The way the guy talks and articulates is very cinematic he fits in a movie set during the renaissance in the 1400s
@bennaerz4 жыл бұрын
Thought the same
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
😅😂😅
@mikhaelahmed42794 жыл бұрын
it's like hearing philip seymour hoffman in a romance/drama movie
@angg41443 жыл бұрын
And his turtleneck is not helping
@msrobyn823 жыл бұрын
Lol spot on
@youradurf12974 жыл бұрын
“What does our love feel like” - “A relief” this is what love should feel like
@Honeyyy.b_3 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@someonesomewhere66673 жыл бұрын
Yes it should😊
@malorie85573 жыл бұрын
I have been trying to figure out a way to describe my husband and I's relationship and this was perfect. It is the one thing I don't have to worry about in my life. I always wanted to say content but that implies mundane but relief if perfect because it's like a breath of fresh air in a world of lost meaning and chaos.
@mabuhayPinay3 жыл бұрын
Relief is an exhale which is what my marriage is (I don't have worries). I would add: comfort--which is an embracing, warm and safe feeling.
@tiffanysmith83434 жыл бұрын
The way he looks at her is like he’s staring *knowingly* and full of acceptance into the most vulnerable parts of her soul.
@fortunatesambo65233 жыл бұрын
Jeah he's not only starring at her he's starring at her soul
@uinise53073 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! I am here for it for the both of them❤️❤️❤️
@tikilo33033 жыл бұрын
Interesting how his eyes speak more and gets are blank. I get the feeling she definitely doesn’t have as strong as feelings for him.
@msatutude173 жыл бұрын
So reassuring
@TheCHILDRENofTV3 жыл бұрын
Write a book
@keirybreedy87914 жыл бұрын
His voice is everything. She is so beautiful
@JG-mt3rp4 жыл бұрын
Right?! Def agree
@changedmaname46344 жыл бұрын
Why does he give me manipulator vibes though?
@ryad40374 жыл бұрын
@@changedmaname4634 cs he got a Hannibal vibe (in a good way, like he's classy)
@Sammiein4 жыл бұрын
It caught me by surprise.
@rainbarber76574 жыл бұрын
Very Elijah like from The Originals. He was giving me all kinds of Elijah vibes in this video
@zarihusky48084 жыл бұрын
She’s beautiful, her spirit seems broken. Can definitely tell that she’s been through a lot..
@tatendakusena35604 жыл бұрын
She has that look. Like I've been through it.
@77777aol4 жыл бұрын
Zari Husky : Wounded, perhaps; but not broken.
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💎💭
@makaylacymone28044 жыл бұрын
Definitely felt that 100% I hope they lift each other up
@hollywoodcole40463 жыл бұрын
or maybe she is insecure?
@latisha14074 жыл бұрын
Who can't wait to be in relationship and have these deep and meaningful conversations?
@thickaliciousqtpie67414 жыл бұрын
Meeee! ✋✋✋✋
@journeyandbooks4 жыл бұрын
Giiiiiirl im just here telling God im ready 😟😟😟😟
@keziahdidloft25874 жыл бұрын
Me too♥️
@oeu36694 жыл бұрын
Here here!!! None of my exes have been here for this! At this point I’m thinking maybe il know the one because they too - love the skin deep 🤣😂
@jesuislapluie6954 жыл бұрын
I don't know but i'm preparing myself..
@sakinajibril63804 жыл бұрын
She’s hella gorgeous. My goodness. They both are attractive people.
@araweelospirit41803 жыл бұрын
She’s a model. I’m impressed she’s so comfortable in her own skin
@Skysdalimit2473 жыл бұрын
I disagree. he is not lol
@timtim-hf3ut3 жыл бұрын
@@Skysdalimit247 he's to girly
@321MjC3 жыл бұрын
@@timtim-hf3ut 🤦♀️
@angg41443 жыл бұрын
I needa check out NY
@ninobk1964 жыл бұрын
His voice threw me off. Does not match his face. Beautiful couple. I think he’s confident and strong, and fuels her.
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
Hmm.. 💭
@liviamenezes92384 жыл бұрын
I thought he was a lesbian! Very disappointed
@OReily080804 жыл бұрын
Livia Menezes 😐
@Kingwil4974 жыл бұрын
@@liviamenezes9238 Ok then.
@nadiaishimwe36634 жыл бұрын
@@liviamenezes9238 chile, what-
@FuzzCookies3 жыл бұрын
People are saying he didn't say "love you" back to her, but my god he didn't need to, it's all over his face.
@ponchwriest59163 жыл бұрын
The “you’re adorable” response to her I love you did rub me the wrong way though.
@21MeForever3 жыл бұрын
Nah I just found him on bumble LMAO
@ponchwriest59163 жыл бұрын
@@21MeForever naaaaahhhh LMFAOOOOO
@genesisadams12233 жыл бұрын
@@21MeForever you’re kidding me 😖
@FuzzCookies3 жыл бұрын
@21MeForever FFS. Should've known.
@workoutbuff82014 жыл бұрын
the dude is giving me Chuck Bass vibes lol
@oforiwaa75084 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@mac97334 жыл бұрын
Literally real life Chuck Bass
@cintiasuazo92284 жыл бұрын
fo real lol
@sarahsuzupikachu4 жыл бұрын
So true 😱😱😱
@Princess-kk4 жыл бұрын
Omg yesssss
@thalitadicarv48114 жыл бұрын
His voice.... her hair... 😍😍😍omg
@emmyrodriguez52283 жыл бұрын
I can definitely see a handsome child.. especially if it's a Boy!
@coffeetea85774 жыл бұрын
My Lord, she’s stunning! She looks like a doll, I love her eyes!! 😍😍😍
@tadiwanashechigowe90294 жыл бұрын
SHE IS BEEEEAAAAUUUUTTTIFULLLL
@quinnmcdonald37634 жыл бұрын
His girlfriend is a really special person, you can tell.
@pancakesandtea4 жыл бұрын
Trauma bonding. she looks like she's in pain like she has a constant lump in her throat, I completely relate to her though that's how I felt for years after I lost my dad to cancer.
@KayKay-od9oi4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that. I know that he is watching over you every day. Sending love & prayers always ❤️
@pancakesandtea4 жыл бұрын
@@KayKay-od9oi so kind of you, thank you for your lovely message x
@VonJay4 жыл бұрын
What is trauma bonding? And im so sorry for your loss.
@belle30554 жыл бұрын
VonJay traumatic bonding is a strong emotional attachment between an abused person and his or her abuser, formed as a result of the cycle of violence.
@VonJay4 жыл бұрын
Jany M thank you. The guy in the video looks mad creepy and he won’t let her finish her sentences. There’s more to his life than a ten minute video obviously, but as a big brother I wouldn’t let him get with my sister or anyone I know. Comes off as a closet narc
@angelabrum104 жыл бұрын
She is the most beautiful girl I've seen in a while
@warofmankind4 жыл бұрын
Her hair is covering half of her face.... She's pretty but a regular mixed race chick.
@cameronhowe11104 жыл бұрын
warofmankind not she’s super hot especially her eyes .
@tehillahdowdell71593 жыл бұрын
Have u looked in the mirror✨🦋
@warofmankind3 жыл бұрын
@@cameronhowe1110 slightly above average.... Yall glorfy pretty people. That's another thing wrong with society and person who is attractive gets more attention and more followers thus having more business opportunities
@Bubzietown3 жыл бұрын
@@warofmankind yes that’s the way it is. Some are lucky to be extremely beautiful and some aren’t, this girl is extremely beautiful. Don’t down play that because you’re upset that pretty folks get attention lol you can stand out in other ways 🤷🏽♀️
@playlistkweentv74213 жыл бұрын
Her eyes ..her, hair her voice , her entire presence and being is BEAUTIFUL
@teehamster24183 жыл бұрын
She looks like a beautiful sad angel.
@hazel88824 жыл бұрын
He has a beautiful deeply manly voice, and they make a nice couple
@hlehleza4 жыл бұрын
Her name in my language means "sweet" and it was the name of a Queen, Shaka Zulu's mother..... When they say you become your name!!
@preciousmatlapeng94974 жыл бұрын
🇿🇦yes girp
@dragonchr154 жыл бұрын
"Nandi" is the name of Shiva's guardian bull in Hindu mythology.
@zamaswazisimelane53604 жыл бұрын
Sphe, I was listening thinking maybe her parents are from SA.
@chingchingchingching20644 жыл бұрын
@@dragonchr15 that's cool too.
@godiraonasetlhabi79924 жыл бұрын
@@zamaswazisimelane5360 Same. She said she's a Durban native
@moonflowers3334 жыл бұрын
Nandi’s hair is absolutely stunning omg. Look at the structure and curl definition💗 and she’s sooo pretty
@racheljay4544 жыл бұрын
Obv a wig
@moonflowers3334 жыл бұрын
Rachel Jay obv not? Look at her insta
@racheljay4544 жыл бұрын
@@moonflowers333 So is that just a bald cap that she's wearing on her Insta then?
@anna-mariadavis59144 жыл бұрын
Rachel Jay hating as per usual
@racheljay4544 жыл бұрын
@@anna-mariadavis5914 I forgot you knew me! My bad!
@e3theworld3 жыл бұрын
You can tell they are very close intimately by the low volume of their voices. They made me believe in love again.
@snoopyx973 жыл бұрын
they broke up after the filming
@e3theworld3 жыл бұрын
@@snoopyx97 why?
@daphneyandersen1235 Жыл бұрын
@@e3theworld he cheated on her, he was cheating on her during the filming of this episode.
@elisa5215 Жыл бұрын
@@daphneyandersen1235 How do u know?
@didderbugakakatie4 жыл бұрын
She seems incredibly soulful and serious
@anisah85464 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness. Her beauty is overwhelming! Beautiful inside and out
@falilahsalami364 жыл бұрын
I feel like all their conversations just comes back to the fact that their both parents had cancer, like that’s basically the only connection they have.
@thickaliciousqtpie67414 жыл бұрын
They're to Cute together. I Pray that they have a Lifetime of happiness together. (Nandi & Jake: If either one of you read my comment, PLEASE HOLD ON to EACH OTHER and NEVER Let Go. Peace and Blessings)
@mayaa36483 жыл бұрын
they broke up. he cheated
@ladlahiien3 жыл бұрын
They're broken up mam. The reason they are on this EX show
@veraperezkennedy16273 жыл бұрын
Most sincere couple I've ever seen EVER!! BLESS YOU BOTH...Always find the answer in each other.
@BeautyIsMyCulture3 жыл бұрын
She’s gorgeous, and his voice is incredible! Such a lovely couple, and a beautiful conversation.
@Lampalot4 жыл бұрын
I enjoy the fact that there isnt any emotional music or background noise while they are having these heart to heart moments.
@Lifeishard2374 жыл бұрын
They seem more like wound-mates but I really hope they heal and are happy ❤️❤️
@Somelikeitthrift4 жыл бұрын
Yup
@scaredyjack38214 жыл бұрын
They are both gorgeous. How he stares or how he looks at her says a lot, how he feels towards her.
@salifyanjisimbaya23044 жыл бұрын
She is so reserved...she is a good woman it's easy to tell.he is lucky
@dondiego11414 жыл бұрын
Indeed... She's à Diamond
@Be1smaht4 жыл бұрын
HE is VERY VERY VERY lucky.
@user-ho3zy3rj9n4 жыл бұрын
this is such a weird comment
@9525joe4 жыл бұрын
You’re only saying that because she’s beautiful. There’s no way for you to know whether she is a good woman or not based off this video alone. Nothing personal but that’s just the truth.
@elodie50754 жыл бұрын
Dream Dream Serene all men are most definitely not lucky
@miss_worthiey4 жыл бұрын
It’s lovely but also not how a such tragic situation can bring and create a beautiful relationship.
@dondiego11414 жыл бұрын
....SHE SHINES !!! Absolutely gorgeous !!
@jadarose154 жыл бұрын
The way he looks at her ♥️ The way she put her hand out ♥️ They understand each other with his words and her gestures.
@TheSplendidChild4 жыл бұрын
Everyone saying they get negative vibes from their “trauma bonding” I get where you’re coming from. He gives me evil villain vibes with the voice and the ring and she looks like a sweet little lamb. But I think it’s just first appearances honestly. Just because two people have gone through the experiences, whether that be positive or negative, that shaped them that doesn’t make that bond a negative one.
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@EK-ev3pt4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, people think they can accurately judge someone's whole personality from just one video lol
@desiree74294 жыл бұрын
idrc how they were dressed- they didnt really talk much about anything and most of what they did talk about was just the trauma. AND it was mainly HER that talked about it
@user-kt3qm8jy8y3 жыл бұрын
Again, you can't really judge someone based on a single video
@angg41443 жыл бұрын
They broke up I heard. Is it true???
@realisthuman16994 жыл бұрын
What a beautifully humble, kind, supportive relationship and humans, wow... the way they communicated, I felt that deep inner connection!
@brisaud4 жыл бұрын
i’ve never really believed in twin flames, but this seems pretty damn close. such a crazy and rare connection! wishing them all the best✨💛
@MsAlemZ4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I was thinking the same
@l.salevi4 жыл бұрын
Miss reign I thought I was the only one who thought that was strange
@l.salevi4 жыл бұрын
Miss reign MHMM. My head started tilting when she repeatedly brings up her parents cancer. It’s nice to have someone there but don’t let it be the only reason to have them around
@cerenb79093 жыл бұрын
thry broke up
@winterwinter4343 жыл бұрын
Her eyes are sad and guarded and blank at the same time! Very beautiful 😍
@glengamble5264 жыл бұрын
She has incredible eyes...but she doesn’t blink!
@PHlophe3 жыл бұрын
I'm boutta get those eye drops now
@615BlackBarbie4 жыл бұрын
He has on a black sweater and she a white sweater. Cuuute
@jahleelsayers-ns3ze3 жыл бұрын
Wow what an observation. Such a intelligent person u are.
@chrystalbrown28513 жыл бұрын
@@jahleelsayers-ns3ze the sarcasm is so unnecessary, why come online for that
@divamuccini76223 жыл бұрын
Hermoso contraste! Viva la diferencia 💗💕
@amberts1804 жыл бұрын
They have a gentle love.
@vforvendetta2114 жыл бұрын
How do you know?
@karlyfrey74573 жыл бұрын
@@vforvendetta211 she doesn't because they broke up right after this was filmed.
@nini.purple4 жыл бұрын
Her eyes 💜 she reminds me of Jessica Alba
@valeriafuentes54033 жыл бұрын
That what I thought
@Kennychoco223 жыл бұрын
Literally what I was thinking
@inflorire3 жыл бұрын
With his hair slicked over and black turtleneck he’s giving me a Disney channel original villain vibe.
@laproserpina26204 жыл бұрын
She has the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen!
@cristybello4 жыл бұрын
She said “ I love you”, his answer “ you’re adorable” 🤔🤔🤔🤔
@samiamohamed6834 жыл бұрын
👀 I...
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
👀 👀 👀
@miriama.45594 жыл бұрын
if you saw her tik tok they broke up over that
@Torihappyness4 жыл бұрын
@@miriama.4559 she needs counseling to be honest. They had zero chemistry due to both having suffered great loses in their life.
@teenichy013 жыл бұрын
I feel like he's still holding back from how he really feels toward her because he's afraid to be vulnerable as much as she has been vulnerable. His eyes show that he loves her but he's afraid to give that 100% because he fears she'll see through him and eventually reject him. He loves her but doesn't trust her to love him when she really gets to know him versus the representative he shows her. in a relationship if you say you love someone you have to have faith in your love and trust the other person. It'll never work out if you're not giving as much as your partner, someone will always feel short changed even if they don't speak it out loud.
@ruxiz20073 жыл бұрын
The girl is such a beauty in any culture's aesthetic standard.
@essence18474 жыл бұрын
yeah, he definitely led her thought process. something off about him. shes super sweet though.
@katrina6394 жыл бұрын
exactly what i was thinking, but couldn’t put my finger on it
@zionhowell22074 жыл бұрын
This the same thing I was thinking there’s a lot of people on here who think he’s really sweet but ion know something just does not feel right like their conversation gave me anxiety
@abih55994 жыл бұрын
yeah id been in a similar relationship and i noticed the similarities immediately. Thats why she feels like he understands her. My ex did that too and constantly told me he understood me and I believed him at first. I felt like she had so much more to say that was her own.
@fedorah83153 жыл бұрын
Abi H i don’t even think she feels like he does. Like she said, HE tells her he understands her all the time. He was giving manipulative, grooming, passive aggressive vibes
@assholebyginger4 жыл бұрын
2:56 Just when I thought his voice couldn't get any deeper
@leigheaux9284 жыл бұрын
I like watching stuff like this because I have a feeling I’ll never be in a relationship or have a deep connection with anyone else
@samanthaawordocus20754 жыл бұрын
I do have the same feeling I guess it feels better to know that am not alone
@shadiahnakafeero64554 жыл бұрын
I also have the same feeling..... feels good to know am not alone
@Sabrina-dh5cg4 жыл бұрын
If you keep telling yourself that, you can be certain that you never will. Change your mindset, you’ll change your whole life ✨
@dramaqueen96693 жыл бұрын
Focus on having a deep connection with yourself and look for the stable qualities you seek in others this relationship is based off of a trauma bond
@trutj222 жыл бұрын
Words have power . Don't put the shit out there in the universe
@raymullababii28464 жыл бұрын
My mom has cancer and I can say from experience it's a helpless place to be and friends or my girlfriend just can't understand me and everytime I hear their petty problems I just can't control how turned off it makes me, so I relate so much to what they are saying so much
@estelleMaimouna4 жыл бұрын
Sending you strength, an extra ounce of patience and praying that you feel some sense of peace. To your mum im sending positive vibes and may healing angels walk into her room tonight and perform the kind of miracle that no human can take credit for. Peace and lots of love.
@icyflamer4 жыл бұрын
Yeah stop doing that. Stop comparing your problems with others. You may not mean to but you sound very self centered and woe is me. Would you like everyone in your life to have problems on par with cancer??? How would you measure that? What kind of cancer would be more serious than your moms? Right. It’s foolish. Be happy they only have petty problems because if you’re a real friend or boyfriend, their issues become yours.
@mina84954 жыл бұрын
I´m sorry your mom has cancer and i hope everything works out for you, however i´m really bothered by the ´´we don´t share the same trauma, your problems aren´t as bad as mine´´thing. I´ve stuggled with things not as bad as sickness etc, but that does not mean my problems aren´t valid. That mindset you have is toxic and i literally can´t stand it whenever ppl say stuff like that. Also, they may be going through worse things that YOU don´t understand. You never know, so stop comparing your problems with others.
@Khadija-xt5kf3 жыл бұрын
"What does our love feel like?" "A relief from all the bad things in life." This made me teary 😢 Such goals.. to find a place of tranquility and happiness with your partner
@jesuislapluie6954 жыл бұрын
I feel the suffering about their family disease is like the bond in their relationship 🤔 like... I don't know Not to say it is bad.
@Ohkeh6404 жыл бұрын
I personally don’t love these two together she’s very deep and sad. He’s more cheery tbh
@Ohkeh6404 жыл бұрын
He talks over her too I don’t actually like these two tbh but that’s the vibe. I feel she needs a more caring guy and gets help for her issues
@cactusismyfriend4 жыл бұрын
It seems like a crucial part in their relationship. Although i wouldnt want to be with either of them, imagine sharing your worries and they disregard your “petty” problems because they have bigger ones. Yikes They really do fit together but not a fan of either of them
@seunoladipo70904 жыл бұрын
yeah idk. i feel like one of the main things they've bonded over is trauma. and that's fine and is needed at some points. but i wonder if at some point, they'll both need the light at the end of the tunnel and that hope, and i wonder if they'll be able to find that with each other. or if this bond of the issue of their families being sick will be kinda this cloud that keeps both of them in this dark energy. idk. but idk them, we only saw a snippet and obviously they know their relationship.
@omolemomokate98434 жыл бұрын
Trauma bonding
@NyeziNkanyi4 жыл бұрын
They both beautiful and his voice🥺♥️
@daciadrummond19824 жыл бұрын
Nandi has such beautiful hair and Jake has an awesome voice. I love their open and honest convo. When the video ended, I wanted more of them.
@icyflamer4 жыл бұрын
Would’ve been nice if he was patient and let her get her thoughts out. He cut her off/finished her sentences for her. Also managed to not say I love you even though she said it multiple times. Just my observations 🤷🏽♀️
@_serenity32984 жыл бұрын
Glad to see someone who's not dumbfounded or fooled by their cute appearance as a couple.
@Jbrowbishh4 жыл бұрын
I thought he seemed a little like the controlling type... honestly.
@springoflife18764 жыл бұрын
yes finally people who see the truth.
@Sabrina-dh5cg4 жыл бұрын
She said “love you” at the the end. He responded with, “you’re adorable.” That threw me off big time..
@sanapradeepvarghese4 жыл бұрын
but like he said, he could just be the type to not let his guard down too often and be vulnerable , even if its his own gf, its hard for some of us to say things like "i love you" fr
@sameemrasheed13923 жыл бұрын
Every person in a relationship should do this.
@jerilyngillenwater83 жыл бұрын
I went to college with her (freshman year). It is good to see her doing well.
@netialouis5273 жыл бұрын
The look in her eyes is breaking my heart.
@Unknownmagicmandoubleoseven3 жыл бұрын
They seem like the sort of people that teach each other something then they let go
@3EyedBandit4 жыл бұрын
Damn she said love you TWICE and he just laughed lmao, I'm sure he loves her but as a woman I noticed that he didn't say it back.
@jonnelulina16024 жыл бұрын
He didn’t she made a TikTok video about it they broke up
@barbieon074 жыл бұрын
@@jonnelulina1602 whats her tik tok
@saraglt4 жыл бұрын
@@jonnelulina1602 how come?! wtf? already??? I'm sorry to hear that!
@shuuhhha4 жыл бұрын
I noticed she seemed tense ....
@sophiaantonin95184 жыл бұрын
Whaaatt!?? Nooo... :( Reaaally??? Oh maan :'( What's her Tik tok tho?
@hollywoodcole40463 жыл бұрын
Self esteem is really a virtue. Mothers raise your daughters to love themselves and not seek outside validation all the time.
@mimzers13 жыл бұрын
I’m 3 mins in and I’m crying. Girl she is GORGEOUS when he called her perfect I was sooooo happy
@lissihayray22274 жыл бұрын
"We dont have petty problems " idk dont like the way that was said. I mean I get it, not everyone will experience someone this close to them developing cancer which is a horrible experience, but why invalidate other people struggles? The school comment especially stuck because some families rely on their kids to get a good education to get a good job to support the family, some kids have this pressure while working fulltime. Thats enough to send you into a nervous breakdown. Not the same problem I know but still valid. I wouldn't call that petty. We just gotta consider that we all have a struggle that only WE understand the gravity of. Apart from that, cool couple.
@isabellep17714 жыл бұрын
Agreed, we may never truly understand the struggles and the trauma of having both your parents develop cancer, but regardless of your struggles, you shouldn't invalidate someone else's issues. You never truly understand what someones going through and its not fair to compare or belittle someone else's issues because it doesn't seem as "bad" as your own. It's not a contest and we shouldn't treat it like one. I understand there's terrible things people are going through but we should support one another rather than tear each other down. No one should ever make you feel invalid for your problems or your mental health.
@TheLove2drawzombolin4 жыл бұрын
Yeah that is true, but the reality is, unless you have gone through something similar you can only imagine how hard it can be, therefore the intensity of the stress is polar opposite from the struggles she and him have faced. I'm sure she also had gone to school as well as she stated that, but on top of that her parents were dieing due to cancer, the severity of that problem and the problem of seeing her parents both struggle through cancer is unimaginable unless you are going through something similar... so it may have came off a little blunt but I'm sure she ment it in a way of talking through her pain of almost losing both her parents, struggling with school and struggling with two important people in your life you see changing in a drastic sad way, i belive are two different things, and two very different stress related issues, that we can't even compare.
@rainbarber76574 жыл бұрын
I dont feel like they were trying to invalidate the struggle of others. It was simply them attempting to explain their pain and growth in the way that applies to them. There is no comparing of struggle but there is no way to imagine what is must be like to watch both of your parents dying of the same disease unless you have lived through it yourself. Its the same as hearing poor people expressing their pain by saying rich people don't have problems simply because they have money. Everyone has problems, they just take different forms for every person. I'm not rich by any means but I do understand that my struggles aren't what the average person faces. I am a disabled vet, so when I speak of my struggles, I can sometimes feel that the civilians of the world will never understand because their issues are nothing like mine. They have no military experience so they couldn't possibly comprehend what I go through on a daily basis. I know that isn't always the case, but when I speak of my pain, i speak from my viewpoint and my experiences. I don't express those emotions with a conscious thought for what others may be going through. Thoughts of others pain and struggles only came after I began to gain some healing from my own. However, if I were to sit down and tell you about my experiences, you may feel as though I was invalidating your issues or others issues during my explanation. You wouldn't understand my mentality on the pain of others until afterwards. I feel like that may be what you are receiving from them here.
@TheLove2drawzombolin4 жыл бұрын
@@rainbarber7657 Exactly, I may never understand what they are going through, or what you are going through, but through the pain they speak of is a pain that is there's, and that they both share which I found was comforting but hard, and I'd only hope to never have to experience what they went through, but I could only sympathize, I think at the end of the day it's really cool to find someone who could relate to you on a more personal level and that's why I found there relationship so beautiful and deep, they were almost made for each other, thanks for your reply, and for your service have a nice day.
@rainbarber76574 жыл бұрын
@@TheLove2drawzombolin their connection is beautiful to watch. I truly hope they find some sunshine to bond over as well. Thank you.
@toki33294 жыл бұрын
i came here simply to look at nandi and i'm not disappointed.
@cjohn250cj3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I relate through our parents illnesses. The pain, the worry, reminding each other to check up on our parents. Taking turns making sure that our parents have everything they need. It's all an experience that brings you together.
@lazyouty77863 жыл бұрын
shes very beautiful, her eyes, her hair and her smile. they're both lucky to have found each other, even if they weren't dating i think they would still be important to one other.
@lilianetv14823 жыл бұрын
I have never seen such beauty in my whole life. What an angel
@janetstuart32714 жыл бұрын
Wow-we!!! Such an adorable match, such real love. I hope they give us an update in 50 years time as their love goes from strength to strength with children and grand children.
@networth4793 жыл бұрын
Beeeeautiful young woman inside and out, the way he looks at her with a slight smile and posing here and there shows how fond he is with her.
@networth4793 жыл бұрын
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@kingleo20764 жыл бұрын
I can’t put my finger on it entirely, but this relationship is a no for me
@vforvendetta2114 жыл бұрын
Why?
@ashalajones36264 жыл бұрын
you got good intuition. they aren’t together anymore
@zoulikhames18184 жыл бұрын
Same
@saraglt4 жыл бұрын
@@ashalajones3626 why though?? what's wrong?
@mulenjizapita50924 жыл бұрын
Same! It looks very imbalanced dynamically
@Rebecca234343 жыл бұрын
I love when couples smile at each other and look deeply into each others eyes...that's a sign that they are still in love. Melt my heart.
@JustMeowMeow4 жыл бұрын
wow, 2 minutes in, i already relate to them. having to deal with a sick parent and also meeting someone i'm interested in has the same thing.. and i do feel very much so excluded in my peers because they don't understand these situations because they don't deal with it majority of the time especially when they're young. having someone that u can open up to abt these topics when they relate to it it's definitely soothing and even more so comforting.. i can't thank you enough skin deep, i really enjoy the beautiful people you reel into this, Nandi and Jake are a fierce passionate couple!
@jessicacruz79703 жыл бұрын
The way they look at each other is explosive. Beautiful couple
@consciousanfesiashapsnikof86883 жыл бұрын
Jake's voice is so soothing, and Nandi's beauty is beautiful. I hope that you two are still dating.
@daphne97334 жыл бұрын
the trauma bonding is a no for me and the fact he keeps reminding her that he understands and knows her :///// bad vibes
@n.n54653 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I’m scrolling past the “they’re so cute together”comments like, am I the only one getting charming, manipulative, narcissist vibes?
@enelmartodoesfelicidad3 жыл бұрын
I did not see it until i saw your comment... I think she is broken/sad and she seems vulnerable and "bad" people can take advantage of her. But we are just guessing thoght...i hope he is a good boy
@lisamariem783 жыл бұрын
Yep narc
@angg41443 жыл бұрын
They broke up I heard. Is it true???
@FreshVenessa3 жыл бұрын
@@angg4144 yeah its true
@LuzG204 жыл бұрын
This couple is so beautiful, physically and emotional 😍
@elitessmess92224 жыл бұрын
I relate to her comment about other people's petty problems so much... I know it's mean and they can't help it /aren't bad people for having a comfortable life. But it drives me insane sometimes to hear people around me complain about having to work extra shifts so they can afford their Mercedes convertible and condo.
@carlasolare4 жыл бұрын
They both have a sweet vibe although he kinda gives me this serial killer, pent up inner anger icy vibe for some reason, like maybe he might be more controlling than he looks like and she just looks so sad, she has sad puppy dog eyes... it just seems like they are Trauma bonding, loving each other mainly cause they relate to painful experiences, is that really love? Once again who am I to judge, I dont know them, I mean no harm these are just my thoughts...
@worldhealthrn4 жыл бұрын
he seems sweet ... except for the serial killer vibe gives - hilarious 😂
@worldhealthrn4 жыл бұрын
@Well known replying to @coure comment
@bennaerz4 жыл бұрын
Feel the same.
@bennaerz4 жыл бұрын
his eyes and how he speak, sounds manipulative or suspicious, or even restrained, cold...
@imene19994 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh I also felt serial killer vibes and really couldn't see past it !!
@angelfahlife60003 жыл бұрын
She is the reason I clicked this. Holy heck this girl is GORGEOUS
@neenuriyas64073 жыл бұрын
HER BEAUTY & HIS VOICE.....MAHNNNNNN!!!!
@DrEsq2 жыл бұрын
She is drop dead gorgeous and he looks at her with such love.
@trappabitch57424 жыл бұрын
everyone is their own person and goes through different experiences thats life for you
@tplez16592 жыл бұрын
The sound of their voices interacting... it's so peaceful...
@HoneyBee41634 жыл бұрын
I know this is shallow...but these two have been kissed by the Good Looks God!! Just purdy!°
@TheCinderellaPrincess4 жыл бұрын
You can tell by the circumstances they faced, it had truly made them push into more mature adults. By finding each other, it has eased their pains
@bellalassiter30804 жыл бұрын
I love them. They are so beautiful, and he looks at her like she is his own personal gift from heaven.
@GypsyInFenra3 жыл бұрын
"That you're completely capable of taking over the world without anyone's help, and you don't need to change anything about yourself."
@prestondaniels44944 жыл бұрын
"Of course. You're you..." that line hit me.
@ms.jackiebrown23893 жыл бұрын
Wow ! I can't really say too much about Jake but Jesus Christ Nandi is soooo GORGEOUS ! 😍. I can't imagine anyone not liking this woman !!!!! It was kind of hard to pinpoint any real feelings from Jake but after listening to Nandi, you can just tell that there's something really special about her. People like her seem rare. Not saying she's 100% perfect, but she's definitely one of those special individuals who you can look at or just listen to and tell that their genuine. You can see the angelic like, purity in their eyes, their smile and even just by the way they speak or their aura. To me, Nandi reminds me of that type of person. I swear on everything, I'm dying to experience meeting someone like Nandi. I think alot of people do ! But I'm leaving my path to finding true love in the hands of God. It's all about faith. I can't wait to find a man who has that same unique, angelic quality like Nandi has. I read in the comments that her and Jake broke up shortly after this YT video. If Nandi is in a new relationship, I really hope her man is someone who really sees the beauty in her. Men and women like Nandi are rare. I hope whoever Nandi is with cherishes and appreciates her to the highest power. 🙏🙏
@13thAMG4 жыл бұрын
I wish both sets of parents well. And I hope this couple can grow beyond that commonality to have way more concrete bonds between them. Especially in terms of happy fun memorable times that create their own path and positive histories together.
I just watched this because she's beautiful. She's fiiiiiiiiiiire!
@sthv7773 жыл бұрын
ok so being totally honest here, they look like damn visual couple. like both of them are just so beautiful and look so classic and sassy like i was stunned by their beauty plus his voice omggg. they definitely look initimidating together but in a really good sexy way. the way he looked at her was just too adorable too.
@naomiglory974 жыл бұрын
His voice 😍😍 beautiful couple 😊
@jessicaterry259411 ай бұрын
I love how bold yet gentle, as well as sure he is in his love for her. That’s so beautiful to me.
@Sophia000114 жыл бұрын
He seems like a very good boyfriend. And a pretty attractive one, too. :D
@sixteen.candles.46444 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh....
@karlyfrey74573 жыл бұрын
He's a cheater. He cheated on her right after the show.
@MrBryant113 жыл бұрын
What I like about this couple is it seems like they have a "trauma bond" (parents)....but they clearly love each other beyond that and it's freaking beautiful.
@77777aol4 жыл бұрын
Their love is palpable. I wish them continued and every happiness.