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[@karmagal78]

I asked my dad if he had shoved the cake in my mom’s face when they married. He came back with “why would I do that to the woman I love?” My brother, when he got married, took a page out of our dad’s book and fed the cake to his new wife and didn’t shove it. Someone asked my brother why he didn’t shove it like everyone does, my brother’s response “she’s beautiful today, as she always is. Why would I incur her wrath?”. My BIL also didn’t do that to my sister and he was asked the same. His response “Her dad would come after me.”

[@FernRoses]

The responses are Frame Worthy 🖼 💫 You have awesome gentleman in your family.

[@naowright9308]

Both my parents and my husband and I did not shove the cake in each other's faces.

[@pamelaspain1602]

You all were raised right❣️ My husband & I didn’t smash cake in each other’s faces when we got married going on 32 yrs ago. We don’t see the humor in it.

[@PAGoTribe1963]

I think I put a small dollop of frosting on my wife's nose. Shoving her face in cake is just stupid.

[@9lovemedo]

That’s a good family

[@crichtonbruce4329]

There is a Redditt story from a bride who repeatedly told her fiancé that he must not smash her face in the cake. She had severe childhood traumas and knew this would be a huge artillery level trigger for her and told him this. So he did it anyway. She immediately walked out of the reception, got in her car and drove away and as soon as she could filed for an annulment. I hope the bride in this clip does the same.

[@Meanne77]

This featured in one of Charlotte's videos

[@AideGDiaz]

​@@Meanne77lol yeah I remember too.

[@TTaddicted]

Wouldn't it be ironic if the bride in this video was the bride who told the story on Reddit?

[@malika154]

​@@TTaddictedthat would be crazy 😂

[@jamesbeeching6138]

This featured on Charlotte's channel

[@Magami31]

I once watch an Indian wedding video that escalate quickly. It was an arrange marriage, bride and groom met at the altar. After the ceremony, they had a feed your spouse rituals. The bride was nervous and she wanted to enlighting the mood, so she smear the food a bit on his cheek. The groom's reaction was swift, he slapped her hard and pushed her. Hard like turn your head hard. The bride was shocked. Everyone was gasping, silence ensue. Suddenly a scream heard from afar. The bride's mother, sitting below the podium, marching up quickly, hiking her dress, screaming abuse toward the groom. She grabbed the shock bride, take the food (rice and chicken) and throw it to the groom, and dragged the bride down the podium. While still screaming abuse words. Another woman tried to intercep (the groom's mother) but the mother, with the rage of a thousand bulls, pushed the woman and continued marching off camera. Behind her, the bride's entourage followed belatedly. The video later explained that these 2 family are very wealthy and they want to joined their bussiness with this marriage. The bride's family sued the groom's family for the price of the wedding and wanted their dowry back.

[@HollyAnneThePaganChaosWitch]

That's a top tier mom right there.

[@MedinipuriTuka036]

I think I know the exact video... I'm an Indian and it's still horrifying how many people use kids like some assets or property. I'm glad the mom actually took action against such insult.

[@malinpeh]

If he did that in public, literally in front of an audience, and at their wedding(!) - just imagine what he might do at home…

[@citrine_parfait]

Nice. She got the happy ending.

[@0622mic]

Thank you Mom for treasuring your daughter above everything

[@SimplyNani7]

My friend got cake in her face on her wedding day and she was devastated. While everyone laughed I immediately ran up to her and rushed her into the bride room and locked the door so the groom couldn't get in. I stayed with her for over an hour while she cried and I helped her get cleaned up. Cake in the face is not funny.

[@ivania321]

because its food, our family saw face smashing as wasting good edible cake. so it was financial decision for one....lol sorry TMI

[@ZombieLeo94]

Are they still together?

[@SimplyNani7]

@@ZombieLeo94 they are. But they almost split up when he shoved cake in their son's face at his 3rd birthday 😬😬😬😬

[@jessislistless]

@@SimplyNani7so, it's a pattern?? I feel bad for her. I hope she can find some happiness in this situation.

[@juliehilton1701]

Totally agree

[@RockyMtnRebecca]

The way that groom was manhandling his bride made me sick to my stomach. If you think he won't do that again, think again. omg I hope that Bride got an annulment.

[@karaamundson3964]

Handing him the divorce papers right there

[@snoopyfan901]

When we met with the pastor before our wedding he brought the cake feeding up to us. He wanted to make sure we didn’t plan on smashing the cake into each others faces. We did not. He told us that the exchanging of cake bites represented a sign of trust between the couple and that he would not perform a ceremony for a couple that intended to smash it.

[@CatrionaCharles]

That is a good man!

[@zetsuki4207]

No no no NO! That cake smashing was borderline assault! He was holding her by the back of the neck, by the looks of it, and forcing her to get on the floor to try to get away! Smacking him in the face to get him to stop!? NO! DIVORCE! Immediately!

[@dorryfrost3915]

Agree, that look on his face was quite sinister and he had a good hold of her neck… he was aggressive and raises red flags .. hope she’s rethinking the marriage.

[@AuLily1]

That wasn't borderline, it was. If he's willing to degrade her in public, it makes me wonder what he's capable of in private. Total humiliation and that others were laughing, makes me wonder what kind of company they keep.

[@Kh4487mydude]

For real! She was clearly NOT okay with that!

[@Kh4487mydude]

If he’s laughing at that what else is he okay forcing her into? Clearly that was not her idea.

[@moonhunter9993]

Nothing borderline about it. He held her by the neck and forced her on her knees

[@daisy9910]

Look at the way that groom is holding the bride by the neck, and look at how hard she is struggling to get away. That right there is how abused women fight for their lives during DV. I hope this bride survives.

[@iamjamilyn]

I agree! She looked like she was desperately fighting him and completely being controlled. IMO that is not the first time he has done something like that to someone smaller than he is. Do you want to see children flung around like that? 😢

[@kellyhendricks7625]

That's all I could look at either. You can see how he is physically controlling her whole body by her neck. How did someone from her family not go punch him?

[@rachhhnicole]

it seems obvious she’s been treated like that before. he’s totally manhandling her & this is something he’s comfortable with in public… i can only imagine behind closed doors

[@Scarlett.Granger]

Hope he got updated to "Ex" reaaally quick. His conduct honestly disgusting and frightening.

[@MySkydawg]

Actually feel sick watching her fight and him grin like he’s proud or excited.

[@Aimz360]

Holy crap, the cake one! That death grip he has on the bride is scary! And the bride fighting for her life as she's struggling to stand and release herself. Nah, I hope that is a hard divorce right there and then. I'd be terrified being near him, that was serious brute force and a major red flag!

[@PunguinYoga]

That was really scary seeing her struggling.

[@jennieb2469]

That just looked like a straight up assault. I hope she used that video in her divorce case.

[@jacolinelankamp1752]

Annullment is also a possibility

[@Bunny_Gee]

Annulment and criminal charges.

[@tabathaalshalhoub1653]

It’s not just the smashing the cake in the face. That’s awful. But it’s also how to wrestled her to the ground and was clearly hurting her. That’s unacceptable and I pray she pressed charges and divorced him.

[@ivania321]

its horrible

[@lotstodo]

Immediate annulment.

[@nayos9287]

I would have grabbed a chair. The aggression just triggers me. My husband put his hands on me like that I'm grabbing the cake knife. Don't care if I look like a psycho. Flight or flight response.

[@ladyjustice1474]

She should have grabbed him by the balls and gave it a hard unrelenting twist.

[@lilmama4426]

​@@nayos9287100% agree.

[@RachaelTheRed]

I have to say, watching and hearing all these stories about husband's smashing wedding cake and their wife's faces really makes me appreciate how respectful my spouse is. When we got married I told him that he was absolutely not allowed to smash cake in my face, and his response was something to the effect of "Ew, no! Why would I ever want to do that to you." Thank goodness I found myself a keeper.

[@jimbobjones9330]

I'm sorry, but that shouldn't be something you should even have to ask. I'm GenX... I married my wife 24 years ago. I never once considered putting cake near her face except for a forkful of it in her mouth (as she did me) Fuck TikTok and social media bullshit. Because I can't think of a single person I knew that even dreamed of doing this bullshit. (The fact you had to set it as a boundary is astounding to me -- but glad you found someone with basic human decency). And keep in mind that I'm normally one who hates the idiotic "kids today" rhetoric, but this nonsense belongs entirely to Millennials and GenZ. Because I'm thinking back on people I saw married in my generation, and this wasn''t something anyone even considered or had to worry about. (And keep in mind that I know perfectly well the issues with my generation -- just that this stupid cake thing seems to be a by-product of "viral video" culture, which didn't exist when I got married. I'm pretty sure if it had, my generation would have been doing the same damn nonsense)

[@ScarletBrimstone]

​@jimbobjones9330 right?! I'm a xennial(sorry) and I didn't even have to tell my husband not to shove cake in my face. He treats me like a queen to this day. I'm lucky to have him.

[@iidentifyasadoctor]

Good for you! It's hard to find a keeper anymore! My husband told me he would ONLY smash cake in my face if i smashed cake in his first. No cake was smashed & we are still married!

[@rachhhnicole]

same! he didn’t want to ruin my dress or makeup. doesn’t think it’s funny eirher

[@boogermaiden]

Why is this a thing in America???

[@nicolorange]

As a hairstylist and makeup artist, I would be devastated to see the hours of work, usually done early morning, ruined in a few seconds. I couldn't imagine how the bride feels having spent hundreds of dollars on it. Thanks for another entertaining video!

[@sherrinunya4079]

It's not just the outward appearance ruined. It's the forever trust, completely broken!

[@randomgeneration7781]

I was assisting a planner with a wedding that went south real fast: Both the groom and bride came from large families and they were going all out because this was the first white wedding on the groom's side. I don't remember a lot of it because I was running back and forth at the planner's request to make sure everything went off without a hitch. I finally got a minute to sit down and have a glass of soda as the cake cutting commenced. Then the room fell silent as the groom held up the first slice of cake and clumsily got his bride across the ear. And then a thunderous "AAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!" filled the room as his grandmother, his mother, all his aunties, her grandmother, her mother and all her aunties rose as one and threw their shoes at him. Not the flipflops, mind, but actual heeled shoes. This fool didn't duck in time as shoes were flying at him from all corners of the ballroom, some hitting the ground short of the stage, some bouncing off the stage, some landing in the cake (a few actually took out the cake), but a good few catching him in the arm and shoulders. Everyone was yelling, youths were ducking to avoid getting caught in the crossfire, and the staff were pressed against the walls like "shiiiiiit not getting paid to die today." I turned and asked the planner, "Should we do something?" and she just said, "We're on break. Finish your soda."

[@lindapatton4478]

Wow. He got owned by every woman in the room.

[@artemisia4718]

The only appropriate response!

[@meinhartfrancois]

I love how women from BOTH families came together! But where did he get this idea?? Also love how the kids had to duck & the servers were staring wide-eyed and your boss just pulled on her soda like she's Clint Eastwood in a western & tells you "that's how it goes sometimes, kid" hahaha Thank you for sharing this story!

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

That’s just freaking awesome! Much more entertaining than this piece of foolishness.

[@randomgeneration7781]

@@meinhartfrancois This is third or fourth-hand info, but the planner later told me that according to one of the groom's cousins, two of the groomsmen were his friends and had told him to do it ("it's not a white wedding if the bride doesn't get cake on her face"); the groom had been extra nervous so instead of getting it on her face he fumbled and smashed cake into her ear - he was lucky the night didn't end in emergency. Both sides were very traditional and in their eyes, the bride's family just watched this horrid young man assault their daughter, while the groom's family just watched their idiot son bring shame upon them all by assaulting a girl. So without needing to consult each other, all the shoes came off. It's stories like these that make me glad I got to assist at weddings, most days it's all perfectly boring, but others is a brilliant shitshow that you'll be telling for years to come.

[@angelofmusic1992]

I’ve heard a couple of wedding cake smashing stories that made me uncomfortable, but this one where the groom is gleefully dragging the bride across the ground has got to be the worst. Like, dude, she doesn’t want to do it, why are you forcing her? Yeesh.

[@ivania321]

its uncomfortable to watch...again, why do we normalize this? :(

[@TheB016]

Public display of domestic violence

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

My dad says it became a thing when the show “America’s Funniest Home Videos” was popular and showed a video of it, and people started copying it - hoping to be shown on TV. And they were, and it blew up. It was primarily looked upon as a low class behaviour.

[@framich2000]

I hope she asks for a divorce

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

@@ivania321 The original (and ongoing) fault lies upon the media. The channel that shows things like “90 Day Fiancé” etc are the worst influences, normalising the most dysfunctional, unhinged people and relationships.

[@LesleyHayes4]

Charlotte: “That’s a $50 lipstick. It’s no big deal.” Me: *cries when her $12.99 lipstick gets ruined*

[@TheBlkKat]

I am very much "Joey doesn't share food" when it comes to my make-up and I sure as hell wouldn't share a lipstick that costs $50 and would absolutely be rage fueled if someone just helped themselves to any bit of my stash. It is an "absolutely not" for me 😅

[@HoneyBeeCrafts]

Lmao my lipstick is chapstick with tint from the dollar tree.

[@mrs.b.6908]

Yeah, $50 lipstick IS something to get upset about if somebody ruins it and won't even apologize. That's $50 down the drain and maybe you don't have the funds to replace it.

[@krystalynkersey]

@@mrs.b.6908 lol I wouldn’t say the tip of the lipstick missing is ruined as that’s what’s going to happen anyway when you use it. Sharing lip products is disgusting though, I don’t want people’s herpes.

[@rosetryon8672]

Price shouldn't matter when it comes to ruining someone's belongings! Like thay i would cry over something that was worth 5$.

[@_thepinkcanary]

I think we all need a part two of the wedding cake situation on hand here. Please tell me she didn’t stay with him. That was down right abuse- triggering. The two girls on the end of this segment; nothing but disrespect.

[@Scarlett.Granger]

Yep, his status should immediately change to "ex husband". Like if that's how he treats her IN F*ING FRONT OF PEOPLE ON A FESTIVE OCCASION i surely do not want to know what happens when nobody is there and watching

[@JennA-uf6lo]

Yeah, I’m not seeing anything in the bride’s behavior that implies anything coming close to consent. Shame on the people who just sat and laughed, and I really hope she doesn’t/didn’t stick around.

[@michelleikoma2953]

That cake smash was a violent assault. I would have been horrified and screaming at that. Holy shit!

[@dreamysheepstudios]

I’ve never EVER understood the cake smashing being a thing at weddings, ESPECIALLY since brides usually spend HOURS doing their hair and makeup, often getting them done professionally for their special day. And that’s just touching on that subject. The way that groom literally had her in a death grip and thinking it’s so funny to harm someone, let alone your loved one, is BEYOND me. I really do hope that lady is safe and away from such abuse

[@sarahu5217]

The way that guy was holding his new wife by the back of her neck has me so worried for her safety.

[@Proudtobegerman]

Thought the same

[@erikarussell1142]

Yeah… red flag, RED FLAG!!! 🚩🚩🚩

[@ladyscarlette6289]

not just her neck, its the base of her skull and her hair too, like jesus christ. and the way she was trying to get out of his hold, thats a fuck no for me. Id be out of there so fast

[@Jmg5594]

Disagree I think she is gorgeous as always but don’t think the light is complimentary

[@Glitterati_b]

@@Jmg5594I believe you were replying yo the comment above this.

[@AmythystRaine]

The wedding cake smash... This looks more like an assault than a harmless prank. I would love to know the whole story, and what happened to this couple.

[@janebaker4912]

Imagine what hed do to you behind closed doors

[@ccee1985]

Omg I thought exactly the same thing! That was basically a fight. I found it disturbing and really wanted to see how she was after.

[@twocathome399]

the way he was so comfortable doing all that to her and infront of friends and family could mean he’s done similar things before 😭

[@happychaosofthenorth]

The clip made me cry a little. That wasn't a cake smashing, that was straight up assault and abuse. I hope she ran and never looked back.

[@Scarlett.Granger]

I'd love to know that she got an annulment

[@1231234mimi]

When she said it’s just a $50 lipstick I almost choked! Lol. If I spent that much on a lipstick I’m treating it like my first born child or gold🤣

[@MsFeleyra]

For the woman that was taking care of five kids and caught her boyfriend cheating, yes I would be mad at the guy’s other girlfriend but she should be mad at the guy too. He’s the one who ultimately cheated on her.

[@UrbanForse22]

anyone else bothered that she’s saying all this in front of the kids? 😬

[@L.K.Rydens]

I thought the same, but in one of the parts she says it didn't happen to her, it happened to her friend, do it's not his/the woman of the stories kids 😊

[@Duchess1223]

Thisssssssss! Like if your SO is a POS, that's on you. You had kids with them? That's on you. Be a responsible adult and let your children form their own conclusions about their parents without poisoning their minds. If the parent is that bad, the kid will figure it out ​@@UrbanForse22

[@TheRetromantic81]

I asked the man I married not to do the cake smashing thing nearly 15 years ago and he had agreed it was crass...but I know it's been going on since long before that--and the fact that it still is blows my mind. That clip was the worst one I've EVER seen. It looked like straight-up abuse. The lady responding to it made an excellent point about the fact that we wouldn't accept that scenario in a bar, so why at a wedding!?

[@AB-mx1de]

💯!!

[@aisonhickman4684]

Thank you for skipping the “spider in ear” part 2! I was ready to fast forward over that part but you did it for me 😂 much appreciated!

[@amberjuneneill5586]

Oh no what happened 😮😂

[@emilybrinegar7011]

My husband and I did the cake thing at our wedding. We had discussed it beforehand and it was less smashing and more "let me get a little frosting on the corner of your mouth and then feed you nicely." These people are going in hard like they're trying to suffocate the other person, which is not okay.

[@swordsandstitches3004]

Yes cake smash is cute with mutual consent, when it’s so aggressive it’s just gross

[@VixLeu]

To be fair to the lipstick lady, as someone who does first-aid trainings and works with kids... we're taught from a young age to not share certain things. Makeup being one of them due to the germ transfers. So ... I would be HELLA PISSED if someone used my makeup, especially my lipstick, due to the cross-contamination.

[@NorthernShinigami]

my thoughts exactly. I don't mind sharing, but not stuff that goes directly on my lips and possibly into my mouth. Like, no.

[@kira12326]

She seemed to be more pissed that she wrecked it and lied about it, but I would also be mad just at someone using mine. I wouldn't share makeup that goes on my mouth or eyes even before the pandemic!😖

[@VixLeu]

@@kira12326 Oh, for sure and not just lied, but didn't say anything, waiting for her to find out, which makes it worse. Then double-downed and lied after.

[@soude85]

She broke off the tip of a new lipstick on the wedding day, lied about it and insulted the owner in the end-I would never talk to her again!

[@winterso8589]

A huge part missed in this assessment is the fact the "friend" who used the new lipstick did so as a power/control move. Dont tell me ur friends and dont have a feel for how ur friends r with certain things. She knew it would get under her skin and did so anyways and seemingly on an important day for the OP. Benefit of the doubt, if the user truly "didnt know," the natural response is surprise followed by an apology. Watch the clip back and you'll see neither of these emotions r expressed; that girl new what she was doing.

[@gracehowell.]

My aunt had a legit fear of moths getting into hear ears while she slept, so her husband went around to various hairdressers until he found one which still had those little cap things they used to put over people's ears while doing perms or whatever. Then he put them in a nice box and gave them to her for her birthday. The things that man did for her were truly romantic. And I can confirm that moths will fly into your ear during the night, no matter how dark it is. It happened to me, and it was horrible.

[@CyberKat04]

My cousin's ex wife,who was far along in her pregnancy of their only child,begged him all day not to smash cake in her face. He did it anyway. She ran to the bathroom and spent over 30 minutes bawling in the bathroom while we tried to clean her up as best we could. To the credit of my family,he got chewed out for pulling the stunt from everyone. They lasted less than a year.

[@coyboybc]

She should have left asap and got an annulment

[@Loraartistry]

That bride looked like she was fighting for her life wtf

[@Garbeaux.]

Looking at what the man wore to the wedding tells me everything I need to know about him. I don’t care if formal wear or dressing up is not your style. People seem to forget marriage ceremonies are literally a ritual where decorum is of upmost importance. Treat it with the respect it deserves. I know the cake incident happened at the the reception but customs and formalities are still taking place.

[@rachhhnicole]

strange how some traditions have been taken for granted or disrespected like this. i don’t get it. it’s incredibly tacky & totally send the message that you’re not taking it seriously 🤮

[@breakfast_with_spliffany]

What shocks me most about the cake smashing, is whether she consented or not, NOBODY spoke up. I assume nobody knew this was going to happen.... but f'real I would be F*CKING LIVID if not one person shouted anything like "stop" "what's wrong with you" "that's abuse bro".....

[@EmilyLennoxchannel]

Totally agree! I can't help but think; was her parents there watching him grab the back of her neck like that and holding her down? Look at the video, look at her legs struggling, she's clearly not laughing and joking around, she looks like she was being forcefully held down and attached while the husband smiled and laughed to the audience. If that was me on my wedding day my dad would have been between us in a second and knocking the husband out. How did no one step in? His face looks demonic smiling as he holds her down!

[@user-blob]

THIS 100%. That video was unbelievable 🤢

[@breakfast_with_spliffany]

@@EmilyLennoxchannel LITERALLY THO! If I ever saw a manchild handling my daughter that way, there would be lives lost. Hands down this was abuse.

[@assignments5094]

@@EmilyLennoxchannelyou’re thinking the same thing I’ve been thinking. Where was her dad? My dad would have pulled him off me and knocked him to the ground if he saw someone man handle me like that.

[@ShoreFell]

Damn bro was PISSSSED he threw everything he had into that and boy oh boy was it satisfying to watch. The aim was absolutely impeccable

[@SassyST]

Helpful hint from an admittedly highly sensitive person: if a child says something about your appearance that hurts your feelings, it’s perfectly acceptable, to say “That hurt my feelings,” even if that child isn’t yours. Even the youngest of children understand what hurt feelings feel like and most will apologize. Then you’ve helped that child learn a good lesson. On the other hand, the kids who are being rude just for the sake of being rude, for them still say it but then just turn and walk away. Getting zero attention after being rude is a good lesson too! 😁

[@jenniferwilliams9548]

Yes you are right, because they have to learn. My daughter understood at a young age don't say anything about looks period to anyone. Even if she thinks it's a compliment, until she truly knew the difference between a back handed compliment and compliment, just don't

[@rachhhnicole]

absolutely, this is what we teach our 2+ yr olds in preschool!

[@kadajsnightqueen]

I’d say that last “cake smash” was richly deserved. Ruining some else’s cake for a TikTok is never okay. That being said, whether that wedding cake smash was approved by the bride or not, look at how she’s fighting it and he’s jerking her around. I guarantee she didn’t expect to be treated so roughly by her brand new husband, and him exalting over it like that is a whole cathedral’s worth of alarm bells.

[@tracyroweauthor]

hopefully brand new EX husband.

[@TheAshesvondust]

The way he's holding her by the nape and pushing on her face, I would bet she was bruised the next day. Just the holding her by the neck part is enough for charges, I don't know how anyone could be ok with this.

[@tracyroweauthor]

@@TheAshesvondust I don't know how all those people just sat there and laughed

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

It’s full on assault. I feel like these types of “men” are the “bros” at frat parties in college. Hazing all the younger people (to the point of serious trauma) b/c they’re told it’s “funny”. Clearly they’ve never been told it’s not, nor had any kind of repercussions from their disgusting and abusive actions. How both sides of the family are okay with this? It’s beyond me. So basically your telling me that her mom and dad, his parents, all the siblings, and her grandma were okay with something like this?! I don’t think so. He needs to have his butt kicked.

[@abigailbeardshaw4196]

And it was so aggressive too. If I didn’t know any better, I should have thought that was a stranger attacking her.

[@libbybeliveau7506]

If that guy physically treats her like that on their wedding day, I don't want to know how he uses his body against her on other days...or during heated moments.

[@sherrinunya4079]

I've been in an abusive marriage. That asshole was straight out beating her down. That was pure terror in her struggle to get away from him. I know this as sure as I know my name. I'd put a hit out on him.

[@natk9438]

The story about the cake smashing was so hard to watch. It looked more like he was assauting her while people who are supposed to care about her just watch and cheer. I felt sick just watching it. Yuck. Shame on him.

[@jasminecollins897]

He literally was assaulting her in front of all their loved ones. That's the thing that gets me. We have this societal discomfort with calling that assault, because the context is so surreal, but it absolutely is. If someone grabs you and does things to you against your will, no matter why or where, it's assault.

[@natk9438]

@@jasminecollins897 agreed! That's what made it so sickening to me too... they're just watching as if she deserves it. So so disgusting.

[@nommh]

A man who meets his beautifully dressed bride in jeans and sweatshirt and one of those nasty caps should be left standing alone. Betting on humiliating and brutalizing her for a bet is nothing but assault.

[@HA-zx2pk]

Ok I want to clarify his attire really quick. This is a redneck wedding. Complete with button up dress shirt, blue jeans, and the hat he more than likely wore on the day they met/fell in love... Part of me wants to leave room that maybe she's fighting like the redneck girl she is after smashing some cake on him, but the other part of me... I don't like how he drug her either, I just wanted to clarify it isn't just blue jeans and a sweat shirt... that's a redneck wedding.

[@TexasVagabond]

@@HA-zx2pkYeah, I have a feeling it was a mutual decision. She is obviously trying very hard to smash cake in his face as well. Also, the commentator talks about his hat being worn backwards when in the video that was clearly done during the struggle. It seems the woman just wanted to hound on this white couple for having a “low class” wedding. When ultimately it’s about them and not her at all. That being said, I don’t like the stupid cake in the face tradition, but many couples I know both parties really looked forward to it to see who could get the most cake on their partner’s face.

[@spoonfulofsalt]

I'm going to be *that* person. Basing my assumptions of their character off of the date on the video, it doesn't surprise me in the slightest that the groom is already treating the bride like this (or that he's dressed the way he is).

[@HA-zx2pk]

@@TexasVagabond for sure. I've seen a couple give each other a cake bath... my side of things? I don't want to spend a lot of money and get my face covered. Why would I do it to him? Idk that's my stance. I'll talk it over with him before that time comes, though. Boundaries.

[@JessicaRabbit2495]

How is almost no one talking about the arm on that graduate in that last clip!? Bro threw that cake with the same power as the jet streams that took out Tom Hollands stunt double! Girl got knocked tf out 😂

[@Mrs.NRalphs]

I came to the comments looking for some on the graduate. He took her out. I bet they are extended family that are annoying and rude and he had enough of their bs. Nice shot

[@azuropixie5703]

It took me a while to realize who it was that got smashed, but i assume it was the two rude girls who contaminated the cake with their fingers and saliva?

[@AlaskanCookie]

I would honestly leave and call the police for assault. If anyone handled me like that I’d be done. File for divorce immediately.

[@dime9316]

Exactly and they have it on video!!

[@LisaIsHappyToBeSane]

That girl getting cake smashed in her face isn't having fun. She looks mad. Look how much force he is holding her with. That is man handling, and in any other situation, he would go to jail for that, so.... why is anyone laughing at that? I would instantly get an annulment.

[@moonhunter9993]

I would get a bucket of water and soak him afterwards

[@theoriginalbridgetconnors]

I'd have him arrested for assault.

[@janebaker4912]

Its assult.

[@naomilorentzen4483]

To the whole cake smashing thing.. my husband and I gently smooshed it into each others faces but it was agreed upon and not smashed by any means. That’s so cruel to someone you’d want to spend forever with. Don’t do that to your person.

[@ramachandra776]

Imagine taking care of your husband's children and his brother's children as well but then finding out that he is cheating on you . Some men really are born ungrateful . Wonder how his relationship with his own mother was . 🤔

[@erikarussell1142]

He’s for the STREETS!!!

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

It's insufferable, but how did she not pick up on something being off for so long? Not saying she deserves it, but she needs to reattune herself to her instincts in a major way.

[@melissasaint3283]

​@@erikarussell1142eugh, even the streets dont want that ratchet old donkey. He's for the sewer.

[@rowdybliss]

He wasn’t her husband. They were not married. I feel badly for anyone that gets cheated on, but this is a woman who had three babies with a man, quit her job to take care of them AND his extended family, stayed in a house bought in his name only, and then is surprised when her boyfriend exercised his freedom in the arms of another woman… and instead of being mad at the man, she’s directing all her anger at the home wrecker? I smell a PickMe.

[@GalinaEv]

@@rowdybliss i was on her side till she started bashing the other girl - that;s none of your business what she does with her husband - watch your man instead.

[@faeangel7649]

If a man is willing to literally assult his wife in front of a crowd just to get cake on her face, I'm legitimately scared for what he'd be willing to do to get his way in private.

[@tracyroweauthor]

I know right? Makes me wonder if the people in the crowd were afraid of him too.

[@PunguinYoga]

@@tracyroweauthor Could be. Bullies often remain bullies because no one will stand up to them.

[@irerin]

The amount of times I yelled "✨Charlotte✨it is a PS FIIIIIIVE"

[@ghostcrackers]

I laughed so hard at those two brats in the end getting decked by the cake they ruined 😂

[@mirandacarson7068]

I had to rewatch it at least three times 😂 I wish both brats landed flat on the floor

[@HighAsHeckPriestess]

He didn't just smash the cake. That would be shitty enough. But he straight up battered her in front of their friends and family and literally everyone took it as a joke. That's grounds for divorce in my book. It's why I don't want a wedding.

[@paulagoeringer9466]

Yes. That's straight up assault. He should have been arrested.

[@SolMari1976]

Thank you Charlotte for not finishing that story of the spider. Appreciate it

[@OlgaWhatserface]

$50 lipstick is kind of a big deal when we don’t make too much money yet 😢 I’d either fight someone or bawl if they ruined my lipstick after I went out of my way to splurge on a favorite lipstick.

[@rayajayce2034]

Plus, what if the owner of the lipstick is a germaphobe? I didn't really see how the lipstick was ruined though in the clip.

[@mxmox]

Plus the make up look was probably carefully planned and nobody has time to go run off and buy a new lipstick right before the ceremony. It’s not an impossible problem to solve, but it is INCREDIBLY annoying on such a highly stressful day! That girls attitude, too! The audacity!!! Who uses other people’s lipsticks especially brand new ones?!?!?!?! 😭

[@Maiden_to_mother]

I’m a broke as bitch, which is why I’d never consider a $50 lipstick used once by a friend as being “ruined”

[@dustinriley8059]

Charlotte often does give "clueless rich people vibes." She's kind of a "let them eat cake" person now. No malice in it, just cluelessness.

[@softcandy22]

Charlotte does often talk about picking up the bill for other people/ groups too. For me, making minimum wage with no savings and living in a very expensive city, that's not even an option sadly

[@rebeccaernette1749]

13:26 me and my husband on our wedding day decided no cake throwing or cake smashing. We took the icing on the cake with one finger each and rubbed it on each others noses, just to be a little silly. We AGREED, for this to happen and got a couple cute photos out of it. No tackling people on their wedding day into cakes

[@lisamelroy2855]

I think that's cute, a little icing on the nose. Anything more, if it's not consensual, don't do it!!!

[@binkyjosephina2814]

Very similar to me and my hubby, although we didn’t really talk about it before… we got a really cute pic of him trying to lick the icing off my nose, and another of him with a scrunched face and me wiping some icing off and his mom wiping the other side of his face. It was silly, not aggressive in the slightest. I hate it when it’s mean and aggressive, there should be no part of you that wants to be that way with your new spouse.

[@rebeccaernette1749]

@@lisamelroy2855 exactly

[@rebeccaernette1749]

@binkyjosephina2814 that's adorable, and youre right It's all about the intent

[@A_Rose_From_Concrete]

This!! I have always said "Why not just put icing on their nose or cheek?" It's waaay better

[@_mickii8214]

The picture above this video for me is perfect. Its a craiglist ad of someone asking a person to run into a their sisters wedding naked and ruin it and then this videos thumbnail is just that 😂😂

[@blahbloop6310]

Doesn't matter how much the lipstick costs, Charlotte. You don't borrow something from someone, destroy it, then gaslight them about doing so, on top of throwing unnecessary shade at the person you wronged. The girl probably got more angry with her because she kept lying to her face and not admitting what she did. It's understandable why someone would be f*ckin annoyed at that point.

[@MidniteScrEEmah19]

Thank you for this truth sir/madam. It needed to be said

[@stephanier2165]

Yeah, if she ruined the tip she had to have done something to it. Normal wear wouldn't have done that.

[@ryath1030]

This is one thing I do not agree with Charlotte on. because she has money and her family has money. She is always saying, oh it's only $50 or It's only a $300 camera, It's not worth the time arguing. Not everything is about money, even if it is about money, it's still someone else's stuff/money. You are 100% right, it's not just about the lipstick. It was the fact she gaslighted her and kept lying to her face about it. Most of us women love to share and we love to help other women out. I highly doubt she was upset over her using the lipstick. She was upset because she lied about destroying it. A 50.00 Charlotte Tilbury lipstick is a lot, I've never spent that much on lipstick and I make a decent wage but I'm still Frugal with my money. I know lots of women who will save up for 3 months just to buy a $60 eye shadow palette. When you add in minimum wage or have kids, not everyone has $50 or $60 to splurge.

[@SimplyNani7]

Never ever ever share makeup. So many germs 😖

[@mariehope322]

Yeah the most atrocious thing about this isnt the two lipstick girls who both acted in the wrong in my opinion... It's about the horribly privileged statement that a $50 lipstick aint shit... Da fuck. I know she didnt really think about what she said but that's almost the grossiest part. She was trying to saying no lipstick is worth the fight I know but🤮.

[@Carey86]

If I were at a wedding and the groom was forcing the bride to the cake so he could smash it in her face, I 100% would step in & tell him he’s being an ass, knock it off. That video made me so uncomfortable. Such a stupid thing to do at your wedding. The graduation party cake smashing was 100% justified.🎂 Also - I’d be pissed too if someone ruined my $50 lipstick. I’d never pay $50 for lipstick so this is rich people problems!😂

[@lindapatton4478]

Smashing cake into the brides face is so wrong. Throwing a ruined graduation cake at the ones who ruined it - well justified.

[@victoriahoward8244]

I’ve been married twice. Neither time was caked smashed in each other’s faces. Respect. Even if the first one didn’t work out. ❤

[@jamilahzahirahhadid]

My petty revenge to one of my bullies (the popular girl) was using the student directory to invite the entire grade of ours and the grade above to a pool party at her house. My father was so supportive he took me for a drive by to see the turnout, neighborhood was FULL of cars. Though I feel badly for the inconvenience of the other kids, I will always be satisfied knowing she got an earful from her parents.

[@aphroditestan]

LMAO I love that ur dad circled the block for you😂 10/10 perfect petty revenge

[@sonamytmnt9783]

YES! So good!❤

[@Mike90317]

So evil. Love it.

[@widowgirl1254]

lol 😂😂

[@itsjustmaddisen]

Honestly I love that for you lol

[@mckenziepyatt8203]

I litterally said, "Thank You Charlotte!" Out loud when you said you weren't gonna finish that spider video.😂 I was so close to clicking off cause i couldn't handle it but i really didnt want to. Im so glad you did.

[@justwonder1404]

Charlotte really be looking out for us.

[@xxkerosenexkidxx]

Omg same...I was eating lunch 😣

[@Unstoppable_Unicorn]

SAMMEEE

[@mirandarobinson6005]

Same!

[@NSUDemon14]

Long story short, she wears earplugs to sleep.

[@riicka1337]

That was the most SAVAGE cake throw ever in the end

[@dawnchesbro4189]

This cake smashing trend needs to stop. If you are getting married and really don't want your partner to smash cake on you, please tell your bridesmaids/groomsmen that you don't want it to happen so you have backup in these situations. Have them keep an ear open at the ceremony and reception. Sometimes they can prevent situations. Though IMO if your future partner is willing to humiliate you against your express wishes, you absolutely deserve better.

[@InHimAlone]

Thank you Charlotte for cutting off the spider story when I didn't have the strength to do it myself. You knew what was best for us and took action.

[@amandabrighouse8626]

Even if you don't look as good in person you set a HIGH bar. You're stunning.

[@_twisty_]

Her not finishing the first video had me laughing my ass off because bestie I didn't want to finish the video either! I DID NOT WANT TO KNOW EITHER CHARLOTTE😭😂❤

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

😝 Auntie Charlotte is so good and vigilant about what goes into our minds ❤

[@raimeyewens7518]

They interviewed that first lady with the ear bug on the radio (98.9 the Rock) last week. It was the kind of story that makes you feel phantom itching on your head lol. 😬

[@bunny_0288]

I would have left the wedding after that cake smashing happened. That looked so violent!

[@MadMadamGrimm]

Thankfully my husband and I both agreed no cake smashing in our faces. My mom made red velvet cake for our wedding and honestly there was no way we were going to waste good cake ❤

[@KaidaLis]

Same. My Aunt made the cake for us and it took her hours and my dress had been redesigned by the pastor's wife to absolute perfection and I would have lost it if it had been ruined. My husband knew all of this going in and would never risk my anger lolol, but seriously though he's a real gentleman and I wouldn't have married anyone else

[@louisejohnson6057]

$50 may not be a big deal to you Charlotte, but it's a good chunk of change to me, and I'm sure I'm not alone. It's also hella unsanitary to use someone else's lipstick, and it's really rude not to ask first.

[@lotstodo]

Yes.

[@ryath1030]

I don't know why she does this a lot in her videos. Just because she has money and was born into a wealthy family doesn't mean nobody else cares about if their stuff is being destroyed. I just posted another comment how sometimes it takes women 3 or 4 months to save up enough money to buy a $60 eyeshadow palette. When you add in minimum wage or having kids into the mixed 50 to 60 dollars is a lot

[@marebm]

@@ryath1030 I think what you say is quite unfair tbh. Charlotte talks a lot about all the shitty jobs she did to pay bills. She also did not say " It's 50$ it is nothing" it was quite obvious that her comment was about 50$ in relation to talking down to friends like this. In the clip it is obvious that the girl with the lipstick goes a little bridezilla and the other one is trying to keep things constructive, even though she is talked to like that. In my opinion Charlotte is just not very materialistic, thats why she said that.

[@cindylewwho]

@@marebmAhhh, no 🙄!!

[@alysamoon9234]

@@marebm yeah it’s weird how someone would just assume she was “born into wealth” like what?? and if you’re buying a 50$ lipstick knowing you’re not doing well financially then that’s kind of on you

[@YourAdventChild]

I've rarely seen a bride resist THIS MUCH against a cake smashing. I hope she got shit annulled, I'm so sad for her.

[@sweetie1986]

At our wedding, the cake cutting set wasn’t placed at the table and the photo/videographers were waiting, the song was playing, so we literally grabbed a fork off the head table and dug in! It was funny, it was great, and we didn’t resort to the smash. That’s not fun or funny, but watching us digging into a cake with forks and laughing the whole time like little kids sneaking a little dessert late at night was so wholesome and fun ❤

[@Wakenbaketv]

Thank you so much for not continuing that video. This is one of my biggest fears, I’m terrified of spiders and sometimes I can’t sleep bc I’m so worried about it happening despite my house being OCD clean. I never miss a video of yours I didn’t wanna have to skip!!! You’re the best ily ❤️❤️❤️

[@jeremiahbennett1979]

The cake smashing at the end. They fucked around, they found out. Gotta love it.

[@JustxAxLittlexMemory]

Also there's a huge difference between getting a little frosting on your new wife's nose "oh, oops! haha!" and smashing her face with an entire slice of cake...or the entire cake.

[@januarysidra6166]

Charlotte, a $50 lipstick IS a big deal to regular people.

[@tabathaalshalhoub1653]

That was my response!! Like, $50 just for lipstick?! How insane! I think $2 for chapstick is expensive lol

[@ivania321]

she just wanted her to admit that she's lucifer's daughter :D

[@kanditraxel]

Thank you. I was like, "Ummm...it's ONLY a $50 lipstick??? We just had to drop our HEALTH INSURANCE because things have gotten so expensive...." I wish I could so casually say that. I usually don't get irritated by anything Charlotte says, but yeah....

[@divahc1]

$ 50 for lipstick? No doubt, Charlotte works hard and deserves all she has. But, just be careful with what you say and how you say it.

[@lomoliving5528]

Right? I make a pretty good living and don't buy $50 lipsticks bc, uhm, why is it so expensive!? And if someone broke it, I would also be super mad especially right before the event that I probably bought that ridiculously expensive lipstick for! After a rewatch, it looks like the other girl just used the lipstick. I don't know.

[@420shortie8]

I told my fiance I don't want to do the whole cake smashing when we have our wedding. He agreed and said the only thing he had in mind was getting a little frosting on his fingertip and wiping on the tip of my nose and to do the same to him. I agree because that's actually cute and to me it doesn't scream disrespect. More like light playful and sweet.

[@Ater_Draco]

First story - invest in a silk sleep bonnet. That'll stop your ears becoming a spider house. Also, it's good for your hair 7:00 Stop airing your relationshit in front of a child. She doesn't need your baggage

[@mommamia9948]

That’s what I was thinking as well. She shouldn’t have been saying that stuff in front of children

[@sarahm3991]

Seems like ol dude is good at finding immature women.

[@Mistersgoodgirl]

Breaking news: no one knows why, but there is suddenly a world-wide silk sleep bonnet shortage. The reason remains a mystery! Me: pulling out my credit card to buy one before the shortage happens.

[@candacel3305]

I thought that was so messed up. No matter how terrible your child's other parent is, you should never talk bad about them around your kids. The only exception is if the other parent is dangerous and you need to warn the kids to keep away from them.

[@taylerkolin3075]

If writing love notes is unhinged or immature I'll wear those labels with pride because me and my partner both write love notes and poetry for each other all the time and I think it's so romantic. My partner literally bought a notebook to write poetry about me and our time together during our courtship and it's one of my most meaningful possessions.

[@lisamelroy2855]

That's very sweet, actually - you two have the same love language! ❤

[@abbyletellier4474]

@taylerkolin3075 I think the bestie was mad because it was her friends boyfriend's cheating partner who wrote them, not because of love notes in general. Not to mention the boyfriend and og girlfriend also have kids together, and the boyfriend would bring them over to the cheating partner's house. I'm sure if you'd have found them, you wouldn't be excusing the love notes as cute, but rather a very elementary-level written symbol of betrayal. Because let's face it, those love notes are about as deep as a puddle. 😂

[@taylerkolin3075]

@@abbyletellier4474 I'm not excusing the cheaters love notes as cute. I was just making a joke about her saying that writing love notes specifically is an "immature" thing to do. I get it and agree that it's out of frustration and just to make fun of the person who, rightfully, deserves some shit. It was just a joke and a little anecdote.

[@CrazyAboutCorgis]

Also are we glossing over her middle school boyfriend was in jail?

[@LBStew]

"My partner and I ". Saying me and my partner sounds juvenile and immature.

[@MjDeen217]

Damnnnnn. The velocity of which that cake hit her face was breathtaking. 😅😂 Thank you for posting that... my petty meter restored to maxium.

[@Opossumslop]

The freaking audacity of that man cheating on his girlfriend and getting a whole ass HOUSE for the other women?!? Dude men know no bounds…

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

That bride was fighting for her LIFE.🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙈

[@davidguidry657]

She really was! As a girl dad, I’m proud of her tenacity but I would have taught her more effective moves and would have been all over him like a duck on a June bug!😡🤬

[@NottyAries]

I can't believe no one stopped it

[@davidguidry657]

@@NottyAries right?! Not one person put an end to it or him as should’ve been the case!

[@daisy9910]

@@davidguidry657 I would hope you would step in if that were your daughter. That groom could have snapped her neck.

[@davidguidry657]

@@daisy9910 you don’t have to hope because that’s as certain as the sunrise! I’m giving my princess to you to care for her and this is how you treat her?! Not ‘round here partner! Not ‘round here!

[@kathrynchytaya6972]

I actually smashed cake in my own face at my wedding because my husband was the type to do that and I was worried he would do it too hard so I beat him to it. People were commenting and confused as to why I did it to myself. We're divorced now but in hind site, it's pretty messed up that I went into that marriage with such anxiety about him humiliating me constantly that I did it to myself to not get hurt so bad.

[@annatjiekruger77]

If he does this in front of guests on his wedding day, imagine what he does behind close doors!

[@Spetia]

If when I got married my partner tried to smash cake in my face and *RUIN* my makeup and the dress in the process, I would leave and immediately get a divorce

[@NorthernShinigami]

That fall in the end was brutal. They literally smashed HER into the floor rather than the cake 😭😂

[@ElmoTinker]

Tbh, I'd be pretty disappointed if someone had ruined my $50 lipstick ☹️

[@Maiden_to_mother]

Me too, good thing it wasn’t actually ruined lol

[@Y.G.-ej7lm]

Thank you Charlotte for saving us from the horror of hearing the unabridged version of "the spider in the ear" story. May your mercy on us be rewarded a thousand times by the Gods.

[@zubsies]

Silos are SO dangerous, as a farm girl, that gave me so much anxiety for a 5 sec clip

[@rachelmyers3228]

I’m not on board with cake smashes but this cake smash is particularly uncomfortable because he is so clearly over powering her. It’s not even a fair fight or light hearted. The commenter was right, if this was in different context, it would be assault. One day, I want to see a brother, father or male friend just put a stop to it. If this is how I feel as a stranger, the absolute RED I would see as a loved one, or parent!

[@moonhunter9993]

or the women... I think the matriachs of the family (mom, sisters, granny) should each have a bucket of ice water... he smashes cake. They throw the buckets of water over him (maybe after he sat down for his meal)...

[@mbourque]

13:05 Couples Counselors know that the 'cake smashing' stunt done at weddings show that the marriage is doomed already. this type of behavior is indicative of more issues and is a form of aggression that is unacceptable in a marriage. Additionally, SHE is being just as aggressive in trying to smash cake in his face, he's just stronger enough to prevent her from doing it. THEY BOTH are at fault here.

[@toritori5835]

Unless her response is defensive. One can get pretty desperate and fight back pretty hard and it still is part of the fight, flight, freeze, fade continuum.

[@kirakotobuki9195]

I'd be aggressive too if my "husband" was being that forceful with me. I'd be terrified and lashing out as much as I could to get him to back the f off.

[@KatRenfigures]

Thank you Auntie Charlotte! I could not do that spider story either. I don't think I'd ever get to sleep again. One night I thought I felt something on my face and I freaked out grabbed it and screamed. It was my poor kitty cats paw! I screamed. He screamed. I let go when my husband woke up and was like what what?!? Cat ran to him and didn't cuddle me for like a week. 😢😢😢

[@Ciela531]

12:09 Play Station 5 could be arguably more valuable depending on what it took for him to get and (if she was really smart) if she went in and deleted all his games/ progress before chucking it like a real petty queen 👑💅

[@vintagearisen]

I saw a comedian who's popular on TikTok in person last night and when I went to take a picture I blurted out "Wow, you're way taller than I thought you'd be" and instantly regretted it, way to tell a guy "BUT YOU HAVE SHORT KING ENERGY" this will haunt me for the rest of my life

[@erikarussell1142]

Lmaooo I think that’s so funny though. I’m sure they laughed about it.

[@vintagearisen]

@@erikarussell1142 i sure hope so because I've been kicking myself all day

[@lotstodo]

Comedians thrive on stuff like that. Don't beat yourself up.

[@erikarussell1142]

@@lotstodo oh, for sure.

[@techno-phobe3000]

7:32 ish I totally lunged in on that note with you there Charlotte! 😂😂😂

[@lolita2235]

11:43 Charlotte : "Is that his laptop?" Charlotte being so pure not knowing what a PS5 looks like killed me lmao

[@HorrorHermitofHell]

I literally screamed OMG NOT THE PS5...DAMN SHE FINE! Was he cheating on her with the PS5 or did she chuck it cuz she knew it was probably the most expensive thing in the house

[@lolita2235]

@@HorrorHermitofHell I think it was bc of the price.... ☠

[@DatFishGal]

I swear, I've had that exact conversation with my dad about him and cutting down trees. Whenever I say 'you almost died' because of the way the tree fell, he always throws it back with "but it worked!" Definitely an interesting situation that's for sure.

[@FernRoses]

Tree cutting is Really dangerous. People underestimate the weight of Mother Nature’s beautiful limbs 🌳🌴🌲 Glad your dad’s safe 💫

[@sweetpeasarah1]

Yes the petty queen coming in just in time to make my day so much better!!! ❤ you Charlotte😊

[@roseandstem8054]

Charlotte smiling at the camera during the ripper story is the cutest thing

[@localevilpotato5954]

The thing about the video of the man wrestling his bride and attacking her with cake, is that he is GRIPPING HER NECK FROM BEHIND like you would an animal. She can’t get away and it is actually terrifying. I wish someone had come up to help her, I know my mom would of seen red. Poor girl I hope she isn’t with him anymore…

[@victoriawilliams2786]

@14:00 I hope that Bride left the wedding party to file for an annulment or immediate divorce.

[@jessicamiller7520]

I had a moth crawl into my ear while I was sleeping once. The registration staff didn't believe that a bug was in my ear and treated me like a drug addict at first, asking questions about when I last used, what I had used, etc. When they flushed out the giant motherboard (1.5 inch long) I cried. When leaving I made sure to let the registration staff know that it was a huge moth in my ear lol

[@Shellnbaby]

I was just about to fast forward through the video when you said NOPE to that spider story! 😂 Thank you so much!

[@britollefson2170]

I feel real weird about the woman who was talking about her experience of the dude cheating and crap... There were kids in the background and hearing all of it so young is really hard and confusing. Saying this as a person with divorced parents that it ended because of infidelity and I was really young (probably similar age to those kids) and it messed me up a lot to hear what my dad put my Mom through...

[@noneofyourbusiness7094]

He had already taken the kids to meet his side chick. Neither scenario is a good one, though.

[@britollefson2170]

@@noneofyourbusiness7094 I was just trying to point out that hearing bad things about a parent from your other parent is really difficult and even worse at such an age. Dude is in the wrong for cheating and bringing them around the other woman, but airing everything about it in front of the kids isn't going to help anything and will likely make it worse for the kids.

[@rachhhnicole]

i will clarify that she was telling a story about her friends, so the children in the background were probably not the ones involved

[@britollefson2170]

@@rachhhnicole I thought the 'friend' part was more sarcastic. But I guess if that were true that would be at least slightly better, still not great for the kid's trust abilities in the future imo...

[@Nicolepev430]

It wasn't her story , not about their dad.. she was taking about a friend

[@zjunegirl1862]

11:44 Omg I'm Dying 🤣 "is that his laptop " That's a PlayStation 5 girlie. 🤣💕

[@crystalgeode2336]

My husband and I talked beforehand. I said I was down if he wanted to smush some cake in my face. He said he didn't want to. So we didn't. Simple as that. Respect for each other.