Things we shouldn't talk about

[@janew4690]

I live in America if you want to talk political BONKERS. I am with you. I wanted winter to last longer so I could hibernate and try to make sense out of this world...as well as craft on my own and try to figure things out. I enjoy living in a fantasy world and to be surrounded with uplifting music, items and food and the whole works of what is peaceful and that which brings love and cheer. I am 75 and never was ashamed of my country until now. I have been losing loved ones a lot lately do to aging and its all a muddle. Yes, lets try to keep our lights shining brightly. Heres my coffee cup saying...to a better more sane world.

[@elkahmae1283]

I agree with you!

[@wendybernthal3193]

Wendy, you light up my life.. where would we be without you🖐🏼

[@karenlowes7802]

I feel the same about winter and I live in Canada. The weather suits my mood😂

[@amyb82941]

💜💜💜 I agree with you! I never, in my 68 years, EVER thought I would be ashamed of my country (USA)! I’m glad I’m old and don’t have to see it in another 30 years! Sad, but true!

[@andreapretlow2897]

I'm your age and live in the U.S. and agree. Even though I live in California, the area I'm in is very (since we have these categories) Red. I don't indulge in political conversations anywhere with anybody much any more. I find that I'm either preaching to the choir or falling on deaf ears

[@rosem8667]

It's showing everything that has always been there just hidden. After it all is shown, we will be heading in the direction of a great future. The Age of Aquarius

[@MicheleLRid]

Yes. I’m politically embarrassed - of both major parties. I’m also appalled at the everyday violence and honestly don’t feel as safe in public as I used to. I get anxious. I truly hope change is coming as the corruption comes to light. I know several people who are simply choosing to live abroad in other countries.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yup! i feel you!!! they are all gangs of crooks!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

@@andreapretlow2897 yup it's a tricky one for sure!!

[@tannaorr4133]

Wendy, this was a wonderful video! Just what I needed to hear this morning! Love your videos and words of wisdom, but today’s was spot on. You are so appreciated ♥️ By the way, great outfit!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

awww, glad it helped xxx and thank you!!! xxx

[@tannaorr4133]

@@theunexpectedgypsy more than you know 🥰

[@maryjanelarson9045]

Hi Wendy. I'm a newish follower and your videos are always such a breath of fresh air. Your effervescent personality always bubbles with sparkles even while.youre dealing with back pain. After many decades of denying myself enjoyment in creative activities, I'm stepping back into my true self. Your insights and wisdom are so appreciated and I always end up with new ideas, perspectives and energy after watching your channel. ❤ Thank you so much for sharing your authenticity with us. 🤗

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww thank you so much xxxxxxx your comment makes me so happy! xx Thankyou too for keeping me company xxxx big loves x

[@claireberry1564]

We do live in crazy times, but everything runs in cycles and "this too shall pass". Thank you for your positivity and brightening up the world for us all. Sorry to hear your back is still an issue. Sending love and healing as always x

[@artistsandoracles]

From one artist to another- Thanks so much for showing up here each week for all of us. Here in the U.S. of A it is also totally bonkers! 👺 I live near NYC and have been too caught up in all the drama of the big, long awaited news this past week. 🤡 But today I was determined to get back into my art studio and getting on with MY life. Real life, not our leaders drama. 🎃 It sure is a challenging time right now for all. 😿 And it’s so helpful to have international colleagues like you who are willing to speak the TRUTH of how you’re doing. 👩🏻‍🎨 Keep holding that beautiful light of yours. 🙏🏼✨🌿🪶

[@magdastar2249]

Well said .👍

[@vickiann5620]

I retired in January and it's a shock. Half the money and everything's so expensive. And I'm so fortunate. I cry thinking about those in who choose between heat and food. We need to talk to each other and be good neighbors.

[@crashq8784]

I must say I find you one of the most unique and refreshing presences in the creative space on KZbin. You gently encourage others to be their best within their capabilities on the day, to not be defeated by setbacks and disappointments and to celebrate themselves and to nurture their souls. You are so right on so many things and your art is beautiful - thank you for sharing your creative journey with us all. I think your community is here to share a cup of kindness with you and keep you company in this little corner of the internet. Thankyou for this little cosy corner, waves from Australia.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

what a most beautiful sentiment thank you so much xxxx happy to have you keeping me company for sure x big loves to you in Australia xxx

[@lesabradford7438]

I appreciate how you feel about the light. I feel this way. I'm so sensitive and I prefer the dark cold days of winter. I feel so over exposed in the summer. So I'm looking forward to spring but summer is the worst. I feel sad when it's winter solstice because the light returns and jubilation on summer solstice because the light will dim. Being the opposite of the majority is ugh often as a sensitive person ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, summer can feel v intense can't it. x big loves

[@cindyurban150]

Lesa, I also love the comfort of shorter days. I am afraid to mention to people that I don't look forward to longer, brighter days because I'm of a few rare people that feel this way. I love dark, cold days,and "Nesting" with my books and watching You tubers.I'm always happy when it rains, it keeps the "Crazies" in the house !

[@ExLibris-Alys]

I’m the same. I really dislike the heat and humidity of the English summers (which are becoming more intense of course), I feel uncomfortable in my own skin and don’t want to go anywhere or do anything, I feel strange as though I’m under a magnifying glass and completely laid bare body and soul. I realise how weird this must sound but it’s true. My favourite season is spring when we have the bright sunshine and blue skies but the sting of cold weather on our skin. The days are still short which I love and we need to wear our coats and scarves like protective armour against…what? I don’t know, but I do know that I feel better cocooned in layers of clothing for some reason. My 2nd favourite is winter, short days and every reason to stay comfy by the fire with a good book and a big mug of coffee/tea/hibiscus tea etc. We’re in August now and I can’t wait for the summer to be over. I’ve never said these things out loud in case people think I’m beyond strange. I’m definitely an introvert HSP 🫢💛

[@sandrafisherhayes3219]

​@@ExLibris-AlysI know I am 10 months late lol 🤭😄 but you have echoed and described exactly how I feel about the summer months. As I age, I find I prefer my own company and love the security and safety of my own room. I am also an empath and feel drained every time I return from a shopping trip or a day out. The one positive thing that evolved out of the pandemic was learning so much about myself. Who I really am! Re: this bonkers world and corrupt politics, I do my best to avoid talking about it because it upsets my equilibrium so I prefer not to engage as it just makes me angry. We can see how it is affecting others too due to the high toxicity permeating social media.

[@ExLibris-Alys]

@@sandrafisherhayes3219 I loved the pandemic for that reason too! The isolation was exactly what I needed to ‘find’ myself. I loved the peace and quiet as well if I’m honest 🤭

[@justmonicarae6933]

❤ thank you to this amazing loving community. You all know I lost my hubby to Covid but in the last two weeks I lost both my mom and dad. 😢 I also found out that I am having a total thyroidectomy on April 25th praying it’s not cancer. I’m so tired! My oldest got married and now lives in Leeds. I am praying I can fly out to the UK this August for a long visit. I needed your words today Wendy!!

[@sabinemetscher6449]

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[@artgirl1212]

My prayers are going up for you🙏. Life has so many unexpected difficulties and pain. Try to be who you are through your creativeness. I know that’s the only way I get through it. I need to do that first before I can tackle the hard things.🌷 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@vickiann5620]

❤❤❤sending you love, light and fierce hugs! Find love and soak it up. ❤❤❤

[@wandalindsay3548]

So sorry you are facing so many challenges at once. Blessings on you!

[@heleng3765]

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[@lauriedunn6198]

The studio is looking so inspirational and the plant babies are beautiful.

[@fifidubois5514]

I find I'm hibernating more. My mind and body need it. Some days I make the bed, make a cup of tea and then get back into it. I'm enjoying that. I find I'm isolating myself more. I went out last week and I was in a store queuing up at the till and a woman started having a go at me for not using the self service till. For a start, I can't use one. She just kept going on at me. There was other tills open so I wasn't holding anyone up. It really was uncalled for. But I got so upset , I started crying. It felt as though I'd committed the crime of the century. I was annoyed with myself for crying. But I do think the world is definitely back to front, inside out, wrong way round, totally distorted. I felt it really strongly . I was exhausted. This week I've been resting. To try and regain some energy.. 💕🧚‍♀️

[@andreapretlow2897]

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[@theunexpectedgypsy]

It's so bumpy out there, i'm often the same in that staying in is easier, we just need a message on our shirts like Bog Off !!!xxx

[@yamabudo3803]

Nobody deserves what you experienced. I am sorry it happened to you.

[@fifidubois5514]

@@theunexpectedgypsy Absolutely

[@fifidubois5514]

@@yamabudo3803 💕

[@meeperbird]

“Tickety-boo” is definitely going to be my new go to phrase.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

it's a keeper!!! xxxxx

[@feelinguru-vywiththepaingu9808]

​@@theunexpectedgypsy I agree!

[@catholictortillas777]

I agree!!

[@angelgirl976]

People saying we shouldn't talk politics are usually not having their lives affected by them. How can we not when in the whole world over, people are starving, not able to find a place to live, pay their rent, heat their homes or in some countries not have control of their bodies? Wendy, you are right to talk about politics because it's not just a abstract thing. It's our very lives that are affected. Keeping shining that light bright. Love your vids.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

you are so right Lauren thankyou for this comment xxxx you too angel x

[@angelenaboden]

Pluto is now in aquarius. When it was in aqua last time we saw many revolutions which overturned autocracy. It's already happening but it will be a slow start. BTW my juicer exploded cos I didn't tighten the lid. So I got covered in blueberry and kiwi juice as did the kitchen cupboards. 🤭🤭

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

eek!!! and eek!!! i have done that too!!! green smoothies everywhere!! eek!

[@melindastclair]

I love that James calls you every night even though he is tired. Sleep well James, we need you too. You are a loving stalwart archetype who we all need to see represented in life.

[@artzcat]

Very timely video, we cannot change the crazy world, only how we react! Art is the best escape, even doodling calms the mind and soul for me.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes sooo true xxxx

[@kerenvalentin7082]

You are absolutely correct on all the topics you shared. I need to learn how to parent myself, never really learned. As a survivor of childhood abuse it hasn't been easy, but I will rewatch your video and put some of your words into practice. Thank you for sharing your insight on how to care for ourselves. Keep your light shining and thank you for being real.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

it's definitely not always easy to self parent... and it's not something we are taught really... you can learn at any point though, xx we got this xx

[@darlingcottagediary]

Oh I’m so sorry you’re dealing with a copy cat 😔 that’s so hard as an artist-but you’re right. The second you put your work out there-it will happen. I find getting inspiration from artists who work with different mediums really helps make that “quilt” you’re talking about and prevents adopting one person’s style💕 Keep being you, Wendy! I could listen to you talk all day and you’ve inspired me so much to expand my artistic practice. Your style is so unique and your perspective on all things creative always helps me get out of ruts.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

it does, it's so sad but true! Completely different from us all inspiring each other, it's blatent theft... the quilt is the best! thanks for such a lovely comment xxxxxxx big loves

[@jobes4525]

There's an Artist on KZbin that I've seen, whose work is too similar to yours, for her not to be a copy cat. 😢

[@jobes4525]

@@theunexpectedgypsy ❤️🐈

[@jenns_artlandia7896]

​@Jobes who's the thief so I know not to support he/she's channel? ☹️

[@Lilygirl283]

​@jenns_artlandia7896 I like to know as well...

[@invisibelle7590]

Please do talk about politics. The UK is not doing well. (Well some people are). Hiding from these facts is not going to improve things, we need to find ways to make things better. Somehow.

[@magdastar2249]

A great quote for you from a vintage movie. " The few want more so the many must suffer."

[@kathiwright4849]

i am not done hibernating, either! financial woes are weighing heavy on me, and i need to move but haven’t decided where to. life can be a muddy blob sometimes!

[@cherylcoyote]

In this one comment thread I've found my tribe! Californian, 64, registered Independent, and appalled by what's happening to our country. But, like another commenter suggested, what goes up must come down. Countries, entire civilizations, are no exception. Read 'The Fourth Turning' for an interesting and scary take on that.

[@hArtyTruffle]

As this vid unfolds, I’m realising that I do do a lot of stuff for myself (self-care)… My nemesis? Sugary stuff and/or carbs. Being diabetic, it makes me so unwell. Managed to finally stop smoking, after 51 years 🎉 I’ll be able to paint and draw again once the flat is sorted. It’s taken me 5 years to get to this point (“this point” being “nearly sorted”). Yeah, you know what… I’m ok 😊 Thankyou for helping me realise it Wendy ❤

[@yamabudo3803]

I really appreciate the way you concretely encourage us as artists in your videos. As 1 example your drawing warmups have really helped me. Also I enjoy your lovely style of dress: today's is especially nice. And the frock in your postcard photo is THE most beautiful dress ever.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww thank you xxxxx happy creating xxx

[@corinaklies8131]

Oh, I do relate. Thank you for being real; sharing the ups and downs. It's human and makes me feel seen. Dark days here in the U. S. Trying to enchant my days and do what I can. Appreciate you ❤️

[@profaaulas9555]

dear wendy, I know that is not up to me to make you think of politics, who am I anyway? but you said something about it at the beginning of your video today that make me think. I've heard something similiar before, round here, where I live. we end up in a very serious situation, which we are still trying to solve. some "specialists" say that when we stop believing politcs, when we develop this feeling that any side is good enough, that everything is corrupted and broken.. that's when we open the door to a savior. someone that will rise up as the glorious problem solver we've been waiting for. but, unfortunately, this kind of thinking, this savior, their believers, are prone to fascism. and that's the threat we here had to deal with. of course, you live in England, I have no idea how this works, monarchy etc. what I learned is that, even when the options seems bad, we have to learn about politics, politicians and be aware of everything it's happening, but we can't be against politics, we need it as societies. if we just give up, fascism and its friends are there, waiting for us. sorry if I may sound rude, it's not my intention, I really mean well. and, of course, you think like me now, just disconsider this comment. 😅

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

your comment is most welcome, we all are allowed are thoughts and perspectives! xx i don't mind politics just don't like corruption, here they are all crooks and have become very rich because of it! Xxx also, monachy can get stuffed too imho! teehee!!

[@profaaulas9555]

@@theunexpectedgypsy yes, I really believe greedy has been killing the word, either by politics or by powerful entrepeneurs 😞 thank you for your reply 😘 huge fan here🌹

[@plotwhisperer5502]

Oh the financial crunch is a float in America! seriously I went to the grocery store and keep in mind this is a low end grocery store...one bag of nothing was $100 us dollars. I was so pissed! I am about to become a Breath-a-terian...cause that is all I can afford working full time and generally like living indoors and basic things like that. So, we are all connected in the 💩show called life, one way or another.

[@magdastar2249]

Well said. 👍

[@sandradbecker4078]

Thank you, Wendy! Thank for being so kind to be here for us.. in good times, tough times, all the time! It all comes from your kind heart. A huge hug to you! ❤

[@JS-go8vt]

Yes indeed… I’m nesting until I’m not. Thank you for this lovely tender video. Sending lots of love to you💗

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes! exactly!!!! soft hugs xxxxx

[@judithfarr]

Thanks for sharing all the highs and lows in such a constructive loving way Wendy❤ we can keep on going together!! One step at a time. I walk everyday and sometimes I’ll see a special bird or a rabbit and I tell my children about it at the end of the day and we call these animal stories. Sometimes they have animal stories too. These little things are special and help me get through the tough stuff. Lots a warm hugs xxx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh yes, love your animal stories.... xx and so true, always the littlest of things, soft hugs to you too x

[@bettymaugeri7316]

Peace and ❤ to you Wendy - thank you for sharing. Hearing that others share many of the same concerns helps!

[@sorrelgossert6976]

Last week was a disaster for me. All I wanted to do was just sleep....and sleep...cry...and sleep... I think it has to do with this crazy time and the weather. One day spring like and back to gloomy skys and rain. It's the dual between winter and spring trying to break out... I live in the countryside in 2 rooms which is my studio as well. I don't mind though because as a creative person and without a car, it's my space, cozy and well, a little bit messy... plant babys all over, etc. I managed to finish a painting and am very pleased with it. It's just a difficult time for everyone and when spring finally arrives I hope our spirits like beautiful flowers awaken. Lots of love and creativity ❤🧡❤🧡

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh soft hugs for your tricky week xxxx big loves back to you too xx

[@syrahlover]

well, mz wendy, i offer two suggestions from my 70y/o lady perspective ... make it a point to laugh ... everyday, at every opportunity, with others or when all by yourself ... laughter really IS the best medicine ... and a reminder here, i know you have mentioned it before, but it bears repeating ... practice being grateful ... when in a space of feeling overwhelmed, or guilty about action or inaction, think of 5 things to be grateful for ... it seems that the wonkiness goes away when the feeling of gratitude is a conscious practice

[@jacquelinefilby1842]

Yes yes ! I put out my “ tools”, drink a coffee and then off I go. I built a 6x8 A frame with no building experience using this method. Absolutely-show up and do some resetting. I wake up with anxiety but this kicks me into action.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

it's a good way ! xxxx

[@reeree6682]

I'm a semi hoarder. Not dirty with poop and rotting food. With art stuff! I DUMPED lots and now have my house back! Got rid of clothing, art supplies and stuff. I'm MUCH happier! AAAAAMEN!

[@terrie3531]

Love you Wendy! You’re like a fairy godmother reminding us all the take care of ourselves ❤

[@sharb7320]

Unfortunately there is often a fine line between appreciation/acknowledgment and theft and all that separates them is the giving of credit. I have quoted you as I feel your message is so important (specifically your shining and cocooning mantra). I would rob both you and I of our own authenticity if I claimed those words as mine. So sorry this happened on such a personal level ( a friend of yours rather than a stranger). Edited to add: my reset was rearranging my living room and cleaning/organizing my crafting area. 🙂

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

so true... x it's sad.... it's theft ... love your reset!!! perfect!! now enjoy creating there!!

[@YvonneO]

Well said Wendy! Here in the states. It's bonkers here too! Your a philosopher girl, and talented. It's interesting that your country and mine, have nut jobs running things😱🤬 I still feel strongly against your celebrating the coronation!! Charles is NOT what he seems😤😬enjoy your thoughts.... Thanx 🤗🕊️

[@alicebeshay6124]

Hello sweet Wendy😘,you know, I talk to myself al the time when I ‘m alone! So I must be bongus big time!🤭 Maybe I should start a KZbin channel too! By the way, We have also troubles with liars in politics in Holland too! And they won’t leave 😡 I love that you are out there🤗❤️🌹

[@TEXTILE2010]

Your words are from your soul and are so special where as her stolen words are just words....although it is a horrible feeling when someone copies your work, your words are the genuine article Wendy's. I have had this happen to me you just have to let it go over the head and move on ❤

[@willowgrove631]

I needed to hear all of these things today …. for the overwhelm, y’know 😉 Thank you Wendy ❤️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

ohhhh so glad it was helpful, soft hugs for your overwhelm xxxxx xx big loves

[@queenbuzybee4074]

I so do understand your frustrations. When the parties in power atm were elected, I was so hopeful for change in Germany. The reality is that I‘m frustrated and disappointed. It seems like it‘s going like that everywhere in Europe and it’s hard to stomach. Being outdoors does help as well as journaling and I admit sometimes even binge eating or random shopping sprees (but they come with regrets). As far as copying people goes, I always find it fair if a creator mentions the creator they were „inspired“ by. You should be given credit by the person using your work as inspiration.

[@marieredfeather3040]

Great video! So glad you addressed these times as they have been challenging as the corrupt establishments are exposed. This month is supposed to be intense so grounding and centering will be important as you said 😊 things are going to get much better though we will be creating the new systems which are of integrity after the corrupt ones are dismantled. Sending Love and Comfort to all.❤

[@catherineleslie-faye4302]

At 62 I am looking for ways to help my local community... not big things, just little things like buying from small shops and local owned restaurants. I gave up on being a world changer some time in the middle of chemotherapy last year.

[@magdastar2249]

Hope you are healing well. 🙏

[@magdastar2249]

Sooooo tired of the politics. Yes corruption is rampant and all are out for their own interests. The homeless problem here in the U.S. is appalling and everything seems upside down. About copying work, that is what has held me up from putting myself out there. Also I do not want to be accused of copying anyone else. Here in the U.S. you can also get sued at the drop of a hat. Not as free as one would think for sure. 😒

[@cindyurban150]

Hi Wendy, You are so brave to speak out loud on what our world has become. I live in the USA, and for the first time in my life I feel like being an ex patriot. We do not have free speech on any social media unless it's in agreement with the "Powers That Be", Our State, and town has become a hub for building high rise apartment buildings on every open space we once had, it's housing loud,noisy,inconsiderate people. I don't watch the news anymore..TV commercials are in different languages...I don't understand what has happened ???? It's sad when people are looking forward to dying so they won't have to deal with the current problems of the world. My neighbors are noisy, and inconsiderate. I gave up drinking my wine which did relax me. Many people are seeking Therapy for their mental health ( If you can find one who will see you in person and not through a computer). People just don't care anymore about our fellow human beings. Thank you for offering us HOPE. You are greatly appreciated. Sending you loving, healing thoughts, Cindy

[@magdastar2249]

Yes, at 70 I can say this country has become the greatest disappointment of my life. 😒

[@itsnoreentime]

Hi! I am an artis in my 60s and have lived in a very multicultural inner city area in the UK for many years now. I love the variety of cultures, clothes, styles and languages. I find it fun to try and learn some basic conversational words in different community languages. We also have a lot of drug related problems and homelessness in the area, and sometimes people can be quite loud in their opinions. But i also know that that each of us has a story... and I don't think anyone actually chooses to be unlikeable. So I find it helps (my own state of mind at least) to try being more compassionate when someone's behaviour gets on my nerves.... What they choose to do with that is not my business. How I respond to people is...

[@eyesonindie]

Writing in from Chicago, and in the same place as you. Looking for a new place to live so my husband and I don't have to sleep in our living room! Would love a bit of green space, too. But we can't afford anything in our neighborhood, and we would hate for our kiddo to have to change schools. It's just impossible. Sending good thoughts your way!

[@Rav3nTwilight]

Hi Wendy, would you consider maybe doing a stretchy/yoga vlog? Cx

[@alison64able]

Love you too Wendy. Love from South Africa

[@philomenaward1833]

Love all you said ,soooo helpful so glad Ive found you Wendy, you are doing the light work, we all need it really brave and of course such a big generous heart. Bless you.

[@collenemeeks5212]

Chocolate, yes chocolate is my elixir, but it is easy to overdo it if not paying attention

[@janeadlington7150]

How lovely. Thank you for being so genuine - always. Think I need a t-shirt with BONKERS on it.

[@SaveOurChildren111]

To all the dear worriers…Things are bonkers for sure. It has been working it’s way here for a good while actually. It didn’t begin, when the lockdowns started. It has been working it’s way here, slowly and deceptively for many, many years. Many of us didn’t really pay close enough attention. Some did, and tried to tell us, but we were too busy with our own lives to listen. So…here we all are. But….that’s ok 🤍 The feeling of the unknown, especially lately…can make us feel even less in control of our lives and of our future in general, which in turn feeds the fears. But I can honestly attest, that if one really seeks for and acquires the knowledge of “how and why” this is all happening, then you ultimately will also find comfort in the knowing, that everything is going to be alright! Is it going to get “bumpier” for a while…yes. But with all of that, I can truly say that I am comfy in the “knowing”, that it’s all working it’s way…..towards the good. Even in what looks like the darkest of our times. What has been hidden, is now being revealed. Which is a good thing. Because let’s be honest…we can’t fix what has gotten all of us here over the many, many years, without having the knowledge of what and who have been causing the problems to bring us all here in the first place. I am reminded of the saying, “THE truth shall set you free”. So as ugly as it looks…and is……remember…..it’s always darkest before the dawn! Truth and knowledge IS power. The more you acquire both, the less you stress and can sleep at night and not carry the burdens of worry and fear. Do not worry about the things you cannot control. Take time to learn what and why this has all “really” been taking place. And I can in great confidence, say that you will find that sweet spot of comfort you’ve all been looking for and that shining light 💫will be, ever more constant and bright….even through these most difficult of times. You’ve got this 😉 Sending love to all 🤍

[@amyb82941]

WOW! Thank you!

[@SaveOurChildren111]

@@amyb82941 💫💫💫🤍💫💫💫

[@sandrathomas5039]

You are my favorite artist that I follow. You make so much common sense and what the world is about. I am a retired nurse who now gets to spend her time painting and I love your web site. I am 73 years old and still feel like I am no more than 50 years old. I am a believer that you are as old or young as you choose to be in the later stages of life. You can be bored or you can do what you love to do. I am in America . Sandi

[@carmengiles456]

Great to see you dear Wendy, as always I agree with so much of what you say 👍. Like you, I am not ready for spring yet. That said I have sown so many veg & flower seeds that I have to get up & tend them daily. Having been caught up in grief & the menopause for quite some time, if I get up, shower & feed us Im doing well. Very difficult some days as I had always been full of energy, drive & passion. Some days I just don't recognise the person I am. I do agree whole heartedly with your tips. Out in nature & doing something creative does help. Its getting started that is the most difficult for me. Thank you for the chat Wendy, it was spot on for me ❤

[@michelepastele5347]

would white noise machines help you drown out the sounds of your noisey neighbors? I HATE that feeling ... it's like having someone else actually in your space which I really dislike. I don't want to know I have neighbors at ALL - the best neighbors are invisible!! x

[@CMoore8539]

I think we all feel that way. I keep a fan on low at night to help block out some noise. Maybe I should check into white noise too. Thank you for your comment. It gave me the idea and I sincerely need help with the noises here. I hope you have a Beautiful Day! Take good care and remember you’re not alone with these types of things, many of us are going through the same thing. 💞

[@1ericedwards]

My partner and I often sleep with ambience videos playing in the background. There are many of them available here on KZbin, and several channels that specialize in them. There are many themes available including rain, crackling fireplaces, forest sounds, ocean waves--and many also have pretty scenery accompanying the sounds. Just something nice to help buffer between us and noisy family members. Hope this may help you.

[@ulrikeselleckart]

Also, you "should" be in touch with Russell Brand, ranting together, haha.

[@mandyofmarymac]

Hi Wendy. Effective on the 26th of this month, I'll officially be a Patreon ! I'm so excited! My 'dirty' little secret is CHOCOLATE! The thing is, I have no other bad habits, so I don't think I can go forward without anything that brings me joy. I need chocolate! Looking forward to our conversations. "One huge tree-hugger to another".

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

wahhooo!! chocolate!! yes!! you need i see this!! xxxx big loves xx

[@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809]

I think you are so right about the copy cats out there. We just have to keep going and creating and keep shining our light. There was a time, when I was very upset, when somebody copied me. But in the end, theirs will always be a copy and they can not steal my mind or creative process. I read in an article once, that Karl Lagerfeld said the following about copy cats, and I think he got that wisdom from Coco Chanel herself, that it is a compliment, when somebody copies you. It shows that you are brilliant. (something like that) :-) Huggs and blessings from Fairy Tale Cottage, Schurwald Forest, Germany. 💖💗🌲🌲🌲

[@suev4143]

Huge hugs to my fellow "bonkers" people! When I'm feeling @#&$%#, or overloaded, I try to start my day with a breath of fire ( a yoga breath that was highlighted in the old movie "Harold & Maude"), which is a way to start one's day feeling strong and as fierce as a lioness. Sometimes that gives me the impetus to be active and accomplish a lot, or at gets me breathing deeply, which is what I might need to help exhale the stress. If it's a "feeling small" day, I might do stretches from childhood - anyone remember "bend and stretch, reach for the stars. There goes Jupiter, there goes Mars...." My treats include dark chocolate squares (not too many), and I save the perfect, unblemished banana or strawberry for a reward snack (proving to myself that I deserve the best). I also try to make time to swim at the local pool (only part-mermaid here), do yoga stretches, or listen to old favourite music. My "parent voice to myself", Just do your best every day. Sometimes that means drinking orange juice through a straw and flipping through books for inspiration, or doodling or sketching. And lastly, the key is to be gentle with oneself. Love and light to all.❤ And I know it doesn't always help one feel better about copycats, but people usually only copy from those whose work or words they value! Those copycats value you as an artist, a poet, a sage!

[@elenamigaldi7404]

I agree! I’m not quite ready to come out of hibernation as well.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

nooooo! nor me!!

[@elenamigaldi7404]

@@theunexpectedgypsy ❤️🦋☀️

[@sandradaniel-ok6gv]

Our country has gone bonkers too! Food prices! Rentals interest rate. And support for wars! Our Governments have control and the people dont agree with any thing they are doing! Sadly I think the people have lost all elections and immigrants pouring in. God bless us all!! Love watching you. So relaxing and de-stress!❤

[@janesalisbury3686]

It's ''Strawberry Laces'' for me . . . but today I had a satsuma instead! I'm doing all the things you suggest, a collage journal, sewing cooking, walking etc . . . turned a corner and was able to phone the bank today about an investment I needed to cash in. I was quivering like an aspen, but I did it and now I can relax about my financial probs for a couple of years. Yaay! Thank you Wendy.

[@greengirl22411]

I do not comment very often on KZbin, but I love your channel. I find your videos, creativity, and authenticity to be very comforting and reassuring. I appreciate your encouragement to put oneself out there regardless of the inevitable unscrupulous conduct of people who take advantage of the ideas and information that is "free to take." It was especially helpful to hear you say that inauthenticity is detectable as well as well as genuine authenticity. Thank you for shining your light in your gentle, beautiful way.

[@pameladelancey5834]

First I have to say how happy your plant babies look!! Beautiful!!❤ I hear you with all the crazy things happening around us. I live in Florida and it's really getting to be scary with all of the building they are doing and all of the people that are moving here. Our infrastructure isn't there to support so many people. Not to mention all of the wetlands they are building on! I'm afraid we will be a concrete jungle just like parts of California!! Forget about buying or renting anything!! That's enough ranting from me!! Thank you for all that you do for us!! Love everything you write and your beautiful artwork!! Sending lots of love your way!!❤❤❤

[@TheColor17]

Thank You for caring... this vid helps to know we're not alone. The Richest of Blessings to Us All!🙏🙏🙏🎨🎨🎨Creativity is key. Tons of LOVE.

[@bluepaint60]

Love the vest! Is that from your daughters clothing line?

[@sararichards518]

Would love you to move to the Wirral - lovely scenery next to north wales and cheaper than down where you live.

[@adelia988]

The lady in the long dress reminds me of the film gone with the wind, I love that film, do you?

[@lcarolc03]

Prices continue to rise on nearly everything in the US as well. No one can give any logical reason. The grocery store has become a bit of a scary place at the register. Painting and my little flower garden are healthy coping measures. 💞

[@magdastar2249]

Greed.😒

[@seth747]

I don’t know you, and I’m a new subscriber-but after watching your videos I think you are so lovely! And beautiful as well:) I found your channel in January of this year and you’ve been such an encouragement. I love your spirit and wit. Thanks so much Wendy. From a young woman who needed someone to look up to.

[@annainbudapest1261]

we all have our good and not so good days don't we Wendy, I try even on my worse days to do at least a little something.

[@janinewheeler6724]

Thank you Wendy for this video. Much needed, much appreciated.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

welcomes Janine xx

[@dellplummer5173]

What would I do without you my Fairy Princess. I have no family or friends and my partner leaves today for a three week diving trip. I will take all your wonderful thoughts and try to let my fading light shine bright as I sit here 3am in the morning watching you in Australia and being comforted. I have been worried about your back. I am so pleased to see you happier again. I am so sorry some sad 'thoughtless' person would steal your words. They are to be pitied. On we go, showing up, one day at a time. 🌷🌷

[@helenblandford8227]

100% with you on the world bonkers scene. Here in Australia, cost of rent, house utilities, food, petrol all continuously going up. Homelessness is growing as well. Love and creativity to you and all.❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Soft hugs for your crazy stuff too! It can get on top of us it's such a lot! xxx

[@Happily418]

❤ty so much for sharing this...these videos are so uplifting, from Michigan USA... trying to figure out how to be creative, frugal and steady does it😂

[@joannbaumann4028]

Crazy in the USA here too. Paryers for blessings to rain on you and al of us!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

@@Happily418 aww thank you, glad you enjoyed... it's def difficult to navigate everything atm!!! xxxx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

@@joannbaumann4028 aww big prayers and blessings to you too xx

[@debzehr3244]

I’m a new subscriber and I’m so happy to have found your channel. 💖 I’ve been watching your past videos. 💖💖 Appreciate your encouragement to shine. 🥰🥰🥰

[@lalaydade3364]

YES speak truth! I think we should start our own camp, let's call it Camp Kindness!

[@ljshaw8516]

Powerful and beautiful!! x's lj

[@ulrikeselleckart]

Wonderful, thank you, Wendy dearest!!!

[@soulofjo]

I have moved 3 times in a year trying to look for a QUIET place to call home and it seems impossible😳 also living in a rental, but i kind of feel blessed anyways because the rent includes electricity. So for now i am trying to practice my patience and finding comfort in the uncomfortable. While im searching...and searching for smtg better. Does this make sense? 😅

[@paulajarman9314]

I JUST FOUND YOUR CHANNEL RECENTLY. WOW! YOU ARE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR. THANK YOU FROM CHATTANOOGA,TN USA.

[@sherelynwhite4130]

The United States has been upside down and all twisted up with darkness for years and it's only getting worse. The light has to shine in all the darkest places to help set things clear and bright again. These are hard times for everyone for sure. Add to that any kind of personal issues and times can feel very tough. When things are like that for me I definitely give myself everything that I know will help me feel comforted and safe. Whether it's in my PJs all day long binge watching my favorite programs or not eating as well as I typically do... it's okay. I have to be careful to make sure I exercise enough when I'm feeling particularly tender. Sitting down at my art table always makes me feel better as it is a wonderful distraction from reality. Or better said, it creates the kind of reality that makes me feel good! Everything you speak of is pretty much what I also engage in. I do also spend an extra bit of time in the mornings and evenings when I'm just going to sleep or just waking up in a deep state of Prayer. In hard times I call upon my guides and ancestors to step things up for me and help in any way they can to make a situation lighter and brighter and give hope to darker times. Take care everyone! These are hard times and eventually they will get better. I think it's extremely important to envision the best outcome for any troubling issue in your life. See it as you wish it to be and believe that this is a possibility. Miracles do happen. We do create our world and lives, so it is very important to have the best thoughts and visions and hopes and dreams. Do not fall into a place of fear.. Remember to ask for help when times get particularly rough. You have guides and angels and ancestors all around you just waiting to be of assistance. Much love and Aloha to all. And a huge thank you, Wendy, for creating this lovely platform for all of us to share and not feel so alone with all of our struggles and challenges. 💖💫🌺💞🌈🙋‍♀️

[@saltandlight44777]

Content sadly is open but your actual product, your words are protected and there are avenues you can peruse towards justice.

[@EnergyAndLightAwakening]

So good, I had to watch twice 🍄🍀🌱🌼🌈☀

[@BohoJouelSandraMBelz]

Things are so similar here in the US. I can't afford to move and I am terrified there will be a rent increase soon. Our leaders are a mess.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, and yes, i feel you exactly. but we have to have hope that a miracle is just around the corner!!! it's the way it works!! xxx big loves x

[@vickilimbocker2505]

All I need to say is that I’m just so happy and encouraged to know that we’re all in this crazy world together. What happened? I’m ashamed of my country too USA. I want to stay in my winter hibernation nest too it seems safe there. Thank goodness that we’re all normal. 💕 thank you Wendy and please know that you’re an inspiration.

[@clc3897]

Have you read the book “The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron? I think you will really enjoy it and her regimen of doing Morning Pages and a walk every day is truly life changing.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes I have xxx years ago xxx

[@dianesleeman5940]

All Julia Cameron's books are worth reading. Likewise Sarah ban Breathnach. There are no new ideas. Only fresh wine in old bottles.or is it the other way round. But Wendy's fizz makes a new taste to savour each week. With or without wine metaphors. From my cocoon on the other side of the world. Autumn!

[@Ms.Stephanie.C]

I love & prefer the truth even if it’s not “fun”. I do think a lot of us are feeling stressed & worried about the future.

[@robynforman1978]

Wendy you are a wise teacher and beautiful soul. Thank you for another enjoyable video. Greetings from Brighton.

[@pennyvdl]

When interest rates go up, house prices go down. It takes a little while, but that’s how it works because there are fewer buyers. You’ll find your new home soon!

[@jamesjefferson1059]

When you focus on your troubles, they magnify. When you put a time limit on life, it only creates a threat to worry you. When you focus on life with your love, you never have a regret and you trade out procrastination with passion. For every negative, there is a positive and with that an axiom to understand and map your path. You can love your way through life or you can worry your way. I already know which way you will go. It's the way you always have. Don't hold your breath for the things you need. Those things come somewhere in the journey. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oau5dJSep9mUjas

[@adriannbuchanan9192]

Thank you Wendy. Things are indeed bumpy and the thing that I need to let go of is my job. Unfortunately I can’t quit without another one in place and the one I do have is draining everything out of me - including the energy to start the job search. I’m trying to keep as bright as I can and have hope that I can make me life better. I appreciate you putting the video up when you are coping with pain and stress as well ❤️ thank you

[@lucinadubai1772]

I hope you find a new one that uplifts you ! ❤

[@coppertone711]

Bonkers, oh yes bonkers it is. It was lovely to find a video. I am working on the crafting room for children, i am thinking the big table is turned the wrong way and I cannot get past the wrong way. It is a chore to change a table. I found the new to me house out walking. I immediately put my name on it, no regrets. The work to put things right is a lot. Every piece of furniture in the living space is just as I imagined it on my walk through. I just saw my stuff in the space, it was and is lovely. It is very dry here so I must work on the garden, no time for the bonkers right now as I must get the garden with money going bonkers all around it is time for the garden.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

aww happy room nesting!! xxx big loves

[@carolshumbera2122]

Yes, mine is definitely alcohol. I have limited myself to indulging only over the weekends as I can tell my weight suffers for it. I maintain a very low carb lifestyle, and alcohol inhibits fat burn. And lately it makes me disappointed with myself when I have drinks. It doesn't make me feel better, or to even relax. You are so right that making yourself feel better shouldn't be bad for you. Unhealthy treats are detrimental to me personally.

[@jacquelineclark2432]

💜Quilt of ideas. Well said Wendy you found the right words to say about being copied. We all copy from day one…….we learn to eat, move, talk and walk by copying others. No one is totally unique. Yes Just Be Yourself. 💜🙏 Love the new stickers and postcards. Thank You For Sharing. Big Hugs.

[@TheBicycleLadyThings]

Did you hve more plants or did your plants just grow bigger?

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

they grew and some had babies!!!

[@radiantchristina]

Monday mornings with Wendy 🤗...it is a new ritual for me. I start my workday and enjoy all the wendyisms while I work 💕

[@naturelover1284]

you are fortunate to have a mate who supports your artist

[@lauriedunn6198]

Even when you are ranting or listing how bumpy your week has been, your light is shining and despite the neighbors, you seem more calm. Your little changes appear to be working!

[@jenksclan]

The your words your thoughts matter female looks to me like a self portrait. Very nice.

[@margaretwallach7200]

Nature is such an important part of my mental health. We must protect this beautiful planet at all costs. So many of those in power forget how truly integral this environment is😢