm laughing because this video is spot on!

[@germanpatis9136]

as an unattractive guy i dont feel sorry for you you are still ways better off than us

[@vojtechlansky86]

Bruh im balding fkin overly short guy but still i experienced 3rd point many times… Jealousy and bringing up embarassing stories infront of girls.. because even if im not perfect.. they felt like they are even less perfect or i had a series of succesfull games or was really funny and interesting so they need to strike me down. Its really not unique to top attractive guys trust me 😂

[@TravisLauvao]

AND I'M A SCORPIO Double whammy My life sucked since 1984

[@addafellahi6890]

what are the solutions tho? scorpio too

[@JohnnyAllan-vj7sj]

If women seem pleasantly surprised or downright shocked that you asked them out, you're an attractive ass dude. End of story. You need no more clarification or proof. "Do you think I could get your number?" "Mine? 😳 Really? Umm... yeah, sure!" ...yup, you're one sexy dude if you've ever gotten something like that as a response

[@addafellahi6890]

but what are the solutions? ive been kinda struggling with shyness and lack of communication and a lot of loneliness to the point where i get KINDA used by kinda ugly girls (people tell me your prettier than your girl) but i just settle for less cuz its kinda easier.....also everything said in the video is true specially compliments by older women lol.

[@ShawnMFields]

Same here 😅 im attractive but i got zero game

[@BRSG.]

All it takes is one girl to like you instead of the guy that likes her.

[@jessewright8930]

This is so weird. This made me feel lot better. This is everyday for me.

[@Dropdead810]

I’ve been dealing with this forever.

[@Ajmarshall523]

I had women rub my shoulder I had a woman do a double take on me and I had a woman tell me if I was your age I would get with you and I had a woman stare at me when I'm not looking not once but twice am I truly handsome if that happened to me

[@AnadonAyleid]

Comment for the owner of the page -- Please greenlight my long replies to people which KZbin is auto-hiding. They contain pivotal advice, and I'd really appreciate it if all people could see it. Thanks a ton. Best regards.

[@JackMason-oq8lf]

I'm queer and women look at me. They catch me cruising their male companions.

[@crowlifellc.8385]

SO TRUE.

[@akaijackson2]

This explained so much in my life. To bad i discovered this to late and became a recluse

[@henryToped]

It is the ugly people that make good looking people stand out. Because of darkness we know what is light. Never forget that.

[@shugahhigh3204]

Wouldn’t have it any other way. BAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAJA

[@ruckerbrady8342]

I love your attitude about being handsome. The bahahahaha is like f-u jealous lil haters!! I need to remember that

[@drbigglebum]

There are no cons of being an attractive man. You get more girls and you look better than other guys

[@Armando.Sepulveda]

Patrick Swayze and Kurt Russell

[@PulseCodeModulate]

Can anyone please tell me who the actor is at 2:25 ? Thank you. Jeffrey Z. in SC

[@kashurentertainment8157]

Thomas shelby

[@PulseCodeModulate]

@@kashurentertainment8157 Thank you, very much!

[@sadeghjafari5524]

now im sure im not handsome

[@Alhaneef1444]

Except the complements everything is true

[@jcransome5616]

If you get tinder matches. Then yes

[@UnaversalTriumph1one]

Correct 💯

[@sarpicerde4284]

Damn, it's sad but truth...

[@Stormbringer_dp]

Yes that is very accurate...

[@jontripp8985]

My mom says that I'm good looking.

[@zeusoftheaegis9038]

These actually make no sense, it's like you took all the good aspects of being handsome and somehow turned them into negatives lol

[@Beefsneeze9]

, 9/10 times i se a gorgeous female with a Guy not Even near her attractiveness Only money count And being a dork

[@humlakullen]

Lol… In the comment section, everyone is a handsome sigma male making six figures…

[@DarenHarmon]

Man these cons are so damn familiar!!

[@groundzeroxfactor]

But this cons are positive cons. Disadvantages which are worth having. "Far from average". Admire having those disadvantages.

[@zenostrixster]

You know it's like when you level up the the problems get tougher. If you ugly you don't have to worry about envy attacks But for handsome men it's like a life skill. You need to know how to detect envy and maintain safe distance from those envious individuals. I recommend Robert Greene's book law of human natures. The envy chapter will resonate very deeply with you. There was this one dude who was always passive aggressive and would try to subtly dominate me by slightly pushing me around and making fun. Then one day I was sitting next to him texting this girl and he saw the text and immediately smiled after that he became so talkative and nice. I now realize he thought I was a threat to his girlfriend. Who yes would stare at me. I tried my best to avoid her but eh.

[@Beatz_by_Tp_the_don]

i love my handsome body

[@worldpeace2688]

Bro what's up with the structural engineers? U must be an architect 🤣🤣🤣. Comment from an engineer

[@Ajmarshall523]

And I have a woman touch my lower back

[@Crazy_beat_1]

Wow 😳😳 what truth g

[@Joshdifferent]

Factssss

[@mr.ddasgaming6918]

Yeah that's true 💔😢

[@sudalaimuthu3312]

Pretty handsome they all gift most of guys never have that ugly guy just like me i never take pictures my self

[@Cobrahachem]

I'm i handsome ?

[@ssmd7449]

Wow this is so spot on. You can smell the hate

[@mohamedkirgliz261]

As very handsome man,tall and muscular i get no girls never had one

[@_Farhan.]

Same bro they actually think we are out of their league 😂😂

[@ancientindia5464]

​@@_Farhan. Yes I'm 6,1 ft struggling

[@_Farhan.]

@@ancientindia5464 what struggle you have to face? It's good height

[@ancientindia5464]

@@_Farhan. I'm Shy. Green Flag But Girl Don't like Nice guys,

[@_Farhan.]

@@ancientindia5464 so true, they actually want some guy doing cheap bike stunts, smoking weed etc. We nice bug's ain't pulling bitchezzz 😑😑

[@DTB1995]

These are only cons if you make them out to be that way..otherwise these are just theories

[@BigAllan95]

What world do u live on bro.