Things I only own ONE of

[@TheMinimalMom]

Thank you so much for watching! Learn more about our Decluttering Membership Group: cli.re/minimal-mom-private-group Right now we're doing our Fall Whole House Reset, we'd love to have you join us! I hope you have a great day! Dawn

[@thebackpackfamily2836]

I one of your recent videos you showed us the scrub Daddy and another brush in your kitchen sink. They both had a place to hang and dry. Why lie? Weird.

[@erikastanger7848]

@@thebackpackfamily2836 why nitpick such a trivial thing? Weird.

[@thebackpackfamily2836]

@@erikastanger7848 whats weird is when ppl lie about dumb stuff. Why lie about something so trivial? Oh thats right…For a video… 🙄

[@haniyyahn]

Don't you have boots, Dawn? You live in Minnesota. Rain boots? Snow boots? Hiking boots?

[@haniyyahn]

​@@thebackpackfamily2836Maybe 1) she no longer uses that 2) she forgot 3) she was showing us stuff used for cleaning the house overall and if she were showing us how to wash dishes she would show that. Also, most of us have a ton of scrubbers and sponges, so she is showing us how she only has the one scrubber/sponge vs showing us everything used to wash dishes at her house. She probably also has baking soda or Barkeeper's Friend but isn't showing it. I looked at this video as her showing us the categories of stuff that people have a ton of. In terms of jewelry, Dawn also has a wedding ring. In terms of personal care, she has deodorant. She didn't show these because she's giving targeted examples. It's a lot to come out aggressively saying she is lying. Thems fighting words in many places. Why do this in a space that's meant to be helpful? The principles are the same and frankly helpful for most people. I have no intention of getting rid of all my stuff yet Dawn calls attention to a lot of behaviors and cognitive stuff (decision fatigue and paralysis, the burden of managing inventory, impulsivity) that is useful to many of us. Why tear her down? If it doesn't help you there are others whose videos might.

[@nanchesca3950]

It really is like an onion. Last winter, thanks to your videos, I shocked myself by scaling down enough in my kitchen to clear the counters, a task i thought impossible. I thought I was as declutteted as I could be in my kitchen. FF to this month, I had a 6' wall of cabinets I decided I wanted to get rid of. They were actually covering a nice big window. I did it! Cabinets are gone, and I was able to move my desk in their place!

[@christinae30]

That sounds so nice, more natural light!🌞

[@mc5366]

That's an awesome win!!

[@rroumeli]

That’s amazing! What a win for you!

[@Jamie-h5b]

Isn't it crazy how big furniture in front of a window completely changes a room? I got rid of a marshmallow loveseat that crouched like a big ugly toad in front of the window and made window-cleaning a headache. It was a gift from my mother-in-law so there was guilt involved, but I finally grew a backbone lol. MY home! The moment it was gone I felt like I could breathe again. My living room feels bigger and lighter. It's been over a year now and I'm still over the moon that it's gone. (and MiL has never asked about it!)

[@nanchesca3950]

@@Jamie-h5b that's awesome!!

[@maryecho1298]

Hi Dawn: The power of one is so valuable. One minute, one hour, one day. One item! My grandparents had a farm outside of Duluth and as a child visiting them was so life changing. My grandmother would always say "one is enough" and was creative when she needed more. Fast forward to the present. Two years ago I began following you after I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I kept my faith and recovered.I'm now in full remission. I attribute it to my faith, my environment as well as health habit changes. I hoped I would recover and began to follow you as I did a version of a swedish death cleaning just in case. What started as a cleanup actually became a lifestyle gift. What an impact a simplified lifestyle has made for health benefits and happiness! I live by the power of one now. Your message of awareness for your followers is golden. You are making a difference in the lives of many with your vision. Keep spreading the word.

[@angelasnodgrass6621]

@@maryecho1298 congratulations!!

[@-living4jesus4ever-]

Dawn, you’re glowing!!! Your hair, makeup, sparkle in your eyes, your elegant jewelry and gorgeous smile…you radiate His love and joy. Natural beauty in and out! Your health speaks of peace in your life. God bless you, Sister! 🤍🤍🤍

[@brittany8325]

I love the concept of looking at inventory you enjoy managing vs things you don’t enjoy managing. It makes minimalism more of a “find what works for you” instead of a “one size fits all” way of thinking.

[@angelasnodgrass6621]

I have been decluttering for 3 and 1/2 years. I am so much happier. I look at stuff so differently. I am not attached to stuff anymore. I have what I use. Thank you Dawn.

[@tgayer1]

Agree! And I am always very proud of myself. I don’t think I had a lot of pride in myself before I simplified my home.

[@HappyHarryX5]

I found I’m not attached to stuff as much anymore too and are very selective in what I buy now.

[@angelasnodgrass6621]

@@HappyHarryX5 I am very selective also.

[@debraturner9433]

For Christmas my husband bought me a three-way coat. I’ve never seen one before, I love it. The outer layer could be used for when it’s raining because it has a hood and it’s lightweight. The inner coat is fleece like for fall weather and put them both together for winter weather. You can store it on one hanger.

[@loes6839]

I've had one of these for 8 years from jack wolfskin and I love it. I wear the fleece all year round, the rain coat in fall and in winter I just combine them

[@hollypepen4012]

I had one of those by Columbia in college!

[@pippas5808]

I used to have one, and I thought I would love it, but it didn't work that well for me - I found it a real hassle to keep joining the two together when it got cold and then separating them out when it got warmer, so once it wore out, I just got a waterproof that I can put on top of a separate fleece or jumper if I need to. I think the three way coats work well in areas where the weather stays the same for long periods of time though.

[@dianasimplifies]

@@pippas5808true it could be 30 here one day and 65 the next, not even kidding.

[@jackibrown3631]

I’d love to see what this looks like or a link

[@makaalbarn9459]

People don’t need as much as they think they do to live comfortably and happy. Less is more😊 Love your videos!! ❤️

[@nataliesutherland5584]

I agree

[@thelmakatherine5396]

Dawn, thank you so much for giving "permission" to own a lot of one category. So many other minimalist make you feel awful for owning more than one of anything. You make minimalism enjoyable ❤

[@ecbrent2]

Agree!! Because I'm that 12 tote Christmas girl but I'm OK throwing out a lot of other stuff to justify that lol

[@stephaniemoore-fuller9082]

For me it’s books. I’m absolutely not going to be minimalist in that category! Also I have more pots and pans and plates than Dawn. But I have WAY less than she does in the makeup and bath product categories. We are all so different, and have to tune things to work for us.

[@thirdcoast-nx7jx]

Don't let some of the others get in your head like that. When people come at you with the "I'm on a higher plain" rub, it's their own ego talking and they aren't in it to help. Dawn clearly likes to help and keeps it loose and free which is definitely why I like her.

[@tgayer1]

My category with extras are mason jars. I love all the different shapes and sizes and brands of the vintage ones. But I do use them every day as drinking glasses and food storage.

[@deniseharrison1410]

I was thinking the same, Dawn definitely makes decluttering and being a minimalist so easy ☺️

[@alyssaknox9188]

“Extras in some categories, not every category” I love this. It’s realistic and flexible. I think having a number and sticking to it is more important than only have one. I choose to have two towels per person in my house. It allows me some flexibility if I we all shower throughout the day, but I don’t get to the washing that night.

[@birdwatcher287]

@@alyssaknox9188 this may be unnecessary but did you know some people use their bath towels several times? This was not something my family did growing up and I was shocked when my husband did.

[@NLY1WAY4U]

Yes, our family uses them 2-3 times before washing. You are clean coming out of shower/bath. So we only have 2 per person. Works great, but lots of washcloths!

[@dianasimplifies]

@@birdwatcher287my hubby and I both use them several times. We are clean when we get out. I realize others are more germaphobe than we are and that's also fine. 🎉 I also use my own hand towel several times not once like some said, I thought that was a bit much but anyway. One lady says she uses a towel or cloth once to dry her hands then gets a new one and she's never sick. We don't do that and we are also almost never sick 😂😂😂

[@heatherwallace4918]

Thanks to Dawn’s message of minimalism I have decluttered over 50% of my belongings and I don’t miss the extra stuff! Love you Dawn. You have changed my life!

[@hildab555]

I’ve been a fan of the Minimal Mom for a few years and it’s helped my family of 5 (3 young kids and my husband) live well in a 2 bed, 1 bath, 1000 sq foot home. We recently moved across the country and I would consistently watch your videos to inspire me to declutter and simplify even more in the packing process which helped the move to go very smoothly. Thank you Dawn!

[@kacyandlaura]

Good job!

[@samanthab.3236]

We went overseas for a month this summer and stayed in condo. We brought just one of many things (one bathing suit, one church shoes/ dress shoes, etc). It is amazing because we always knew where that ONE item was. And if it was lost, it was quick to find. Valuable lessons were learned!

[@iriswelch3553]

My parents, as well as several of my friends' parents, lived through WWII in Europe. Hoarding is hard wired in our brains. Fighting this daily!

[@Summer-en9hs]

My mother and grandmother too..

[@rhondaadams4013]

My daughter and I just recently removed everything except sofa and chair out of the living room, carpet included. There was truly instant peace that moved into my mind. Instant freedom, that you actually feel within you. Nothing goes back. The living room is now family room only!! I appreciate your messages Dawn!! Thank you!

[@RS54321]

@@rhondaadams4013 So no TV, no coffee table, no pictures? It sounds like a prison.

[@frankmatias6279]

since finding you on KZbin, I have become semi minimal and on my way. A big win for was yesterday went for lunch, with a couple,of friends. So one of friends wanted to go to crazy bins, I did great I bought nothing. I Honesty didn't need anything!!!! THANK YOU FOR AL YOU DO. I love watching your videos and podcast.

[@jwuertz7101]

🙌

[@NLY1WAY4U]

It is interesting now when I go thrifting for something needed like pants that I pick up something nice and say no....don't need it! Took lots of practice to get there though.

[@GallieSallie]

Dawn's a prepper! I've been watchig for years and have decluttered half my house, still a ways to go. But I got rid of a beloved antique lawyer's bookcase and replaced it with a metal shelving unit to store food. I try to cook from scratch most of what we eat and having a dedicated "pantry" in the "guest bedroom" has been a huge blessing! I laughed when she said we don't love pans or spatulas so can narrow those down. I loved RAGS! I had a huge collection, old towels from my family, husband's family. I couldn't believe that I was attached to them. But I let a lot go, and now have a tidy rubbermaid in in the garage where I have a clean, contained collection of rags - that get a lot of use! It's funny what we cherish sometimes.

[@angelisk8]

I'm confused too, but it's due to some of the nasty negativity in the comments. I took the video as examples of how you can look at your stuff and decide what to dispose of, not as a prescriptive set of rules on what to keep and what not. I'm sure there are extra towels etc for dog puke and cleaning cars and a lot of the cleaning stuff in previous videos were being tested out for our benefit on how they work. So you cut a sponge in three to be thrifty and chuck two just to be a "proper" minimalist? How daft. No. You save them for when the first one needs replacing. Dawn has always said " You do you" so have as many of everything that you want/need to work for you. Let's just take the advice in good faith and acknowledge that Dawn's principles and calm encouragement has helped so many to get their homes and lives back within their control in an easy and non stressful way.

[@anaalves3658]

Exactly, she is showing us what works for her and her family. Things that we might not have though of on our own. People really need to engage brain before mouth 😂😂😂😂

[@samiauddin9350]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@janadirksen7251]

We live on a farm. I struggle with coats because I don’t want to wear the same coat that I wore outside or around the campfire. Also, I have 8 kids so we all have barn coats/ clothes/shoes and also good coats/clothes/shoes. I have tried to be minimal in these areas but it’s more of a hassle! Too many times I sit down at church and smell a lingering campfire smell and realize it’s my child’s coat! I also tried to have one comb/ brush but lose my sensibilities when I have to search the whole house for it, only to discover it’s in my daughters room because she was braiding her sisters hair. Someday I will have a minimal house when all my kids move out, and while it’s a dream now, I know I’ll miss it when the time is here.

[@lindenpeters2601]

You can still minimize of you have more than one thing, I promise. I also keep at least one dressy wool coat and one more athletic coat in the winter. It's just what suits your lifestyle. Personally, I think it looks weird when people get dressed up for an event and then throw on an athletic coat that you could ski in.

[@llamasugar5478]

I am guilty of wearing my barn coat over my church clothes. It’s not the one I wear in the pasture, but it’s not particularly nice, either.

[@elizabethcallihan9971]

Winter boots, chicken boots, hiking boots ...

[@kathryntyler53]

I know what you mean 😂 Mom of 11 here, and coats and shoes are the bane of my existence! We need the options, but it adds up so fast and by the time winter is coming to an end, I am counting down the days when I can get the coats put away for the season so they are out of the way 😂

[@karastiff3796]

I feel you on the barn coats and shoes. We have strict categories, but one of my kids is high resistance, and every time we're in the grocery store and I realize someone is wearing their barn crocks, you can bet it's that kid. So each person needs one heavy and one light coat for barn, and one of each for town. Mine live on hooks on the front door for barn coats, in my wardrobe for town coats. Kids coats all live on hooks on the backs of their doors, so at least I'm not looking at them all the time. We have 4 people, a dog and too many cats in 700 square feet, and it does not take very many shoes per person to equal too many shoes!

[@monichippewa2232]

😂 dawn the second my teen heard your voice he said ugh it's the cleaning trio of Doom! Lol I think he is sick of me watching videos.. but he is learning and using everything in his own room. So it's working

[@noreenp.9858]

I’d categorize myself as a semi minimalist. I don’t need an overflow of stuff but I do like a choice.

[@kellyvogel5930]

I will never understand why people take the time to leave nasty comments. Some people multiple times. They are not constructive. And to make false statements like "you're lying". Why? With millions of videos to watch on You Tube - just move on. Why try to hurt someone? I wish everyone would simply be kind or be quiet. Thank you Dawn the Minimal Mom for this video. I found it a quite helpful tip to only focus on your favorites. And things that bring value to your life. Good job!

[@heloisepoye8891]

Yes, your great Dawn..

[@glendaschilder3048]

I totally agree, some people are not happy unless they are being mean to others ❤

[@momoffour2072]

So true. When I travel, the most I ever take is a carry on, no matter how many days I'm gone. It's shown me how little I really need.

[@elaine483]

I LOVE the “Time will tell” bin idea…some things are so hard to say goodbye to, yet they really don’t serve a good purpose…I have donated a total of 2 of these bins over a matter of a couple of months…As I look back, no regrets!…I guess that stuff wasn’t as important as I thought…I don’t miss anything. I actually feel refreshed…😊..Thanx Dawn!

[@Clutterbug]

Oh man, you make me want to declutter SO MUCH MORE. I have way too much stuff. One lipstick?! I have like 4 in each of my purses (which I also have too many of). OK Dawn, I'm off to declutter!!!

[@ikeaischeap]

I love it that you made a comment! I thought you three should get together years ago, and I wrote to one of you, saying the exact same thing! 😂🎉

[@janinedekoker9405]

Watching your videos really helps me to not buy stuff unnecessarily because then there's less to declutter. I love the concept of owning one in a category and have for many years because when you need to replace it you're doing it because you really need to replace it which feels good if you're also living a frugal life. Also I am not a well organized person at all so having less stuff is so much more joyful.

[@tammyhowington8396]

Thanks Dawn. I’m 61 and you are so inspiring. I constantly declutter. I was widowed 7 years ago and can finally let go of some of my husband’s things that I couldn’t bear to part with. Almost a year ago I got rid of my junk drawer in the the kitchen and love not having it! You’re amazing.

[@megansbirdie]

Making a decision on what to wear and what coat to put on makes me happy. I love having more than one.

[@SANDRABUFORD]

Hello Dawn. I began watching your videos 4 or 5 years ago. I was so encouraged by your Minimalism.I began decluttering approx 25%. Over time, the more I watched, it seemed the more I had so...I decluttered again approx 50% and... the more I watched, the more it seemed I had. So...I decluttered approx 75% then the more I watched, it seemed the more I had...soo...I decluttered 100%😁. I now have 1 of each dress shoe, everyday shoe, dog walking shoe, and going grocery shopping shoe. My living room has 2 Loveseats, 1 small table, 1 floor lamp and a few plants. My kitchen air fryer and crock with wooden spoons on counter. Very few clothes. Less dishes. I donated all of my 6 large seasonal bins of Holiday decor. I have 1 small Christmas Tree with 6 ornaments, a copper vase for Fall leaves, 1 vase for Easter Flowers, and a Heart Wreath for Valentines. And.....I FEEL...GREAT!!!!!! My Daughter called me an "Organized Hoarder" Now even she feels better. It is ALL Thanks to You!!!! God Bless💖.

[@angelirohival6270]

If only…. If Dawn saw all the stuff I have, she’d faint. I’m still at minimizing my clothes. I have already filled four large ( decorative) boxes with costume jewelry I no longer wear. I have four large jewelry boxes, about 30 necklaces not in jewelry boxes, 35 designer handbags ( I’ve given most of the ones I had away) the list goes on…My makeup alone fills up three drawers. This is why I subscribe to Dawn’s channel. I really am trying!!

[@grandmab9262]

If you have female relatives I would set everything you no longer want up in a room and let them know if they want anything, come get it. I think when we have have some nicer items it’s harder to part with. Many youngsters love the fashion stuff. Really it will make you happier knowing where it’s going. Then pack up the rest and give it to a woman’s shelter. Another group that would appreciate your thoughtfulness and everything will have a good home. I’m on round three in my house. I ask my girls first, then pass it on. I’m still struggling with relatives who passed on things. Some, I decided I will just keep and those things my children can get rid of later on.

[@beep-beepwatermelon4203]

Awesome! I had three closets full of clothes and suitcases before I started minimizing two years ago. Now my clothes fit into two drawers!

[@michellechouinard4958]

Every bit helps! You're doing great!

[@supergran1000]

I'm with you on most of those. but... Footwear: In the UK we can have 4 seasons in one day. Definitely need a warm pair of winter boots. And Wellingtons for the rain! Pots and pans: I can use 5 saucepans for one meal when I'm doing a roast dinner for the family! Then I need two roasting pans - one for the meat and one for the potatoes!

[@amyr9497]

I need two hand towels per bathroom- you need one while washing the other!

[@bonniejalsevac7946]

I have been following Clutterbug’s 30 day , 5minutes/5things to declutter program and am soooo happy to have someone guiding the process. . THIS IDEA OF OWNING ONE of anything especially clothing is a whole NEW IDEA of living! My husband and I are first generation post war babies . We grew up with no decluttering EVER.. What a long struggle for us never having had examples and especially raising 8 children. I was overwhelmed with clutter! We were first generation post war babies…NEVER get rid of anything! My 90 year old mom owned 17 pairs of capris when she had to move into our small home… that was hard for her. Our 8 children are better declutters as they raise their children .Yay!

[@smithy4121]

That probably had a lot to do with scarcity during and after the war. I was the same for a long time not because of the war because I'm younger but because we we're poor growing up. We always had food but toys ect were in short supply. I'm learning now to let go of things and declutter because my home got unbearably cluttered. It's getting a lot better. I think if 8 children only had a few things you'd have a lot in your home bless you. Then you have to keep outgrown clothes to hand down the next child ect.

[@roseshak8440]

I DO have lots of "one only" on the things i don't care about....but MANY of the things i LOVE

[@laurabielec8364]

I got rid of a ton of cutting boards and junky knives a couple of years ago. That was the turning point for me! I never missed them and life is better with one cutting board I really like!

[@joannemorace224]

I work outside the home. In an office. I can’t have one jacket, one sandal, one boots…. It’s just not enough. I do understand having LESS! And, I’m working on it! I’m struggling but trying!

[@llamasugar5478]

Just know that, as long as they’re clean and in good repair, your footwear will go largely unnoticed.

[@grandmab9262]

Personally I like having choices on my clothing and shoes. I’m on round three now that I’m older and some I just no longer find comfortable for me. I think we need to look at if we even wear them anymore or are they are a special occasion shoe. I get downsizing, but if I wear it, it stays. If it has a purpose, it stays. If it’s something I love or want to see or use at sometime of the year, it stays. Make your own guidelines to help you on all the things in your home. Professional people need more choices. What this really does is gives you the chance to see what you really wear and get rid of what you don’t. Then find those things you need to fill in the gaps and enjoy.

[@haniyyahn]

At the end of the day, you need to do what's comfortable for and works for you. Having multiple outfits is part of office life, so that would be an area where you need more stuff. Maybe you don't need as many household cleaners or conditioners though - we're all different. Re office wear, I think it also depends. I'm from a northeastern city where most women who work in offices downtown wear sneakers or boots in bad weather on the commute to work and then switch to dress shoes at the job. Often they only have one or two pairs of simple dress shoes for work that many of them store permanently at the office. No one is clocking our feet and if they are what's objectionable about classic black pumps or ballerinas? I've noticed the same kind of practices in the Pacific Northwest. I think with office wear the practices ould be the same - consider what you have and whether you like and use it or just are storing it, figure out what actually suits you and just buy that and then consider creating whar's essentially a capsule wardrobe for work where the pieces work well together. I try to remember that Dawn is showing us what she does and the reasoning behind it but that each of us needs to decide what's best.

[@michellegleave2550]

I’ve been following you and decluttering my home for around three years, and I’m a huge advocate of the onion method. One of my biggest “wins” has been watching my daughter (now seventeen) who has been watching me all this time and often does a “reset” of her room because she loves it highly simplified too. I just know that she will not have a problem with too much inventory in life. I also continue to learn so much from your videos, I feel like learning is like the onion method in reverse, you keep adding a layer of wisdom to what is already there, learning one or two new tips or mindsets each time. Thankyou so much for what you do Dawn! You are reaching people globally, I’m in Australia. By the way, I just love the expression on your face in the thumbnail, and I was concerned that you may only have one bra, lol!

[@ema-b1h]

honey use wood cutting board, its heavier but its not plastic cut out going directly to your body. you can find a light wood or bamboo cutting board. bamboo is much lighter

[@Bri-wc4ib]

This was so helpful! I have 10 bottled of nail polish, and I paint my nails MAYBE ONCE or TWICE a year. I think I can get rid of a few bottles 😂 Its crazy how hard it feels though!!!

[@barbkandel777]

Dawn, I have loved all of your videos but this one is really special. It explains things in such a unique way that makes it so simple to understand why we need to reduce our inventory. Well done! ❤

[@mindinmybiscuits]

Minimizing decision fatigue is marvelous. I already had a sort of capsule wardrobe, but I'm going for more of a uniform so I have one kind of pants that goes with everything and has the pockets I like.

[@lisacornwell3863]

Great video 😊 you have inspired me over the past few years, less stuff = more meaningful life

[@Shotleythinktank]

Please consider many of us only do laundry only once a week if not every two weeks (due to work schedule or using a Laundromat) Duplicates keep us clean!!

[@ps0195]

I don’t do what she does on towels and sheets. I have one to wash and one to wear because my apartment appliances can’t handle real loads so takes forever to do. I’m not to overwhelmed with these daily use type items. It’s too much for me if stuff has to be out on counters and such. I’m a clear counter person. But I still have too much clothes and such as that.

[@Shotleythinktank]

@@ps0195 The Amish women have a saying regarding dresses: One for church, one to wear, one to wash, and one for spare.

[@janispope4295]

It would detract from the videos if she added a caveat for everyone’s circumstances.

[@ps0195]

@@janispope4295 yes it would

[@TheGenflute]

❤ The visual of the little scale, measuring the high or low of decision making! I love that, Dawn! I also wanted to say about shoes...I am no minimalist, but in my 20s, I very quickly became one with shoes. Two things converged: I didn't have a lot of money and my Mom was having foot issues. I took her to appointments for a fallen arch and heard all the medical reasons why high quality shoes were important for foot health. I also had bought several pair of cheap shoes with no support that were cute, but didn't last long. I realized that instead of spending $10 or $12 five or six times, I could spend $60 once and have a better shoe that lasted longer. It got me to think about what would go with what outfit, so I really ended up with a summer set and a winter set. Each set had one pair in the "gray or silver" family or the "brown or gold" family. Now that I'm older, I have allowed just a couple pair of bright colors, but I know to only buy the good stuff!

[@JenniSchaffer]

I hear your voice in my head so often when I am decluttering! Your tips and advice are very helpful, Dawn. Thank you❤

[@levesquesonia]

I love that you say it all depends on you. I think our tastes and the way we live is all so personal. For myself, I like to have one of the best and most inspiring for me thing. Yes, one towel, yes, one pot, yes to one pair of boots. But hell if I'm going to be having just one eyeshadow or one nail polish, or 3 pairs of earings... I'm going to think I'm in a prison. So yeah, make it YOURS. Make it your way, your taste, your reality. We have one life to live. Use the GOOD STUFF, the one YOU love.

[@katherinerichardson1767]

Yes, I had to be creative to make things I needed as a young person. In fact, after I married a preacher, I found the skill I developed as a young person helped us through those hard times. I praise God for helping me work wisely during our marriage these 53 years. Now I cherish all the ways He has made me think, work and serve. Thank you for putting labels on the reason we gather items together.

[@dsg-yt]

I agree, getting rid of duplicates makes sense. The only area I own more in are pots and pans, because we don't have a microwave. I reheat items in pots and pans on the stove.

[@stephaniemoore-fuller9082]

I’m noticing there’s no mention of one throw pillow. Haha!

[@marianneperry6924]

😂😂😂

[@jacklynnsmith5668]

😂

[@justbecause9049]

I have 3 and one lumbar pillow, but I am currently looking for another good lumbar pillow because I lost one.

[@MightyWarrior4Jesus]

Because we all know that she doesn’t own only ONE throw pillow 🤣🤣🤣 Dawn’s weakness 😅♥️

[@NLY1WAY4U]

Like she said the one for some things!😂

[@Jacqueline-ff2rt]

The self-awareness that comes with decluttering has been - what I can only describe as - a joyful confrontation. I decluttered books a few years ago, only to deeply regret it later (and still do). I came to realise that I'd lost touch with the person I was and hadn't spent the time questioning who I was, why I was decluttering and how I wanted to spend my future time. I recently did this work with my ridiculously huge collection of eyeshadows - I use only a few and have decluttered these a number of times over the years, so why do I keep finding myself with more? I learned that I am a collector colour. My eyeshadows rank alongside my saved paint decks, coloured art pencils and my Pinterest board named 'Colour'. I turn to these for inspiration - their names also serve as excellent creative writing prompts - and 'brain breaks'. Thus, my colours should be honoured. Some oak cabinets and shelving are going up in my bedroom to house my colour collections, and my wardrobe, of which only 20 percent is worn like most people, is going to have the decluttering axe taken to it instead. My eyeshadows are not used in the conventional way, but they nonetheless have an important purpose for me. My unworn clothes do not. So I can live with only one of nearly all of the clothes I own, but I need eyeshadows of every colour imaginable.

[@patriciafloyd1059]

I love this! I’m sad for the poor books too, but that was still a valuable part of your journey in learning what’s important to you.

[@Jacqueline-ff2rt]

@@patriciafloyd1059 you’re right, and thank you for sharing that. Also, I’ll be able to replace most or all of the books with cheap secondhand copies, if the time comes that I have space for them. Of those I remember anyway - and do I really need the books I’ve forgotten about? ☺️

[@reneemedved5300]

It is interesting to watch, as I am cleaning out the house due to reorganizing 1 room. When I watch someone decide on coats, clothes, shoes, it is interesting as clothes have never been an issue of clearing out. 1 coat, 1 light jacket, sneakers, flip flops, boots, and 1 pair dress shoes. Our problem has always been the pass down, from the family. The worst thing is when they ask about something and expect me to have whatever it is their memory is attached to it. I finally gave myself permission to see what or how I can or can not use it. We have a craft section in our house for creating. Yes for us it is useful with 3 generations living together and special needs. So in ending there are things I will have extra of, and other things I will not. With 3 generations in a house we will never be minimalist, but teaching how to discard different areas, what is important vs what isn't is allowing those with hoarding tendencies to work on those issues. I actually thought I would be done doing this by now but still working to clear out. Slowly it is working. This tends to be more of a thing of helping remind me that it is ok for it to take time.

[@bshows14]

I have decluttered so many times, and I am still not even close to this level. I would love to get here, though.

[@towheeknits]

Same here! I spent most of last year decluttering, and while I can see a difference, I still have a ways to go!

[@bshows14]

@towheeknits It is such a process. I have donated countless van fulls and still keep a donate box around. We just moved, and I'm trying to be ruthless while unloading everything.

[@kimdenardo1076]

this amazes me - the jewelry part - I have recently got rid of all my costume jewelry except for a few pieces. But I have lots of gold rings, necklaces, bracelets that my husband, mom, mother in law, etc. have given to me that I love. I guess it is all what you love. I don't own hairspray, or root cover up, not a lot of makeup products. shoes not so much, but love my different boots lol. Love your videos they are inspirational for sure

[@smithy4121]

It made me think about my costume jewellery too. I have a lot and since changing jobs to one where I wear casual clothes every day I mostly just wear one gold necklace and my wedding and engagement rings. I don't think I'll get rid of all my gold things just yet but going to give my costume jewellery a good going over.

[@pabloparis303]

I love you, Dawn. You are so good at breaking down concepts so they're easy to understand. And I love how you give us leeway to make mistakes. Minimalism makes me so happy.

[@elisabethlasalle3529]

Loved this one! Gave me peace just watching it! The “coat thing” at our house is a work in progress… if everyone in YOUR house used 4 coats each - you’d have to store 24 coats in your closet/ entry! Minimalism just makes sense all around- even “mathematically “!

[@abbycronk1182]

I mean for those who live in 4 season climates need more then one type of coat. You can't have one

[@ccbarr58]

I would keep 2 towels per family member. One to wash ,one to use

[@ccbarr58]

And one ratty one for dog puke

[@christinae30]

I think especially if you don't use a dryer, but let them dry in the air, takes at least 12 hours for mine, depending on weather.

[@gaynorprice-jones1826]

@@christinae30 I agree. I'm in the UK and whilst many households have dryers it is more common for people to dry their washing outside, I certainly do.

[@AudJ1234]

The towels are the one item that grosses me out only having one.

[@supergran1000]

@@gaynorprice-jones1826 I'm in the UK, too. So enjoying this weather at the moment and getting my washing dry! To help my washing get dry in the winter I double spin, then use a dehumidifier next to the clothes horse. Much cheaper to run than a tumble dryer, and not too expensive to buy.

[@tracil7493]

This is awesome! I have found the "time will tell bin" is my best bet for decluttering. I purge more than I would have originally let go by putting in a bin and then actually save a few things that were good to have the next season. Win-win, no fail approach! Honestly, there were some dresses that were making me feel bad about myself everytime I saw them. Those have been donated and I have found better quality clothing for my current season!

[@LEATRICESCRIVNER-t6o]

I love your videos, I paused and went straight to the closet and got rid of extra jackets then continued watching and got rid of extra shoes. Hearing you say it’s ok to let them go, really motivated me! Thx!

[@blessedwvfam9077]

Thank you Dawn for sharing this so consistently and creatively! I’ve followed you since 2020 and did a major purge 4 years ago! Now we are moving and downsizing our home size. Wow have we accumulated so much in the past couple years even though I try to follow the container and one in/one out principles! Thank you again for all you do!

[@pancakey636]

It’s so interesting to see how in some categories I have less items than you have. But I def have more stuff on some. It is really what’s meaningful to one to keep and not about how many items you have or declutter.

[@jlbnerdy]

Came here for some motivation to get started decluttering our junk room. Also have to second the cutting down on dishes- recently went to 2 each for the hubs & I & all of our dishes & bowls fit in one load of dishes. Such a simple, easy win. Thank you, Dawn!

[@tanjab.9714]

Dawn, the quality of your videos, how they are filmed and edited, has improved so much ❤❤❤

[@tandy7565]

This is one of my favorite videos you have ever done! So eye opening on the way things multiply!

[@Jessica_Jones]

I'm grateful for the encouraging reminder that we are all still making mistakes even though we know better! I need to stop being so hard on myself and just apply it to my metric the next time I'm considering a purchase. Thanks, Dawn! Love the visual examples throughout this video 😊

[@courtneynewswanger5507]

Completely unrelated to what you're even talking about, but u look sooo good in that color!!! 😁

[@JL-hn6hi]

Dawn, please continue this- like an ‘I only own one of’ for men.

[@MyFocusVaries]

We should definitely only have one man 😂

[@emilyboggess4426]

@@MyFocusVaries Silly goose! 😂🪿❤

[@kjc2786]

Yes please. I think it’s hard for my husband to figure out how much is too much. I’m having trouble figuring out how to make my closet efficient. I try to get rid of stuff and then I have to rebuy because I went overboard

[@mollyv.9629]

Yes!!! And kids!!!

[@elaine483]

I just tried something this morning and it WORKED!!…I said to my husband, “You have SO many flannel shirts and some poor man might need one to keep warm…why not pick just 5 and we can get them to that man…his heart was touched and he picked more than 5…🥰…

[@alexandraandrews1241]

Loved this! Great job on the editing in the beginning. Always a joy to watch!

[@BeverlyFields-l6e]

Hi Dawn I love your videos. One of my friends called the other day and ask if I wanted to have lunch and go shopping, I proudly ❤said we can go have lunch , but I no longer go shopping unless it’s something I absolutely want. It felt so liberating. Thank you for all your inspiration ❤

[@terrihartlep8094]

It's wise to have at least one extra at all times for back up for many items. Its not hoarding especially when you live in the country & during winter.

[@erikasolgos2066]

I'm inspired! Thank you! Curious your about your approach for overnight guests? I'd love to see a video of how you manage inventory for hospitality needs- bedding, dishes, serving pieces, etc.

[@helenbuckwalter3955]

Dawn, I watch your videos, but, some of us need work coats, etc because we have gardens and dirty work in our lives. And if one lives in a different climate, we need things to wear while other things are in the wash! So that’s why I really need a bit more than “one” of many things!

[@PhilipDonna1982]

Agree with you on this. I spend a lot of my time in my garden and in the recent hot and humid weather we’ve been having I’ve had to change all my clothes at least twice during the day and that often includes my shoes which have gotten soaked or muddy. And then I need to change into inside clothes after the dirty work is done. I think I own 10 white cotton tshirts that I garden in.

[@michellechouinard4958]

But it's okay to have multiples in some areas. The whole video was about overall inventory, and she was just using coats as an example, but Dawn keeps multiples of food. Dawn's mother keeps extra Christmas decorations because she loves it. Everyone has different lives, so minimalism isn't a one-sized-fits-all approach. But anywhere in your life where you can eliminate duplicates to make your life easier or less stressful, those are the areas you should do it.

[@darlenestratton4020]

Oh my goodness....this makes me realize how much I should let go of. I HAVE decreased significantly, but nowhere near enough!

[@marissahernandez7034]

It's the one towel and washcloth for me. Everything else... Totally makes sense.

[@JulieDeOutdoors]

I just moved and I had to get stuff together way quicker than what I thought I would. I was sick for 2 weeks and couldn't do a thing so it was a rush to get out. I had started going through my stuff a few months ago and gave away and threw a lot out, apparently it wasn't enough. Temporarily I have to be in my parents basement until we find another place and its about full. It showed me I need to go through things again and cut down even more.

[@pennee365]

As my husband and I have downsized and let go of unnecessary possessions it has only encouraged to continue. This video has given me the inspiration to consider ‘one of’ as I use things in the weeks ahead. There are few areas I already have only one of some things but I’m sure I can find others that will work for me.

[@AliWade1971]

We have so many coats, gilets and jackets! We do live on a farm though, in the UK (so much different weather!), and cycle - plus I need smarter jackets and gilets for my voluntary job in an old castle. I will go through mine and see what I haven’t worn for ages and could be donated.

[@olivemaycards]

Our climate is similar to yours and we also tend to have a lot of jackets and coats :) rainy and windy? Warm/hot and rainy? Bitterly cold and dry? Bitterly cold and damp? It’s hard not to have a jacket for every variant 😆 plus dressy vs casual vs athletic. Especially if you aren’t always in an air conditioned house or car. I’ve been able to whittle down a bit.

[@MyFocusVaries]

I love your philosophy. I just learned about an eco friendly make up line: Elate. It's wooden refillable containers (even the mascara comes in a glass tube that fits in a wooden sleeve!) There's a palette that fits a foundation, blush, eye shadow, and concealer in one. So clever for folks who like a minimalist approach. I'm planning to use up what I've got then move to that line!

[@susanrodway6203]

I use elate and love it!

[@ingsmom2000]

Thanks for another great video Dawn, and I know this is something you've addressed before, but I can't seem to get past it. Let's look at the shoes again - I'm not a shoe person, but if I have 3 pairs of neutral sandals, I do probably wear one more frequently, but why wouldn't I keep the other 2 pairs for this pair gets sad looking! If you're always wearing that one pair of sandals, it will get sad within a year or two, so then you can ditch the sad ones and pull the other pair out of your closet. Backups! I can't break my love of backups!

[@pippas5808]

Like Dawn said, you can have multiples of some things, it's just when you have multiples of everything that it gets hard. I really struggle to get shoes that fit me, so if I see a pair that fits me on sale, I buy them and pack them away for the future, because I know I can't just walk into a store and buy a replacement pair if my current pair breaks. But it is easy for me to find replacement t-shirts of the kind I like to wear, so I just have as many of those as I need NOW. That way, I may be storing more shoes than I need at present, but I'm not storing multiples of any other items, so it's manageable.

[@nailguncrouch1017]

​@@pippas5808I have a hard time finding shoes that fit and are comfortable. So when I find something that works well I usually get another pair, just wear one until it gets sad, then break out the backup pair. It's okay to have more than one pair, you are not contually buying sandals with no interest in wearing them.

[@dianasimplifies]

I have shoes and clothes and I'm keeping what's left. Lol. I have foot problems. I need several pairs as I'm on my feet every day.

[@natashalikestea]

Another great video, thank you Dawn. I always appreciate seeing your inventory and then working out what is helpful for the chapter of life we are in right now. As you always say it's a continuous process and I find your videos so helpful and supportive. As a mum of four boys (7 and under) minimalism & your help, as well as Dana/ Cass & others have helped and continue to immensely as the years go by. You are right, it definitely frees up so much mental energy, physical space and precious time by decluttering items we don't need :)

[@angie-d8395]

Wow, Dawn 😲 You just blew my mind with your "ONLY ONE" theory. You have inspired me to go home and start with my bathroom and personal products! Thank you for your beautifully delivered messages of inspiration!

[@chall1232]

I just love minimalism. I read the comments and i just want to yell thru the phone for people to just try it for a month. Just 1 month! It's so freeing and peaceful. Cleaning is so much easier and faster. Like you, i regret nothing i have gotten rid of. Coming home to a clean, tidy, peaceful home is wonderful. I constantly have friends and family telling me, "You would be so proud, i got rid of all of this or that." I'm like a proud mama. Lol

[@sarahm2566]

You can never have too much minimalism 😂

[@chall1232]

@sarahm2566 I think if I was not married, I could push those limits. Haha. He helps me stay realistic.

[@PassionKnitCozy]

Thanks Dawn! After seeing your video I always find more to declutter, makeup, extra shoes, physical therapy items I haven’t used in 2 years. It’s just me for now. My husband isn’t there yet. I appreciate your inspiration. ❤️

[@MarshaTeller-ec4oi]

Insightful video video Dawn! I came to defend that it's okay to have so many multiples of things because they "each serve their own purpose", only to realize that's why I'm living in a cluttered/hoarded state anyway 🤣🤣

[@mage7603]

I’ve been working to simplify… thanks for showing how you only have one of certain items. I am doing a lot better then I realized as I too only have one of multiple things. Having a small home helps with the overall “container method” (1025 sq feet).

[@ericarutter7770]

Love you too Dawn! Thank you for making us feel worthy ❤

[@megaradtron]

This was such a wonderful short-and-sweet episode. Thanks for showing what reasonable minimalism can look like (especially in the midwest!).

[@janpeterson6851]

Thank you Dawn. When I became a widow it was hard to relocate my precious husband’s things. Plus my stuff! All summer long I’ve hauled so much out of my house I’m sure the neighbors think I’ve got nothing in my house. But I’m sooooo happy that I’m doing it! PS. I have ONE jacket on my coat hook.

[@calico27]

Those were some very happy, wholesome childhood pictures 😊❤

[@anneelisehudson8020]

There are many reasons for a minimal life. Economy. Simplicity. Environmental concerns. And many excuses to accumulate or avoid decluttering…the biggest is the “sunk cost fallacy!”

[@supergran1000]

"Sunk cost fallacy". Had to look that one up! Didn't know that's what it's called. Yes, the damage was done when you spent the money in the first place. You'll never get it back, so no point hanging on to something just because it cost a lot of money. Could try selling it, but that costs time and energy. Closely related is "throwing good money after bad".

[@ErrinAllison]

People oftentimes don’t realize (or refuse to admit/recognize) that they spend SO much energy on just the items in their home. Items that do not actually improve the quality of our lives. It’s wild. I’m trying to be better about this and conscious of overconsumption (as well as best waste practices as I declutter and lighten our material burden)

[@ImLunaShesZeta]

I agree 100%

[@karenvillanueva9984]

This is how I live as well! Can't imagine any other way to live

[@laurabacoka4387]

I’m with you on everything but the towels. Maybe my family is just EXTRA EXTRA messy 😂

[@shellyreeves8954]

I’m curious how often she’s doing laundry especially the bathroom hand towel. Ours gets dirty then while it’s washing you wouldn’t have a clean one. I do love your ideas though Dawn!

[@hollypepen4012]

I struggle with towels too. My aim is for 2 of each right now. Also I’ve had guests complain about a lack of towels… 😅

[@pippas5808]

I'm guessing they have a drier? I've seen a number of American minimalists suggest only one set of bed linen and towels per person, and I was always wondering what they did on the evening of wash day until I realised they were using a dryer. Here, it could take 3 days to get stuff dried if the weather keeps changing, so one set is not really practical!

[@christinae30]

Good thoughts! Thank you! (PS the colours of your make up, hair and blouse looks very nice on you, draws the attention to your eyes, and helps keep the focus on what you are saying! (Simple and stylish, if I can say so,🇸🇪))

[@bridgetgallagher5226]

I love my Owala internal straw water bottle! I bought it (under duress) for my niece's pharm college fundraiser. Best water bottle I've ever had!

[@ladybird169]

I have only one pink coat, one beige coat, one jeans coat etc. etc. I can't even remember. LOL. This is lovely video! So refreshing! I get the idea, not being cauht in small details. It doesnt matter if Dawn owns more than one pair of closed toe shoes, or moŕe than one plate and cuttlery for guests, so they are not included in video, you all! It doesn't matter that this lovely family obviously wash the towels daily. What matters is the core idea of how life could be easier for you. I may diminish my daily inventory and pack away the rest of good stuff, and shop from that stash in the future, but not be burdened by it daily. I can pick one coat for the season and vacuum all the rest and put on the high shelf😊 They don't have to be all on the coat rack. This is brilliant!

[@SeatoSky1111]

You look so cute and pull together in this video/outfit. Don't mean to be shallow, but girl you really know your style ~ motivating. Your calm, empathetic words are so helpful I can't tell you how at 57 yo I'm finally able to let go of things I haven't wanted to keep in the first place for over 20 years. I used to me a minimal type person and thru a traumatizing time I somehow thought having cozy home decor would help me feel safe and like I have a home after losing my home due to disability. You are so special. Thanks for being our guide and cheerleader.

[@allthingsmotherhood3206]

Thank you for the inspiration! I’ve followed along with your videos for a few years now and now a hard-core minimalist. My husband even brags to people that I am a minimalist. I will never ever go back. You are a true blessing. Keep up the great work.!

[@karenricketson2496]

One pair of earrings!!! OM G I could never! 😅 Yes I have way too many! Yes I "loose" earrings! But I look @ it this way - when I find them it's like a I have a "new" pair! 😂🤣

[@lindenpeters2601]

Trust me, you can be minimalist and own more than one pair of earrings.

[@aenigmatica8]

I love how you broke this down!! It makes so much sense.

[@kaywilliams1065]

This video reminds me of when I started reducing. I'm inspired to go back through my stuff with a fresh mindset ❤❤❤