Things That AMERICANS Don't Realise Makes Them OBVIOUSLY American! 🇺🇸

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[@TomWooton]

I think what Brits don't understand that "States" in America are sovereign states of The United States. Just like Germany, Italy and France are sovereign states of The E.U. Each has its own laws, its own constitution, its own Supreme Court and court system, its own army (state troopers). You would not expect someone from Italy visiting American to say "I'm from Europe" would you? Realize also that just The State of Florida is the same size as England and Scotland together. To put things in a more realistic perspective...London to Rome is 1/3 the distance of Miami to Seattle. I'll let you guys in on a secret you will never know from just visiting. People from Florida and Texas can't stand people from The Northeast and vice versa. I don't mean like North and South England rivalry; I mean all out genuinely despise (and nobody can stand people from The West Coast). So "United" is a joke (for real). We would like nothing more than to separate. As far as loud. Well... we love the manners of people from The South of England (exemplary) but your Northerners are rude (drunk and throwing up EVERYWHERE) and a lot louder than any of us.

[@85Onne]

I have to say, as a non Brit nor American but have visited both countries, Brits are way louder. Like thousand times louder 😀

[@sadmadworld8889]

I would never wait an hour. We will wait 15 to 30 minutes. That's it!

[@christieloyd7257]

A lot of the reason we name the state we're from is because if we answer America or the US, the next question we get every time is, where in the US are you from or which state are you from, so it just makes it quicker.

[@ramonashearer7241]

I lived in England for 3 years and I had so many experiences of rude British people. And you need to learn to complain in the US about bad or rude service. If your order is wrong get it corrected. A lot of times the manager will give you a discount or your order free. Not all Americans are loud.

[@atomicphilosophy]

This is definitely something I've always struggled with. If the restaurant messes up my food I assume they'll mess it up again or do something on purpose out of frustration so I just say silent.

[@hannahdyson7129]

British people think British people are rude . We hate each other and our selves

[@williamrafferty3188]

Something a lot of people do not realize is people in the UK are a lot more rude than they are given credit for. Speaking from personal experience here.

[@marklouis1890]

@@atomicphilosophy depends on the restaurant/staff.

[@andreas.4764]

My new favorite Joel & Lia quote just might be, “ Oh, you sad, sad b*tch.” I’ll be waiting for the SSB merch.

[@hardar42]

Most Americans have a strong pride and connection with whatever state the are from. I guess I never realized that it can be annoying to tell someone from another country your state in America. Personally I am always interested where a person is from. It can tell you a lot about a lot about someone and can open up a conversation

[@lisahumphries3898]

2 things… You had spoken earlier about Americans wanting the dinner bill immediately and want to leave right after eating. I think it’s because we know that we are taking up time and money for the restaurant. They can seat other people who are waiting. Let the next party enjoy dinner. Also, we always say the State we’re from because when we just answer America or US, we ALWAYS get the followup question… Oh yeah? What state? Or What part of America?

[@mindibatlle91]

I agree about the 2nd part of your comment. EVERY TIME I say I am from the US, the next question is…Oh what state?

[@davidheiser2225]

I have it worse than that - being from upstate New York, if I'm asked where in the US I'm from and say "New York" they always assume I mean New York City. So I usually just say I live 150 miles north of NYC. Of course, then they have to convert that to kilometers. The confusion goes on and on.

[@mindibatlle91]

@@davidheiser2225 Me too. I live 13 miles outside of Los Angeles. So when I say I am from California, then they always say LA? So I feel your pain!

[@brealistic3542]

Yes indeed. Everyone who lives in NY doesn't live in NYC.😁

[@barryfletcher7136]

@@brealistic3542 I have met a lot of non-Americans who weren't really aware there is a difference between NYC and the state of NY.

[@rick262]

Since the UK is about the same size as one of our states, why wouldn't we say what state we're from? By knowing the state you would also know the region and the culture.

[@scottfrench4139]

Absolutely. California's culture and Mississippi's are entirely different.

[@MichaelCousin1]

I agree. Just saying America is about as specific as saying “Europe”. LA and New York are about as close as Lisbon and Moscow. I do get that most people overseas wouldn’t know the difference, but we always get crap for not know geography.

[@sholtey1]

Each State is actually a Country. Just in our Union we call our Countries "States". Hence why we each have our own military, driver's licence, laws, governor's (I e. Our state president). People from the EU do not say they're European Union, they say their country.

[@karaaguilar4982]

@@joshrees3413 have you compared the size of our states to countries in Europe? You can drive through several countries and be back home in Europe in the same day. Do you know that San Diego California is closer to El Paso Texas then El Paso is to Houston? Some of our states are huge!

[@thehoneybadgerusmc]

@@joshrees3413 Wrong. Oregon and Louisiana or Massachusetts and Arizona or Alaska and Hawaii just to give three examples are as different culturally, politically, historically and economically as the places you mentioned. Each state is like a different country with their own customs, food, national guard, constitution, elections, identity cards or drivers licenses, school textbooks, etc.

[@dennisstafford1749]

We want you to understand that we are NOT from NYC, Texas, or California--OR---we DO want you to know we are from .... Because Texas and 10 other states are larger than the UK and more than 11 states are larger than England, the State gives a bit more reference over American. We could say we are from the South or Northeast but Arizona and Mississippi have little in common and Maine is much different from the Tri-Sate area around NYC. Look there are 337 million of us of every color, region, ancestry and religion so American is really an generalized oversimplification. There are 37 million Canadians and there would be more but many of them are in the US.

[@caitlinhunsuck9099]

Not to mention the first follow up is "where in the US". I've had quite a few people ask more specifically where I live in CA too--- just saving time...

[@winterwolf9797]

they also generalise brits... that’s the hole point mate... it’s to compare! 😂 your talking about all the difference within American and you expect them to mention ever possible thing??? - you your self are going on about cultural differences and the size of states and population - if it’s so big how come you expect them to talk about every thing? Although the uk is small it too has cultural differences between north and south etc... BUT they generalise! 😂 get over your self mate it is just entertainment!

[@ratanasorn8080]

“Americans are patient” says absolutely no one else ever.

[@efcruzado]

It’s trippy how you generalize and stereotype Americans as this. The US is very diverse so there are so many different cultures to encounter. We’re all not the same.

[@irenewills9736]

They do it for shock value. To get views and comments. They know our cultures way way better than they let on.

[@efcruzado]

@@irenewills9736 Yeah, I know they’re kind of doing a bit.

[@hannahdyson7129]

Amercains do the same to Brits and other Europeans

[@gbae636]

We are all breakfast tacos!!

[@aspenrebel]

And languages. I can go around for a goodly part of a day and NOT hear English. One time I went into a supermarket at night and I must have heard a dozen different languages and no English.

[@silmisolani6808]

Joel, you must be talking about the crowds waiting to get into Texas Roadhouse! LOL 🤣😂

[@webbtrekker534]

I was at a hardware store this morning and waiting to get some service I had a delightful conversation with a man from Eritrea. We were talking about lawnmowers. When we got served and he discovered he had to go to another store to get his mower we bumped fists on parting. I'll probably never see him again but I will remember him. A nice encounter. That is why I talk to strangers.

[@RamblingRose08]

Each state is like it's own country. I think this is something that is very misunderstood outside of the US. We are a bunch of united states. Each state has its own culture, laws and state government. Most people are very proud to be a part of the United State but we are just as proud of the state we are from or have chosen to live in.

[@PockASqueeno]

I am prouder to be a Texan than I am to be an American. 😉

[@KelseyPruett]

You said it exactly! Haha I was thinking sort of the same thing, but didn’t know how to say it😄 @ramblingrose08

[@PMDawn7]

I'm a proud New Yorker. And there are many things I do and say that make it quite obvious I'm from New York!

[@heatherf6713]

Yes! How many times bigger is the US than England or even the UK? Plus, this whole video is about how we're obviously American. We know you know our country of origin! Ha!

[@charlenefriesen5050]

Yes, you refer to West Virginia, but it would take 4 days to drive there from Idaho, so as an Idahoan it feels like a stretch to not clarify which state one is from. It matters to us…

[@doke889]

I thought I was an American, but maybe not. I’m not loud and I tell people I’m from the US, not the state. I’m always amazed that anyone from outside of the US even know the states. I do admit that a lot of Americans are loud, though. When they’re loud outside of the US I want to tell them to shut up because they make us all look bad. But I’ve heard many loud Europeans, too.

[@waiatm]

This was going to be my comment, so I will just tag along.

[@j6backup626]

The only people who claim they are from “America” are the ones from hick red states and middle of the country. Those of us educated and well-mannered would rather be associated with our respective states. Truth.

[@comfeefort]

There are other Cultures that are more loud than Americans.

[@dougwheeler1265]

why should you be amazed that anyone from outside the US wouldn't know some of the States? I'm not from Canada, but I know some of the Provinces. I'm not from Mexico, but I know a lot of the States there. I'm not from South America, but I know the countries there. A lot of people outside of the US know some of the states here.

[@atomicphilosophy]

@@dougwheeler1265 I'm the same but that's because I'm a map nerd. Not everyone is like that. I wouldn't be surprised if a foreigner knew New York or Florida but if they knew Oklahoma or South Dakota I'd be very surprised.

[@sadmadworld8889]

Most Americans I know speak quietly. Joel and Lia speak louder than most Americans that I know. Young people probably speak louder.

[@faiththomas1749]

Not true I’m very quiet ( I’m 37 ) unless there is a COLLEGE FOOTBALL GAME ON then I TURN ALL THE WAY UP

[@sadmadworld8889]

@@faiththomas1749 I'm talking young people Teenagers and 20s. You're almost middle aged.

[@derred723]

@@sadmadworld8889 lol. Shots fired.

[@cherilauterio2658]

The only person who speaks loudly in my family is my husband but he is hard of hearing 🧏‍♀️

[@barryfletcher7136]

My observation after spending a LOT of time abroad since I was age 9 is that while it's true some Americans are loud most are not. Also, the percentage who are loud has been decreasing steadily since the 1970s.

[@silmisolani6808]

Here in the US, most times we are asked "Where are you from"? The answer is your state.....so maybe that's why we answer our state....it's a pride thing.

[@futurez12]

I wondered whether it's because you're asking each other all the time because your country is so huge and the accents are quite similar (for the most part)? Here in England, you can pretty much always tell what region someone is from just from their accent, and sometimes even what city they're from. Also, I think when people ask someone from the UK where they're from, we tend not to state the exact place because most of the world won't know our geograhpy as well as most people know US geograhpy. Like, if I told you I'm from Devon (a county), I highly suspect you'd have to find it on a map to know where I'm talking about.

[@Angela-Rowland]

I agree. Really common question here and the answer is the same. It's also just such a big place with many differences....I think it's natural for us to specify the state.

[@LlyleHunter]

That’s because if we’re speaking with another American we’re speaking with other Americans from different states

[@nsbioy]

the correct answer is "from my mother."

[@themourningstar338]

@@futurez12 We can often tell what region someone is from by their accents. Cities like New York, Boston, Baltimore, Philadelphia, Chicago all have their own unique accents that are pretty distinguishable to other Americans. But that's about as far as that goes. Since it's a huge country the regional accents can cover many states. Plus we relocate and travel extensively within the US, so we regularly meet people from other parts of the country. If you are in the state you are from you would answer with the town/city, but otherwise it is natural to answer with the name of your state. We also like to ask questions about where the other person's from to learn about places we've never been to that can be hundreds or even thousands of miles away from where we live. And I think it helps us feel more connected to each other and to places that are far away, which we very well may never end up going to.

[@paulharris8364]

I think American's are all perceived as loud is because you don't notice the quiet ones. There are many. As far as giving he state you are from, most Americans are not international travelers, so they identify themselves as the state they are from. If would be like telling a Scotsman you are from England or Wales.

[@paulharris8364]

@@joshrees3413 I don't mean to reduce the standing of these countries, but it appears they are closely tied to England politically. I America we see this as they were part of Brexit. Also realize that a state in the US has a much larger standing than a county. Each state has it's own legislation and executive body voted on by the populous. Some maintain a standing army and many residence of a state view it with the same loyalty as their country.

[@Newspeak.]

@@joshrees3413 That’s not how Americans view states. We view states a lot closer to countries then I think most people outside the US realize. This is probably where the misunderstanding is coming from since it doesn’t seem like there are any European countries that have this kind of dynamic. There are also a few states that have been independent countries before they became US states and a fair amount of Americans view the concept of secession as a real thing to consider even if it probably will never actually happen in practice. That’s also not just isolated to Texas either, especially with the current state of events, other separatist movements like Cascadia are getting at least more mentions as of late as well.

[@fionagregory9147]

Americans does not need an apostrophe as it is the plural of American.

[@TourdionInstrumental]

Something I notice Brits do alot of the time-they end a sentence with a question, as if asking for confirmation. That room was so large, wasn’t it? This is such a great meal, isn’t it? It’s very evident when watching British shows/ videos. Is it wanting agreement or connection? It’s something you guys probably don’t realize you’re doing.

[@ashp5597]

Hi a Brit here. Yes we do this sometimes. It’s probably a habit LOL. You’re right it is to confirm or agree on something. Sometimes I think we need that extra reassurance that we’re having the same experience LOL.

[@dennisstafford1749]

affirmation?

[@stephenulmer3781]

Yes they do! Don't they? Lol 😂😂

[@momD612]

Even when not asking a question, the higher up on the last word sounds like everything is a question... In particular "hash BROWN?"

[@ashp5597]

@@momD612 yes some people do this but not me. I find that quite annoying LOL.

[@SouthernArtist77]

It’s rude to give a dirty look to someone who is just culturally different, especially when you’re in her country Joel.

[@justmeiniowa]

It's more rude for people to be carrying on loudly in a restaurant where people are trying to enjoy their meals. I am with Joel on this one !

[@Kim-427]

@@justmeiniowa Well,Eat at home where you can control your surroundings. In this country there are no signs in many public places and restaurants that tell you how to speak. Eating dinner for many is a festive gathering. Or try to find a restaurant that has a quite atmosphere if that’s what you prefer.

[@hannahdyson7129]

Tell your fellow Americans that too please

[@ScottA2345]

One of the reasons restaurants in America have you wait to be seated is in order for the hostess to seat you. The hostess is distributing the clientele among the waiters to not only balance out the work load (certain waiters are assigned to certain tables) but to distribute their ability to get tips over the course of their shift.

[@yaimavol]

Yes, Americans all get this. I think they are talking about 100% loaded and the only seats are at the bar. So, I have no problem sitting at the bar. Many times, you meet a really cool person serving behind it and you can interact with them more than at a table.

[@thetruthhurtsyou147]

Why would Americans be happy to wait for a table?? Nobody is happy waiting for a table. You're not seeing the people who leave and go to a different restaurant.

[@sandraingrassia7788]

Are you sure she wasn't just joking in a sarcastic manner? I've had people say that and I'll reply, "duh - how did I miss that?" and we'll both laugh

[@Kim-427]

Yeah,I sort of thought she made more out of that then it was. I mean she’s done worst. Remember the guy that thought their accent was Australian and they made him a joke and let him think that they were Australian. Funny I guess if you like that but I thought that was mean.

[@FourStrongWinds4]

Its nice to chat with people who are helping you, grocery and such. You go away with a smile on your face instead of being annoyed. It's up to you really, do you want to be happy or annoyed. Makes it better time in general, being nice and patient.

[@levelup4381]

The last time i visited my boyfriend in the uk we were in a shop and i was asked if i was Canadian.. "No im from michigan" 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@j6backup626]

To be fair: there’s 100% chance they’re British if you hear drunken raucous in Prague 🙄

[@Alex-kd5xc]

I’m gonna be brutally honest, just based on what I’ve seen in your videos, you both strike me as louder than the average American lol and to be clear I don’t see that as a bad thing

[@rlbisme5811]

I was thinking the same. The boisterous laughter and loud shrieking when they think something the other said is funny...oh, and when they are both talking at the same time (which is often, as proven in this very video) ... eek! Sometimes I have to either turn down the volume, or just click over to a different video. I admit I'm not a subscriber, so I haven't seen anything close to all their videos...but I do watch occasionally when bored and one of them is included among my KZbin recommendations. (I guess that's because I do watch a couple of other reaction channels quite regularly.) To be fair, I have seen a couple of their solo videos as well. They come across much more mature when away from each other, and I found those videos to be generally much more enjoyable. It's like they transform into annoying, giggly, and (yes) loud teenagers when together... They seem totally unaware...

[@Deanstanley]

So very true. Their agitated high pitched laughter at each other's (not funny) jokes can be mind numbingly jarring.

[@momD612]

@@rlbisme5811 same. Also, it seems to me personally, there's a lot of complaining & comparing (negatively) about the US, yet so many visits....???🤔 Other England, or Australian, or New Zealand, etc channels I've watched absolutely love all the things these 2 constantly bitch about. 🙄 🤷‍♀️

[@Kim-427]

@@rlbisme5811 I must admit I prefer Joel videos by himself. I use to be a fan of their videos together. I stopped watching because I don’t like being the butt of the joke. I get what they do but sometimes I really think that they don’t like us especially Lia but they’re making money off of us. I will look at a video here and there and comment if I feel like it.

[@Deanstanley]

@@Kim-427 I don't like them together or apart I'm not subscribed to their channels, but I will view selected videos (not including their fast food visits) . My problem with Joel is his constant generalizations about the US based on his limited and anecdotal experiences. He seems to think of himself as an amateur expert on the US with his pronouncements on how Americans think, feel and react on various matters. I view Lia as a Karen who's never happy unless she is bitching and moaning about something. Her facial expressions tend to give away the fact she has little fondness for the US. I personally think there is a ting of jealousy when it comes to these two's constant need and desire to try to focus on what they see as America's shortcomings.

[@cmtaylor531]

If a restaurant tells me the wait will be over 35mins, I’m out. Often the hostess will over estimate the wait time so I feel a 35 min wait can easily be 20-25 min wait.

[@larrybell1859]

1. Talking loudly - correct. 2. Sharing the most inner thoughts loudly - it varies from person to person. 3. Waiting to be seated - true most of the time. 4. Saying which state they are from - mostly true but if only asked by others. 5. Talking to strangers - it is mostly true but most Americans are quite reserved, they screen people before start talking.

[@rettawhinnery]

Depending on where you are, if the wait is an hour and you leave and go someplace else and the wait is also an hour, then you're waiting even longer because of the drive time. So, you would need to opt for a less popular place, which could possibly be less satisfactory in the end. That said, I typically won't wait that long, either.

[@pamjarvis2318]

We will phone order takeout at restaurants that we do know has long wait time especially on restaurants' busy days. We will either eat at home with movie or to enjoy picnic with soft instrumental music at park instead of eating at restaurant. Actually, it is more relaxing and quieter. 🙂

[@HayleyTief]

I never like sitting at the bar, but it isn't because of the location - Generally at a restaurant the bartender is also the waiter for the whole bar area, and the service is much slower.

[@annaburch3200]

Yes, I'm from the US, but telling you WHERE is important for you to understand. When I tell people in the UK I'm from the US, they automatically assume New York. NO!!! It's a BIG country and our states basically have different cultures and we're proud of where we're from. I know A LOT of British people who are specific about where in the UK they are from so people don't automatically think London. Same thing. My friend from Yorkshire says YORKSHIRE!!!

[@Girlbyeeeeeeeeeee134]

This

[@futurez12]

I'm English, and I've never once known someone from the UK automatically think someone from the US must be from New York. Trust me, I've been surrounded by English people for decades, that doesn't happen (unless they're talking with a very clear accent). People from the UK absolutely know that many States exist, they just don't really care which state it is you're from, much like you wouldn't care that Lia is from the Midlands, because it's meaningless unless you live in the country and intimately know the culture.

[@BeigeRot]

I think it has more to do with the fact that we feel like each state, is its own country in a way. Diff values/beliefs/culture for each state. I've never met a Brit, who thought all Americans were from NY though 😅

[@kasaletaak4471]

@@BeigeRot Each state is so different that you kinda have to differentiate us. Especially since we do all speak in the same manner.

[@jwb52z9]

@@BeigeRot That feeling is why the US has a huge number of problems that other nations don't.

[@mellibee100]

Talking too loudly can also be a sign of Greekness! i know this because I am married to a Greek! 🤣

[@khutchinsoncpa1]

Many Canadians are descended from American colonialists who remained loyal to the British Crown. They are proud of this history, which is why they most definitely do not want to be referenced as American.

[@RJEngle1]

I'm friendly to the cashier at the grocery store because some people can be rude to those working in the service fields. I'm really annoyed by people who think they are better than others.

[@MariankGonzalez]

Awesome video guys, I enjoyed it! As an American, each state is so unique, that's why we Americans identify with the state we are from. The regions in the United States are very different from each other, even the the states within those regions. Definitely asking which country the person is from will make your life easier unless you memorize all 50 states haha.

[@kasaletaak4471]

And usually we are speaking with fellow Americans, so it would be totally normal for us to reply what state we are from. I've honestly never had to tell anyone I was from America, even when speaking with foreigners.

[@timkramar9729]

They're also rather large. We could say what city we're from, or a large city near it. Great, you're from England. London, lLiverpool , Manchester, Leeds? They have different accents depending on city.

[@bdwilcox]

@@timkramar9729 Exit 138 - that's how people from NJ answer the question of where they're from.

[@texasborn2720]

I totally agree. But the main reason why we say our states if someone ask where we are from is because name of our country is "United STATES". "States" is in our countries name ! So why would we not say what State we are from ? And even after US won it's independence. Eash state acted like it's own country each state had it's own money !

[@justinoboyle5767]

@@bdwilcox Hey isn't that Union? Grew up in Westfield (135)!

[@zevahc3928]

Waiting more than 30 minutes to be seated at a restaurant is something people who are not hungry do.

[@derred723]

-Americans will wait for a restaurant when their entire purpose for going out to eat was to attend that specific restaurant and a different one won't do. But if they are just out and about looking for food now Americans won't wait. Also in America, if the restaurant is popular, you'll have to wait unless you make a reservation. -Eating at a bar requires sitting on a stool which can be harder for the less able bodied. Also if it's a more formal dining experience people want to sit down at a table. Like it's a date with someone special. -Canadians also don't want to be considered Americans because being American makes you a kidnap target in many countries especially in the middle east and some places in South America. I would, however say, Canadians do not seem similar to Brits at all (in my eyes). Canadians almost never come off as pretentious where as i think, no offense, British people very much can come off as pretentious and snobbish. That is obviously not all brits, or entirely accurate, or even intended. (Oh and to be fair, as an American, I will say Americans often come off as arrogant, ignorant, pricks. And with many it's not just an appearance, they are all of those things. So we got our issues too surely.)

[@LlyleHunter]

Sitting at the bar or even at a dining room table that has counter height seating kills my back.

[@TickleMeElmo55]

Wait, if you refuse to generalize Brits why are you generalizing Americans then?

[@992001jeffr]

Is it a “British thing” to say…”Me and my family”, instead of “My family and I”?

[@lindaabbott9366]

My DIL is from Brazil. She thinks Americans are quiet compared to Brazilians!!

[@RickAngell]

In the southern part of America being loud in public is totally looked downed apon.

[@thetruthhurtsyou147]

Many Americans don't want to sit at a bar because it's uncomfortable, and many of us don't drink.

[@LisaD-1969]

This!

[@Linda_Ess]

Plus you’re seated in a lateral straight line so conversation is difficult if there’s more than two of you.

[@marksmith4892]

I burst out laughing at the story of the cynical goth girl dripping with teenage angst and sarcasm pointing you to the giant pulsating neon sign LOL! Sounds like something straight out of a comedy film XD

[@victoriakaterina5279]

Y’all can be condescending but when one person is being that way to you, you get defensive. Taste of your own medicine.

[@PockASqueeno]

I’m American, and I’m basically the opposite of all these things. I can’t stand loud people, I keep to myself around strangers, and if the wait at a restaurant is over 30 minutes, I go somewhere else. Maybe it’s my English heritage.

[@iwouldratherbewithmydog]

We have plenty of casual seat yourself places in the US. They usually have a sign right inside the front door that says "Please Seat Yourself." I think part of the reason a lot of places don't have a seat yourself policy is due to the tip based pay. Servers have set sections and the host/hostess will try to distribute the tables equally among the servers to ensure nobody is getting overwhelmed or one getting a lot more tips than another.

[@lorrilewis2178]

Yes, the host/hostess has the job of balancing the room so that ideally, all servers have an equal outcome in tips.

[@MissieMommy518]

Beautifully explained Nikki, I was just going to comment the same statement.

[@emerald637]

They hand out beepers at Cheesecake Factory, California Kitchen, etc. That gives the customer the opportunity to shop, walk around, window shop, or sit by the fountains until your beeper buzzes. Then, you walk right in and are seated in your desired area. The most popular restaurants are generally the busiest. That is simply to be expected.

[@lillianlee4462]

I love them but it's annoying to criticize what you don't understand

[@markwalker3499]

And to stick single men with the table that nobody else would accept, like the one right outside the kitchen doors, or right next to the toilet doors. There was a small booth that was only suitable of one person if you are not tall or heavy, at the best steak house in the town I lived in for 15 years before moving to Florida, and I would not have minded that too much except that it was very near the door and in winter every minute or so it would open and people would enter or leave and the freezing air blasted you, and god why do people have to stand there with the door open having a conversation? They are so immune to manners. And on the other side of the wall was obviously where the bussing tubs got dumped because the nerve jangling noise of it happened about 12 times during the one time I ate there. The place was so elegant, but that seat was horrific. The next time I went I just ordered in the packed bar. In another restaurant I was made to wait for a table that was just large enough to be called a bistro table. It was set between the hall to the lady's room and the hall to the men's room. When the doors to the restrooms opened I could hear the flushing and once even smelled the result of a very large deification. And just beyond those doors was the kitchen access, the double swinging doors really needed oil on the hinges too. I never complain about such things though, I just never go back.

[@czak598]

I think Americans usually lead with the state they are from because whenever I am asked where I am from when traveling and I say the US, without fail, which state is always the next question!! lol. last time I was in the UK, a shop owner not only asked me which state I was from but what the latitude and longitude of it was... I died!! I have found that when traveling especially to the UK probably because I have spent the most time there , that Brits are very friendly and usually initiate conversation. Most are very eager to chat and ask a lot of questions.

[@ninmc5959]

We’re just nosy lol 🤣

[@hannahdyson7129]

Trust me we will ask you what state .

[@yoohootube]

apparently they're mad we used up one of their small talk questions

[@cameroncross2881]

Europeans can generally tell who the Americans are by the way they dress. So, why ask the generic question of where the American is from if they already know? I think their comment may be a personal dislike of how Americans reply. Side note: Never heard a Canadian say they are from British Columbia or Quebec, etc. They are from Canada. 😂

[@kenanderson1963]

I cannot begin to say how many times this happened: them-"Where are you from?" me - "The U.S." them - "Really? where in the U.S."?

[@johncagnettajr344]

The reason you wait to be seated is so the customers are spread out, so that the sections are evenly occupied so that the wait staff gets equal amount of customers. It’s about the tips.

[@johns7283]

Wow, um Brits are KNOWN for queuing…how’s that different from Americans waiting in on a table…have seen news where your lot queue for an hour for simple fish and chips!

[@ESUSAMEX]

We only wait to eat at certain restaurants which we want to try. Families cannot sit at the bar because kids aren't allowed in bar areas in restaurants. Being told off by the waitstaff is common in cities like NY, Boston, Chicago and L.A. People in these places have less patience. Plus, they are not afraid to express themselves. I once saw a Brit become rude to a waiter in a restaurant. The the waiter flipped out and dumped the Brit's food and drink on his lap. This was in NYC. The Brit was being loud and drunk.

[@yellowsub22]

Some states allow kids in the bar. Here in Milwaukee, our kids used to sit on barstools while we waited for a table in our neighborhood restaurant. Out in Washington state, we were shocked when they wouldn't let is into the dining room because we'd have to traverse the bar to get there!

[@ashleykeck104]

We respond with the state because most Americans don’t communicate regularly with people from other countries! So, majority of the time if someone asks us where we are from they are also from America! Just my opinion!

[@TinyRock5]

1) Answering where we are from by State is just a natural response i think for Americans. American's ask fellow Americans where they are from often and so everyone names their state and i have done the same abroad. But if they ask what country I'm from then i will answer accordingly and say the U.S. So you just have to ask more specifically "What country are you from?" if you don't want to know the state. 2) Talking loud, talking about personal thoughts, talking to strangers...what can I say, #1 #1 USA USA, we deem ourselves important people and everyone, even strangers need to hear our thoughts and conversations because we are just that important =p (jk jk...semi srs)

[@judybaker6021]

Canadians, US, Mexico, Central and South Americans are all Americans! Complaining about waiting for a table from people who will qeue up for anything is kind of funny.

[@leeolcott5329]

Sarcasm from restaurant staff UK… Must be Tuesday. Sarcasm from restaurant staff US… Lia starts taken off her rings 🤣

[@michaelkoegel8027]

My thoughts on waiting for a table are that that you are waiting and spending time with family/friends so the time spent is worth it. How’s that for one sentence?

[@johnhelwig8745]

Well, if you ask an American what country they are from, you might get a response like, "My Grandparents on my Dad's side immigrated from Germany, my Mother's father came over from Greece and my Mother's mother is Pennsylvania Dutch". Also remember the size of the US. There are 12 states larger than the entire UK. That is why we respond with a region or state. Having a place in a resort town, you are lucky if the wait is only an hour. Some restaurants are pretty good when they say it will be an hour, it's an hour, so we get drinks somewhere and come back. Besides by the time you leave said restaurant, go find your car, decide on a new place and drive there, you would be eating about the same time as if you stayed where you were at,

[@Michael-gh2yn]

I will add to some of the comments about the "Where are you from" question. State by definition means country and the United State is technically a conglomeration of 50 countries and each one besides it's own identity has it's own laws. There are some laws that apply throughout the U.S. much like the E.U. but the states differ. If I were to ask someone from say Belgium where are you from I don't think they would say the E.U. or just Europe. They would state the country or "state" they are from. Most Americans are similar to each other but we don't have a monolithic single culture it varies from state to state. And just as a Greek might make his home in Berlin he will still retain some of his "Greekness". Also, I think you might find if you asked someone from Wales or Scotland where they were from the would be more likely to say their country than say the UK. I think it is mostly the English and Northern Irish who would say UK. States in the U.S. are not equivalent to provinces within a country, those would be called counties in the US except Louisiana where they are called parishes.

[@paulaworkman302]

I worked as a waitress at a hotel that British airlines had a contract with for their flight crews. Whenever they are in groups they were extremely loud and swore like sailors. The f. .word was every other word and they had to be asked to quiet down all the time. I have many bad situations that pop up in my head when I think about my experiences with the crews but no good ones sadly.

[@hannahdyson7129]

Sorry about that . Only the posh fly British Airways

[@natalie9884]

Well never regret being born and raised in Canada. Dual citizen… Have been since I was born… But I always proud to be Canadian.

[@peterpike]

To be fair, a lot of things that are "uniquely" American are done by all the Canadians I know too. :-D

[@vodriscoll]

Well Canada is in America.

[@sherrimartin1057]

True

[@terryomalley1974]

True, but on both sides of the Atlantic, Canada is usually overlooked. It's always "America (US)" vs Europe and the rest of the world is irrelevant.

[@terryomalley1974]

@@vodriscoll It's in North America.

[@mcgrandma2156]

@@vodriscoll so is Mexico and lots of Central American and south American countries

[@marcanthony8873]

Canadians have such a little brother complex. It’s rough.

[@kathryn1304]

Wait a minute, why do you like standing in a queue but not wait for a table?

[@friscomorsegmail]

Oh bless you Joel for thinking we are patient. That’s very kind of you. America is so huge that we feel compelled to identify the state we are from assuming the accent does not give it away. We speak to strangers all of the time. It’s USUALLY considered normal. My wife rarely makes small talk with those she doesn’t know.

[@aspenrebel]

These two should do a video on the different accents throughout the USA. Show a video of a real American speaking and then try to figure out where they're from.

[@jeffmorse645]

When asked where I'm from I say California (not the US) because overseas it goes down more easily. Most Europeans I've met have a good opinion of my home state (which is the opposite when I'm in other parts of the US - there's a lot of California hating). Another reason someone might say their state is because its fairly obvious from an accent we're American and our country is almost as big as Europe. If you were out traveling and someone asked where you were from you wouldn't say "Europe" - you'd specify your location within Europe.

[@wlg2367]

I am from the USA, you have to realize that individual states are larger than countries in Europe.

[@bryanntucker1806]

The problem is if one place has an hour wait, all other restaurants will have the same wait close by usually. You have to wait somewhere. 🤷‍♂️

[@Kilroy72]

"Americans are patient". Not when they are driving! lol

[@tonybriarstone2285]

As far as telling what state you are from. This is because America is so big and each state is so different that the state you are from sort of tells what kind of person you are. We are usually proud of the state that we live in or the state that we were born in because every state has its own unique history and culture. And in many, if not most cases, the state we are from or the state that we live in often has a lot to do with our state of mind, our briefs, our view on life, our culture and our sense of belonging. When someone volunteers to tell you what state they are from, they are telling you that they are proud of their state and they are also giving you a hint about who they are. For those of you in other countries, this means nothing, but for us in American, when someone tells us what state they are from, it gives us an insight on that person immediately. Of course, this is not always true, especially when someone has spent most of their life in one state and has recently moved to another state. In this case, they will say that I live in this state, but I’m from another state. And they will tell you want state that is. They will let you know what state they associate the most with. It would be kinda like y’all saying that you’re from North England or South England. I am sure there are some cultural difference between the two regions.

[@briansilkworth5486]

I’m American: I talk quietly. I do not wait for a table but am particular as to where I sit. I often eat at the bar, it’s more interesting. When traveling I say “I’m American” or lie and say “I’m Canadian.” I love to chat people up as I’m super interested in people and their lives. There are many “sad bitches” in America, sadly. Fun vlog.

[@Allaiya.]

Popular places do usually have a wait. We usually call ahead & put in a reservation. If there is a 30+ minute wait, my family just shops in the meantime to pass the time.

[@judithhope8970]

If you're so uninterested that you don't want to know the state, why bother to ask? It's such a big country, it is obviously relevant. I usually like to state my UK county, if asked.

[@laurenog8495]

I love that Shakespeare quote Lia!

[@thetruthhurtsyou147]

STOP WITH THE STEREOTYPING!

[@ALLYSMOM05]

Waiting to be seated is usually done so that the host/hostess sits the guests evenly among the wait staff. Tips matter in the US.

[@andrewjackson8421]

People using outdoor voices when indoors is annoying to most Americans too. Some people just have no consideration for others.

[@alexandercruz3796]

Lia, I'm sorry you had to go through that experience but it comes as an eye opener about Americans in general. We're not all butterflies and sunshine 😂 Great content guys 🙌🏾

[@thetruthhurtsyou147]

Neither is anyone in the world butterflies and sunshine.

[@Ryan-du9qb]

The land of mass shootings. I don't feel safe sometimes when Im out and about and I start thinking about it. The Last 10 years I hear a lot of gun shots in my small Pennsylvania town. There have been about 250 MASS shootings this year already and we're only halfway through.If that doesn't make you take pause, something is seriously wrong.

[@Ryan-du9qb]

@@thetruthhurtsyou147 I'm rainbows 🌈 lol

[@cwsjohn]

I would of looked at her without expression and said "Excuse me?"...and then wait for her response back. That was very rude.

[@baldwind8730]

Thanks!

[@Raptor3400]

Good one, guys. This seems like just a clever way for Joel and Lia to vent about the things Americans do that piss them off.

[@hannah3250]

Yep lol. I think they want to see how many of their American viewers they will trigger… it’s passive aggressive behavior… am I wrong?? 😂 THAT will get you in a lot of trouble here in the USA. Just say what you mean, it’s not cute or clever, comes off condescending and cowardly. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@hannah3250]

Yep lol. I think they want to see how many of their American viewers they will trigger… it’s passive aggressive behavior… am I wrong?? 😂 THAT will get you in a lot of trouble here in the USA. Just say what you mean, it’s not cute or clever, comes off condescending and cowardly. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@sherryford667]

Since when did they need a pretext.

[@Raptor3400]

@@sherryford667 It just seem disingenuous to not be honest about their personal triggers. Like when a reporter says to a politician "What do say to the people who say you are...blah, blah, blah. When they are the ones that want to know. Just my opinion, I like Joel and Lia.

[@irenewills9736]

Is it a British accent thing to touch every single item in the shop, Lia? 😂🤣😂

[@Crabman-ub4gb]

Agreed or wear items of clothing that you never intend to buy to belittle those who would,,, some class,

[@Kim-427]

@@Crabman-ub4gb That’s soooo tacky. But,She’s quick to point out things that we do that are inappropriate. Lol

[@thehoneybadgerusmc]

@@Crabman-ub4gb I mean they wouldn’t be British if they were not condescending and patronizing. I guess it’s in their DNA.

[@sherrimartin1057]

Believe me, loud talking people (aka Americans) also get on a lot of other Americans nerves too !

[@Newslies1]

Agree, I go to less popular restaurants just to avoid the loudmouths.

[@jejo5586]

In some states, kids can't sit in the bar area. Most people I know, if they don't have kids, will gladly be seated in the bar area.

[@jamessue8358]

Hi. Where Englanders are generally considered mostly the same folks, people are more diverse from state to state. So that's why you hear us say we're from this state or that state. And what' might be normal in one location would be looked as very strange in another state / even city. 🙂

[@hannahdyson7129]

Of you came and went through the whole British Isles thrn you would find a wide diversity to match the accents . Its unpleasant to a native

[@lydiaedwards8100]

Yes! There are completely different cultures and codes of conduct!

[@fionagregory9147]

We don't say Englanders. We would say British or I am English.

[@scottfield6967]

Ive had to tell servers that I am NOT like those loud Americans at the next table, at the Belize airport restaurant. Meaning, we are not all like that loud inconsiderate type!

[@katalinas9264]

They love us Americans. 🇺🇸

[@Deanstanley]

And they show it every chance they get.

[@michaelbowling1362]

Talking too loudly? 🤣 - Pot calling Kettle Black.... 😉

[@dougbowers4415]

I live in California which is similar from being from the UK. If I were to be less specific it would be like a Brit saying they were from greater Europe. Since the US is so large, if you just say US there’s always another question.

[@irenewills9736]

I also live in CA (in the Bay Area), but when I’m traveling and tell someone I live in CA, they might tell me they know someone in LA, like it’s close to my city, probably not understanding how huge CA is. So nowadays I say I live near San Francisco.

[@JohnStrandt]

For a channel commenting on America, they sound like they have never been to America.

[@brealistic3542]

For patience Joel try saying the phrase.."Serenity Now, serenity now", over and over till you find serenity. 😙

[@Northanteus]

Or watch Seinfeld and lol. 😋

[@annparry8524]

We love visiting America as we enjoy meeting people especially on cruises

[@JustKnifeThings]

"Indoor voice" and other defined speaking volume levels are culturally dependent. They are arbitrary but when someone else's is louder than yours, you evaluate them by your standards because it doesn't occur to you, as in so many other culture clash situations, that everyone doesn't use the same rulebook as you. In the US there are differing standards for volume levels among different subgroups such that I would find myself in your exact position of being around people who were too loud and thinking, "Do these people not know how to behave in public?" But then I'd be oblivious that, if I went over to the UK and spoke at my normal volume, you'd be sitting there thinking "Does this guy not know how to behave in public?" Because I'd be the loud one then instead of the offended one.

[@hoptoi]

American here - and yes, I want a specific table! No booths, no high tops, outside only if it’s not hot 🥵. But, I will sit at the bar.

[@johntarnowski9086]

I am Canadian, I live in Windsor Ontario which is south of Detroit Michigan USA. I have no problem if someone mistakes me for an American. Heck Windsor is also known lovingly as South Detroit.

[@blueptconvertible]

The Canadians being upset by being misidentified as American is so true. Mainly because thier national identity is we're not America.

[@terryomalley1974]

Some Canadians may get pissed off when Europeans mistake them for Americans, but I don't. I've had it happen regularly when I've traveled to the UK, Ireland and Australia. It's understandable, because globally, foreigners are exposed to American movies and TV much more than Canadian movies and TV shows. That, plus the fact that, to the untrained ear, our accents are fairly similar. It's the same with Australians and New Zealanders. Most North Americans can't distinguish between their accents.

[@deegeef]

This Canadian is never offended when a Brit asks me where in “America” I’m from. I simply reply (accurately) “Canada” and enjoy the (unnecessary) apology that follows? Canada being the part of America that I’m from.

[@claudiaguy3782]

America is a continent(s), not a country. I tell people that I’m from the United States.

[@sholtey1]

Actually America is not a continent, North America is a continent. U.S.A literally has America in their name. If some asked what continent I'm from I'd say North America.

[@deegeef]

@@sholtey1 As would I, although South Americans consider the Americas to be a single continent.

[@Ulysses_DM_]

America's hat.

[@atomicphilosophy]

You're being needlessly difficult and pretentious if you understand the question of where in America and try to make a point by saying Canada. I'm not surprised though, seeing that you're Canadian and all...

[@gordonwallin2368]

You're totally right, even my ex-wife who was immune to intimidation was pissed off when we were mistaken for Americans in the UK or Europe. I love you two, Cheers from the Pacific West Coast of Canada.

[@natalieoliver4053]

The state thing is SO TRUE!!!! i wonder if it’s because the country is soooooo different that actually it is just a collection of states!? I lived there for 7&1/2 years and since living there I do understand more why they say a state….

[@MsTrain69]

As an American, I don’t wait long at all for a table...not worth it. I don’t like to be around loud people. I definitely talk to cashiers, but I don’t give them my life story. An attitude is an attitude no matter where you live! You can still connect with customer service even if you aren’t American. You’re still a paying customer. Maybe she was having a bad day, but still no excuse for treating you that way.

[@jediping]

There’s been a trend in US restaurants to have more of an industrial design and to be louder in general, so to have any conversation you HAVE to shout. It’s something I dislike, as I find the noise overwhelming, but I don’t think we’re on the downward end of this trend yet. (I say this but haven’t been at a restaurant since covid so maybe it has changed and I just haven’t been around for it.)

[@clemdane]

Me tool One of my favorite restaurants was ruined imho for starting to absolutely blast music throughout the restaurant, even the beautiful outdoor terrace, so loudly that you can't have a conversation. And yet it was still full of people happily eating there last I looked.

[@carson5196]

@@clemdane Harsh materials/hard surface walls in restaurants make any sound echo -- overwhelming your conversation. If there is any music playing it is rarely turned down to allow conversation; rather it is turned up louder presumably to enliven people and get them to spend more. But it furthers the din making any conversation awkwardly loud or eliminating the possibility of a decent conversation. The $$$ angle is in every restaurant's calculation of how to treat customers.

[@clemdane]

@@carson5196 My Mom and couldn't even stand to be there long enough to wait for a table because it was so loud. I don't understand the people who like this and would spend more in such an environment. We just ran out of the place.

[@TheCatsOnMyLap]

I know! I’ve mostly do take-out because I can’t stand the noise level in most restaurants.