These Sounds Trigger The Hell Out of a Narcissist

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@annjohnson8437]

All spot on. My narcissistic husband screamed at me to "shut that kid up, I have to work tomorrow" on many occasions when our children were babies. He freaks out now when I laugh and joke around with our adult children. I am supposed to be serious in his presence. I can not stand him. He is pure evil.

[@galaxy98765]

To AnnJohnson: Pardon my language, but WHY THE HELL are you still with him ??? Hello ????? DIVORCE that monster. Go ahead: show your adult children what you are made of !!!!!

[@joancramer3675]

I know a lady who went and divorced her husband of 5 adult kids after 50 yrs The preacher told her it was acceptable due to the abuse. Later he died and left her the home she did also work for. Stayed w/ Daughter n worked JCP❤

[@ericacecchini3998]

OMG! My ex did the same thing….. Told me to SHUT that baby up “ I’m tired “ instead of helping me . They have NO heart whatsoever

[@gracebe235]

@annjohnson8437…..When I knew it was about time for my mom to come home, I had to be ready to look gloomy and down…..if I was laughing, smiling, just being happy, she would scream at me and call me an @$$, or say that I was @$inine. She would still comment on why am I ‘always’ unhappy….but that was better than dealing with being called derogatory names and screamed at for being happy!

[@eeyoresgirl55]

@@galaxy98765 way out of line. Your behavior is unacceptable.

[@galaxy98765]

This is right on. A story my mother told me before she died haunts me to this day. When I was less than one year old, I became very sick. My fever was 105 degrees Fahrenheit. I was screaming of course, and my father couldn't stand my screaming, so he took off. He actually got into the car and drove off. My mom called the doctor and was told to take me up to the hospital immediately. (This was in 1952, I don't know if there were ambulances in our town or not.) How my mom got me to the hospital, which was way over on the other side of town, by herself, is beyond me, but they put me in a tub of very cold water to get my high fever down, and it worked. Me being so sick, though, must have scared my mom a lot. I could have easily died. But my father didn't care, he just didn't want to listen to me screaming. My mom sat up all night with me. I did recover, but for the next 56 years, until the day he died, I was constantly being abused by my father, who was a malignant narcissist. When he got sick with cancer, I took care of him and I did an excellent job, his doctors told me that I was "at the top of my game". The stress of taking care of him for a year almost killed me. I lost 20 pounds just from the stress. He was just as abusive, in even nastier ways, when he was sick with this terminal cancer, than he was before. He died in 2008. I have more peace in my life now, but am still having trouble, because I often think of all the horrible things he did to me, my brother, and my mother. I have learned a lot about narcs and can spot them now, from a mile away. I have HOPE that I will continue to heal, but it is tough. I also beel badly for all of you out there who have also been abused by narcs. Here's hoping we will all heal together. I am 72 years old and don't know how much time I have left to heal. But I have hope. ❤❤❤

[@joancramer3675]

Ask Jesus to help you. Utube about how Jesus dealt with Narcissists.

[@sameralmansory6902]

Read the Final revelation, the Qur'an...what have you got to lose. I know it will help you, God willing 😊

[@engleharddinglefester4285]

Hang in there. I feel your pain.

[@soeleuterio]

Gosto de lembrar de coisas simples que me dão alegria. Caminhar perto da natureza, sentir o cheiro da mata ou do mar. Estar com o pensamento no momento presente. Que Deus permita muitos anos de alegria para você!🙏

[@galaxy98765]

​@@soeleuterioThank you so much for this. I appreciate it very much. This is the best advice I have had in a long time. Bless you. I will follow your advice. With ❤ from Gwen in Washington state near Seattle. 🤗

[@ericacecchini3998]

Also , they always have “ RESENTMENT “ towards anything

[@skinnybear5743]

Triggered big time on special occasions and holidays. Everyone happy 😊 and just have to 🌧️ rain ☔ on the parade.

[@dean314videos9]

MAN!!!!! You know your stuff! May YAH bless you and keep educating us

[@msme7674]

Spot on! Especially "the sigh." Thank you for affirming that I did not imagine it. Please keep your insightful messages coming, Danish.

[@tonipeterson954]

My Narc does a cross between a sigh and a grunt 🙄 ... so I just say "why'd you make that noise?" 😂

[@maritzacaruth9283]

I was in labor with my 3rd child, his first. He went outside to smoke. When he came in my adult son's were laughing (jokingly) about getting tattoos of their new baby brother's birthday which was to be 4/20. He came in and insisted they were laughing at him. He was so belligerent that the nurses threatened to make him leave. I was mortified & still had no clue what I had gotten myself into. I am so grateful for your videos. Only recently have I began to strike up a conversation with anyone around, whenever I hear my covert mother let out an exaggerated, "Huugghhhh." I refuse to be sucked in and triggered anymore 😊

[@semma9727]

Just SMILE and SMIRK, like you know something while staring at them, creates insecurity, curiosity, they hate it.. they feel powerless, they will ask why your smiling, just play dumb and innocent. Depending on the Narc behaviour, don't over do it, .you can even smile when doing dishes, sitting in the car next to them, walking etc, keep smiling and look like you know something they don't, watch them squirm and go crazy.

[@malcolmwaddilove1822]

Very good Danish 110 per cent, they despise calm,tranquilo,silence❤

[@davidstockton196]

My back neighbor is a malignant vindictive narcissist. I’ll never forget him screaming “SHUT UP !!!” In response to the calls of doves in the trees overhead.

[@yhwhzmyking.4243]

wow.

[@jillgates7172]

Really!? Whoa… that’s extreme !

[@rde4017]

That perfectly shows just how moronic those creatures are.

[@fly_ona_wall729]

1. SIGHING, NARCS NEED FEEDBACK. TRIGGERS. 2, CRYING of your child, zero empathy. 3, LAUGHING trigger. Internalizes and takes inner offence. Jealous of your happiness. Need for in sync mood syncronization. 4, SOUND of their own voice. Sound dysmorphia vulnerability. 5, SILENCE in convo which means uncertainty. Feel exposed. Silence is peaceful. They will keep talking and can't stand silence. FILL THE SILENCE.

[@tammyhollis1519]

A narcissist calling card is stonewalling, yet he is fragile when you ignore him. #diabolical

[@Libra22-10]

yes jealous of your happiness. one should eirher be serious or sick

[@jeanaallison7236]

Laughing out loud. He is vile. Do not show ANY emotion. 😢

[@SamanthaJoYo]

My husband has to talk 24/7 and I'm always hyper aware, I can't tune him out (though I absolutely could because it's him talking AT me, not TO me. I spent over 3hrs recently only responding with "yeah.. mmm hmm.. that's crazy.." no real exchange of opinions and ideas..) and it is so exhausting. I just want peace and quiet sometimes. He cannot fathom that concept. There's no such thing as comfortable silence in my home.

[@bridgetsieger2261]

This is absolutely true. So true.

[@AmiraVina-cz3xy]

Not only baby crying When the cats sound Loud too. When the mosquitos bite his skin .. So crazy!!

[@QuinnMarie222]

Yes. Yes. And YES, experienced all of these things for over 3 decades. Trying to find my own happiness in recovery & Healing.

[@michelleaththas659]

You are so right, we were not allowed to laugh in the house, it would make him very angry, and we had to stop.

[@seameology]

Nope. My step-dad would tell us to shut up. But eight kids laughing? He'd scream at us at the top of his lungs.

[@gabim3093]

When I sigh cause I’m a tired mom, my narc says “what’s wrong now? Why are you so negative”

[@yabuzagardens366]

Amazing how they don't even want us to breathe on our own 😂😅🙄😒

[@gurbanilove120]

Or so tired? It is not work apparently like your not allowed to be tired

[@leerobs1118]

Hi from South Africa. Spot on. Strange that they hate the sounds of their own voice but just love to blab blab and blab... I have found the narc in my life hate the noise of a vacuum cleaner. It's wacky I know But there is something in it for sure 🤯

[@KidCity1985]

Is it your cat?

[@J.M.R.0913]

Yep...my covert narc husband will destroy anything that brings me happiness. Then stares at my face to make sure I look unhappy. So, now I keep happiness to myself and I enjoy it very, very much! Also, whenever he wants supply, to be on stage and have me as his audience, that's when he initiates conversation...mostly about him or when he gossips about other people. So now, I just say that I've already heard that story and change the subject. That's the fastest way to shut him up 😂😂😂

[@oolpearl]

Best response is ignorance and silence. I will not be an emotional pillow to cry on for him any more. It is truly detrimental to my health as I am an Empath. So I chose “no contact” other than kids and work. I have a different day routine to avoid the narc and I am getting happier.

[@SamanthaJoYo]

Yes, and covert narc husbands all act as if they hate gossiping. Mine says it's only a female trait blah blah.... But all he does is gossip and complain.. if he isn't doing that, he is telling me about every single interaction he's had throughout the day so I can hear how amazing he sounded in his verbal exchange.. or telling me all the comments he has made on social media.. or talks at me about things he knows I am not interested in whatsoever but he still forces me to listen to him drone on about his overflow of knowledge on them.. it's non stop talking, unless he's playing a game, I get a reprieve. I don't interrupt him on his game but the moment he is done with it, he needs entertainment again and it doesn't matter if I am reading or doing something whether it's housework or cooking, I'm expected to drop what I'm doing and entertain him. I can't take it.

[@SamanthaJoYo]

Also the repeated story thing is so spot on! He tells me the same stories over and over .... And NOW I've started noticing small changes each time that make him look cooler, or smarter, or just more amazing... And I made the mistake of saying "you've told me this and you said that XYZ happened not that..." And man the retaliation is legendary. He can pretend everything is fine but then finds ways he can strike at me that he can deny... Like cutting the cord to my crockpot. Bending the wires to my hand mixer so they no longer work.... The list goes on.. then he gets super drunk and admits it but then sobers up and says he never admitted it... So now I just smile and nod at his repeated stories that change constantly.

[@yabuzagardens366]

​@SamanthaJoYo I hope you get away from him as soon as possible, safely, gain peace & stability & never look back.

[@HemadriJadaun]

Hello, could you please make your next video about growing up with a narcissistic parent with school pressure or just something around studying and school pressure in general? One of the tough things to deal with is managing school with living with a narcissistic parent.

[@abdulwahabsufyan5939]

There isn't a moment of silence when my Parents and brother are in the same room. They keep talking without a pause ⏸️. They also keep asking questions again and again like a 5 year old does.

[@TMoniq]

Their soul is restless and empty. They constantly talk without taking a sip of water or a deep breath. The questions are interrogative as if they want to know what you're thinking at that moment.

[@ragekrgaming5178]

Dear danish pl make a video on how to protect our child of any age from this entire narc family, it will be great relief for many survivors...Thaks from bottom for all support.

[@annjohnson8437]

Yes, please! ❤

[@ericacecchini3998]

Hello Danish! You’re such a Genuine Pure heart ❤️ and I appreciate you for all your help and knowledge regarding narcissism. Your so appreciated.🙏

[@Curious_Crow]

You forget , Sound/music of God prayers . It upset them the most.

[@Spiralclarity]

Because they are possessed. They hate it.

[@larenwarlitner3400]

Brilliant.. Spot on

[@daveporter9222]

One of the narcs I have in my life cannot stand the sound of the microwave beeping or any timer going off.

[@TreasureDeal]

Everyone sighs many times a day. My narc jumped on me right away, what was wrong, what was I mad/sad about and on and on. My saying nothing is wrong, not sad or mad. That would send her into a nut. Claiming I was hiding things from her, I was lying. And yes with the laughter. She couldn't ever see the humor in anything and I was simply over acting for attention. I have always sat with crossed legs. I have always wiggled the foot a bit. That also was a trigger to her that I was upset or mad about something. Nope, just the way I have sat my whole life, I was 73 at the time. So I learned to suppress my sighs. Not to laugh, and to really not jiggle my foot I still check to see who's around me when I sigh or laugh. And I still sit with crossed legs but my feet refuse to wiggle, now that does make me sad, have to let it go.

[@eandsm4620]

Thank you brother! Much needed information. I add one that got to my neighbor. He was on the other side of the fence. I call my cat sometimes by knocking loudly on the storm door. He dropped something and made a grunt noise. Sometimes he is listening to us laughing in our backyard. Must remember to do that more often!!!

[@Dr.ShaziaHanif-f8l]

Very informative respected Sir!

[@aloksrivastava7938]

Getting a disneyland dad/mom is far better than a parent who doesn't want to spend a single moment with you (good or bad), despite having all the time in the world. Also, all narcissists hate good music. They tend to like noisy music, with barely discernible lyrics. They play it out loud so that they can annoy others.

[@jh9912]

My narcissist didn't like it when I called him by his name. He would get angry. Anyone else notice this?

[@suzanne3669]

YES! He says he hates his name. It makes no sense.

[@nean8160]

Yes mine narc husband too ..I am not supposed to take his name as a mark of respect 😂but once I told his name n he was asking me if I am mad🤣😂🤣😂

[@thelaziestbee]

It triggers some people. Mostly cuz it reminds when you were at school and got into the trouble. Calling by name signifies trouble. Usually nothing good comes after it.

[@sarahm3614]

Between 10yo and 17yo my step mother would cause me to cry in the morning. She told me once that it made her feel better. Sick

[@alyahamzah1952]

I'm so sorry sorry for you. I hope that you are in a better place, that your life is filled with laughter, happines and light. As a human and a paediatric doctor, it sickens me when I hear of kids getting abused mentally or physically, especially by people that are supposed to be their guardians. I experienced the crazy behaviours of a narc in my early adulthood and even now that I'm middle aged, I still am trying to heal. I can't fathom how children have to face these monsters at such tender ages. My prayers and best wishes go out to you.

[@sarahm3614]

@@alyahamzah1952 Thank you. It sickens me as well. I am finally in a better place.

[@Spiralclarity]

That's sick and evil. My goodness what on earth? She must have been a malignant narcissist. I have one hanging around the perimeter of my life. He's stalking me and loves to cause pain . I decided not to react. There's something broken in them. 😢

[@sarahm3614]

@@Spiralclarity I agree.

[@thelaziestbee]

My mum hated me laughing. She wasnt a narcissist, she was depressed.

[@eeyoresgirl55]

@@thelaziestbee 🫂 that has to be so difficult for you. I hope you’re in a better place place now.

[@Libra22-10]

3:49 This is so true and challenging..

[@tonipeterson954]

my Narc hated the sound of the kids playing with the orbit tennis (ball on a string on a pole) ... he actually cut the ball off the string ... only a few days after christmas 🙄 ... and then tried to deny it

[@seameology]

Nope. They don't like babies crying. I just had surgery and I had fifteen staples in my stomach and I wasn't even supposed to be lifting her. I asked him to go get her so I could feed her. Nope. After we were divorced, he said that I never taught him how to be a father.

[@cefcat5733]

NOW you are scaring me. I sighed on the phone yesterday and my someone flew into an emotional thing. Oh my. Help. I am sighing, just having a bad cold. Meaningless. The caller applied the sigh, to their abilities, or rather lack of success in a certain situation. This is too much for me. Narcissists in every closet? I am not used to this but, I told them that any noise I make is not a comment designed to hurt anyone. 😢I know all of these things too well. I was not allowed to finish my sentences and began to answer posed questions, being told that I am interrupting. I said, ‚You asked.‘ I had thought that the person had paused for me to answer. I hate this stuff. This is a bad surprise to me. Why is this person so insecure, despite their true achievements? Are they never fulfilled?😢

[@anoodalziyadi4684]

God bless you thankyou for sharing this ❤ it really helps healing and moving forward after dealing with narcissist

[@jillgates7172]

Yes yes yes… always filling the silence was obvious in my former spouse. The sounds of anything that was uplifting and made me happy.. country music, conversations about my fulfilling activities or other friends. He shut down or directed the conversations back to him and what I wasn’t doing. I was so susceptible to this for years 😮 not anymore. 🎉

[@vijayacharya8561]

My maternal Narcissistic grandmother observed me & cousin having fun with each other , my maternal grandmother said you never smile & laugh when you are with us . They obviously suck the energy life force out of it took me 28yrs of age to realize what narcissism is. So many years of my precious i wasted my effort on pleasing such people.

[@Mammabear7]

Yawning and the blinker noise on the car weren’t allowed for me. Major triggers.

[@Phillyphysi]

Excellent❤

[@trishc7828]

brilliant!! thank you for the insights

[@patriciswilson9193]

I felt very enlightened by your commentary about mood synchronicity. Thank you for another great video

[@NickeyVamp]

All of the above describes my ex. Especially the sunglasses.. dark mirrored sunglasses. He wears them all the time, daytime, nighttime almost 24/7, he used them to check out other women in public without me noticing. I could still see his eyes. He eventually admitted this but he told me he needed to look at women younger and more attractive.. probably the most truthful thing in his eyes that he said while with me. Gross. All of those resonate, though. Thank you, Danish, for your help once again. Much ❤

[@aquakid5446]

Number 2.!!! Oh jeez!!! They cant stand it cause it reminds them of pain they run away from!

[@mleecthulhu]

Silence does wonders, too! 😊

[@ericalbright7210]

Christine Albright Brilliant video 🙏... Thank you 🙏...

[@kevinjones2145]

Thank you.

[@prophet1782]

There are cases where partners have hurt babies severely . Even some mothers.

[@xywang21]

Thanks!

[@gracebe235]

Oh Danish, your voice sounds soothing and wonderful! But I do understand the whole thing with not liking the sound of our own voice. The first time I heard a recording of my voice, I was stunned…..I thought, oh my gosh! My voice is deeper sounding and just sounds so foreign to me! We sound different to ourselves in our own head.

[@juliet3813]

My mother ignored my discharging ear infection for over a year. My pillow was a mess in the mornings was vile rotten soft cheese green pus and at night I slept on the dried excretions. By the time I finally got to see a doctor it needed three modified mastiodetomys ( please excuse my spelling) to fix the mess. I half deaf as you can imagine.

[@Spiralclarity]

So sorry for everything you've gone through. That's just awful. Shame on her. ❤

[@mariapontikou4245]

100% 🎉so true

[@karnalsunita90]

So true

[@world-uk2vj]

Extremely dangerous around children,

[@rosieE121]

And "don't roll your eyes"

[@jilliancesternino5315]

I suppressed my own breath all my life until I finally learned the TRUTH. I used to literally tip toe around SILENT. My psychopath parents did a number on my life. At least I survived. My beautiful brother wasn't so lucky. 😪💔❤️‍🔥🙏

[@Dawghome]

Oh yeh, sociopathic dad hated laughing...it triggered painful memories of being bullied but & just as importantly ...he....wasnt in on the joke...so feeling shut out, but...he also shut us out because..blahhhh.

[@yafattahyarazaq3315]

Spot on 💯

[@user-wi9hv2pb2q]

My brother and ex are both narcissists and Both have very strange, disruptive, fake laughs. Usually to highlight an offensive or violent moment like they're shouting at everyone to agree that it is funny.

[@akitajapan1651]

She definitely does not like silence, and she raises the t.v. so loud, it gives me headache. She wants all the attention from every one all the time. And there are far more small noises that ignite anger and complaints...

[@ShenazKhan-w9q]

I guess they get frazzled when woman cries in pain

[@user-wi9hv2pb2q]

yes my ex would scream about my "fake crying" if he hurt me and "fake anger." My desire for children was "bullcrap."

[@Spiralclarity]

They are heartless.😢

[@aparna1170]

my uncle and aunt visited me when I was only 4 years into marriage. They are worse than me in seeing good in others and playing up others. He was doing something in the house and was looking at them studying to see whether they saw him as an Idiot who will do their chores. That is how much he was abused by someone whom he respected and cared about. The sadness he feels around accomplished people is terrible

[@smarternow]

My ex always wore sunglasses. He could look at supply that way too.

[@jeffreyhill4705]

Oh, the laughing, I had to stop, unless it is a comedy TV show. She always assumes I am laughing at her. Also any bell like sound, lately it is almost a violent response. Does this mean anything?

[@prophet1782]

All of it in my narc family. Except Baby Crying.

[@aparna1170]

Sadness looming over everybody. They are almost god like. Making others feel what they feel

[@Libra22-10]

1:51 so true

[@brobasticbroham446]

Stay on topic and firm with boundaries when attempting conflict resolution...sadly this condition they gaslight themselves more than you. If you are for whatever reason choosing to interact with them do this for TEMPORARY resolution it's not "over" until they "win"....tbh this seems like lessons learned in childhood often times the hard way did not effin compute with them.

[@ShenazKhan-w9q]

So when I laugh at tv jokes, he gets agitated n starts stomping or banging walls

[@Spiralclarity]

Wow Geez what a psychopath. I hope u can get away! The stress must be terrible.:⁠-⁠(

[@soeleuterio]

O que eles não suportam nos filhos chorando é a atenção “roubada”, como ousam tomar a atenção que deve ser só deles ?! Chamar o filho de mimado quando tem um problema de saúde real, física ou mental é perverso e covarde. Ensina o filho a sofrer calado! Tem que fazer muita terapia para se curar.

[@namehcvl4884]

When the narc x husband was not in a good mood, I would hear him sighing all over the house. After a while I stopped addressing it. He didn't like that 😮😊

[@phyllischaffin4052]

My narcissistic father gets upset over the sound of me coughing, breathing, etc. If you make a sound, it upsets narcissists. If you go silent, they get uoset. You can't win with these psychos!

[@sofiazuberi]

U r 100 percent right

[@seameology]

The nex got madat me for clinking my fork on my teeth when it was just the two od us in our kitchen. At that point, I couldn't do anything right.

[@thelaziestbee]

I love the sound of crying baby. Because it is not mine.

[@gajananjoshi404]

Yes, this video was useful indeed .... Also it has only strengthened my belief that most of the women are born narcissists ... Of course apart from certain types of narcissistic men as well !!!

[@smarternow]

He wants me miserable and since I got rid of him I am happy😊

[@rahulm2827]

I had a taste in music as a child, specially Dhol music (Indian). The first time I bought a cassette and put it on in the car, my demon father started complaining about the lyrics and said that this type of music is cheap and disgusting. He avtively tried to stop my interest in music, books and sports all my life.

[@Spiralclarity]

Malignant narcissist for sure!!! I had one for a mother who actively squashed any attempt by me to have a good life. Been abused in one way or another my whole life 😢. It gets to the point where I snapped at her. Because of the trauma. I hope you're in a better place now. They are heartless but so good at putting up a front in front of everyone else. It's frustrating.

[@rahulm2827]

@Spiralclarity Yes, he is malignant. And used to get super violent too. And always angry about me and my little brother just being normal kids. Hope you are in a better place as well. Wish you peace.

[@seasonsstarsstudios]

I have way too much experience with the way a narcissist hates babies. My father forced me to take care of my crying youngest sibling when I was 12 and far too young for the responsibility. He was the picture perfect father, but never beyond that. Child rearing was “woman’s work”, beneath his glory as a man and undignified. So of course it was up to me. My mother did the best she could, but even then she relied on me to do at least 75 percent of it. And of course I was never good enough; I was supposed to magically know how to raise a kid, despite loathing babies since preschool and therefore not interested in learning how to do so. Whenever I failed I was screamed at and hit, called a stupid loser whore who was addicted to drugs and alcohol. I was none of these things. I still get called all of those abuses years later and well…it’s still not true. He cared more about presenting an image that was picture perfect. And even in our only family portrait he was hateful, frowning, and looking like he’d rather be anywhere else. I look at myself in that picture and I look dead inside. I was 13 and already left that hollow.

[@Spiralclarity]

Oh my goodness that's terrible what you suffered . I'm so sorry. I pray that you are in a better place now ,but I know going through this leaves deep scars. Hugs.

[@NANETTEMILLER-s8w]

Loud chewing turn signals and windshield wipers on high 😅

[@OlliKillar]

'Oh Jesus, I surrender myself to You, take care of everything!' THE SURRENDER PRAYER Inspired words of Jesus by Father Dolindo Ruotolo. A Servant of God. (Divine Mercy)

[@swapna806]

Hello.. I m from India.. I observed that Narcs get triggered by the sound of holy bell while worshipping God or doing holy ritual...

[@Thecrowwarrior]

I think narc are demonic that's probably why

[@Spyglass2024]

Can't say ever seen Andrew Tate waring dark glasses. I know the most annoying narc that can't sit quietly to watch a movie, riding in a car, always disturbing everyone's enjoyment in the process.

[@aparna1170]

If u empathize with them, u will understand that they don't want to assume anything like, people like them or respect them and get offended later when they realize that people didn't really care. All Swamis tell don't put yourself in same position as b4. They were tormented by people whom they thought loved and cared for them

[@aparna1170]

That is why they want us to be in Sync with them or validate their efforts

[@brobasticbroham446]

Babies crying is always annoying when parents do nothing my instinct is to comfort them and they are not, THAT is what pisses me off not the baby

[@nean8160]

Iam a very happy person whenever I laugh my narc husband thinks i laughing at him🤣n starts fighting with me like a wild dog

[@Spiralclarity]

He sounds like an abusive sociopath,rather than a narcissist. They are very volatile. He's obviously very disturbed. Prayers for you.❤

[@sweswarupini9732]

🎉

[@tamihunt3659]

Monsters

[@fly_ona_wall729]

1. SIGHING, NARCS NEED FEEDBACK. TRIGGERS. 2, CRYING of your child, zero empathy. 3, LAUGHING trigger. Internalizes and takes inner offence. Jealous of your happiness. Need for in sync mood syncronization. 4, SOUND of their own voice. Sound dysmorphia vulnerability. 5, SILENCE in convo which means uncertainty. Feel exposed. Silence is peaceful. They will keep talking and can't stand silence. FILL THE SILENCE.