THINGS NO ONE TOLD ME BEFORE GETTING MARRIED *Obvious Things Easily Overlooked*

[@gyeyokharuna9360]

Thanks Chidera. Like I can relate to all you have said. I’m 1 year plus in marriage and there has been a lot of adjustments to do on both ends. On the chapter of recreational companionship, I feel like it’s not just for men alone coz I for one I’m like that. When I’m doing something, you don’t even have to help me but just be around, be close, we can even gist along…just be involved. The feeling of just being around me while I’m at it is out of this world.

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww that’s lovely!♥️♥️

[@nipathindwa5935]

Sis!!! You have no idea how deep this hit me....and I'm not even married yet 💁🏾‍♀️ thank you!

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks for watching ♥️

[@ZeeNaturalCare]

Before I continue watching I caught that tapping of yansh @ 1:14😅😂

[@jumokebabatope]

I just saw it oo🥰🥰😍😍😅

[@maamearabaaggrey-fynn4778]

I really appreciate the marital content💜🙏🏾. It is making me do a lot of thinking, and it's not easy at all 😂😂

[@fefedrew7358]

I’m not married or in a relationship yet but this is very very helpful and it’s worth learning ❤️ thank you for this and congratulations on 7 months

[@funmio4892]

Hi Chidera, lovely video. Before I got married I thought cooking was my hubby, if you ask me I will tell you I enjoy cooking, when I got married I realised that is not the case ,then I started having kids and I had to cook multiple times a day. Sex hmm it took me an entire year after marriage to start enjoying sex, before then it was a chore, I felt like it was overated, until I and my husband understood our bodies, by learning and voila. I gained alot of weight , I now kuku got pregnant immediately ,so that dint help at all, but overall I am happy and grateful.

[@chidinmaorakwe8600]

Chidera decided to tension us with her weight loss😩that waist is waisting 😍❤️

[@ChideraPeters]

Hahaha anything for you 😜

[@MaryIbe]

7months married expert welldone ma!😂😂😂😂😂

[@funmio4892]

Lol

[@chidinmaafam]

Thanks for this video. I totally agree with all you’ve said as I’ve been married for a year now. These things should be more talked about. The other day I was discussing with a friend about how ladies have to adjust their careers around childbirth! Great video!

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww thanks Chidinma ♥️

[@akinpelurofiat]

Thank you Chidera for this amazing video. Did you say your partner will annoy you every week? Biko, expect it everyday. Infact, every hour over the littlest of things. But, like you said, you must learn to forgive in advance and let go. I also learned to tell myself the truth when I mess up a conversation and consciously find a way to make amends. Biko, marriage is another school entirely and you have said all the right things already.

[@chiomaanaeze2535]

Chidera, we are marriage mates. We got married on the same month and I can relate to all you say. Except that in my own case, even tho my husband can cook, he hates doing it and I have to cook the life out of myself, omo!....the weight gain i am seriously struggling with but the info on your channel is helping me to adjust that...I relate to everything. Trust me it is more struggle when you are married to an igbo man that loves his tradition 😁😊😫

[@DrEzinneErhirhie]

I had to learn to cook his food separately after gaining 7kg in 6weeks and my back and knees hurt like hell

[@theSami_A]

Omooo, 7months now now Jesus😂😂 How time flies really fast

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol 😂 facts

[@Jaay2022]

I can clearly see the result of your weight loss journey. Well done dear And you're shining also o

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww thanks babe 🥰

[@DrEzinneErhirhie]

This video is a testament to the fact that wisdom is NOT an age thingi

[@onyinyechukwu2610]

This marriage thing is like a system, it continues to adjust as time goes on. What is important today ,might not be important tomorrow.

[@bessfavoured1675]

Dear Chidera I enjoy watching your vlogs to the extent I recommended your channel to some of my series.Keep it up! I appreciate you dear!

[@ChideraPeters]

Aww I appreciate that, thank you so much ♥️

[@bessfavoured1675]

*Friends

[@Eda-j5t]

I've been following you since your uni times and I'm so proud of you chidera love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@Jaay2022]

I am not a fan of red, but this bag looks good and it speaks elegance

[@ChideraPeters]

I know rightttt 😌😍

[@biancaihua5841]

Yes, marriage is a school; too much learning ❣️.

[@adegbolaoluwawamiri3027]

For the weight gaining part after marriage, it’s not just about being happy, some studies also shows that the spermatozoa is rich in protein hence, the woman glows .

[@IntentionalDebby]

Could relate with every point, i have been married for a year and 1month. Well done.

[@phebefolorunso861]

Lovely video Chi love 😘 I think I will have to adjust to physical touch (cos e be like say we the ‘strong' girl God day like give touchy-feelly spouse, like I legit feel awkward with touch) Quality time works well for me and words of affirmation, glad to learn about Recreational Companionship. Thanks 👍

[@ChideraPeters]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching Phebe ♥️♥️♥️

[@Jaay2022]

16:16 it does apply to women too. I personally adore it.

[@ChideraPeters]

Oh that’s great to know

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

This is lovely Thank you for being real with us🌹 Amazing sit down video ❤️

[@tiwalopeonipede1511]

Yo, 4 years married and you nailed all the points!

[@emmanuelbamidele6886]

Girl you looking good....see flat tummy nah 😍

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol na God do am o😌😂

[@jemimahhezekiah218]

Me too😂😂😂😂being married for a year plus month I nvr knew my husband will b expecting food all th tym Thank God he can cook Nd there times i wud call him to tell him today we r drinking tea 😂😂😂 Now i hv a new born baby N our maid doesnt cook but do other chores ...so i told my husband wen i return home he needs to help He said of course cos i cnt do anythn alone hehe Marry ur bestfriend

[@ekon5936]

Very educative to us married couples and those waiting to get into this ministry of marriage soon. God bless you Love..

[@Mizhauwanaapi]

Omo, I just love you. Like how can someone love a stranger-ish this much. You laughter is amazing. By the way I'm not married yet, I live alone and I don't like cooking. It's a chore mehn 😅 when I get married nko

[@onyinyechukwu2610]

I can't begin to explain how it feels like when you have food stored to focus on your academic papers only to realise that the food you planned for 1week, lasted 1 1/2 day . It's a different ball game when you have kids with huge appetite for real food 😆.

[@teniola_babs]

Omo... This is really helpful and such an eye-opener as always,😍😍😍 much love sis...

[@Madichi]

Been married for a year and 3 month and I can totally relate!!!!!!!!😅😅😅😅😅

[@jemimahadewale9361]

You're looking so good Chidera. Your new figure is motivating me to loose weight. Just that I don't want my bum bum to disappear

[@emmanueluwah9114]

A masterpiece.👏🏽👏🏽

[@ChideraPeters]

Thanks for watching ♥️

[@NnalueIfeoma]

My sister, we’re on the same boat! What would I have done if my husband didn’t know how to cook? My husband cooks most of the time.

[@amaka6463]

I just love your vibe

[@IAMNERO]

Watching 🥰 Always fun to watch my fav😍

[@samuelrejoyce]

It's the intro for me, wait oooooooo what's that spank🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Jaay2022]

Thanks for the video, the points are realistic

[@aeeshaaaa2211]

Glowing!!🥰😍

[@TravelIwuala]

It was great watching. I really enjoyed watching every minute of this video...

[@Jaay2022]

19:40 hmmmmm you have kukuma turned the fork up side down 😆 🤣

[@CBRIDY]

Brace yourself Chi you are just about to begin. With children it’s way worst. You can even cook 3 times a day. Children will test you.

[@Noname-tt5sj]

May God continue to bless your mariage🙏🏾 You are a highly educated lady, do you have any plans to make use of your education?

[@Dandydiddy]

I can so relate to the cooking, I literally panic about kids and how much cooking I’ll do. To compound to it I’m not a good cook, my babe cooks too but I have to more coz I’m usually at home. I feel guilty coz he does more cleaning, It can get exhausting and so much space to clean. I clean but I don’t have the grit often. This is my main concern coz I love a clean house I’m sorta asexual or frigid so we’re sorta used to not having sex.

[@idarapeter]

Lol Next weekend is my wedding Omo ehhhh 😂😂😂😂

[@justinawhyte373]

You glowwwww❤️

[@NnalueIfeoma]

It took us over 1 year to really start enjoying great sex. We had to learn about each other’s body and our libidos

[@lifestylewithoj533]

Nice vlog can we have your husband on the channel too to share his own experience so far,Thank you

[@toyinkolude]

Thank you for sharing!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ChideraPeters]

My pleasure!♥️

[@beatricesmemoir]

I saw that spank 🏃🏻‍♀️ 😂

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol you weren’t supposed to 😂

[@beatricesmemoir]

@@ChideraPeters 😂

[@GlaDiary36]

You are given we single qhat to expect in marriage awesome

[@Jaay2022]

18:00 Hanttyyyyy deeeeerrrrraaaaaaaa, the egg 🥚 yaff cold na

[@gloryaoabiodun7427]

I love the way he spanked your bum. this is sweet love. so happy for you guys. im hapily married too and im enjoying my marriage.

[@jemimahhezekiah218]

I like u..u r soo real

[@mizquincyquincy7584]

Thanks sister

[@doyinogunmakin]

Look at you 🥰🥰

[@Jaay2022]

12:18 ndo Guys Come and learn patience ( having a playe of egg in front of you for this long)

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol I had to keep talking that’s why 😂

[@emmanueluwah9114]

Forgiveness. 👍🏽

[@mirabelanosike7202]

Lmao when children comes you’ll cook more 😫 I’m talking from experience. Children literally eat every hour

[@jemimahhezekiah218]

True oo

[@Elldrop1]

Yo you want any egg with that spinach 😅

[@ChideraPeters]

Lol 😂😂 no you didn’t!

[@Elldrop1]

@@ChideraPeters Jason watched that bowl and kept it pushing 👀

[@Jaay2022]

20:50 ah at last !!! Egg in the mouth 😺

[@Jaay2022]

Hello hello

[@ChideraPeters]

Hi hi 😁

[@jonathanmimi163]

Please Derapete, I have a question pls what ur take on settling down with a guy whom u both have affection and love for each but you don't share same fate in religion

[@DrEzinneErhirhie]

Which faith would the kids join? When you are in a fix and need your partner to join you in prayers, would they join? When you want to attend say marriage conferences that would help your relationship ,would they join Love is NEVER enough. Doing things together matters, if either values their faith, not being able to share this value with your loved one would create an unseen but tangible wall

[@tiwalopeonipede1511]

@@DrEzinneErhirhie ..sincerely love is never enough. You hit the nail when you stated “doing things together is key”. I wish I knew more about that and emphasized with my spouse before getting married.

[@Jaay2022]

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[@ChideraPeters]

Hi Hi Jamila dearest 🤗