things that make you instantly stylish

[@ryanmarkows1000]

I wore a white floor length full fringe shapeless dress on my birthday and a straight man said “why are you wearing a wedding dress” Best I’ve ever felt

[@LainiOzark]

Omg the amount of times I’ve been told I look like a child bride…….

[@en2186]

Link pls, sounds like I need that dress😂

[@LosAngelesLaura]

I neeeeed to see this!!!!!!!!! ❤

[@snoopyfinn]

that’s when you know you ATE

[@aml9219]

so having style is being yourself, trying something bold and don't care about if it's ugly or other people will like it? i think this is the healthiest and most fun approach to fashion i've ever heard.

[@anthonyd9844]

Yeah! At the end of the day, thats what true style is all about. It's easy to get distracted by brands trying to say whats trendy or in demand in order to sell you product, but once you look past all that you see style is really about the self. It's not about what brand your wearing, its about thoughtfully sharing your personality or mood with others. The best accessory anyone can wear is confidence.

[@soiledcats808]

Yep !!! It’s refreshing

[@nilakelly9026]

Love dressing for the girls. I went to a concert and a boy in the group could not comprehend my vintage 4 inch orange flatform boots. Meanwhile random girls kept complimenting me all night. He was flabergasted. I felt great.

[@nagisakobayashi]

fr i was wearing my miniskirt, red tights and boots and girls kept on complimenting my outfit and makeup while men looked at me so weirdly but i felt so so great

[@sunflower9460]

​@@nagisakobayashiAGHHH I love red tights soo much, everyone who wears them instantly looks cool in my opinion. I personally don't own any myself as I don't have the confidence as where I live everyone just wears tracksuits and their clothes are devoid of any colour and I already stand out enough as it is

[@cohenthomas04]

I 100% agree with wearing things that are “not flattering” sometimes the best outfits are the ones that are baggy on baggy and swallow you in the fabrics or skin tight ones that hug every bit of cellulite. Fashion is a great way to make your insecurities beautiful

[@yipyipitsme123]

freeing myself from "flattering" was the best thing I've ever done for my personal style

[@leonploszowski]

I agree with the baggy thing and I personally think having a "personal Item" is also a part of having style - like something you're wearing all the time through years

[@spigney4623]

So true! My whole wardrobe centers around my beloved green denim vintage Orvis midi skirt. Its so raggedy but idc i will mend and wear it forever

[@maggiegutierrez9192]

So true it means so much more to me when a woman compliments my outfit vs a man

[@greenthinggg]

Same 😩 it's the best compliment imo

[@DaffyDuckFanClub]

As a straight man, the straight man rule applies to guy’s style too 😂

[@hannahmontana4401]

you know it's good when they call you guys gay.

[@almondbutter2685]

@@hannahmontana4401REAL you get it

[@Alice-jq6rd]

so many of these speak to confidence! i recently bought a pink frilly top that my whole family hates (they're nice about it lol) and the realisation that i really didn't care made me realise how i dress for myself now. my approach to clothes used to come from such a place of wanting to blend in and mask my insecurities. my happiness in an outfit is finally beating my anxiety about what other people might think. here's to making other people stop and think "that's weird" 🥰

[@megane5728]

A silly accessory is so true. I live in a hot climate and one of my fav silly accessories is my lavender crochet beret. It does not block the sun, keep me warm or cool, it’s just there to be cute and serve.

[@reb2544]

one thing i’m super proud of is that i was one of the pioneers of platform docs like they were impossible to find anywhere when i got them and guess who was making fun of me when i first got them… straight men and that’s when i knew i had done it

[@lilly_verhegge]

i always wear a flower in my hair (i have really short curly hair) and i just match it with one item like earrings, shoes, scarf…i just really feel like it puts everything together and i just can’t leave the house without a lil flower

[@kennabuggin3570]

That sounds so lovely :)

[@cherrylino9537]

that’s so cute

[@rasmus5470]

as a straight man, i just wanted to add that i've been watching your videos for a while now and actually do draw a lot of inspiration from them :D

[@rasmus5470]

other straight man may make fun of me tho

[@annaquark9127]

That last thing is so true and it made me remember "men repeller" which was an online magazine found by Leandra Medine (not only) about fashion that ...repells men...so everything stylish or over the top :D

[@Pizzagurl24283]

Laini! I just wanted to say that I really always appreciate your including examples not just of black women but dark skinned black women in a lot of your inspo pics you put in your vids. Specifically in this video with the black girl hairstyle. Just wanted to let you know your intention and attention to details in all your vids is so inspiring 🫶🏾

[@LainiOzark]

Please don’t thank me for that!!! It should just be the standard!!!

[@haruhiyoshi]

this inspired me so much! for sooooo many videos like this, I feel like I'm "too fat" or "too midsized" for mentioned advices/points or they only suit/are "appropriate" for the skinny bodies, but your video I think gave me the confidence I needed to try out things I want

[@katiemckee8036]

A few days ago I wore a long white maxi dress, a white chunky turtle neck sweater, and lime green cowboy boots and a man told me I looked like a nun. Loved every second

[@gabbi7007]

bruhh that sounds like a cute asf outfit

[@jessicawolf5669]

Sounds so cool

[@TiffLau-u4g]

my version of the straight man rule is "wear something that the aunties and uncles at the asian grocery store would stare at you for"

[@hannahlear2398]

I genuinely believe that nothing is ugly! It's all about how it's styled!! And some people don't get it when I say that. Laini makes me feel so seen lol

[@MassielMancebo]

I’ve been told my style is intimidating or weird by straight men since I was a teen, I feel like that’s some kind of achievement lol.

[@etCarrieAnne]

The last one reminds me of the original days of the manrepeller fashion blog before it was a whole site--the idea of fashion specifically repelling men (and the idea of being flattering) and how glorious that can be

[@fannilouu4405]

i absolutely love our new approach to fashion. Anyone can wear anything they like as long as they are confident, comfortable and it expresses whatever it is the wearer wants to express. I just love that there are so many trends that everyone can pick and choose whatever fits them best.

[@OnRiYushi]

Talking about straight men comments, i sure have a lottt to say. Once i was told by a guy that i wouldn't die if i get pushed off a cliff as i can spread my oversized clothes to fly. The very same set of clothes got me a "oh she's such a model" comment from an older female. Another instance where i got asked as to why i wore a blanket to work (it was a long warm coat), the ladies having lunch with the guy jumped in to say i looked stylish in it. Another one where my cousin brother asked me if I'd borrowed papa's clothes, my fashion-conscious cousin sister told me she owns very similar clothing to mine. 😂

[@alien_cult]

Is it just me, or have women (in general) gotten less catty toward each other? When I was younger, girls were a LOT more ruthless and quick to put other women down for their appearance. Feels like maybe the whole "women empowering women" internet shit has actually kinda worked? Yes ik there's still mean girls around, but feels like it's not as popular to act like that (AKA "pick me" girls, "one of the guys" girl, "cool girl" described in Gone Girl, etc) OR could just be that I'm older and not an immature teen anymore LOL.

[@fatem-ay]

I love women supporting women 🥰 These stories warm my heart

[@sabahsultan9624]

I live by the "straight man would made fun of me" outfits/style haha

[@valeriemalenfant]

I always think that if someone take a double take when I walking down the street and look puzzle, when I can seriously see in their eyes that they questionning if my outfit is ''too much'' or ''does it go together'' I know I actually achieved my look! LOL

[@jadefrota1583]

please stay on youtube, i love that you talk for a while longer, i would miss you so much.

[@alex9190]

this summer i met a guy who dressed in all baggy clothes and wore stupid accessories. we don't talk anymore lmao but hes one of the most stylish guys ive ever met

[@gentle.gardening]

Style is an unapologetic expression of your authentic self :)

[@cmulo]

I just finished a 15 page paper and seeing that you uploaded when I finally get to relax is the best thing ever !!!🥰🥰🥰

[@LainiOzark]

Yay!!! You deserve to relax!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@LaurynAmini]

Yes!! I love getting compliments from woman about my outfit over man. Makes me feel 1000% better about it and the choices I went with, even if I thought the choices were not “normal”🥰

[@katierobinson]

love love this video Laini! and definitely understand the struggle of having to talk through an idea rather than thinking the audience get it, I'm so bad for having so much to say that nothing comes out in my videos 😂

[@Kendra_in.chains]

fashion is 100% subjective. social media I believe ruined fashion, and I will DIE on that hill (I agree with every word you said)

[@cynicalcitrus]

wearing an all baggy fit is the most comfortable and chill thing to wear ever and that comfort and confidence shows

[@Katiafliger]

I’ve been made fun by a straight main for a look that 3 different girls complimented me on the same night! The guys are lost when it comes to style haha

[@meera00000]

this is so good!!! i love how it all comes down to intention and commitment

[@magiciansarcana]

One 60 y/o grandma from my orchestra has super big, wide rim, almost rounded square glasses and a short wavy bob with microbangs. I've always thought she was one of the most stylish people I know and I don't even remember her outfits.

[@aminuh]

i cant tell you how happy i am to see you in my recommended after forever!! i haven't been recommended your videos since your pregnancy but have been watching you since i was 13/14 now almost 17... so its really nice to see your videos again :)). it's mildly nostagic. ill be binging them for winter styling now

[@LainiOzark]

Awh welcome back!!!!!! I can’t believe I’ve been making videos for that long😳😳😳😳

[@dreamrafters]

I have a funny story related to the straight man thing. I've always dressed more conservatively and in slightly looser-fitting clothes because that's just what I like, and in a conversation about style I once told my mom "I don't dress for The Male Gaze." she just paused and went, "well no shit you don't dress for gay guys!" 🤣 but yeah, other girls compliment me all the time. even on things like my tattoos and makeup that straight men NEVER remark on

[@alien_cult]

LOL. Similar story here-- an ex-friend once said I was "too focused on the male gaze" and when I asked my parents if they agreed, they were like, "......She hates you because you think about gay guys too much?" Hahah. Once my parents understood what I meant, they said, "...But you dress in baggy clothes and have never been interested in dating..."

[@jessicapassey2471]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@simoling]

Delighted I hit every style factor you described and I even double down on those factors. For example, I not only have jackets in a variety of colors, often the variety of colors appear in one jacket. Or I don't just wear a hat, I wear the largest hat anyone can imagine on my small frame. So, thank you for affirming me hard in this video. Also, it's funny about the straight male insults. I'd add that the insults usually comes from people without style and I always chalked it up to envy :D That's why dressing for oneself and your supportive homies is the best.

[@zeyneperkan3]

picking the random color is absolutely so true its what I will go for always

[@hannahfrazier5332]

Im 5'10 and am slowly learning to LOVE heels. All the girlies love it!!!!

[@654ujala]

Tall women look great in heels, flats, sneakers, etc..

[@emmarampf7354]

I wanna say thank u Laini! Been watching you for years, through different styles and life changes. You will never not be interesting and inspiring ❤

[@pamelawilson2553]

Every time I come home to eat lunch and see you’ve added a video - you go Hey my name’s Laini, I smile and go, Hey Laini!! You feel my breaks with such joy and style!

[@alexbobajex]

"style is choice" truly MAKING choices about your appearance makes you stylish

[@karolinamarias]

girl idk how u do it but every video u post i'm like tHAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED TO WATCH rn!!! also all of these r so right! esp the straight men one fr

[@carolherezz]

9:59 that's the point! great video👏

[@jemm4604]

Lmbo “only straight boys make fun of me” I feel that in my soul but also LOVE girls supporting girls and complimenting one another. More of this in the world please!

[@aiyana7077]

love seeing michelle li on here, she’s been my style icon for years! incredible taste

[@alba7828]

“when somebody dress for yourself and not for what people think that’s stylish” YASS QUEEN SAY IT

[@katalindratsay7483]

It always goes down to intentionality, like it's not just an accident you're looking good that day

[@jennifermorrison229]

I’m 69 years old and have always dressed for myself. I’ve had people criticize my clothing choices but I don’t give a f##k.

[@lavendermproject]

great video! the ending lolll i think we shouldn’t brush it off when men make fun of us. they are condescending and rude and we never asked for their opinion in the first place. i didn’t experience this in the recent years bc i simply don’t hang out with men and if i do like in the workplace it’s always been gay men for the last 4 years so they usually compliment my outfits lol if a straight dude makes fun of me i’ll probably start a fight bc how dare he. stfu. i have no respect for your opinion neither did i ask! laini commenting below how she has heard about looking like a “child bride” oof that’s beyond me. we need to start shaming men for their comments and not just ignoring it

[@sillystarasmr]

nothing makes me feel more powerful than wearing something i know is unflattering on me (ex. i have a super long torso and i love my baggy shorts because it makes me look even more un portioned)

[@princessmikeysano7337]

The shoe part is so true that makes it highlight the outfit

[@julianac8766]

The last one!!!!!! I just know that if my dad (straight man) doesn't like my outfit then is perfect lol

[@meggies4]

Laini it’s so exciting that you got the quilt from kotn! I’ve had the exact same one for a little over a year now and it’s literally my favourite blanket ever Also your point about straight men is so true, they’re the only ones who are mean about my outfits, but it’s how you know the outfit slaps

[@b4thewaves]

my 2024 challenge to myself is to start dressing more for myself and less for others. last month, i wore a dress over jeans (i know its revival was a sort of trend in fashion for a while, but in my university everyone wears basics and so did i, so it was a huge step for me) and "gaudy" earrings. even though i was initially so self-conscious, i guess i found fun in dressing a bit differently from others... it kinda feels like trolling in a sense? for the longest time i had dressed as much as possible to be flattering but not to grab attention and offend other people's sensibilities. cultivating your own personal style, i find, is both an exercise in bravery (to not care about the opinions of others) as much as it is about self-expression

[@diya-hn2wy]

love to see kotn represented!! it used to be our little toronto secret

[@au_barb]

The straight man thing is so true though! My god what is their issue. 🤦‍♂️😂 I had a library patron dude ask me at work why I'm always dressed like a boy and don't "get dolled up more." Excuse me sir, but I'm agender and also I don't exist for your viewing pleasure. 🙄 I could go on such a tangent here but I'll spare you. 😅 Have a great day, Laini! ❤

[@lana1223]

hate that so much for you. i always want to ask these types of guys if they'd wear a paper bag over their head if *i* preferred they look that way. seeing as we're just opening the floor to others opinions on how we present ourselves, apparently

[@au_barb]

@@lana1223 I hate that it happens when I'm on the clock and I can't be as rude to them as I'd like to be. I just gave this guy the stink eye and said "I wear what I like, thank you." then turned my back to him. I think he got the message, he's a regular library visitor but hasn't pestered me in a long while. I'm a Chicago native transplant in this rural Illinois town where most people haven't seen a 55 year old queer autistic person so I guess some of them are kinda confused. 🤷🙂

[@acureformyheart]

I feel so seen by the massive statement glasses thing. I get asked if mine are prescription and yes they are I just feel the need to be ridiculous every day.

[@yomnakamel9774]

omgg that was super funnn❤❤ bring on more chatty vids! i could listen to you talk about fashion for hours 🥰

[@ZoeGanis]

i looove the style of chunky glasses but i think not having full peripheral vision would drive me CRAZY

[@Ant1quedoll]

i always love to watch your videos! Your voice is so calming and you know how to give good fashion advice!! keep up the good work‼️ 💕✨

[@zosiasowa7733]

LOVE THE LAST POINT, AGREE!!!!!

[@Neema150]

I love how divers the people in the photos you showed in your video.❤

[@gagojulieta]

Do a part 2!!! I love it

[@lowqualitysleep]

Love the way you talk about clothes and things that are a bit more eccentric in such a kind and fun way!! as a trans guy I've been experimenting with layers and color and my guy friends don't get it/think I'm trying too hard/being too "feminine" but the girlies are always giving me compliments :D some of my friends also say that "if your mom hates it, that means its a good fit!"

[@JaJaJantsen]

I'm not even that tall at 5ft7 but I LOVE wearing super high heels and towering over people. It makes me so happy lol

[@llandriell]

Those jumpers look great!

[@bellagrant2442]

As a pretty tall woman who adores platforms, loved your video :)))

[@verynicemice]

you reminded me of someone and i just realized it's parker posey (80s-90s)

[@danatba677]

this video was so fun 🫶🏼

[@mirellau-boot5996]

Omg I have to comment. this is probably my new favorite video on KZbin I feel so good watching this for many reasons I am to tired to write them all. But thank you for this and thank you algorithm for playing it for me.

[@armp8051]

I miss Leandra Medine’s Man Repeller because she embodies all of this!

[@juliaholcomb7031]

The straight man comment is too real. The amount of times my brother has made fun of things I wore… and not in a sibling way but in a straight-man-he-doesnt-get-it way 😭

[@AllatOncewithAmanda]

As soon as I saw that kotn sweater on you I was like “omg Sarah has that” !!!

[@mamajo1515]

As soon as I saw the title I thought of Mac, was wondering if that’s where you got the inspiration! I love it when the people I follow also follow each other 🤭

[@kendallcooper1075]

the last one is so real

[@benjaminnavarro4324]

👊😏👍right on!

[@Carlos-dm5fo]

12:24 thats because they'll say it behind your back

[@hayleylovesoatmilkchai]

new vid from my favourite fashion girlie 🧚🏾

[@kaykerns2287]

I used to wear berets. My favorite winter hat

[@titatesta4577]

omg sarah and laini

[@Bacutie4me]

This video was just Laini gassing us up ❤🔥

[@jonathanhunter2339]

LOVE the video laini!! this is super useful and such a unique idea!!! p.s love the brown scarf and red jumper combo

[@benjaminnavarro4324]

I totally agree with you 👊😏👍

[@sarahbeghin]

Damn always get so inspired by these videos

[@Vguvutfvutf]

i LOVE your makeup!!

[@magnolia835]

I've heard that you have to use those cotton bags around a 100 times for it to be better than single use plastic bags. Do you think people use it enough after for it to be beneficial?

[@catis4]

It's very easy to use old fabric to make tote bags and as someone that hasn't use plastic bags since 2016, I'd say it's very worth it. Besides I am always getting tote bags for free, so I have to use them as much as I can.

[@haleyandfrands]

yes the straight man comment- so true!! Makes me so happy that I can wear something that will make a man confused, even upset. LOL

[@saraukaszewska1595]

god I wish you could upload every singe day hahahh I LOVE your videos!!! ps. I'm waiting for warm winter outfits

[@evij126]

feeling ~better than everyone else~ because i already do most of these things hahhahah no but you were so on point with these + great examples!

[@naefar]

ouf the straight man comment was so damn accurate ouuuuf

[@ionaberesford5840]

Basically, dress confidently - feel good !

[@cashoomilk]

canadian tux is one of my favorite fits to pull off! also the straight men thing, my straight guy bestie has always made fun of my fits since highschool and it always made me feel accomplished whether he said i had on a granny outfit or said i look like a 90s lesbian or a little boy from the early 2000s lol

[@AP-of5kj]

why am i so surprised that you're tall?? anyway, this was super inspiring!!

[@junwonniezzy]

I think style really actually should look good

[@kiki3851]

fav video soooo far!!

[@paygej8710]

The last point is so real though omg lol

[@0.033]

shoutout to susielola and her fedora

[@aritri7719]

me and my fam were out for dinner with my dad's friends and their families i had these huge chunky lavender platforms , they re like bricks and i was mocked bout that by my dad's friends , i felt soo happy , this is so right .

[@pollygannon]

Love all your choices of choices! ❤

[@HAIAKIM]

I'm a boy and I watch your videos for inspiration