They Left? This Will Make Them FIGHT For You

[@MIMIDSH]

I used to feel like if I let go of the pain, I'd have nothing left. The pain of losing them was the only connection to them I had. I've changed my thoughts, but I remember how much I needed that pain.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Sending you big hugs xxx

[@stephaniegordon834]

Omg I've been thinking the same thing if I stop thinking about them or if I step out of the pain then it is over bc that's all that I have of them but I'm working on all of that

[@stephanied.2488]

Wow. So profound! ❤

[@camilag2722]

This is exactly where I am at ! I deserve to feel happy not to get him but because I DESERVE IT I know that I deserve to be happy and to have self love because I am me I deserve it period

[@lauren4434]

I had to give up being a "nice Christian." I kept forgiving, forgiving, forgiving, and they kept rejecting, rejecting, rejecting. I had to come to the point of saying NO MORE to the NEED to keep sending my love 'out there'.... No more. Hell no. And much stronger words than these. Turn to myself, start taking care of my health. Losing weight. Joining a gym. Starting to run. Ran two marathons in my 60s, having only begun to run in my late 50's. And I'm only just beginning. It is nothing less than changing my inner identity from depressed, to warrior. Thank you Natalie.

[@Christopherj1492]

fear is the path to the darkside, fear leads to anger, Anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering, let go of all that you fear to lose

[@donaldpump3072]

Suffering is a good thing it builds character

[@scotthinds5366]

Thank you Natalie! Me and my girlfriend broke up on September 15th. We been together for almost 4 years. I’ve truly been obsessing on getting her back and it’s driving me insane. I’m going to stop obsessing over her and truly work on myself only. Thank you for your advice. I truly believe in all what you said in this video will come true. I believe things will work out the way they are suppose to without me forcing anything. 🙏🏾

[@bluesnake3631]

When they left the hardest work to do upon oneself is to get ride of the suffering. The suffering within deep inside the heart.

[@outroseok]

I'm struggling so hard with blaming myself and my anxious attachment style and fear of abandonment for the breakup, and though I did play a huge part in it at the end of the day a relationship is 2 parties and if he really cared and wanted to be with me he would've tried harder to make it work.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You have the power of choice! Choose you and fall in love with you now xxxx

[@rillapospieszalski3819]

Wow. Towards the end of the video instead of crying and being insecure I kept saying I am irreplaceable and he can not find anyone else better than me. On minute 13 of the video, he texted me after 11 days no contact.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@basilbrush7878]

Wow, your words really resonate with me in this video. Now I appreciate that pulling the energy I am wasting on this person by obsessing on her, without her reciprocation of that energy, is better spent on improving myself.

[@W3PO]

Easier said than done. The time, effort, and love I put into this relationship made me feel it was a twin soul. A divine force that had me in heaven on earth. Now, pulling back and feeling lost, not knowing how to feel or what to do. Living in the end state where we're in a loving relationship is difficult. I choose to replay visualizations with those emotions and I just miss her more. I know self concept is crucial and I do feel my worth and know that I am enough and loved but still ghosted. I am blessed with numerous things in my life, except my love. Karmic cycles I know are coming to an end so this cosmic portal 11:11 I know will fulfill my desire to be back with my soulmate.

[@lesfranklin1318]

What you have said in this video is exactly what has happened to me when I was younger, in my early 20's. I had been dating girls that would break up with me in the end and i felt worthless. I have recently broken up with my girlfriend after 2 and a half year of being together, and i feel like i'm back in my 20"s again. I'm 48 on Wednesday 26th July. It feels like history is repeating itself.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I’m sorry this is happening and if you’re recognising a pattern then maybe it’s time to look at why this is happening for you? Xxx❤️

[@AMonaco-ne1uh]

I choose ME!! Magnetic, safe, loving, overflowing, open... I CHOOSE! ❤

[@grahamanderson7717]

I learned a few years ago that when I became good with whether someone wanted to leave or stay; I noticed more ladies were interested in me. I also learned it isn’t selfish to consider your wants and needs . It’s self respect which is attractive.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Totally!

[@grahamanderson7717]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️

[@simonthomas4630]

Thank you for such an eye opening video , when self worth is something is lacking rock bottom is not far away! You are helping so much ❤

[@sertacturk]

there are lots and lots of motivational spiritual talkings videos etc but yours my dear, are the most realistic and touching ones. thank you for sharing and your efforts.. means world to me

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Wow thank you so much ❤️

[@Kelliedavis]

I feel I push people away. My vibration is really high, and maybe they don't know how to handle that

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Change that story

[@emonilocks1979]

I Thank God I FOUND this video. I needed this today

[@Ortiz1602]

I hope you are doing ok

[@timdrawbridge6821]

"Enough" was enough. I went all in on myself because I had no other choice. Been 2-3 weeks and I feel GREAT! I lover her, I want her but I don't need her!!!!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sheririchardson7480]

I choose to live my best life starting at this very moment. Thank you for your expertise advice. ❤️

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@kimberlycampanella8713]

Nice weather! It’s 98 degrees here!

[@marionhamers2673]

I claim this video, you are so right Natalie, when you feel enough is enough it makes you put all the focus on yourself, i choose to fill my own cup up, thank you ❤

[@josephisaacs4172]

That's what I want for myself and she never seemed to see my true worth. I'm letting go and pouring into myself.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Yesssssss

[@farzanekahak6181]

I've let my sp go. He deeply and truly loved me but couldn't be consistent toward me because of my old past beliefs. So I let him go 2 months ago and I've been feeling way better since then. My beliefs about love and my lover have already changed for the better❤🙏🏻 I know I'm going to attract the great love that I deserve and desire. I'm so glad I watched this video. And I love you ❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️🙏

[@sateshemrit]

Deeply and truly loved you? Wtf are you talking about ? You Sounding a bit narcissistic and stupid

[@Myloveofself77]

When we are dumped, it is a gift from the Universe to make ourselves the best version of us. Inside and outside ❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Always a lesson! The pain caused by being dumped if overwhelming is due to childhood abandonment. The treatment of of people when experienced negatively will be due to childhood experiences. When you finally get dumped by someone that is not treating you right, defo see it as a win from the u inverse having your back and pulling you by the scruff of your neck outta there! And when it does it is saying please don’t do this again! Instead learn to love you it’s so much easier long term xxxx

[@Myloveofself77]

That was the crazy part that it was great but I was ready for the next level and I thought he was to. We left narcissist marriages. I know I won’t beg because I am older and begging only makes them treat you worse if they take you back. As much as it hurts I know that time heals. I will see him the end of this month for a sales meeting that’s mandatory. I have lost weight, taken care of myself and shopped for nice clothing. He became strange after his brother died. I think it triggered something and they went through being bounced around by family members because mom was a drug addict and his father had many women. Anyway I wish him the best because I would love the universe to bring a special someone for me

[@liliaevans7428]

I chose to be magnetic and magnificent 👍🏻❤️🙏

[@ColinLowong]

Buietyful words of wisdom from a Buietyful women. God bless you and your work.

[@butterflygoddess2436]

Absolutely Natalie. I have pulled my energy back and focusing myself. I have gone through abandonment trauma as I entered my teenage years. Now my ex man keeps coming back around now, but i have realised that I need to have bigger boundaries, as I easily fall back when he goes cold. I am healing and I am working on loving myself and my life again and doing better, because yes it’s enough. If there anything else I can do to maintain this boundary with him? PS - I love these new colours you’re wearing now… 💗

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️❤️🙏

[@rockymountains3704]

Butterfly goddess, I am in the exact same boat as you and have the exact same question.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

To you and butterfly goddess keep telling the story of how you want to be how you want to be seen and how you want to see them! And stick to boundaries! It says so much about your worth xxxx

[@butterflygoddess2436]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you Natalie… I am doing this, even when anxiety hits, I remind myself of how amazing I am. We sometimes forget we are, because our focus is on the man. I’m not going back, I tried many times with him because he was the most wonderful man in the past, but now I’m done. I’m detaching and letting go because I deserve to be in a loving relationship… thank you for your love and reminders Natalie… 💗

[@butterflygoddess2436]

@@rockymountains3704 You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is so sure that it’s you he wants. He may have been the most wonderful man, but you have to accept he isn’t anymore. I’m blocking my ex man, because he doesn’t deserve to have access to me, just when he feels like it. It’s hard, but now I’m putting myself first. It took me months to get here. I used to wonder why this happened, if I wasn’t good enough etc etc. and still have my moments, but you know what… sometimes you need to think f it, I know my value. It’ll be hard, but train your mind as Natalie says with a new story and you and I, we will be ok. 💗 I’m sending you so much love.

[@nathanwoodz7920]

I honestly did struggle for a long while with people that I wanted not wanting to be in my life but now I can gladly say that I really don't care it's me first!!

[@samuelmunyi9479]

I choose and prioritise me, i choose and feel secure in a loving relationship.

[@harshlatagaynar3634]

True ...u receive what you are,not what you want

[@paperplane00]

I love the UK. I miss it and I know I'll return soon.

[@busilubisi5664]

Preach ❤. I'm ready to let go and work on myself ❤❤❤

[@stephanieg4950]

What i love about ur style is how u repeat and emphasize key words back to back. It s smart and needed because as we are comprehending new concepts ..we cud not hear them. Or if we ve heard them our whole life we still may not yet connect w them. Meanings hsvent landed since we are in old beliefs and have trouble relating.

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

Natalie! “Im somebody!” has got me giggling!

[@martaa.4067]

You mean - they’ll be back once I no longer need them? Well, so why should they be back? What for?

[@vadimherbulot6647]

I claim, my soul wants the best for me.

[@captaincatfishselectrickoo9070]

I’m definitely Team Natalie! There’s some other coaches which are pretty fine but Nat always hammers it down right on point. Thank you

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 😊

[@martyseehusen1945]

Same here

[@anonymous-vr8ex]

This is the most amazing content I heard for a while as a Divine Feminine. Thank you my dear

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Wow, thank you xxxx

[@BTinHD]

Thank you. It's been about 4 weeks now since the break up. I didn't know her for long, but it really threw me. I couldn't believe it. I'm returning to your videos when the anxiety returns. The positive sign is the bursts of anxiety are reducing intensity and becoming more intermittent. I have my affirmations and self love plan in place and am doing it everyday. Thank you again.

[@shaleyle8433]

I AM VALUABLE AND WORTHY. I DESERVE A HIGH VALUABLE SOULMATE ❤❤❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@GRATEFULLY.MrJones]

I really like your message, the cadence of the delivery and of course your accent. All very helpful & soothing. BRAVO! Well done.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you ❤️

[@DNPMSW]

I'm a former foster youth and have been struggling with self-love. My wife walked out of my life and I had to learn that it was ok. Right now we are unsure about us, but the Childhood trauma is something I need to heal from.

[@fkc2107]

You're a great speaker.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@tarafudala9548]

I claim this video!!!!!

[@johnmichel565]

I choose to become magnetic and attractive

[@phanarvebeatty5558]

Thank you so much I definitely needed this. Going through a break up now and trying to heal from it ❤️

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Sending you lots of love ❤️

[@ANNNayNay]

I choose me! I claim this video of self improvement for ME not for him and I release him this is all about me and how I feel and it was not my fault. I choose to SHINE as I should. My energy is going into me. I go all in on me for the next few weeks to be that person who is NOT fearful of life or FEARFUL of loss because this Fear I DO NOT claim. I choose and prioritise me and live an incredible life and raise myself on that pedestal. I choose to release my childhood traumas. I choose to have a life where my cup is over spilling. I choose to glow and lose that old girl I used to be I choose ME!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

INCREDIBLE XXXX

[@cmcarlton212]

Thank you Natalie

[@BrianWeeks-c7c]

THANKS. You're believable and you help me so much!!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@32deniro]

Thank you Nat……… I’ll get there one day😊

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Keep moving in the direction your headed beautiful one

[@carolineonline2112]

Natalie, you are gorgeous and stunning. It’s hard to think that a man wouldn’t choose to be with you or would treat you poorly. You are beautiful. 😊

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you. Xxxx

[@ninijaiani5510]

I love you , thanks so much

[@MyNeroshan]

This what she say is fuking truth, believe guys, she really honest, more then that if you think you come out from that hell jail and now you can live life free the way you like ❤

[@lisagurdon6056]

That pink looks so beautiful on you Natalie!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you! Xxx

[@sasori8555]

I claim this video

[@KayRose72]

I choose and prioritise myself. Thankyou ❤

[@netapeleg7721]

About a month ago I was fired from my job due to cutbacks following the Insufferable war here. I'm still in mourning. Angry and wants to go back. I wonder if the amazing things you teach can also work in a workplace? I do think there is an opening for a return considering the nature of the place (media). Besides, you are charming and really put me in a good mood and encourage me in these difficult days :) Thank you

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

It’s all the same process for anything lovely. What if this happened for something better for you? Maybe think that way too xx

[@netapeleg7721]

Thank you ❤you totally right ​@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

[@TomJerry-wv6hk]

Thank you so much for everything you give us..

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@jasonellis8180]

Thank You so much, you are such a lovely spirit.❤

[@jajugamefarm2281]

You are an amazing person… thank u ❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@nicholastyling]

This is the second time he's broke up with me over the last 5 years through his depression which seems to be same thing again bit like deja vu. This happened only a few weeks ago so I'm in the process of self healing right now and trying to watch my engery ❤

[@JohnBoulding]

I was too needy and rushed in, but only after she reciprocated and matched me in kind. We said the L words and then she bailed in the relationship. Its been abtwrrible two weeks since she dumped me. But im working on releasing it all. I love her and want to make it work and be healthy but im in the state of I dont "need" her.

[@brucebaker9374]

I choose to release my childhood trauma, I choose to put me on a pedestal, I choose me ❤❤

[@teresaaraujo9478]

Loved your video ❤

[@TomJerry-wv6hk]

Thank you.. thank you.. thank you.. thank you so much.. I need healing now... Thank you so much..

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@mariamontenegro9724]

Love your videos ❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@katepowell3624]

I choose me!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤ thank you

[@elizabethomoregie279]

Thanks

[@indiakxoxo]

I’m here within the first hour!! Yay!! Love your videos 🎉

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️🙏

[@susanwolfla6125]

Me too. She is amazing

[@markkiroro5433]

Thanks Natalie. My Ex left me for someone else, relationship lasted 4 years, She left me. Now im having a hard time with so much pain.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

It’s not always easy! But it’s time to focus on you! I offer so many solutions for that too lovely so take a look xxx below video

[@markkiroro5433]

​@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthanks natalie. Feeling more better now watching your videos

[@roxieladuchess]

I just decided to choose me and accept whatever happens if he comes back he comes back if he doesn't he doesn't. I'll be fin either way I was good before him and I'll be fine after him

[@chuksharry8167]

Thank you Natalie

[@Shawntheguy333]

Thank you, sounds like great information. My intention is to work on myself. If they come back so be it.

[@kmcgregor8843]

Hi Natalie, I have done so much work on myself in the last 5 months.... I lost 30lbs and won 4th place in my first fitness competition and I'm currently travelling through thailand by myself and happier than I've ever been in my life. Yet I still struggle wanting my sp. I am magnetic to everyone else. I can manifest everything I desire. What am I missing?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Why don’t you get a session with me and we can look at it in more detail lovely. Links below video! Enjoy your travels xxxx

[@reginapirtle2724]

She is right 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@CKww32]

I choose and prioritise me

[@nataliecamacho6235]

I needed to hear this today

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I love your name ❤️

[@nataliecamacho6235]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop jeje 🥰 same to you! Your videos resonate so much with me at this moment of my journey ✨ I appreciate what you share!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@DJC94]

Luv your work Natalie! Thanks 🙏 A bit of a catch22... So how do i live in the wish fullfilled & disconnect energetically from my SP at the same time? I accept my SP does not reciprocate my love & im ok with that, theres plenty of fish in the sea & the only person that needs to luv me, is me. I'm doing what you mentioned... self luv, self concept, meditation, exercise, diet etc. 1) But I still have feelings for them. So everytime they come to mind I gently acknowledge it with luv & let it go. A part of me is annoyed because I don't want to luv someone that doesn't love me & choose me. Im happy to move on but I wish I had a switch to turn off the feelings. 2) When I try to move on, manifest a new love or my future relationship, every time I do scripting, or meditation, or living in the wish fulfilled etc. I start imagining my SP because the feelings wont go away🤦‍♀️ I'm stuck in limbo.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Make a decision that’s your power. And go with that! With faith

[@SB-qb7vg]

Thank you

[@phynekat]

I choose me!!❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️

[@leahmarinas2656]

Thank you Ms. Natalie

[@AnthonyMassarelli]

wow! so helpful

[@dijanazdrnja3997]

Thanks a lot! I will try it! ❤

[@lindaclark7499]

I am going through the same thing with abandonment and my husband left Friday morning for work and I haven't seen him since. I've been taking anxiety medicine for it.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@erikperkavac4684]

Your voice is so beautiful,your words full of emotions. Thank you❤❤❤

[@Louis-yg3xq]

Wow! Loving this video... thank you!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@GRATEFULLY.MrJones]

Well done. Thanks

[@vivienmoulsdale3315]

Thanks Natalie. You have helped me a lot.

[@tyty_stitchbish]

Love this!!! Claiming this end❤❤❤❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️❤️

[@AquaTheGoddess28]

I love all your videos ❤❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@walkertranger5746]

I don’t have traumas or wounds from my childhood I have wounds from my ex wife. Her judgment and avoidant personality made it difficult to no feel rejected and condemned because I wasn’t on the same Protestant belief as her . What my problem is, Is how does one not understand unconditional love and know how to appreciate a good man?

[@101crazysam]

If we're manifesting for them to come back but maintaining no contact and getting on with our lives, does this still count as sending needy energy out?

[@irfanaali5580]

Hi, what happens if you feel their energy while your trying to accept and heal, when suddenly you feel sadden and depressed when your focusing 100 percent on something else?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Your negative mindset has taken you over with a thought 💭 and you need to recognise it and catch the thought to revise it so you don’t feel so depressed but learn from that thought

[@Zoooooziiiiizooooooooo]

How do I pull my energy back like how do I stop thinking about it or attaching to the idea of getting them back

[@teresaaraujo9478]

Thank You Natalie for this inspiring video ❤

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

V welcome xxx

[@firebird3639]

I did push him away and then i grovelled once. he said there is someone else now. i have gone into no contact. Still think about it. its not about my worth after i ruined things its about how long it took me to find one person with potential.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Forgive yourself and keep loving you xx

[@Wanderingsamurai_life]

Um. My sp told me she moved on and never to contact her again. Will this still work lol... Asking for a friend 😬

[@coachchristyl]

Hi Natalie, Thank you for this. I have been in no contact for 9 weeks after he broke up with me 2 months before our wedding. I am living my life, taking care of my health, healing my childhood traumas through courses and therapy and somatic healing, building my business, meeting new people, doing things that never imagined to do and a whole lot more. But my question is sometime I feel so much pain that I cry up to the point that my chest and my back is hurting, sometimes I think about him more than I want to. Does it mean all my work is in vain and the energy I am sending is negative? Thank you for answering my question, I am grateful for all you do. Kris

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You need a self love practice to heal Lovely xxxx

[@michaeld7777]

Hi Natalie...it's me ..the Italian guy from NY..lol. I will set up another coaching session with you soon... I agree if they want to leave let them go but what if I was the one who messed up... and then they left? How do I forgive myself for messing up

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Lol! Couldn’t keep quiet till Tuesday? Lol only joking beautiful. You didn’t mess up. We are all doing the best with the tools we have. Now you know what to do.….forgive yourself if you need too but know you’re and we are all doing our best and its time to learn and grow within to love - to return to love ❤️

[@Mari-wc6jo]

He went out and never came home. Do I pack his stuff? Omg