They said no. The hardest part of the adoption process

[@myflippingleafe]

Apologies for you guys, that must of been tough, Sending you some platonic love and support from me, Hope you find your child soon, Just don't let go of that green light it shall glow soon

[@vickywebster-clamp9505]

I absolutely love you both. You love, care and support each other unconditionally and it’s so wonderful to see. Your child is preparing itself for you and you are preparing yourselves for your child. It will happen xx

[@StarGazora]

You will definitely find the perfect child soon and that child will have the happiest life with you both! They would be like am I dreaming! Be good to be your friends 😍🙏

[@MatthewandRyan]

Aww thank you so much! Honestly it’s been a tough time but we do know everything happens for a reason xxx

[@StarGazora]

@MatthewandRyan awww yes your welcome and that quote I always say too! Been watching your videos and following you for a while now on Instagram. 😍🙏 Good to watch for the future for me and my fiancé if we ever adopt x

[@kindriddecarolis1711]

​@MatthewandRyan hey I did have amazing day I got some bbw perfumes Hope both of ya goofy guys had and amazing day before it had turn ya day blu and down in the dumps of bad news of adopting ya rainbow child but I know maybe soon enough they will give ya good news next time in tell ya there is one up to adopt I'm still praying for u cuz I know both of u will ma,e the best 👨‍👩‍👧 dad's ever when u bring ya adopted rainbow child to ya house into this world with ya guys

[@dianelanza6256]

As I sit here and listen to you speak I find myself crying like I do when one of my own children come to me with disappointment. They are basically your age. I've come to admire and love your souls. You will be blessed when the time is right, until then feel and be true to your emotions. Your love and strength for one another will make you successful and loving parents. I keep you in my prayers. Much love guys. ❤

[@CorpseCustomerService]

I am so very sorry. Sending bigs hugs. I’m hoping you find and can bring home your child soon. You’re going to be absolutely amazing parents. I wish I would have had parents like you. All of your feelings are valid and please don’t feel bad for feeling them.

[@michaelaw543]

Thankyou both of you for sharing this journey with us all. There is a child out there for you and they cant wait for you to be there parents❤ sending hugs your way and positive vibes x

[@edwardsfam781]

Aww I’m so sorry it’s really hard. I just lost an early pregnancy last week. The emotions are crazy when u really want that child so bad. Your time will come .

[@TravelwithNabi]

You guys deserve the world, I really hope that it all works out one day and you become the great parents we know you'll both be! It's sad it isn't the news you obviously and so rightfully wanted but it'll happen when it happens ❤️

[@sandraserafini4351]

Yous will make the best parents , and that child is out there , hang in there guys ❤❤❤❤ hugs to you both xx

[@maggiemacha5552]

Oh gosh, this is harsh! The disappointment is palpable! Hang in there you two! Your desire is so sincere, I know that a perfect match is on the way! Sending love and hugs ♥️

[@estherm7070]

Awe fellas don’t be sad. Your pr precious dream child will soon arrive. You both are so deserving of happiness. Keep positive, keep joyful and it will happen. Love from California, LA STRONG !

[@FunkyFox_editz]

awww I'm so sorry guys! Right now it may feel impossible but I know you both will get through this. One day you will have everything you dreamed off. Keep going I know you will get there. If not today then maybe soon!!!! Your guns be the best dad's! Love you guys!❤❤❤

[@sarahanderson1545]

A child will be so lucky to have you as dad’s.

[@disneygirl884]

I'm crying with you guys🥺💖 Please take care of each other. I know in my heart that it will all work out in the end. Love you guys and we are all here for you

[@carolinepalmer7948]

Aw, I'm so sorry, guys! Adoption is such a rollercoaster. I wish I could give you the biggest hugs. I know your child is waiting for you.

[@traceylincoln1830]

So sad for you both. Your child is out there who needs your love more. Thank you for showing the real side of the adoption process. #rightchildincoming

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you lovely ❤❤

[@Skibidiyoungmijenny]

Hope y’all feel better soon❤❤

[@belindaw4537]

No need to hide your tears,we have them with you too. Your child is out there & hopefully it won't be long before you both get the chance to give them all the love you have.

[@candicephomin2994]

The perfect child is waiting for you. Waiting sucks but it will all be worth it. I love you guys! ❤

[@Lidljr10]

I hope you're both okay. That all really sucks going through all that hard work for them just to say no. Just remember YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING and keep going and just don't give up because you can have/get anything you put your mind to or dream about

[@donnasdaysfamily6721]

Oh I'm so sorry,hey your feelings are so valid,you can't not get your hopes up! But your child is out there it won't be long before you are all together x

[@LucysWorld11]

I really hope you both are OK with the news on your adoption. As I always have believed, everything happens for a reason and I just have this really big feeling that your future child will be here soo soon!! You are both so strong and amazing more than you know and I really want to meet yous at some point because I know that you are both lovely kind hearted people. Keep being lovely and amazing and your child will be joining you soon!💕😊💕😊💕😊💕😊

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much lovely for such kind words ❤️ honestly appreciate the love and support xxxx

[@jazzslaw]

my heart breaks for you both, hugs to both you both, specially Ryan... your perfect child will arrive soon xx

[@Rk-fk4dh]

Hey Matthew and Ryan, I am so sorry that you guys couldn’t get your future child. We are here for you no matter what and we are always gonna be part of your family no matter what if you ever need anything from anybody in your family just let them know because we are here for you and we’re here for love and support And I understand that this life can be tough and hurt for some people and I understand that so if you need anything, just let us know and we love you guys so much and I hope you get better soon from the kindness girl that loves to spread positivity during times like this Dragon girl❤❤❤

[@annachristensen7029]

You are the best and the sweetest persons i know. Don’t give up You are strong and brave❤❤❤

[@antonellafregnani5338]

A hug to you. The baby will come. Be certain. We love you. Strength. God loves you. Be certain.

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you lovely ❤

[@ChlosChannel-w3i]

I am so sorry! Any child would be lucky to have you as parents, you’re funny, your kind, and sweet!! I wish you all the best in the future and your future child comes true! 🩷🩷

[@19RavenDawn88]

Your guys's day will come. I swear it. You guys will make perfect parents. You guys are amazing. Keep your chins up. I love you

[@tailsallstars]

Awww bless you both! ❤ I hope you find the child you’re looking for and stay happy!❤

[@Moondevil9-q5p]

Am so sorry for you guys one day you will find the baby that will be in your family soon may god bless you ❤🙏🙏 2:13

[@johnmariaburns629]

Oh no. I understand 100%, thats why I say adoption isn't for the faint of heart. It was one day of laughing and elated, the next sobbing. Ugh. I'm so sorry for you both BUT you will get your child! I promise, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@tinemuir]

The child you're meant to raise is definitely out there❤

[@mindycavett9330]

Sending lots of love just means the right one is coming your way.

[@SaraTollman]

Sending you both hugs 🤗

[@MatthewandRyan]

❤️❤️❤️

[@janenicholls111]

Sending you lots of love!!!💗💗💗

[@carolc8550]

I find your videos very informative and interesting. They are better now you are on KZbin. I love you guys and ask that you continue with documenting your adoption journey. I was a social worker within the local authority working specifically with adoption., before retirement. Your emotions today are a true reflection of any would be parent whether they are straight or gay. (Makes no difference) Therefore I do think you need to express these feelings as an important lesson for any other would be person on their individual adoption journey. Ryan you have expressed your bittersweet emotions from the most important view to what is most important for the child. There will be a child for you, and this little lesson will make you stronger parents. Love to you both, you have a lot to offer. Take care Carol

[@MatthewandRyan]

Awww thank you so much for such a lovely comment and the time taken to watch and share this comment! Really appreciate it and the support ❤️

[@carolc8550]

As you may have deduced from my earlier comment I am of the older generation, but having watched you on instagram & now on KZbin. (KZbin is my favourite platform)You both have great personalities and i do look forward to connecting with your journey so please carry on documenting, but it may be difficult once a child is placed due to confidentiality issues initially. Matthew don’t change & bless you Ryan,carrying on with your heart on your sleeve. ❤😂

[@AlexisHudson-m1f]

You guys are amazing people and it was wrong of them to say no. Their opinions just don’t matter in this case. I think that you will have a child eventually and you will make AMAZING dads!!!

[@CharlotteBodily]

You are both amazing! Please stay positive! Your little bubba is out there! Follow your hearts and soles. But please don’t get too attached too quickly as there could be another case just like this! I watch every video and I can see and feel how much it means to you both. ❤❤

[@BeeAnderson90]

Im so sorry to hear this, but your forever child is out there. You will make amazing Dads ❤

[@debbieburnett9182]

❤ my heart goes out to you. Your child is out there though. And yes, you are amazing and will be awesome daddies ❤

[@LizzieB-s4f]

Your child is coming and they’re going to be so loved 🥰

[@hannahwhitson7130]

You will find the right child for y'all love you guys

[@lharris3531]

Youre going to make amazing parents. This just means that your kiddo hasnt come up for adoption yet. ❤❤❤sending you both lots and lots of love light and positive energy. You got this.

[@annstanners6216]

Ah darlings you 2 will be amazing parents ❤️ as an adopted person, i for sure know whatever child comes into your family, will be extremely lucky. Be strong the right child will come along. Loads love and huggles xxx

[@dorinapenapoet]

You will be the most amazing dads. This trans dad sends so much love. Your future kids will be so so extremely lucky to have you both Thanks for sharing all of your journey. I cannot begin to understand but I appreciate it

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so so much 😢❤

[@rosiefrost5315]

I was adopted myself. And I just want to say thank you for wanting one of us care kids. You both have hearts of gold. I hope you find a child that needs the love and care we need as care children. It won’t be easy but it’ll be so worth it in the end I’m here if you need me❤

[@EmmaCole-c1w]

Big hugs❤

[@Alexander_Forever]

Aww I'm so sorry. I hope you guys know that you will find ur forever baby and I hope u both are okay and doing well. Its not u two your both so so awesome and amazing and u both will find that one child! That will be yours forever.u have all our support and love!❤❤❤❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much

[@SiennaKinder]

Are you guys will make the best dad ever. Have you a heads up and read the highs, not the lows keep it up.❤❤

[@oldsquarewheelsproductions]

The chance will come! One day!

[@MatthewandRyan]

Fingers crossed!

[@oldsquarewheelsproductions]

@@MatthewandRyan your kid is out there somewhere. Waiting for their dads ❤️❤️❤️

[@emxlyyy6549]

Love you both ❤

[@matteoollis5203]

Guys, in Italy is impossible ( our civil code does not procede it) to adoption for single and Homosexual couples, Lgbt.

[@tracyleeche8840]

Aww I'm sorry but you will soon have a child and will be wonderful dads. It will be a lucky baby having both of you. Stay strong it will happen. ❤

[@MarthaBroitman]

I’m positive that you both will be an amazing dads❤️

[@vesuviuscat2319]

oh no im so sorry this happened, just remember this just a set back, keep trying! and your still amazing

[@maddiepe5pennell8]

I hope u get one I love u guys ❤❤❤ I cried lots

[@millsdoglover720]

It will come 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you!

[@lisascoe9563]

I hate to see you two grieve. 😟 But, feel your sadness, drink some tea and eat KitKats for a bit. Then back on the horse. Good things are coming, I have faith. Much love, you two.

[@lisascoe9563]

PS- I'm crying with you.

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much Lisa 🥹❤️ lots of kitkats right now 😂❤

[@ladybird2222]

You will get there 🎉

[@zack_Gachacb589]

I'm so sorry 😢😢😢😢

[@VlogsByViolet1]

It’s ok guys!❤ U will find your perfect child soon!❤

[@mentalhealthjourney7488]

I know what you mean about getting your Hope's up about getting a baby I got my Hope's up 8 times and no mine wasnt adoption mine was due to 7 miscarriages and a stillborn and now I cant have any so you are really lucky stay strong and I wish you could adopt me it would be great living with you

[@GemmaWills-kk1bf]

I'm so sorry you too

[@fionajolliffefun8589]

Things happen for a reason , it doesn’t seem like it now but it really will work out like that xx

[@bellan8320]

You will get your baby ( Child) soon. And will love IT over the moon and back. The Child will have the Best parents in the world. I really lover watching you. You are both so sweet to others People and to your self. I wish the Best. Love you. 😘🥰 lots of hugs Sorry for my English but i try

[@stacypalmer1985]

We are all hear for you both. You will find ur child for you. Love ya. If ur hear for Ryan and Matthew. Like my comment

[@danabotello1823]

So sorry but your child is out there waiting for YOU Amazing parents!❤

[@trexmasterranger6888]

Fingers crossed for u guys hopefully they will pick u at sometime soon I hope ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ u be great dads

[@lesley.4238]

I'm sorry to you both. I wish you every bit of happiness in the world 🌎 ✨️ . It won't be long until we all get to meet your fabulous child. You two are going to be the most wonderful parents . Love you guys ❤❤❤❤

[@lucymaitland8632]

First I hope you guys are okay ❤

[@SKYS-101]

@@lucymaitland8632 I was first

[@Alexander_Forever]

@SKYS-101 it's not a competition

[@SKYS-101]

@ then why did u say 1st

[@Alexander_Forever]

@SKYS-101 who

[@SKYS-101]

@ @lucymaitland8632

[@DanaJames-vv9df]

I’m heartbroken for you both ❤️‍🩹

[@Ella_murphy13]

I bet it must be hard and wish u luck the perfect child is coming I do not know what it is like since I'm only 13 LOL but wish u luck guys!

[@KacyB1985]

That so sucks! I had got my hopes up too. Does the child get a say?

[@trishawartooth]

I think it's really hard not to put all eggs in one basket when it comes to adopting a child. I'm so very sorry guys, this is heartbreaking. Sending you both all my love. One day, it will happen. You both will be parents ❤️

[@alexjones3890]

Your our TikTok dads, the time will come eventually. It just takes a bit of time ❤

[@SKYS-101]

You would have been amazing dads

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you xxx

[@SKYS-101]

@ omg a reply

[@Melanieobbesed]

I am so sorry I really hope this works out in the end for you I bet it will because you guys are amazing you'll get through this and you have eachother and us and me lol just kidding I can't do much but I am a child myself and I understand because I am adopted and I hope you feel better soon guys you guys are amazing by the way 💓

[@eimearwhelan9074]

Oh no im so sorry💔 you will get a baby you both deserve ❤

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much x

[@eimearwhelan9074]

​@@MatthewandRyanno problem

[@hayleystrudwick1892]

It’s amazing that the little one got there forever home. As much as it must be gutting and upsetting,. what’s ment to be will be.. 😢and think that little one was to quiet and timid… your bubas will happen so soon,, they will be a funny, mad, crazy, full of life little bubas, that’s going to come in like a whirl wind 💨, sweep you both off your feet, and be the most precious, adorable crazy little one, that just fits rite in and has there forever home. But will also be as mad, Happy. Crazy full of life little one. Like you both are, then the puzzle pieces will drop perfectly into place, in your life’s and soles… will say good luck, but you don’t need it… can’t wait to see you grow and blossom into daddies ❤🥰😍😘😘 xx

[@GrahamJohnSouthern-h2r]

Its very sad you didnt get this child but look at it this way. When your forever child does come into your life and you love Him/her more than life itself you might never have met them if you got the first child

[@CassieSmithisme]

Well it’s better for the child to have suitable parents than you get to choose i hope you get another chance 🤞

[@tonithelen6034]

So sorry, it will happen when the Lord resents it

[@ReinaColemanFansROCK]

HEY, MATTHEW AND RYAN!!! 🤗🤩😁👋⭐️⭐️🏳️‍🌈❤❤ I'm VERY SORRY to hear, that the child ended up going to a different family. ☹️😢💔 I would LOVE to INVITE BOTH OF YOU, TO BUCKEYE, ARIZONA, USA, FOR A HANGOUT PARTY, WITH ME!!!! 🥳😍🤘🎉🎉🎉❤ When can you two fly out, to Phoenix, Arizona, USA, so we can MAKE THAT HAPPEN, Matthew and Ryan? 🤔🙂🌵☀️🇺🇸❓️

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much for the love and supppet lovely xx

[@SKYS-101]

Omg sry

[@patrickkobes3853]

😢I am so so so sorry for you both😢 🤞It will happen and I have my fingers crossed for you🤞 🏳️‍🌈❤️Your choke is going to love you both so so much❤️🏳️‍🌈 And even if this is sad thank you for sharing this piece of the adoption story

[@MatthewandRyan]

❤️❤️❤️

[@MathewBoyles]

Hi how are you doing

[@eljay39]

Not a family unit

[@Robby334]

Sorry, but this is a personal thing. But I think a child does need a Mother and a father as in male and female.

[@Floro_2670]

Ok but why am I crying! The chance will come it’s all part of gods plan 🫶🫶🫶🫶

[@MatthewandRyan]

Aww thank you so much! Honestly it’s been a tough time but we do know everything happens for a reason xxx