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[@geopowered]

I guess it's not really any of my business, but this was a sad way to find out Becky and Corey broke up.

[@krisray9]

AgentKFox my thoughts exactly

[@nataliexyz123]

Wtf they broke up?!??

[@Redorgreenful]

nataliexyz123 She said she needed to be with a certain type of person so I'm guessing it didn't work out :( I can tell he was good for her

[@sunmoon539]

AgentKFox I'm really sad

[@Itsjustwidad]

ikrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[@egem9966]

And here is where psychologically comes into play...one said laziness is a dealbreaker yet she admits to being lazy and one says being mean/ insensitive is a deal breaker yet admits to being angry easily (which I relate to btw). Us humans are weird

[@angelmushahf]

Sometimes we're drawn to people with good habits because if you're around them enough, you may pick up on their good habits. They'll help you become a better person.

[@Jesscorpio]

But I mean also if both of you are super lazy or both of you are mean and/or get angry too easily then the relationship probably isn’t going to work out very well in the long run. You need to balance each other out a little

[@jamievanaalderen3806]

Alyssa Duja we all are hypocrits

[@jadaskyenicholss]

I think it really exploits the natural insecurities that we have.

[@waxydiction]

I love shy boys, it’s the best when they open up 😍 don’t get me started on the awkward ones!

[@siegejay495]

She put up the eyebrow comment before the trolls could click bait.

[@eviemuffins]

CJ Etherington do you know what clickbait means😅

[@valorantlegendgod]

i think you mean comment rather than clickbait...

[@Beautyinthebreakdown.]

I thought Becky was with that dude that's also in buzzfeed they were so cute.

[@nonono777]

Did they break up?

[@Beautyinthebreakdown.]

Nonono I don't know just the way she spoke made me think they had :/ I may be completely wrong.

[@Beautyinthebreakdown.]

eviemuffins she mentions her.. i dunno 🤷‍♀️

[@MikeMJPMUNCH]

Nope Becky and Corey broke up in August last year

[@schinreddy]

MikeMJPMUNCH that makes me so sad :/

[@IshanAli]

Long story short: these questions don’t work and I’ll be single af for the rest of my life

[@marytaich9829]

Ishan Ali lol I see you everywhere

[@carolkittner3702]

😂😂😂

[@JiyaDSTV160Channel]

no you wont

[@nihalgina]

Ishan Ali DUDE Is it you in the profile pic? Cause you're hot

[@dicksdrugsanddebutantes9305]

Hey ;)

[@meganmcalpine7803]

No one gon talk about Ella & Hannah ? 😂

[@laurakleckner7741]

- - I was thinking the same thing

[@meganmcalpine7803]

baby kleck I know I’m so confused

[@SanskarWagley]

Ella is bi

[@kiramiller2444]

Did they break up?

[@JoDidntHearYou]

Kira Miller she does mention her girlfriend during the video :)

[@Mobile_Dom]

Wait, So Becky and Corey broke up?

[@SanskarWagley]

Corey*, and I believe so

[@angelina_jay]

Sanskar Wagley WHAT NO

[@BlessMyHart96]

What?!? I’m gonna have a fit noooo

[@jordanmaso7506]

What I thought they were perfect for each other!!!

[@MikeMJPMUNCH]

Yes, in August last year

[@fleurbuckrell1934]

Becky reminds me so much of Monica from friends

[@kaylees.4333]

BECKY THE QUEEN I HAVENT SEEN HER IN SO LONG

[@maiaisabel]

“if you’re a ceo you could [be a writer or artist] on the side” ha! hA! HA!

[@mcbrayer77]

i got: someone driven and energetic you're a calm and hardworking person, but at your worst you can be fatalistic and pessimistic. you should look for someone who will challenge you and inspire you to chase your dreams. in turn, you will be the much-needed​ voice of reason to their boundless, optimistic energy. very, very, accurate lol

[@ominouscipher4040]

mcbrayer77 I got the same message

[@jaimenickson]

"I value getting into arguments" that sounds psychotic wtf

[@love60073]

Jaime N I think what she probably meant is more of a debate than an argument? Something where you have a different opinion than the person, but neither is really mad about it and is just trying to express their viewpoint. The way she said it sounds a little crazy, but my brother’s exactly like that. Find a point where they differ from you to get to know you and your thought process better? If that makes sense??

[@bums009]

Yeah i think she meant like debating more serious topics rather than arguing over personal stuff. Like being able to have debates about politics, philosophy and religion is really important to me when it comes to dating for example.

[@christinaspiridou5429]

It's a real thing xD Speaking from an ENTP personality viewpoint....debates are incredibly fun, no matter where they end and who "wins."

[@jocelyneke6445]

Debating is arguing. I had a boyfriend who loved debating. It hurt my confidence. He also knew nothing about the arts

[@Az_Za.]

Wait, does this mean that Becky is single?

[@nonono777]

Please tell if you found out

[@MikeMJPMUNCH]

Yep, unfortunately Becky and Corey broke up in August last year

[@yirusannart2582]

MikeMJPMUNCH Omg wtf nooo.. That's so sad, they were so cute together..

[@-gf-]

Az Za Oh yeah...

[@jennylove2746]

I never knew they were together. That is pretty sad. :(

[@rubyIIv]

I got sensitive and calm too. I realized taking this test that it’s worse for me to be in a relationship with somebody who is unambitious because I get mean and insensitive a lot, and I can deal with my hypocrisy better than I can deal with somebody who is lazy because even though I can’t help not wanting to get out of bed in the morning, I force myself to and I don’t think I could stand being in a relationship and being unofficially responsible for the failure of somebody who didn’t have the motivation to do anything but what they want and what they really need to do to survive. Didn’t mean to go that in-depth, sorry.

[@megan55121]

I got “someone fun and relaxed: yours organized, pragmatic, and somewhat of a workaholic. You need someone that will help you relax and unwind.” That is so EERILY accurate, it’s awesome. It also happens to describe the person I’m dating 👍🏼

[@Maria-sf1jv]

I got: Someone driven and energetic You're a calm and hardworking person, but at your worst you can be fatalistic and pessimistic. You should look for someone who will challenge you and inspire you to chase your dreams. In turn, you will be the much-needed voice of reason to their boundless, optimistic energy

[@thekookstups]

I got sensitive and calm! Which makes sense bec I'm a very energetic and extra Leo but I ALWAYS gravitate to more lowkey people who can balance me out and bring me back down to Earth.

[@julienguyen6845]

I actually love that Ella added that disclaimer

[@NatanaGoddess]

My boyfriend is my complete opposite and we work really well together. He thinks of things in a different perspective and a different output because hes more calm and laid back and loose and I'm a very high strung busy bee with stress. And he eases me and makes me think that everything will be okay and that I should take everything one step at a time. And this opposite really evens me out.

[@HarleyQuinn-cn6hu]

This is so true...i took the quiz and it explained exactly the guy I need and the exact guy I'm dating right now and engaged too.

[@user-kt9mu2fo7f]

It said should date someone fun and relaxed because I’m an organizational anxious workaholic

[@BrunaSantos-dz8en]

Arlee Christian same lol

[@annabethchase3612]

Me too 😂

[@lenora1519]

Me too!! lol

[@Katemazing4]

"Hate surprises" I'm SO WITH YOU

[@ZeinaIan]

I got organized and pragmatic too and It fits me as well. I'm a disheveled creative person and I always thought I'd need someone a lot more put together than me to even that out. On the other hand the people I'm attracted to are people who have been hurt or have a troubled past basically damaged people that need me, which I don't think is healthy.

[@minadief]

I'm an INFP "Intuitive" and the result for this test was "You got: Someone organised and pragmatic" translating it to MBTI personality it should be someone with Sensing attribute which is a totally turn off for those intuitives like me who are looking for meaning, big picture and like to fly, so dating someone who doesn't want to fly with me, who cares way too much about details is going to be a turn off. yes I can work with Sensing type and we can be unstoppable force, but not in dating!

[@emily_232]

I got someone ‘driven and energetic’ but the thing is is that I don’t want to rely on someone too much to motivate me because I feel I motivate myself a lot and am very driven. Point is the person I should date is the perfect description of me. Should I date myself?

[@karogers89]

Someone fun and relaxed. That pretty much sums it up. I've been with my guy coming up on 9 years and he's fun and relaxed.

[@iulianam4106]

I've got the same result as Becky and I've never dated anyone like that.. Seems interesting.

[@LuVzHeRwOrLd]

I also got "someone organised and pragmatic" ..interesting. *pretends to know what pragmatic means*

[@dariakerr1207]

Nailah literally same I got that to and I have no idea what it means lol

[@dariakerr1207]

Nailah Update- I looked it up prag·mat·ics /praɡˈmadiks/ the branch of linguistics dealing with language in use and the contexts in which it is used, including such matters as deixis, taking turns in conversation, text organization, presupposition, and implicature.

[@firecrackers4391]

they take buzzfeed quizzes much more seriously than i ever will lmao

[@EllisPadilla]

You got: Someone driven and energetic You're a calm and hardworking person, but at your worst you can be fatalistic and pessimistic. You should look for someone who will challenge you and inspire you to chase your dreams. In turn, you will be the much-needed voice of reason to their boundless, optimistic energy.

[@supergingerr]

I don’t trust a quiz that ends with a “what’s your sign question”

[@labsareperfect]

The answer I got, is basically my husband, someone driven and energetic. Someone that will deal with my pessimistic side and he was positive. That is so my husband! I guess that’s the reason we’ve been together for seven years.

[@itschristaleeann]

I got: “You got: Someone driven and energetic You're a calm and hardworking person, but at your worst you can be fatalistic and pessimistic. You should look for someone who will challenge you and inspire you to chase your dreams. In turn, you will be the much-needed voice of reason to their boundless, optimistic energy.”

[@kimberlylippington5648]

I go for nerdy, smart, dorky, sensitive guys. Someone really nice who could be a friend but is so obviously more. I want to have some of the same interests like reading. They should value intellectual prowess and respect.

[@Jna01615]

I see Becky, I click.

[@JennyG.COW5]

Here's my answers: 1.) Wallow 2.) Artist 3.) Mean & Insensitive 4.) Practical things or Listening 5.) Lazy 6.) Cooking Dinner or Helping w/ Unenjoyable tasks 7.) Taken for granted or Work 8.) Leo

[@tinyfreckle]

Okay usually buzzfeed quizzes are pretty inaccurate but I took this quiz and I reckon it was absolutely spot on (I got energetic and driven)

[@love60073]

I took the quiz and it said driven and energetic? And so true? Wow? Like I can work really hard when I have the motivation, and I have a lot of ideas that I’d love to work on, but I just can’t drive myself to do it? Plus people tell me I’m really calming so thatd be good for the other person too. This quiz is good

[@amandabooze5670]

i got someone sensitive and calm, and to answer your question Becky - never have I ever dated someone of that nature other than a high school boyfriend that was a scorpio like me. I tend towards someone driven and energetic that can deal with the pessimism and help keep me motivated when the chips are down. I'd like to think that I'm providing them with the voice of reason level-headedness that they need (in previous experiences) as well as a listening ear. Not so sure that I could date someone sensitive and calm... May have to change things up and try it next time lol.

[@lorraine6268]

Did Becky and her bf break up??? 😟

[@nonono777]

I'm also curious, she talks like she's single

[@eviemuffins]

Probably not as Ella mentioned her girlfriend theyre just doing it for fun i think

[@MikeMJPMUNCH]

Yep, unfortunately Becky and Corey broke up in August last year

[@sungwonyy]

MikeMJPMUNCH wait when was that announced???

[@MikeMJPMUNCH]

It's on his facebook page

[@kaileeosborne7790]

I got someone fun and relaxed which I feel was insanely accurate because it described me perfectly, and the way it described my significant other in the future sounded so perfect

[@TheMariangel95]

I got someone fun and relaxed and I agree with that phrase but the only thing I don't really agree with is needing someone to help me relax and unwind because I tend to do that on my own pretty well but now that I think about it I could use a little more help and some more encouragement in this field would be nice. And I can say that I would want a partner like that so yes I agree. I'm pretty playful and fun-loving, relaxed and easy-going but I do have the characteristics described such as organized, pragmatic and some workaholic tendencies and one of the things I value most in a guy is if he can help me get in touch with the fun-loving part of me. That's one of the most attractive qualities for me in a guy. I wouldn't want a dude like me that is argumentative and a workaholic who cares more about his work than me. But the deal breaker for me is a guy who is lazy and unambitious. I want a guy who is similar in the way that he has goals and wants to get ahead in life. And I don't want a guy who I have have to support financially like, "eww you can't do that on your own? Wtf nah" that's so unattractive like don't expect me to maintain you, eww no no. And the dumpable offense for me is someone who cares more about their work than me which goes hand in hand with taking me for granted. I want a guy that loves me and shows me/reminds me constantly and someone who appreciates me.

[@hannahcooksley7351]

I did the quiz and tbh I may not be looking for anything commitment wise rn but it was pretty accurate! Like, the answer given definitely sounds like something that would need to be there to REALLY work out. P.S, I got someone fun and relaxed which would really help me with with my problems. Just anxious all the time and I self isolate a lot so just someone fun but also pretty chill with whatever sounds cool. :3 My ex was way to isolated and not really that fun. Just made my depressive symptoms even worse, staying inside and even when I traveled to see him there would never be a push for me to do anything differently really. :/

[@valenciay4592]

I got someone sensitive and calm. These guys are definitely my type and I'd rather date someone similar to me xx

[@ilsalarson8403]

"I really value getting into arguments"

[@taketheredpill1452]

The girl on the right really impresses at the end. Way to go

[@katarifalls7794]

for me it was so wrong, i need someone energetic? but i'm energetic and I usually dislike people who remind me of me. My partner i calm and responsible and its amazing

[@clevercryptid]

Almost all my answers were the same as Ella's (even star sign), and honestly that result is so spot on for me too.... I should probably re-evaluate some things about myself.

[@listentovivien3407]

Party- doctor - not spending Time with me - listen to them whenever- lazy- suprise Date Night - take you for granted- pisces

[@noelromansky4003]

Someone driven and energetic: You're a calm and hardworking person, but at your worst you can be fatalistic and pessimistic. You should look for someone who will challenge you and inspire you to chase your dreams. In turn, you will be the much-needed voice of reason to their boundless, optimistic energy. I am VERY pessimistic, so the idea of having someone so optimistic seems frustrating. I tend to go more for people that don’t care to let me do my thing. They don’t like how much time I spend at work or school. I’m working on my PhD in psychology! Of course I’m gonna be busy -.-

[@negracaribena]

I typically dated people that were the opposite when I was younger but now that I date people that are like my results I’m much happier

[@EmeliaSings]

"You got: Someone fun and relaxed You're organised, pragmatic, with some workaholic tendencies. You should team up with a partner who calms your anxieties and encourages you to truly relax and unwind." Honestly, yes. I don't need someone as organised or control freak as I am, I need someone who can help me let go when I'm having a hard time to do it myself.

[@kiml4907]

It's really messed up that in the video Ella doesn't talk about gender at all, the questions don't specify gender and the title of the quiz itself has nothing to do with gender and yet the vid is titled the way it is. Especially since Ella's most recent relationship (assuming they broke up) was with Hannah Hart and she IDs as bi if I remember correctly...what's the point of using guy instead of person like the quiz and Ella use??

[@ivyalexandra8053]

Kim L No, it is a typical Buzz feed video. I am sure they are together.

[@evag-s5177]

As far as I know, Ella and Hannah are still together. They just posted an Instagram together the other day and Ella mentions her girlfriend in the video. I also don't get why they needed to specify gender, it really isn't necessary especially because Ella is bi.

[@meganmcalpine7803]

Okay like seriously, Ella goes out w Hannah Hart doesn’t she ???

[@laurakleckner7741]

- - yes

[@giannabruce7174]

I think they broke up

[@annabrekker6740]

Yes, they are still together, and Ella is bi

[@MaryssolIbarra]

They are still together, Ella is bi and she is annoying (that has nothing to do with her being bi, she just is annoying) At least to my taste. My least favorite video of her (she is just boring in general) is when she tries McDonald's from another country. Ugh. She is just the worst. They keep on forcing us to watch her cause probably she is probably cool in person but it doesn´t translate in video. And yeah, she is a producer soooooo.

[@bums009]

Maryssol Ibarra I like her chill vibe but yeah she never really has anything interesting to say.

[@Mina-nf1oe]

Can you guys make more Unfortunately Ashly episodes

[@kairicook4120]

diamond look I think they are making a season 3 but it's like an actual KZbin show so it takes a while to make

[@Mina-nf1oe]

True

[@asliyase]

Ashly quit a while ago so idk probs not

[@zeeduc2000]

I got "someone fun and relaxed" and my past partners have always been fun but very serious

[@veryverte]

Sorry, this quiz didn't quite work for me - I answered totally honestly, but it said I should be with someone organized and pragmatic when actually my more successful relationships have been with free-spirited, adventurous and energetic people. I crave the spontenaity that I can't do for myself and helping another person organise their life is the only motivation that really helps me organize my own.

[@cyrodiildovah7984]

I got what Ella got lol, which is surprising cause the one guy that was like that, was the only one i dated for two years

[@ellieryder8190]

I got someone driven and energetic! cool I feel like it was pretty spot on thanks buzzfeed! love your videos :D

[@madstylemodest]

Becky I feel you on the surprises thing. I hate surprises to the point where I get ragey because just fUCKING TELL ME WHAT IT IS

[@jamesboone8997]

Took the quiz. It's so spot on that it's scary.

[@aidsomemore]

I just took the quiz and got sensitive and calm too! Interesting coz he is x]

[@jaynekelly8977]

You can't Trump me any of the time

[@cowabummr_dude]

I also date “bad boys” and got the organized and pragmatic but I’ve dated someone like that and it was exhausting being the one to keep things interesting. But at the same time I’m quiet and not myself when I date “bad boys” so here I am as single as ever

[@skylarwhite5325]

I took the quiz and it was so spot on! I’m mind blown right now

[@Victoria_Fama]

It says I need someone driven and energetic to help me with my ambitions which would be very helpful and I have a bf who is like that sometimes so when we are adults it will probably get better

[@graceg9645]

Wow this really worked I got someone fun and relaxed to help calm my anxieties and workaholic tendencies which would be so ideal!!!

[@Ashleyrockett]

I got organized and pragmatic. And my husband is definitely not either of those. I really wish he was organized though. But we've been together 7 years so.... 🤷‍♀️

[@allisontaya6036]

My answer for the quizz was- Someone driven and energetic

[@opi_is_me1576]

I got someone driven and energetic, the description was fucking perfect. That's super eerie

[@tiffanyvaughan3692]

I feel like them talking is what my drunk brain subconsciously mumbles about as I'm falling asleep

[@annabethchase3612]

I got Someone Fun and Relaxed and, although I've never been in a relationship, this is definitely the kind of guy that I think I would be attracted to. And it got me spot on, which is mildly freaky...

[@eval4495]

I got the same result as Becky. My ex-best friend was like that. Not sure how I feel about it 😕 I agree with what they said about being too opposite. I want someone to meet me in the middle and make our differences work.

[@isabellesuggs6777]

I LOVE THESE QUIZ VIDEOS

[@juliadiyeasydiycrafts-howt7672]

Yes, good questions. I'll remember them and I'll ask the guys)) ★★★

[@andnothingelseiswear]

Tried it for fun and it just gave me myself back. We'd never get anything done!!

[@elenasexton3365]

The funny thing is, I was searching for the quiz, and then they said, "It's in the description." So now I don't have to look!

[@megb9642]

i got someone 'sensitive and calm'

[@elenaG1208]

I married organised and pragmatic. and it's what I got in the quiz. It's working out pretty well.

[@FukoIbuki888]

Someone sensitive and calm - and my boyfriend is so yay!

[@everydayuse6329]

I got 'someone sensitive and calm'

[@byebyebergy5590]

Maybe you guys should change the title of this video to the type of "person" you'll date since that's the name of the quiz and it'll probably reach a larger audience 🤔

[@SwehtaOemraw]

Who else is a Libra!!♎♎

[@jadazayas8854]

sanam I AM LIBRA POWER

[@bubbleapple13]

Did anyone else hear her say "Zebra"?

[@alannao2535]

I also got organized and pragmatic... I'll try it and let you know what happens. :)

[@AnStHa]

You got: Someone fun and relaxed You're organised, pragmatic, with some workaholic tendencies. You should team up with a partner who calms your anxieties and encourages you to truly relax and unwind.

[@kalipuja123]

The quiz gives you the same answer no matter what you choose as long as you keep your sign the same.

[@murielh2952]

I got someone fun and relaxed and this is pretty spot on

[@foonz6700]

CAN SOMEONE LINK ME THE BUZZFEED SUICIDE VIDEO? Like the one with the black guy with the OCD and he’s like in love with his best friend and then his dad gets in the hospital!

[@CatVomitX0]

I got happy and energetic, I can agree with that, I’m the complete opposite of that so having an energetic person would feel balanced for me. But they have to be animu or they can gtfo 🙅‍♀️ lol

[@marialuisamadrigal4081]

I should date someone organized and pragmatic...eerily correct

[@_hunnybe]

Driven and energetic - good thing that completely describes my husband! ❤✌🏻

[@jenayagroves2218]

It said I should date someone organised and pragmatic, because I’m creative and fun.

[@xiaolinsmith858]

I can't answer Becky's question never been on a date or been in a relationship... but i believe i got the same results as Becky! It was hard to answer dating questions with scenarios too...

[@soul-od8ug]

It told me i need an energetic person. i hate people like that. i have dated people like that. it was AWFUL. the only relationship that worked and was healthy was with a smart and caring guy

[@venalynn9991]

I got the same thing as Becky. Yeah that’s not weird....

[@marguerit8]

so the test said I need someone driven and energetic. Where should I meet them if I'm to lazy to go out? All that can bring me out of comfort zone is yoga class or meditation satsang. goddamit (｡・//ε//・｡)

[@izzymarieeee]

I got the same lol

[@Amy-mg2um]

Becky looks so cute with that wig. I hope she keeps wearing it 😍❤️

[@junookubo4188]

I got someone relaxed and fun.

[@paulariley2346]

Becky is fucking glowing though. She looks so gorgeous!!!