THINGS I've COMPLETELY STOPPED BUYING

I've stopped buying these items for my wardrobe!
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FALL WARDROBE ESSENTIALS:
For reference here are my measurements as well so you know what sizes that I'm wearing:
Height : 5' 1"
Size: Small
Measurements: 35" - 25" - 35"
shoe size: 7/37
Ballerina Flat:
Pair one: rstyle.me/+pT2ePhAMwPQAoPB0tS...
Pair Two: rstyle.me/+qPZcEh--7tE1tb3x5B...
Pair Three: rstyle.me/+5eSZEjl_YcWxOK1fWc...
Pair Four: rstyle.me/+G7fYDsw9NQBwaS7Fv7...
Chanel: rstyle.me/+nAyRyzNp6rS4AcLBe8...
Chanel: rstyle.me/+6-i_s6YghEqPVXhqQr...
Kitten Heel: rstyle.me/+KbpqAicDw9iapj6b0f...
Backpacks:
Bag one: rstyle.me/+KYP6oILFHiUJnA5Ljn...
Bag two: rstyle.me/+Gunrx9ejwbU2lWJSI6...
Bag three: rstyle.me/+NdXEGunoQ3f_wsIvek...
Bag four: rstyle.me/+zuz6VqtnTTuwTapXD1...
Bag Five: rstyle.me/+PYTpTMjMHoNiohpUAo...
YSL bag: rstyle.me/+DGcnKmRV7jOBOKq5zM...
Coach Bag: amzn.to/3ePXEnQ
Scrunchies: rstyle.me/+MFBIxYJkRe3ROetgMh...
Loafers:
Pair one: rstyle.me/+UkcYOEZrJlPM_6292D...
Chunky loafer: rstyle.me/+gnqM4uAKF05xt5mc7K...
Chunky loafer: rstyle.me/+KEYPU8N7gOFJBVVJvd...
Chunky Loafer: rstyle.me/+8GmUFXfbx9BLhRF9Si...
Chunky Loafer: rstyle.me/+-DYqlcsiBIePcI4BdM...
Mule: rstyle.me/+5ksSGdUqlFKBg1Ay6s...
(mine are sold our again) These are almost identical: rstyle.me/+DEmIhEamfKMd5aLohY...
Cheetah Print:
Similar Cheetah Blouse: rstyle.me/+qUZN225Gf-Lq8oNtjw...
H&M Blouse: rstyle.me/+sQe3fiZU7_usDnEtFt...
Houndstooth blouse: similar: rstyle.me/+jCSCijqV_iytbVNPU9...
Black White Blouse: rstyle.me/+0qX6c20e_0JsH8Fb_C...
Moto jacket
Jacket one: rstyle.me/+ebX1Mxu3l1XHT4JPWV...
Jacket two: rstyle.me/+4YZiaw4YBCauEnXAnB...
blazer: Zara
Pink:
Pink Blazer:
Auburn Blouse: rstyle.me/+3zbo22lz4xUnEqF4ke...
Auburn Blouse: rstyle.me/+Y3-EwRTQyJwESQ_WYQ...
Pajamas: rstyle.me/+rVBLi_-4J0VGqyWKXA...
Beanie Hat:
Beanie: amzn.to/3VSL9ZA
PomPom: rstyle.me/+obTr10CXjtu9w13-xb...
Fur Hat: rstyle.me/+jBXP_CahAnBUV2L7dr...
Wool Cap: rstyle.me/+SaVs4DUVyd7duJzndS...
Wedge Heels:
First pair: rstyle.me/+T4HsAbQ3hnPtTT6yNn...
Second pair: rstyle.me/+tk0IuT3TzzQyxTCHWy...
Valentino Sandal: rstyle.me/+ZDIf3gsEeiHx1_8f_x...
Similar Sandal: rstyle.me/+5xMTQyUeqDCcexOaWD...
Slingback: rstyle.me/+-TOvsg4C3AJLc2Z0t9...
Leather Metallic Heel: rstyle.me/+UoZQZx7hX0EEkLRRp3...
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[@TaniaMercer]

Valentina - it’s refreshing to hear how passionate and unapologetic you are about what you *don’t* like just as much as what you do like.

[@LumiFlake]

Hating with enthusiasm! Yess!!! The slouchy beanie definitely belongs to the 00's, mohair beanies from different scandi brands are the way to go.

[@marlaalbert7906]

Valentina - I am 5’2” and TOTALLY agree with you about the shoes...thought it was just me, but it may be our size. No bulky shoes here, no wedge heels, and no rounded ballet toes! I LOVE heels...kitten heels are perfect for all day! ❤

[@peggyekena9966]

I would add jeans, with holes in them, to your list. I can't bring myself to spend money on jeans that look like they went through a shredding machine. There is no way to make them look nice! I also agree with you about the wedge heels. They are a difficult shoe to walk in, especially if they have that narrowed heel. I would be afraid of twisting my ankle in those shoes.

[@mrnt1257]

Agree about those jeans. I’ve seen some that I say, “why not wear shorts since all your leg is exposed?” And they’re just tacky to me.

[@Life_by_valentina]

Love those jeans haha

[@deeterr1227]

Ripped jeans😱..most horrible things EVER!!!! If your over the age of 20, you just look ridiculous and looks like ones trying very hard to hang on to their youth/childhood. Im not spending my money on shredded material at this age. Im speaking as a hard core coastal New Englander, so I might be mistaken, just me 2 cents.😉

[@ferrisd7566]

You shouldn't have to shave your legs to wear a pair of jeans.

[@victorialove9104]

What I hate most about ripped jeans is not only do they look trashy and inelegant but they send a nasty message of elitism. I traveled more than 100 times around the world in my youth. I saw real crushing hopeless shocking poverty. People of all ages who had only ripped clothing to wear. They would have been so grateful to have clothes that didn't have holes in them. I traveled with clothes to give away and received tears of joy in return. I couldn't help everyone but I did what I could. here we have insensitive people paying ridiculous amounts of money for jeans with rips and holes in them. A painful and ugly mockery of people forced to wear ripped clothes. These deliberately ripped and shredded jeans are not only ugly and out of style they make a mockery of poverty. Make it stop.

[@erikahyman8611]

I think it’s important for people to understand what works for them regardless of trends because trends are so fleeting & classics are called classics for a reason. When you held the blouses up to your face I could see how beautifully they went with your skin tone & hair color. They clearly work for you.

[@angelinakosovan8761]

Loved this video. I never took the time to consider how a piece looks on me personally. I just figured, if it looks cute on the model, or if its on trend then I'm good to go. But now I see why I never reach for the piece of clothing or shoe or bag after I buy it. Thank you Valentina, I am a more mindful buyer now:)

[@megbouvier1]

I really love hearing what you do not buy anymore, and would love an entire video on the quality items you have had a long time and strongly recommend. I am pursuing low-buy and sustainability, so I love advice on careful purchasing. Would also love some videos on how to style items you already own. Thanks!

[@lindalussier5067]

I agree with almost everything you said. I am just a bit over 5’ tall and always felt that ballet flats and backpack style handbags made me look like I was a little girl. I am also very careful with animal prints in clothing and, regarding hot pink or fuchsia, I can totally see why you might not like that color. I have a very light complexion and nearly black hair, so those colors look great on me, but your coloring is totally different.

[@emiliaescobar7652]

I feel the same way about ballerina flats & pom pom hats, Love her style!

[@antoinettepugliese5093]

Hi Valentina, I love watching you. You are so much like me when I was in my 40's. I'm now 60, petite, 5'2", Italian American, olive skin, and continue to think and like the same style and designs as you. I've always loved heels and worn them when I worked in an office setting. Now that I don't wear a 3-inch heel to work anymore, I do love a kitten heel when I go shopping or church. I love pink too, but not all pinks look good on me. I like your idea of a darker hue of pink. I love blazers, but I don't wear it because I'm home and I feel it's so much clothing on. I wear a light cardigan sweater. I like a ballerina flat around the house, not so much when I go out. I too don't like backpack bags. When I used one for a trip I took, I stuffed that bag so much that my shoulders and back was hurting. I prefer a crossbody too. I bought the cutest Kate Spade Crossbody in an airport store. Love it, I use it all the time. I live in New York, and I wear lots of different style hats. When I was younger, I never wore a hat because it always flattened out my hair style. Now that I am older, I don't care. :) So, I guess, as long as I look and feel young, I'm going to continue wearing what makes me happy. Take care. P.S. Also love you home design. I've incorporated a few new ideas into my current house design.

[@apostolicmodestfashion]

100% on everything. My Vince Camuto heels are just as comfortable as wedges for sure. I do have a pair of Rothy's pointed toe flats I wear instead of ballet flats.

[@aniazurek7258]

👏🏻✨ Another great video! Couldn’t agree more about the loafers… and everything else. Timeless, classic, and elegant will always see us through any trends and will be worth the money spent.

[@deeterr1227]

Im so with you on the Back Pack situation!!! That's a hard NO for me also. Im way past school age and I also don't like anything on my back. When I travel I carry my Marc Jacobs mini (canvas) tote and MJ's large tote, they hold huge amounts of stuff, and I look stylish carrying them.. Love love love them 😁

[@Julie-lx6fe]

Fantastic video and a good topic for discussion here in your community-thank you for being a voice of reason regarding some of these wardrobe items. I have learned the shoe lesson the hard way (teacher-on my feet all day!!) and now do not buy any shoe without serious arch support. I think that we become more discerning as we age and realize that refinement and sophistication really matter at just about the time when we have more disposable income for "investment pieces" too-at least that's what happened to me. Our distinct styles are what make us stand out and noticeably impact how others treat us. I NEVER wanted to be like everyone else in the first place! Really enjoy all of your posts-keep them coming!

[@deborahmattin6026]

Some of us need a round toe box shoe because of foot problems, it does make shoe shopping difficult but comfort/foot health come first! Thank you for you input

[@caroleberreur9585]

Also what she said about a heel being better for your posture is not always true. I mean, yes, a short heel can help, but not the kind she showed (kitten) and a flat shoe is very good for the posture if it supports the foot enough.

[@rach5516]

Me too, they are so comfortable, and you can make them look sophisticated.

[@DawnGochinas24]

Loved this video. Going shopping soon for new clothes. Been on a shopping hiatus since the pandemic started so excited to shop again with your fashion recommendations!!

[@CristaStylista]

Great video! I'm good with a ballet flat, but I need a pointed toe. As a petite person as well, I often wonder if the fashion items I avoid are the things that just don't look good considering my height!

[@ericksonsails]

I agree about the back packs. The only backpack I like is a sling type that I can wear at the side or front. I had one for years and want to replace but can't find one.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Love your videos (and Liked) and subscribed. Thanks for all the work you put into them, especially the links. I have lots saved from your recent SS trends video, now I just need my February wardrobe budget to open up, one more week!

[@fip62]

I'm with you on backpacks (never had one) and leopard print. Here in northern Europe a hat is essential in winter but like you I prefer a bobble hat. Love your YSL bag.

[@shartropicambassador7473]

I'm shocked about the wedge heel comments. I honestly thought it was universal truth that wedges were the most comfortable 'heel'. Personally I love them and find them very comfortable and stable to walk in. I will say though, the wedge can't be too high or it defeats the purpose. I agree about back packs and animals prints

[@5mullys]

Oh, it was so satisfying to hear you say no ballet flats, moto jackets, chunky shoes, loafers, backpacks, and beanies. I'm 5'0" tall and I don't need to look any shorter or add weight with heavy, chunky items. But I am always tempted to buy these things when I see how cute they look on other women. Thanks for reminding me to stay true to my style and avoid trends. But I do love hot pink! 😉

[@FrazzledVirgo]

i am loving the loafers now though! i dont believe in saying no to anything depnds on height boyd etc i agree with no moto no ballet flats tho ha

[@roslynjones5886]

Thank you Valentina, for making this video!!! My absolute FAVORITE shoe is a kitten heel. I thought they were out of style because I don’t see them much. The problem is I have knee issues and can probably only wear 1.5 inch heels at the most. I haven’t worn a heel in around 8-10 years. I also have big feet and it’s pretty hard to find my size. I love the flat mules you wear to the job sites, but I live in NYC and I can only wear them late spring, summer and early fall. I will be getting a pair now for next year. I love the look of a blazer, but I don’t like the way they look on ME. I don’t like stiff or chunky collars. They don’t work on my body. I was just looking for a denim collarless jacket and decided I will have to buy one with a collar and then cut it off. Loved all your black and white blouses!!! I can’t wait to see more videos on this channel. Just subbed

[@justsewforit]

Agree with all your dislikes! Personally, I don’t care for blazer sleeves cuffed up, exposing the lining. If I lived closer to Atlanta, I’d love to be your tailor!

[@thuytienngonguyen2089]

Love your videos and suggestions but as for me, I love my Tory Burch Minnie Travel Ballet, where I can walk through the terminals then change to my high heels once I arrived to destination.

[@AnaTorres-qc7bv]

Valentina, I am aligned with you on every piece! and in fact yesterday before watching your video, I boxed up a few moto real leather designer jackets and sent to my niece. I realized not my style and by the way THANK YOU for saying chunk cluck loafers are okay not to like. I am petite in frame 5’4 , 92lbs , straight figure so I feel too masculine in those shoes and so many mule styles loafers and low block heels. one thing id like to know your thoughts are the shearling coats, I have servals wool and suede. And I recently purchased (yesterday) a Reiss brand espresso color real shearling long coat -called Dana Coat. It looks amazing on the model but I do not know if I will like it on me. love to hear your thoughts. Adore your videos on the home channel. Best, Ana

[@HomeSweetHearth]

I LOVE that color of top too! I need to head over to H&M. I like how you’re so honest about what you really don’t like and buy what works for YOU. ❤️❤️❤️

[@houseofvalentinaliving]

Thank you so much!

[@carolbruce7995]

I totally agree that a heel is so comfortable. I am 62 and have been wearing 3 1/2 to 4 inch heels my whole life 8 to 10 hrs. a day hands-down so much more comfortable than a flat or wedge. Just bought the kitten heel sling back from H&M and love them! I’m trying to go a little shorter. Lol

[@lonawhitten6854]

I 💯 percent agree with every one of your "won't buy anymore" and for the same reasons...it is so freeing to look in your closet and LOVE your clothes...it's creative inspiration for the rest of my day.

[@hollybeimer3059]

OMG! You've listed all my same fashion thoughts! Great video! One note, for me, the Ryan loafer from Talbots is a nice one; the style with no embellishments.

[@be_homeandliving4735]

Great video! I agree with you on the chunky heels. I’m 5’2” and chunky heels make my legs shorter and wider imo. I think pointy toed shoes with a kitten or block heel elongate the leg on petites.

[@lisaanne4897]

Love, love, love your channel! You are so precious! I appreciate that you’re not criticizing others, and showing us what works for you and that’s great! You’ve give me so many ideas! Just a comment on the ballerina flats and loafers, I agree that they are not the best choice for fashion (I’m 5’1” too), but I have MS, (I don’t have normal balance,) so I have to wear flats because I’ve broken both ankles. I just can’t be off the ground. Also, my shoes have to envelope my foot, because if they don’t, with every step, my foot kicks off my shoes. It’s really funny, two steps and I’m barefooted!😂 Anyway, I love your channel! Watch you everyday! Keep it up!❤️

[@ericamcclellan2366]

Enjoy your new fashion channel. I'm also on the short side 5'0 and have the same YSL camera bag. I took it to my local shoe cobbler and added 2 additional holes in the strap and it's perfect.

[@melanierossi1201]

YES! I agree w/ you on all the mentioned items! You're right on the chunky heels; I like more delicate styles as well. Thank you, thank you for your style tips and you being you! :)

[@MediaProDana]

This channel is so fun @Valentina and full of great ideas. I’m a ride or die wedge shoe girl, but to each their own! (Agree with ballet flats, so cute but not for me ha)

[@shoshanachavab]

I was with a French lady today and she worked ballerina flats and it looked amazing.

[@yourconnection9303]

They can really work beautifully with the right outfit.

[@megankey5072]

For me I mostly agree! I’m petite too. Seems like a lot of the tips are about not looking too childish. Thanks for sharing!

[@sandivonins3207]

Good morning 🌞! Shoes really represent the stage of life you are in and the lifestyle you are creating! During my career days it was block heels every day working. Now that I’m no longer working real estate but caring for my parents full time, I wear sandals or sneakers with orthopedic footbeds! Lol I live in South Florida so it’s appropriate year round…relaxed!!!

[@gailcheek1590]

I agree with most of your ‘not in my closet’ choices. I was laughing so hard when you were talking about the ugliness of chunky loafers. Thanks for sharing🥰

[@Mariana-ym6zf]

I am NOT petite, but I agree on so many choices you've made! I'm so glad to see that there are definite, valid reasons not to like somerhing, it is not just a thing of the moment 🙃🙂

[@jerig8527]

Hey, hey, hey, thank you! I so agree, yes I feel the same way too! This video gave me the motivation to move along those wedges, one pair of flats, hate them like you do, thought they were so cute, just not on me, I am 5.3 petite, wedges are an accident waiting to happen. Funny, I have a beautiful black leather moto jacket and thought, oh yeah I will wear the heck out of that with jeans, etc. dress it up or down, but no I never wear it, its heavy and stiff, it bugs me, also when its cold its not warm enough, warmer weather its too hot, go figure. I am one that likes to wear what I have not watch it hang in my closet. Basics and style are my favorites, clothes that fit properly. I will no longer buy items to have that don't really fit me, I am happy to pay more to be comfortable in them. Loved your video!

[@carolyngrotaers4454]

Fashion is certainly personal. If you love the pieces that you wear and the item's make you shine, you will feel confident and comfortable, regardless of the trends. We all have different coloured skin tones. I think the best money you can spend is having your colours done.😀

[@Amy-qe7ti]

Having your colors done…….don’t want to sound ignorant, but what does that mean exactly? Thanks in advance! 💕

[@carolyngrotaers4454]

@@Amy-qe7ti A colour analyst can guide you on the colours of clothing that suit your skin tone.

[@Amy-qe7ti]

@@carolyngrotaers4454 That is so cool! Where can I find someone like this? And thanks so much for explaining! Have a fantastic day!

[@carolyngrotaers4454]

@@Amy-qe7ti l would Google a colour analyst close to where you live. All the best.

[@sevilay3658]

I recently discovered your channel and I love it! My most hated list: loafers, ballet flats, animal prints, ripped jeans, super oversized jackets, skinny jeans, LV gym bags😅😂😂.

[@nelly8592]

I am completly by you about the chunky loafers (and chunky shoes in general). I love only delicate shoes... well, as delicate as possible in winter ;) but it's become very tricky to find normal, classic kniehigh boots that are not chunky and not too big on my slim legs!

[@kellydekesel7492]

I just love your videos and your style! New to your channel and hadn’t seen your home channel yet… but I love love love your videos. Such great style and so good you keep close to your own sophisticated style instead of following trends. Something KZbin needs more of :D

[@ellen9354]

I have a pair of J Crew wedges and they are so heavy and stiff. Still love the way they look though. However, my Castañer wedges are incredible. Super soft and comfortable. Can highly recommend.

[@rmantini1]

Gosh you nailed the ballet flat thing, lol! i sold all of my tory burch revas's!! i never carried them in college either. Valentina your laughter makes me smile so much, love your energy!

[@lindacook1013]

Okay… there is an H&M and a Zara at The Florida Mall here in Orlando. May need to make a trip there this weekend while hubby is hunting in AL. 🤣🤣🤣

[@b.walker5955]

Loved it! And I SO agree. The ballet flats round toe are just stubby to me. I am all about the pointed toe. And the chunk a hunk lug sole loafers require a flat footed clod stomp walk. Because I have worn heels for so long, I think I do a toe ball lift and you can't toe ball lift when the sole is thick as a brick. 🤭 The back pack OR the never full, I don't get either. How you can trust that someone won't reach in and take your tic tacs is beyond me. Sloppy beanie, nope, never. Loving your new hat, will be adorable on you! Hubby bought me two news boy tweed hats last winter. Will be rotating those again. Just realized the 5 moto's in my closet because "THEY" said I needed to own them. I too haven't worn them. Blazer girl here too! Not listening to "THE THEY" ever again! XO

[@elenebarnard3076]

Great to hear other people feel the same way about pumps. I'm not 40 or 50 anymore, but what i absolutely love is ' sofisticated takkies' it's funky and easy to wear. I dress it up some times as I'm not working anymore and live in a small village. Fitflip has a few good designs.

[@deeb66]

Valentina, LOVE your name! I am 73 and 5’9 and have been taller than most people my whole life. Certainly, back in my younger years, girls just always looked cute and petite instead of tall and lanky. Boys would call me stretch, stilts, string bean and a boat load of very unflattering and, (at the time) hurtful names. Of course they were also shorter than I was and didn’t seem to grow to adults height until the senior year of HS or college. But, I do get it, I understand your passion for shoes and fashion that are more attractive for your body and give you some additional inches. I have never gravitated to 3” or ++ heels, I never enjoyed towering over everyone. I have a hell of a time finding pants or nice trousers that are more than 29-30” inseam, although it’s much easier now compared to my fragile teenage years. I do dislike ballerina flats mainly because they look a little sloppy and hurt my feet, legs and knees. I think you have great style and always look polished and I love that about you. Being an older woman, I never thought of looking into “coated” black jeans until I heard you mention them recently. and guess what, Banana Republic has them with a 33” inseam !!! I’m a happy woman. Granted, I have a very short season to wear them, I live in the Tampa area of FL, but I’m welcoming our mild winter coming in. Thank you for your Fashion channel. Please don’t forget us warm weather followers. And, so you know, I discovered it because I also love your Design channel. I enjoy you honest commentary. I look forward to your ideas and suggestions for both! ❤❤

[@deeb66]

Valentina, I sent you a DM on insta regarding the questionable reply to my message. Please make reply to me on instagram with your advice. Thank you!

[@janspell2516]

You have a sophisticated classic style!!! I really love it & agree with this video! I will look for that subdued wine color!

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Love your fashion sense and agree with you about shoe height, flats and NO with the round toe.

[@tonyaall73]

I have to say I agree withyou on everything you said except the wedge. However I've never found a comfortable one

[@jennifersmith9892]

Valentina, as a fellow petite woman ( 5’3) I 100% agree with you and don’t buy any of the items that are on your list either. I could be making this video lol ~ with one exception. I do think if you find the correctly fitting wedge heel ( a slight platform really helps) they can be comfortable. But the good ones are tricky to find! I only have a couple pairs left in my shoe collection and rarely wear them. Great video! ❤

[@CPARROWHEAD]

I agree with you on most everything. I do have some wedge heels and you are right they are not comfortable to walk in!

[@loriford7037]

I'm 5'3" & totally agree with everything you just said down to the shoes - AMEN Sister lololol !!! 😎❤❤❤❤❤

[@DecoratingTheShackWithEthan]

I really enjoyed this! I always take away some great advice. I appreciate you showing up and sharing your passions and gifts!

[@-nellie-m3711]

Love how passionate you are about everything in your life, including fashion, I can’t stand ballerina flats 🥿 and jeggings, I’ll never purchase anything like that, I think the ballerina flats look childish and the jeggings on my petite size are always too long in the length and I can’t stand seeing them worn with ankle boots 😂😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️, I don’t mind my wedged heel shoes for comfort, I prefer a sling back shoe than enclosed especially through summer 🌺 and with a not too high heel, gone are the days that I can wear really high heels but I like a little heal to give me some height Lol 😂, my Sons pat me on the head and tower over me Lol 😂, I’m sure I’ve shrunk with age, hate to tell you that Valentina Lol 😂. Great video as always. Cheers from Nellie from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️…Your Smashing it over here 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@sandraspina8532]

I am uncertain about the chunky loafers, but ordered a pair to try. I thought they may be a good thing on rainy days. After watching this, I might return them when they arrive because chunky isn’t really me! I agree on your shoe choices. I am 5’2.

[@jamiedevault8762]

I just got a pair from Nordstrom and they're great. I say try em!

[@LAinMotion09]

Love your fashion; however for my body type I find wedged shoes comfortable, rather that the skinny heal. But I love your honesty and definitely your fashion, it has inspired me to start changing my wardrobe. 😊

[@kathrinehernes]

Love the honesty, so refreshing!

[@coolpersonlolollloll3540]

Thank you for sharing

[@crystaldawn3477]

This was great and I totally agree! It was especially refreshing to hear someone get real about the hideous chunky loafers! I cringe every time I see a pair!

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

Gurrrrl,I agree with just about everything you said! I would add ripped jeans, oversized anything, and sweats. With the loafers, I also hate bulky, unfeminine styles on my feet, so with these I tend to get sleeker comfy driving loafers. I never understood the backpack thing or the purse style backpack.

[@marybethlaratta7242]

Like the block heel as well

[@gabriele1309]

Me too I always couldnt walk in wedges

[@marcelladominguez8787]

I agree with just about all the things you mentioned. I still like a wedge heel for summer, they make my legs look longer and the Tom’s wedge I have are so comfortable. I tend to like more flats or a low heel- I am 5’5 and high heels hurt. I briefly wore ballet flat- I think I had one in my 30s but soon forgot about them and never wore again lol same for backpacks. I love a crossbody- it is the main purse I carry. I don’t usually follow trends but I like the whole Barbiecore trend and I am looking for a bright pink top. In my younger years, I never wore pink. I also wore neutral colors and my mom always thought it was funny that I always wore white and beige/brown but as I got older I have added more color. Thanks for a fun video

[@marcelladominguez8787]

@Valentina1. there is no giveaway scammer

[@ewagincel4811]

You can get a hole puncher and punch some more holes in the strap from your bag. I did that with one of my bags. Works beautifully and you can’t even tell:)

[@bettyclaxton2188]

I also agree with all. I’m 5’10 and shopping for me has always been a pain. You can always hem things for you shorter girls but I don’t have that luxury. Thankful there are more options now.

[@valeriaostan6708]

I agree almost on everything, except on loafers and wedge heels becouse I found some very confortable pieces

[@jesss2145]

I need to work on buying things I love that I feel like myself in. There are so many things that I love in fashion. I try it, love it, but something is off. I don't feel like myself and I need to learn to decipher the difference!!!

[@virgosblessing]

I love how you not only put links for the things you love but you also added links to the items you dislike!!

[@debbieshafer2766]

Love your style and totally agree!

[@patmeek9094]

I can only wear flats! At 81 you may change your mind! I do like kitten heels!

[@yourconnection9303]

I know of a 94 year young woman who's been wearing high heels since her late teens. She said she started wearing them because she's under 5 ft. and her long time boyfriend was 6 ft. 4. Then she married a guy 6 ft. 5. She said she even wore high heel slippers all the time around the house from the moment she walked in the door and it is what she slides her feet into when she is getting up from out of bed. She said she can't walk with flat footwear at all, even her age. Her posture is erect, she's slim, and she amazingly walks and carries herself very well in high heels. For exercise, she walks up and down three fights of stairs at least 4 x's per day wearing her high heels - pointed toes and skinny heels 👠 too.

[@colleensikosek9187]

I had kitten heals when I worked in retail back in the late 80's. I'm so glad they never really went out, because I cannot wear ballerina flats, even though I always thought they looked cute with jeans.

[@adriannesalinas5908]

100% percent agree with you about leopard/ cheetah print. It’s always read cheap to me. I’ve never owned one piece.

[@Asphodel27one]

Interesting! I love Skechers flats (not loafers or ballerinas!), Dooney or Kipling purses, and black clothes. I shudder to remember some of my previous “fashion” choices.

[@amberfreitag42]

I love back packs! I never see cute backpacks but I’d love to see cute backpacks come back in style!

[@trishac9516]

I agree with you on so many of these items! I don't like the look of loafers, and I do find them very uncomfortable. They hit me in a spot on my foot that causes blisters every time. Unfortunately, I can't wear mules as my foot slips right out of them! I also agree on the Moto jacket. I love blazers, tweed jackets and all sorts of other jacket styles, but not the moto. I didn't wear my wedges all summer, as well. If they are very narrow at the bottom, then it's very easy to get off balance. I am in my mid-70s, so I can't wear super high heels any longer, but I do like block and kitten heels. I'm also petite, five two, 115 lb, but I like the look of the lug sole Chelsea boots. On a recent trip to Europe, I wore some brand new Sam Edelma Chelsea boots in Ivory, that are some of the most comfortable shoes I own!

[@THrEeMuNkEes]

Oh my gosh my husband put our granddaughter on his shoulders and I asked her if she was excited that she was so high, and she yeah, and now I can pat you on top of the head! 🤣 I also love love kitten heels.

[@tracicagle8205]

Great topic, thank you!!!

[@lauralevylima3361]

Hi, if you want you could try the wedge heels from the brand Castañer. Portugal, Lisbon and Oporto have lots of portuguese sidewalks and its very hard to walk with heels, even chunky heels, so i use Castañer wedges. They are elegant and relatively confortable for work days when you have to go to streets with portuguese sidewalks. 😉

[@cherylduisberg1444]

I agree with you about backpacks and loafers. Backpacks don’t elevate my style and loaders look too clunky and manly on my small frame.

[@robynmarty3853]

I really like the jacket that you are wearing in brown. So cute. Could you tell us where you found it? Thanks.

[@sendingyoulovefrom6231]

re: wedges - there's some really slim shaped ones that look delicate but they're few and far between so I have just one pair and only because they're super comfortable (because they have some kind of foam type of material in the front and don't give me blisters which is a miracle). I don't wear them very often either though. I wear block heel sandals when I'm going out. I think that whole "heavy shoe to balance the outfit" is not my thing either. I tried on heavy loafers and felt like Big Foot (I'm 5'5" with a size 9 foot, big shoes look enormous on me). I just don't think that big shoes are for me either and I need to stop feeling bad about that

[@dianecyment1715]

Hello. I just found your channel with this video. The blazer that you are wearing is gorgeous. I also admire your honesty and love your bubbly personality. I am also 5'1, but I love wearing loafers. I think they are such a classic style of shoe. Tory Burch has a fabulous ballet loafer. The toe is pointed so it doesn't have the true "ballet" look, and they are super comfortable. I agree that the chunky loafer is not very flattering. I don't like wearing high heels anymore because I feel unbalanced. I am 65, so I need to be cautious. I gave up high heels and wedges about 10 years ago. I do agree that the block heels are very comfortable. I do own a few pairs of these. The other type of shoe for the autumn/winter season that I absolutely love is the short heel ankle boot. ECCO brands of boots and sneakers are both stylish and comfortable. In my opinion, backpacks should be used for hiking and as an extra carry-on for the airplane. I look forward to viewing your other videos.

[@pudgylemon4640]

If you want a perfect moto jacket. Try the jacket maker. They customize and tailor it to your specifications.

[@dalilamckay8152]

Valentina, you seem to have a few pairs of Sam Edelman shoes. I own a pair of black SE loafer that looks identical to the open back mule you showed. I’ve had it for two years and love them and I want to get the than color. They don’t have the rubber lug sole which is what makes others loafers feel bulky. Try the Sam Edelman pair. I’m only 5’4 myself. I don’t like backpacks or Moto jackets with heavy zippers but I did find a faux leather moto style that has no zip hardware and it’s lovely. Keep looking they are nice if you find the right one. I still like ballet flats but I am picky - I own some with a pointy front.versus round. Still light animal print - it will always remain timeless but also very picky on the type of print and how it looks. I have a cashmere sweater that’s animal print and stunning. I’ve also stopped wearing wedges but have kept two pairs for summer that have a feminine shape and look good with flowy dresses.

[@jilll934]

You lost me at ballet flats. 😂I love them!! I got my first pair when I was12 and I’ve been wearing them, all different brands, my entire life!!! From Chloe to Repetto to Tieks. I’m 52 and I just got my first pair of Chanel flats. I could not live without them. And I’m 5’ tall 100 lbs. they are sooo me. But I love u and your channels anyway!!! ❤

[@debbiemayes3233]

❤ my flats.

[@victoriaroot5724]

Valentina I feel the same about backpacks and flats!!

[@chrissyp3065]

I agree w you on the cheetah print. I especially don't like the colorful versions of cheetah print. Looks cheap & tacky to me. Love your style. Agree w you on so many of these trends.

[@karinlester3066]

I live in coastal Florida and I wear mules year round! Love them too. Backpacks I will defend for travel. My mother felt animal print was trashy so my sisters and I would never dare wear it! I love it on others though.

[@kathleenh.7956]

Subscribed cuz you're hilarious. Love the authentic approach lol. Agree with many of these. You like the more elegant, stream-line look. It's classic, I get it. Keep up the great info : )

[@Brooke-ul5hq]

your new lighting looks great, I can see you so much better.

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

"Don't pat the Valentina". Love it! Okay my opinions: I own what I call modified ballerina flats. They have either a pointed or sort of squared toe and they also have a slight heel, so not a "true" ballerina flat. Love the kitten heels and own many. As I have gotten older, I can no longer wear 3 1/2-4 inch heels. I own one pair of Ralph Lauren "driving" loafers and love them. They are not chunky. Really dislike the chunky loafers. soo clunky looking. I have some one inch wedge summer sandals that I love and they are very comfortable to me. Everyone's feet are different and what is comfortable to one person is agony to another. All it takes is a strap that hits a toe in the wrong place to cause discomfort. I absolutely adore your shirts/blouses. The colors are gorgeous. I agree about the beanie hats. They look so cute on others, but not me. I live in Maryland so we can get some cold and snowy weather. I only wear a beanie to shovel the driveway and I am still searching for the perfect winter hat. So enjoying this new channel, Valentina.

[@beckat4254]

I have the same Saint Laurent bag, I just punched a hole in it to make the strap shorter. You could shorten it yourself or a shoe maker can do it for you.

[@wranglervmp]

Look at 1st black crossbody purse, I believe strap can be shortened or lengthened.

[@melanieshort6190]

I haven't owned loafers in years, made the plunge just a few weeks ago. Surprising bought some non chunky,faux leather, w/memory foam, to try. WOW, I'm so impressed, $25 price point too!! I wear wedges because I'm clumsy and work graveyard, so I'm always tired. lol I love your style, and I actually just picked up a brownish blazer because you look stunning as usual!! You have brought joy back to my creative side in home, and fashion!!

[@carolalvarez3925]

I've avoided loafers my entire adult life but am waiting for a pair of Franco Sarto ones that one of my husband's doctors was wearing. Happy to hear you like yours. I'm on pins and needles about them.

[@melanieshort6190]

@@carolalvarez3925 Good luck, to you. It helps when you see them on someone else. If mine weren't so comfy, I don't know if I would wear mine again! V is definitely inspiring all of is to think outside our comfort zone!!

[@BelindaShanle]

I agree with most of these. I do love my leather moto jacket. Never got into the ballerina flats, wedges I find I love them in the summer with dresses, they are very comfortable. I do not like chunky soles on shoes either because they make my feet look boxy and like cartoon characters feet lol.

[@lindacook1013]

😂I’ve ALWAYS thought ballerina flats looked frumpy. Never bought them. 🤣🤣🤣🖤And I’ve never bought a backpack either! 🤣

[@whiskersBOOSTER2]

Same!!

[@lisamorris4232]

Amen to all of them! I'm tall with slender legs and chunky loafers make me look like I have stick legs. Yes, gave all my wedges away. They hurt every time I wore them. Ballet shoes are a recipe for plantar fasciitis. Need I go on? One more for me is low--waisted pants. Almost like bell-bottoms which I experienced in the 70's and never going back again. You are right on target. Loving your new fashion channel!