These Behaviours/Habits Are Hindering Your Classy Lifestyle

[@kikiwinny5763]

Since I started watching your videos,my life has never been the same dear.

[@gyenommusa8924]

Thank you Winnie, but regarding Point 3: I don't know who needs to hear this but... Hyper-independence is the result of trauma. "I don't need anybody" & "Must do everything myself" really means, "My ability to trust has been injured by people systemically letting me down and failing me." You do need people. We all do ❤.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@estherudochukwu993]

You are just speaking to me. The over independence, I'm too tough and strong, I can do all by myself, I can't ask anyone for help etc. are killing me... I needed to hear this, though I don't know how to go about the change cos I grew up this way. Thanks again.

[@olowofaith9726]

Exactly what I was coming to type here.. Life's really tough this way and it weighs me down I don't even have anyone to ask for help to start with... Went through my contact one day, when I really needed help but there was no one I could ask Because there's so much to do, and no one to help, I don't even have time to LIVE... I'm always working and worrying

[@estherudochukwu993]

@@olowofaith9726 God will help us. I'm tired of doing things all by myself, shouldering responsibilities alone, my life lacks love and care. I need someone to care for me too. That's why I said I grew up that way, life didn't give me any choice so I learnt to depend on me. It's so overwhelming !

[@MariamaBojang-g3w]

I am a practicing Muslimah a fully covered lady😊but seriously I have learned a lot from you although we live a different lifestyle But girl keep giving me lessons I need them ❤

[@durosinmizainab2107]

Maasha Allah sis, I was recently thinking about this.... I can't be the only Muslimah enjoying Winnie. How are you doing sis?

[@trendyangel4684]

Thanks Winnie. More wisdom.❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Amen!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@MatselisoMohale]

😮😮 oh my GOD,these are all my characters.i need to change quickly.thanks for these video

[@kathrinetaylor9853]

So true.. just be real, I learn allot from you.. 🌹

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I'm so glad!❤️❤️

[@perismkala4275]

Thanks to KZbin I can't afford to miss these insights from Winnie's school of elegance 👏👏👏👏 you are doing a good job Winnie 💪

[@saraffinandoya7804]

Ready to learn

[@eneiyeyi3851]

I've learned a lot from you, thank you so much ma🙏❤️❤️🙏

[@phindilemthiyane9008]

Thank you so much winnie

[@Tonia_B]

I'm always so glad to watch your videos, thank you Winnie and i love you so much ❤

[@lifestylewithfavour]

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that this video came across my for you page. I really needed to hear these. I found myself guilty of some of the points you mentioned and I’ll work on them. Thank you

[@orelusianuoluwapo1811]

❤ thanks so much am so happy to know you

[@FavourAyegba-g7z]

Thank you ma'am

[@angelamartekimarkwei8608]

Thanks a whole lot. Stay blessed continually.

[@giwalizino2514]

Thank you Winnie

[@euchariaikegbule9467]

Thank you Winnie more Grace

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

My absolute pleasure!!❤❤❤

[@highlyfavoredbygod1051]

Awww…Winnie you are God sent. I am so grateful to God i have a sister like you. Lol even though i don’t even know you personally. Thanks for all the wise counsel Winnie. God richly bless you.

[@bankolefunmilayo1797]

I don't know how to ask help, turning me don makes me feel bad

[@augustinayaotey-ce4po]

Dear, I think you need to work on that and accept defeat. We all get that sometimes but we don't let that limit us. Asking people for help is a good thing when you don't overly do it. If you do it too much you become a nuisance and that is when you get a lot of turning down from people.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Dear understand that someone turning you down has nothing to with you as a person. Learn to accept and embrace it okay.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@augustinayaotey-ce4powell said!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@magdelinetladi7476]

Thanks Winnie❤School of elegance is very insightful 🎉

[@chinwejoseph4334]

Thank u so much for this video winnie

[@divineokekekitchen]

Thank you Mami , love this.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You are welcome!❤️

[@maryjang7647]

We're here already . Thank you Winnie.You are really my true role model ❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

My absolute pleasure!❤️❤️

[@labefaith2229]

Thank you so much for this piece 🎉

[@brendamagoma5752]

Thanks Winnie

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

My absolute pleasure!

[@maryAmoduu]

Thank you always great woman ❤❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You are highly welcome!❤

[@augustinayaotey-ce4po]

Thank you Winnie, all your points are valid❤ especially with the last point. I used to be a culprit but thanks to my sweet handsome man im all good now🥰👍

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tolueasalako]

Hello Winnie can you do a video about finding a balance with our masculine and feminine energy especially for Nigerian women.

[@lolajacomino6574]

Thank you for your work Winnie, it’s very important to me all you said ❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure!❤️

[@RosemaryBashiru-pn3ns]

This was really helpful thank you

[@Adeseun_jubril]

Wowwww.I am amazed and thankful for the gift of being able to unlearn things and embrace new lessons in life.I think that is one of the best gifts we have as human.The ability to embrace newness and be a better person each day than we are the previous day.I exhibit almost alll of these traits and truly I now see things from a different perspective and I am happy it was timely.❤

[@kathrinetaylor9853]

You took the words right out of my life young lady thanks!

[@officialkolbe3386]

❤❤❤ Thank you 🙏❤

[@peacerobson3994]

Emphasis on surround yourself with people who you can lean on ❤

[@ibukunogunsanya3761]

Thank you 😊

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

My pleasure Dear!!❤❤

[@emmanuellachepchumba]

If only this video came out sooner it would have saved me a big deal from coming off the wrong way. Thank you for this one. ❤😊

[@ChimwemweMungullar]

Lots of love Winnie❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

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[@dorashallotey7032]

Good points, l have all these traits you mentioned but it will be difficult for me to change bcos l was once sweet and nice and then shit happened. I wasted 20yrs of my life with these feminine traits and then I decided to change to these so call masculism and now l have accomplished alot within 10yrs and l am living my best life. Men especially take advantage of women who mostly be in femininity. I have kept to my standards, values and morals and l am doing fine. People are unreasonable, illogical and self centred never forget. Thanks though ❤

[@fiinahmartin4538]

Im learning a lot ,u re my inspiration 🙏

[@igboagiperpetua]

Thanks Winnie. This topic is really an eye opener to some things we do, as ladies or girls in family, work or even life style. Thanks dear

[@maryimmaculate1404]

Winnie you have made me a better woman

[@ToyeenOlukorede]

Thank you boss❤

[@zainabmahmud5648]

I find out most times when I share an opinion and it being neglected things get it way of not turning out well and at the end I’ll be like I told you. So I mostly try to express my opinion in a convincing manner because neglecting my intuition doesn’t go well for me.

[@agoiobunso]

Amazing video thank you so much sis❤❤

[@olabambeauty7834]

Yeah! I need to tell my friend to watch this because she’s always like I can do it all alone I don’t need anybody’s help…. She’ll never listen to me 😅

[@veronicatogbah4375]

That’s good but I always love to stay home alone and don’t have friends in my community

[@AdunniTiwatope]

Thank you so much Winnie... but what are the masculine energies that we need to keep and how do we exercise them

[@shalompeace5151]

In my family there's no man's job and woman's job.. we were all taught to take charge when need arises. I admit though it's been a problem, at times friends feel like I don't need them☹️ but I honestly don't know how to not do something I know how to do when there's need to do it.. I just don't 😥

[@princessnaomi5924]

Thank you so much Winnie. You practically just made all the points I still exhibit sometimes till now. And it has really really affected my entire life and how men relate and see me. I’ve learnt a lot. Let see how the nexts months go with these points.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I am so glad you found this valuable. Just take it one step at a time and one day at a time okay…you will become the best version of yourself in no time. I am rooting for you always!❤❤❤

[@princessnaomi5924]

@@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much ma’am 😊😍.

[@teacher-vero]

I'm afraid of disappointed and too shy to ask for help

[@TawanleAishatu]

I am all masculine but ready to listen, advise, help others but get turned down when I ask for help. I feel like if someone wanted to do something for me I don't need to ask

[@dimma2509]

Tilting towards entitlement. People are not mind readers boo, it's ok to ask.

[@mwanaidihassan5868]

Am living masculinity life because I was raised by woman who has no man aside

[@joanashaba8102]

I think same I also started working at a very young age I guess that's why I don't rely on any one

[@adedolapoadelabu]

Hi, Miss Winnie. Good to be here again! Take your flowers! These points are rare to come by, thanks for your research, I love you so much, my ROR wonder!❤❤❤ I actually have a question though. These traits, do they apply generally, or, as touching relationship, specifically with the opposite gender? Because, this number 1 trait, a lot of people (female) are used to doing things on their own, they grew up with little or no support at all from anyone, all they could achieve and the levels they attained, were basically on the grounds of the things they did, whilst "hustling" (in their language). What do you opine in this case? With respect to how to put off the trait and get used to asking help. Thank you.

[@mercilevismercy]

I love you winniee

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Thank you! I love you too!❤️😊

[@ToyeenOlukorede]

I am interested in this course please

[@AbigailGmanyi]

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[@lionhotty]

I looooovvvveee this video! You look so pretty in blue. Your points are great. I can relate to all of them. Your soft speaking tone is fabulous! I'll be getting your course soon! P.s how can your practice being feminine? And being present?

[@tryphosabriannamurangiramb3605]

Hey Winnie, could we have more vlogs?

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Okay…I am working on the best structure that will enable me film more.

[@florenceladzagla388]

in this case i can say God is a woman😊 Pretty sis thanks for sharing with us❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤❤

[@omotolaadegoke8830]

I tend not to think in terms of masculine and feminine energy, rather just spiritual energy. No such thing as a man’s job or a woman’s job in my opinion, if it needs to get done, do it. Well, of course and competence should be a given. Competence over gender stereotypes all day. Despite the qualities of a woman written in scripture (the Bible being what I consult), no distinction in job roles is specified. Apart from headship arrangement particular to marriage and spiritual matters (within boundaries and expectations as to discharge of the duty). Essentially, partnership and the allocation of the roles within it being the business of those in the partnership, through dialogue and consultation. Any quality that is correctly perceived as negative shouldn’t be displayed by a man or woman, no one rule for one and another rule for others. Religion can be tetchy topic, I post this to aid understanding as to how some think.

[@dimma2509]

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[@StayfitwithCardinal-ji8ld]

👏 👏 👏

[@MatselisoMohale]

Im a single mother,i feel very bad to ask help from anyone because i don't want my child to become a burden to other people even his father i never take a legal action against him.

[@ToyeenOlukorede]

What if you care about them but they don’t ? It’s tiring 😢..

[@okikiolaprecious1297]

This is to all Winnie's fans and followers Be elegant,but don't be fake It's easy to confuse fakeness with elegance Also,nice video winnie hon😘 I think masculine sometimes too and I really don't like showing my weaknesses,I feel like I don't need people too so I just neglect my relationships. But I'll try my hardest to be more feminine. But when I dress up, I always choose comfort over fashion,is this right?

[@pauljohn4606]

Winnie I love you with my full chest. The world needs 80billion of your kind😂😂 Abeg❤❤

[@nicely-13u]

Winnie am interested in the course how will I go about it

[@teacher-vero]

My big problem😢, I can't ask for help

[@preciouskosisochukwu7568]

How do I over come acting too matured for my age? Sometimes I even feel like I'm in my 30's while I'm in my early 20's

[@ofisheaghogho9343]

There re tins u can't change, is already nature so is hard

[@chukwueziholiness7001]

You keep saying click the subscription bell down below (down below is tautology

[@BlessingObi-k2o]

I used to ask but never get help even from people I called friends, I’ll have to fight my way through things. I’m always the one reaching out, buying gifts, saying prayers and wishes but never got it back. I intentionally said nothing about my birthday and non of them said anything nor gave me anything. I just decided to stay on my own😢

[@nanderedoreen6971]

How can i remove fear and warrying in me

[@evesmile6963]

Present❤❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

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[@chunjeaishatou5524]

Jizz all the points hits me very badly😢 it's quite difficult to readjust

[@nanderedoreen6971]

Me winnie i need help from pipo but i fear to ask I can even sleep hungry yet ahave aresource but i fear.. How can i do it

[@saraffinandoya7804]

I’m the first

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Yayyyy💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@ibukunogunsanya3761]

I should learn to ask for help 😢

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Yes you should!!❤️

[@Bridget-t3n]

How to join the email list?

[@belvinmakin3536]

Thanks dear✨. I have a question ? Healthy hygiene and those. With black armpits ..(private parts) talk about that dear

[@RiamatuKamara-yu9vh]

Am telling you😁😁👌🙏👍.....

[@okaforngozi7538]

Thanks Winnie

[@nanderedoreen6971]

Me winnie i need help from pipo but i fear to ask I can even sleep hungry yet ahave aresource but i fear.. How can i do it