THINGS I STOPPED DOING THAT COMPLETELY CHANGED MY LIFE - for the better

[@QHuda_A]

As a woman over 30, your videos both inspire and informs me. Personal style is ever evolving for me, as my career and lifestyle progress.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Hodan, thanks for leaving such a lovely comment and you are absolutely right, our style evolves as we do, right? :)

[@Baltic200]

Hi Silvana, I happened to find you just now. I'm totally with you, your suggestions are just me, too. I'm 75 now, still working, wearing one size bigger than in my youth, and I'm so glad about your shoe proposals. A lot of fashion influencer for women over 50 seem to forget that we still live after our fifties, we get 65, 75, 85 or more....we can't walk in stilettos all our lives, and it looks better to have a healthy walk in beautiful flats than to stumble and tumble along the paths wearing shoes, we ought to give away years ago.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi there, thanks for leaving this beautiful comment. So glad to hear you're enjoying what I'm doing here! Hope you're having a wonderful weekend so far, Hugs, Silvana

[@Chicquette]

Ladies don't wish to be younger than you are. There is always someone younger than you and someone older than you. It works both ways. Don't try to look young because you think it's where the power is. Past 40 the power is in your wallet, just like in men. Focus on what you can control instead of making bad decisions on what you can't control.

[@lizziebkennedy7505]

There was never power in your face or body. It’s a dangerous lie.

[@ingeormiston9917]

Oh get a life

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

“…the power is in your wallet…” discounts the value of every woman who has found herself financially disadvantaged through disability, crushing medical debt, natural disaster, or other tragedy beyond her control. When we depend on external sources such as financial success on which to base our self esteem, we set ourselves up for potential disappointment. There is also “power” (of the most important type) in knowing who you are; in having lived your life with integrity; in staying informed and connected with the world; in finding ways to be of service to others. Financial security *is* important and makes life easier in many ways -and yes… gives one a degree of power- but not everyone has control over whether or not they achieve that goal. It requires not only hard work, good planning, and discipline, but also a degree of luck. A lack of financial resources needn’t lessen a person’s value in their family or their community, and it doesn’t diminish all that they’ve learned, experienced, or contributed in their life. Money, like youth and beauty, can be fleeting and is given too much emphasis in our culture. As we lie on our deathbeds, we are unlikely to agonize over the value of our accumulated investments and properties. However, if we have lived with courage, passion, and tried to leave the world just a little better with our presence, then that’s *enough.*

[@Chicquette]

@@altitudeiseverything3163 I appreciate you sharing your perspective. No one is dismissing a woman's value. I think this video and post is related to a woman's beauty defined by age. It's wrong to define ourselves by temporary physical beauty. Everyone has challenges, some more difficult than others. Obstacles are opportunities. When facing them it's our chance to walk out in the arena and take things into our own hands instead of expecting others to come save us.

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

@@Chicquette It’s also wrong to define ourselves by the money in our “wallet.” I’ve worked with many women disabled and/or living with serious chronic illness. Few of them had much in the way of financial resources, but *not one of them expected anyone to “save them.”* They merely wanted to have their skills and talents recognized, to be seen as having value for the person they are, rather than *others* defining them by their limitations. And they wanted an opportunity to be hired and earn a living. Discrimination does exist, even if you don’t see it yourself. And despite your assertion that “obstacles are opportunities,” there remain some who face challenges so overwhelming that they actually *do* require substantial support, regardless of how fervently they may wish to make it completely on their own. Most of us don’t want to live in a society where the most vulnerable are blamed for circumstances beyond their control, or left to suffer.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hello everyone, hope you've all had a lovely weekend :) Not a usual time for me, a little bit late. Today, I'm sharing some things that I personally stopped doing or buying or that I observed my clients doing or buying, with a bit of encouragement from my part :) which really changed our lives for the better. Sometimes we do things in the auto-pilot but it's so good to get back on track eventually and be in line with who we are or want to be. Let me know if this resonates with you and what you have stopped doing or buying lately. Big hugs everyone, I'm looking forward to chatting with you all and really hope you find this video helpful, Silvana x

[@tracyhale4862]

What a fabulous top you are wearing in this video! Any chance you will share it’s origins? I promise not to wear it to any of the same events that you might attend. 😘💕

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

@@tracyhale4862 Haha thanks! That wouldn't be that hard given the number of events I'm attending these days, almost nil 😝 Sadly, this beauty is sold out everywhere, but I included some similar styles in the link in the comment section.

[@Margaretcs0103]

I love your content Silvana…..at 66 and two sizes larger than I was at 50….I’m struggling….as a retired person who cares for my three grandchildren all day, I have little need for dressier clothes however I’m very conscious of not looking frumpy and old…it is quite a challenge! I appreciate all your advice.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Margaret, thanks for stopping by and sharing your experience here and am so glad you're finding my content useful somehow :)

[@margaretalmodovar8401]

I completely understand what you say. I am 67, retired and struggle with not feeling frumpy. Went from being very slender to getting a somewhat apple shape since my 60s.

[@ancac4362]

I just turned 33, but your video proved to be as valuable for as it would be for an older lady. Thank you, Silvana! Lovely and valuable video!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Anca, so glad to hear that you’re enjoying what on doing here! At the end of the day, style is shared, isn’t it?

[@clark567]

Hanks Silvana, Your videos are so inspiring. I'm soon to be 57, and sometimes feel I dress too young for my age. You confirm that i dont , my style is similar to yours and are based on clothing that I have over 20 years mixed with somethings more modern. I have always purposely shopped on low budget, I get a thrill out of knowing that I can create new outfits from shopping my closet of items that didn't cost much and still end up looking fabulous.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your experience. Age is just a convention, we have to dress to feel great! Have a wonderful day!

[@annaklaus8377]

I like this: learn the rules, then break them when it matters.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Anna, I'm so happy to hear you'e enjoying what I'm doing here. Enjoy the rest of your week x

[@Christinadistefano]

I just discovered you and am grateful for this video! I’m about to watch your video on key wardrobe pieces-so excited to absorb your knowledge! Thank you lovely!!! 😘 I’m approaching 50 in 1 year and 2 weeks! My 49th is in October 😊 I’ve always appreciated each year and don’t like to hide my age; however I have been feeling a the need to rediscover myself at this age. As in big questions like, “who do I want to be in my second half of life??” But also I am asking myself how I want to communicate that to the world as well as how I want to feel. All this being said, I’ve been searching for female “role models” online who can help guide me to discovering my personal style. I just sold and donated about 80% of my wardrobe because it was filled with out of character trends, impulsive items, and unflattering basic, boring things I used to hide my body (I went through menopause during the pandemic-my body shifted and I suddenly found my metabolism changed). It was a rude awakening to see everything I wasted money on but at the same time, I learned so much about myself. What works, doesn’t work and that I needed to spend more time on living myself!!! Anyway, long comment!! Thank you for this video and your channel ❤

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Cristina and what a wonderful thing you’re going through really! I wish more women had that courage to go deep in that journey of self discovery or rediscovery! The goal of this channel is hopefully to help women in their journey 🙏💕

[@beautyamongashes8378]

I LOVE your idea of having a friend come over (My mom is my best friend so I’ll have her) and help you style your existing wardrobe!!! That is just genius…and fun! Just subscribed ♥️♥️♥️

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

HI there, so glad you're enjoying what I'm doing here! Have fun with your mom:)

[@thandosdance1504]

It would be difficult for me to make a decision based on " would I buy it if it were full price" bcoz I never buy anything at full price no matter how much I like it.

[@ellenmorse8559]

You must be Jewish! 😊

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

This video hits home for me. I can no longer walk in high heels for any length of time and have stopped wearing any heel higher than 2" and I only wear those occasionally. Flats are my go to shoes for the past 5 years at least. I also appreciate natural materials and try to stay away from polyester. You have a sophisticated presence and are very inspiring to watch so keep the videos coming. Have a blessed day.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thanks for sharing, Kimberly. I can no longer wear high heels either, and it's totally fine. Gone are the days when the highest the heel the better, thank goodness! But even if it was still the 'rule' we have to do what's best for our bodies. Have a wonderful week ahead xx

[@eileenvacheresse361]

I just discovered you this evening. You are a delight to learn from and listen to. I am am one of those ladies that need to give away things I have not worn for 2 years! I also need to discover what I do have. I work at home now and I do not need the "professional" wardrobe I use to have. So this is where I am confused. I don't want to wear workout clothes all day long. Nor, do I want to wear frumpy clothes. It's hard trying to rediscover who I am. Perhaps I will be that trendsetter!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Eileen, so happy to hear you're enjoying what I'm doing here :) The process of self-discovery or rediscovery is a fun one and of course you can be that trendsetter! x

[@zabindhanji]

I just found your channel recently and am so happy that I did. I'm a 'young' 50's woman and find most channels that cater to this age range are not stylish and modern. I am going to subscribe and stick around to watch more of your videos. Thanks.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Good morning! I'm really glad that you're enjoying what I'm doing here :)

[@julainetraxler2641]

Who knew it was so complicated to have all these options. I used to have my clothes in uniforms. I haven’t really tried to wear different items to change up an outfit with different items.

[@dhall8411]

Wonderful advice!. Love these types of videos. I am incorporating these as I mature and my style and body change.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

So glad to hear you're enjoying what I am doing here :)

[@evelynmelian-glick436]

Love your videos. We need to have a clear understanding of who we are and how we want to show up in the world. Enhancing our beauty and accepting our flaws. What brands do you recommend carry quality clothes ? WHAT BRANDS DO YOU MOST BUY? ❤

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

You said it brilliantly! I made a video on my favourite brands atm you can check that out kzbin.info/www/bejne/Zpu0hYahgdeSnq8 But normally I share brands that I know well and trust here :)

[@xuemeiwang1526]

Always excited to watch your new video and inspired me every time, your are such talented lady and last few years, so many influencer around, most of them faded away by time, but your are the real deal for me. Thank you so much for your knowledge and honesty. Its quality video each time. Xxx

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

That's such a wonderful feedback, Xuemei! Thank you so much!

[@marielysanchez2604]

It's imposible to not ask you where you get that beautiful green top, thanks forma all your feed backs!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Mariely, lovely to hear from you! Of course, it is more than possible, it's a french brand called Gauchere, sadly this beauty is sold out though :(

[@joanannewallace]

After watching one of your videos I've gone out and had my hair styled and cut. I've taken 3 bags of clothes to the op-shop, and I've put all my skirts together, tops and dresses so that I can see what I have to wear and match. I've got stuff that's too tight and never worn but I'm keeping those just in case I lose a bit and fit in them again. I'm only going to buy good quality pieces that will mix and match.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Aww that makes me so happy to hear:) Have fun styling and thanks for your lovely comment x

[@MsBuffalopoo]

Can you talk about products that are toxic? Many well known skin care products, shampoos, make up, sun screen & hair color are toxic. Thank you for talking about these things.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Nancy, firstly thanks so much for stopping by. I’m planning to do a comprehensive video on beauty! Stay tuned and thanks for the suggestion x

[@angelablackburn6268]

One of my favorite videos from you. Lots of good information and advice! Thank you!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Angela, so glad you enjoyed this video. Thanks for letting me know :)

[@joycemorrow5840]

Thank you once again for sharing your knowledge and advice/guidelines for us ladies. You’re looking fantastic as usual.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thanks so much for the support and the lovely comment, Joyce!

[@LifeBeginsafter50]

I am subscribed! What a fabulous topic!!

[@misty6161]

I would love to know which shoe brands you have found that work for you. I am on the hunt for some beautiful and comfortable shoes to wear with my dressier outfits.

[@classiccappie]

I love your videos! I'm binge watching them all 😊 So informative. Just what I need .

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

I’m so happy to hear you’re enjoying what I’m doing here! It really means a lot:)

[@VanityAndMe]

Thank you for another vlog packed with tips Silvana. I will keep the skirt length in mind xx

[@nened9105]

Love your video! You nailed it, all important points! Subscribed.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Good morning, Nene. Lovely to hear from you and that you found it useful :) Thanks so much for subscribing! Have a fabulous week ahead!

[@designlady1732]

Hi there! I think there's a problem with the US Board link above. Thanks for another great video!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thanks for letting me know, I have rectified the link and it seems to be working now :)

[@mariadagloriasilva3495]

Que agradável surpresa! Sigo teu canal já há bastante tempo. Você apresenta um conteúdo de ótima qualidade. Um grande beijo. Muito sucesso

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Que ótimo que você está gostando do meu canal, Maria! E que bom ter uma assinante que fala português 😊

[@druidriley3163]

Love the jacket with the clam diggers.

[@tinajoneswilliams4253]

Excellent video. I appreciate your thoughtful approach to fashion. Xoxo

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Tina, thanks for the wonderful feedback! Hope you have a great week ahead x

[@fredacharbel7510]

@silvana Patrick is the skin doctor you saw was it a dermatologist? And did you go to a normal acupuncture therapist for your face or it’s a more specialised one? Thanks 😊

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Freda, thanks for stopping by and getting in touch, I've just answered your email :) I saw a dermatologist and many acupuncturists are doing that, but not all. I'm guessing mostly women acupuncturists, because both of them were female. Hope it helped x

[@tangiessubtleluxuries]

Thank you for the great tips!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

You're most welcome, Tangie!

[@golfgirl4211]

Silvana, where did you get that lovely green blouse? What brand is it?

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi, it’s from a French brand called Gauchere and unfortunately it’s sold out. You can find the brand at www.net-a-porter.com/ or maybe find it at www.shopstyle.com/ Good luck :)

[@lyndsymelly3262]

Really helpful thank you. Love your top! 😊

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Lyndsy, thanks for stopping by. I'm so glad to hear you found it helpful :)

[@lizzy5553]

Hi. Can we talk about your top? I couldn’t take my eyes off of it! Where can we get it? Thank you

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Elizabeth, thanks it’s a lovely one isn’t it?

[@buddleiabee]

Facial acupuncture is great. I've never had the desire to have botox. A neuro toxin injected into your head with no long term studies seems a bit naive & highly risky to me. Interesting to hear people are developing antibodies to it. More women need to speak out about these cosmetic procedures.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi and thanks for stopping by. You’re right we need to get more on top of the consequences of these procedures both emotionally and physically.

[@bridkelleher5374]

Another wonderful, inspiring video.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Aww thanks, Brad! It means a lot!

[@gabrieladeesteban2997]

Hello, May I ask which brand is your blouse. looks great!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Gabriela, it's from a brand called Gauchere :)

[@miriamalonso3959]

Love your advice! New subscriber

[@sarahofer4368]

I don't mind my wrinkles; I earned each and every one of them. That said, I do try to take good care of my skin, from the inside and out.

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Sarah, it's a very healthy approach to the process of ageing :)

[@michelleclark8099]

Excellent 😊‼️

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Michelle, thanks so much! It really means a lot :)

[@kathiharris6595]

Awesome content!

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thank you so much, Kathi! Glad you’re enjoying what I’m doing here :)

[@norbertopools3330]

Adoro a sua blusa! Pode partilhar de onde são; loja ou marca? Beijinhos

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

OI Norberto, qual blusa voce esta se referindo? Eu geralmente coloco um link com as pecas mostradas na caixa de descricao. Nem sempre estao disponiveis, nesse caso, eu coloco pecas similares. Me diga se ela esta inclusa la. Bj

[@madeleineericsson7951]

The dress have the length to half the leggs, look like the leggs is cut of. It’s better under the knees or longer.

[@attitudedesignsinteriors]

😁 I love your videos

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Ana xx

[@kafrobmon]

I enjoyed this

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi there, glad to hear you enjoyed it :)

[@susanlombardi3845]

I feel 100 times better when I wear heels😂😂

[@lorimartin7662]

1st time viewing. Are you in the USA? Can you recommend stores that are great for over 60? I don’t want to look like an old woman Lol

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Hi Lori, I am in Australia. I always suggest stores in the US for US viewers, except for this video. So stay tuned for the next videos or you look at my previous videos when I place links in the description box. Hope it helped.

[@liacorker5786]

Brasileira?? Choquei! 🤩

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Sim, brasileiríssima 💕

[@alphafe1621]

🙏🏼🙏🏼👌👍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌷👍

[@silvanapatrick_stylist]

Thank you so much! 🙏