THEY TOLD US THE WRONG GENDER!! | 21 weeks pregnant

This is the story of how they told us the wrong gender! At 17 weeks pregnant we went to have an ultrasound done where the doctor would write the baby's gender on a piece of paper that we saved for our gender reveal. Well, I think it's safe to say that we had a failed gender reveal, since literally a week after our gender reveal, we we're told baby was NOT what we were initially informed! What an adventure and what a story! We never even thought that being told the wrong gender not even that early on in the pregnancy would happen to us, but it's ok because we trust that this is the baby God wanted us to have! We love this baby so much and can't wait to meet him!!
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[@rashiaannperez2876]

I'm currently having a hard time because I wish to have a girl but I just find out yesterday that I'm having a boy again. We did a lot of research just to have a girl but it turns out that God given us a boy again. I'm heartbroken at the moment, wishing and praying that my ultrasound is wrong too. But if it's not I know eventually I'm going to heal. Watching you makes me feel that I am still blessed to have this baby boy in me. Thank you❣️❣️❣️

[@cheneycampos-cornelio4978]

I have the same situation with you, last week we just knew that we are having a girl after a more than a month of believing that it was a boy according to our 20 week scan. We had a big party for our gender reveal since this is our first baby and we are just so excited. And just like you, i was so upset not because im having a girl but im very disappointed on why would something like this should happen. I already embraced and imagined the future of having a little boy, but now i have to restart my feelings all over, i love my baby regardless of the gender. I cried for a few days, but i am better now, it just gets easier when you let people know your story. Now i am 2 months away from meeting my little princess and i am just so happy that she is growing healthy. Thanks for your video! And yes, what we feel is valid.

[@sparklingstar5479]

They haven't showed you the gender in the scan? Which week they told you gonna have a girl?

[@Skadivore]

How is everything by now? Baby must be here by now?❤️

[@apriltownsend8463]

My aunt was told until 7-8 months pregnant that she was having a girl. At her last ultrasound before birth, needless to say she learned Mackenzie became Mason. It happens all the time.

[@deiheanachors2887]

May God do same miracle for me in Jesus name

[@redeemedbygrace2322]

​@@deiheanachors2887 did God answer your prayer?

[@henrietteikirezi]

I wish my baby turns too to a baby boy in Jesus name Amen!

[@janethunter6653]

I completely understand. I was told the wrong gender as well with my second baby. It's kinda like a loss because you do bond with your baby more intimately after finding out its gender. We do have different relationships with our children based on their sex and it's hard to let go of what we imagine. It is a form of grief. It's a loss eventhough it's not. However, my precious baby girl, who was supposed to be a boy, is one of 2 of the greatest gifts in my life. I fell in absolute love with her the minuet I laid eyes on her. We wanted a boy because I my parents had 2 girls, I had 2 girls and my oldest has 2 girls. Needless to say, it was a let down when we found out it was another girl. My daughter is pregnant with my 3rd grand baby and I honestly can say, it truly doesn't matter. But, my girls are my ♥ heart.

[@megafilmsrainbow5236]

Thats not right the relationships should be the same.

[@cheronohshaereen6306]

My conscience is telling me it is a boy.bu scan is saying it a girl.

[@EstherZara-ll5xk]

Y😢6

[@alicialawhun91]

Your feelings are valid. No one has a right to judge how you feel. But i love the doctor's reaction.

[@tjnn889]

I had the same situation with you. During my details scan, my sonographer told me that my baby is a boy and I was shocked. I have been checking for 5 times before that, and all said it is a girl. I also felt like my daughter had died that I need to mourn. I also felt that I hardly to accept. Even harder when my boy said how come its a boy, it was a girl before. Dr said 90% its a girl, cannot be a boy. Then he asked me to go back again to the clinic where we found out the baby was a girl before. He cannot take it, he wants me to go and check again. It was hard for me to accept but even harder for him to accept.

[@eunicelove5126]

In what months where you told a girl ?

[@tjnn889]

@@eunicelove5126 at 14 weeks until 16 weeks. Previous pregnancy, at 14 weeks I get to see the gender because it was a boy. But the latest pregnancy i was told it is a girl up until 16 weeks.

[@rum6208]

@@tjnn889at 16 weeks you can tell gender. I was told I’m having a boy at 19 weeks.. by an inexperienced technician.. at 32 weeks it changed to girl.. I’m so pissed off! Currently 33 weeks..

[@alyshaschmidt535]

I understand you completely. I have 6 boys. And honestly, I never ever felt any sort of "sadness" until our sixth, which we were planning to be our last. I always just assumed we would have a daughter, especially because we wanted many children. Never did it even cross my mind that we wouldn't. Family was sending us pink things, everyone was telling us it was definitely a girl, and on top of that it was the most different pregnancy out of them all. When we found out our sixth was a boy as well, I was actually ok with it, because I love having my boys, but then it hit me a little later that I would never have a daughter. So, while I relish in the fact that I have six beautiful boys, I still haven't figured out how to cope with the idea that I won't ever have a daughter. If we ever do decide to have another, I don't want it to be because we are "trying for a girl". I don't even want to find out the gender, but just plan on it being a boy and find out at the birth 😂

[@faithhopecharity2386]

My 7th baby was my first girl! Go for it mama ❤

[@veronicav575]

I’m having a surprise 7th baby- and it is a girl, and so are the other 6! 7 girls. I am sad, it seems I will never have a son. Oh well. It is what God wills I guess.

[@marvan916]

​@@veronicav575 I am in the same boat. I am having baby #6 and blood test says I'm having another girl. 6 girls here.

[@lovelymix22]

I have 6 boys and I just got nipt results 7 is a girl

[@iradread]

Going through that now. Just learned baby #5 is a girl. This pregnancy has been very different from my previous ones so I was thinking there was a high chance it’s a boy. Still excited but kind of sad realizing I will never have a boy. Here’s to grandsons!! 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marthapalenciaquintanar7646]

I cried to your story... it's almost like I felt your emotions. I'm 12 weeks pregnant and I really hope this doesn't happen to me but I understand completely that sometimes people make mistakes and I understand your feelings as well. I really hope you have a girl one day and that you get to experience that in reality ❤ God bless you

[@Nirabrown]

Just found your channel. I went to my 16 week ultrasound and was told it was a boy I was extremely happy and then I went back for my 20 weeks scan and I was told oops it’s a girl and I felt exactly like you. I felt like the idea of my son died I had to mourn that it was painful and sad and I didn’t wanna believe it but then like you after a few days I accepted it and I was ok with it. Either way I’m gonna be a new mom and I’m blessed. 💕 much love to you!

[@yesmama2166]

Oh hun! I know exactly how you feel, just for you it was opposite mine! At the end of the day we are blessed with beautiful and healthy babies and that's all that matters!!!Take care lovely and I wish you a wonderful rest of your pregnancy!

[@Keca5322]

I had my first one at 15 weeks they said it was another boy making it boy number 3 😭 😂 I’m hoping on week 20 ultrasound it turns out to be a girl!

[@victoriaderisier7711]

One question you didnt see his part the baby at the first ultrasound just curious ???

[@rum6208]

I was told I’m having a boy.. for 3 months I thought I will have another boy.. just recently they said it’s a girl.. wth! I have 2 boys already I happy to have a girl but seriously wth! I imagined and did everything for baby boy now suddenly gender changed.. I hate it so muchhhh.. im mad at the sonographer.. she’s not qualified enough.. the clinic had bad reviews I still went there.. i regret going to them

[@raquelalejo6789]

We have been through exactly the same. We're obviously happy for the baby to be healthy, but we have a feeling of 'lost' somehow. Like if we lost our little girl. It's unsettling to feel happy to have a boy and sad to 'lose a girl' at the same time. How brain and feelings work is tricky. We're just trying to focus on being thankful that the baby and I are healthy, and we're going to become parents for the first time. Thanks a lot for having shared.

[@QUEENBEE200384]

I have 4 children. Our first 3 we found out as soon as possible their genders. I never thought I could have the patience and wait until birth. But our 4 baby we waited until birth. It was the absolute best surprise of our life. The feeling was amazing and telling our family and other children was a great surprise. Now wish I would’ve done it with all of them. Nowadays you know basically everything about babies before their born. Gender, name, etc. And I felt just as connected with my baby not knowing the gender as I did with my other children. Anyways, you are it is completely valid in your feelings. Gender disappointed is real and it doesn’t mean anyone loves their baby any less.

[@yesmama2166]

Oh wow! I admire that so much! I wish we would have done that honestly! But as I said with the next pregnancy if there will be one, we will wait for sure! I am still excited now and have gotten over the whole thing! I am 31 weeks so slowly approaching the due date :)

[@luzelledevilliers999]

Congratulations on your bundle 🌻🌻 Coming from someone who waited till birth to find out the gender it was the most amazing moment BUT I always wanted a boy and when baby was born and I found out I now have a daughter I cried so much not because of the joy of having a baby but the fact that it's a girl. This time we found out and I had time to accept the fact that I will now have two girls so now I can enjoy the birth of her

[@sharonpountney5253]

Your feelings are valid, when I was pregnant with my son he is now ( 28) and a daddy to a little girl my doctor had been right about genders with my siblings by guessing... he told me I was having a girl and to my surprise when he was born all I could hear the doctor say was o my goodness he is adorable.. 9 years later a different doctor and with an ultra sound I was told I was a having a girl and it qas confirmed 3 times .. so I do know ur feelings are very validated and to be honest I was scared to be a mom to a girl but now she is a beautiful 19nyear old woman.. here in British Columbia Canada 🇨🇦 the age of an adult is 19... I can so relate to what you are saying thank you for sharing

[@k.i.dclothestv374]

First of all welcome back. I can imagine the disappointment but it really should not be one. As baby is a blessing boy or girl

[@yesmama2166]

I know!!! I'm not sad anymore I'm excited now!

[@nanni84]

I understand you so much!!! I have 2 boys and I am now 15 weeks with a third baby. We dont want to find out the gender before birth because then the little one will give us so much joy and gender will not matter. If I find out it is another boy now, with all the hormones, I am pretty sure I will morn the fact that I will never have a daughter up until birth. Always envisioned myself as a girl mom. Will be sad if it never happens. This is definitively our last baby and I am getting my tubes tied at this c-section.

[@piniapriscaofficiel7602]

Hi, what gender did you have?

[@nanni84]

@@piniapriscaofficiel7602 another boy! He is now 5 months and wonderful! But I did cry a couple of times after birth. Feel much better now .

[@iulia3616]

​@@nanni84 sometime is better to know before the gender,i have 3 girls and pregnant with fourth girl,i.m waiting the 20 week scan for confirm me,but i was really sad few days

[@shidahkeira8113]

@@iulia3616 mi to dia last week they told me am having a fourth girl after 3 girls, but it really hurted me coz I really need a boy so badly,,,,,but wat I no Allah's decision always the best

[@johntracy72]

​@@nanni84 Boy Moms rock

[@zc6346]

Omg, you're so sweet and natural about this ❤ Beautyful momma.

[@summerspradleysmomtalesof3998]

My Dr said 17 weeks is too early to find out the gender.

[@piniapriscaofficiel7602]

It depends on which type of scan , if it's 4D scan i don't think it too early

[@eunicelove5126]

What do you have?😊

[@simonestaunton257]

Hi J just found your channel, sending so much love, light & good vibes moma to moma from Ireland 💚 totally understand all the emotions in this video...as a woman who battled infertility & many losses B4 having my rainbows what you're feeling is totally normal & totally valid💗, they're your feelings & I'm sure any mom would feel the exact same!! Best of luck for the rest of this amazing experience 🥰 I had to sub there's something just really beautiful about your vibe/aura 💗 I'm so excited to follow your families journey ☺️ Again much love & light from this moma, S 💚😊🙏💗🥰😘

[@yesmama2166]

Hi Simone! Thank you so much for watching my video! I am always hoping that my videos can help mommas relate and find some comfort in my content! Stay tuned for more videos, some of them are long and explanatory but some are fun :) I have a lot of fun content planned for this channel! Take care

[@nazimkhan1076]

Hi

[@jnellesears]

Did anyone who commented took the blood test to know the gender before the sonogram???

[@mohnisha1305]

I am 15 weeks pregnant with our first baby, i had this strong gut feeling that its a girl. But we chose not to know, So anyway we were told to do a NIPT blood test to rule out any chromosomal disorders in the baby, and thankfully the results came back all normal and nothing to worry about it also did mention the gender of the baby. To our shock it was a Y chromosome detected and not X. Which means we are having a Boy, since its not a scan test but a blood test it is 99.59% accurate. Ngl, i cried my eyes out as you bond with the baby, and it felt like a loss, my husband too was kinda sad. But now we are good, and so so so happy for our boy. He's happy and healthy and honestly thats all it should matter. I understand when you are told something and your gut tells you something else, it can be difficult to accept sometimes. Its okay Mommy's, you are allowed to feel whatever you feel. Just enjoy rest of your pregnancy.❤❤❤

[@katGuzman11]

I’d be so upset 😭 I had two boys before I got my girl. Just know they will be befriends 🥺❤️❤️❤️ congratulations ☺️❤️❤️🥰

[@yesmama2166]

Ugh trust me I really was! But I got over it quite quickly and now I am super stocked!!!

[@rum6208]

At 19 weeks I was told I’m having a boy.. at 32 weeks I was told a girl.. Only an inexperienced technician will make mistake at 19 weeks..

[@madhumitha725]

I have already 2 girl now am 19 week pregnant but 18 week my ob says it's again girl iam very heart broken I will cry daily any chances boy baby in 20 week ultrasound mam

[@jessicafavour9478]

Hello, hw a u dear? What was the gender?

[@madhumitha725]

@@jessicafavour9478 girl😭

[@jessicafavour9478]

Oooohh darling, am pregnant for 22weeks, 17 my doctor said it's a girl at 19 weeks another Dr said it's a boy, now am confused 🙊🤔, but I want a girl let me trust the good Lord 👏

[@madhumitha725]

@@jessicafavour9478 god bless u sister

[@jessicafavour9478]

@@madhumitha725 Amen, thank you 👏

[@safinaglamnails3926]

I've had 3 boys and 1 girl i fell pregnant after my daughter, then lost my baby at 9 weeks plus after 4 years later I planned to have another 1 and found out at 20 weeks pregnant im having a boy a day before my birthday and I cried soo much because my pregnancies are soo complicated and I was rooting for a girl for my daughter to have a sister

[@mommyonbudget7932]

I am going through this and i feel that I have to grieve the thoughts of the gender I thought I was having. It’s hard to explain to others and it feels kinda selfish but I Remeber that i am not line and it’s ok for feelings to pass throughout

[@HEYCHRISSYB]

I have a 6yr old boy and im 19 weeks with my second and we were really hoping for a girl but the countless times we’ve been to find out gender they couldn’t bc legs were crossed, nipt test was inconclusive and the last ultrasound we did the tech said she thinks it’s a boy but not certain and we’re going back Tom to see but I was very sad, hubby and I were really hoping it’d be a girl but God knows best and im coming to terms with it ❤️

[@johntracy72]

As long as your baby is healthy. That's more important.

[@blessonos1692]

Even in my case they use the fetal hate rate to tell me my baby gender instead of the genital, could that be true?

[@tifflovemyfamily2160]

Hi and congratulations 🥳 I have 4 girls 😊 and I'm 8wks I can't wait to find out what I'm having, I totally feel you on the connection after you find out what you are having 😊

[@yesmama2166]

Thank you!! Four girls that's crazy! I'm taking you want a boy? I wish you a great pregnancy! Thank you for watching!

[@tifflovemyfamily2160]

@@yesmama2166 awe thanks and I appreciate it, and yes I would love to have a boy and be shocked if I get one😳💓😊 take care and happy new years 😊🥳

[@SkyeLovesAndrew]

What are you having? I just found out I'm having my 5th girl!

[@tifflovemyfamily2160]

@@SkyeLovesAndrew same here..got another sweet girl on the way 🥰 congratulations 🥳

[@SkyeLovesAndrew]

@@tifflovemyfamily2160 awe congratulations!!! Girls are the sweetest 💗

[@davegowie6237]

We got our girl results and we want to recheck because we aren't convinced

[@yesmama2166]

HA! Yes double check! But I wish you all the best!!!

[@nicoletaionita5514]

Felicitări, mii de felicitări si gânduri bune, cat ma bucur pentru voi, superrrr❤️❤️❤️

[@yesmama2166]

Multumim mult :D

[@luisaschatz1196]

I totaly feel you!

[@iulia3616]

Did you had a picture from 17 week scan when told you it was a girl?

[@swathieluru]

I am facing the same situation now

[@Sandeepkaur-uk8ry]

its possible wrong gender in 18 week

[@myare386]

It’s bite early 19 weeks and 3 day ultrasound scan ?

[@parentsof2familyforever747]

I hope they correct for me.

[@madhumitha725]

How many weeks ob says girl mam

[@Heyitspayt]

I would’ve been upset too. Really upset. Your feelings are so valid.

[@rosea164]

I really wanted a boy When the genetic test came as female, I cried I wrapped my head around it in 2-3 days I hope the second one is a boy

[@freyaowen2104]

Congratulations

[@jeer7996]

Hi anyone here can confirm that blood test / nipt test on gender identification is right or not? Pls

[@reshmisana9114]

Same doubt even I have..any one can tell us

[@katGuzman11]

Oh my gosh

[@MysteriousPerson1447]

If you want a name for your baby you could call her Genevieve if it is a girl because it is a beautiful name or Christian if it is a boy and your baby may like one of those names how they are or so that your baby might make it shorter if it wanted to and it has great meanings and it is a nice long name for your baby to have and would be great to have good pronunciation skills and your baby would have more letters to write and playing around with more letters that is more fun and being creative. What do you think.

[@MysteriousPerson1447]

Would you name your baby one of those names

[@abbassonsbilal1742]

.v...v.e E.w221w

[@stephaniemealler7489]

With my 3rd child two doctors told me it was a girl all the way up till around 30 weeks then found out it was a boy and I had him a couple weeks before my due date. I had two boys already so when they told me it was a girl I had my hopes up and was super excited so when I found out it was a boy I was disappointed at first but after he was born I was excited and thankful.🙂

[@hayaa800]

Why doctor told u the wrong gendar? What reason ?

[@Sandeepkaur-uk8ry]

plz reply me becoz realy heart broken

[@dhanyagnair2813]

Yeah in my 12 weeks they said it’s a boy and and in 20 weeks it turns out a girl 😊

[@jeer7996]

Hi Dhanya chechi, can you confirm me whether we can rely on NIPT blood test on gender ?

[@marylove010185]

Ojalá me pasé lo mismo.

[@alo935]

Congratulations, a baby is a Blessing from God. Oh my God thank you for everything Oh my God forgive us. The Name of Our Lord God the Father is not an expression. We sin in that way God is Merciful Sacraments, 10 Commandments Virgin Mary pray for us God loves you so much

[@zc6346]

😂😂😂 People who have unprotected sex and then are like- 'oh, I got a gift from God' always make me laugh so hard 😂😂😂

[@sadiajahan6248]

subscribe done... I'm 25 week pregnant ❤

[@GENDERDOUBLECHECK]

Thank you so much for sharing this experience! It happens so often. It happened to me too, which is kind of funny because finding baby genders is what I ended up doing as a career. My doctor told me I was having a boy and a girl (twins) and I ended up with two girls. :)

[@madhumitha725]

I have already 2 girl now am 19 week pregnant but 18 week my ob says it's again girl iam very heart broken I will cry daily any chances boy baby in 20 week ultrasound mam

[@rhodahajema3704]

Don't cry dear we are together in this, am having 3 gals and pregnant with another gal. But what can I do? Nothing it's God's plan. Let's be happy and welcome our babies well.

[@madiabibi4221]

I have 2 beautiful girls. I’m 24 weeks pregnant. I’m waiting till birth to find out but looking at my ultrasound it felt like I will be having another girl. Not sure 100% since I didn’t ask the doctor. But I guess we do know how boy part looks like. I know there is a gender disappointment but we shouldn’t expect from day one. You should always think about the possibilities of a girl from day one. Start thinking about your life with 3 girls u will feel so much happier. Think of a name and start shopping for her so u can bond with her. Once she will be born u will forget about the gender.